This is powerful, I was broke for many years and it became my blessing because I was rejected from the pack and I had to spend time with my Queen which I learned a lot from. Struggle is a blessing Doc
Sawubona babu Mbatha, my name is Njinga from Soweto Orlando West Phomolong, a powerful topic from you, thanx..i used to live for friends 24/,When i got rid of them 10 years ago my life immediately changed and i started seeing success.
Mina im glad i came accross this video in early stages. As im texting this i used to hustle by doing handyman small jobs and it was never really stable and now im on month number 2 on my new well paying job and my first salary i blew it emajiteni nasetshwaleni. I didn't even buy my fiance make up or w t shirt nyana. Ngyabonga Gogo uqhubeke usifundise you are saving us from existing dangers and future dangers. Busiseka
You just described my husband there in every single detail. I've done everything I can to save our marriage and he's sitting there repeating the same thing over and over again, even despite the help we look for. I've now decided to leave him
I am sorry to hear that, it must be frustrating and sad, to see all your efforts being cast aside, all your time being ignored…please be strong on your knees..your situation can change, in fact it will change. Be strong and courageous, hold your head high.
Been in almost the same story. I never went out with my husband before our separation. He would go spend most of the time with his friends to pubs and places and on his way back, its war always. To come to think of it when we met he was unemployed for 4 years then when i lost my job i was supposed to be accountable of every cent i was spending and why. the jealousy is too much.
I know of someone who Amajita knocks at his room for beers before he could even brush his teeth. A man in his late 50s. Very defensive if advised about Amajita .... life ...... stuck
No Gogo this one hots hard and hits home. This is who we are as guys.. Its the truth.. Vele sinaka amajita before endlini.. Mabasixolele abantu bethu nogogo bazivule ingqondo.. Thokozani
Thokoza Gogo_ this topic is very touching. I had to end a relationship with someone who put his friends over me. To the point where he conspired with them to ruin my reputation
Wow I never see this one coming, but this applies to everyone including abaGirl kwenzeka the something. It's not only about amajta nathi as ladies we should take note from this video. We now have friends who get angry at you ukuthi Wena uyaswenka ugqoka kahl
Saw this video on my UA-cam timeline over and over again and just passed it, KANTI!!! I’m speechless gogo the way you are so poignant on your topics one cannot just pass it by. Thokozani
Aunt Usha this is real. My marriage is hanging to divorce my husband drink daily to impress Amajita who are not married. On the month end he come back home at 23- 00 pm. No grocery, no clothes,no transport fee for kids. I asked him, he answered " it's better to be single" meaning that he is adopting to these drinking style. I'm fedup
Locksmith, Mavula kuvaliwe.. Totally agree with this statement, same as kuthi ladies these things happen and its bad especially when you see that your friends life is flourishing the jealousy starts..
This also happens amongst women today the ones I used to hang with bayangithuka that time they borrowed my money God knows what they did with my clothes. Mxm 😂😂😂😂. They even call me umthakathi knowing very well ukuth there is no such rubbish...they were using me now they are done with me.
Yerre yet again Gogo! Yaz I always watch your videos during these times ekuseni because it’s so calm and peaceful and I get to reflect on all of these things that you touch on that we go through as young growing men. It’s like a mens conference lena cos uyafundisa kakulu. Thokoza Gogo… even though zindala ezi vids the lesson behind zona zithi vuka! 👏
Mkhulu my husband 44 yrs,come 25th yoooo phone calls,he will be excited wearing ama 2000 style,On the 30th she knows im her wife.Heeey Mkhulu thanks for this video,u khuthaza mina e moyeni.
Thokoza Gogo I need your help. I'm from ephehlweni when I finished someone took umhlabathe la nginyathele khona so I can't see my dreams at all. Please help me Gogo
Morning stays somewhere on JHB they got a terrible ACC dent with his wife,the wife past on, I am not sure if he is bad luck or what but bad luck follow him thank you
Gogo thanks very much for the information, you are really a blessing in my life, may the good Lord richly Bless you and give you all your heart desires
iesh yazi gogo i wish i saw this video earlier, one of my friends set me up namajita wakhe and bangibamba inkunzi iphone yami entsha sha i iphone 11 pro...i trusted thi guy kant his a judas..he put my life in danger wangixabanisa no mam, abangani ngiyababonga
Every family in a black community has this types rich or not. I pray that my little brother does not turn out like that coz financially we are struggling.
