VLOG: The Ups & Downs of being a WOMAN, MODESTY? WASH DAY! Miami Nights, Body Image struggles, Q&A
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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Girl thanks for keeping it real 💯. Everyday ain't perfect like some people make it seem. We live in the real world where things don't always function according to our plans....so keep it real as always. I love that your content brings reality to this role of Content creators.
thank you so much!!!
The transition from the first half to the second half of the vlog is SOO relatable! Them hormones don’t play 😂😂😂
lol I was watching it back like wow the ovulation phase really is glorious 😂
@@OnlyOneJess 😂you came back a whole new woman! It was beautiful ❤️
I’ve been so hyped for this longer vlog, it’s like a two part episode of your favorite show 😂
😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Yes lol
Hi @@OnlyOneJess what does it mean when you said this night was an L?
@@datsliz a Loss lol like our reservations for the original place we wanted to go to got canceled then the next place we went to didn’t have any places available and we were just walking up and down all night trying to find somewhere to go lol
@@OnlyOneJess Lol, got it. Thanks for clearing that up for me.
We got a movie!! 1hr 26 mins long vlog. Whatttt lol. WORTH THA WAITTT
lolll hope yall love it!
Absolutely ❤❤❤❤
Jess please don’t feel bad for having a bad day or showing emotions. This is your life. It’s not perfect and that’s fine. That doesn’t need to be explained, period.
Ugh thank you thank you! 🥹🩷🩷🩷
“My testosterone was low but why do I have hair on my chin?” I almost SCREAMED in this doctor’s office and it’s so quiet in the lobby area 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
1. You two are so cute together!
2. Praise God for Johnathan’s knowledge and strictness about budgeting! That is a tremendous blessing!
3. I still really like your bob ❤
thank you thank you and thank you!!!!
Don’t get an animal! Resolve the issues first.
I am a nurse and you’re absolutely right that they should have called you! I’m so sorry you had this experience 😢
Ugh that’s so frustratinggggg, thank you! 🩷
Put them on blast so that others will avoid them.
Girlllll felt everything you’ve been going through as far as your health. I was diagnosed with PCOS. Since then struggling with weight loss and random hairs.🙃 Feeling exhausted..fatigued, etc. So you’re not alone! 🫶🏾
Ah, so many things that can be going on with our bodies, we need a break 😭 praying over your health sis ❤️❤️
@@OnlyOneJess Thanks sis!🩷
Girl the period is an emotional time it's crazy. During that time i never know what to wear and i am always body conscious during that time so i can relate. Your natural hair is super cute. loving it.
my period be SLAPPING MEEEE UP lol so over it man
Jess your vlogs are so warm and so real. Like it feels like watching a friend. You’re funny and authentic. Not just showing the fluff and aesthetics. Love you love your life! Those hormones be crazy sometimes girl. My husband be looking at me with the side eye then afterwards I’m like maybe I WAS being dramatic lol.
“I love when the hair cut and ovulation stage sync up” that gave me a laugh that blessed my soul! 😂
Let’s just say that I am mad at the medical field! The amount of times I’ve said, welp I’m just not going back to the doctor, God got me! cause I’ve dealt with similar things. You’re not wrong!
girl the medical field can be so annoyingggg like geez man
No bad vibes just you being you, OnlyoneJess! Thank you for the vlog! It’s right on time and I know there’s plenty of us who are thankful❤ the relax in thae QNA is a woordddd😅
Thank youuuuu!! That “relax” will always be a word lol
Share your journey if you feel. You will never be alone in this journey and people can relate and feel and understand your struggles.
Hey Jess!!!! Let me get my popcorn!!!! I missed you!!!!!
lol and dim the lights it’s movie time 😂 missed yall! 🤍
Thank you so much for explaining budgeting to the people in the back!! I sent that clip to my non-budgeting friends..
yes girllll, like we cannot just do whatever we want at all times out here, friends think i can just go to bora bora next weekend like no sis LOL
AFTERWORK VLOG SESSIONS >>> YESS LAWDD
Love this for usss 🤍
🫶🏽🖤 girl we love you! We’re here for it all! You do not have to perform for us! The ones that get it get it and the ones that don’t don’t!😂 no one person is up and cheerful all day everyday! You’re human and ppl need to know how to give others the grace and space to be human!!! Praying God will continue blessing you in abundance! I feel although this isn’t the beginning of your UA-cam journey this is the beginning of the many blessings coming your way!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🖤🖤🖤love ya have a great week!! ✌🏽
Thank you so so much!! 🩷🩷
Your natural curls are GORGEOUS!! Companies obviously realize this too and want to see it more. Hence the products!!
