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  • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
    @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +12

    if everyones trying to be like everyone than there's no one.. its time to be yourself, stop trying to fit in, be who God made you to be
    New: Podcast link in the channel description! 🔥
    Connect with me on social media IG @maliquedlewis
    Email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations

    • @Unbotheredisis
      @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому

      Very awkward and weird to try to fit in to people who don’t know you omg brother you laying it down

    • @Unbotheredisis
      @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому

      Let my God shine

    • @Unbotheredisis
      @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому

      Show up

  • @Unbotheredisis
    @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому +5

    I’m a an introvert don’t like talking people think it’s weird especially when I try to be like the other socials, I enjoy staying quiet

  • @khzleel9571
    @khzleel9571 5 місяців тому +27

    I watch these videos everyday, I run a small motivational clothing brand I hope that one day I can inspire people the same way you do, but until I'm able to speak and view life the way you do ill keep watching these videos, peace and love bro

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +5

      Keep going with it I know it’ll impact people! Especially because your intentions is in the right place. Thank you for tuning in and thank you doing your best to inspire people the way you know how. That’s how we make the world a better place 🙏🏽

  • @itzbubyt
    @itzbubyt 5 місяців тому +11

    “You’re gonna be just like them. Instead be just like you.” Amen to that brother. Had to right that one down. 👏

  • @BananaDashboard
    @BananaDashboard 5 місяців тому +5

    There's nostalgia in being unique
    When you are you, you become hard to find 💯✊🇿🇦

  • @Shady564
    @Shady564 5 місяців тому +12

    Your my accountability mirror brother, watching your videos every day as part of my routine! Keep pushing them out i will be watching every single one

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      You got this bro 💪🏽 you guys keep me accountable too 🙏🏽

  • @Javien
    @Javien 5 місяців тому +4

    Biggest take away for me “ Don’t budge on Gods Plan”

  • @rudy5865
    @rudy5865 4 місяці тому +2

    Malique, brother. I just experienced a bout of anxiety currently at work. Nothing seem to be working really as far as calming it down was concerned.
    I found a quiet space and tuned in to this video and gradually I see and feel the anxiety going away, like a stream of water as I watch it pass.
    I appreciate you man. Your words are pure truth which is desperately needed in our world today.
    May the universe protect you brother.
    A huge fan of yours from London.

  • @FindMyKing
    @FindMyKing 4 місяці тому +1

    I just stumbled upon this channel. Every video I've seen so far is good but this one hits a different cord. Ive always felt like an outcast as far back as I can remember and I've been the one to fit in before but after a while i just gave up and felt like I was alone in the world, Then I saw this video and see there are others like me. God bless guys!✝️

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 5 місяців тому +6

    No one else is like you.
    Shine on brothers.
    👍

  • @YKKEEEE
    @YKKEEEE 5 місяців тому +5

    1 like = 1 pushup 🎉❤

  • @Bassynater2500
    @Bassynater2500 5 місяців тому +5

    Becoming thirty, I’ve definitely been stepping out of my desire to be seen and accepted for what others like and more accepting of who I am as me. I felt like I lost myself in my 20’s and I’ve slowly been giving myself love and time to find who I was and who I am now but with love and no judgement.
    Watching your channel just keeps that feeling burning.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      🔥🔥🔥💪🏽 that’s what I’m talking about brother, that’s awesome

  • @TRIOPSable
    @TRIOPSable 5 місяців тому +2

    The more and more I watch these videos- the more sense my mother’s advice makes, and the more I begin to understand my struggles. I didn’t understand it at 12, or 16, or even 20- but I think I get it at 22. A lot of the turmoil and problems I’ve faced in adolescence was just due to the fact that I was just trying to live two lives. The first, the life of a young man that realizes that there’s more to life than what we see on screens and people’s stories. The second life, is that of everyone else. Parties, weed, sex, living for the weekend, etc. From a very young age, I’ve struggled with “fitting in” and always felt alone. I had interests that were different from most guys. I loved books, classical music, didn’t care much for watching sports, enjoyed writing, the piano, outer space- you get the gist. However, I always thought everyone else was so much better, other guys that played ball, smoked, listened to the same kind of music -I remember watching them from a distance and wanting to fit in so bad. I spent my late teens desperately trying to fit in with people who were nothing like me. Our values were completely different, tastes, friends, hobbies- just all so different. I tried to fit in badly and it caused a lot of pain for me, because deep down I didn’t care for those things, I just wanted genuine human connection- and I didn’t know that such people cared very little for deep relationships. I would do the most to appease and be recognized by others- setting myself on fire to keep other people warm. But at what cost? I finally got what I wanted, to be in a group of such people. But I quickly realized that people who do these sorts of things are in such seemingly tight-knit communities and groups are due to the fact that they have nothing else to them. My upbringing led me to being very introspective, thus just leading to me being different and wanting different things. Unfortunately, these people just haven’t reached a point in their lives where they had to look deep into their souls and figure those things out yet. The pain I felt was the pain of trying to fit the grand person that God made me to be, in this small box. I felt the pain of platonic unrequited love, faced existential questions, made poor financial decisions, all because I wanted to be loved by people who could never love me. My own self-hatred and sheer lack of love for myself made me seek the worst kind of companionship possible, a shallow-destructive kind. It’s true what you said- that when you try to fit in, you’re just being the person the world wants you to be. If anybody is going through the same, search deep inside you to find the things that’ll allow you to grow into the person you’re supposed to be. I promise the answers will come from within. You won’t find yourself in another person/drug/purchase. I still am confronting a few of the problems I picked up during that time of my life, but I’m happy to have found channels like this that help make the process more clear 🙏🏾

