After trying trying so much to get a child and save my marriage, am no longer interested in a child!

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  • @Aggiehum
    @Aggiehum 11 місяців тому +87

    Ooooh my God...this is amazing ❤❤ who is here after her latest interview and happily married..Susan your blessed

    • @gladyskinuthia6585
      @gladyskinuthia6585 11 місяців тому +1

      I and myself

    • @susanwanjiru8053
      @susanwanjiru8053 11 місяців тому

      Meee

    • @leezwm
      @leezwm 11 місяців тому

      Sure, I have been bypassing this story but today I had to search for it after listening to the recent one last night. God works in miraculous ways and can fulfil your joy anytime through whichever means. Congratulations Sue and Muchiri. ❤❤May love reign

    • @ceciliakahuthia6356
      @ceciliakahuthia6356 11 місяців тому +1

      Me here.

    • @shiqourshikaya5280
      @shiqourshikaya5280 11 місяців тому +1

      Me,Aki Wacha niiskize

  • @lilianwaithira7021
    @lilianwaithira7021 11 місяців тому +51

    Who is here after Susan finds love again i feel like God will bless her with a child

  • @Beatrice-lf4gm
    @Beatrice-lf4gm Рік тому +59

    Oh my gosh!! Susan, listening to u is soo inspiring and your journey echos some parts of mine. Am also from Gatanga, married 16yrs no kids, still happily married and hubby is very supportive..we tried everything including IVF but no kids to date..Had some very bitter and depressed years full of self pity. God hs been good to me coz like u, i have made peace with it and decided to live life to the fullest. My advice to wombs in waiting and closed wombs, try not to make childlessness the focus of your lives coz u might miss all the other great blessings that u already have.

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 Рік тому +3

      Wow☺️ that's a brilliant advice Beatrice

    • @019user8
      @019user8 Рік тому

      Can you make me your surrogate mother? (Am sorry if this hurts)

    • @vee337
      @vee337 Рік тому +1

      Trust in God

    • @elizabethmwihaki5816
      @elizabethmwihaki5816 Рік тому

      It's time people embrace child free marriages

    • @rosewairimu5305
      @rosewairimu5305 11 місяців тому

      Try dr thagana upper hill

  • @gladysnjambi7404
    @gladysnjambi7404 11 місяців тому +17

    Coming here after watching her story with the husband

  • @cicymburu9264
    @cicymburu9264 11 місяців тому +6

    Wow this amazing who is here after her latest interview?juu ya hii interview alipata bwana hapa.susan you are blessed happy marriage

  • @katemiriti2541
    @katemiriti2541 Рік тому +15

    Watching This story After watching her loved Again story. Gods of miracle. ❤❤

  • @stephennjoroge7259
    @stephennjoroge7259 Рік тому +19

    This lady is very sober. She is so balanced in her reasoning.

  • @wambumwash8510
    @wambumwash8510 Рік тому +28

    Was in 5yrs marriage, had no kids but the MIL was the best plus sister in law. They really ensured I had all the comfort and peace that I needed. Unfortunately, my ex hubby went ahead to have kids with other women. It was very demoralizing. I left that marriage, am very happily single and I am no longer disturbed by the issue of kids.

    • @maryfridahndunge5616
      @maryfridahndunge5616 6 місяців тому +1

      You were very luckily to be loved by mother in-law and siz in law. Wengine ndio huwa Wana pressure bwana aoe ama akutupe

  • @annmacharia9069
    @annmacharia9069 Рік тому +15

    Susan you are bb, beauty and brains. Thank you for opening up on this; not easy to but you've consoled many. You are such a treasure 🙂

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani9812 11 місяців тому +6

    Am back to comment on this one after watching how God remembered this beautiful lady suasan. It's good to be in God's timing. Different seasons for the same lady😊.

  • @elizabethnjeri95
    @elizabethnjeri95 2 місяці тому

    Coming here after watching her interview today ❤..Amazing she is now married and very happy ..May God continue blessing their union .

