"I'm Your friend, Not Your Man" - BKCHAT LDN: S6 EPISODE 3
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- Опубліковано 18 чер 2024
- BKCHAT LDN | Season 6, Episode 3: New Baby, New Responsibilities
In this episode of BKCHAT LDN, the cast dives into the dynamics of friendship and support when a new baby arrives. They discuss the expectations and responsibilities friends have towards new parents. Is it wrong if you don't make the time to visit your friend's newborn? Join the conversation as the cast shares their personal experiences and opinions on the importance of showing up during this significant life event. Don't miss out on this lively and thought-provoking discussion!
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Cookie is emotionally immature, I pray she will never need her friends as much as her friend needed her in that moment. She needs to learn about what can come with becoming a mother, it's not easy.
Kudos to the guys today.
She’s been doing that in the past few episodes. She’s clearly projecting a lot of pain she has from many bad experiences with people.
yes yes! couldn't even finish the episode couldn't believe my ears from her.. All I say to women like this is... Just waittttttt till YOU become a mother! Seeing your friends child is not her asking you to babysit and do duties. Chile!
Cookie is somebody’s “Godforbid”.
somebody or everybody?💀
She’s awful!! 😮 Young mentality
If cookie and the girl is middle can’t take 3 hours out of 7 days a week to see her friend new born baby then she has poor organisation skills
WORDD!!!!
Take a bow son 👊🏽🤞🏾❤️❤️🫡🫡
Abigail has a victim complex. Not everyone wants to fight you girl. lord have mercy.
Honestly it's very painful to watch ..like that chip has been on her shoulder all her life since birth
THISSSS!!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed!!!
wrd
All I can say is God remove any cookies in my life
Amen🙌🏾💯
😂😂😂😂
Amen‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
A fucking men amen
Amennnn
Imagine the ex best friend watching this show and hearing this wow!!! When cookie becomes a mother and no one’s there for her, she will regret all of this. We really need to watch how we talk, karma is a real thing!
Sad right . What a horrible mindset
She will have the shock of her life when God humbles her
God forbid, don't wish such badness on her 😭😭 let us pray she will change with time
Cookie became a godmother "for show"? Godparent status revoked!
I hope the woman who made her the Godmother watched this episode. Lol
NOBODY IS BUSY BRUV. We make time for people & things that matters to us. Period!
I don’t want friends like cookie Godforbid. You make time for who you wana make time for. If it’s a man they will make that time for them. Don’t be claiming to me my BEST FRIEND , accept to be my baby’s God mother and be talking like cookie is talking. She’s a proper bad friend my gosh. NO ONE IS ALWAYS BUSY. I love how king riches was keeping it real with her. I swear people don’t know the true meaning of friendship, they just throw the word “friend” around without knowing the meaning or living up to jt.
Then when the man cheats she’ll call you crying
She’s busy but she makes time each week to scream and shout in a uni kitchen ..
She’s clearly had bad experiences with people in the past and she’s projecting.
Not me actually agreeing with King Rich (or whatever his name is) for once😔
Frr
Right?! I was shocked I actually agreed with him lol
mums
Only person that spoke common sense 🤣 I was even mortified
LOL no for real
Whoever directed and edited the commercial for Ms London, please go and tell her you don't like her. It just wasn't it
Like I was even breaking down in my head how I would improve this…and I’m not a producer lol
😂😂was so jarring qq
@JazIsAwsome2 she said confidence and class but then repeated bring confidence
@@amybrown9407 jarring is the perfect description lol
@@JazIsAwsome2 Me too lmao it could have been so much better
That’s your BEST FRIENDS baby and you don’t WANT to see the baby? That’s crazyyyy
Make it make sense 🤣 especially when they’re God mother🤦🏾♀️
A lot of people forget that in friendships you have obligations. You have things that you need to do for the sake of the friendship. Im not big on kids, but I always visited my friends when they had a new born.
I think they missed the deeper conversation. Its not even about being a Godparent. If you’re my friend and I love you I will be there to celebrate joyous occasions with you. That includes wedding, childbirth, graduation, business launch. The deeper point is Cookie doesn’t care about anyone but herself. You dont have to even be a Godparent to celebrate joyous occasions with a friend or support them. It sounds like she is self absorbed and didn’t even attempt to be supportive. I feel sorry for those that call her a friend
Someone who gets it 👏🏾
The guy in the white tee said this but the statement went over their head.
