Thank you so much for watching! Keep in mind, I’m not saying any of these paths are EASY. But they are POSSIBLE. And as always, I’m sending so much love 💕
Hi I am a ballet teacher and ex pro dancer and at the moment I am focusing on training adults. I think adults can absolutely become good dancers. I provide lots of performing experience for them and i am so proud of them..although a professional ballet dancer is something different. There is some exceptions. Some people are very naturally talented and are also smart in marketing themselves and those are the people that have a chance in following the path you mentioned. But I just think it is a bit misleading to say modelling for a dance brand is equal to be a professional ballet dancer. The problem I see there is that someone like me or my colleagues that started doing great sacrifices very early or spent years travelling around the world far from their family and lots of money for a pedagogical degree ist put on the same level of someone who has been dancing for two years and already teach others. I also saw people selling performances but the quality of their dancing is very low. . I do see a problem in the definition professional. I think all adults should just try to become good or even very good dancers and take any opportunity to follow, as you say some parallel pathways that have surelly lots to do with dancing and performing. I make an example. When I teach balle to a beginner I don't teach them steps. I use my studies of anatomy and pedagogy to know what is the best individual way to teach every different body with different needs how to move in an healthy efficient way. Somebody who danced for 3 or 4 years and doesn't have a pedagogical degree and a certain experience cannot have the same knowledge. Yet anyone can open a dance studio and teach and even make money out of it. But is that a professional ballet teacher?
@@soupedelimaces thank you. I think social media gives lots of democracy and visibility to everyone but only hard work and experience makes the professionals. I think it is great that adult dancers like her are sharing their journey. It is very inspiring indeed. I just think it is very important in life to be realistic and objective...that does not mean not following your dreams. It just means understanding you can do something for the joy of doing it, the challenge, the passion, the fitness, the mental balance and also for the joy of archieving goals. Being professionals is not even that important in that case. There is soo many benefits in doing ballet as an adult and , as I said, many people reach good levels. But auditioning also for a smaller professional ballet company even just to become just a trainee or a corp de ballet dancer is a whole different thing...and so hard. I did it in the past. I know the competition!!! There even a greater ompetition nowadays!!!. I know so many professional dancers graduated from the best academies who don't have a job in a company, not even a small one. So it's a bit misleading to convey such messages. An hobby or amateur dance group is something different, I lead one myself with my adult students. They perform and sometimes even got paid. But non of them sell themselves as professionals. They are good dedicated adult dancers that have an enourmous amount of fun . And that is fine.
I see where you're coming from and I'm sure you're much more educated and experienced on the deeper professional world of ballet than I am. I'm just trying to share the things I wished I'd known sooner and help others have a more open mind in their own careers. Dancing for companies, earning a living from ballet at all is certainly not for everyone, but I hope the overall point of the video has not been missed by the people who needed this message, as I once did.
Veronica I think we all get ur message and love everything ur doing and have achieved but I also agree with these other two women with the part of becoming a professional ballet dancer as an adult is not realistic at all I danced from 2 to 26 yes old and still wasn't good enough to be accepted to a company to be professional ballet dancer and get paid I do love that u hired dance instructors to lead ur adult seminars I thought that was so cool 😎 I have lupus was diagnosed at 17 and am in so much pain everyday I'm starting practice ballet again at home with a bar I made myself 😊 working on getting my ankles strong enough again to dance on Pointe I'm love how good I feel after stretching and dancing 💃 and it's so good for the body and mind 😊❤❤❤
Well said. I wish she would understand- you aren’t a “ ballerina” bc you want to be. You can certainly have a career in the arts in some way but the reality is talent and training do matter. She’s isolating herself from the community she wants to join by claiming a title she hasn’t earned. And most of us do and did want to pay the bills with ballet. 😂
Thank you for your advocacy for non-traditional arts careers paths! I am not a dancer but as an artist...I did NOT take a traditional path. I did NOT go to summer programs as a teen. I did NOT go to a Young Artist Program. I did NOT go through a fellowship program. I graduated from Conservatory with a Masters's in Music and QUIT. By the time I got back into it, I was "too old" for all those things (boo to age limits). Instead, I made connections and showed up and did good work when I was hired. Then I was hired again and again. Will I ever sing at the Met? Probably not. Am I satisfied getting paid to make art with the best musicians in my city? Absolutely. I recently for the first time...had my solo debut in a big hall in front of lots of people and I'm almost 50, which is something I only imagined in my teens. IT'S NEVER TOO LATE 🩷
I always think about how i see a lot of old people learning pickle ball or tennis and I've literally never thought "what's the point? They're too old" Because seeing them is so self explanatory. They could want a hobby, a chance to socialize/relate, to be active, to have something to put their energy in. Sure it's not always practical but we're not supposed to be practical about everything. If i was practical in everything, i wouldn't do half of the things in my life. Why do people freak out so much when it's the arts? Why tell people to follow their dreams just to crush them? Anyway, thanks veronica for being so positive and uplifting.
I think this is so important to realise. When you start playing tennis in your twenties, you do it because it's a fun way to be active and see other people. No one even talks about going to the Olympics then! So when you start ballet in your twenties, you can also just do it as a fun way to be active and see other people. No need to talk about going pro, ballet can just be a hobby like all other sports/arts/etc
Veronica, you are helping so many ballerinas, like you have no idea the magnitude of change you’re inspiring!! So many of us who were shut down and told “we can’t” are gaining so much confidence because of you. You were so right to call out the hypocrisy and narrow mindedness in the ballet community. The lens of perfectionism has done a lot of harm and closed so many doors for aspiring ballerinas. Nobody says this if someone wants to pick up soccer or running or even football. I know people who have gotten offers for football and they’ve only played it once. People either see and nurture your potential or they don’t. What matters is the passion we have for what we do. We can achieve greatness when we believe in ourselves. 👏🏾
It's from this company called MewMews that I worked with a few months ago! I'm OBSESSED. I think my coupon code is still active too VEROMM15 for 15% off!