  • @emmanuelwanjama8637
    @emmanuelwanjama8637 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for sharing this story. The church, society and family must become extra sensitive handling this matter. Sending prayers to all couples trusting the Lord for a child. It is not an easy journey. It breaks oneself spiritually, emotionally and physically. It shall be well.🙏🏾

    • @annmwengi8772
      @annmwengi8772 Рік тому +1

      Very Inspirational there is more to life than what we don't have.
      God has provided many more beautiful experiences in life, live life be happy n grateful

  • @bettynjoki3115
    @bettynjoki3115 Рік тому +7

    Woow, i love this woman, she is positive, she is beautiful in and outside, her design also is on another level, i love her way of thinking

  • @lucywachira3056
    @lucywachira3056 Рік тому +9

    Girl you are powerful,love yourself first and Gods time is the best.hugs

  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 Рік тому +9

    Very intelligent, eloquent lady . Thank you for your words. The future is so bright for you . 🌹🌹

  • @nighthoodgaming8662
    @nighthoodgaming8662 Рік тому +16

    Very good show, thank you Susan. We must continue to have these difficult conversations. I see so many wazungus who chose not to have kids because of reasons tofauti. And the society accepts. Hakuna kuulizwa inappropriate questions....

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому +1

      Sure

    • @angelawambui1468
      @angelawambui1468 Рік тому +3

      Very very true about wazungus. Live and let live. African societies should embrace every woman with or without kids. This was an issue that bothered me from majiranis alot when I
      was in kenya. Abroad helped me b who I choose to be till I change to whosoever I want to be.

    • @teresiamaina9573
      @teresiamaina9573 Рік тому

      For me I'm 31 I chose not to have kids and it's fine

    • @emilykaris1375
      @emilykaris1375 11 місяців тому

      God answers the right time,n he knows what we need at what time,There is hope dr Susan,I stayed without a kid 6years with all checkups n God surprised me after soulful moment n he gave me a baby boy to God be the glory

  • @JK-ju8jl
    @JK-ju8jl Рік тому +9

    Waguthirwo ke? That’s a very uncalled for question !!!!! Nothing warrants that . Never ask that uncouth question again Monica

    • @cmg8683
      @cmg8683 11 місяців тому

      Monica is a refined interviewer FYI and she knows her work. Let’s learn to encourage her and others..

  • @esthernyambura2757
    @esthernyambura2757 Рік тому +8

    @kagoni,thank you for bring this lady may God bless you and I want to encourage all women going through infertility journey to hold on and love themselves first coz at the right time God will do it. He is faithful.

  • @nancybutama6646
    @nancybutama6646 Рік тому +4

    I have loved this interview. She's an inspiration and content with who she is. Great lessons. Accepting the most difficult realities of life and still finding happiness. Well done for sharing your story.

  • @racisumelanesumelane4150
    @racisumelanesumelane4150 11 місяців тому

    I am here. From Mozambique.
    I watched the whole enterview with her husband. Congrats to both of you. May God bless you with a child just like he did with Sara.

  • @lucynjuguna19
    @lucynjuguna19 11 місяців тому +1

    Wangapi tumepata tips za kumeet first time.. i have learned a lot through this story...

  • @machariamargaret1937
    @machariamargaret1937 Рік тому +14

    She's so bright and Godly

  • @evahmuchiri4000
    @evahmuchiri4000 Рік тому +6

    Very encouraging testimony. Keep on moving on my sister . Father i will continue to wait on you

  • @jemimangahu6251
    @jemimangahu6251 Рік тому +21

    Tutengeneze group , yetu todu maa most of us we are introverts ,we tend to hide from society just thinking out loud..😊

  • @MiriamWangeci-d3s
    @MiriamWangeci-d3s 11 місяців тому +1

    thankyou kagoni hapa uliongelesha susan ukiwa ndani ya roho kwa yale yalimfuata suz baadaye....Harusi ...muiritu ucio ni mugi muno

  • @Ki-l7s
    @Ki-l7s 11 місяців тому +2

    I’m watching again for the second time, now after your wedding. Congratulations Susan, you're amazing & sooo beautiful 🌹. You're a super-model 💃🏾🌟 ❤️

  • @ronaalakie6291
    @ronaalakie6291 Рік тому +4

    This is the best episode of Metha Ya Kagoni I have ever watched. Thank you.

