oh my fucking god denmo get out of my head how are you always spot on. i haven’t been here for a while because i thought i hadn’t needed to hear it anymore but damn i needed this. thanks dawg
Man I'm pushing 34 and let me tell you that almost all the boomers i meet and talk to tell me the same thing that modern men are really sadly directionless .. its sad but true! You gotta become a focused specific rather than a wandering generality.
I’m 39 and what is shocking to me is the victimhood that many young men have adopted. I don’t even know what to say to young men that want everyone to feel sorry for them and then they turn around and wonder why they can’t attract women…?
@@brianmeen2158Bro you're old as hell should it not be common sense that women are very different now? Completely different standards and priorities, most chicks now wouldn't recognize a real man right in front of them
Listening to you makes me wanna cry. Because it's all so true. After a long day of my shitty job, I just feel like stuffing my face with junk food and watch porn or whatever, just to stop this feeling of pain.
For most people the issue is not motivation in itself, but finding something worthwhile and viable. In career for example, as a young man you may want to create a business or become a higly successful professional. Fine, however it will entail huge risks, have an immense cost in other areas of your life, and it is not for everyone. Some young men get trapped so hard in the idea they have to "become something" that they forget life is supposed to be enjoyed. Find something YOU truly enjoy and try to build a life that's designed for YOU.
I’m 23 and have high functioning autism, most of my life I’ve been different and making excuses most of my life but now I’m slowly but surely becoming more aware than I was in the past, it still kills me to this day feeling dead inside from my past from not catching the interest of a lot of girls, making excuses etc.
I really love this video. I have never been too scared to stop doing things I knew that they wouldn't help me progress in life and chase my dreams. For example I did my school degree in a college that specializes for electric engineering. I liked it but I realized that it wasn't for me so I tried to study renewable energies in uni. Again I realized that engineering is fun but I don't wanna be stuck at a lame job researching windmills my whole life. Other people like my classmates or fellow students always told me to stick to the subject. "Come on bro just pull through. You can't just quit this. Why are you moving to another smaller city? Are you stupid?" So I decided to finally switch to engineering and management, where I will learn very valuable skills for starting my own business or becoming a manager. I realized that I want to travel, I want to work with people and be social. I don't want to be stuck in a lab. I don't want to do the same shit every day. I want to help people find solutions for their problems, but instead of creating the products I want to sell them.
I see the unsatisfied people and was one of them for decades. I thought pleasure was the reason to live life. I wasn't thinking about why I was doing anything passed a couple levels of thinking. I thought having hobbies that were constructive, challenging, exciting or fun was all I needed from life. I thought the reason I was getting crushed by women most of my life was the women's fault. I thought, "she sucks that's why I'm hurt and they are leaving". Only after i got sober did the cascade of problems that was causing my life to be difficult for me came to fruition. It was the lack of discipline, responsibility, awareness and understanding of my self that got me where i was. The reason our world has gotten so out of control is because we are not doing enough to protect it. The distraction from reality is easier then dealing with it. Now I'm dedicating my life to getting people to open their eyes and reach their potential. Thanks for the videos Denmo, You have made a difference in my life and countless others.
Man I’m 27 now, I was about 23 when I first felt that somewhere inside I was kinda “dead”. In high school I was pretty much okay, just hanging out with some random friends, not missing anything. But the university years after that were also a bit about all my existing friends slowly disappearing and me not being able to make new ones. I went to Uni from home every day, and all these big social things made me feel sick anyway. Shared dorm room? yuck! But despite all the bullshit, at least I managed to get a degree in IT, and I'm dating a girl by some miracle... I just feel like this whole previous period has burned me out, I'm a bit addicted to video games and porn (I'm not interested in much, everything bores me), so it's hard to convince myself, plus the girl, that I'm an interesting and valuable person after all... At least I managed to do this at this point, cross your fingers for me guys 😅😅
hey man i read ur comment and i’m sorry to hear that ur “existing “ friends are disappearing and ur struggling to make new friends. i’m happy to hear u have a degree and have a girl in your life. i just wanted to let you know i hope u find hobbies that interest you, i hope u step into ur being and realize that u are a valuable person, that ur girl sees something in u that u don’t realize yet that she’s into. do good things in ur life i hope for the best.
