can you be friends with an ex?

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @randommemes9125
    @randommemes9125 Рік тому +35

    miss u so much Cammie you were my roman empire.. U were the first one i watched on youtube and helped me alot when i was on the most confusing stage of my life.. thank u for your (and ur ex) videos i learned alot and that i was normal.. and there are ppl that are like me too..im sorry im just rambling .. its just that watching you and the old youtubers makes me go back to that specific moment in my life..

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +13

      i love you!!!! wild to realize how much we have all grown up together 🥹

  • @oopskye
    @oopskye Рік тому +14

    if you want your ex to still be in your life in the future, you CANNOT be friends with them right after the breakup. my ex was my best friend so we tried for TWO YEARSSS to stay friends and it was actually torture and so awful that we eventually went no contact and now I never want to speak to her ever again even though I miss being friends with her, solely bc of how bad and toxic it got while we were “friends”. DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKEEEE

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +3

      we can all say it in hindsight but everyone going through a fresh breakup is like 🙉🙈 what? sorry, i didn’t catch that? hahaha

  • @ellieschrock
    @ellieschrock Рік тому +44

    this pod is the only thing getting me through finals

    • @elladavis3224
      @elladavis3224 Рік тому +2

      literally same

    • @elladavis3224
      @elladavis3224 Рік тому +4

      just got back from the library where i spent the last 6 hours so yeah it’s really getting me through

    • @maddiericcinto
      @maddiericcinto Рік тому +3

      I was literally just abt to comment this i studied for 3 hours earlier,cried and gave up

    • @Anouddw
      @Anouddw Рік тому

      same

    • @oopskye
      @oopskye Рік тому

      this

  • @lylaoldham5918
    @lylaoldham5918 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes you can be friends with an EX, I have been friends with my EX for over 8yrs since we split and we make far better friends than lovers. She knows me so well and I know her the same that when we talk about things that are affecting us we have unspoken ability to decifer what each others thought process is and are able to give every inciteful answers to each other, it's the most constructive non romantic relationship that I have ever had in my life and I am 58yrs old and she is 40yrs old.would never trade the journey I have had with her. She is also standing beside me when I marry my finance in 2025❤

    • @livewithintention1625
      @livewithintention1625 7 місяців тому

      That's so lovely! It's definitely not a one size fits all, every situation is different

  • @tiva2909
    @tiva2909 11 місяців тому +2

    7:37 I love how much you guys commit to the bit. It’s most precious thing. You guys play pretend like this all the time and it’s so sweet to watch. I hope to find a dynamic like this one day.

  • @polinavyakhireva9962
    @polinavyakhireva9962 Рік тому +7

    yes, no contact right after a break up is a MUST!

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +6

      louder for the breakups in the back!!!! haha

  • @joeljanzen8121
    @joeljanzen8121 Рік тому +5

    Thanks for doing such a great episode on breakups :D
    Agreed 100%! Give tons of space after a breakup.
    The only time I've had it be okay to talk to / befriend an ex was after a few years, where both of us had completely moved on.

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому

      exactly!! hardest advice to take but so necessary

  • @cephinisemodestin3348
    @cephinisemodestin3348 Рік тому +7

    20:35-I just Googled it, and she's right! Snoop Dogg's mom called him that because he was a fan of the show Peanut.

  • @elladavis3224
    @elladavis3224 Рік тому +8

    the burp is how you got from family dynamics to slim jim!!!

  • @onanadventure5855
    @onanadventure5855 Рік тому +1

    Can’t believe Parenthood is your fav TV show! It’s my fav TV show of all time and almost no one I know has even heard of it. Wow…I knew I love you guys for a reason, lol. But seriously ✨🙌

  • @nickelgallo
    @nickelgallo Рік тому +2

    Cam saying 'oh what's up guys' so casually at 4:14 made me feel some type of way, respectfully.

  • @Emma-fj5zs
    @Emma-fj5zs Рік тому +2

    you two are the only reason I am getting through finals

  • @TheKateasrophe
    @TheKateasrophe Рік тому +2

    'girl who feels like a punching bag' here - thank you for your kind words !! lots of love from England x

  • @sofiabessette7025
    @sofiabessette7025 Рік тому +2

    Thank god for this I genuinely just adore these every week xx

  • @Hollymodz
    @Hollymodz Рік тому +2

    best thing to see as soon as I get home from work!! love the pod

  • @krystalbonilla964
    @krystalbonilla964 Рік тому +4

    Cammie, I need a pair of ur slippers, what brand? And Taryn love the natural hair today! ❤

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +3

      they are just random ones on amazon but truly they’re awful haha i just got them and already want new ones

  • @feliciasedillo7127
    @feliciasedillo7127 Рік тому +1

    Fun fact- I just rewatched Friday Night Lights and “Joel” is also in that!

  • @amandascott5881
    @amandascott5881 Рік тому +3

    Not Cammie begging to smell her burp 😭😂😂

  • @contentedpride5800
    @contentedpride5800 Рік тому +1

    Frank is me right now listening to this podcast 💕

  • @lindsaycarter5012
    @lindsaycarter5012 Рік тому

    That's so funny bc I saw "Joel" in a coffee shop called Crema in Nashville years ago. He must love that fresh 'craft' coffee.

  • @yazminmartinez3389
    @yazminmartinez3389 11 місяців тому

    “PP CITY” I’m cracking up LOL

  • @randommemes9125
    @randommemes9125 Рік тому +4

    This is random but Wow after many yrs of not watching a vlog on youtube… i realized i really missed watching Cammie talking … and on a vlog!!. Been a loyal subscriber since 2015 .. and now binge watching some of her latest videos.. 🥹🥹🥹 im happy for her now and she still hasnt changed.

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +3

      🥹 making my heart burst. i love you 🤍

  • @katiesavill
    @katiesavill 11 місяців тому

    Refell in love with your presence on my youtube. Loved u since tumbr you really were such a great icon and role model. Taryn...damn. Love u both.

  • @barbaravradenburg
    @barbaravradenburg Рік тому +1

    The burp was the reason

  • @mayodowd9807
    @mayodowd9807 11 місяців тому

    i think Frank is your new cameraman

  • @daniellepasekoff7331
    @daniellepasekoff7331 Рік тому

    besties! the thumbnail still says ep 39!

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому +1

      oh my gosh whoops! good looking out PP

  • @lindseykells793
    @lindseykells793 Рік тому

    9:55 thin James would have been more proper

  • @clareblueskies50
    @clareblueskies50 Рік тому

    Taryn I’m a speech therapist and I also love when people say things wrong 😂

    • @stayinguppod
      @stayinguppod  Рік тому

      is that why you like listening to me? haha -c

  • @Anouddw
    @Anouddw Рік тому

    SECONDDDDD

  • @garethgarciaa
    @garethgarciaa Рік тому

    Like always im enjoying with the feet❤❤

  • @emrose3391
    @emrose3391 Рік тому

    FIRST😎

  • @MinatorMls
    @MinatorMls Рік тому

    Nice conversation but i want to see the feet more 😢