TikToker LOVES Bullying !! | "Mean Girl" explains why bullying is good
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Hey everyone! this is a weird one. This self-proclaimed ex-mean girl decided to take to her TikTok profile and explain why bullying is necessary and is a part of human evolution!
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You're just the absolute best. I love your take on things. It's so refreshing to watch someone with so much common sense, which isn't that common, as seen in this video.
Robert shows us how you "tell it like it is", with class, common sense and humor! ❤👏🏼🙌🏽✨️
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@Robert_Reacts I understand she's saying stupid things, but I don't appreciate a man in his mid 30's picking on a 22 y.o., calling her stupid, mocking and commenting on her appearance.
Yes, she's very wrong, but to me it doesn't look like she's this evil person, she's just VERY young and judges the world based on her personal experience. We're all guilty of that sometimes. You go to a school with a somewhat healthy environment and then think 'bullying didn't happen in my school, so other schools must be the same!'. Or you're lucky to go through life barely facing descrimination and then think that other people of your gender/race, etc. exaggerate things. It's wrong to think that way, but it doesn't make you bad and deserving of insults.
Also, is there proof she 'made someone feel like shit'?
Love you Robert!
“Bullying is something you have to go through when you’re young” is something only a bully would say. 🙄
Right. As if people like her aren't the reason why bullying exists in the first place.
People like this are miserable, therefore they strive to bring others down with them. She's insecure and has no self respect, that's why she's the way that she is. I bet she can't take one comment against her. If she can't take being bullied, then she shouldn't be a bully. Another problem of hers, if she pulled her head outta her ass, she wouldn't have absolute shit for brains. Absolutely pathetic.
Like .. girl were you bullied? What gives you the authority to say it’s something you “have to go through” as the bully?
From an evolutionary and like biological standpoint.
@@Punkcherry 😂
Well, that was a pretty big word salad coming from someone who is so "smart." That was painful. She is exactly the same person now as she was in high school- guaranteed. And she will likely remain that person for her entire life.
The fact that she finds it so laughable that people would “hold on” to things that happened 4 years ago just shows what a brat she is too. Four years isn’t long, specially for a traumatic experience. She still has the timeframe of a child.
Word salad 😂 never heard that before and love it!
This girl thinks she's a grown up, unfortunately putting her childish opinions on the Internet will negatively affect not only victims of bullying but also her future.
Not a bully, but I do think the trauma I experienced in my life has made me more resilient and less brittle than I would have been otherwise. Not mad about it.
@@iamastrangeloop9204that doesn’t give her the right to minimize your experiences or try to justify them. Those actions weren’t intended to make you stronger, it was an evil action made by another suffering person whose coping mechanism was making others suffer as they are because of lack of emotional support. Maybe you took that to make yourself stronger and that’s great, but for others it would be difficult to go back to what it was.
@@mirilovesyou2518 oh, I also wasn’t bullied. Just in general, I don’t think we should pad the walls of the world. Shit happens and I wouldn’t change what happened to me, as it gave me some traits that are helpful in my adult life.
I think the girl is entirely in the wrong and clearly immature as well as insecure. I hope she does end up learning the lessons she claims to already have learned.
Right, like 4 years out of high school is a lot or 22 makes her mature. I'm gonna be at 10 years since high school this year. She's a baby, not as worldly as she thinks.
@@iamastrangeloop9204 Shit shouldn't be padded, but we also shouldn't allow people to blatantly harass others with the excuse of "well we shouldnt really pad the cell. And hey, my hardships made ME stronger!" If you were locked in a building where you had to face someone who was stalking and verbally (and potentially physically) abusing you for 8 hours a day, 5days a week with no recourse or ability to leave the situation, for 9 months of the year, I wager you would also get distressed about it. It can quite literally drive someone insane. Knowing exactly what's going to happen and having no ability to stop it. Stressing the entire day about the inevitable. And then doing the same thing the next day. And the next day. And the next.
I'm genuinely glad you wouldn't change what happened to you, but I would certainly change a lot that happened to me. It didn't make me stronger. And while it didn't kill me, It made me lose my spark. I was already a very strong and resilient person. But I am a more damaged person for it. I have been through hardships that made me stronger and bullying will almost certainly never be part of it.
So yes, while we shouldn't sugar coat things, I don't think a baseline social demand of "don't traumatize other people" is baby-proofing the world. There's many other hardships to be had.
Robert : You just did all that skincare and your face is still making those noises…. Hydrate yourself
I love petty Robert so fn much 😂😂😂
Yiiiikes its like being inside my head 10 years ago. I will die with regret over behaving, thinking, and talking like this. 😬
if you can get Robert annoyed and cursing, you're definitely still a mean girl at heart lol
I was bullied throughout senior school and over a decade later, I'm still suffering the consequences. I struggle people and bad anxiety because of it.
My mum complained to the schools constantly over it and they did nothing. In fact one of the head's of year told the two of us that we shouldn't worry about it because she's "just having hard time at home right now". Excuse me??? They literally excused the harassment that I was going through!
Just before the first lockdown in 2020, I actually met one of the people who bullied me again.
He was trying to talk with me and have a laugh with me about our lives at school. I could barely respond to him because all I could think how much of a hell they made my life.
I will never recover from that. But they get to happily continue with their lives.
"You should probably post LESS" - you cracked me up
LOVE the bombs of knowledge this youngin just dropped. WOW so0o0o mAtUrE
Dumb people always thinks they're the smartest person in the room
At no point did she say ‘yeah I was immature in high school and was mean to people who didn’t deserve it and I regret it’. She just said nah man get a life go travel.
There was no argument to her statements. She was just justifying her bullying and yapping about nothing. She doesn’t know wtf she’s talking about and clearly doesn’t know how bad bullying affects others.
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Funny how she thinks bullying is ‘over rated’ but can’t handle the back lash and words being said to her about this video 😅
I'm ready to BET she's blaming everyone but herself for the fallout ....
I’m glad she got a taste of her own medicine after disregarding people she actually bullied.
Right? And the “I can’t believe you are still thinking about high school, none of that matters to me anymore” says the woman who made a whole video about high school
the lack of self-awareness is....... 🥲
My mom always said "If you can't take it, don't dish it out "
She still has the classic mean girl tone, mannerisms, specific eye roll, sarcastic evil giggle. Eerie. Bullies truly are stunting their own growth.