The best dance teacher I’ve ever had had a background in gymnastics. I think she started dancing in her 30s. But what she achieved is mind blowing. She started her own dance company for advanced amateurs, several talent groups. She founded the first vocational dance college in the country, a pre-professional program for teenagers, and she choreographed many, many pieces, which were just amazing to dance. She basically build up a whole dance culture in an area of the country where there previously was nothing. I was extremely fortunate to be accepted into one of those programs at age 14 and being taught by her. Imagine someone who teaches dance like an extremely caring drill instructor. She was able to pull things from you that you didn’t even know you had in you. To this day I benefit from her lessons, not just in dance but especially in real life. I credit a lot of my drive and perseverance to her. She’s really an example of being able to achieve anything with focused effort, patience and perseverance. Just wanted to share this story, she’s as late-starter as it gets but also achieved more in dance than pretty much anyone else out there.
I loved this❤️🩰Tho I think I win the award for late starting at 55!!😂 I studied seriously for years as a child and it was EVERYTHING to me but was forced to give it up bc of family stuff, restarted in my teens, got injured, then the dream died. 💔I finally this Jan. realized I can still study with NO pressure, and can fall back in love with my first love of ballet again. I have been diligently studying every day and I'm SOO happy. Much love to you on your journey!!!❤❤❤
You are absolutely right. Becoming a “professional dancer” doesn’t have to mean becoming a principal dancer in the top ballet company in your country, there are so many other options! I think as long as you are passionate and determined, as you certainly seem to be, there is so much possibility if you just think outside the box a little. There was one category you didn’t mention though, and that’s becoming a dance/ballet teacher! Though it’s not the same as dancing on stage as a professional in a company, it can be equally as rewarding. I never did pursue dance teaching but I did instead become a Rhythmic Gymnastics coach and later a Calisthenics coach (in Australia this is a sport similar to dance combined with flexibility).
I love your videos! I was a ballet dancer in my 30's. I restarted in my early 20's and became a member of small ballet company. I went to college and majored in dance. You remind me of how I was. It is so empowering.
Also (while I'm not saying anything IF your dream or goal is to start dancing in order to be paid for it) it's ok to pursue dancing for the love of it. You don't have to make a job of a hobby to justify having it. If you just want to dance to dance, go for it! You're valid, too.
Thank you so much you have no idea how much you encouraged me to go outside my comfort zone and try ballet. I'm 15 and have been so nervous to start since my peers are so much farther along than me. It's been hard to find a ballet studio that can teach me at beginner level for my age, telling me that it's not typical for people to start at my age. But with the help of my step mom, who I'm so grateful for, I found a place that took me in. And yes, I agree that smaller studios are more forgiving to help me, and want to help me. I now take a beginner adult class even though I'm not technically an adult and I'm so happy I did. My teacher praised me today to catching up so quick and though the first few classes were so scary and I wanted to give up you encouraged me to try and at least see how far I can go. I only started a few months ago, and only have class for an hour once a week, but I feel stronger, and it's always important to celebrate the little things. Even if you don't read this, please know that you have helped me so much and I'm so excited to see where this takes me, it might not be far but I'm so happy I started now and I wouldn't have if it wasn't for you.
Well, it is kinda true depending on what country you're in. Like in France, the force retire their dancers from the Paris Opera at 42, any dancer, doesn't matter guy or girl, doesn't matter if they are still in good shape to dance, they retire them at 42. But yeah, there are many professional companies that don't care about age or how long you've danced or when you started as long as you can do the choreography in the way they want it.
Just wanted to thank you for what you are doing. You're giving me soo much hope and self-confidence, and make me believe in my dreams of becoming an actress. Even though I'm still quite young (20yo) I feel like it's too late for me - I have been planning to get into acting school in my last year of high school, but I gave up. I didn't go to any artistic school (which I dreamed about my whole childhood), I haven't taken regular acting lessons until last autumn, only singing lessons, but i feel sooo behind it all, so worse than everybody. But this year I will try to get into acting school for the first time and I have so much hope in my heart that maybe not this year, but some other I will succeed. But you are proving me that everything is possible, and my acting dreams (which I sometimes think are stupid and unrealistic) are valid and really possible. Thank you so much, wishing you all the best! 💗
Thanks for sharing this video🩷 I’m 17 and just recently became interested in doing ballet as a side job or even just hobby but I’m not all that flexible or coordinated haha😂 I’m just gonna try stretching daily to improve my flexibility and everything else and see where I go👍🩷 follow your dreams guys💕
I'm a fairly new subscriber and I also read your newsletter The Slipper Edit. You are so inspiring and I loved seeing your clips of you being on pointe 🎉 after watching your journey. Keep shooting for the ✨️
I love your spirit and determination to go for what you love! However, making a living in the arts, ballet included, is not likely to happen as the well paid jobs as very few and far between. That doesn't mean you can't do it as a second job or a hobby, or maybe if you are a married woman whose husband makes enough money and has benefits through his job. Landing a professional contract with a major company is highly competitive and usually means starting the training young, under age 10. The companies start hiring at age 16 and the auditionees are highly skilled and ready for the stage by that age. They also have a certain body type they want and even if you study for years and years it doesn't mean they will pick you for a company position. That being said, there are other opportunities once you get the ballet training such a teaching, dance critic, choreographer, etc that are possibilities. Working as a dancer in a smaller, community company might be possible but it is unlikely you make much money at it, often not even paying enough to cover your gas and pointe shoe expenses. So, beware of encouraging people that they can become "professional ballerinas" as you could be leading them down the primrose path! This is true for trying to make a living in any of the arts. True, we don't have to all be Baryshnikov but let's be realistic about where we are going before we fall over the edge of the cliff thinking we are going to get a dance job that pays enough to live on. Most of us work other jobs besides doing ballet in order to make ends meet. Not to be a "buzz killer" but instead trying to keep your feet on the ground as you progress in your interest and training in the field of dance. Yes, you would be consider a ballet student and not a "ballerina", but you could have your own business doing side dance jobs such as your hats, t shirts, etc.
