The main issue is people don't get on the same page as people before getting into a relationship. People who want marriage or kids should make sure the person they are about to get with is on the same page. Furthermore political and religious ideas should be the same. An uber liberal and a die-hard republican should definitely not get together. Even if they work when they have kids it would be a terrible situation. Also people who are differing on religious ideas, such as a christian and an athiest, would not work unless one of the acquiesces to the other when it comes to what they allow or don't allow in their home.
@@bryce4650 seriously. But the gunpoint thing is actually making sense to me . Why he is still in this relationship otherwise? (Other than everything they share)
No woman is worth enough for a man to sacrifice his own dream for her. As men, our dreams are what give us purpose in life. If you have no dreams, you don’t have anything in life. It strips away your purpose and reason to live
@@ReSuDa As a woman I would love a guy who focuses on his dreams, I want him to be able to do what he wants in his life without anybody getting in his way
He literally asked "What more do you want from me?" and she is basically saying "I want a ring" I mean I can see both sides of this, he thinks they're basically already married since they share most everything but she wants the official commitment - as well as a fancy symbol she can wear on her finger. But this is just reeeally awkward to watch, her big grinning face while he's sitting there with a very disapproving face.
I understand wanting a ring I guess but a legal document tying two people together is just a little bit on the top of EVERYTHING they share together. Money, home, companies, pets like what she wants is the ceremony fr not seeing that they are already basically married. Plus her "hahahahaa just kidding just kidding just kidding 🤪" seems really fake as if she's not dropping hints but trying to force him into it
Homegirl doesn't even subscribe to any religious/traditional doctrine, so it doesn't make any logical sense for her to be in any hurry have the 'married' title.
@@IneptPotatoI know this type of girl. She'll harass him for everything SHE wants, then get bored one day and leave him. She'll say "I never got to experience being with other people" or summer bs like that. You can just tell she's super toxic masquerading as the "sweet girl next door".
He knows after 6 years whether he wants to be with her or not. He clearly does NOT want to be with her, or he would have proposed. He should man-up and break the news to her. She should get her head out of her booty and have a little self-respect and leave him to find a husband before she's too old to secure one.
Yeah, the girl is vain and disrespectful talking private stuff on tiktok, but it's his fault he chose a kid and now he needs to put up with that. I don't feel nad for a guy who starter dating 14 year old girl while he was already 18!!!
The fact that she not even within the first minute of the video revealed this dudes personal struggle with tobacco already shows that she's more redder of a flag than that slushy she's drinking
Rejecting people as a guy is an essential skill. It's tempting considering it barely happens especially in a straight relationship but learning to say no helps avoid red flags
Every time she asks he should say "soon" and "working on it" and disappear for a few hours to prepare the surprise. Eventually he can say "the big day is tomorrow", they go out and he hands her legal documents separating their finances and businesses lmao. When the 14 and 18 year old thing came up that shit sounded like blackmail, idk whats going on but I hope he's alright, like damn
I swear she stated they met while at nascar- so like either I got mixed up in her idiotic ramblings or she's lying and they like went to the sane school but saying that too would only give more red flags and make people think he's worse because waiting for a minor to turn legal is considered grooming. It really does feel like she said things on purpose and watch someone still say she's the victim if they do separate yet she's literally putting him on blast to a bunch of people and talking about him like he's a child "he's on edge give him a bit" like he's some child who needs a nap and is getting cranky
- did you know I was the one when I was 14 and you were 18 - she won't leave because the dogs are in my name - he's my one and only friend - we're with each other 24/7 🚩🚩🚩🚩
As a Nascar fan I just wanted to add that she used to wreck every week. Like EVERY week. Maybe they should just focus on their relationship then "their job". Lol
Mate, he looks so depressed. He's probably a pretty down-to-earth guy, but her filming these videos and making their relationship everybody's business must be bringing him down. She sounds like a control freak who takes all the pleasure in everything for herself. He was naive enough to fall for her.. tho hopefully he can get the hell away from her crazy ass instead of getting married and having kids involved. She literally emptied that man's energy
She's super manipulative too, that whole offhand comment about them meeting when she was 14 was uncalled for and literally just to make him look like a creep (this is of course if they really did only start dating when she was 18) she has so much power over him and wants to remind him constantly so he doesn't leave and is pressured into proposing
@@pennythoughts my thoughts exactly. Her body language too. Like each time she discusses her relationship she side eyes him then back at the camera. Honestly if the genders was reversed everyone would scream they're toxic and abusive.