@@dr.gogobathinimbathatv Thokoza gogo, when I started working all was good, I worked for a leading newspaper then moved to one of the leading banks and the money was good, getting promoted almost every two years. Then I started hanging around namajita who were at the time unemployed, buying them alcohol in the name of ngi philela amajita ase Kasi. Amajita ai two you spoke about I can relate cause I had them in my life. They new when am I getting paid and would always have someone to borrow me money if I did not have any at the time, things have spiralled downwards since then, I sometimes feel like someone came and took all my luck. Thokoza gogo 👏
This is powerful, I was broke for many years and it became my blessing because I was rejected from the pack and I had to spend time with my Queen which I learned a lot from. Struggle is a blessing Doc
Sawubona babu Mbatha, my name is Njinga from Soweto Orlando West Phomolong, a powerful topic from you, thanx..i used to live for friends 24/,When i got rid of them 10 years ago my life immediately changed and i started seeing success.
I'm a lady from Orlando East, I really wanna see ulock Smith stru
When we pray away the pain of not being in alignment with our dreams, we also need to pray away for such friends! Thank you Gogo.
Mina im glad i came accross this video in early stages. As im texting this i used to hustle by doing handyman small jobs and it was never really stable and now im on month number 2 on my new well paying job and my first salary i blew it emajiteni nasetshwaleni. I didn't even buy my fiance make up or w t shirt nyana. Ngyabonga Gogo uqhubeke usifundise you are saving us from existing dangers and future dangers. Busiseka
Thokoza gogo... Im nowhere today because of them but today im hated by all of them they now uses muthi to get tid of me. Please pray for with me Gogo
You just described my husband there in every single detail. I've done everything I can to save our marriage and he's sitting there repeating the same thing over and over again, even despite the help we look for. I've now decided to leave him
Hi Yvette
@@njongomato😂😂😂😂😅😅😢
Okubuhlungu yokukhumbula ungeku satholakali ngiyayazi leyo mpilo ingibambezele kakhulu abangani bakudinga ngoba khona bakuzuzayo kuwe mali kuhlakanipha kwakho badinga lokhu okubasebenzelayo.
I am sorry to hear that, it must be frustrating and sad, to see all your efforts being cast aside, all your time being ignored…please be strong on your knees..your situation can change, in fact it will change. Be strong and courageous, hold your head high.
Ayi don't leave
Siyabonga Gogo. Kunjalo vele ........ less friends lesser troubles/problems. Thokoza 🙏
Amen Gogo may God bless you abundantly
So true, I always tell my son. I hope and believe he is hearing me. He is only 18
Been in almost the same story. I never went out with my husband before our separation. He would go spend most of the time with his friends to pubs and places and on his way back, its war always. To come to think of it when we met he was unemployed for 4 years then when i lost my job i was supposed to be accountable of every cent i was spending and why. the jealousy is too much.
I can stay home the whole weekend without going out. I am done with amajita
I know of someone who Amajita knocks at his room for beers before he could even brush his teeth. A man in his late 50s. Very defensive if advised about Amajita .... life ...... stuck
Great video Gogo. Can your next video please be about jealousy and bullying😢
Keep speaking wisdom chief, we are here to listen🙏🏽
This is so deep, I heavily resonate with it Gogo
No Gogo this one hots hard and hits home. This is who we are as guys.. Its the truth.. Vele sinaka amajita before endlini.. Mabasixolele abantu bethu nogogo bazivule ingqondo.. Thokozani
Hau! nakhu kusala okubaluleke kakhulu 🤩🤗☠ #bopha Bhakaniya 🏴☠️🏴☠️🏴☠️🏴☠️🏴☠️
Yhooh Gogo umshado wami uphelile ngendaba yamajita(bad company)umuntu uvaleka ingcondo tuu,ngiright shem 21yrs ngibekezele,baletha nokungcola endlini uzihlalele ngiright ayiye💔
Thank you Baba for your teachings, imparting wisdom and warning us of such friends. Thokoza baba
This is so profound🙏🏾 siyabonga gogo Bathini, uNkulunkulu akwandisele isiphiwo solwazi nozwelo labafwethu, ngoba isifo lesi
Thokoza Gogo_ this topic is very touching. I had to end a relationship with someone who put his friends over me. To the point where he conspired with them to ruin my reputation
Thokoza
It’s called power of amajita
Ngaphuma Nam kulo doti womfana ,his 45 ayikho into ayicabangayo ngaphandle kwabangani ,,,I thank God m so fine where I am
Up the Bucs Mthiya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yoh 😢 gogo this topic is very deep but thank you ❤❤🙏 eish wasn't aware of amajita an eye opening topic asbonge
Camagu mkhulu we appreciate your knowledge of enlightment
Amajita mara amaflop sometimes mkhulu much love from ko Soweto 🤝🏽
I realised I've grown the day I broke loose of those chains❤
President yamaqiniso ❤ Thogoza gogo
Wow I never see this one coming, but this applies to everyone including abaGirl kwenzeka the something. It's not only about amajta nathi as ladies we should take note from this video. We now have friends who get angry at you ukuthi Wena uyaswenka ugqoka kahl
Thank u for being an eye opener my brother 💯💯💯🤞
Energy, motivational food for spirit even spiritual thanks for mealie gogo engineering of altar. Limpopo I heard ur voice
I encountered that many times I no longer want a friend that doesn't think ahead like me.