And each mannerism had me cringing so hard!
And so true about them stunting their own growth 👌
Bullies are obsessed with status quo. Their only power is the ability to be generic and uphold social trivialities, so they target people who don’t stay in line. Otherwise, they are basically nothing.
That’s why a lot of bullies are starting to spew bunk “scientific backing” to support their fallacious thinking. They are grasping at straws, now that people are more aware then ever before lol
I love how she says "bullying in america is not that bad" like people in junior high or high school havent had nudes leaked by their classmates or been bullied into committing suicide. Honestly glad she publicly posted this so she gets a taste of bullying herself, since she thinks that its sooo "healthy" for human growth and development.
She really doesn't see that bullying is abuse.. and she's still justifying her actions.
The sarcastic evil giggle seriously haunts me.
She's like "bullies are probably going through a lot too" alright but how am I responsible for the fact that your parents never loved you, Jessica?
bro what ? That escalated quickly 😭
Yeeeeh right! Like DUH we know they are. But just cause Christians father was a domestic terrorist didn't mean he had to fucking kick in my face while I was already laying crying in the dirt bruv
@@no-thanksnot really, even if bullies have their problem, other people are not responsible and should not be the target for their anger, that's the point.
@@no-thanks it’s really not. people act like that all the time over mommy and daddy issues. people don’t bully unless something is wrong.
‘Your insecurities are not mine to care, Jessica.’
"Bullying has to happen" also her: privates her account after getting hated on
HELP
the irony is comical
This is how alot of guys think too
Isnt it funny how the "proud" bullies go into hiding the SECOND they experience a fraction of the hurt that they caused others?! I personally love it. Poetic justice.
She now has a chance to see how very rich the experience actually is. Good for her I guess.
Not sure why she went hiding for, I thought experiencing bullying is a good thing according to her lmao
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The irony of " it's good for you being bullied " and going private because she couldn't take the reaction of others of her stupid take 🤦♀️
haha totally!!! what a nasty human!!!
You'd think she'd be so grateful for the opportunity to become "stronger"! 😂
@@squidthing she shouldn't "take personally", afterwall she doesn't know what they are going through... And apparently it's "giving" "evolution and genetics" 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@penelopeoliveira3812It's giving something but defo not those things. 😅
@@StevieZala 😂
I'm so glad she ruined her own "influencer" career. She does not seem like the type of person who deserves to be successful. Stupid and mean are a terrible combination and should not be rewarded.
Right! Sometimes you only have to let people talk long enough to expose themselves and ruin their lives
@@analea6531this. People will always reveal who they truly are, whether they mean to or not
The snarky laugh… she’s still a bully, for sure. Brings me right back to when kids would pretend to be interested in the weird, niche topics I loved and make fun of me behind my back. They all had that same exact laugh, from elementary to high school, no matter where they were from.
its a character preset lmao
Beautiful pfp🙏
@@wispisang a fellow webkinz player? 😎
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Im so lucky I never encountered anyone like that or maybe I did and just wasnt grounded enough to notice the only people that I can think maybe bullied me I respect them for not picking the low hanging fruit (adhd, autism, race, or sexuality) i think the only time they said anything where I was like um is that true was when they said noone wants to see my ankles i mustve sounded so weird cause I asked like 4 people if my ankles were weird and they were like wtf no
“If you’re hurt by something I said or did to you, I’m sorry?? 🤨 I probably don’t remember you anyway? 🤪*giggles evily*” That’s the problem, you don’t remember the people you hurt.
“Be empathetic towards bullies 🥺””🤡 but its not that deep to get bullied in hs, grow up” is so ironic of a take i cant believe she thinks she’s smart for all that 💀
It’s like, that’s just it. For me it was the most impactful experiences during my formative life years, for you it was a Tuesday.
"the tree remembers while the ax forgets"
Plus she keeps rolling her eyes and making flippant hand gestures/pointing into the camera as if its the victims own problem.. how did she think she’d come across?? So self righteous and disrespectful
Abusers usually do forget most instances of abue because to them it's so commonplace. Whoch says a lot about what a monster she must have been in school.
Mean girl: "Being bullied makes you stronger and more confident"
Other people: "This is dumb and you're an asshole"
Mean girl: *shrinks shrivels flees and hides*
Also:
Mean Girl: “I didn’t have like any friends in high school. None of the kids in my class understood me or made an effort to hang out with me. I guess it’s all their fault and they missed out big time because like I’m really smart. Also, they unfairly thought I had RBF and so they misjudged me.”
Other People: “that girl is mean, stuck-up, and not someone I want to be around. I don’t think I’ll put in the effort to break through her tough exterior to see if there is something soft and fluffy inside because I keep getting hurt every time I get near her.”
I think she has a bit further to go in the area of self-awareness. She said bullies sometimes are going through something (totally can be true). I hope she is brave and humble enough to work through her issues so she doesn’t live the rest of her life feeling as superior and entitled as she is in this video. She’s in denial about the truth
@@mtjc5336 oh please. It is nobody's job to take hit after hit to "break through someone's tough exterior" and the truth is most of those people don't have a warm fuzzy inside. They just familiarize themselves to you and make you a victim. Stop rooting for unapologetically shitty people like her.
i just want to know what the fuck she thought would happen when she posted this?? did she think people would support her? did she think people would agree with her? is she THAT lacking in self awareness?? i’m genuinely astounded
Hate when people say trauma makes you stronger, trauma makes everything harder its not a good thing
Right? When did this sentiment get twisted from a way for people to cope with their own trauma, into an excuse for others to inflict it?
Trauma didn’t make me stronger. Healing did. All trauma did was break me
@@Ax-xo4ux True. Trauma isn't needed, bullying isn't needed either.
Exactly, I was bullied extremely bad in middle/high school and almost offed myself because of it MULTIPLE times
It does both
I can't stand when people are like "I'm just brutally honest." Um no, honey. You're just a jerk. It's totally possible to be honest AND kind.
She is a Narcissist. They always victim blame or MAKE EXCUSES for their p1ss-poor behavior. They need excuses to even breathe.