Honestly, I'm just fucking scared. My last relationship ended in 2018. We were together for 4 years out of high school, and the first year was the only good one. I was a doormat, and I let her play mind games that really fucked with my head and my confidence. Plus, being 18, I didn't know shit about love or relationships, and fell for the "true love" meme. I've learned a lot since then though. I'm moving to a different city in a couple months, so I'm going to get back out there then.
Find yourself a good hard challenge to conquer like walking the length of the Pacific Crest Trail or riding a bicycle coast to coast. On your death bed you'll be thinking about all the cool shit you did and people you loved, not any job...
i am 30 years old, work as a doctor but i just don´t know how to find my life goal or dream. i realize i never had one. i went to high school, had a great childhood, lots of fun in college, but now in debts and working really hard, but not going anywhere 5 years since i graduated from med school. i have some hobbies like language learning, reading books or listening to audiobooks, hitting the gym, traveling 1 or 2 times a year. but it´s just sad i dont have a goal or dream. how am i supposed to find it ?
Find yourself a good hard challenge to conquer like walking the length of the Pacific Crest Trail or riding a bicycle coast to coast. On your death bed you'll be thinking about all the cool shit you did and people you loved, not any job...
If youre gen Z and spent anytime in highschool in a zoom call - its over for you. I believe spending that part of your life not socializing you, has messed you up mentally, stunted even.
I want to start a dropshipping business and earn at least 1k per month. I tried last year and failed because I did everything wrong. I'm age 42 and never had any financial stability, I've been on welfare since 2015 and working only 16hrs per week. I live in government housing which is quite a drag. I see young men half my age owning houses, millions in the bank and hot women.
jack, in college. just took a break with my gf who i love and who is amazing because i have uncontrollable feelings of lust for other women physically. i was completely honest with her. she said if what it takes for me to figure out what i want is for me to explore with other women, than she understands. it’s now 3 days later and i have talked to a couple other girls but i never realized how much i took for granted the intellectual skills of my gf/ex atm. is this feeling normal?
Is it not the duty of a man to learn how to control his lust? If you were not attracted to her then that is a different story, but you can easily lose a good girl by getting too cocky and letting your dick make decisions for you. Women are always going to look hot, but you aren’t always going to come across one who you really like and connect with.
Bro you need to try something new for your content. I used to watch your every video back then but right know I just skipp most of them cause it's always the same stuff u talking about. Repetitive
@@Big_talks.yeah I honestly cannot imagine being a content creator that covers culture specific issues like dating .. worse yet would be fitness - I Mean there’s only so much you can say about exercise and diet But yeah the guy is right - these content creators go over the same damn things over and over. It’s beyond tired
I don’t watch your videos often anymore (because I don’t need to) ; but I do appreciate that you are still helping young men out. 🙏
man you gotta email me a testimonial of how you got results !
oh my fucking god denmo get out of my head how are you always spot on. i haven’t been here for a while because i thought i hadn’t needed to hear it anymore but damn i needed this. thanks dawg
Man I'm pushing 34 and let me tell you that almost all the boomers i meet and talk to tell me the same thing that modern men are really sadly directionless .. its sad but true! You gotta become a focused specific rather than a wandering generality.
I’m 39 and what is shocking to me is the victimhood that many young men have adopted. I don’t even know what to say to young men that want everyone to feel sorry for them and then they turn around and wonder why they can’t attract women…?
@@brianmeen2158 decreasing levels of testosterone and no hardship in life has made them brittle
@shaun3713 what's stopping you from leveling up? Some bullshit excuse?
Boomers are mostly clowns. Their lack of direction brought us in this situation now....
@@brianmeen2158Bro you're old as hell should it not be common sense that women are very different now? Completely different standards and priorities, most chicks now wouldn't recognize a real man right in front of them
I'm a young woman but I know I needed to hear this..
Listening to you makes me wanna cry. Because it's all so true.
After a long day of my shitty job, I just feel like stuffing my face with junk food and watch porn or whatever, just to stop this feeling of pain.
