Julia Samuel on grief, post traumatic growth and dealing with our dark side

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @Teresa-xu7yn
    @Teresa-xu7yn 11 місяців тому +9

    Can’t imagine why you don’t have more viewers or subscribers as this podcast is of such a high caliber. I can’t wait to continue watching for more episodes. Very much appreciate your talk with Julia Samuels who more than most tells it straight about life and grieving. I believe this podcast would be a very strong fit for the Rumble app to not squelch and instead uplift viewership.

  • @misstbikini
    @misstbikini 8 місяців тому +6

    This is the best video on grief in this period of my life losing my husband late last month. I understand I need to accept the new person I am and I understand that my husband is in my heart and the memories are in my heart so when I am doing decisions, I can ask my heart. Hey Phil, should we do this this or that, and his influence still remains even after death. This lady is brilliant.

  • @be.loui.
    @be.loui. Місяць тому +1

    One of the best interviews on the topic of grief for me!! I felt so understood, she is knowledgeable but loving and gentle, exactly what one needs in the time of grief.

  • @marija068
    @marija068 2 місяці тому +1

    How much embodied wisdom and true compassion lives in this woman, deep respect for her. 🙏

  • @sueprice4082
    @sueprice4082 Рік тому +9

    I cannot believe that this fascinating podcast has not been seen by more viewers. I lost my husband two weeks ago (September 2nd) and it is so helpful and comforting.

    • @rosemaryleach1403
      @rosemaryleach1403 Рік тому +3

      She has tons of material on grief. Her books are terrific and she has her own podcasts.

    • @EllyLugosi
      @EllyLugosi 11 місяців тому

      So very sorry for your loss, dear. May your darling husband, rest in eternal peace & happiness ❤

    • @Teresa-xu7yn
      @Teresa-xu7yn 11 місяців тому +1

      So very sorry for your loss.

    • @angelmossucco
      @angelmossucco 10 місяців тому +1

  • @andreasemetas3047
    @andreasemetas3047 9 місяців тому +3

    What an incredibly wise lady ❤

  • @maryearll3359
    @maryearll3359 Рік тому +4

    Ive just found you and don't think I'm going to let you go - you are a diamond but the thing I like besr is your concise interviewing and your guests are of a high calibre who talk about journies everyone goes through with positivity. Thank you. Very much ❤.

  • @janetobi2193
    @janetobi2193 Рік тому +5

    I understand this person’s experience and had the same reaction from a counsellor just over 10 years ago. Mine went further and told me to be quiet and not talk about it. Finding a good counsellor is difficult.

    • @EllyLugosi
      @EllyLugosi 11 місяців тому

      Keep looking don't give up! You'll find the right one I promise xx

  • @janetobi2193
    @janetobi2193 Рік тому +4

    I spent the night with my daughter when she died. I really needed that. I also have my mum’s ashes near me and I feel happier because she feels close. It is personal. I needed to hold her before letting go of her body.

    • @angelmossucco
      @angelmossucco 10 місяців тому

    • @nicolemurphy2629
      @nicolemurphy2629 2 місяці тому

      At deeply emotional times it is normal for a Dad & Daughter to want to be close..... But certainly not in a sexual way.
      That is something else totally...

  • @melliecrann-gaoth4789
    @melliecrann-gaoth4789 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you both. 🙏

  • @janetobi2193
    @janetobi2193 Рік тому +4

    An excellent discussion. Julia is absolutely brilliant, insightful and compassionate. She truly helped us work through our own loss. You never move on. I’ve just learned to live with it and accept it.

  • @chinkids2762
    @chinkids2762 5 місяців тому +1

    My 82 year old mother lost her unconditionally loving husband 11 weeks ago. They were married for 14 years together 15. I'm worried about her chronic fatigue. This morning she had a little bit of energy but by noon she was completely exhausted. She looks tired. She's home with me.

    • @chinkids2762
      @chinkids2762 5 місяців тому

      We've been trying to get her out for a walk every day, a very short walk to the stop sign and back. It's very slow to make much difference.

    • @melliecrann-gaoth4789
      @melliecrann-gaoth4789 3 місяці тому +1

      Grief is phenomenally physically exhausting.

    • @chinkids2762
      @chinkids2762 3 місяці тому

      @melliecrann-gaoth4789 my mom is feeling a little better. It's been 4 months since losing her sweet husband. She's had some time to rest, read, pray, and watch lots of netflix! She's begun to come out of the shock of losing her husband and her home and her whole identity. We are getting back to walking. It's been super hot in Texas for the past couple of weeks.

    • @chinkids2762
      @chinkids2762 3 місяці тому

      @melliecrann-gaoth4789 The grief and anxiety affected her whole being. It was like a nervous breakdown. Her mobility and mind were shaken.

  • @martiwalsh2069
    @martiwalsh2069 7 місяців тому

    "incrementally adapt" perfect

  • @RebeccaFreear
    @RebeccaFreear 7 місяців тому

    Thankfully, a year’s wait and six sessions of CBT is not always true. Five months wait and eight sessions of NHS Talking Therapy has been my experience. Plus good signposting to sources of help if there had been a crisis in the meantime.

  • @angelmossucco
    @angelmossucco 10 місяців тому +1

    Could we buy a written transcript of this conversation ?

    • @crisiswhatcrisis
      @crisiswhatcrisis  9 місяців тому +1

      Hi Angela - the full transcript is available on our website underneath Julia's episode details. Hope you enjoyed the conversation. We thought she was wonderful. www.crisiswhatcrisis.com/podcasts/julia-samuel-on-facing-loss-managing-grief-and-finding-joy-again/

    • @sheronlyn2693
      @sheronlyn2693 8 місяців тому

      So glad to know that too as this interview was so comforting and informative but currently having my own grief experience I became distracted at times with my own thoughts as you do so having the transcript will be so helpful. ❤