People who say they are brutally honest are more interested in the brutality than the honesty
Exactly it's just a nice way to say "im a d.ckhead, deal with it"
Yeah, I think people like this are not just jerks, they are bad-mannered, like... who raised you? Nobody in your life socialized you right?
and become some things can’t be changed or fixed from being honest:) it’s why telling a friend their buttons are done wrong or something is okay, but pointing out unfixable flaws is just mean and hurtful
She’s giving the person who vacationed in Europe and now is so cultured vibes.
Anyone who says “like” that many times in a sentence is not cultured, or educated
I was fully expecting her to say "I learned so many new languages" instead she showed she learned nothing.
LOL
Not even! She visited a bigger city and now thinks she's beyond the people from her small town.
Absolutely, thought of this lol: ua-cam.com/users/shortsCS5baAe_G5Y
This girl watched “The Glory” and thought “Oh! Compared to them I’m an angel! No further self reflection required!” 🤦🏻♀️
🎯🎯🎯
the bar for them is truly in hell lmao
My thoughts exactly. The possibility that she watched The Glory or any bullying k-drama and walked away still thinking it was ok to be a bully, is gross.
Bro when she said “Haven’t u ever seen a kdrama?” Like that’s the same as someone being like, “Omggg u don’t know what the REAL WORLD is like, haven’t you ever seen DEGRASSI??”
@@TheHedgehogGiraffe “Degrassi: A documentary” 😂☠️
It's lovely to know how gratefully she is going to be recieving the backlash from this, growing evolutionarily and biologically
haahhahahaha she shouldn't take it personally, it's not that bad, it's overrated, watch a k-drama
I hope she becomes stronger 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌
It's giving 💫evolutionary theory💫 😌🙌
As a biomedical sciences student every time she talks about the supposed evolutionary advantage of being bullied the cringe genuinely physically pains my body 💀
So i just read an article about a recent study that found evidence that ADHD might have come about to give those who have it an advantage over those who are neuro-typical.... in foraging. Apparently it keeps them from staying in one location too long and therefore keeps them from depleting the resources of one area (and they came out with more foraged items than the neurotypical people who foraged during that same time period, across the board). Not so useful now though, unfortunately. (I know this is BARELY relevant to the topic at hand, but I just needed to share this with someone, somewhere 😅
@@CatladyKiefFingers_deLarios Person with ADHD here - I'm usually the friend that's called on whenever anyone needs help finding things, and I love the idea that there's research explaining even a fraction of those skills!
If you can remember the name of the article or study I'd be interested to have a read ^-^
@@CatladyKiefFingers_deLarios omg what a find! Do you have the link to this study, I’d love to read that!!
@@CatladyKiefFingers_deLarios As someone with ADHD who is interested in foraging I'm very interested in this study. Could you link the article?
Everyone knows generational bullying is what causes evolution. How do think whales became sea animals.an environment change??it was obviously because being a land animal was not in trend
Imagine applying for a job and they Google you and see you proudly admitted you’re a bully.
That would be such sweet sweet justice
I believe such people are valued in corporate world. Hiring manager usually sees them as "full of leadership potential". But this girl just lacks eloquence. I am surprised someone follows her and she has subscribers. It is so boring to listen to her. Even five minutes of her speech made me tired.
@@svetlanak.2297 Appears she didn't think of that one! Her being in the top of her class in all!
They’d probably hire her
@@svetlanak.2297 Yeah, at one point I practically yelled at the screen for her to get to the point.
This chick has no idea.
I’m 40 and I still distinctly remember all the bullying I copped. That shit wrecked my confidence and still crosses my mind in social situations now. I can’t stand people like this.
i’m sorry that happened to you :(
I'm a 30 year old adult woman and am terrified of middle school boys because of the bullying my sister and I endured when we were in middle school. My brain doesn't understand the difference between them and my bullies. Fight or flight instantly engaged.
Ugh, I'm sorry you had that experience. it really affects how you view yourself and can take years of various types of efforts to learn how to feel different about yourself.
I'm 48 and very grateful I didn't get badly bullied myself (I'm not confident and could easily have been one of their victims) but still have the horror at what went on my school days to other girls (all girl schools). "Teenagers scare the living s*** out of me" still, as the song says.
The hand motions with Every. Single. Word. She says is soooo irritating. 😩 I can’t stop noticing it and it’s like nails on a chalkboard for me 😭
Yes!!!!! So cringe!
“If you’ve been bullied you just need to get over it” said someone who’s never been bullied and definitely never experienced any significant hardships in life. Must be nice!
When she said you just have to "stick up for yourself" and "learn to have confidence" I literally yelled in rage at my phone. It's like when you're depressed and people tell you "you just need to choose to be happy!" F*cking. Ignorant. Such tripe. Zero compassion, zero understanding that other people have a different mind and experience than she does ... She's never had to learn confidence (with no self esteem to begin with,) she already had it, that's why she was the one bullying others. It's like repeatedly pushing someone smaller than you down and telling them they need to "learn" to stay standing.
Confidence is something you need to build over time and if someone keeps stomping on it, it just gets even harder. People kill themselves because of bullying. She's never been there and she's invalidating so many people's suffering.
And then when she gets bullied, she couldn’t handle it and tried deleting herself off the internet 🙃
@@AdamIshak01rules for thy but not for me. pretty much lol
….but you do have to get over it, do the work move on.
Crazy to me that people can go through life thinking like that. I’ve only been through a little bit of bullying a short period in my life and even then i had great friends and family that helped me stay strong and loved me when my love for myself failed. And I still have scarres from that period of my life that I have to work with all the time.
Therapist here! I tell my clients that "bullying" is a word used to diminish the truth that what is occurring is abuse. Thank you, Robert, for mentioning how seriously "bullying" can impact people. Some people experience serious trauma from the abuse they experienced in their childhood and adolescence, especially because it occurs in such formative years. Our brains are rapidly developing, and we are discovering our identities at that time, so the "bullying" we experience may shape us to believe we aren't deserving of love and respect and can shape our self-esteem and experiences for the rest of our lives. What this girl said was seriously concerning and I hope she can learn how what she believes is wrong and hurtful.
Exactly! I was pretty heavily bullied throughout elementary and middle school (luckily I moved schools after that) and I still sometimes get panic attacks from things reminding me of that time. Those years are for developing social skills learning about building bonds. So having no friends and only horrible relationships throughout that time can really mess someone up. I’m in high school and just now catching up on learning social cues and building healthy friendships.