I also feel the manipulation from miles away. Trying to make him look bad or feel bad with all pressure from her and others on the internet. They share everything at this point, he has no way out of this without getting even more hurt. I have a feeling this girl knows this, it's like- in her face. Totally egotistical, a total manipulator. I feel bad for him. The whole get married shit she is inputting is scary bro
I met my fiance when I was 22 and he was 23. I told him up front that I was looking for a future marriage partner and that I wasn't going to wait ten years once I was in a serious relationship. I don't waste my time with casual dating. Got engaged at year five.
yup, she should def leave him if she isn't getting what she wants and he looks like he doesn't even like her. She will get someone who will propose to her and make her a happy person.
@@ashleylove6840 honestly I feel bad for the guy more, she's forcing her dreams onto him and he doesn't know if he can provide, if they broke up and both went their way they'd both be happy
@@ashleylove6840to me it just looks like he needs her to get her energy out with some friends. She’s too high energy, it’s dragging him down so he doesn’t have the energy to match her
i am really sad for the boyfriend. he really looks like he is forced to do everything his girlfriend wants, its so sad. i wish he had a better partner beacause he is in a hidden passive aggressive relationship
I feel so sad for the like he was probably just chilling and then this chick starts to record him. And not to forget how awkward it was to watch imagine how awkward it was for him
@@katarzynaxx563 I can't tell if your angry because "In 99% the woman..." makes no sense. But I don't think that nearly all women give up their dreams and "life" (so they fucking die?) when they get with a guy. That sounds pretty fucking stupid.
Surprised I haven’t seen anyone say this. It’s very, very possible that they have a reasonably loving relationship, but that they didn’t wait until she was 18 to mess around. I’ve seen this before. He CAN’T leave.
She’s stuck in her stupid preteen phase. They ALREADY share a house, finances, and companies, and her bringing up the ages of when they met seems like blackmail, kinda like she’s telling him “If you break up with me, I’ll call the police, report you for grooming and I’ll sue you of everything you have.” Grooming is wrong and all, but I’m 100% positive she forced him into the relationship the second she turned 18.
This woman is type of people I got daily cringe from in high school every single day. I'm so glad nowadays these type of people I meet so much less, but this brought so many vietnam flashbacks that I'd cringe for the poor guys who thought "tee hee quirky noisy girls are so hot".
Spend every moment together?? As much as I'd love someone, I'd go insane eventually if I had to spend my time with them constantly. I get exhausted even if it's a few days out of a week, then again- my only experiences were as a teen, so who knows- maybe I'll grow out of it. But damn, just hearing that made the energy pour right out of me-
Nah dude that really is an issue, you need to socialize with others too, it's why when in a couple a person tries to gatekeep the other from seeing their friends, the situation is considered a red flag
I would hate spending every moment with my love. listen, I love you and want to spend that rest of my life with you don’t get me wrong, but that’s too much socializing and physical touch for me. go away and let me be for a bit
My parents spend their whole lives together, it's a miracle they go to the toilet in privacy. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle have their own (as well as shared) friendgroups and hobbies. I'd go insane in a relationship like my parents have and from a bystanders perspective, I just wanna do a mother daughter day once a year, can I please just have that. I even do mother, daughter, third wheel days with my bestie and her mother, it'd be awesome if my mum comes along. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle give me hope for relationships even with my personality.
This is the kinda stuff me as a child would do. Mom! Why havent you bought me mcdonalds yet? Do you have plans to buy mcdonalds? Cmon why are you mad? Its only the 50th time ive obsessed over this today!!
Seems like he was forced into this from the get go and now there is barely any control he has left over the situation. The only control he has left is the proposal and he is holding onto that for dear life. Bless him.
She can't say one positive thing about Derek without a qualifier. She's "pretending" to defend him, then immediately gives the audience another reason to gang up on him. "We know we're each other's soul mate. Did you already know when you met me at 14, remember? When you were an adult?" She is either living the drama and attention and blatantly making him look as bad as she can to prolong it, or there's some other motivation that I'm not seeing. Maybe she's always just "negged" him, so it comes naturally. Imagine giving up your career, your goals, your future, for a someone you love, just for them to always be trying to humiliate you for those decisions later on. I feel bad for Derek, man. He seems like someone in too deep before he realized how things were really going to be, but now he's tied his entire life, every facet of it, to someone who likely makes him feel like he couldn't do it alone if he tried. I've been there, wavering between suicide and having to completely reset my life from nothing so I could finally escape. It's not as hard as the narcissist would have you believe, it's the relentless attack on your capabilities that makes it feel like that.
