I feel like I'm failing 🥺

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024

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  • @kathyconger2188
    @kathyconger2188 2 роки тому +7

    Hi Courtney! I am a 62 yr old G’ma raising grandkids due to my daughter passing away from cancer 4 yrs ago. When my kids were grown, I always thought, I would of done many things different! But guess what.....? Here I am on the 2 round of raising kids & I feel like it’s the 1st! Ugh! Yes, there’s tips & tricks you learn along the way. But when your in the day to day of life, sometimes you just let your emotions take over! I feel like I have failed at “something” every day! I am NOT a morning person! One thing I do to make our mornings go smoother, is at night I get everything ready for a smooth morning. We lay out clothes, we fill the water bottle. We get breakfast ready to pop in toaster or microwave(we don’t do fancy). Everything that goes in his bag is put in at night. Coat or hoodie, boots, shoes, hat, gloves, all of that is done the night before. That has made a world of difference! Don’t know if this has helped? It is what has worked for us. Of course your always going to have guilt, because when we became parents/grandparents it was on the birth certificate(fine print)! Kids are very forgiving. Give yourself some grace! Your doing a great job! Have a great rest of your wk!❤️

    • @stephaniewilliams0
      @stephaniewilliams0 2 роки тому +1

      You are a wonderful human being Kathy. I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @kathyconger2188
      @kathyconger2188 2 роки тому +1

      @@stephaniewilliams0 Awww, you are so sweet Stephanie! Thank you so much for your encouraging words! ❤️

  • @SouthernMamaDrama
    @SouthernMamaDrama 2 роки тому +1

    You don’t always have to be a sweet mom to be a good mom! You are a wonderful mom! Big hugs my friend!! Your kids KNOW without a shadow of a doubt that you love them. Never doubt that! ❤️

  • @kaili9642
    @kaili9642 2 роки тому +1

    I totally get it! I’m not a morning person either. You’re doing great mama!

  • @crissy9792
    @crissy9792 2 роки тому

    Hey, you are not a failure or a bad mam. Everyone has off days and believe me I’ve had plenty. You can spend time with Liam as you said, I think with the oldest child it’s taken for granted that they are ‘ok’ to sort themselves out.
    Those storage tubs are lovely, I use mine(not the same but very similar) for the throws/blankets in the living room.
    Chin up and keep positive xx

  • @ThisBlessedMess
    @ThisBlessedMess 2 роки тому +6

    The mornings are so hard for me, i am not a morning person either and I get snippy with my girls when I’m trying to get them ready for school, then I feel guilty when I drop them off, it happens, you’re not alone and you’re not failing! Liam knows helps mama loves him ♥️

  • @cassandramoon5824
    @cassandramoon5824 2 роки тому

    Don't beat yourself up momma we all have those days when we feel like we are failing as momma's but that sweet boy dont see you like that your a great momma...I love that hair food shampoo

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I shopped at my nearest Walmart Supercenter. I touched the plastic condiment containers from the round mayonnaise jars to the large ketchup squeeze bottles to the large Hidden Valley ranch dressing squeeze bottles. I bought a Ghirardelli caramel sauce squeeze bottle and more supplies.

  • @shelbycorey6785
    @shelbycorey6785 2 роки тому

    My kids are grown now and I was not a perfect momma by no means. I had them days just like you and I always felt like the worst momma ever. But when it cones down to it your kids are going to remember how much you loved them everyday, the fun things you did with them. Not the times you was grumpy with them. I have been watching your videos and you are a good momma and love your kids. That is what is important.

  • @karenwales6285
    @karenwales6285 2 роки тому +7

    The best parents know how to apologize to their kids. We all make mistakes. We all need to own our mistakes, especially with our kids. He’ll be fine!! Forgive yourself and reset.

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I could go to my nearest Target and get the round squeeze bottles of scented Mrs. Meyer's liquid dish soap so I could smell the scents at my home. Besides rinsing the dishes, I could use the soap for rinsing my hands.

  • @mareeg7745
    @mareeg7745 2 роки тому

    I honestly think you have a bit of postpartum depression, I felt the same after having my third . My patience was very thin , I’m finally on meds and I feel so much better ! Postpartum depression can creep up on you all of a sudden, being a SAHM makes it harder . I had been homeschooling my 10 year old , and i got to a point where I couldn’t do it anymore. We both needed a break from each other . He went back to school this week and it’s sooooooo much better. I don’t understand how some moms truly enjoy the homeschool experience. I do feel the guilt for not loving it but I remind myself that our family situation is unique and I shouldn’t have high expectations. I don’t know , maybe I am a crappy mom and I should enjoy spending time with my kids 24/7? I don’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @meganbarto4138
    @meganbarto4138 2 роки тому