  • @carlycallie2633
    @carlycallie2633 Рік тому +13

    It took me 8yrs to be pregnant i can still remember the pain i went through i had even give up but I can say when you think it’s the end then it’s the beginning of blessings i

  • @alicenjau4364
    @alicenjau4364 Рік тому +3

    Kairitu ga gwitû and classmate, commenting even before listening to your story. Let me now sit down and watch.

    • @bethmuthoni4459
      @bethmuthoni4459 Рік тому

      Alice...I never knew hii story.nimeiskia leo

    • @alicenjau4364
      @alicenjau4364 Рік тому

      @@bethmuthoni4459 people go through a lot and hide behind a beautiful smile.
      Susan had a beautiful marriage and she used to post on Facebook. Ata hio biashara walikua wameweka in Naivasha, she used to post it. I really used to admire them.

  • @cecilshee7609
    @cecilshee7609 Рік тому +5

    wow,this interview just gave me a new strength. i love my nephew and nieces so much but i dont want kids neither marriage but the society always judges me alot.Monicah keep doing what you do best,you are saving souls out here

  • @lgm8741
    @lgm8741 Рік тому +2

    what a beautiful soul! Thanks Kagoni you are wnderful too. God bless you abundantly

  • @susanngugi3176
    @susanngugi3176 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks my name sake for changing my personal perspective on life approach. God bless you dear.

  • @felistasnjeri933
    @felistasnjeri933 Рік тому +2

    You are very bold dear, thanks for sharing your story

  • @rosemarymurimi790
    @rosemarymurimi790 11 місяців тому

    Haki you are full of humor amidst the pain

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Рік тому +10

    This girl should thank God, she was married to a narcissist ..watu wengine mungu anawapenda he protect you from evil ones ..you will be blessed with a right person wait and see .iyo marriage uge jiforce ugelia karibu ulie Damu , ugezaa na bado akose kukupendea mtoto .thank God gal .

    • @puritynyaguthiikarani6781
      @puritynyaguthiikarani6781 11 місяців тому +1

      Your prophecy came true,she got married last month

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 11 місяців тому

      @@puritynyaguthiikarani6781 I saw it I was so happy for her Kwanza ndio ujue Mimi ni kaa prophet elisha imagine she got a kirinyaga guy yet Mimi pia ni mukirinyaga hii Kama sio prophecy unaeza sema ni nini ..uyu niwe NGAI uria turenda Amen Amen 🙏

    • @karenngugi9831
      @karenngugi9831 11 місяців тому

      God bless you for the prophecy to our sister, she's happily married.

    • @dorcasmuthoni6380
      @dorcasmuthoni6380 10 місяців тому +1

      Haiya❤, prophecy, came to pass. God bless you and more blessings for Susan and Alex.

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 10 місяців тому

      @@dorcasmuthoni6380 imagine I even told her I should call myself prophet elisha 😊😊

  • @waithiramuriithi4596
    @waithiramuriithi4596 Рік тому +2

    Girl, you are so godly and sober.

  • @joystemmukuhi2842
    @joystemmukuhi2842 Рік тому +10

    Very inspirational. Thank you Susan for choosing to be you and prioritizing your happiness.

  • @janemwangi1334
    @janemwangi1334 11 місяців тому +1

    Susan you are blessed. God have given you a complete family because he is faithful.

