She Che@ted On Her Husband With Her Work Husband - OFF THE RECORD
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- "Off The Record" is a captivating new UA-cam show that delves into the untold stories behind trending topics and notable figures. In each episode, our host Mide fearlessly navigates the uncharted territory of off-the-record incidents, seeking to uncover the truth behind the headlines.
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Can we just cancel this interviewer since shes not fixing her faults 🥲🙄
Not everyone needs to be cancelled 🙄 if u don't like her stop watching lol
@merianviegas8822 Thanks fir that positive comment
No we can’t
We’re not watching because of her we’re watching because of the person being interviewed
@@Tracyauduexactly. And the interviewer is an interviewer. She’s not a therapist 🙄
What kind of interviewer is she? Asking the lady why she told her husband the truth & saying that she would’ve never …
I agree, it’s not that straight forward. I know someone who confessed to cheating on their partner with 8men, the guilt was getting to them.
The interviewer dont have integrity , she slept with and had relationships with her friends men … so when she was so understanding about the lady getting on stage and turning single, it make sense now
@@youngodyssey16really? 😂
@@philly1076 yes lol
Those were my exact tats she sounds like someone who wouldn't have owend up to her actions
Entertaining things like a “work wife” or “work husband” is essentially keeping the door ajar for infidelity down the road. It’s starts a slippery slope.
I will never & have never fixed my mouth to call no man my “work husband”
@@fayegillespie8426 yup.
@@fayegillespie8426it's not a matter of you calling it's work husband or work wife but it's a matter of entertaining another person while in a relationship. That's what the issue comes because if you are married then there is no reason to entertain the opposite gender.
And the fact that she said she would never tell her husband she cheated like??? What in the hell are you tryna say?? I wanna show her grace but I've watched several interviews right from the girl from Omah lay concert, the girl she last interviewed before this. It's just terrible. But the lady did well to speak her truth. Owned her wrongdoing and she will be able to grow from there
What i notice is that when these women cheat with the fun guy, 9 times out of 10 they want to be with him, but he doesn't want to be with her. i think that when women say they weren't getting at home they really are, but they block it out because it ruins their fantasy of this other person, that's what give it a rush.
I love her honesty and standing in her truth
Yasss gurllll💁🏻♀️
If it was a nigga I’m sure u wont be saying “I love his honesty and standing on his truth” gurlllll🙄
Im going to start using that phrase.. i see alot of women say that when a women destroys their relationship or be a ho … when men cheat on their wife and instead of communicating what they wabt and need in a relationship , just cheat, im going to say i love his honesty and stand in his truth ..
Yeah, rightfully so. I do not applaud it, but she learned from it.
@@louiseaori well she can live her truth. How do u find this inspiring.
Oh stop being vein and dense men do it all the time, and even lie or deny it shut up. Have never seen a men admit to cheating but they do it constantly.😒
She needs to find a different job interviewer has really issues with herself her attitude is a no no 😊
Side note. Body is TEAAAA 😍
YES. IN THAT DRESSS
Wheeew no offence to the interviewer but maybe do some introspection about the energy given off because the snarkiness is really… off putting. It feels like you bring flawed people on just to belittle and judge them in order to feel superior. I know criticism is hard to hear so I hope this is received in good faith and not as an attempt to be malicious.
Also glad this woman decided to tell the truth, do not hide affairs, your partners deserve better and God requires confession, repentance and accountability in order to absolve you of your sin. All truth IS good truth because it’s God who requires the truth before anyone else. Anyone who tells you otherwise is leading you away from Him and that’s a dangerous path.
I felt this too
Amen
The lady being interviewed, Lois, is BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I remember hearing about this happening at our church and she received a lot of judgment. I’m happy she was able to share her story.
The interviewer actually asked the right questions thus far. She's getting everything from her actual thoughts. Even the part that everyone hates in the comments on "why did you tell him" 95% wouldn't even had told they own spouse but quick to discredit someone for being open about how they handle something know if they ever got in those shoes then they would change their thought process
So nobody has Shame anymore? I’m sick of these negative topics in the black community. We need positive topics on relationships, marriage and careers
You clearly haven't watched this video if the first thing you think about is having shame
@@laxi8305 so you don’t think people should feel shame/be shamed for cheating? Problem with cheating is it destroys people. There is a real possibility that that man will go through life never trusting a woman, and worse, tormenting good women for what she did to him.
@@CTembothats not even the worse. Some men will even self delete over it.