Thokoza Gogo... hense I'm alone for a reason..
Mara gogo, usicamukelaphi yoh! impilo uyayazi shem cabeka njalo🤞👋
Saw this video on my UA-cam timeline over and over again and just passed it, KANTI!!! I’m speechless gogo the way you are so poignant on your topics one cannot just pass it by. Thokozani
He entertained amajita kwaze kwaba sekugcineni. I left, for my peace.
Gogo what an interesting topic! Makwande 👏 This applies to us ladies we have to be careful of our friends. Setting boundaries is very crucial.
Doctor Bathini Mbatha thank you, so much I may not write regularly nor have the money to come see you but your videos are a blessing.
Aunt Usha this is real. My marriage is hanging to divorce my husband drink daily to impress Amajita who are not married. On the month end he come back home at 23- 00 pm. No grocery, no clothes,no transport fee for kids. I asked him, he answered " it's better to be single" meaning that he is adopting to these drinking style. I'm fedup
😢😢😢
I always lived my life as NBF (no body,s friend)
Thokoza Gogo, thanks for this informative lesson.
Auntie Usha. Uyindoda. Buzani mina ngizonitshela. Please keep up the god work Sir!!!
Locksmith, Mavula kuvaliwe..
Totally agree with this statement, same as kuthi ladies these things happen and its bad especially when you see that your friends life is flourishing the jealousy starts..
I used to prioritize those people and after getting rid of them i started seeing light
Thokoza Gogo 👏🏾 lock smith wangempela
This also happens amongst women today the ones I used to hang with bayangithuka that time they borrowed my money God knows what they did with my clothes. Mxm 😂😂😂😂. They even call me umthakathi knowing very well ukuth there is no such rubbish...they were using me now they are done with me.
Thokoza
It’s called, umuntu
@@dr.gogobathinimbathatv Thokoza Gogo ngiyabonga.
Gogo please make a video about ladies and dichommie
Every educational Siyabonga Gogo
Yerre yet again Gogo! Yaz I always watch your videos during these times ekuseni because it’s so calm and peaceful and I get to reflect on all of these things that you touch on that we go through as young growing men. It’s like a mens conference lena cos uyafundisa kakulu.
Thokoza Gogo… even though zindala ezi vids the lesson behind zona zithi vuka! 👏
That was me...Leaving behiend my daughter and wife behiend kyoba namajita
Gogo you are one of the best I was there last year trust me I don't regret..I wanna come again this year with my brother the is a lot to fix
Gogo really an eye opening topic🕯
You are always right people don't use muthi and end blaming us doctors
Ey Gogo Bathini Mbatha yinyaniso emsulwa leyo uyithethayo asifuni nova ngamajitar sincama imizi yethu😢😢😢
Story Time with Aunty Usha☕🍩
😂
Mkhulu my husband 44 yrs,come 25th yoooo phone calls,he will be excited wearing ama 2000 style,On the 30th she knows im her wife.Heeey Mkhulu thanks for this video,u khuthaza mina e moyeni.
Thokoza Gogo please open the surgery in Joburg, we need you😢😢
Thokoza
Indeed I’m working on that.