@@jjessicaisabelle totally! I think it’s really common especially for the very ambitious (like dancers). But it’s good to always keep looking for new and creative ways to follow our dreams!
I am going to my first class soon. Got nervous because I forgot about all my visible tattoos. This video definitely made me feel more comfortable wit the fact that I look so different from everyone else AND my age being 22. Still nervous but no longer feeling alone. Thank you!
Megan dont sweat ur tattoos girl I have one on my right arm and a huge one on my left shoulder blade got them both at 17 btw I was still dancing in the green bay dance company When it came to performance time I had to go and buy a skin tone matching full coverage waterproof concealer it was expensive for a small jar but a tiny bit went a long way Btw I was so glad I had this because when I was a lifeguard at 20 for a big hotel I had to have them covered up
Love your attitude and insights, and that you obviously "think outside the box". All of which can bring great fulfillment. I started Ballet when I was 3, thinking I would love it. But quit early on. I simply hated tendus, thought they were boring, as a little toddler. (Mistake).Then I fell in love with everything about Ballet, and came back. The point is - even though I was not going to be a prima ballerina in the New York City Ballet, where I attended hundreds of performances over the years - I just loved, loved, loved "perfecting" various steps, moves and stretches myself - whether in class or at my own kitchen Ballet Barre. That is what Ballet is for me. It is also obviously very healthy, both physically and emotionally and even spiritually. -- After many years of this, someone who ran a camp for various sports, approached me and asked me if I would be interested in a paid position teaching young girls and guys my skills. I was surprised and flattered but did not think of myself as the "teacher type". But I thought I would give it a try - and ended up loving it. The young people seemed to think I was very accomplished as they watched me demonstrate various techniques. - which was another pleasant surprise. -- I do Ballet now primarily because I still love trying to master both simple things and harder things that are so beautiful and amazing athletically, and I still don't think of myself as any sort of teacher - But... I certainly understand the idea that one does not have to be a star in a major company to get a tremendous amount of satisfaction from doing Ballet, whether just the more basic moves or more advanced feats. The idea that some people have that only things like golf or jogging are "appropriate" work-outs for those not going to the Olympics - is down-right silly. (Is it possible there might be a little bit of jealousy involved in that "limiting" attitude? Or is it just being completely uninformed?). -- Anyways, really enjoyed your video. And by the way, you look every inch an advanced Ballerina, so whatever you are doing is working! - Lynda Power
Very good information and very well said. I’m sure there are plenty of people that left whatever they were doing to start following their dreams because of a distaste or exhaustion from pursuing money.. or letting it be the primary dictator of their choices.. so why drag that into their new arena of play? I think it’s important to clearly understand you’re pursuing dance, and to be bold in knowing that someone handing you money for it isn’t what legitimizes it. That’s a separate, and hopefully secondary element of things. I also think it’s neat how you discuss the(re) emerging interest in the arts. There are some traditional ”rules” needing to be broken in this space, and there are brave dancers coming to do it. Lastly, it is wonderful to hear you’re your best, clearest and most confident self in this time of your life. From that perspective, and this is where I really relate: every millisecond of ballet class and every other aspect of this pursuit is time and energy well spent. There is no end goal needed when this is truly appreciated 🩰🕊️🌲
It’s possible to become a teacher or work around the world of ballet like selling pointe shoes or something like that if you start as an adult, but becoming a ballerina, dancing in a company, full time, it’s nearly impossible, because so many people want to be ballerina you will always be in competition with girls younger and who started earlier and you won’t make the cut in auditions
@@moonhunter9993 it's not just believing, it's the reality of things, like I said it's nearly impossible, doesn't mean no one never did it or will do it, but you probably need something else for yourself, like you already did another type of dance, or instead of trying to become a ballerina you go into contemporary or cabaret which or derived from ballet but often less competitive, or you have something else to make you stand out
I really fell down a rabbit hole. I think the problem here e is that there are a lot of non dancers buying into this. I think it's great she loves ballet and she has the want to learn. But just because I want to be a super model doesn't make me one. There is so much that is involved in becoming a pro ballet dancer. It is too late for her to get into even a regional company. Like I said it's admirable she takes class sets up dance workshops etc but I think she doesn't fully grasp how hard and competitive the dance world is outside of adult ballet.
@@karaalexandra8114 this is so true. I wish that she’d just be honest, both with herself and in her content ( I also wish her videos would stop randomly popping up- it’s like a train wreck). She’s an adult beginner who is financially supported by her hubby. There is no shame in that- or in sharing her story with people who are interested. But if she ever learns much she’ll look back shamed at how she portrayed herself- and at her truly terrible skill set.
Loved this video so much 🌹💖💕 Thank you for talking about this! I started ballet as an adult as well, and maybe I won’t become a “professional”, but the joy that I get from dancing is inexplicable. So idk, maybe I’ll try to venture into other possibilities and make dancing a profession as well. Love your videos ✨💖 they always make me feel better
When I was younger I originally had in mind that I was going to audition for all of these major companies because that's what I thought was expected of a ballet dancer. After taking my hiatus from the ballet world and eventually coming back I realized that I really didn't want to be a professional ballet dancer. Yes I still dance ballet now but it's at the ballet studio in my hometown so it's not a professional studio. I dance simply for the love of it and the love of being on stage and performing for the audience without feeling the stress of having to look a certain way or worry about being good enough to remain in the company. To me (and this is my opinion) I'd rather not be a professional dancer because I feel like I don't have to worry so much about being perfect or what my body looks like. I'm not saying that professional companies don't have fun I'm just simply saying that there are so many high standards that the companies are looking for that I just don't want to put myself through that.