  • @margaretwairimu5739
    @margaretwairimu5739 11 місяців тому +1

    Kagoni siku hizi unaglow mamaa💕💕💕and you beautiful lady

  • @perismabuti9805
    @perismabuti9805 Рік тому +7

    Kagoni I have been there for 18 year.Made peace with it.
    Busy counting other blessings one by one

  • @carolinesilla2550
    @carolinesilla2550 Рік тому +9

    Ohh i love her.Her story is inspiring

  • @maryannwanjiru402
    @maryannwanjiru402 Рік тому +11

    She is so beautiful inside and outside

  • @virginiamanga2409
    @virginiamanga2409 Рік тому +7

    Monicah of all the interviews, I love this one. I stayed for five years childless and what I faced Ngai tiga tu. I love Susan

  • @edithgatinu3539
    @edithgatinu3539 9 місяців тому

    Much wisdom suzzy accepting yourself is much important not a must to get married too

  • @Veronicamuchina
    @Veronicamuchina 3 місяці тому

    Great message umeongea ukweli mtupu sue

  • @jemimahwacukakariuki2686
    @jemimahwacukakariuki2686 11 місяців тому +1

    This girl is very young and beautiful.
    Much wisdom.

  • @annitangugi9608
    @annitangugi9608 Рік тому +5

    I love what u stand for and respect your decision keep up Susan.

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 Рік тому +7

    I love your positive attitude n accepting bitter truth n God is faithful coz you will b blessed 🙏🙏🙏

  • @annwangari5535
    @annwangari5535 Рік тому +5

    Susan my neighbor n my former classmate, she is beautiful inside and out,I didn't know what happened to your marriage but ngai aguturie kairetu

    • @anastaciamunga3077
      @anastaciamunga3077 Рік тому

      Ann sure she has always been a happy soul

    • @bethmuthoni4459
      @bethmuthoni4459 Рік тому

      Ann and Anastacia....this are news to me.haki na vile Susan alikuwa jovial

  • @lucywanjiku6850
    @lucywanjiku6850 11 місяців тому

    From lyne Ngugi 🖐after married so there is still hope and God Time always the best

  • @shikuhsymoh2859
    @shikuhsymoh2859 Рік тому +4

    Woiye pole mama God atakupatia watoi wengi,ur strong mama 💪💖❤

    • @ruthwanjiru6714
      @ruthwanjiru6714 Рік тому +2

      Wee I need to b strong that way waa

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому

      Thank you

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому

      @@ruthwanjiru6714 it's a worth walking journey by the grace of God

    • @marywachira8872
      @marywachira8872 11 місяців тому +1

      She has been loved again and God is great she is a grandmother ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @miriamblessed3425
    @miriamblessed3425 Рік тому +10

    This lady is very inspiring but it's not easy

  • @puritymaina8133
    @puritymaina8133 Рік тому +3

    Quite educative but please consider adopting one my sister

  • @annmurimi3130
    @annmurimi3130 Рік тому +6

    Very burifuu lady Ngai wa Hannah na Sarah ariomuoyo ndugakue ngoro amazing lady u r

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому

      Thank you

    • @annmurimi3130
      @annmurimi3130 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Suzie-Yule-DiademFinally here u r really blessed im happy for u darling gal congratulations n happy marriage ❤❤

  • @marymutisya6527
    @marymutisya6527 Рік тому +10

    Ist of all your so beautiful. You look so young with such a beautiful skin and style. I got my 1st born close to ten yrs in marriage, I admire your faith and stand, love yourself 1st.

  • @marto495
    @marto495 Рік тому +2

    Great interview monica

  • @eusebianyaga9606
    @eusebianyaga9606 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful ladies.

  • @kateleenwanjiko3188
    @kateleenwanjiko3188 Рік тому +2

    She is beautiful from deep in heart and out, intelligent and classic

  • @nancynjogu6039
    @nancynjogu6039 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful girl. Composed focused and with wisdom

  • @njokikangasha1840
    @njokikangasha1840 Рік тому +5

    Our God is not limited may He heal you fully strong woman 💪

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому +1

      Amen

    • @wairimu625
      @wairimu625 11 місяців тому

      @@Suzie-Yule-Diadem And God has blessed you above and beyond. Happy for you.