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  4 місяці тому +1

      The answers definitely do come from within! And your mom was speaking facts! So much wisdom in this message brother thank you for watching and sharing

  • @allanuflaw
    @allanuflaw 5 місяців тому +5

    Amen brother. I'm so happy to see how fast your channel is growing. It gives me hope for the younger generation. Everyone is walking around with a god-shaped void in their soul- we try to fill it up with all the shallow garbage of the world, but trust me, nothing fills that hole except God and living out your purpose.
    We are all unique. Only i have my life.
    Thanks for another 2 sentences to add to my daily mantra, brother.
    Thank you Malique. I appreciate having your videos in my life. Keep grinding brother, I see you. I feel God working through you.

    • @TheWarBaby.
      @TheWarBaby. 5 місяців тому +1

      I'm also very proud and happy for Him and this channel brother!!
      Stay purpose driven!

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      That means a lot brother thank you for watching and supporting and believing in the purpose driven movement

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 25 днів тому +1

    Yeah , no , i'm different , but I like it too

  • @PrinceAzingi
    @PrinceAzingi 5 місяців тому +1

    U are Changing soul's to God.GOD blessed u and ur family.

  • @BenTenToes
    @BenTenToes 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks you brother we are Jamaicans 🫡❤️💯

  • @nevillelewis9206
    @nevillelewis9206 5 місяців тому +3

    We need to work on our self esteem.

  • @MjProductionsYT0
    @MjProductionsYT0 5 місяців тому +3

    Facts I don’t wanna be cool because everything will come I just focus on school and my future thank you bro bro!

  • @Liqo315
    @Liqo315 5 місяців тому +5

    Before both of my cousins passed away they always told me there's nothing cool about acting like something you're not to fit in the wrong crowd be who you are people will take you serious when you're not doing what everybody else is doing be a leader and a role model inspire people to be themselves🧘🏿‍♂️💫👁

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +2

      Rip 🙏🏽 they spoke facts, we have to be leaders and be who we’re made to be 🔥✨

  • @PrinceAzingi
    @PrinceAzingi 5 місяців тому +1

    Man of God,u are real Man.

  • @YouFitted
    @YouFitted 5 місяців тому +5

    I appreciate these videos man💪🏾

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate you tuning in to these videos, I’m glad they can help fam! That’s what I do it for 💪🏽 let’s be great 🔥

  • @HashPhantom
    @HashPhantom 5 місяців тому +4

    Reaching more people by the day

  • @barbaradimmick5366
    @barbaradimmick5366 18 днів тому

    Thsnk you for these timely words ... yes, we spend most of our life trying to please people who don't even care about us😮! I say go where youre invited! That's where the blessing is! Our individuality is our super power!❤

  • @champagnedaffa
    @champagnedaffa 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank u for that solid advice man.. ive been struggling with my life recently and the biggest factor is that i dont really confident about my gym progress, feel like i was getting weaken by my inner mind think that im not capable to do what i got to do and fit into this life right now, you probably the realest person ive seen in this platform, i want to listening to ur previous advice and i hope i could hear it more in the future. God bless u man ❤
    edit: u just help with my destort mind, thank u very much man..

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      God bless you brother! 💪🏽❤️ you are definitely capable! 🔥

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 25 днів тому +1

    I love it It's my thing

  • @devmodemusic9906
    @devmodemusic9906 5 місяців тому +2

    Just found this channel this week. Thank you for holding me accountable and making sure I do what I need to, brother

  • @AlignedTribez
    @AlignedTribez 4 місяці тому +1

    I finally started my UA-cam channel and I’m on the journey to give the world my life experience. ALIGNED TRIBEZ

  • @Alex24BE
    @Alex24BE 5 місяців тому +1

    This man, even the best words are not enough to describe how much of a help and motivation you are. Blessings

  • @JakeW100
    @JakeW100 5 місяців тому +2

    Best channel to find I strive to speak like you with your confidence. I’m thankful for you being here man!!