Post comment edit bc im like 50 min in, lollllll abt the ovulation stage emotion normalcy, girl I feel you heavy on the hormonal period emotions.
FYI: Novel ahead, but in short keep being the best you that you can be, you're doing great
I appreciate your honesty and realness. Every time I see you post a video I'm like yassss " theres only one, theres only one, theres only one jess, only one jesssssss" with associated dancing because 1) your theme song is dope (shout out to all involved in its making) and 2) you are genuinely a breath a fresh air because of your realness, and humor and desire to be the best you that you can be ( which sometimes means being your best ***human***(which is harder as a public figure in any form)-self who doesn't always eat the right foods, or speak the best with others but still attends church conferences in order to grow spiritually and support your church, and participates in youth groups and friendships that can sometimes be exhausting (bc energy be running low frfr_ Jesus be a iron pill or zinc supplement lol) even if they are helpful for us and attend the gym and aim to be consistent vs the next gabby Douglas
Anywho i could go one and on bc I can relate; being 29 and trying to solidify my foundation in Christ, and who i am/ who I want to be for my future fam, in my career, for my current loved ones, for myself, etc, girl it be alot ooooo lol. So keep growing, keep doing your best, keep connecting/speaking with your husband and loved ones you feel comfortable with (its easy to shut down, i know from experience, but it only disservices you and those who love you, buttttt sometimes it also be like that *shrug*), its okay to cry the release is often needed, keep pushing yourself bc you know yourself and giving yourself grace where necessary all while involving others/ tech/ strategies, that can keep you accountable (therapy, vs apps, workout partners or ppl you meet through fb groups or bumble etc). Keep doing your thing as you are and as you grow because you are loved, you are necessary ( not saying this bc of your crying but bc its frfr true for all of us my girl, and nice reminders a good) and you're appreciated, even when you havent heard it recently or even when it's hard for you to feel it after hear it. I for one don't know your life fully but from bingeing your content lol, you're a beautiful, young and fit gyal still doing her ting ting, and you have great things (both the big and the daily mundane yet beautiful) ahead of her. Big up yahself and keep shining your light.✊🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
This scripture came to mind, hope this doesn't add pressure but reminds you that you do this daily by being the best you that you can be (Jesus sacrificed yes but he also shine his light by being who himself amongst men while living life) "“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:14. Book over 😅, have an awesome week bc you deserve.
This was so sweet and genuine, THANK YOU! And I felt that Jesus be an iron pill for real 😭😂😂 thank you for all the nice words of encouragement! And that verse is all types of highlighted in my Bible! Thank you sis 💜💜
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I always look forward to the little clips you insert of you singing in church ❤️❤️ and your relationship with your parents and siblings is adorable🥹🥹
Ah thank you so much! 🥹🤍🤍
We love your authenticity! I enjoyed every bit of this vlog
Thank you sis 🥰🥰😂
“Are there hairs growing in!?” 😂😂😂 im crine real tears right now cause I can’t stop laughing. Jess, we love you for you and that’s it and that’s all ❤ No bad vibes were detected 🥰
Loll I love yallll 🤍🤍
Hey Jess🥰… i just wanna sayyyyt….I am absolutely loving this vlog… I just love your authenticity and transparency…I could kinda tell you weren’t really feeling your best at certain moments…and trust me I fellltttt you girlll like forealll! life really be tough sometimes 🥹 but for me seeing you still tryna push through and then making a lil bounce back afterwards …I was just like yass that’s my gorll ☺️🥹
Ahhh thank youuuu! We fall down but we get upppp lol 💜💜
The batteries dying while you were making the chai tea latte was too funny🤣🤣
The way I’ve been waiting 😭😭. I missed you so much 🥹🫶🏾
I missed y’all!! 🤍🤍🤍
Yay Jess is on, Jess is on! My 9 year old son sings the song at the beginning of the video everytime I watch a new video😂
lollll heyyyy
7:12 Old Navy has pretty good basics and clothes that's affordable. They're always having a sale, and their point system and super cash helps. That's my favorite store.
thats crazy i havent been to an old navy in years let me find out they stepped their game up!!
@@OnlyOneJess Yes! I prefer ordering online though. The stores don't have as much good stuff as online to me.
THEE 'BESTTTT DIMPLES' AWARD GOES TO YOU MAMA!
Staaapppp 😭😭 lol thank youuuu 🩷🩷
I love the way your hair looked when you pinned it up. 😊
thank you!!!
