I absolutely love how proactive you have been with your treatments. A lot of patients don't speak up for themselves and just go with what the doctor says. If you need a liver, I'm offering to be tested to see if I am a match for you.
I forgot to add that a friend of mine developed pre eclampsia during the labour and delivery of twins. She died immediately after the birth. Her babies had no mom. This was in a modern day hospital only a few years ago. People should ask themselves do you want a peak experience in a candle lit bubble bath or a living baby and living mom. Even sheep need farmers to untangle the mess nature causes sometimes.
Thank you for sharing! My first two birth experiences I was induced and I let docs talk me into an epidural, and this time I’m SUPER into going as “natural” as possible, however, you’re reminding me to ground myself, even if I’m only at 23 weeks, so thank you. Congratulations to your family!!!❤
Thank you hun! Yes go into it with an open mind so that your not to upset if things don’t go to plan. Most important thing is a healthy mum and baby ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your story! So detailed and so personal. Thank God for your health and the health of your precious baby girl. Girl, youre good to be dealing with such a miserable and unhelpful midwife bless you. xxx
You had prodromal labor… I had what you had for four days. On the fifth day, things picked up, and then the baby was born. I had them at home with two midwives and two assistants. They were great! You were great too❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing your story ❤️ my first was born in 2022. Lots of similarities between you and I. I wanted to have a water birth in the hospital. I feel like I made a mistake by going to the hospital in the first place as well. This is because I went to have them check for amniotic fluid. I wasn’t sure if my water had broken. Once they confirmed it was amniotic fluid I was on a 24 hour deadline. They kept pushing me to be induced. I eventually went into labor naturally but with first babies, labor is long and I became exhausted. Asked for the epidural eventually and had an episiotomy. I’m 30 weeks pregnant with my second and have hired a home birth midwife. Looking forward to laboring at home and not having anyone bother me 😂 anyway congratulations, you’re beautiful and so is baby!!!
Thank you hun ❤️❤️. I think I want to do the same next time around hire someone for a home birth. I did think about paying for private hospital but I’ve herd it’s not actually much different. I think being home if definitely the best option because you feel more comfortable and relaxed. The only thing is I think I would be high risk now because I’ve already had a c-section. Congratulations on your second, I hope it’s a much nicer experience xx
I’m so sorry that you had this experience! That nurse needs prayer and therapy. Both shouldn’t be that stressful. Pls don’t let it stop you from having beautiful babies
@@AllaboutmollieI personally don't think that you would be a good candidate for a home birth considering all of the complications that you had with baby number 1. The pre-eclampsia/ eclampsia alone would be dangerous. Add in the inability for baby to drop down all the way into your pelvis to open your cervix/your body not being able to open your cervix beyond 3 cm plus the + 1 week over due and the meconium in your waters, I definitely would not recommend a home birth. (Registered nurse BSN x 25 years).
Hi, thank-you for your comment ❤. I didn’t forget to say that in the end when my bloods came back I didn’t actually have pre-eclampsia. I thought everything may be different with another baby on the other bits 😩😩
My daughter had a similar experience she only dilated 2 cm after 2 days she had an emergency c section after her nurse had her turn to her other side The baby s heart rate slowed . She was a shoulder presentation she never could have been born without a lot of manipulation. God Bless you and your family
That midwife sounded horrible. I was 19 when my husband and I had our first I didn’t get married because I was pregnant but they treated me like I was this underage pregnant girl and so cold to me. I had toxemia and scared to death in a high risk situation with horrible vibes. My husband and mother were amazing and fighting on my behalf. My next pregnancy was twins and the care was so positive and beautiful. They should know that their actions are directly proportional to your experience. I’m sorry you had such a hard time
I had the same domino trip from breaking waters, to pessaries, to drip hormones, to agonized labour, to begging for pethadine, then epidural, and at the end an emergency c section. It was a fantastic birth because in the end I had a huge crowd of enthusiasts around me, loads of medical professionals, a theatre like a futuristic space ship, pain free. All the smug earth mothers who shame women who have to save their babies in this hi tech way should take their drippy inflatable rubber paddling pools and pelvis cracking ring of fire ordeals and snooty heirarchy of breathing yogically and lessons lessons lessons in how to have hubby grab the baby like a soccer ball and instead tell the TRUTH.....labour is tough. I wish you well on your wonderful journey. Your birth, like my birth, was a miracle of modern science. Millions of babies and mothers die in labour all over the world because their babies dont make it. Be defiant, your birth was magnificent.