The guy in the white tee said this but the statement went over their head.
the guy with the dreads in blue said this at first ngl, you 100% right tho
I love how they completely forgot about the prompt and made the whole ep about Cookie 😂😂😂
😂 they lowkey turned it into the cookie show
@@mynameischyna “Cooking Cookie Show”
As a West African...uhmmm... this is a no brainer. If you're my close friend and you're in the same city, you have 2 weeks max bro. Let's not even talk of godparent.
I'm not asking you to raise my child. Childbirth is a deadly experience, at least check on me. Bring peppersoup and spend the afternoon with us, that's all. What are friends for?????
Ps: Scratch my back and I will scratch yours.
It’s so hilarious how Liah didn’t clock that Richez was TROLLING her 🤣, she was burningggg
Bless her gullible soul 😅
She’s too emotional😂
Cookie is foul asf. She agreed to be the godparent, but slates her friend for having a valid expectation for Cookie to be there for the baby in times of need smh. With friends like that, who needs enemies
facts why accept it if you know you dont want that role/responsibility? the girls disappointed me in this one for real
god parent doesn't mean anything just a fancy name
This cookie said she didn’t see the baby then later said the baby was crying at 3am when the friend was at hers. I think she made this up just to make the show about her..
What I was thinking
I believe she craves the attention. She’s a ‘by what ever means’ kind of person.
True, but it could still mean she didn’t see the baby
I'm actually shocked that the men on this lineup has more compassion empathy and actually knows what friendship is in comparison to the girls none of you are THAT busy you can't spare an hour out of your day to see your BEST FRIENDS child once a month or every other month? the girls are finished
I’m not, it’s cause men value children if they friends. My dad friends always look out for me and make sure I’m good even if we ain’t always on good terms. Moms friends too emotional and irrotational
@@lovergworl_ real
Men go to baby showers, turn up at the hospital and go to things they’re invited to for their friend’s children. Men have loyalty and treat their friends like family (from what I’ve seen).
@@moniquemonique4372 yup I've realised this with my friends now I'm thinking about it we dont meet up too often on a regular day but whenever a big occasion is happening, baby shower, birthday parties, graduation, wedding etc everyone turns up without fail
Men are also better parents statistically and have a stable emotional base. Women put their emotions on their child but fathers tend to shield the child from such things.
Cookie is DUN OUT HERE🙅🏾♂️💯😂😂
It’s the fact that cookie is opening her big mouth to say “I cut that baby off, I ain’t spoken to that baby in a year” and she’s proud….. chai it’s sorcery
Damn Cookie really Said F dem Kids all Episode
Can’t say that I blame her 😂
This should be a lesson to everyone to choose your friends and godmothers for your children wisely.
They sound insane. I was working 4 jobs at the time my goddaughter was born and I was able to see her. I’m down to two jobs and I see her at least twice a week. I LOVE that baby, I miss her when I don’t see her. Wtf?
I hope Cookies stands on business because when her own will come, hum. Don’t be changing your mind.
Fr!
One day cookie 🍪 will watch this video and be embarazzed
Brother eurgghh.. eurghh on this whole video
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cookie is seriously cooked. Lani 2.0😂
Naaa lani was never selfish
Also Liah getting trolled by Richez 🤣🤣🤣🤣 her mouth just yappa yappa but seeing her getting riled up is the best
Tosin remains man of the match, every episode
“Dead beat Godmother”🤣
EVERYONE definitely makes time for WHO & WHAT they want. Nobody as a parent would be asking you to be present daily but as a friend, taking an hour out of your time to see my child is pretty much basic.
At least she’s honest. There is a lot of people with Cookies mentality!
Cookie is a crap friend and even worse god parent
Leah is jarring looooool all she doing is shout and attack king🤣🤣🤣 trend central better casting next time pls
he was trying to wind her up and interrupting her
Cookie is a bad friend but with her own mouth just shows that guys that dont want to date baby mums arent crazy
Richez actually has a brain?? im impressed
Don’t accept the GODMOTHER role if you can’t live up to it
that guy next to King Richez high as fck 🤣
Yeah 😂😂😂😂😂 he can't even talk
@@jessicamane72 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
@@jessicamane72 HE WAS EVEN STRUGGLING TO OPEN HIS EYES
Godforbid having a Godmother like Cookie.