Girl we'll wait for your vlogs girl. You speak your heart if you want to ❤ it's like listening to the woes of a friend 😅 I feel the same way on my period like life not life-in 😂
life really be on a whole C minus in the gradebook when we on our period lol
Correct
Just when I am saying I need my dose of Jess there you go dropping a vlog. Is like the Lord knows I need you in my life. ☺
Jess, this is literally a whole movie! Thank youuuu! You're so kind in merging the videos and showing what you choose to in your daily life 😭❤️
Definitely watching tonight when I reach home
The way I went through EVERY emotion with you in this vlog!!!! You are so appreciated and NEVER judged over here. The way my period be having me saying “We Depressed!!!”….or whatever DJ Khaled be saying is unreal. I get it, and I am soooo happy you were able to pull it together and just made a longer vlog. You are so appreciated!
So happy you uploaded today, just in time! Also I appreciate your transparency it’s completely okay/normal and expected to not always have the best day!
Also Jonathan looks like Marques Houston with his beard cut off lol
😂😂😂 I def can see that, ima tell him to go home tiger later tonight and see if he catches it lol and thank you so much! All the normals girls TO THE FRONT! lol
Jess! I’ve been watching all of your old vlogs for the past two weeks! I first started watching your vlogs after you and Jonathan’s wedding so I was curious to watch your older vlogs and see how it all started. Now I’m done and don’t know what to watch anymore 😂 (well I have this one now so let me get a snack 🙌🏾) Anyways girl when I tell you I had a good time watching them! I really love who you are as a person! Keep being you and may God bless you even more ❤️
Omg thank youuuuu, I need to rewatch my old vlogs to see what I was talking about 😂
K, I never comment, but long time quiet supporter here! Watch every vlog (sometimes twice). Love ya girl.
Anyways, I was actually thinking, Jess, it’d be pretty cool if you did like a reaction video to some of your old vlogs. & just sorta see how far you’ve come and also maybe give updates on some things you’ve said in the past. Just a thought! Other than that, keep it up Jess! We’re all rooting for you here ❤
@@ohbolu I love that ideaaaa!! I’ll do that soon I truly love that 🥰
This actually makes me so happy on so many fronts!! Looking forward to watching it - thanks for replying ☺️
@@ohbolu 🥰🥰🤍🤍🤍 thank you again! :)
Friend, I look so forward to your blog every week. I get excited. Just luv u girl 🤩
ah thank youuuuu love you!!
Jess your curl girl!!!! So cuuuuttteeee!!!!! Loved the vlog and I appreciate you always giving us the real on where you are with thought processes. Stay encouraged girl! ❤
Hi Jess I love you so much and I felt that everyone has an off day or week or month it's ok. I have them as well, start crying when it seems too be a lot at times. And the doctor's office was wrong for that and I'm sorry you went 6 months thinking everything was ok! They should have called you ASAP if it was something they were concerned about! God got you and good luck on finding a new gynecologist.
Sending light , love and plenty hugs your way Jess 💜💜
YAAAASSSSSSSS, c'mon with the EXTENDED vlog ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Welcome back my love!!!
yess i got yalll
my fav part of the week is watching you!!! I love these vlogs
ah thanks sis
Thanks for showing us all the sides of you. We all have our days and our moments. So thank you for being real and you! ❤
I love the fact you are being completely human..it’s life keep growing through it❤
Hey Jess your feelings are valid. I don’t watch you because you make me feel good, I watch you bc I like you even on your bad days. FYI these days you have to be on top of everything ppl are overworked and some are careless. Always find out what company your doctors office is using for lab results like labcorp/quest or other imaging services, make an account and view your results. I learned a lot about me by doing that, sometimes providers will not tell you everything that comes back abnormal until it’s life threatening
Missed you sis.. Watching all of this of course. And the Bob is GIVING ADULT BADDIE!! LOVE IT❤❤
hey sissss
Jess, I have had terrible experiences with the healthcare system, too. Something similar happened to me and I filed a grievance. Appreciate the long vlog💚✨️🧡
Even tho I love your videos. You should only put out vlogs when you are ready and feel good about it. Your true subscribers just wanna see you. You're entertaining. Even when you're rambling. Take your time and be Jess ❤
Ah thank you!! 💜💜
Notification gang ❤ spreading my love all the way from South Africa ❤
Not South Africaaaa, hey sis!! 🤍🤍
GET A CAT!! I have really bad anxiety and depression and it’s been the worst it’s ever been the past few months I’ve been going through a lot of tough things as well so adopting my Luna has been the best thing I’ve ever done . Praying for you and sending you light 💛🌻
Ah yes I want one so bad, I know the maintenance is super low on them as well it’s the perfect pet 🥹
This was me and hubby: I washed, clothes stayed in hamper for ummm, a month (I think…) 😂. Now that hubby is retired; he washes, fold his laundry, mine stay in the hamper for maybe 2 weeks at the most. I’m getting better. Yay me 😂
i love to hear ittt lol
I really do look forward to your videos. It helps me push through in life! Thanks for the upload 💛😊
thank you so so much!!