I don't understand why births are so stressful and unpleasant in this day and age. I think attitudes and procedures have changed in hospitals, and not for the better. There are too many inductions and c-sections in my opinion. Women get too many medications to induce labor, and then the baby gets distressed from said medications and the woman ends up with an emergency c-section. This is also the case in Germany and in the USA (I am guessing you are in the UK). In addition, there are not enough midwives, and the ones they have are underpaid and under continual time pressure. The system has to be reevaluated. I would hate to have a baby at the present time. Also, why can you not go to the birthing center late at night? That is a bummer when you expect to be at the birthing center, and then it is not adequately staffed, to the point that they don't even answer the phone? Your baby is so gorgeous!
This is exactly what I experienced. Maybe I would have still ended up having a C-section but I would have felt better about it if I actually had a pleasant experience beforehand. The birthing centre was short staffed but if I had been told this before I probably would have opted for a home birth. Thank-you and at-least we are well now!
You look exactly like Sansa from Game of Thrones...sorry for straying off topic. I've had 4 kids and the first one, even though she was the smallest, was the absolute toughest. My two middle children were 10 months apart and when I had #3, my body was still in pregnancy mode...he came so fast, the nurse almost had to deliver him! #4 was 9lbs12ounces and I did get an epidural at 7cm dialiated...I regret it because I really think I could have done without but the fear of how much worse it could get messed with my mind. I definitely would have had another one but my husband cut me off because he knows I love even numbers and he didn't want 6!😂
haha thank-you, I don't mind looking like her 🙂. I don't now how you do it I have my hands full just with 1! I would love another but I just don't know how people do it x
Thank-you lovely. We are well now all feels like a distant memory. If we are blessed with another baby hopefully it will be a different experience ❤️❤️
I absolutely love how proactive you have been with your treatments. A lot of patients don't speak up for themselves and just go with what the doctor says. If you need a liver, I'm offering to be tested to see if I am a match for you.
I forgot to add that a friend of mine developed pre eclampsia during the labour and delivery of twins. She died immediately after the birth. Her babies had no mom. This was in a modern day hospital only a few years ago. People should ask themselves do you want a peak experience in a candle lit bubble bath or a living baby and living mom. Even sheep need farmers to untangle the mess nature causes sometimes.
That’s so sad! Yes healthy mum and baby is definitely most important xx
Thank you for sharing!
My first two birth experiences I was induced and I let docs talk me into an epidural, and this time I’m SUPER into going as “natural” as possible, however, you’re reminding me to ground myself, even if I’m only at 23 weeks, so thank you.
Congratulations to your family!!!❤
Thank you hun! Yes go into it with an open mind so that your not to upset if things don’t go to plan. Most important thing is a healthy mum and baby ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your story! So detailed and so personal. Thank God for your health and the health of your precious baby girl. Girl, youre good to be dealing with such a miserable and unhelpful midwife bless you. xxx
Thank-you for being so kind! Was nervous to share 😩 xx
You had prodromal labor…
I had what you had for four days. On the fifth day, things picked up, and then the baby was born.
I had them at home with two midwives and two assistants.
They were great!
You were great too❤❤❤
Beautiful momma beautiful baby girl ❤❤❤am stuck on her full head of hair ..I pray for protection.. sorry for the trauma.
Thank-you! I know I couldn’t believe how much hair she has 🤣
I would have asked the midwife to leave the room and have someone else. Shocking behaviour
Thanks for sharing your story ❤️ my first was born in 2022. Lots of similarities between you and I. I wanted to have a water birth in the hospital. I feel like I made a mistake by going to the hospital in the first place as well. This is because I went to have them check for amniotic fluid. I wasn’t sure if my water had broken. Once they confirmed it was amniotic fluid I was on a 24 hour deadline. They kept pushing me to be induced. I eventually went into labor naturally but with first babies, labor is long and I became exhausted. Asked for the epidural eventually and had an episiotomy. I’m 30 weeks pregnant with my second and have hired a home birth midwife. Looking forward to laboring at home and not having anyone bother me 😂 anyway congratulations, you’re beautiful and so is baby!!!
Thank you hun ❤️❤️. I think I want to do the same next time around hire someone for a home birth. I did think about paying for private hospital but I’ve herd it’s not actually much different. I think being home if definitely the best option because you feel more comfortable and relaxed. The only thing is I think I would be high risk now because I’ve already had a c-section. Congratulations on your second, I hope it’s a much nicer experience xx
I’m so sorry that you had this experience! That nurse needs prayer and therapy. Both shouldn’t be that stressful. Pls don’t let it stop you from having beautiful babies
Thank-you! It has me thorn because I want my baby to have siblings. I’m thinking maybe a home birth next time 😩
@@AllaboutmollieI personally don't think that you would be a good candidate for a home birth considering all of the complications that you had with baby number 1. The pre-eclampsia/ eclampsia alone would be dangerous. Add in the inability for baby to drop down all the way into your pelvis to open your cervix/your body not being able to open your cervix beyond 3 cm plus the + 1 week over due and the meconium in your waters, I definitely would not recommend a home birth. (Registered nurse BSN x 25 years).