Hopefully thebparents see this and undo it 😂
Went from Godmother to Cookie Monster 🤣😂😭
The middle girl is too young to be here
May God never give me a friend like cookie wth 😢 you’ll also have a child too
I rebuke a friend like cookie
That’s kinda crazy. I’m godmother for my bbf’s daughter and she’s godmother for my son (they are exactly 3 months apart to the date). They live 3-4 hours away from me and we talk often, see each other at least every 3-6 months. Try to catch softball and football games, birthday sleepovers to pay her and her friends nails and play dress up. Idk I love my friend and goddaughter🤷🏽♀️
I LIKE COOKIE BUT I CANT SUPPORT HER IN THIS ONE SHE IS WRONG
Have watched 3 solid episodes and at this point I think COOKIE is the least intelligent person on the panel while Tosin is up there with the most intelligent one
Cookie ain't got social awareness combined with trauma issues
I hope cookie is saying this for the plot if not this generation is fucked💀
Is it not normal to be 23 with no kids 🥴
It is perfectly fine
@@maryhaward7022 but is it also not normal 😬
Kmt breh look around and see wtf this society is doing. Enough people don't have kids because of this cost of living/inflation crisis most of your age are living at your mums yard. No houses crap job market...you do the math
it is normal
Yes tf
One thing for certain is BKChat LDN no matter the cast will always be pure entertainment. Whose your favourite so far tho?
Tosin t high key 🥰
Love loyce though she wasn’t here today
😂 and cookie can’t not be fave her realness regardless of how it makes her look is refreshing to say the least 😅
I like loyce I missed her this episode, we went to the same secondary school aswell
Tosin,cookie and I thinks his name is Gabz
Tosinn
Dainez, tos lia and cookie 🍪 is funny
Cookie just wanna eat cookie n not see godchild
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nah she just wants her cookie ate😂😂😂
😂😂😂 nah real 🫗
🤣🤣 Daine , My Congolese sis 🇨🇩🇨🇩 make us proud
P Wave is making sense, true talk
this show has done terrible things for abigail lmfao her personality is so annoying
Makes sense why IVD went solo
Cookie has no empathy…
This is why i cant have godparents for my child, ppl are not trustworthy. Ppl not real
How can you have a God child and not see the child so many excuses. These girls will go see man and go clubbing but not to see their
friend is child scary
Yessss.........big up King Richez........I'm here to support King Richez.........King Richez is my bro
For real bro dont miss
King be killing me boi lool Liah couldnt handle him
I like Tosin and Dainee
Nobody cares that you had a baby though. We weren't there, nor did we make the decision. Not sure why people get so mad. Also, if someone is honest enough to say they do not want to be around your child, you should count your blessings and keep your baby safe.
Congolese people do have Godparents and I am VERY close to mine! Don’t mix us please I beg
I was about to say ... I know we grew up having God Parents 😂😂
There's a lot of women who think like Cookie. Narcissists who'll accept the title but don't have even one maternal bone in their body.
Last week she was quoting "I know my bible" to KingRichez and this week she's indifferent to being a Godmother. I'm so confused.😒
Putting that burden on someone who isn't blood is always sketchy regardless of the depth of your friendship.
Blood is simply thicker than water. Give that responsibility to someone in your family first even if you're closer to your friends.
Cookie said she hasn't seen the baby but then she said the woman stayed over with the baby? what's the truth? Also, if the story is true then she's a terrible person for brining her business on the show and sharing it with everyone so callously.
This show is just not long enough!!😂😂😂
To be fair - when cookie said she raised her little siblings i understood! Parentification makes relationships around other peoples children more difficult. It’s a trauma response
But of coz it’s no excuse - she needs to be more empathetic
Liah issa baby 🤣🤣 u can tell … so easily rattled
Get Liah and Abigail off the show UK beast for real their too aggressive
Aww thanks hun 🤭
Aww thank you baby ❤
They think they are
@@ABIGAILASANTEOFFICIALyou actually left the show because you said you were being bullied. My wish was granted
@@liahmonet.x Anorexic gal find some food
Having a baby makes you evaluate the people in your circle. You learn who values you by who makes time for you.