    I know how you feel..I feel rushed and cranky lately in the morning. Maybe it's the winter blues but I get up at 6 to get both girls ready and get my oldest to school before heading to work myself and my husband drops off my youngest if his way to work so it's just rushed and everyone is cranky. Your definition not alone💞

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I have 2 Hershey's chocolate syrup squeeze bottles and 2 Ghirardelli caramel sauce squeeze bottles. I squeeze chocolate syrup into my spoon so I can stir it with milk. I heat up my chocolate milk. I pour powdered Nestle hot chocolate mix into my chocolate milk and stir 'em altogether. I reheat the mixture. Voila! I can enjoy my hot chocolate. I can either squeeze caramel sauce or chocolate syrup on my vanilla cake slices, vanilla cupcakes, vanilla ice cream and vanilla/chocolate ice cream. I top my ice cream with candy pieces, going along with either caramel sauce or chocolate syrup.

  • @christinephillips3435
    @christinephillips3435 2 роки тому

    I was like you years ago.when my girls were young but I found doing packed lunch the night before and storing in the fridge helped a lot .

  • @TinaRice4
    @TinaRice4 2 роки тому

    It is a great idea to get out just like you did when you feel stuck in the house. U heard on a segment on TV that being outdoors always makes us feel better and being out in the fresh air is a good thing. Covid has also made us feel the need to be indoors so much that we are all so sick of it. LOL
    My husband was always so good when he scolded the kids or tell them no he would always explain why. It is challenging for us Moms because we always do everything for the family.
    Where did you get coffee? Was it a local place? Also I noticed we are getting a Dutch Brothers. I know a You Tuber mentioned Dutch Brothers but I can't remember who it was. LOL
    Those organizers are awesome!!!
    Courtney never doubt yourself being a good Mom! You are a wonderful Mom and remember that kids NEED and WANT rules!!! Yes they sure do!!! I remember many times when my kids would call my name I would tell them that Mom was not home and was currently out of the house!!! LOL LOL
    I am a big fan or APPS for sure!! You can get so many rewards using APPS!!! 😁

  • @shelbyreina2037
    @shelbyreina2037 2 роки тому +4

    I have a four year old and sometimes it’s so hard to not get frustrated and lose your cool. I do it too and always feel so bad after. It’s a normal thing. It’s gonna happen time to time! He knows you love him though girl 🙂

  • @terrymintle7230
    @terrymintle7230 2 роки тому

    Mornings were hard when my son was little, sometimes he didn't want to get out of bed, and I'd lose my patience because I would be running late .

  • @rosegamer9822
    @rosegamer9822 2 роки тому

    Hey I just saw 3 of your videos I'm still looking at your videos and I saw one of your videos how you said that you are a failure and no you are not a failure you are awesome you are very chill and go with the flow and I like that about people and just keep rocking you're an awesome mom I like your videos I like How you love your children that is awesome Stay safe and God-bless you

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I'll be seeing you on your channel soon, Courtney! 🙂❤️

  • @shellymeade5872
    @shellymeade5872 2 роки тому +2

    We all go through that. I think you are a wonderful mom. Your doing the right thing by seeing your mistake and trying to fix it. Love you and your little family.

  • @elainethorne4200
    @elainethorne4200 2 роки тому +3

    You good mum just bad days xx

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I occasionally get out of my house. I either go to Burger King, Family Dollar, McDonald's, Walgreens or Walmart Supercenter.

  • @shellann8574
    @shellann8574 2 роки тому

    You are a sweet Mom, and just a sweet person. I'm sure Liam understands and knows how much you love him and his brothers.

  • @rosegamer9822
    @rosegamer9822 2 роки тому

    Also your baby's eyes are so beautiful I just had to say that like like the baby that you put your phone and wallet on that baby has your eyes and that's so beautiful that's awesome

  • @MarieLoveAsbury
    @MarieLoveAsbury 2 роки тому

    I really need to get myself out of the house. It's good for the kids to get out. I can't fit anything in my cart either because of the carseat in the buggy and Nolan usually sits in the seat.

  • @juliecappelmann1206
    @juliecappelmann1206 2 роки тому +1

    I think you are a wonderful Mom! I raised 6 children as a stay-at-home mom and it's the hardest job there is! But let me tell you, it pays off in the long run! My kids are all married and and successful with loving families of their own. Two of my boys even gradated from the Citadel. It was a wild ride but worth every minute. I would do it over in a heartbeat.. savor every minute because it goes by in a flash and then they they are grown and gone.