Black people and especially Black women, love dysfunction. It's why BW in the comments 5 defending another BW making bad choices.
@@laxi8305 The major reason why the Japanese nation is as strong as it is economically and socially - one of the safest countries to live in, one of the greatest economies with not too a big a population - is that an individual understands that family is supreme and that nothing should be done to bring shame to the family. In black nations like Nigeria, South Africa, Jamaica, etc and places like the UK, the US, etc where black people are becoming an integral part of the society, we have lost shame and accountability, We have started to normalize certain behaviors and our communities are breaking down. This woman was part of a church, she had people who elevated her, people who emulated her, she had her Ugandan community, her parents and siblings. I don't know a society that doesn't look at this and say she didn't bring shame to them. I don't know a parent that would look at this and don't feel let down. And she did it with a man who was also in a relationship
If you don't know the value of loyalty, you'll never understand the damage of betrayal 💯
Facts
I liked the interviewer most ppl hate the truth,the reason society failed nowadays coz of lack of accountability,ppl looking for sympathy then continue the same mistakes over and over.
Cheating is just ugly!. When you're cheated on, it is one of the most painful emotions ever!!
Wow I’m sry. I don’t feel hurt from cheating. Is there something wrong with me?
@@MegaLadylove2012 no just something wrong with the men that never saw the red flags before being with you, for you to gloat online you cheat.
This is how you know cheating sucks and is painful for both parties with no good outcome. You can tell she's hurting knowing what she has done has not only caused her marriage and family to break down but she gets stigmatised errrday by it and it hurts her. Let alone knowing how much pain she caused her husband and child. In a nutshell she's hurt herself by her own actions cheating on her husband.
Any new guy that goes there knowing this woman is capable of stepping out easily is asking for unnecessary trouble. She had no respect for herself her husband or her child or marriage values or youth pastor duties. She Wrecked her relationship and marriage for what exactly?! It's mad yo. Hats off for being honest and speaking about it tho. The pain still sits deep inside her
Well said
Facts any man that goes in a relationship with her is fu*ked I hate cheaters ngl
You admitted? Why? Is wild 😂😂😂😂
I can appreciate the transparency and the honesty
I love the guest, what a beautiful woman! 😍 She seems humble, honest and genuine.
This interview is so wild solely because Loyce is so articulate, smart and seems really nice (despite the situation), but Mide seems cold and uneducated. Complete opposites
Yes, very cold. Idk if it's triggering for her to hear what the young lady is saying, but she's ice.
He was the first for everything. Including the first person to cheat on 😂😂😂
Not funny
Shes funny, you have to be a whole walking joke to say that seriously!
Ok..
Emotions is worst foundation for a marriage... For a principled man he can control his emotions for the greater good but for women.. Most can't they'll almost always yeild to emotions and that union will not work... Do your best to find one not ruled by emotions and you'd have found a rare gem
I like this is woman from backchat London s6 and I can’t be a hypocrite but this isn’t a flex I hope she is doing this for closure, healing , self awareness and real-ness. I hope she’s learned and gone through what God was teaching her in the suffering 💛 sending you healing sis.
cheating is wrong in a marriage 100%. Not condoning it at all but to then be violently abused for four months continuously is very cold. Anger can kill, we all need to learn how to use words.
Nobody cares
The moment you went "but" that was it for me.
Trash
U did not word this right delete n text over this g
I think this was a good interview dunno why peoole are angry at the interviewer, i didnt watch her first interview so i'm looking at it from a non biased view. She asked all the right questions & imo if we compare her to when zeze first started, shes waaay better. Zeze was always stuttering & you could see her thinking on the spot for questions to ask.
In terms of loyce i genuinely dont know what to make of her & i really hate to say this but i question if everything she says is true. In the first podcast she did she put emphasis on the fact that her husband had let himself go and she was no longer attracted to him but there was no mention of that here apart from the church bit.
I’m confused about what the issue with the interviewer is…are y’all that soft??
Thats what I'm saying lol people are too sensitive 😂
I've been waiting to see it but she seems to do a pretty good job to me. People are definitely being overly harsh.
Hold this woman accountable for her actions
She has literally literally held herself accountable
@@JayWilliams-fq3gmNo she did not try to put it on him because real
She is not holding herself accountable if she thought she would cheat and the marriage not change she is dumb
Who even came up with "spouse work" thing? How does that even make sens. Work suppose to be professional and spouse concept is personal, intimate. Right opposite to one another.