For most people the issue is not motivation in itself, but finding something worthwhile and viable. In career for example, as a young man you may want to create a business or become a higly successful professional. Fine, however it will entail huge risks, have an immense cost in other areas of your life, and it is not for everyone. Some young men get trapped so hard in the idea they have to "become something" that they forget life is supposed to be enjoyed. Find something YOU truly enjoy and try to build a life that's designed for YOU.
Alligning my life with the ideas in the book "The Way of the Superior Man" has genuinely changed my life
That's a very good book, read it before
I’m 23 and have high functioning autism, most of my life I’ve been different and making excuses most of my life but now I’m slowly but surely becoming more aware than I was in the past, it still kills me to this day feeling dead inside from my past from not catching the interest of a lot of girls, making excuses etc.
Same exact situation. Same age too.
We’ll make it
You’re reminding me that I have to get to work on my novel tonight.
good man my job is done
Yes. I also see this trend. Everyboldy too busy and don't even wanna meet up. Not asking much. Once a month would have been fine.
How's that a trend?
Gonna be 28 in a few days this is a wake up call thank you 💯
I really love this video. I have never been too scared to stop doing things I knew that they wouldn't help me progress in life and chase my dreams. For example I did my school degree in a college that specializes for electric engineering. I liked it but I realized that it wasn't for me so I tried to study renewable energies in uni. Again I realized that engineering is fun but I don't wanna be stuck at a lame job researching windmills my whole life.
Other people like my classmates or fellow students always told me to stick to the subject. "Come on bro just pull through. You can't just quit this. Why are you moving to another smaller city? Are you stupid?"
So I decided to finally switch to engineering and management, where I will learn very valuable skills for starting my own business or becoming a manager.
I realized that I want to travel, I want to work with people and be social.
I don't want to be stuck in a lab. I don't want to do the same shit every day. I want to help people find solutions for their problems, but instead of creating the products I want to sell them.
I see the unsatisfied people and was one of them for decades. I thought pleasure was the reason to live life. I wasn't thinking about why I was doing anything passed a couple levels of thinking. I thought having hobbies that were constructive, challenging, exciting or fun was all I needed from life. I thought the reason I was getting crushed by women most of my life was the women's fault. I thought, "she sucks that's why I'm hurt and they are leaving". Only after i got sober did the cascade of problems that was causing my life to be difficult for me came to fruition. It was the lack of discipline, responsibility, awareness and understanding of my self that got me where i was. The reason our world has gotten so out of control is because we are not doing enough to protect it. The distraction from reality is easier then dealing with it. Now I'm dedicating my life to getting people to open their eyes and reach their potential.
Thanks for the videos Denmo, You have made a difference in my life and countless others.
What was your poison of choice? Alcohol?
@@stayhuman7244 marijuana, and Alcohol video games have been a problem too.
@@stayhuman7244 I would say the real poison was escapism from my problems. and the big ones i used for that was Alcohol, weed and videogames.
Just what I needed to hear Jack 🤙🏼
Man I’m 27 now, I was about 23 when I first felt that somewhere inside I was kinda “dead”. In high school I was pretty much okay, just hanging out with some random friends, not missing anything. But the university years after that were also a bit about all my existing friends slowly disappearing and me not being able to make new ones. I went to Uni from home every day, and all these big social things made me feel sick anyway. Shared dorm room? yuck! But despite all the bullshit, at least I managed to get a degree in IT, and I'm dating a girl by some miracle... I just feel like this whole previous period has burned me out, I'm a bit addicted to video games and porn (I'm not interested in much, everything bores me), so it's hard to convince myself, plus the girl, that I'm an interesting and valuable person after all... At least I managed to do this at this point, cross your fingers for me guys 😅😅
hey man i read ur comment and i’m sorry to hear that ur “existing “ friends are disappearing and ur struggling to make new friends. i’m happy to hear u have a degree and have a girl in your life. i just wanted to let you know i hope u find hobbies that interest you, i hope u step into ur being and realize that u are a valuable person, that ur girl sees something in u that u don’t realize yet that she’s into. do good things in ur life i hope for the best.
🗣️🎷THERE IS NOTHING HOLDING ME BACK 🗣️🎷
It's not bad to be comfortable, it's bad to be complacent. There's a good type of comfort as well
yes!!! thank you for making a free group.
you're right, you know what I all-in
Honestly, I'm just fucking scared. My last relationship ended in 2018. We were together for 4 years out of high school, and the first year was the only good one. I was a doormat, and I let her play mind games that really fucked with my head and my confidence. Plus, being 18, I didn't know shit about love or relationships, and fell for the "true love" meme. I've learned a lot since then though. I'm moving to a different city in a couple months, so I'm going to get back out there then.