Thokoza Gogo I need your help. I'm from ephehlweni when I finished someone took umhlabathe la nginyathele khona so I can't see my dreams at all. Please help me Gogo
Lol... my partner chasing friends and he is listening 😅
Thokoza Gogo,please pray or help Sechaba Padi (gospel singer) not sure if he believes in ancestors thank you
Thokoza
Where is he?
Morning stays somewhere on JHB they got a terrible ACC dent with his wife,the wife past on, I am not sure if he is bad luck or what but bad luck follow him thank you
Gogo thanks very much for the information, you are really a blessing in my life, may the good Lord richly Bless you and give you all your heart desires
Thank you very much for the information 💯🙏
Thokoza Salukazi sendoda thanks for your teaching akwande 🙏🙏
Thokoza Gogo…..no friends no problem for real 🤞🏽🤞🏽
Ukhuluma indzaba lejulile gogo bathini ngikuva kahle
Thokoza Gogo! Mina ngibuza youth kwenziwa yini ukuthi uma unabangani unabangani abathize especially abakhelene nawe niphuza bese uba ne nezigameko ezithize ezenzekayo ongakhumbuli lutho ngazo ezihlahlabisa amahloni' ezinje ngoku sleepwalker. Noma like some few hours ongakhumbuli lutho ngawo
iesh yazi gogo i wish i saw this video earlier, one of my friends set me up namajita wakhe and bangibamba inkunzi iphone yami entsha sha i iphone 11 pro...i trusted thi guy kant his a judas..he put my life in danger wangixabanisa no mam, abangani ngiyababonga
Siyabonga. Sounds like someone I could've know
I left amajita coz Anomona amagents.
Ngyafisa ukwazi ukuthi ngabe uGogo Bathini Mbatha uluzalo okanye unabo yini ubuhlobo noBaba uSosobala webhanoyi Mbatha
This hit home, wish men could watch this
my story just now
I will be happy if we know each other
Mhm Yoh. I’m learning something
Thokoza Salukazi seNdoda👏👏❤
Sontshikazi ijulile le siyabonga
Missed you.
Emakhosini, ngisacela ukubuza ukuthi kubhukwa kanjani kulezinsuku. Ngiyahluleka ngochingo alufuni ukungena ngyabonga
Every family in a black community has this types rich or not. I pray that my little brother does not turn out like that coz financially we are struggling.
I'm going through the same thing
Well said 🎉🎉
We miss your life lessons Gogo Bathini. I send my prayers and love to you and your family. Please come back😊
Thokoza
Ngiyabonga kakhulu, I'm still fixing some life things, definitely your prayers will make it easier.
@@dr.gogobathinimbathatv all is well Gogo🤗 we will wait. Thank you.
Story of my life gogo 😮
THOKOZA GOGO WETHU NGIYABONGA MINA NABAFETHU AKWANDE MTHIYA
From 19:42, ay uqedile Shandu. Also my believe
True Gogo
Locksmith🔥👏
Up The Bucs Gogo☠️☠️
i see it in myself and life 😥
❤❤❤ Thokoza Gogo
Thokoza gogo asbonge wise words🎉
Syabonga ukusakha mkhulu
I relationships ziphelile ngendaba yamajita
I so badly wish I could vrostaan alles!!😢🇳🇦
Very powerful topic, harsh realities. This is what we call it untold stories, untapped realities
.siyabonga Gogo
My younger brother 😮😮
Story of my life gogo 😮😢
Thokoza
Please share your story
@@dr.gogobathinimbathatv Thokoza gogo, when I started working all was good, I worked for a leading newspaper then moved to one of the leading banks and the money was good, getting promoted almost every two years. Then I started hanging around namajita who were at the time unemployed, buying them alcohol in the name of ngi philela amajita ase Kasi. Amajita ai two you spoke about I can relate cause I had them in my life. They new when am I getting paid and would always have someone to borrow me money if I did not have any at the time, things have spiralled downwards since then, I sometimes feel like someone came and took all my luck. Thokoza gogo 👏
Thokoza Gogo, is there something wrong with your booking lines, I can't seem to reach them they're not ringing at all.
I was so excited to see you today.
Thokoza gogo
Thank you for being brave and say hi. Most people are scared to be seen talking to me….
Gogo, these numbers are not going through please advise. I would really like to book an appointment
Hi Gogo im trying to reach you but no luck
Gogo❤
Morning i have been trying to calling the office but the phones are both off whats going on?