  • @peterkagwe40
    @peterkagwe40 Рік тому +2

    Thanks kagoni for hosting Susan she is realistic and outspoken

  • @eunicewairimu518
    @eunicewairimu518 Рік тому +2

    Wao! Wonderful talk from a strong woman.

  • @PrincipleWoman
    @PrincipleWoman Рік тому +21

    I have a lot of empathy for her and other couples waiting for a child. I pray Kenya also gets funding and professionals trained in infertility. Some issues can be resolved but Kenya lacks well trained specialists.
    Blocked tubes does not also mean you can’t conceive. IVF is also an option. Prayers to her. God is truly the one that gives us children.

    • @bethmaina4144
      @bethmaina4144 Рік тому +3

      And also if blocked tubes it's the only problem it can be unblocked

    • @PrincipleWoman
      @PrincipleWoman Рік тому

      @@bethmaina4144 sometimes yes. Sometimes women have to opt for IVF. I’ve seen a lot of women who have unblocked their tubes with a specific supplement and documented their journey on UA-cam.

    • @Suzie-Yule-Diadem
      @Suzie-Yule-Diadem Рік тому

      Sure. Thank you

    • @margaretmbugua9511
      @margaretmbugua9511 Рік тому +1

      Finances on Ivf procedures is an issue with some financial unstable families and also the probability of fear of the outcome

    • @louisawambui4475
      @louisawambui4475 11 місяців тому

      There are enough professionals in Kenya. Some partners refuse the procedure or don't have enough money.

  • @annejoy1429
    @annejoy1429 Рік тому +11

    It's called hsg and I agree with u it's very painful ...it is well usi loose hope

  • @jane_kambo
    @jane_kambo Рік тому +2

    Suzie....you so beautiful, GOD IS FAITHFUL....KEEP TRUSTING IN HIM.
    my high-school mono,..love you so much.

  • @josephinekinyanjui1354
    @josephinekinyanjui1354 Рік тому +1

    Susan you are such an inspiration.....this is hope against hope,,,,, Sarah waited for 24 years,,,God will surprise you not matter the seasons......self love all the way,,,thank you for giving hope.... blessings 💖💖💖

  • @gracejohns6108
    @gracejohns6108 Рік тому +3

    And that's it. Thank you Susan very inspiring...

  • @nancynjogu6039
    @nancynjogu6039 11 місяців тому +2

    Ghai is she sister to Deborah.. she's my neighbour. Daughter to my Bishop Njuki

  • @eunicejosphat5346
    @eunicejosphat5346 Рік тому

    take it easy,God knows, thanks for encouraging pple , people will always talk.

  • @SuperGrace4444
    @SuperGrace4444 11 місяців тому

    Awesome inspiring interview

  • @philomenawaithiraserah1463
    @philomenawaithiraserah1463 Рік тому

    Wow 👌 I like this woman,,navenye mm nilipata mtoi na shida mingi,adi tulikua tunalala njaa na mtoi wangu,I wish nilikua namjua ningemuachia katoi kangu

  • @bethmuthoni4459
    @bethmuthoni4459 Рік тому +2

    Susan ...it is well.i never knew about your story until av listened.everything happens with a reason you are such an inspiration.God bless you

  • @judynjeri303
    @judynjeri303 Рік тому +1

    Accepting the situation is very good, God will still bless you even if is adoption or helping another child u are amother. . U are beautiful woman ad u are valuable

  • @davidmungai5329
    @davidmungai5329 Рік тому

    Monicah,ebu check with Susan whether she’s your Siz from another mum😏😏🙏🏼🙏🏼😍😍anyway on a lighter note...but mna fanana sana ❤