Remember, people, just like "I love you", you don't demand a proposal, you earn it. Just like you have to be ready to say "I DO", your partner has to be ready to ask the big question. I know this may seem obvious, but it seems a lot of people forgot to put the minimal points on Common Sense at character creation.
My parents always told me that sharing is caring, so if I ever had caught them in the act when I was younger I’d expect them to have kept that same energy.
This whole thing but that last quote especially sounds like codependency or an isolation tactic of domestic abuse by isolating the partner from their friends, family, and becoming the sole provider for them so they are reliant on you and are reluctant to leave because you are their only support both emotionally and monetarily.
Congratulations! The guy will never proposed to her now. I would not be surprised that she will have a video that they broke up and don’t understand why.
God, she reminds me of this one girl I always saw in high school laughing like this and sticking her tongue out for no reason after everything she spoke about. She just gives red flags I wouldn't talk about my partners flaws or struggles out to a million people who don't know him 🤷 🙄 . It's just plain rude and disrespectful she obviously doesn't care about him using him for emotional support most likely.
I KNEW IT WAS NATALIE DECKER! When the video started I thought it looked like her, and then she goes “I drive NASCAR” and it confirmed it. She’s actually the laughingstock of the garage, she did one or two full time seasons in the lowest sanctioned series a few years ago, but now she’s part time in the 2 lower series, making maybe 2-4 starts per year, and is notorious for making dumb decisions and wrecking racecars, as well as having some of the creepiest fans in the sport. She doesn’t seem to care about her racing career, more so about her social media presence, which is why nobody likes her lol
marriage used to be about a pledge to one and other ...not now it's all about the glitz and glam ...showing off , it turned into something more like a business transaction long ago and doesn't mean anything like it used too........if you ask for the women to sign a prenup prior to marriage then she'll turn away from that potential marriage most of the time - there have been video's on this .......i watched one where a man proposed on camera BUT clearly stated before it happened she had to sign a prenup .....the reason was HE had a large business raking in millions and she refused to work at all (no kids involved) as soon as this came up she said no and walked out the 10+ year relationship on the spot and called him a user lol
It all adds up now, she's self centered. She had him drop his dreams for her, she had him share his finances for her, and she wants him to make a grand proposal to her. She wants this relationship to be about her and her only
Your boyfriend being your bestfriend at the same time ain't really a red flag, some people either through circumstances or bad company in their childhood end up having almost no friends. It happens and it's sad, not necessarily a sign of that person being garbage
This guy is absolutely screw, he is not even marry and he is already is living a nightmare, his busines is in risk, is money is in risk, he give up his dream, damn, when he found out he was play......boi........poor guy. Don`t be like this guy ppl, never give up your dreams, never get marry, and never never never never never share your bank account, your house, your busines and all you have with your gf!
@@vibrantgleam we dont, our genetics or something make us not find people who look like us attractive usually. thats why most people dont find their family attractive..
😂 I’ve been single for 2 years now and I do want an official relationship. But looking at them makes me feel like being single is better than being stuck in this shit.
How are both people in this relationship simping for each other and not giving a crap about the other person at the same time. I literally can’t comprehend this.
I have a "dead face" or "stone face" like this guy,but I don't always sound miserable or constantly look uncomfortable,this girl is totally doing something behind the scenes,or this guy simply thinks this girl is annoying as hell but doesn't know how to dump her
It’s kinda hard to dump someone you met when your partner is 14 though granted you should never date minors if you’re not one yourself Note: I am starting to get into the idea of not dating anyone until you’re an adult
I feel so much for this guy, whenever my annoying ex showed me some tiktoks or other stupid unfunny shit i always was like him "When is it finally over" 🙂
Looks like my gradma and grandad (RIP already) lol She always talking and telling him stuff 24/7, never shut up and he was just answering yes or no or fall asleep while she was talking monologue. He deserved some biggest award for surviving with her over 54 years.
I LOVE HER GUYS! I SWEAR! 🔫
im finally early :D
So true
69 likes, nice
99th like?
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Just because he dated you for 6 years doesn't mean he will propose. My cousin studied medicine for 7 years and now he's a DJ
Fr put me on to this DJ
The main issue is people don't get on the same page as people before getting into a relationship. People who want marriage or kids should make sure the person they are about to get with is on the same page.