100% and she said “it’s really not that bad” I would love for her to tell that to the faces of all the parents of children who have taken their lives because of people like her. I am a parent, I pray she never becomes one. Or atleast grows up a bit before she does. The fact that people like her exist and haven’t changed a bit since high school is really scary to me. I think bullies stunt themselves mentally.
A guy I knew in high school was bullied through elementary and 2 years of high school and he killed himself our sophomore year. Some people don't forget. Some people don't "get through it" :/
I was bullied from 3rd grade to 6th grade elementary school, now I'm 29 and haven't forget about it. It ruined my confidence & trust for people, for the longest time if there was a person being good to me my mind instantly thought, "why this person being good to me?" I became extremely queit & awkward & scared being around people.
I'm a lot better now, but sometimes that experience still haunts me.
I was severely bullied as a kid and it has affected me into my adult years, it instilled a deep mistrust, and suspicion of others and it took years of therapy to get to a healthy place. I hope she learns from this, goes through a serious soul search, and grows to a better person.
“have you ever seen a kdrama” have you ever seen how seriously bullying is treated in korea? maybe that’s why it’s so bad in kdramas
Also, just because the situation is worse in other countries that doesnt mean it is accetable in minor situations💀
@@cwaissant5122 And the situation isn’t even worse in other countries. All bullying from different countries are bad, the only difference is America doesn’t make movies based on the bullying like they do in Korea. If they do make a movie or series with a bully on it, they tend to make the bully comical which makes them not seem that bad but just silly, think about Disney or Nickelodeon bullies. More american kids have died (s*icide, mental torment, accidental k*lling by bullies, gang beat up, stabbings and shootings) from bullying than Korean kids have. That girl is nuts for taking the extreme cases of Korean bullying shown in dramas and using that as a reason to downplay American bullying.
@@cwaissant5122the weird part is shes sourcing her information on real life from dramas… THEYRE SUPPOSED TO BE DRAMATIC OF COURSE ITS GONNA BE AWFUL
It’s like yeah, people in Korea also kill themselves from bullying… what’s her point?!
I did a presentation in college about k-dramas and how they portray a heightened reality. That she can’t tell the difference between reality and TV shows is concerning
Fun fact, abuse is Not a necessary quality for society to evolve, in fact it is the exact opposite.
What abuse did she describe exactly? Some of us have been raped repeatedly and trafficked, what she's describing doesn't even sound like extreme bullying you know real bullying is kids get beaten and raped right?
@@QTpatootie95 Also being made a social pariah to laugh at and to intimidate continuously? That counts. Not as extreme as being beaten and raped, but abuse nonetheless.
@@QTpatootie95Bullying can be many ways,like what happened to Cinderella and that girl on The glory kdrama based on true story,r*ped by a boy just because the bully is jealous that the boy likes her and ironed her arms like a cooked sausage,any types of abuse and verbal abuse and domestic violence and humiliating someone just because you don't like them
@@QTpatootie95 please seek therapy immediately before you go insanostyle and seriously hurt people you monster.
Her giggles after saying "and you still think about it 4 years after?" are just infuriating. And she repeats it again and again. She still is a bully and good for people to give her the taste of her own medicine.
Like bruh yea we still think about it because that shit was psychologically DAMAGING. There was a girl in cosmetology school 7 YEARS AGO, and the way she bullied me COMPLETELY altered the way i interact with everyone and my entire worldly mindset. I can at least say it changed me for the better overall but i still hate the name jessica and hope she is NOT thriving lmao
Like she’s not still talking about it herself years later 😂😂😂
@@twinkiesnails8857f@!k jessica! We don’t like her! 😂
She needs to get a job, and grow-up, she is in her early 20s but has the maturity of a 12yr old!!
she enjoys that she takes up real estate in other peoples minds, she enjoys having that “power”
My husband was seriously bullied in school to the point of needing a therapist and having su***dal thoughts.
He still talks about it now and that was over 20 years ago. We now have a son and he’s so worried for our son if he ever has to go through the same thing he went through. 😢bullying is no joke and you don’t just get over it .
People don’t realise what it can do to people
@@Robert_Reacts and even if they do a lot of bullies don’t care. They only care about themselves, their friends (maybe), and what affects them.
I’m so sorry your husband experienced that and pray your son never has to!
Being bullied is horrific, it damages someone’s psyche forever and is not something I would wish on anyone. Ironic then that this girl is being bullied across social
Media. No?
I lost my middle and high school best friend to su*c*de from bullying. I dropped out cause I couldn’t go back to school without my best friend. People still try to justify bullying and it’s infuriating.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💜
I’m so sorry for your loss! May your friend rest in peace 🖤 I also hope you are in a better place now, stay strong
im so sorry for your loss
the way she talks about bullying just shows she’s definitely still a bully
Not her talking about Korean culture, she seems like the type of girl to bully someone in high school or middle school for liking kpop back in the 2010s when it wasn’t mainstream.
💯☝
My first thought when she brought that up. I wasn’t into other Asian cultures as a teen (I’m Tamalian so I was pretty pre-occupied with my own cultural ties), but most of my friends were weeaboos and there’s no way anyone thought we were cool. This is 2004-08.
Like she didn't get the clue in the name.. K-Drama.. it's not real. 😐😂 I've seen a Chinese drama which was romantic in nature,just a bunch of people slapping each other. It was very entertaining but I'm pretty certain the Chinese citizens don't go around just slapping random people 😂
For real, specially in the low key "I'm not bullying you omg!" way. Like when they say 'kpop? isn't that like sooo weird tho? how do you know what they're saying? 🥴"
@@Kat-mu8wqIt may be drama but it doesn't mean this kind of bullying does not happen in real life in Asian countries. I'm from an Asian country and was bullied pretty badly myself and there had been news reports in my country of bullying as bad as those you see in K-drama (burns, humiliation, degradation, SA in the most horrific ways). Also, some of the bullying in k-dramas were based off real life cases that were actually worse irl.
However I do not agree with that mean girl said. Bullying is not acceptable no matter how bad it is, there is no excuse for it. Just cos somewhere or someone else has it worse, doesn't diminish your own experiences.
She's so tone deaf and out of touch. There were 3 children ages 10 -9 that passed away from su*c*de in my county just this past week. I'm sickened by her nonchalant take on bullying. So ignorant and vapid.