Hey Jess, A woman, especially black women, we have to check back and advocate for our health. And I have had bad front office or unbothered doc staff issues before with doctors offices, and that's a NO for me too. Praying you get your answers about your health soon!!❤🙏🏾
I thoroughly enjoyed this vlog. Thank you for the LONG vlog Jess :)
Ah thank youuu! 🤍
I’ll be praying for your healing ❤
Thank you so much 🩷🩷
I appreciate you for putting this vlog 💛 I know it's difficult to push past ourselves, what we feel and how we view things at any given moment. Being able to see a vlog like this makes me take a deep and prompts me to tell myself that it's okay to not be okay sometimes, it is only temporary and there will be better days and that no one has it altogether all the time.
Yes vlog! Can’t wait to watch at work later. I’ll be back!
see you soon sis!
We are literally just alike “I promise I’m okay” *proceeds to wipe tears* 😭 I love your authentic
lol we don’t want no pitty but we do want to let people know we not doing okay right now but also doing okay at the same time 😭😂😂
@@OnlyOneJess 😂😂😭
Thank u for the budgeting lesson. I take easy too much for granted in that department. I plan to work on it❤
yes absolutely! my husband taught me this and even though i wish i could do whatever I wanted thats not being a good steward of our money, it takes time though so dont be hard on yourself!
That’s funny cuz my last name is steward, so I’m always reminded of that. Thanks for the transparency 😊
@@sonyasteward2578 oh so it’s already spoken over you sis lol you got this 🤍🤍
Jess my vote is for longer vlogs always!🥳
If yall want the longer vlogs its gonna be every two weeks and not weekly 😂😂
Time flies when you're having fun 😂@@OnlyOneJess
*Jess. I just feel like you need a Release. I sometimes take a solo trip somewhere, could be the park or even my backyard, play a song and just cry. I release in my tears all of the negative energy, overthinking and just fear of unknowing what's next. And when I'm done I say to myself "You're Ok". It is very helpful for me mentally. Also, the car wash clips are always low keep relaxing/therapeutic. I watch while I work so I just look and take a breathe of fresh air.* 🤎
yesss i literally went there just for a relaxing stimulation because i know good and well it wasn't going to get my car clean for real lol
@@OnlyOneJess no worries girl. Just find your Release. I know we get tired of the tests God gives us everyday but trust me We Got This!
You're such a gem, Jess. I know this isn't helpful but even your chai scene was hilarious. Like that make-up post you put on Instagram proved, don't doubt yourself 💕💐💕💐💕
😂😂😂 thank you!!! 🩷🩷
Aww Jess I just wanna hug you ❤ keep your head up. I pray that all of your hearts desires come true for you, I mean that 💕
Thank you so so much! I believe they will, just taking longer than I thought it would 🥹🤍🤍
Loving this extra long vlog. Jonathan with no beard is giving me Michael B. Jordan vibes.
That’s the name he didn’t want me to say 😂😂
@@OnlyOneJess 😆
Hey Jess honey... very happy to see you. You are super relatable and i love your content. Keep being you and stay blessed.
thank you so much sis!!
@@OnlyOneJess You are so welcome!
i was literally just thinkingabout you rn! Cant wait to watch this after school! A whole 1 and a halffff?? Thank you!
Ahh heyyy 🥰🥰
I really enjoyed this vlog Jess!! Thank you for being you
Thank you sis!! 💜💜
My dear lovely Jess, you make us so happy all the time! Even when things don't always go the way we would like, you still can cheer us up! I'm sorry you had that experience 😢... thank God for happier days! You and Jon are the best! Keep shining sweetheart..❤❤
Jess you put a splash of tea in that latte lmaoooo :) Love your vlogs!
😂😂😂😂 it was giving oat milk latte 😂
It's a concentrate! lol she said it tastes good so
Oh my gosh the out of the box song!! I got a new job and planned to sing that on the way out of my current position but then I thought no one knows the song so they won't get it. Lol it's the little things for me.
lolll and now its time to say goodbyeeeeee! you're the only one who's caught it so far
“When you see me doing a wig video…” I’m hollering 💀
Looook, just preparing y’all hearts 😂😂
LOVED THIS EPISODE! it really hit for me personally especially when you spoke about relaxing and God reminding you of who He STILL IS literally been my last couple of weeks🩷🤗 We truly serve a wonderful Father.