Furthermore political and religious ideas should be the same. An uber liberal and a die-hard republican should definitely not get together. Even if they work when they have kids it would be a terrible situation.
Also people who are differing on religious ideas, such as a christian and an athiest, would not work unless one of the acquiesces to the other when it comes to what they allow or don't allow in their home.
That's tough
Broooo......
That backfired moneywise
Please keep us updated on this dude , it looks like he's under a lot of pressure
They’re both girls
Yeah seriously he seems like he dosent wanna be there in the slightest.
If a man is stressed in a relationship, is it really a relationship?
I hope he doesn't unalive himself
What pressure? 6 years he should either do it or leave. There is no pressure for him. He goes and buys her dream ring and he knows she's going to ask
You know, women can propose too. However I hope this guy runs.
exactly
I was about to comment this feels like everybody just forgot
The issue is not who proposes, it's that this girl is not a red flag but the red sea
@@bryce4650 seriously. But the gunpoint thing is actually making sense to me . Why he is still in this relationship otherwise? (Other than everything they share)
She seems like a wackadoodle. Run boi run FAST!!
I feel this man on a spiritual level. This was me with my ex girlfriend. Just fucking exhausted from all of her bs. I'm sorry for him
That’s not a man. That’s clearly a woman .
hope you’re doing better
sorry you had to go through that man
Sorry that happened
Ladies like her shouldn't ever have families, their braincells will ruin the kids.
He looks like he's really upset about having to abandon his dream
No woman is worth enough for a man to sacrifice his own dream for her. As men, our dreams are what give us purpose in life. If you have no dreams, you don’t have anything in life. It strips away your purpose and reason to live
@@ShvdøwMvge totally agree. Romance should be seen as an aspect of life, not your life goal. Your dreams should come first
especially at 8:17, he looks like he's about to cry here.
Upset ? Nah man, he's way past that point, he's just dead inside now
@@ReSuDa As a woman I would love a guy who focuses on his dreams, I want him to be able to do what he wants in his life without anybody getting in his way
He literally asked "What more do you want from me?" and she is basically saying "I want a ring"
I mean I can see both sides of this, he thinks they're basically already married since they share most everything but she wants the official commitment - as well as a fancy symbol she can wear on her finger.
But this is just reeeally awkward to watch, her big grinning face while he's sitting there with a very disapproving face.
I understand wanting a ring I guess but a legal document tying two people together is just a little bit on the top of EVERYTHING they share together. Money, home, companies, pets like what she wants is the ceremony fr not seeing that they are already basically married. Plus her "hahahahaa just kidding just kidding just kidding 🤪" seems really fake as if she's not dropping hints but trying to force him into it
Homegirl doesn't even subscribe to any religious/traditional doctrine, so it doesn't make any logical sense for her to be in any hurry have the 'married' title.
@@IneptPotatoI know this type of girl. She'll harass him for everything SHE wants, then get bored one day and leave him. She'll say "I never got to experience being with other people" or summer bs like that. You can just tell she's super toxic masquerading as the "sweet girl next door".
He knows after 6 years whether he wants to be with her or not. He clearly does NOT want to be with her, or he would have proposed.
He should man-up and break the news to her. She should get her head out of her booty and have a little self-respect and leave him to find a husband before she's too old to secure one.
Yeah, the girl is vain and disrespectful talking private stuff on tiktok, but it's his fault he chose a kid and now he needs to put up with that. I don't feel nad for a guy who starter dating 14 year old girl while he was already 18!!!
The fact that she not even within the first minute of the video revealed this dudes personal struggle with tobacco already shows that she's more redder of a flag than that slushy she's drinking
i was thinking that, like what’s the purpose of saying that, nothing good
Yh I felt his soul die a little when she said that.
That red slushy is probably his family's blood 😮
Always wondered how it feels to be held at gun point
It’s not fun but you try to remain chill about it
Would you like to know the feeling? :)
One day we're going to have "at camera point" 😅
It sounds really bad.
LMAOOO
I once caught my parents doing it, scared them and told them to be quiet because I couldn't sleep. Then the next day I made fun of them.
Brave non-traumatized gigachad kid
Then something snapped, something inside of me...
I didnt care anymore..
i heard them doing, didn't go there because i was playing
this is one of the most funniest stories i've ever seen on the internet
This girl is exactly why I have raised my son the way I have , to protect himself from the crazy......
Jesus Christmas this is insane.