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    When I go to my nearest McDonald's drive-thru, I can order myself a plain "double quarter pounder with cheese", an order of fries and an order of Dr. Pepper. At my home, I can top my foods with mustard and ketchup. Or I can order myself 2 "plain, crispy chicken sandwiches", an order of fries and an order of Dr. Pepper. At my home, I can top my foods with honey barbecue sauce. I never want mayonnaise on my chicken sandwiches.

  • @wendywilson9931
    @wendywilson9931 2 роки тому +1

    All I could say is big hugs. ❤

  • @pamelaking4414
    @pamelaking4414 2 роки тому

    Hey girl we all second out selfs as moms or wife’s! Kids understand if not perfect all the time ! They do remember if you’re not nice every second of there life. Brush it off just be the best you can be and take time for your self and hubby! Every mom should get best mom award because we put on so many hats in a day! Sending hugs and ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @OurSmallTownLife
    @OurSmallTownLife 2 роки тому

    Girl, I feel you 💯 I'm the same way! I don't want to put the kids to bed on a negative note or leave them somewhere when things have been rough. And it makes me feel rotten when that happens. I could tell you it's all good don't worry but I absolutely do the same and sometimes it's good to just feel the emotion and work it out. You're a great mom!

  • @marshadietcokea6410
    @marshadietcokea6410 2 роки тому

    You are a great mom because you feel bad for how you acted. Liam knows you love him! We all have bad days sending hugs

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    Hello, Courtney Danielle! I've already watched your vlog. 📷

  • @raven6540
    @raven6540 2 роки тому

    Every time I lose my cool on my three almost four year old especially before dropping him off somewhere I just remind him how much I love him. I always feel guilty too and I never want to leave negatively so I always make sure to do that. You’re far from alone! 💜

  • @farahb4884
    @farahb4884 2 роки тому

    Your hair seems like it is like mine. You should try some no heat curl methods! There are so many UA-cam videos showing how to do them!

  • @nancywelsh8028
    @nancywelsh8028 2 роки тому

    You are an excellent mom! I really like watching your videos. Hang in there and keep on smiling. ❤️

  • @lisarockhold3213
    @lisarockhold3213 2 роки тому +1

    U are such sweet mom and I'm so glad I found ure vlogs

  • @christyb7455
    @christyb7455 2 роки тому +2

    All those moms that you say are great moms also get frustrated. Doesn't mean they're not great moms though. So be easy on yourself🙂❤

  • @ThisBlessedMess
    @ThisBlessedMess 2 роки тому +1

    I’m definitely going to have to check out those under the bed storage bins! I need to pack some things away to keep under our bed but I can never fine bins thin enough to fit underneath, those ones you showed looked like they might fit though!

  • @julietruman1850
    @julietruman1850 2 роки тому +1

    I am 42 and mom to 5 girls. You kind of remind me of a younger me. I'm not sure I would have had the confidence to post real life content and been able to hear people's opinions about my life. (Social media wasn't even a thing when my oldest was born!). You're doing just fine! Everyone has rough mornings and kids are forgiving (thank goodness). 😊. I love your coffees😁..I'm a coffee person too!

  • @teresawoods5719
    @teresawoods5719 2 роки тому +3

    This Too Shall Pass ❤️👍

  • @chelsealaird8604
    @chelsealaird8604 2 роки тому

    I rarely ever get McDonald’s fries fresh & I feel you… we’re all sick & I don’t wanna do anyyyyything lol

  • @charleypaulino87
    @charleypaulino87 2 роки тому +1

    Yes little kids toys in the bins. They look so cute. I have felt the same lately and about time with my kids and time and loosing my patience mom guilt is truly a thing and so hard sometimes try not to be to hard on your self it happens to us all.thank you for being so real honest and relatable.

  • @alseescecidancer1214
    @alseescecidancer1214 2 роки тому

    Oh we have all been there and I feel the same way about sending them off wrong. I'm sure he forgot about it when he got to school. I majorly support the 1 on 1 time though, much needed!

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I already watched one of Marie's recent vlogs. She mentioned that the McDonald's fries were disgusting to her. You probably thought they were disgusting to you. They're not discussing to me, which is why I like 'em okay. I love crispy Burger King fries. The Wendy's burger chain started selling the "new, crispy fries" a few months ago. I need to try 'em someday in the future.

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    I have 2 upsidedown large Great Value honey squeeze bottles. I squeeze honey on half my potassium pill in my spoon. I take 2 potassium pills daily. I wash down my medicine with honey and water.

  • @janetdwyer1867
    @janetdwyer1867 2 роки тому

    The three packs are not the same they are days love your volgs.

  • @beckymusic2786
    @beckymusic2786 2 роки тому

    It gets better I promise!! You rock mama ❤️❤️

  • @chelsealaird8604
    @chelsealaird8604 2 роки тому

    I love the all good diapers too!