Prayers and condolences for the families and friends and your county. That is heart breaking 🙏
thats so sad and she doesnt even care about that until the consequences of her action catch up to her
Being bullied stays with you for life, she clearly doesn't understand the damage she may have caused others.
She realizes but doesn't care
She needs to experience some psychological damage done by bullying for herself.
But I don't think it'll change her of the better. She'll probably gonna indulge in self-pity and question "why this happening to meee???" without learning the lessons or/and extending the empathy to others
Fr, I have travelled and experienced new things and met new people. Still doesn’t stop me from looking in the mirror and hearing the things my bullies said to me during my developmental years.
Being bullied has forced me to have a constant mask on, even around my family. Because my interests and personality isn't 'normal'
@@annara686oh but that's not "psychological damage", it's "evolutionary growth" 🤌
She absolutely got over high school and moved on, which is why she felt the need to ramble about it for so long lmao.
The way she’s still mentally 16
Amen. Lol
No,she said that people are sensitive and still being proud that she's still the mean girl so she still didn't move on and always in denial of herself,doing nothing to better herself and said that bullying makes you stronger,like wtf, that's what sadists think.. Narcissistic,immature.
I was horribly bullied for literally majority of my years at school and the idea that those people are thinking "it changed her, she needed that" is terrifying. Like y'all are ruining people lives and thinking ur a hero😂
I was bullied at school and I never forgot her. I saw her online once a few years after. One of the big things she bullied me over was by body as I was a chubby kid. I got the most satisfying schadenfreude when I saw her because she'd gained a load of weight and was bigger than I'd ever been. I realise how petty that is but like. She ruined my self confidence because I was fat. It took me YEARS to learn to love myself.
This chick said a whole lot of nothing before she outed herself as a horrible individual. Why was she just fluffing her wet hair around for 15 minutes??
Love this comment. All of it! From start to end! ❤
I mean this genuinely, I LOVE that for you. Honestly😋🤪
That's what we like to call KARMA!!! Comments like this make me believe even more in karma ❤
Her hand movements and hair - classic annoying person
You go mama, I love this for you ❤
One thing she didn’t learn while traveling was how to be humble.
Also no empathy.
No self-reflection.
Or how to be human…a kind, compassionate and empathetic human
yep and this is kinda mean girl, but she's not cute enough to be a mean girl - just sayin....
she didnt learn to be a decent human being imho
As someone who was definitely bullied as a kid, I can't stand "mean girls". Like just be a nice person.
Or if you can’t handle that, a neutral person. You just have to not be an asshole. It’s so easy
Yes, I agree
@@bagandbroadthat was me, but people seemed to take my neutrality (and shyness/awkwardness) as me being a bitch or a snob, you can't win with teens. I was rarely outspoken unless someone was saying or doing something really wrong (like a kid in my class saying "gays should be put in a room and shot") and people interpreted my vocal anger as further proof I was a bitch. So I guess I was only neutral until I couldn't be.
So I got bullied for being too quiet AND bullied for "bullying" bullies 😢 but nobody made any effort to talk to me, I have that in common with the mean girl in the TikTok.
I think it's a teen thing, some kids will have a hard time being accepted no matter what. Most of us learn through experience that people are rarely what you baselessly assume they are.
I was bullied thru highschool 40+ yrs ago and let me tell you I remember every one of their names and every thing they did to torment me. I have moved on but I will NEVER forget!
I can't even stand to watch the movie because I just hate that whole persona.
Her saying “go travel” like there’s not a lot of privilege there…
"Dwelling on a past is crazy to me"...keeps dwelling on a past like she has nothing better to do in her life😂
Exactly this 😂 makes a video about the past as if anyone asked 😅
because she doesnt she still happily remebers the days where she could step on peoples back and now shes in reality she cant getover it
It’s giving “People are so obsessed with me” 🙄 When in fact she’s just getting called out for being a bully.
Not her going private 💀. Why can’t she just let it go? 😏
"Can you believe people exist?" is a question I ask myself every. single. day.
My favorite line!!
100%
how actually dare they
I’ve been starting to marvel at the fact that out of all the species on this planet, humans were the ones to take over. We’re basically like a virus lol
Bullying scars people for life. I know, because I was bullied. It never leaves you. Negative experiences shape who you are just as much as all the positive experiences in your life. Bullying should not be tolerated let alone promoted as something that “needs to happen”.
Exactly
I cannot understand why sadistic sociopathic behavior amongst teenagers isn’t taken seriously and shut down. The repercussions are real, and some of those bullies can grow up into dangerous adults.
My bullying made me stronger overall. But it’s still a terrible thing and parents often ignore those behaviors in their own kids… I see parents encouraging their little thugs.
@@GenXfrom75see there’s nothing in the bullying that made me stronger. I was the magic. I was the one who healed. I was the one who endured, so I take all the power from all the bullies and give it back to myself ❤ but that’s just me!
Same
The irony of defending bullying as a way for society to correct bad behavior… only for her bad behavior to go viral so that she gets bullied by society (or at least the internet). I mean, I hope she’s right and she learns and grows from being cyber-bullied by thousands of angry people but from my own much milder experience I know that’s not how it works.
She's oribably like. "I'm sooo in the right". Hopefully she struggles a lot in life. Come on Karma, kick in, you did one part, now do the rest!
Disclaimer: I don't believe in karma. I'm just joking about it.
When I was bullied in school my best friend made me go to the "school psychologist" to get help and they literally said: Have you ever thought that the person bullying you might be doing it because they're going through something?
That's one of the absolute most horrible things you could say to a child in that position. It ruins your trust for adults aswell and makes you feel like there is noone who can help. It doesn't matter what they're going through, taking it out on other people is a choice. It's always a choice, there is no excuse for being a jerk.
Ah yes...the age old "let's guilt-trip the child victim of bullying by telling them THEY need to rise above the psychological pain and torture of being abused everyday by trying to have empathy and understanding for their abuser."
And yet we would never expect an adult to put up with harassment or abuse at work. We would never tell a woman, "Hey, have you ever thought about the fact that your coworker who is sexually harassing you every day might have their own problems they're going through?" We have entire HR departments to deal with that BS.
But a little kid just needs to buck up and be the bigger person, eh?
Exactly this.