  • @machariawamachariamacharia3797

    So beautiful ❤️

  • @mbutitileah
    @mbutitileah Рік тому +1

    My kind of vybe👌👌if only we were this sober

  • @justshakeitoff6524
    @justshakeitoff6524 Рік тому +43

    A person is enough with or without kids

  • @marymwai7261
    @marymwai7261 Рік тому +1

    A great lesson I have learnt today
    Learn to pray for God's will in all circumstances. As painful as it is our wants are not God's indeed

  • @kamaucate5765
    @kamaucate5765 Рік тому +2

    Waaaoh I have learnt alot from you susan thanks for opening up

  • @RuthNdungu-t7c
    @RuthNdungu-t7c 11 місяців тому

    Here after interview happy married

  • @johnkamande4307
    @johnkamande4307 Рік тому +2

    Nowadays gatanga presented there sana...keep up with the good job

  • @agnesgithinji7166
    @agnesgithinji7166 Рік тому +1

    Ohhh God uka uturirikane utuiguire tha it's a tough journey dear lord 13 years it not easy at all

  • @bettywamae2000
    @bettywamae2000 11 місяців тому +1

    Susan you are enough with or without children, continue to pursue your purpose.

  • @maggienjenga8617
    @maggienjenga8617 Рік тому +3

    I love her thinking.

  • @janegitingu6388
    @janegitingu6388 10 місяців тому

    Oh my I remember watching this story and I am very happy that she found a good man.

  • @Janengurehg4co
    @Janengurehg4co 10 місяців тому

    Am here from the sweetest moment of loved again and happly married

  • @josephinekimani7017
    @josephinekimani7017 11 місяців тому +1

    Our God is faithful.
    Keep trusting keep believing.
    Your future is on Gods hands..be at peace

  • @davidkarimi3494
    @davidkarimi3494 Рік тому +1

    My strong friend you such inspirational

  • @CateWisdom-df8wl
    @CateWisdom-df8wl 9 місяців тому

    I have a kid and am not married... this has made me feel fulfilled

  • @AnnMathenge-mu3ib
    @AnnMathenge-mu3ib 11 місяців тому +2

    Leaving each day at a time and trusting in Gods timing .If my singlehood is for the glory of God i embrace it

  • @esperanzawanjiru2435
    @esperanzawanjiru2435 Рік тому +8

    Ningesema she keeps trying without putting her mind in it but then again we xtians should not fornicate. Im older than her by two yrs na sijapata and i have never tried coz i dont date ever. I plan to when i get a husband though. Unfortunately her husband cudnt go on with the journey otherwise i think couples should adopt a baby even as they keep trying so as to be busy because waiting inaweza fanya uchizi. I bought my sis baby clothes last yr but one by faith she would get and right now her baby is several months. I tried mine like this lady and husband must come first coz i dont bilieve in fornication but wapi. Christianity can be rough. But God may be having something in store for us. Something big

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 Рік тому

      Actually its likely that man wasnt the one destined for you. you may get the one and get kids in future. just dont put your mind there or you will be permanently depressed. Go about doing Gods work perhaps he will surprise you.

  • @maryfridahndunge5616
    @maryfridahndunge5616 6 місяців тому

    So inspiring

  • @wanjirumbugua5946
    @wanjirumbugua5946 11 місяців тому

    What an inspiring strory

  • @AnnMathenge-mu3ib
    @AnnMathenge-mu3ib 11 місяців тому +1

    At his own right time he will mke everything beautiful

  • @moniwawarikuo2253
    @moniwawarikuo2253 Рік тому +1

    Very outspoken, very positive,a good advice indeed,may God see her through, beautiful repeat beautiful In n out
    Moni🙏🙏

  • @draah3
    @draah3 Рік тому +2

    She's so beautiful

  • @tsc2022
    @tsc2022 Рік тому +1

    Very informative

  • @JK-ju8jl
    @JK-ju8jl Рік тому +2

    Susan thank you for being amazing ❤❤❤

  • @mercyboro6007
    @mercyboro6007 Рік тому +2

    People should be sensitive when it comes to commenting and asking when one you should get a child, don't ask because it is none of your business

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Рік тому +2

    She is beautiful 💕💕