You're protecting your son from that girl?
Rejecting people as a guy is an essential skill. It's tempting considering it barely happens especially in a straight relationship but learning to say no helps avoid red flags
@ImNotalwaysRight bruh 💀💀💀
@ImNotalwaysRight you must be a big fan of cupcakes
@ImNotalwaysRight ??????
As a guy who currently has multiple hostages in his basement, this guy's definitely in danger.
Besides the hostages in your basement, you do have a point, good day to you sir 🫡
Should I be concern?
Send my regards to your hostages.
I hope you stole them from crazies like her so they can see they're better off when she's not around them.
I couldn't keep mine anymore. I took them to Florida and released them into the wild.
I wish people would just keep personal topics personal.
wrong century
Rule number 1 everybody.. Don't televise your relationships, not everything you do with each other is for the camera
thissss ^^^
Every time she asks he should say "soon" and "working on it" and disappear for a few hours to prepare the surprise. Eventually he can say "the big day is tomorrow", they go out and he hands her legal documents separating their finances and businesses lmao. When the 14 and 18 year old thing came up that shit sounded like blackmail, idk whats going on but I hope he's alright, like damn
this is brilliant, he already wasted 6 years he should save some more😂
I swear she stated they met while at nascar- so like either I got mixed up in her idiotic ramblings or she's lying and they like went to the sane school but saying that too would only give more red flags and make people think he's worse because waiting for a minor to turn legal is considered grooming. It really does feel like she said things on purpose and watch someone still say she's the victim if they do separate yet she's literally putting him on blast to a bunch of people and talking about him like he's a child "he's on edge give him a bit" like he's some child who needs a nap and is getting cranky
- did you know I was the one when I was 14 and you were 18
- she won't leave because the dogs are in my name
- he's my one and only friend
- we're with each other 24/7
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@@-Scrapper- 🔥+🏳️🌈=🏴
@@verlax8956 beo
As a Nascar fan I just wanted to add that she used to wreck every week. Like EVERY week. Maybe they should just focus on their relationship then "their job". Lol
So she sucks at it?
@@Rpzz0 correct
Really?! Lol, what's her name?
@@IIITheSTpiLotIII Natalie Decker
so why she acting like this job makes her a ton of money then? and forget the relationship that guy needs to leave her
Mate, he looks so depressed. He's probably a pretty down-to-earth guy, but her filming these videos and making their relationship everybody's business must be bringing him down.
She sounds like a control freak who takes all the pleasure in everything for herself. He was naive enough to fall for her.. tho hopefully he can get the hell away from her crazy ass instead of getting married and having kids involved. She literally emptied that man's energy
She's super manipulative too, that whole offhand comment about them meeting when she was 14 was uncalled for and literally just to make him look like a creep (this is of course if they really did only start dating when she was 18) she has so much power over him and wants to remind him constantly so he doesn't leave and is pressured into proposing
@@pennythoughts my thoughts exactly. Her body language too. Like each time she discusses her relationship she side eyes him then back at the camera.
Honestly if the genders was reversed everyone would scream they're toxic and abusive.
Both of them are weird let's be honest
@@Luzgoishzre What's weird about him?
@@Nightmare2.03 that he didn't leave her by now
I also feel the manipulation from miles away. Trying to make him look bad or feel bad with all pressure from her and others on the internet. They share everything at this point, he has no way out of this without getting even more hurt. I have a feeling this girl knows this, it's like- in her face. Totally egotistical, a total manipulator. I feel bad for him. The whole get married shit she is inputting is scary bro
I met my fiance when I was 22 and he was 23. I told him up front that I was looking for a future marriage partner and that I wasn't going to wait ten years once I was in a serious relationship. I don't waste my time with casual dating.
Got engaged at year five.
yup, she should def leave him if she isn't getting what she wants and he looks like he doesn't even like her. She will get someone who will propose to her and make her a happy person.
@@ashleylove6840 honestly I feel bad for the guy more, she's forcing her dreams onto him and he doesn't know if he can provide, if they broke up and both went their way they'd both be happy
@@bbew2914 Who said he needs to provide they both would be working? she has legs and arms she can work as well, its not the 18th century
@@ashleylove6840If he don't do it, do it yourself, ain't 16th century anymore, women can propose too.