Your best friend although, maybe good at heart is naive, I'd educate her and dump her but that's just me. I'm fed up with general stupidity and naivety. Nothing wrong with naivety, it stems from living in a nice life and never having to confront actual problems that aren't related to mum and dad grounding you for something, but I will discriminate so I'm not treated like that.
But then again she's the one telling YOU to go get psychiatric help and in the same vein say proposes the possibility that your abusers are the ones who need help. You may want to ask her "why doesn she go tell them to get help then?". She's both stupid and naive. No offence to you, but that's what is she. At that point, I hate your friend.
@@amenenema474 I don't mind using the word "bully", but for the normies who have it so good, I need to say "abuse" to try to hit home the hypocrisy that what they're doing, is no different from what an adult goes through, the difference is how children can remedy their own situation. Children are expected to take it to school and have no resources to seek legal guidance to sue, but adults do. It technically is "abuse" but given such an infantalising word anyway.
The bullying I went through left me with ptsd and depression. It was awful and I will forever hate bullies.
I’m sorry you aren’t alone. I’m 30 yrs out from being bullied but it still gets under my skin occasionally.. it didn’t hold me back but I certainly never forgot
I'm in my late 20s and I still deal with insecurities I developed from the bullying I received more than 10 years ago. Stuff like that sticks with you
It left me with BPD (which also could be CPTSD) and it's living hell. It's unbelievable how much words and rejection can harm you.
Same. I truly do wish it was something that I could get over but it basically gave me agorophobia and instilled a deep mistrust in people for me. Even with friends who have proven themselves to be lovely people there is still a thought circulating that they will eventually start abusing me. Bullying stays with people forever.
Foorrrrrr real
I didn't have confidence to defend myself against school bullies because I needed the energy to deal with the bullying at home 🖕🏼 This chick needs to take accountability
Yea what she doesn't get is bullies target people who are already not having a good time due to things like mental illness, neurodivergency, abuse, etc. She probably had an easy life bullying others who are going through shit and acting rightous about it. Maybe SHE needs that character building cruelty 😒😒
This whole "oh, you just need to stand up for yourself" advice is NONSENSE.
I have a distinct memory of trying to defend myself against my bullies and having like SIX boys screaming in my face in the middle of the hallway, drowning out anything I said, until I just had to walk away.
@@zammmerjammer Im truly sorry friend. I also wqs sexually harassed as a child even from men in my family.
Growing up i was told to ignore the bullies. It did not help. If you fight back you get in trouble and if you don’t you get blamed for being a victim. Really you can’t win. Kids need to be taught empathy in school. This girl obviously doesn’t have any and her parents failed to teach her.
For me, it was the opposite. Bullying at home was way worse than what the kids from my school could do. So any bullying at school was pretty limited or they quickly find out my boundary and that I have no problem dishing it back out.
It's giving "I didn't have any friends in high school because I was pretentious, so now I'm justifying my pretension with more pretentiousness because I secretly fear I can't build relationships with people in real life, so I use my view count to prove I'm likable".
This girl needs to get a grip and see a therapist.
"I didn't get along with kids there".
Girl, YOU were the outcast. But decided to compensate by stepping on people's heads.
Believe it or not, most bullies arent the popular girl. Atleast at my school, popular girls were actually nice...precicely why they were popular
@@MissSchnickfitzelwell the bullies in my school were the popular kids.
@MissSchnickfitzel the bullies at my school were the popular guys and the girls would gossip about you behind your back.
The funniest part here is how she could’ve ignored the comment and moved on but instead decided to embarrass herself publicly 💀
What I heard was "I felt isolated and not accepted by my peers in high school. I never made close friends. I felt that lashing out was better than being rejected."
💯
She said the quiet part out loud.
wow this is SOOO on point!!!!
She seems like a mess. And then she tries to use that mess as justification for her behavior. For anyone who has ever been bullied by someone like this, be grateful you’re not like them. You can hear the wind whistling through this one.
Also: she says stop dwelling on the past while literally making a minutes long video rant about the past. 😂 hilarious how stupid she is
She is not alone in her thinking. When I was bullied and tried to get help, I was told if I was stronger I wouldn’t have been bullied. Also I don’t understand why survivors need to be understanding to the attackers. Bullies aren’t the only ones going through stuff!
I was being bullied and needed to attend social skills training for it, with other teens being bullied. Because being bullied is the lack of social skills in .... the bullied teens? Right. Make it make sense! I went though and met someone who's been my best friend ever since, sweetest person alive 😊
I'm always pissed off by the narrative that bullies were "probably bullied themselves" or "might be going through tough times at home", "family breakdown" and yada yada. First of all, I highly doubt... Anyone who's been through bullying wouldn't want to inflict that suffering on others. There are studies done on animals showing that those that experienced distress are more likely to show empathetic behaviours towards other members of the species.
Secondly, even if - that is NO EXCUSE whatsoever.
This! And the replies too. So true. I complained to a teacher about my bullies and I was given the “boys will be boys” and “he has problems at home” “she’s a from a divorced family” excuses. Okay, and???
I blame so many kids’ cartoons where the resolution was *understanding* the bully. (Although I’ll defend Binky to the grave, he learned what he was doing was wrong and he changed for the better which is an important thing to show kids.) I knew my main bully was having a lot of problems at home, didn’t change anything about how I felt when I was getting bullied. It didn’t make it a more narratively fulfilling experience or something.
literally, worst thing is she said that right after saying "it's not personal" like damn right if bullying people is not personal to you then why should your victims have the delicacy of considering "you might be going through issues too" like who cares, deal w those on your own instead of taking it out on people who have nothing to do with it
This just screams young person who thinks they know everything and actually needs a huge reality check.
The worst part is that many of those people never get that reality check and are middle aged and STILL think this way.
That sounds dumb person… not all young people are that stupid and entitled
Sad to say if she has financial help from her family as well, her delulu ego and pretty privilege could easily carry her to old age without any reality checks at all
bullying doesn't make you stronger. YOU make yourself stronger through your own perseverence.
Did anyone else notice how her timelines just don't really add up? At first, she went to high school over 4 years ago, then it was during Covid which isn't even 4 yours ago yet and then suddenly it's 5 years?
Also, the out-of-touchness is some of the worst part of this for me. "Just go travel" as if the reason most people don't travel that much is because they simply just don't want to?🤦♀
I’m guessing she graduated in 2020- And she’s seeing that as 4 years ago even though it hasn’t actually hit 4 years ago since 2020 graduation.