I think the interviewer is JUST SO focused on her questions or popping her questions out to keep the flow , that she fails TERRIBLY in the empathy and relatability category
Interviewers aren’t supposed to sway the viewers emotions or perceptions. You ask straightforward questions and the person being interviewed will react naturally.
So the cheats are suddenly the victims; I don't care what you're suffering through; you either talk about it or break up; the solution was not to connect with another person; the sheer audacity, you took a commitment; this generation is full of selfish individuals. The interviewer is for the streets; what kind of counsel is that? If any young women are watching this, please do not follow the advice of any of these people; instead, learn from their mistakes.
Your too logical bro. These dumb hoes lack comprehension
"i wanna take you somewhere and wtach the wind blow through your hair" its interesting how women differ because this would absolutely make me cringe. Id think its something the guy had heard in a rom com. It's too cheesy & sounds like something you say just to flatter someone & anyone really.
Women always try to comfort other knowing they are wrong.
Imagine her husband listening
After all this realization, I wish the husband can also retrospect and realize his own mistakes. So that this family can come back again. I believe there is no marriage Jesus cannot fix you only we would allow Him. May you both find all the healing you need IJN
Not after infidelity. That's next level
There’s no coming back from Infidelity and it should remain that way
Clown talk. Never
“If I stayed, I may have taken my own life” 😂😂😂😂
You needed to cheat otherwise you might die?? You came clean because you were so tired of being caught telling multiple lies?
Lmao I love women bruh but they shoulda never gave them gaslighting fr 💀
From what I personally grabbed from that take and the context surrounding it, I think she was referring to the atmosphere of her previous marriage before the cheating came in place.
I translated it as her feeling of deep isolation and neglect caused her to lose her urge to live, which may have driven her to seek the attention from someone else.
Another pov was I saw it be a foreshadowing statement.. basically down the line after she confessed to cheating, her deep sense of guilt resulted in her accepting the DV that she was going through.
In such a low moment in life, some people feel they have no other option but to take their own lives.
@@__ed.wina___8918lets cut the crap she had the energy to cheat but didnt have the energy to leave a toxic marriage women cheat more than men but society makes seem otherwise nobody is perfect but she could have avoided a lot of pain
@@__ed.wina___8918makes sense from her upbringing and character we always have a tendency to learn the hard way unfortunately
@@__ed.wina___8918👏🏾 thank you
Big up the young lady for being truthful to your husband.
You are never wrong for doing the right thing.
Loyce, im proud of you for sharing your story. People who are judging the most, do not know you. We know who you are! Who you really are. Love you x
And im sure you didnt hold her accpuntable for being a whore and destroying her family. Typical of Women excusing each others destructive behavior
She did a wonderful job with this interview…. I really believe that women are so conditioned to be held for everything that yall feel that someone is cold hearted if they dont cater to your feelings even when you are in the wrong.. the question she ask is and was very important to ask cause we cant keep saying vague statements and wondering why we are getting the same results… ill do a reaction video to this cause i didnt like the victim but after using words and explaining more vs saying it’s complicated or i was young and didnt know better , i can feel and want her in better situations… if yall dont want someone to ask hard questions then stop making poor decisions.. what she did is what men have to do when talking to women at time, we must filter out questions so that we dont make you close off and try not to say bad words cause that in a way doesn’t help.. the host isnt a angel, her integrity is diff , she will fuc your man after you and date him. I love her questions and set ups
32:52 She knew damn well she couldn’t complain to her AFRICAN dad about no domestic violence that had no physical violence and was just him yelling or using the bathroom for 30 mins after work all day STAAAAWP THE BS
Shamelessness is a skill I don’t want to have….God forbid!
I only watched because the interviewer doesn't seem fake nor insecure. Rare to see.❤
I came here to comment about the interviewer but all the existing comments already proved I don’t need to say anything anymore
So after watching this it was her husband fault that made her cheat .I am seeing its never a woman's fault when we cheat its always the mans fault
Exactly my thought, and I have been looking for this comment. If a partner is not content with the marriage or relationship, just leave or divorce rather than saying the man/woman made you to do it because you weren't getting all the attention. Do you know what your partner is going through in their own life, work, family stress, new child in, bills/debts etc and have to keep up with their own life. Just divorce or leave rather cheat and blame someone else.
Its never the woman fault love. Always our fault. Even if we worship the ground you walk on and give you the world, if you cheat, its our fault. Its why men are not interested in dating anymore.
Respectfully, this interviewer should find another line of work.