@@ashleylove6840to me it just looks like he needs her to get her energy out with some friends. She’s too high energy, it’s dragging him down so he doesn’t have the energy to match her
i am really sad for the boyfriend.
he really looks like he is forced to do everything his girlfriend wants, its so sad.
i wish he had a better partner beacause he is in a hidden passive aggressive relationship
The guy is probably dealing with apathy it's more common these days because of all the crap going around
If its bothering her that goddamn much why cant she propose?
Mine did.
Exactly. Plus, rings are expensive unless you want to go with zircon or something different than diamonds.
@@WratchetDeth10mm unrelated to the video but if you said yes, congrats man, hoping for the best
ego
Good point but i don't want her mans to experience that, he needs to run tf away
She's only 24 and they share a bank account. This relationship is a red flag
It's called love
I think I don't know I'm a redditor
@@-Scrapper- we know
Why?
I'm 24 and can't even handle my own bank account
He really just looks like he doesn't want to be there. Honestly I would hate if my partner constantly recorded me for online videos like this
It's sad how common waiving your dirty laundry on the internet these days.
@@jadereynolds2237 "dirty laundry"?
@@Nightmare2.03 that's a term for "not so pretty stuff regarding a relationship/family/etc, which should better be kept private"
@@bonbonnie8 Ohhh okay thanks.
She’s like a 24 years old acting like a 14 year old 😂😂
Because he met her at that age
Eww that's disgusting
fr🤣
@@anniesolomon4876 why
I feel so sad for the like he was probably just chilling and then this chick starts to record him. And not to forget how awkward it was to watch imagine how awkward it was for him
Girl:'It's time to pursue my dreams honey!'
Guy:'Yes ma'am.'
That meme actually sums up this couple in a nutshell
@@thevantagemain14 Yeah, because In 99% the woman is the one who give up all dreams and life for a guy.
@@katarzynaxx563 I can't tell if your angry because "In 99% the woman..." makes no sense. But I don't think that nearly all women give up their dreams and "life" (so they fucking die?) when they get with a guy. That sounds pretty fucking stupid.
Surprised I haven’t seen anyone say this.
It’s very, very possible that they have a reasonably loving relationship, but that they didn’t wait until she was 18 to mess around. I’ve seen this before. He CAN’T leave.
That'd be his fault then for not being responsible
that's creepy tho
She’s stuck in her stupid preteen phase. They ALREADY share a house, finances, and companies, and her bringing up the ages of when they met seems like blackmail, kinda like she’s telling him “If you break up with me, I’ll call the police, report you for grooming and I’ll sue you of everything you have.” Grooming is wrong and all, but I’m 100% positive she forced him into the relationship the second she turned 18.
good point. that's also possible
Maybe he’s just running out the statuary limit time
Since she's not religious or traditional, her obsession with marriage is complete vanity.
She's eventually gonna give this dude an ultimatum, and he'll probably cave even though he clearly doesn't want to get married to her
the things he watches for us😂😂❤
This woman is type of people I got daily cringe from in high school every single day. I'm so glad nowadays these type of people I meet so much less, but this brought so many vietnam flashbacks that I'd cringe for the poor guys who thought "tee hee quirky noisy girls are so hot".
Spend every moment together?? As much as I'd love someone, I'd go insane eventually if I had to spend my time with them constantly. I get exhausted even if it's a few days out of a week, then again- my only experiences were as a teen, so who knows- maybe I'll grow out of it. But damn, just hearing that made the energy pour right out of me-
I totally agree like me personally I set boundaries and the times we do spend throughout the week it’s not exhausting as every day
Nah dude that really is an issue, you need to socialize with others too, it's why when in a couple a person tries to gatekeep the other from seeing their friends, the situation is considered a red flag
I would hate spending every moment with my love. listen, I love you and want to spend that rest of my life with you don’t get me wrong, but that’s too much socializing and physical touch for me. go away and let me be for a bit
@@skulldog7219 exaaaactly, even I can't stand too much physical attention let alone socializing, just make me uncomfortable after awhile xD
My parents spend their whole lives together, it's a miracle they go to the toilet in privacy. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle have their own (as well as shared) friendgroups and hobbies. I'd go insane in a relationship like my parents have and from a bystanders perspective, I just wanna do a mother daughter day once a year, can I please just have that. I even do mother, daughter, third wheel days with my bestie and her mother, it'd be awesome if my mum comes along. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle give me hope for relationships even with my personality.
She will absolutely be a bridezilla
100 percent
frrr
Whats that
I couldn't be with anyone who looks directly in the camera while talking with me. The whole time!!! She seems to love herself very much.