(I graduated in 2020 and spent a large chunk of senior year at home online due to COVID)
I just watched this video reposted on Instagram. There was a moment where she mentioned how "soft" American kids are now, and how things are different in other cultures, citing K-drama. I'm Korean, so that comparison was infuriating to me because it's a very heavy social issue here. (I also experienced bullying myself in elementary and middle school) This was just tone-deaf, victim-blaming, gaslighting and everything in a nutshell.
She was INSANE for mentioning Korean bullying, like you said it's a huge societal problem, it's not something Korea thinks is good and ok wtf
This girl has never been bullied. She's incredibly immature, zero empathy. I'd be horrified if this was my kid. Shame on her, and her parents.
People who say they’re “brutally honest” generally concentrate way more on the brutality than the honesty.
and its always with the negative, like they claim to "say something as it is" but they dont do that when it comes to complimenting ppl or other positive things
Thats one thing I never got like in my head brutality is not a prerequisite to honestly like my boss said she likes me cause ill tell her when shes freaking out without making it an insult because insulting someone whos already stressed just seems generally unhelpful but I guess i am a perfect angel so i cant blame her too much for not seeing it sooner that last part is a joke
@@mxtanoiiabecause then its not brutality its just honesty and from my experience brutal honesty is generally pretty exaggerated and dishonest
so accurate
Couldnt have said it better myself. This is honestly so good, I hope I can use that sentence some time
Whenever someone says "I'm blunt" I hear "I'm rude" lol. Also I was bullied all of my school years and have no sympathy for bullies. Thank you for pointing out bullying *can* totally wreck someone's life. I was diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder in my 20s that definitely formed hugely due to the bullying and exclusion. It didn't make me stronger or resilient, most of the time I don't even wanna exist. Just be nice.
I'm glad you exist. You just taught me a new term, avoidant personality disorder. I've been told I have General Anxiety Disorder and Agoraphobia but when I looked up your term, it sounds very much like myself.
Stay strong. Know that just by posting online you've helped someone to feel a little more power in their life. In the "so there are other people out there like me. Because they gave a name to it" kinda way. hehe Thank-you.
You have a lovely name too. 💜🖤💋
I love how *she* was a BULLY and thinks she knows that bullying _isn't THAT bad._ 😂😂😂
Well of course to YOU it's not that bad! You didn't have your self esteem shattered! You didn't have to cry every day in the school bathroom, or sit alone during lunch, or dread going back to school, or have thoughts of UN-ALIVING yourself because a BULLY made you feel worthless and lower than DIRT!
Wow....
The entitlement of this little girl is astounding. Her level of entitlement could launch us all to the friggin' MOON! 🚀🌙 😂
If she's so much more mature than she was in school she would realise that she could just apologise to people for what she's done instead of telling people to just "get over it", what is thissss. I'm 30 and my confidence is still destroyed from bullies
“Wow I’m so cultured I have traveled and I’ve grown that was like, 4 years ago, get a grip and just get over it..” those are the words of someone who’s going to be knocked so far off their high horse they won’t come back up for a while. Smh.
Even if she was academically “smart”, it doesn’t mean she’s emotionally and socially intelligent - She obviously is demonstrating lack of empathy. She contradicted herself by saying how bullying isn’t a thing in America but she admitted she was a bully. So she thinks she was the only bully in America who did it “bad enough”!? Also, traveling and meeting different people isn’t a golden ticket for self development - She clearly didn’t learn the basic social etiquette of “consent”, if she did, she wouldn’t be self righteously claiming she taught them a lesson, then victim blame, when they didn’t even ask her to show them how to become a better person or whatever *she* believes is “right”.
And she's just referring to AP classes that weren't hard to get into.
@@queenbey6678Fr. I was in AP psychology and got an A, but I'm dumb as rocks. Also, if highschool doesn't matter, why is she bringing up her grades? Sounds like a dumbass to me. LMAOOOO 😭😭😭 I actually cannot
Her evolution comparison, very non-evidence based reference to bullies doing better “sociologically” (probably going for socioeconomically), and vague reference to psychology (did I hear that right? lol) have me thinking she’s not as academically smart as she’d like to think either.
Girlie is the dunning-kruger effect personified
It is both terrifying and sad to see people really think like this. If we all actively gave a little extra kindness to each other, imagine what we can do? It costs nothing to be kind.❤
Her "traveling" could have been 3 counties over, in the same state. She does not sound like anyone who has been out of their own area.
The contrast of being confident enough to share this online versus the thinly veiled insecurity spewing from her mouth is fascinating.
“I have no interest in mending those friendships.” Told me everything I needed to know. She destroyed her friendships…she sounds like a peach.
Let’s be real. Did she have even have friendships to ruin? It sounds more like that she spent all of high school trying to get attention and is not still trying to get it. She didn’t “grow up” in these four years she keeps talking about. Everyone else grew up a bit though and left her behind. Like they should do. She won’t go the reunions because she’d be there on her own and it would be torture for her to be ignored. Not because she’s “too cool”.
telling someone they NEEDED to go through a terrible traumatic to be stronger 🤮🤮
Only a bully could say that
Bullying is a form of abuse. It may not look like the typical abuse you'd see in home life or in toxic relationships, but it's still abuse. And abuse can haunt you for a very long time. Doesn't matter if it's " 4" or 10 years ago.
I was one of the smart kids in school (30 years ago). The actual smart kids didn't talk like this. And the fact that you disliked the actual smart kids means you weren't one of them. Being good in school doesn't equal smart. The actual smart kids only had each other to lean on, because everyone else thought we were odd.
😢
Yep.
Same!! ❤
The "smart" kids in my AP classes just copied their homework and shared test answers with each other.
Very true.
not only was she a mean girl, she was an unpopular mean girl. she probably tried to connect with people after school but was told to fluff off because she was an ass to them, and now shes lonely an bitter trying to justify why other people are to blame for this
Why did she private her page? This backlash is gonna make her stronger, right?
My daughter changed schools 4 years ago because of her bullies and she's in therapy now so this 'former' bully needs to STFU about 'its been 4 years'. Its not up to the bully to get over it or to leave it in the past😡 Thank you for this video Robert, i love you. This is your best video, i hope it goes viral🖤🖤🖤
I love how he uses his platform to call out these clowns! Hugs to you and your daughter; she deserves all the love and respect in the world.