Thank you for being such an inspiration!! 💙You have such a big heart, helping and encouraging all aspiring adult ballet dancers out there!! You are one of a kind Veronica!! I'm sure a bright future awaits for you!!😊💙
I am 27....took my first ballet class at age 20....made it on stage within a year to the month of my first class....then COVID happened and life got in the way but now Im trying to amp it up again.... My goal is to nail my blue print on dance and yeah that includes making it professionally....
I'm 16, my parents don't want me to dance ballet, they don't belive in my dream, I'm doing a type of training with video tutorials, the most part of them are workouts, not classes because I know I can learn all the technic without a teacher to correct me. And all the excercise I do is without them realizing it. I bought with my own money my demi point shoes And I was hopeful for becoming a ballet dancer, but my parents told me I won't be on a stage an no one is going to clap and cheer for my dance, that was the day when I saw the ballet school I wanted had a limit of age and it was 17 with 11 months That day I felt how everything fell down and I tried to find support on my parents and they just yelled me and I only have 8 months to do the exam, so I'm trying to do everything I can to enter and if they reject me I'll try to enter another school if the first one rejects me, even if it's in another city so far from home. And I'm from Mexico so... The possibilities to practice some arts are pretty bad
Thank you because I wasn’t sure if I was going to be good enough cause I started doing ballet at age 2,5 but I ended dancing when I was 8 so I hadn’t got my point shoes and then I started again at age 12 and now I’m 14 and on point for a while and even able to do 2 pirouettes on point but I’m still sometimes really sad that I stopped dancing for 4 years but now as I watched your video I’m pretty sure that I maybe be as good as those professionals who I watch at UA-cam🩷💕
Oh gosh I love this vlog and I love you 🥹💖 I am from Europe (Slovenia), and I would be beyond thrilled if I could meet you irl if you will be somewhere here in Europe in near future (Italy, Austria etc) 🫂🙏🏽
It's definitely tricky finding classes depending on where you are in the world, I completely understand that! I have a whole free guide about taking your first ballet class (no matter where you are in the world!) linked here if you're interested: mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-bloomers-guide
People who reserve ballet for a certain demographic. People without a “ballet body” or people who started later, or they’ll even gate keep people who don’t have a natural talent.
I think what she really means is anyone who tells her no. Or, in reality, anyone with knowledge of ballet and, well, eyes. The gates are closed to her unless she’s paying or dancing with a group of other rec dancers. No shame in that- it’s great to have a hobby and if you are lucky enough to not have to work for a living like she obviously is- well- go for it. But her advice is as bad as her technique. Dear Lord I wish she’d stop showing up in suggestions but it’s like cancer
@@Balletlover777 Sorry if my comment didn’t come across as such but I highly disagree with the ballet “gate keepers” I absolutely believe anyone with any body can become a prima ballerina. Some people tend to disagree unfortunately.
It's from this company called MewMews that I worked with a few months ago! I'm OBSESSED. I think my coupon code is still active too VEROMM15 for 15% off!
Veronica, I LOVE love LOVE!! your videos!! ❤❤ for me, auditory things can be irritating for me, and I think a microphone could really elevate your content 🎤 🎙 Please consider buying one for your autistic, sensory sensitive viewers Thank you for all of the advocacy you are doing, it is so so inspiring 💗
Thank you so much for watching! Keep in mind, I’m not saying any of these paths are EASY. But they are POSSIBLE.
And as always, I’m sending so much love 💕
Thank you for standing up to the nonsense, the privileged elite narrative being peddled by... well, obviously, the privileged elite
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Hi I am a ballet teacher and ex pro dancer and at the moment I am focusing on training adults. I think adults can absolutely become good dancers. I provide lots of performing experience for them and i am so proud of them..although a professional ballet dancer is something different. There is some exceptions. Some people are very naturally talented and are also smart in marketing themselves and those are the people that have a chance in following the path you mentioned. But I just think it is a bit misleading to say modelling for a dance brand is equal to be a professional ballet dancer. The problem I see there is that someone like me or my colleagues that started doing great sacrifices very early or spent years travelling around the world far from their family and lots of money for a pedagogical degree ist put on the same level of someone who has been dancing for two years and already teach others. I also saw people selling performances but the quality of their dancing is very low. . I do see a problem in the definition professional. I think all adults should just try to become good or even very good dancers and take any opportunity to follow, as you say some parallel pathways that have surelly lots to do with dancing and performing. I make an example. When I teach balle to a beginner I don't teach them steps. I use my studies of anatomy and pedagogy to know what is the best individual way to teach every different body with different needs how to move in an healthy efficient way. Somebody who danced for 3 or 4 years and doesn't have a pedagogical degree and a certain experience cannot have the same knowledge. Yet anyone can open a dance studio and teach and even make money out of it. But is that a professional ballet teacher?
thank you for putting some of my exact thoughts into words, i didnt know how to not sound harsh.
@@soupedelimaces thank you. I think social media gives lots of democracy and visibility to everyone but only hard work and experience makes the professionals. I think it is great that adult dancers like her are sharing their journey. It is very inspiring indeed. I just think it is very important in life to be realistic and objective...that does not mean not following your dreams. It just means understanding you can do something for the joy of doing it, the challenge, the passion, the fitness, the mental balance and also for the joy of archieving goals. Being professionals is not even that important in that case. There is soo many benefits in doing ballet as an adult and , as I said, many people reach good levels. But auditioning also for a smaller professional ballet company even just to become just a trainee or a corp de ballet dancer is a whole different thing...and so hard. I did it in the past. I know the competition!!! There even a greater ompetition nowadays!!!. I know so many professional dancers graduated from the best academies who don't have a job in a company, not even a small one. So it's a bit misleading to convey such messages. An hobby or amateur dance group is something different, I lead one myself with my adult students. They perform and sometimes even got paid. But non of them sell themselves as professionals. They are good dedicated adult dancers that have an enourmous amount of fun . And that is fine.