" what more do you want from me "
HIS TRAPPED!!
Why am I uncomfortable on his behalf? I mean I know damn well he’s uncomfortable, and I’m uncomfortable knowing he’s uncomfortable
Her smile is so unsettling there is some hidden crazy in that thing.
Hidden?? She's got that Harley Quinn smile
Don't worry, the dogs are in his name
He wont have to worry about not getting the dogs when leaving
I bet if he was given the chance to tell the truth without her around we’d be hearing some things
This is the kinda stuff me as a child would do. Mom! Why havent you bought me mcdonalds yet? Do you have plans to buy mcdonalds? Cmon why are you mad? Its only the 50th time ive obsessed over this today!!
Damn.
Bro’s eyes are lifeless, he looks drained and defeated
Seems like he was forced into this from the get go and now there is barely any control he has left over the situation. The only control he has left is the proposal and he is holding onto that for dear life. Bless him.
He's not a robot; he's just dead inside.
If you look close enough, the whole time, you can see tears in bro’s eyes 😭
She can't say one positive thing about Derek without a qualifier. She's "pretending" to defend him, then immediately gives the audience another reason to gang up on him. "We know we're each other's soul mate. Did you already know when you met me at 14, remember? When you were an adult?"
She is either living the drama and attention and blatantly making him look as bad as she can to prolong it, or there's some other motivation that I'm not seeing. Maybe she's always just "negged" him, so it comes naturally.
Imagine giving up your career, your goals, your future, for a someone you love, just for them to always be trying to humiliate you for those decisions later on. I feel bad for Derek, man. He seems like someone in too deep before he realized how things were really going to be, but now he's tied his entire life, every facet of it, to someone who likely makes him feel like he couldn't do it alone if he tried. I've been there, wavering between suicide and having to completely reset my life from nothing so I could finally escape. It's not as hard as the narcissist would have you believe, it's the relentless attack on your capabilities that makes it feel like that.
Remember, people, just like "I love you", you don't demand a proposal, you earn it.
Just like you have to be ready to say "I DO", your partner has to be ready to ask the big question.
I know this may seem obvious, but it seems a lot of people forgot to put the minimal points on Common Sense at character creation.
Something about her smile, makes me scared.
Bro’s being held hostage
Her constant need for validation and reassurance is nauseating
My parents always told me that sharing is caring, so if I ever had caught them in the act when I was younger I’d expect them to have kept that same energy.
Excuse me?
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Haha 😄
ayooooooooooo
Incase you thought you were down bad... this comment exists💀💀
When you pursue a girl and not a woman, this is where you wind up.
This is very disturbing to me. This is one of my worst nightmares ending up like this dude.
4:43 It would be hilarious asf if you said "racist" instead of "racer" but i am already lmfao 😭
this couples videos feel like a hostage situation, dont want to see what happens after the cameras off lmao
Its the “what more do you want from me” 😭😭😂😂
This whole thing but that last quote especially sounds like codependency or an isolation tactic of domestic abuse by isolating the partner from their friends, family, and becoming the sole provider for them so they are reliant on you and are reluctant to leave because you are their only support both emotionally and monetarily.
Dude, RUN!!! Run and don't look back
Congratulations! The guy will never proposed to her now. I would not be surprised that she will have a video that they broke up and don’t understand why.
Bro is being held captive 💀
God, she reminds me of this one girl I always saw in high school laughing like this and sticking her tongue out for no reason after everything she spoke about. She just gives red flags I wouldn't talk about my partners flaws or struggles out to a million people who don't know him 🤷 🙄 . It's just plain rude and disrespectful she obviously doesn't care about him using him for emotional support most likely.
I KNEW IT WAS NATALIE DECKER! When the video started I thought it looked like her, and then she goes “I drive NASCAR” and it confirmed it. She’s actually the laughingstock of the garage, she did one or two full time seasons in the lowest sanctioned series a few years ago, but now she’s part time in the 2 lower series, making maybe 2-4 starts per year, and is notorious for making dumb decisions and wrecking racecars, as well as having some of the creepiest fans in the sport. She doesn’t seem to care about her racing career, more so about her social media presence, which is why nobody likes her lol
Him:💀💀💀💀
her:😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😄😄😄😄😄😄😁😁😁😁😁😁
This relationship doesn’t even look that bad. I just don’t think the guy likes being filmed.