Bro it feels like you’re speaking specifically to me on this thank you for this
Find yourself a good hard challenge to conquer like walking the length of the Pacific Crest Trail or riding a bicycle coast to coast. On your death bed you'll be thinking about all the cool shit you did and people you loved, not any job...
facts, that sounds awesome btw
i am 30 years old, work as a doctor but i just don´t know how to find my life goal or dream. i realize i never had one. i went to high school, had a great childhood, lots of fun in college, but now in debts and working really hard, but not going anywhere 5 years since i graduated from med school. i have some hobbies like language learning, reading books or listening to audiobooks, hitting the gym, traveling 1 or 2 times a year. but it´s just sad i dont have a goal or dream. how am i supposed to find it ?
God
Find yourself a good hard challenge to conquer like walking the length of the Pacific Crest Trail or riding a bicycle coast to coast. On your death bed you'll be thinking about all the cool shit you did and people you loved, not any job...
Just missing the hat and cigar in the thumbnail from being Isambard Kingdom Brunel
this place is hell lol
the taper off meds.. a traumatical process
This hits hard 😢
If youre gen Z and spent anytime in highschool in a zoom call - its over for you. I believe spending that part of your life not socializing you, has messed you up mentally, stunted even.
I was apart of this
Fear.
5:25 this part hit too strong, sorry boys I just had to save it in here
"Bumble date w a 4/10 land whale" Hahaha!!
I want to start a dropshipping business and earn at least 1k per month. I tried last year and failed because I did everything wrong. I'm age 42 and never had any financial stability, I've been on welfare since 2015 and working only 16hrs per week. I live in government housing which is quite a drag. I see young men half my age owning houses, millions in the bank and hot women.
jack, in college. just took a break with my gf who i love and who is amazing because i have uncontrollable feelings of lust for other women physically. i was completely honest with her. she said if what it takes for me to figure out what i want is for me to explore with other women, than she understands. it’s now 3 days later and i have talked to a couple other girls but i never realized how much i took for granted the intellectual skills of my gf/ex atm. is this feeling normal?
Is it not the duty of a man to learn how to control his lust? If you were not attracted to her then that is a different story, but you can easily lose a good girl by getting too cocky and letting your dick make decisions for you. Women are always going to look hot, but you aren’t always going to come across one who you really like and connect with.
Nobody ever knows what they have until it's gone.
@@DeltaTempest yeah bro. is that normal
stupid mistake. ngl. she would be smart to run.
@@g3n0sc1d3Sounds like an excuse to get wihh her.
Great video Denmo.
Thanks Den I needed this today
bro doesnt blink
Lol good eye
Maybe you're just blinking at the exact same time as him... 🤔🤔
Fr
Denmo buddy let’s hop on a pod.
Great video bro! 💪🏼🔥💯
That is the hard thing, meet new amazing people, especially when you never social or you are kinda autistic.
im waiting for 200-300 dollars , that would save my life
Wow! Can't believe this was all just..one huge advertisement for some skool community...yippee?
Thank you ❤
Needed this
I love you bro..
You seem depressed bro. Hope you are doing good.
❤❤❤
Man that hit me hard 😅
I'm the 50th person to like this video...
Typical of modern men to care so much about dumb things.
you are just a narcissist
Smoke devils lettuce
Yo
I hate this. Tomorrow I’ll do better
I love my fat girlfriend, wat u talkin about, bro~
Bro you need to try something new for your content. I used to watch your every video back then but right know I just skipp most of them cause it's always the same stuff u talking about. Repetitive
@@Big_talks.yeah I honestly cannot imagine being a content creator that covers culture specific issues like dating .. worse yet would be fitness - I
Mean there’s only so much you can say about exercise and diet
But yeah the guy is right - these content creators go over the same damn things over and over. It’s beyond tired
it doesnt help that his advice isnt even good advice. who the fuck takes advice from someone who doesnt even have a stable loving relationship lmao