  • @zannafink3326
    @zannafink3326 2 роки тому

    You’re doing a great job mama. Keep it up 🌟

  • @treyjoyner1932
    @treyjoyner1932 2 роки тому

    Oh no! 😯 Bryce dropped the McDonald's fries. What a mess! It really was him in the toddler's seat in your vlog, wasn't it?

  • @justthe2ofus850
    @justthe2ofus850 2 роки тому

    You seem depressed to me, are you ok? Im worried for you. Your not a failure. Maybe if you had a shrink to talk to about how you feel would help. Love you! Take care of yourself too!

    • @courtneydanielleyt
      @courtneydanielleyt  2 роки тому

      Honestly, if I seem different I think it’s just because Myles has been waking every 1-1.5 hours every night for weeks so I’m extremely sleep deprived.

  • @tamekadavis9051
    @tamekadavis9051 2 роки тому +1

    Good Morning and Happy Thursday 😊😊😊

  • @MrsAlmaTrumble
    @MrsAlmaTrumble 2 роки тому +1

    Everything will be okay. This shall pass.

  • @carolinepeeters8520
    @carolinepeeters8520 2 роки тому

    You are a great mom!! ❤❤❤

  • @mom2nan552
    @mom2nan552 2 роки тому

    poer steering pump or transmission do not ignore please

  • @ruthhill3607
    @ruthhill3607 2 роки тому

    I have bought the pack of three parents choice wipes & they are definitely not the same as the ones in the box

  • @lauram4124
    @lauram4124 2 роки тому

    It sucks but I always order them no salt and then there always fresh! Then if u want salt just ask for some on the side!!!!
    Btw, don’t do the guilt, it will ear u alive! I have just one daughter m, but she has ADHD which is like having 3 kids!!!
    But I am not a morning person either and trying to get her out the door is miserable! I have tried everything I swear! Kids bounce back so quick when they get out of school they forget real quick! But, we know it affects them. I always make it a point to sit my daughter down and look her in the eyes and tell her, mommy is sorry for this morning and I usually end up crying! Then she is the one comforting me! But yes it feels horrible once they leave the car and u just wish u could say your sorry! I think it has taught my daughter the power of apologising and really meaning it. It’s a process being a parent and your freaking human! I think your the best mom especially for your honesty!
    It’s also maybe a good idea to start finding a hour for yourself from time to tim to go do your nails or exercise or something for yourself! U need it girl! Don’t feel guilty u are not getting enough sleep and hormones it all adds up. I wish to God he would have blessed us with more than one child. It took 9 long long years of fertility. So u can’t imagine the guilt u feel with your miracle child! It’s just life and it’s ok as long as u notice it and care about it!
    Your a mom a wife a homemaker and have a regular job too!! It’s a lot and your only human girl and u need some sleep!
    We love ❤️ much and I’m so proud of u for the mom that u are and the channel that u have! If no one has told u girl, u got this! It’s ok.
    God bless, keep up the good work!
    You have truly been bleeding with 3 healthy children. Time goes by fast, don’t spend it in guilt. I always tell my daughter we will try to do better tomorrow.

  • @shandonwade5201
    @shandonwade5201 2 роки тому

    Hello fellow non morning person, I going to share with you I had to do for school mornings. I am now and always been a great Mom except.......Mornings! After 1really bad morning, and a good cry after the bus left. I went in set the alarm clock 10 minutes earlier, it will work trust me, get those feet to the floor, first stop kitchen coffee pot on. Then bathroom and wash face cold water best to wake you up. Get that cup of coffee slam half a cup down, (now put on your mommy smile mask) if your not feelIng it and smile. Only calm nice words, no matter what they say remember calm nice words. Back home get other kids settled down, bathroom shut door. Let all those nasty, ugly, mean words out that you didn't really mean anyway! Have that great alone time, apologize!!!!! for the bad morning, Love, hugs, kisses,and his favorite snack wouldn't hurt. Promise to try to do better and just one more thing, set out everything he is going to need to get out the door the night before. Keep repeating in your mind I can be grouchy(to myself)after my boys are taken care of. Just don't forget to throw in those special after school days every now and then. Might not be necessary again but boy are they nice and special too.

    • @courtneydanielleyt
      @courtneydanielleyt  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing this! I will definitely try this! I’m willing to try anything! 😆

  • @laurie4392
    @laurie4392 2 роки тому

    I hated hated hated the hair food line. My hair felt like dog hair. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @janetdwyer1867
    @janetdwyer1867 2 роки тому

    I found your channel from jenn.

  • @cowboyfinleys2757
    @cowboyfinleys2757 2 роки тому

    Because the mini is price of scrap mini vans are a price of crap