Her tiktok video is a police Interrogation
he sounds so bored, like he's literally actually just forced to be in this relationship
"Y'all share half ur saliva"😂😂😂😂
marriage used to be about a pledge to one and other ...not now it's all about the glitz and glam ...showing off , it turned into something more like a business transaction long ago and doesn't mean anything like it used too........if you ask for the women to sign a prenup prior to marriage then she'll turn away from that potential marriage most of the time - there have been video's on this .......i watched one where a man proposed on camera BUT clearly stated before it happened she had to sign a prenup .....the reason was HE had a large business raking in millions and she refused to work at all (no kids involved) as soon as this came up she said no and walked out the 10+ year relationship on the spot and called him a user lol
"I love her so much guys😐 I'm insanely happy."
"Yesss babe🔫🥰"
It all adds up now, she's self centered. She had him drop his dreams for her, she had him share his finances for her, and she wants him to make a grand proposal to her. She wants this relationship to be about her and her only
Blink twice if you need help, bro.
1:20 or maybe he doesn’t have enough money to buy a ring
She: I wanna be the racer in the relationship.
He: okey, I'll be the racist then
We'll be together for a while I mean forever - fraudian slip
Dude she has him in a hostage situation
He's waiting until she grows up to propose
We all know she's gonna get worse tho
Your boyfriend being your bestfriend at the same time ain't really a red flag, some people either through circumstances or bad company in their childhood end up having almost no friends. It happens and it's sad, not necessarily a sign of that person being garbage
He his like his little chihuhaha, sit give me paw.
Only 8 seconds in and i am already concerned
at about 11 seconds i disagree.i have had no dad or grandfather,cant relate i guess being fatherless has some perks.
Same
me to
Are we sure that no guns were pointed at him in his own video
Girl with a tiktok = instant rejection
This guy is absolutely screw, he is not even marry and he is already is living a nightmare, his busines is in risk, is money is in risk, he give up his dream, damn, when he found out he was play......boi........poor guy. Don`t be like this guy ppl, never give up your dreams, never get marry, and never never never never never share your bank account, your house, your busines and all you have with your gf!
The more I see videos like this one, the more I love celibacy
Based! Stay pure, brother.
Why do these couples always look like siblings bruh
istg she looks like the girl from the meme 'do you ever want to get married' and sweet home alabama starts playing
Because we kind of look for ppl who are similar to us..
@@vibrantgleam we dont, our genetics or something make us not find people who look like us attractive usually. thats why most people dont find their family attractive..
either he is regretting the grooming he did or she crossed his threshold age
How's that grooming
@@-Scrapper- 14-18???
@@bugsbunnypoo they went in a relationship when she was 18
Just because they met when she was 14, doesn't mean they were hanging out or anything
@@jedip6327 doesn’t make it any better
They got married New Year's Day '24.
😂 I’ve been single for 2 years now and I do want an official relationship. But looking at them makes me feel like being single is better than being stuck in this shit.
How are both people in this relationship simping for each other and not giving a crap about the other person at the same time. I literally can’t comprehend this.
you can tell that he doesnt really want anyone to know hes getting off tobacco
Every fortune cookie he opens says: dude, run
I have a "dead face" or "stone face" like this guy,but I don't always sound miserable or constantly look uncomfortable,this girl is totally doing something behind the scenes,or this guy simply thinks this girl is annoying as hell but doesn't know how to dump her
i think so too
Same. Man needs help
Theres a weapon in the background
It’s kinda hard to dump someone you met when your partner is 14 though granted you should never date minors if you’re not one yourself
Note: I am starting to get into the idea of not dating anyone until you’re an adult
Plot twist he asks her why she hasn't purposed to him
I think the moral of the story is it’s not healthy to post your private relationship info on TikTok or any social media lol
I don’t think he’s a bad guy, he’s just super tired of her recording him at SONIC and the way she acts and stuff
There are people who act crazy but aren't crazy
There are people who look unenthusiastic but very enthusiastic.
God I hope that's the case here
Bro, run
I feel so much for this guy, whenever my annoying ex showed me some tiktoks or other stupid unfunny shit i always was like him
"When is it finally over" 🙂
Shaming him on Tiktok is so many red flags.
I mean, the ones in the wrong are the people who assume they can know what his feelings are. The guy is literally POKER FACE! HAJAJAHAJ
Looks like my gradma and grandad (RIP already) lol She always talking and telling him stuff 24/7, never shut up and he was just answering yes or no or fall asleep while she was talking monologue. He deserved some biggest award for surviving with her over 54 years.