I see where you're coming from and I'm sure you're much more educated and experienced on the deeper professional world of ballet than I am. I'm just trying to share the things I wished I'd known sooner and help others have a more open mind in their own careers. Dancing for companies, earning a living from ballet at all is certainly not for everyone, but I hope the overall point of the video has not been missed by the people who needed this message, as I once did.
Veronica I think we all get ur message and love everything ur doing and have achieved but I also agree with these other two women with the part of becoming a professional ballet dancer as an adult is not realistic at all I danced from 2 to 26 yes old and still wasn't good enough to be accepted to a company to be professional ballet dancer and get paid
I do love that u hired dance instructors to lead ur adult seminars I thought that was so cool 😎
I have lupus was diagnosed at 17 and am in so much pain everyday I'm starting practice ballet again at home with a bar I made myself 😊 working on getting my ankles strong enough again to dance on Pointe I'm love how good I feel after stretching and dancing 💃 and it's so good for the body and mind 😊❤❤❤
Well said. I wish she would understand- you aren’t a “ ballerina” bc you want to be. You can certainly have a career in the arts in some way but the reality is talent and training do matter. She’s isolating herself from the community she wants to join by claiming a title she hasn’t earned. And most of us do and did want to pay the bills with ballet. 😂
Thank you for your advocacy for non-traditional arts careers paths! I am not a dancer but as an artist...I did NOT take a traditional path. I did NOT go to summer programs as a teen. I did NOT go to a Young Artist Program. I did NOT go through a fellowship program. I graduated from Conservatory with a Masters's in Music and QUIT. By the time I got back into it, I was "too old" for all those things (boo to age limits). Instead, I made connections and showed up and did good work when I was hired. Then I was hired again and again. Will I ever sing at the Met? Probably not. Am I satisfied getting paid to make art with the best musicians in my city? Absolutely. I recently for the first time...had my solo debut in a big hall in front of lots of people and I'm almost 50, which is something I only imagined in my teens. IT'S NEVER TOO LATE 🩷
Fantastic! You go girl...
I always think about how i see a lot of old people learning pickle ball or tennis and I've literally never thought "what's the point? They're too old" Because seeing them is so self explanatory. They could want a hobby, a chance to socialize/relate, to be active, to have something to put their energy in. Sure it's not always practical but we're not supposed to be practical about everything. If i was practical in everything, i wouldn't do half of the things in my life. Why do people freak out so much when it's the arts? Why tell people to follow their dreams just to crush them? Anyway, thanks veronica for being so positive and uplifting.
I think this is so important to realise. When you start playing tennis in your twenties, you do it because it's a fun way to be active and see other people. No one even talks about going to the Olympics then! So when you start ballet in your twenties, you can also just do it as a fun way to be active and see other people. No need to talk about going pro, ballet can just be a hobby like all other sports/arts/etc
Veronica, you are helping so many ballerinas, like you have no idea the magnitude of change you’re inspiring!! So many of us who were shut down and told “we can’t” are gaining so much confidence because of you.
You were so right to call out the hypocrisy and narrow mindedness in the ballet community. The lens of perfectionism has done a lot of harm and closed so many doors for aspiring ballerinas. Nobody says this if someone wants to pick up soccer or running or even football. I know people who have gotten offers for football and they’ve only played it once. People either see and nurture your potential or they don’t. What matters is the passion we have for what we do. We can achieve greatness when we believe in ourselves. 👏🏾
I'm so so SO grateful for you and your sweet words
I’m starting at 36 and I am sooooo grateful for you!
Also, where is your shirt from! It is so cute!
I'm so grateful for YOU!! Thanks a million
It's from this company called MewMews that I worked with a few months ago! I'm OBSESSED. I think my coupon code is still active too VEROMM15 for 15% off!
The best dance teacher I’ve ever had had a background in gymnastics. I think she started dancing in her 30s. But what she achieved is mind blowing. She started her own dance company for advanced amateurs, several talent groups. She founded the first vocational dance college in the country, a pre-professional program for teenagers, and she choreographed many, many pieces, which were just amazing to dance. She basically build up a whole dance culture in an area of the country where there previously was nothing.
I was extremely fortunate to be accepted into one of those programs at age 14 and being taught by her. Imagine someone who teaches dance like an extremely caring drill instructor. She was able to pull things from you that you didn’t even know you had in you.
To this day I benefit from her lessons, not just in dance but especially in real life. I credit a lot of my drive and perseverance to her. She’s really an example of being able to achieve anything with focused effort, patience and perseverance. Just wanted to share this story, she’s as late-starter as it gets but also achieved more in dance than pretty much anyone else out there.
I started ballet in my 60’s (briefly studied as a child) ……… obviously I’ll never perform 🤣🤣 but I dance because I just love to.
I loved this❤️🩰Tho I think I win the award for late starting at 55!!😂
I studied seriously for years as a child and it was EVERYTHING to me but was forced to give it up bc of family stuff, restarted in my teens, got injured, then the dream died. 💔I finally this Jan. realized I can still study with NO pressure, and can fall back in love with my first love of ballet again. I have been diligently studying every day and I'm SOO happy. Much love to you on your journey!!!❤❤❤
Hi! I have a very similar story! I’m starting back at age 41 after 25 years out! So wonderful to see others taking the leap! Keep it up!
@@Stewalebeth I'm so excited for
you and wish you all the best!!! Happy Dancing!!!💝🩰💝🙌🏻
You are absolutely right. Becoming a “professional dancer” doesn’t have to mean becoming a principal dancer in the top ballet company in your country, there are so many other options! I think as long as you are passionate and determined, as you certainly seem to be, there is so much possibility if you just think outside the box a little.