  • @shaqdiesel3587
    @shaqdiesel3587 4 місяці тому +1

    The kingdom of God is within me Luke 17:21

  • @Bando2Times
    @Bando2Times 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for spreading your voice and helping all these peoples spirits 🖤

  • @bratt-23
    @bratt-23 5 місяців тому +1

    I really struggled with this especially when i was in high school, now i don't mind being who i am and it feel so good men

  • @zayv2826
    @zayv2826 5 місяців тому +1

    Please keep going bro you are truly blessing people with your words you are changing so many lives man im grateful to god I can connect with you and my purpose driven brothers. I’m taking control and being accountable for my future and the man I want to become, stepping into my greatness and you were the catalyst in order for that to be possible.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you brother! I’ll never stop, the support you all give is a blessing. I’m grateful for yall 🙏🏽

  • @christopherswaffi4760
    @christopherswaffi4760 5 місяців тому +1

    8:30 I get lit on that basketball court. Working out has been nurturing my soul and vessel immensely.

  • @diogosilva2344
    @diogosilva2344 5 місяців тому +1

    This hit right in the perfect time. I'm 20 right now and feel like a child yet. I work 8 hours a day, go to the gym, and barely have time for anything else. I feel like my self-esteem is bad, especially because I don't talk to any girls from where I live. Don't hang out with them. Nothing. Sometimes I want to be like those "fuckboys" who go to parties every weekend and get drunk and get girls. But honestly, that ain't me. I don't know why I want that. I don't know what's pushing me so much to do that. I feel emptiness within myself, and I don't know why. Really appreciate the video, man. You got yourself a new sub

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      Welcome home bro.. you’re a purpose driven man, stay on the path of purpose! Purpose over pleasure!

    • @HenkSchreuder
      @HenkSchreuder 4 місяці тому

      That feeling is familiar bro. Thing is, those fuckboys aren't happy with themselves, that's a fact. Doing stuff like that sucks your soul empty.

  • @antoniosarmiento8574
    @antoniosarmiento8574 5 місяців тому +1

    Love how you drop those hard quotes like bars and how you proudly laugh afterwards 🤣 Love from Spain bro

  • @GamblesWorld
    @GamblesWorld 5 місяців тому +1

    been waiting for this upload can’t wait to watch and listen to this powerful information, another day to grind it is the 16th hour of a new 24 day that god gave me and today I have been getting it in!! Grind never stops let’s get 1% better‼️

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Let’s gooo! God bless you bro and thank God for another day, grind mode 🔥🔥

    • @GamblesWorld
      @GamblesWorld 5 місяців тому

      God bless you to brother, real impactful stuff I AM UNIQUE and I AM 1of1

  • @askylerr
    @askylerr 5 місяців тому +1

    thank you brother, you have no idea how much you’re helping us. I’m sure. i speak for us all when i say we’re thankful for you, continue the grind and I wish you continued success brother

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      That means a lot brother, we’re all on this journey together. I’m grateful for you all 🙏🏽

  • @paulrodriguez8650
    @paulrodriguez8650 5 місяців тому +1

    Another banger video brother 🙌 I know God is blessing us with our purpose and we will all thrive out there. Keep making these videos they are so helpful 🙏

  • @GottaSayFuckIT
    @GottaSayFuckIT 5 місяців тому +1

    Much love and appreciation to you brother this video is exactly what i need with where im at in my journey. Just recently started making my own content on another channel since ive had it in my soul for about half a year now and i finally decided to act on it and now ive just been working on staying focused and consistent in keeping my grind going and this video spoke to me in such a real way that reaffirmed my idea on the journey ive been called to take and build so again thank you brother and i will keep working on my goals and dreams and trust my own unique process of creation and not worry about the other side💟

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      You got this, there’s no mistakes, I’m grateful that this video got to you and confirmed the journey you’re supposed to take 🙏🏽

  • @KingTrey25
    @KingTrey25 5 місяців тому +1

    I get more motivated then I already am when you drop videos like this bro keep it up brother 💯💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      You know it bro! 💪🏽 let’s get fired up 🔥 appreciate you watching

    • @KingTrey25
      @KingTrey25 5 місяців тому +1

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen thank you for all the knowledge you speaking

  • @BananaDashboard
    @BananaDashboard 5 місяців тому +1

    We in for a treat🔥🙏

  • @brycelawson9870
    @brycelawson9870 5 місяців тому +2

    God bless you brother!