I’m not on this Episode but I’m gonna enjoy watching yall get dragged this week ok socials 😂
Cookie is actually useless, how can you say for show, definition of bad friend
Every week, they show us how "done out here" they are.
P.s. Cookie, you are ridiculous.
Very Ridiculous
LOOOOOL hater for sure
Cookie cookie cookie🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ the kind of girls I try hard to stay away from becauseeeeeeeeeee
That bredda talking bout his crib was hella Spac Nation vibes
they guy in blue and white gets on my nerves never lets anyone speak and just wants his point heard but then we he asks people a question he jumps at them like bro chill
If Cookie’s bedrins love their kids, dont dare make Cookie the Godmother 😂😂 she’ll be a ghost
Next time when cookie gets pregnant the baby dad should be worried 💀
I was loving Cookie until this episode? Cookie clearly lacks emotional awareness and is clearly coming across as an unreliable bad friend! This is so disappointing, I hope when it’s her turn she doesn’t experience what she is portraying 😢
cookies badmind
DAINEE is somebody’s “where have you been all my life” 😍😍🤩
Never in my life I thought I would agree with that King R man … yous r bad friends
I’ve told my friends don’t make me godmother bc I don’t want to have that level of responsibility! Agreeing to being a godparent knowing full well you won’t make an effort to be in the child’s life is WRONG! IMHO it’s the same level as a deadbeat dad.
Cookie will make time for man but not her new friends baby 🤯 we rebuke all kind of friends like that being a new mom is hard!!! It takes a village she will find out the hard way 👎🏾
31:44 BRO SPUN BACK AROUND THE BLOCK TO SEND MORE STRAYS AT COOKIE BRUV 😭😭🤣🤣💀💀
Cookie is talking rubbish, imagine you are going to have a child one day
The guys spoke facts in this episode atp get me on bkchat need more females with sense😂
Here before they change the title to episode 3
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😂
😂😂😂
What was the original title????
My best friend had a baby December 1st 2023, to my beautiful Goddaughter, and my graduation was Jan 26th 2024…I didn’t have time to see the baby before then,and obviously wasn’t expecting a new mum at my graduation…but in February, I took time off work and went to England to see them…these things aren’t hard…we are all busy but we definitely make time for the people we love.
Cookie is recklesssss 🤣🤣🤣
Cookie is doing too much. She’s jarring
People eat their words later in life in one form or another. At least this video will be a clear reference to these girls bickering about common sense, when they also experience the same treatment in a situation like the OP.
Smh how are the men more able to have maternal instincts and empathy about seeing your mate after they have a baby.
All I can see, the OP considers that person as their “close friend” and the friend is indifferent towards that title.
Cookie can’t have a baby her bmi too high
I don’t like sending hate but I swear this episode showed her true character
And it’s not pretty
@@PatriciaAmado-yx7jx right not cute at all
Oh snap they got king richez on this joint ok.
Cookie normally speaks truth, but today hold this L
Liah is making so many excuses 😂 go see your God child man
Cookie needs to understand that no matter how independent she thinks she is. No man is an island!
Cookie has just finished her self in the season she is weirdo !
The big girl and the muscular guy have mad sexual tension in every episode, Ill find out their names soon
THE BIG GIRL HELP ME😂😂😂
King Richez is the big man and he just has that masculine energy. I doubt very much he was interested like that but she’s not bad looking fr.
36:45
Oh, the irony in this statement coming from Cookie
Cookie is heartless…it takes a village to raise a child however I also understand that parents should not enforce or expect their friends to show up for them when it comes to raising their child people have their own lives … however if your close friend don’t come and see your newborn then you need to re-check your close friend list.
I never ever thought in this life or the next life I would agree with king richez or whatever his name is , cookie is strange
King Richez, and he is a very disciplined and successful gentleman.
Man like p wave
Just saw the intro ,
Jayde blac,liah monet & dainee are looking good👀👌🏽
Thank you❤