There was one category you didn’t mention though, and that’s becoming a dance/ballet teacher! Though it’s not the same as dancing on stage as a professional in a company, it can be equally as rewarding. I never did pursue dance teaching but I did instead become a Rhythmic Gymnastics coach and later a Calisthenics coach (in Australia this is a sport similar to dance combined with flexibility).
I love your videos! I was a ballet dancer in my 30's. I restarted in my early 20's and became a member of small ballet company. I went to college and majored in dance. You remind me of how I was. It is so empowering.
Also (while I'm not saying anything IF your dream or goal is to start dancing in order to be paid for it) it's ok to pursue dancing for the love of it. You don't have to make a job of a hobby to justify having it. If you just want to dance to dance, go for it! You're valid, too.
Exactly! Couldn’t agree more! 🥰
Thank you so much you have no idea how much you encouraged me to go outside my comfort zone and try ballet. I'm 15 and have been so nervous to start since my peers are so much farther along than me. It's been hard to find a ballet studio that can teach me at beginner level for my age, telling me that it's not typical for people to start at my age. But with the help of my step mom, who I'm so grateful for, I found a place that took me in. And yes, I agree that smaller studios are more forgiving to help me, and want to help me. I now take a beginner adult class even though I'm not technically an adult and I'm so happy I did. My teacher praised me today to catching up so quick and though the first few classes were so scary and I wanted to give up you encouraged me to try and at least see how far I can go. I only started a few months ago, and only have class for an hour once a week, but I feel stronger, and it's always important to celebrate the little things. Even if you don't read this, please know that you have helped me so much and I'm so excited to see where this takes me, it might not be far but I'm so happy I started now and I wouldn't have if it wasn't for you.
True, Misty Copeland started ballet at the age of 13 and she is professional ballerina. Years ago she become the principle ballet dancer.
yes! she's a huge inspiration!
Well, it is kinda true depending on what country you're in. Like in France, the force retire their dancers from the Paris Opera at 42, any dancer, doesn't matter guy or girl, doesn't matter if they are still in good shape to dance, they retire them at 42. But yeah, there are many professional companies that don't care about age or how long you've danced or when you started as long as you can do the choreography in the way they want it.
You are a straight up NATURAL at ballet 🩷🩷 I love your energy and passion! We need it in the adult ballet world! Keep dancing 🩰
Thank you! It certainly doesn't feel natural all the time haha but it's very fulfilling
Just wanted to thank you for what you are doing. You're giving me soo much hope and self-confidence, and make me believe in my dreams of becoming an actress. Even though I'm still quite young (20yo) I feel like it's too late for me - I have been planning to get into acting school in my last year of high school, but I gave up. I didn't go to any artistic school (which I dreamed about my whole childhood), I haven't taken regular acting lessons until last autumn, only singing lessons, but i feel sooo behind it all, so worse than everybody. But this year I will try to get into acting school for the first time and I have so much hope in my heart that maybe not this year, but some other I will succeed.
But you are proving me that everything is possible, and my acting dreams (which I sometimes think are stupid and unrealistic) are valid and really possible. Thank you so much, wishing you all the best! 💗
Thanks for sharing this video🩷 I’m 17 and just recently became interested in doing ballet as a side job or even just hobby but I’m not all that flexible or coordinated haha😂 I’m just gonna try stretching daily to improve my flexibility and everything else and see where I go👍🩷 follow your dreams guys💕
I'm a fairly new subscriber and I also read your newsletter The Slipper Edit. You are so inspiring and I loved seeing your clips of you being on pointe 🎉 after watching your journey. Keep shooting for the ✨️
Thank you so much for all the kind words and support! Right back atcha love
I love your spirit and determination to go for what you love! However, making a living in the arts, ballet included, is not likely to happen as the well paid jobs as very few and far between. That doesn't mean you can't do it as a second job or a hobby, or maybe if you are a married woman whose husband makes enough money and has benefits through his job. Landing a professional contract with a major company is highly competitive and usually means starting the training young, under age 10. The companies start hiring at age 16 and the auditionees are highly skilled and ready for the stage by that age. They also have a certain body type they want and even if you study for years and years it doesn't mean they will pick you for a company position. That being said, there are other opportunities once you get the ballet training such a teaching, dance critic, choreographer, etc that are possibilities. Working as a dancer in a smaller, community company might be possible but it is unlikely you make much money at it, often not even paying enough to cover your gas and pointe shoe expenses. So, beware of encouraging people that they can become "professional ballerinas" as you could be leading them down the primrose path! This is true for trying to make a living in any of the arts. True, we don't have to all be Baryshnikov but let's be realistic about where we are going before we fall over the edge of the cliff thinking we are going to get a dance job that pays enough to live on. Most of us work other jobs besides doing ballet in order to make ends meet. Not to be a "buzz killer" but instead trying to keep your feet on the ground as you progress in your interest and training in the field of dance. Yes, you would be consider a ballet student and not a "ballerina", but you could have your own business doing side dance jobs such as your hats, t shirts, etc.
I'm 30 and recently started Balle..thanks 🙏💜
thank you for touching on the all or nothing thinking, helpful for all areas of life
@@jjessicaisabelle totally! I think it’s really common especially for the very ambitious (like dancers). But it’s good to always keep looking for new and creative ways to follow our dreams!
@@VeronicaViccora agreed, reminds me I am actually ambitious but just think I’m not coz I keep stopping myself every time somethings not perfect 😂😅🫶🏻💤
Thank you for talking about these topics, not many people do.
Thank you for being here and supporting the channel!
I am going to my first class soon. Got nervous because I forgot about all my visible tattoos. This video definitely made me feel more comfortable wit the fact that I look so different from everyone else AND my age being 22. Still nervous but no longer feeling alone. Thank you!