I'm so sorry you and your daughter had to go through that because of awful people! It is NEVER the victim's fault. No abuser has the authority to tell their victim to 'just get over it'
@@Leilaniiiiiiithank you so much❤❤❤❤
@@justamakeupdude❤❤❤❤ she has amazing friends at her new school but that doesnt change her past, this girl is so delusional!
Exactly, the things my bullies did and said has stuck with me for the rest of my life no matter if i want it to or not. 4 years is absolutely nothing, ESPECIALLY compared to how long the things said or done will stick with people
I would like her to meet with the families of kids who were bullied to the point they committed suicide! Tell them "it's not that bad."
She's a horrible person!
This kid is so transparent.
She bullied her schoolmates because she didn’t have any friends and felt rejected. Becoming a bully was the only way that she could feel any sense of power and relevancy.
Now (after being called out for being such an asshole) she is trying to justify her behavior. She is trying to convince herself that she isn’t a bad person…when deep down inside she knows that she is.
I hope she really sees herself and makes some positive changes.
It does make me wonder tho. Which came first, the bullying or the ostracizing?
Cos it's either she became jaded and mean when people weren't befriending her
Or they weren't befriending her cos she was mean and was """brutally honest"""
She probably still doesnt have any friends so yeah.
Nobody likes to see themselves being a villain; since to a villain, they are the hero and main character of their own story. She is definitely justifying her own actions in whatever way she can, not taking accountability for the way her actions impact others, and that lack of analysis and empathy is a display of immaturity (not to mention the overinflated self image she has over herself.)
@@spectre9340She was Liz Lemon in high school, snarky and mean therefore no friends so she became a bully while thinking she was a victim.
@@MissSchnickfitzelikr, talking about she’s not gonna go back to the reunions, like, honey, I doubt they invited you or will. 😂
It’s giving Regina George “WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH ME?!”
So now when she’s bullied of the internet we can all just say ”move on, let it go” 🤪
'teenagers are so soft these days'....'bullying makes you stronger'..repeating daddys talking points. shocker: he was a bully too
Yeeeeep
when she says she's so well traveled and has grown I'm just picturing her going to places like Cancun and staying on the resort the whole time
she’s flying to a different state in the same country and being like “omg i’m like so well traveled 💅🏼”
idt her dusty ass has even left the united states 😭😂
I thought she was smart? I was severely bullied at school which has had a lasting effect on my mental health. This person is despicable
I was bullied throughout school, developed a severe eating disorder and still got bullied for that too. I became “cool” when I left school and suddenly the people who bullied me wanted to be friends. Ironically they’re all losers now. Bullying doesn’t make anyone stronger. I still think about the things they said to me and I still believe some of it because it was said when I was so young and impressionable. That stuff sticks.
Honesty with out kindness is brutality and kindness without honesty is manipulation. I am a very honest, and upfront person, BUT always given with kindness and respect. There is NO excuse to bully someone. PERIOD.
💯 perfect way to summarize it.
She hasn't lost that fake bully giggle after 4 years since high school, maybe she should get over that.
my bully told me to unalive myself literally every single day but you’re right i should empathize with him he was probably going through a lot back then!! 🤪🤪 thanks girlie for your insight!
kids have been murdered by classmates; bullying can be very much “that bad” she doesn’t see an issue because no one has truly brought her down to size
I love when children try to give advice
This, yes! Was asking myself the whole time what makes these kids think they have to go to the internet for everything they think and do?? Here fortunately she outed herself as a giant douche with all the red flags; but why do they think anyone wants to hear their "advice"??
Neither pretty or smart
Ikr… I still consider myself pretty young and it’s been like 12 years since I graduated high school. I would never get on the internet and say such things.
Yeah exactly. So glad I was never the type in my early 20s to be stupid enough to proudly post my terrible outlooks on life lol
*stupid children. Some kids have actual good advice, but Regina George over here isnt one of them. Sis threw her braincells away
being friendly and NOT a bully has proved to be better for human survival... we are social creatures. we live in groups. we help each other and need help from others.
There's heaps of scientific evidence that kids that grow up in a loving, supportive environment are more emotionally/mentally resilient.
Throughout middle and high school, I was bullied so. many. times. for damn near everything. My looks, my voice, what I watch, the type of music I listen to. Boys would ask me out and flirt with me as a joke or to get my reaction. Even at random times, people would just randomly look at me at laugh for no reason. I could not catch a break for nothing. School years were the absolute worst times of my life. Years later, with my self confidence and self esteem completely wrecked, I would still cry whenever I think about it. Bullying has a HUGE effect on you and millions of people.
Lots of love to you darling. I see you and hear you 🖤
@@bangbangbaby1988thank you so much 💕
that was my experience as well. I truly never knew if they would do something that day or not, and it left me so paranoid to the point I was physically ill every morning.
i was bullied horrifically in high school, like worse than any movie could ever depict. it was brutal and it almost felt like preparing for war every day. there were threats against my life and even images and videos circulating that people claimed were me.. (i was 14 and a virgin but senior girls were cropping clips from 🌽. so the abuse was *exual in nature as well as emotional and physical). a lot of the bullying i received was centered around my body and physical appearance, i was curvy before most other girls so my body stood out and was heavily sexualized amongst the boys. it was just a horrible time, i was totally ostracized and tormented. some female teachers even bullied me in front of the class as well. now that i’m older i can see they were jealous, insecure girls but that doesn’t excuse what happened. i hold so much pain from what happened to me that frankly im not sure will ever fully go away. i have a full, happy life. my dreams have come true. but still at times i think about what was done to me and the fact that nobody was protecting me and i get really sad. my bullies of course would deny or undermine just how cruel they really were, just like this girl. it’s so sad and sick how evil spirited some people are. bullying isn’t normal. it’s not something you need to just accept or expect.
It was bad enough being bullied and traumatised growing up, but then having people comment that "I’m too sensitive" or "stop living in the past" is just downright dismissive and caused me to gaslight myself by downplaying what I had been through.
"Your hands shouldn't be that dry for someone your age" 😭😭💀💀💀
that sandpaper on sandpaper comment killed me 😂
Privileged mean girl rambles for too long about how better she is than the peers she bullied. She just gave herself a reality check lmao