He is such a good God, always has been and always will be 🤍🤍🤍🩷
Girl, I love you, your transparency and vulnerability. You keep me encouraged because I know that I am not alone and neither are you. God has you, loves you and so do I. You are blessed and highly favored Jess. ❤️😘
Hey girl!!! I've been waiting on this all week!! And it's an hour and a half!! Yesss! ❤
thought id give a little extra this week since i was gone lol
@@OnlyOneJess I love that!❤️
Continue to stay strong ! But I think you are doubting yourself and the strong connection you have with your viewers. We love you for your authenticity and ability to relay real life to us. Trust and believe we too learn from you and your experiences. Continue rocking this thing out , know you're not alone in this.
The mouth wash dispenser made the old soul in me very excited lol! 😂❤
😂😂😂 the second half of the vlog!! Sooo relatable!! It be like that for real!!!!
Hey Jess!!!! Happy March, I’ve missed you girl, I hope all is well ❤
hey sisss!! missed yall!!!
This is my first time watching a vlog of urs. I like it 👏
Ah thank you!! 🥰
I completely understand your frustrations with trying to find a good provider.
Trust me Jess, I read between the lines and I think we are at the same place in life. I do the same thing. I know people around me are tired of hearing me vent and overthink about it. I wish we could be friends like in real life. We are just alike and I love a like minded friend. Spiritually and secularly🥹🩵
I so appreciate your humanness and realness. It's why I watch your channel. It's ok Jess......these moments are normal. You are strong young lady ❤😊
We will take whatever youre giving. You are just so adorable. Financial discipline is important
Jess you've become my favorite UA-camr ❤️❤️
ahhh thank youuu!!
I truly enjoyed this long one…you are a real one…love u lil sis❤❤❤
Thank you sissss 💜💜
Loving the devotional time, inspiration indeed
IT'S TIME FOR MY FAVORITE MOVIEEEE!! LOVE U, JESS ♥
lolll i love yall!!
58:40 As soon as Jess pans over to Johnathan after his haircut....Awwwwwwww!!!! Little Bro Johnny😎
I don't know if it's healthy to be this excited for your vlog, but I don't wanna change 😂
😂😂😂 it’s scientifically proven to be healthy for you 😂
Love watching your videos doesn’t matter what you post , such a beautiful person and love your vibes 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much! 🥹🩷
I had no idea you can use Indian Healing Clay for your hair. Thank you for this info. 😊
yesss! been using it for some time now!
Love the long vlogs Jess!!!!❤
I’m gone post my content, I’ve gotten to many signs!!🤸🏽♀️🥳👏🏽
Hey Jess!! Hear me out. I don’t think you’re into astrology but you are certainly in sync! It’s def been a time to slow down and I appreciate you deciding to put out a longer video that felt like it was quality than posting just because of a timeline. I think you’re truly a powerful woman and when God moves through you, you don’t have the same constraint by time like others. In the end I think this was a much more gratifying add for your community and gave you time!
Now, I’m a holistic coach (mindset, energy, fitness) and based on the videos and what you’ve shared you hold a lot of your stress in your abdominal area. I’m not sure if you’ve tried journaling or mediation but I think processing is an area of self regulation that would greatly benefit you.
I have a Christian background so I know how to navigate in a way that’s in alignment with your religion and can even strengthen your connection to God. If you’d like some guidance I’m happy to help! But I think that’ll really help you physically mentally emotionally and spiritually (living in your purpose).
I always appreciate you sharing your truth and being vulnerable with us. Continue being patient, the rewards are on their way.
Awwww glad u pushed thru and posted anyway...relatable content is the best content...we all have days...hope you're feeling better
It’s one thing for sure you’re blessed to have friends. I don’t have none. My husband is my best friend and my daughters are the other two friends. I was always an introvert. I’ll be 49 Sept. and been a loner throughout my life.
Ah this makes me so sad to hear 🥹🥹 but it’s not too late!
Not me smiling when I saw you peeking through the side of the camera. You've signed of this vlog how many times now? But I am here for all of it
One of the only ones who make me CACKLE within a minute of the video starting 😭😭
😂😂😂😂 hey girl heyyy lol
49:13 The end of the first part of the vlog is so relatable ❤❤❤ Love you girl!!! Hugs! 😊
It’s okay, Jess! You’re right, we all have our good and bad days.
I love the longer vlogs! Actually, any of your vlogs. Be blessed!!! ❤