Hi, thank-you for your comment ❤. I didn’t forget to say that in the end when my bloods came back I didn’t actually have pre-eclampsia. I thought everything may be different with another baby on the other bits 😩😩
@@Allaboutmollie- yessss!
That’s what I did, after my C-section…!
You can do it! Just research everything as much as possible!❤❤❤
This is EXACTLY how I ended up with my C-section…… 😢😢😢
It was unnecessary. The way your birth was managed was leading towards surgery.
Ughhh
Oh gosh, I’m about to pop! 😅 stay positive mumma you are doing a great job!
You’ll be fine! It’s all a distant memory now ❤️
My daughter had a similar experience she only dilated 2 cm after 2 days she had an emergency c section after her nurse had her turn to her other side The baby s heart rate slowed . She was a shoulder presentation she never could have been born without a lot of manipulation. God Bless you and your family
It's better to get them out safely in the end! I hop she is well now x
Who’s snoring? Your partner? Your daughter? Your dog?
My dog looool!
That midwife sounded horrible. I was 19 when my husband and I had our first I didn’t get married because I was pregnant but they treated me like I was this underage pregnant girl and so cold to me. I had toxemia and scared to death in a high risk situation with horrible vibes. My husband and mother were amazing and fighting on my behalf. My next pregnancy was twins and the care was so positive and beautiful. They should know that their actions are directly proportional to your experience. I’m sorry you had such a hard time
I completely agree how you're treated in that moment can really affect everything! I'm hoping next time around is a nicer experience.
I’m sorry they were so mean to you that’s stressful ):
I had the same domino trip from breaking waters, to pessaries, to drip hormones, to agonized labour, to begging for pethadine, then epidural, and at the end an emergency c section. It was a fantastic birth because in the end I had a huge crowd of enthusiasts around me, loads of medical professionals, a theatre like a futuristic space ship, pain free. All the smug earth mothers who shame women who have to save their babies in this hi tech way should take their drippy inflatable rubber paddling pools and pelvis cracking ring of fire ordeals and snooty heirarchy of breathing yogically and lessons lessons lessons in how to have hubby grab the baby like a soccer ball and instead tell the TRUTH.....labour is tough.
I wish you well on your wonderful journey. Your birth, like my birth, was a miracle of modern science. Millions of babies and mothers die in labour all over the world because their babies dont make it. Be defiant, your birth was magnificent.
I don't understand why births are so stressful and unpleasant in this day and age. I think attitudes and procedures have changed in hospitals, and not for the better. There are too many inductions and c-sections in my opinion. Women get too many medications to induce labor, and then the baby gets distressed from said medications and the woman ends up with an emergency c-section. This is also the case in Germany and in the USA (I am guessing you are in the UK). In addition, there are not enough midwives, and the ones they have are underpaid and under continual time pressure. The system has to be reevaluated. I would hate to have a baby at the present time. Also, why can you not go to the birthing center late at night? That is a bummer when you expect to be at the birthing center, and then it is not adequately staffed, to the point that they don't even answer the phone? Your baby is so gorgeous!
This is exactly what I experienced. Maybe I would have still ended up having a C-section but I would have felt better about it if I actually had a pleasant experience beforehand. The birthing centre was short staffed but if I had been told this before I probably would have opted for a home birth. Thank-you and at-least we are well now!
You look exactly like Sansa from Game of Thrones...sorry for straying off topic. I've had 4 kids and the first one, even though she was the smallest, was the absolute toughest. My two middle children were 10 months apart and when I had #3, my body was still in pregnancy mode...he came so fast, the nurse almost had to deliver him! #4 was 9lbs12ounces and I did get an epidural at 7cm dialiated...I regret it because I really think I could have done without but the fear of how much worse it could get messed with my mind. I definitely would have had another one but my husband cut me off because he knows I love even numbers and he didn't want 6!😂
haha thank-you, I don't mind looking like her 🙂. I don't now how you do it I have my hands full just with 1! I would love another but I just don't know how people do it x
I stopped watching after I saw the Kanye t-shirt
Jesus, it’s about a traumatic birth and you are whining about her shirt?
haha it's my boyfriends t-shirt and the only thing that fit me at the time.
Next time stay home if you are healthy.
I would like to but apparently now that I have had a C-section I would be high risk 😩
@@Allaboutmollie yep and most midwives wont sign off on a vbac
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Thank-you lovely. We are well now all feels like a distant memory. If we are blessed with another baby hopefully it will be a different experience ❤️❤️
@@Allaboutmollie ♥️🥰♥️
Beautiful momma beautiful baby girl ❤❤❤am stuck on her full head of hair ..I pray for protection.. sorry for the trauma.
Thank-you ❤️