The lady is a very good interviewer
all these comments being more upset at cheating than the man being a neglectful, ABUSIVE husband. typical 🙄 any sane person would understand why she did what she did
Y’all could’ve kept this still
Whoever is dating the interviewer I’m very sorry for you
Really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you, your ex and the little one all the best and I hope yous all heal and have peace.
Loved this interview
I knew tears were coming!😂😂
Of course the go to for when they cannot take accountability
@@AnodaWunhonestly my impulse to a woman’s tears is rage. It took a long time to realise these lot do it on purpose as a weapon of emotional appeal. Doesn’t work on me
@@CTembo unfortunately that makes very few of us men. Many men fold immediately so the nonsense behaviour never goes away.
These tears are nothing in comparison to when your mum realised you were in her stomach
@@loycenagawa8638 something about having the audacity after going on a platform to describe how you humiliated and destroyed your family unit for selfish desires. Incredible 💀
She not qualified to be an interviewer. She needs training and skills.
Students have no filter. They would use this on you.
Would mide have the same sympathy and understanding if the guy was the one cheating?
Fellas....watch, listen and learn closely!
This is your woman too, yes YOUR woman!
She's either done it, doing it or is on the route to doing it!
Observe.....
Best thing don't have no woman
She cheated and she's at his mercy to change!! 😂😂😂😂
The interview needs to look for other professions. She lacks authenticity, prospective and empathy. It seems like she’s trying to put on the shoes of too many interviewers and has no sense of self
Her body is everything
You guys are a shame! Stop this ! Why are you guys having this stupid discussions. I hate to see this
Go elsewhere babes x
Agreed. More blamimg men and women lacking accountability.
Why is the interviewer so backwards. I dont get the approach. She always seems to try and belittle her guests 😒
I don't see anything wrong with the interviewer. She asked straight questions as it should be. Or you wanted her to use nice words to satisfy someone's emotions?
Isn’t the interviewer even the same woman that said she’d date her friends exs..
yep😂
Very good interview
I feel like the interview is TRYING to be neutral 🤣. The lady sounds like she’s taking accountability.
the interviewer is heartbreaking
The work husband na Naija boy for sure
why naija man go sleep with married woman e no dey good na, see now her marriage is ruined
The interviewer is silly saying she wouldn't tell or say anything
I love her open and honesty, i believe she has learned her lesson, sometimes we learn and grow the most, through our mistakes, we all have messed up, and to only pick out certain mistakes and nail that person to the cross is foolishness especially if the person has learned, repeated, and JESUS has forgiven them( because she is forgiven) I believe through this experience she found herself as well, I also hope her ex husband has learned, grown, and repented for what he has done as well❤
Love the honesty
Good interview.
The interviewer's framing of questions?? This isn't the first or second interview I've watched. Trend CNTRL please???
Really enjoyed the interview.
Wait, this is the same girl that was on a datumg show. Wow! You'd have no idea that she's been through all of this.
She looks like iyanla
This story is mad but shout out to the single mothers out there because it really is isolating and theres days they genuinely dont talk or communicate with anybody..
Never, ever mix business with pleasure! Married or single!
You were a mom, teacher and youth pastor. But not a wife
This reminds me of that Tyler Perry temptation movie smh
These comments alone makes me want to not even watch.
Being an empath this is heartbreaking to watch 💔 she’s so delicate and she’s a beautiful person. I don’t like the interviewer anyways but she cheated for a good reason and she should have no shame.
Why you putting your business out there like this? so confused.
also confused... this interview is so random
This ladies took no accountability for her actions. She literally blamed her husband for cheating on him. I'm not surprised though, it's a common MO.
True that
I would cheat too …
Good on you
Trend central why have you got this lady interviewing someone again she’s too someway
Typical Ugandan 🇺🇬 girl in London behaviour lol
Lol not really 😂😂😂
Such an inspiring beautiful message🥹❤️and so encouraging to other women and their own stories! I’d encourage everyone to watch THE FULL VIDEO, a very needed discussion towards very difficult subjects! It’s not easy to come out and share this, She’s a big role model to many including myself 💖💖!