Megan dont sweat ur tattoos girl I have one on my right arm and a huge one on my left shoulder blade got them both at 17 btw I was still dancing in the green bay dance company
When it came to performance time I had to go and buy a skin tone matching full coverage waterproof concealer it was expensive for a small jar but a tiny bit went a long way
Btw I was so glad I had this because when I was a lifeguard at 20 for a big hotel I had to have them covered up
@@torischwartz745 You're a saint, thank you for your reply, made me ten times moe confident!!!! Gotta find the concealer for the future haha
Eu Tb tenho uma tatuagem, e eu odeio ela kkk pretendo tirar futuramente
Love your attitude and insights, and that you obviously "think outside the box". All of which can bring great fulfillment. I started Ballet when I was 3, thinking I would love it. But quit early on. I simply hated tendus, thought they were boring, as a little toddler. (Mistake).Then I fell in love with everything about Ballet, and came back. The point is - even though I was not going to be a prima ballerina in the New York City Ballet, where I attended hundreds of performances over the years - I just loved, loved, loved "perfecting" various steps, moves and stretches myself - whether in class or at my own kitchen Ballet Barre. That is what Ballet is for me. It is also obviously very healthy, both physically and emotionally and even spiritually. -- After many years of this, someone who ran a camp for various sports, approached me and asked me if I would be interested in a paid position teaching young girls and guys my skills. I was surprised and flattered but did not think of myself as the "teacher type". But I thought I would give it a try - and ended up loving it. The young people seemed to think I was very accomplished as they watched me demonstrate various techniques. - which was another pleasant surprise. -- I do Ballet now primarily because I still love trying to master both simple things and harder things that are so beautiful and amazing athletically, and I still don't think of myself as any sort of teacher - But... I certainly understand the idea that one does not have to be a star in a major company to get a tremendous amount of satisfaction from doing Ballet, whether just the more basic moves or more advanced feats. The idea that some people have that only things like golf or jogging are "appropriate" work-outs for those not going to the Olympics - is down-right silly. (Is it possible there might be a little bit of jealousy involved in that "limiting" attitude? Or is it just being completely uninformed?). -- Anyways, really enjoyed your video. And by the way, you look every inch an advanced Ballerina, so whatever you are doing is working! - Lynda Power
Very good information and very well said.
I’m sure there are plenty of people that left whatever they were doing to start following their dreams because of a distaste or exhaustion from pursuing money.. or letting it be the primary dictator of their choices.. so why drag that into their new arena of play?
I think it’s important to clearly understand you’re pursuing dance, and to be bold in knowing that someone handing you money for it isn’t what legitimizes it. That’s a separate, and hopefully secondary element of things.
I also think it’s neat how you discuss the(re) emerging interest in the arts. There are some traditional ”rules” needing to be broken in this space, and there are brave dancers coming to do it.
Lastly, it is wonderful to hear you’re your best, clearest and most confident self in this time of your life. From that perspective, and this is where I really relate: every millisecond of ballet class and every other aspect of this pursuit is time and energy well spent. There is no end goal needed when this is truly appreciated
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I love this so much, and I think this is a message that can be applied to many things in life, not just ballet
It’s possible to become a teacher or work around the world of ballet like selling pointe shoes or something like that if you start as an adult, but becoming a ballerina, dancing in a company, full time, it’s nearly impossible, because so many people want to be ballerina you will always be in competition with girls younger and who started earlier and you won’t make the cut in auditions
you can keep believing that... whether you believe you CAN or you CAN'T - you're right.
@@moonhunter9993 it's not just believing, it's the reality of things, like I said it's nearly impossible, doesn't mean no one never did it or will do it, but you probably need something else for yourself, like you already did another type of dance, or instead of trying to become a ballerina you go into contemporary or cabaret which or derived from ballet but often less competitive, or you have something else to make you stand out
I really fell down a rabbit hole. I think the problem here e is that there are a lot of non dancers buying into this. I think it's great she loves ballet and she has the want to learn. But just because I want to be a super model doesn't make me one. There is so much that is involved in becoming a pro ballet dancer. It is too late for her to get into even a regional company. Like I said it's admirable she takes class sets up dance workshops etc but I think she doesn't fully grasp how hard and competitive the dance world is outside of adult ballet.
@@karaalexandra8114 this is so true. I wish that she’d just be honest, both with herself and in her content ( I also wish her videos would stop randomly popping up- it’s like a train wreck). She’s an adult beginner who is financially supported by her hubby. There is no shame in that- or in sharing her story with people who are interested. But if she ever learns much she’ll look back shamed at how she portrayed herself- and at her truly terrible skill set.
Absolutely breaking through gatekeeping that plagues ballet! I love seeing brands wanting to rep a wider variety of ballerinas ❤
Loved this video so much 🌹💖💕 Thank you for talking about this! I started ballet as an adult as well, and maybe I won’t become a “professional”, but the joy that I get from dancing is inexplicable. So idk, maybe I’ll try to venture into other possibilities and make dancing a profession as well.
Love your videos ✨💖 they always make me feel better
When I was younger I originally had in mind that I was going to audition for all of these major companies because that's what I thought was expected of a ballet dancer. After taking my hiatus from the ballet world and eventually coming back I realized that I really didn't want to be a professional ballet dancer. Yes I still dance ballet now but it's at the ballet studio in my hometown so it's not a professional studio. I dance simply for the love of it and the love of being on stage and performing for the audience without feeling the stress of having to look a certain way or worry about being good enough to remain in the company. To me (and this is my opinion) I'd rather not be a professional dancer because I feel like I don't have to worry so much about being perfect or what my body looks like. I'm not saying that professional companies don't have fun I'm just simply saying that there are so many high standards that the companies are looking for that I just don't want to put myself through that.
UGH THIS IS SO INSPIRING!!!! So excited to attend the workshop later this month!
AHHH!!! I'm so thrilled to dance with you! See you soon!
My Goddess I love this so much. Thank you!
I'm so glad you found it helpful! thank YOU for watching!
I love this!!! Your inspiring for younger women.
Thank you!! I hope at least one person out there can take their dreams and just run with them!