  • @TheWarBaby.
    @TheWarBaby. 5 місяців тому +1

    It's always a blessing to receive more from you every day Malique.
    I finally get to focus on myself more, like Malique said, "How do you get time for yourself if you're waking up every day trying to be everybody else?". I'm not tryna be like everybody else man.
    I'm more focused on fitting into God and what my future has in store for me, I'm just tryna be me! Focus on being yourself, other people don't care, but this brotherhood, this family cares! We want to help each other become Purpose Driven Men.
    If you're a brother watching this, make sure to listen very closely cause these words are truth and the essence of being a Purpose Driven Man. Because we're not trying to fit in here in the world, but we're trying to fit in towards the purpose God has for us all.
    I don't know about y'all, but I'm definitely trying to fit in for God, to be the best version of myself and to be the person God wants me to be. God bless you all brothers, stay purpose-driven.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      Everything you said is facts brother! Thank you for sharing this message to the brotherhood 🙏🏽🔥

    • @TheWarBaby.
      @TheWarBaby. 5 місяців тому

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen My pleasure bro, for you, for the brotherhood💯💪

  • @fred2405.
    @fred2405. 5 місяців тому +1

    Love this one I’ve been battling with being myself and this helps

  • @christopherswaffi4760
    @christopherswaffi4760 5 місяців тому +1

    Ur a godsend Maliqe

  • @tayerew
    @tayerew 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this brother 🙏

  • @2konscious
    @2konscious 4 місяці тому +1

    thank you for this video, my friend

  • @OurSolemnOath
    @OurSolemnOath 5 місяців тому +1

    Another Banger‼️💪🏾🔥 PDM

  • @JOE-917
    @JOE-917 5 місяців тому +1

    Your videos have helped me so much to grow. Thank you 📝

  • @Unbotheredisis
    @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you

  • @Unbotheredisis
    @Unbotheredisis 5 місяців тому +1

    God made me me

  • @kwasicampbell868
    @kwasicampbell868 5 місяців тому +1

    Needed to hear this bro👊🔥

  • @mrcsr8582
    @mrcsr8582 5 місяців тому +1

    With popular people i dont fit all they focus on is bs - in my feelings kevin gates

  • @youngbet7467
    @youngbet7467 5 місяців тому +1

    good video thanks for reminder

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      You got this brother 💪🏽

    • @youngbet7467
      @youngbet7467 5 місяців тому

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen always different and always elevated stay elegant brother 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @literacyyy263
    @literacyyy263 5 місяців тому +1

    Goat

  • @joshnaitoko2004
    @joshnaitoko2004 5 місяців тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @WesnerCharlestin
    @WesnerCharlestin 5 місяців тому +1

    I like being by my self is that a crime ? I dont think so 😂 that's how I stay on my grind

  • @BreakingTheBloodlineCurse
    @BreakingTheBloodlineCurse 5 місяців тому +1

    🙌

  • @Robb4d
    @Robb4d 2 місяці тому +1

    Have you ever clocked out of work after a long shift and forget who you were before you clocked in it seems like I may have done that a bit too much feel crazy and lost man how do you remember yourself? Where do you go to start tracking it down?

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 25 днів тому +1

    Sorry my bad

  • @crocolightinvestments
    @crocolightinvestments 5 місяців тому +1

    🤝🙏

  • @chrissilewis366
    @chrissilewis366 5 місяців тому +1

    🫶🏻🙏🏽💯

  • @WesnerCharlestin
    @WesnerCharlestin 5 місяців тому +1

    GOD SON go off too for NAS 😤🤟🏽

  • @HR02
    @HR02 5 місяців тому +2

    Hey brother just finished working out Hope you don't want me to drop 10 pushups or do you want me too. Hey recovery is needed 😅😅😅

  • @lemonpepperdude4163
    @lemonpepperdude4163 5 місяців тому +1

    You said fit in so many times blud 😂

  • @aBAY-c2c
    @aBAY-c2c 5 місяців тому +1

    What mic do you use?

  • @RuntzD420k
    @RuntzD420k 5 місяців тому +2

    you must deviate from the norm✝

  • @WesnerCharlestin
    @WesnerCharlestin 5 місяців тому +1

    A bot every body out here is a bot smh 😒

  • @kurteuraj
    @kurteuraj 5 місяців тому +2

    Found your channel today, instantly subscribed. Recently been in a rough spot. You helped me realize my goals, ambitions, and my family come first. Thank you for dropping this knowledge man.🫡🤞🏽

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +2

      You’re going to go far bro, as long as you understand those things nothing can get you out of that mode! And that mode is locking in and being purpose driven. God bless 💪🏽🔥

  • @TTVKPAPA
    @TTVKPAPA 5 місяців тому +1

    🫂