This generation they don't know how to hide their sin, and the bad thing about this is she's a teacher, but she's telling the world that she cheated on her husband because she was selfish and now trying to make an excuse for her adultery 🤦🏿♂️
The lady being interviewed should be the interviewer 🫣 she is way more empathetic and articulate
Yes ! Definitely don’t like the interviewer
Of course she’s empathetic to her own situation that’s a dumb comment
Empathy is putting yourself in someone else’s shoes emotionally so what made you think my comment is about her empathising with herself - that’s doesn’t even make sense. You cannot be empathetic to yourself and your saying my comment is dumb, you have a lack of comprehension skills….. I’m talking about in regards to her being able to put herself in her fathers shoes, her child’s shoes, her former husbands shoes irregardless of his abuse etc. That’s a skill no everyone has, the interviewer is cold and clinical. More of a interrogation than a conversation she’s lucky the other girl has empathy as was able to deep dive into how the situation made others feels vs just herself or this would have been one dry interview…..
@@stefanmurrell5857 just because you took time to write a long a paragraph it doesn’t make it true why would it matter in this case the person being interviewed who did the wrong and looking for sympathy, if they had empathy for others come one that’s just a bunch of mumbo jumbo
@@connecttadot5168 the paragraph made perfect sense. I feel you may just struggle to comprehend. The underlying point is, no one, absolutely no one is perfect. And it's clear as day the interviewer believes her excrement doesnt stink.
Sorry the interviewer just isn’t it.I don’t know if it’s just her tone but she comes across as mad fake, kind of a mean girl and judgy. She doesn’t seem to have much life experience or have interacted with a wide variety of people.
i agree
Perfectly said!
It's like she's forcing this Conservative image. She should do the bbc news. She needs to be herself
I agree especially when she asked the question at 36:31. She could have phrased it in a better way “what does co-parenting look like now after separating from your ex-husband” but NOPE she had to mention “infidelity”, making a mockery out of the situation 🙄🥴
So did Wendy Williams so …
Takes a lot of humility to be vulnerable. I wish healing for both parties
The lady being interviewed is so stunning 🤍
A repugnant cheat
Too much paint on her face tho
@@j.samuel9646her makeup is subtle not even close to too much
Not for any of my 3 boys
I agree. She is stunning.
I can just imagine the energy level in that interview. The energy from the interviewer seems so undeniably off. She doesn't seem genuine. Just what im picking up.
I agree
Because she don't know how to speak properly, that young lady who had gone viral taught her a lesson and yes she is very rude with attitude that make she guests feel uncomfortable
110% its all a numbers game
I agree she does not seem genuine at all
There’s actually A LOT to learn from this interview- thank you sis for sharing your story ❤
Yeah, never trust a women talking about men's control....
@DrJessicaKatanga, there really is!🙂 And she is honestly brave for having this conversation openly for others to learn from her mistakes. I would have taken it to my grave.🤣
The interviewer can’t even pretend to have empathy for her. How is she speaking about her deceased father and her response is “mmm, mmm”
It’s so strange. Her reaction to the violence and domestic abuse was so wooden and cold.
She shouldn't have empathy for a cheater.
why should she have empathy for her she cheated
Lol empathy is something you either have or do not have , it's relative not a default trait.
@@SherryMoore-ij1qcno one should feel bad for a domestic abuser and a woman beater being cheated on. He deserved a lot worse than that for being a terrible spouse. You can’t behave like trash and expect your wife to remain loyal to you
The interviewer is weird. Ugandan Sis was baring her soul and the interview is staring at her like she is more interested in watching paint dry. No wonder that other girl (Think its Tomello or something) dragged her to hell
Has she brushed up on her interview skills so she doesn't get dragged by her nostrils again 😂
😂😂😂😂 that was an epic interview
😂😂😂
And the answer is: no, she hasn’t!
wtf😂😂😂
I think this was a good interview 👌🏿
The lady conducting the interview seems to have no empathy.
Clearly lacking in general interviewing skills, especially on a sensitive topic such as domestic abuse/ domestic violence. I get it, trend centrl is about vibes, but where’s the advice and information for viewers who might be experiencing DA/DV? Where’s the duty of care for others, could’ve at least signposted to services such as NIA, women’s aid etc. overall, interesting life story, terrible interviewer
First comment i see, first thing i thought.
Empathy for a dirty fn cheat??
She's a narcissist.
Remember in the Tumelo interview she said “I’m an amazing person“ ot “it's giving part-time prostitution“ or when she said somewhere else she would date her friends ex and has done it before.
She's not meant to have . Certainly not for a married woman who sleeps with next man and then wonders why her husband is annoyed about it
She hasn’t learned at all. Now, it makes sense why that Tumelo interview went the way it did. 🤦🏾♀️
I really wanted to bring this up😂😂😂. That Tumelo show was something else. At least Tumelo was bold enough to go toe-to-toe with her. That was an awkward interview.😅
shes terrible 😂