Wow im here very early, Ive wanted to become a professional but i started ballet at 18 and thought it wasn't possible for me
I’m so glad you’re here! 🥰 these might not be easy paths necessarily but there’s still so much possibility!! Rooting for you 🥳
Just dance and follow the joy! I believe in you...
Thank you for being such an inspiration!! 💙You have such a big heart, helping and encouraging all aspiring adult ballet dancers out there!! You are one of a kind Veronica!! I'm sure a bright future awaits for you!!😊💙
Your literally amazing
Awww you’re such a kind soul! Sending love
Your confidence is so wonderfully beautiful!!! ❤❤❤
I am 27....took my first ballet class at age 20....made it on stage within a year to the month of my first class....then COVID happened and life got in the way but now Im trying to amp it up again....
My goal is to nail my blue print on dance and yeah that includes making it professionally....
I’m going to start sending this video to everyone that asks me what’s the point of starting ballet so late! I love this take so much ❤
YES! Love you girly
This video sparks so much joy 💗💗
That's so sweet to hear! Thank you so much, best of luck to you!
I'm 16, my parents don't want me to dance ballet, they don't belive in my dream, I'm doing a type of training with video tutorials, the most part of them are workouts, not classes because I know I can learn all the technic without a teacher to correct me.
And all the excercise I do is without them realizing it.
I bought with my own money my demi point shoes
And I was hopeful for becoming a ballet dancer, but my parents told me I won't be on a stage an no one is going to clap and cheer for my dance, that was the day when I saw the ballet school I wanted had a limit of age and it was 17 with 11 months
That day I felt how everything fell down and I tried to find support on my parents and they just yelled me and I only have 8 months to do the exam, so I'm trying to do everything I can to enter and if they reject me I'll try to enter another school if the first one rejects me, even if it's in another city so far from home.
And I'm from Mexico so... The possibilities to practice some arts are pretty bad
Thank you because I wasn’t sure if I was going to be good enough cause I started doing ballet at age 2,5 but I ended dancing when I was 8 so I hadn’t got my point shoes and then I started again at age 12 and now I’m 14 and on point for a while and even able to do 2 pirouettes on point but I’m still sometimes really sad that I stopped dancing for 4 years but now as I watched your video I’m pretty sure that I maybe be as good as those professionals who I watch at UA-cam🩷💕
You have sooooo much time! Keep going and keep following what you love
This was my first time ever hearing about freelance dancers and I am so intrigued if this may be a possible venue for me down the line!!
Im earlyy. Thank you for your video's they gave me so much more confidence❤
That's so special to hear, thank you!
Please where is the beautiful top from 😩
Love this! Thanks, V!
Thank you for sharing. You're so inspiring. It's such a motivating experience to watch your videos
that means so so much
Your Videos help me so much to feel me better❤you can dance so good❤❤
That’s the best thing you could say! Thank you so much, I’m rooting for you!
Oh gosh I love this vlog and I love you 🥹💖
I am from Europe (Slovenia), and I would be beyond thrilled if I could meet you irl if you will be somewhere here in Europe in near future (Italy, Austria etc) 🫂🙏🏽
I'm hoping to go to Europe again soon, I miss it so much!!!
Yes! I am so ready to do this!
I'm so excited for you!!
I want to do ballet in order to have a better posture gain flexibility I love dancing and I love classic music
Ballet would be wonderful for you then!
It’s a really good way to stay in shape as well!
So inspiring!!!🎉😊
Beautiful inside as well as out❤
Thank you so much kind soul
Gonna give it a shot for fitness age 54 😊
I’m rooting for you! 🥰
I’m in my 40s. I think it may be too late. I haven’t found a class near me yet.
It's definitely tricky finding classes depending on where you are in the world, I completely understand that! I have a whole free guide about taking your first ballet class (no matter where you are in the world!) linked here if you're interested: mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-bloomers-guide
@@VeronicaViccora Thank you! 💕
you can do everything 🎉 i like your dance
Thank you so much!
I fucking love this thank you so much!!!
What does she mean by "gatekeepers"?
People who reserve ballet for a certain demographic. People without a “ballet body” or people who started later, or they’ll even gate keep people who don’t have a natural talent.
I think what she really means is anyone who tells her no. Or, in reality, anyone with knowledge of ballet and, well, eyes. The gates are closed to her unless she’s paying or dancing with a group of other rec dancers. No shame in that- it’s great to have a hobby and if you are lucky enough to not have to work for a living like she obviously is- well- go for it. But her advice is as bad as her technique. Dear Lord I wish she’d stop showing up in suggestions but it’s like cancer
@@Balletlover777 Sorry if my comment didn’t come across as such but I highly disagree with the ballet “gate keepers” I absolutely believe anyone with any body can become a prima ballerina. Some people tend to disagree unfortunately.
Do you plan on going professional?
I'd definitely be interested in dancing freelance at the very least!
Pretty women❤
I'm an adult beginner. However, I'm guessing that what you've achieved won't happen for me.
You're still young.
I'm 56 years old.😂
Well you never know! But again, earning a paycheck from ballet isn't the only way to enjoy it and have it change your life
what is that top!!???? 😍😍😍😍😍
It's from this company called MewMews that I worked with a few months ago! I'm OBSESSED. I think my coupon code is still active too VEROMM15 for 15% off!
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sending virtual hugs!
great video! thank you. also thank you for challenging the privileged elite narrative...
Thank you so much for watching
Veronica, I LOVE love LOVE!! your videos!! ❤❤ for me, auditory things can be irritating for me, and I think a microphone could really elevate your content 🎤 🎙
Please consider buying one for your autistic, sensory sensitive viewers
Thank you for all of the advocacy you are doing, it is so so inspiring 💗
Thank you!! 💕 yes one day when I have the budget and time for the additional editing a microphone requires, I will definitely be investing in one! 🥰