J T Discusses Some Of The Good And Bad Things About Being A Lone Wolf At 21
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- Опубліковано 19 сер 2023
- This time I talk about my current mental state and my thoughts on being alone and single for 11 years this was a hard video to make as I hate letting my feelings out but I had to as they were bottling up in my fuckin mind! Enjoy Giggity
I think it's a great thing that you are documenting these buildings before they are lost forever. So keep up the good work.
Have just come across this video, watched your urbex videos multiple times! All I’m gonna say is I’ve absolutely been where you are before, but let me tell you, you have a belter of a colourful personality and you’re a good looking guy! The confidence you have in your videos? Find ways to transport that into social situations. As soon as you do that, you’ll absolutely shine in a crowded room. Embrace the colour, embrace the quirkiness, as soon as you do that? Things will look up. I think you’re pretty awesome! Chin up! :)
I to absolutely love tower block and have no idea why 😊 I have slight mental health issues nothing serious so don’t feel alone 😊
there is a girl out there who also loves tower blocks too and i hope you meet her soon! just a matter of time
love the videos as always JT!
It's been 11 years so I don't think there is anyone left now maybe in my dreams there is a girl who loves tower blocks but I have a feeling that will never happen
you are young.its going to happen man. keep your head up!
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Chin up man! Always here if you need to talk :D
You are a good looking guy with lots of chat. You WILL meet someone. They might not be into tower blocks but that's ok! Wishing you all the very best.
You're not alone JT.
Was single for more years than your current age 😅.
Your spot on about being able to do what you want which I find awesome.
The only thing I hate about it is dining out alone.
But after all those years of thinking I'll be single forever I have found someone.
You're a good guy and I'm sure you will find someone.
Relationships are overrated. Look around and see...there's very few, if any examples of good relationships. They're hardgoing generally and you're still so young. I've never mastered them properly. Also, people move in with each other waaay too soon before they see the bad points of the other person, and also get too dependant on one another. Sack that crap! I met the first decent person when I was 25 and messed it up.Too much silly conflict and stubborness on both sides, mainly his. Arghh it's sad looking back. He kinda worshipped his ex which got a bit arghhh! Bit messy all round and I don't miss the dramas.
Plus I can't have any of this malarkey just now cos I'm on my travels here and there and have itchy feet, and don't want to be held back, so wouldn't want to let anyone down or disappoint them, or I get so guilty. It's not a conventional life but heyho. I do know what loneliness feels like tho for sure..
BUT! Do you have a dog??? They are the BEST company and I think animals are waaaaay superior to humans. Get a rescue one and they would be delighted to have a new friend AND would go pounding up the stairs of those high rises with you! Honestly, if you like dogs, this would be great. They give me the strength to carry on, as life can be so sad and difficult at times. But the dog will support you no matter what :) A dog is very important to me. Ahem and some folk say having a dog is a good way to meet folk ;)
I never said that tho but I guess it can be true..
The fact you have hobbies and passions is ace. Never stop that or give up anything like that for anyone. Plus don't take no needy negative crap from boring lassies either and walk away from rubbish or abusive people. There can be good out there, which is kool, and I bet you will meet someone good, but it's not the be all and end all. There are quirky folk out there sometimes and you're young with lots of life ahead with your lovely rescue dog hopefully. They are the best of the best and will go anywhere with you. I love this! :)
Thank you so much for that advice I do actually already have a dog who I love more than anything a lil Border Collie called Ellie who is the sweetest dog in the world
@@JT-df3yz Oh wowwwwwzah!!! I'm so happy to hear that :) How adorable, oh this pleases me! I came back from a massive dog sanctuary in Sri Lanka recently, hence my dog passion. I'm so happy to hear this. Though that does mean you still feel a void but yeah, excellent souls don't come around too often, but as I say they do exist. I would rather not have tolerated some of the crap that's stolen my time and energy and soul in the past. Time I will never get back and I learned nothing from these creatures. Bad decisions 😔 Only top apples for the JT and the gang in your youtube channel!
Could you bring her into the videos? She'd surely be so curious? Plus I/we here would like to meet her, even 1 video he heh!
@@lesleyh88 If you want to keep in touch with me on FB you are more than welcome to and I will show you my lil baba Ellie
Hi JT.another fantastic video well done and keep up the great work and hope u feel better soon
Hi jt love your you tube vids I don't have autism but I have 2 sons that do my oldest son found his gf in late 20 s he s engaged now with his own home I have a son currently living at home with autism going to college. There s some one for everyone you will find what your looking for I don't have autism but I love your videos because tower blocks have always interested me too keep smiling 😊
JT you’ll find someone. Your a very interesting, funny intelligent kind you man. Don’t ever change. We all love you the way you are. Giggty 🫂❤️