Hazrat Ayesha RA ki Shadi 9 years ki age mn? | Sahil Adeem |
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- Confusion about the Age of Hazrat Ayesha RA at the time of Marriage
Very Commonly Asked Question that "Your Prophet Married with 9 years old girl?"
Kya Shadi k Waqt Hazrat Ayesha RA ki Age 9 Sal tih?
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A brilliant answer and slap against losers.
شاباش مسلم شیر، اللہ مزید ہمت و بصیرت و علم دے اور شیاطین کے حملوں سے آپ کو حفاظت میں رکھے، آمین
Ameen
Not a brilliant answer he is only insisting to believe books written and compiled by humans as a word of God.
@@mujtabas Bring your proof if you are truthful
@@MuhammadZeeshanArshad legends saheb please write which proof you are talking about. My statement doesnt need proof, i said books written by Muslim and Bukhari or any scholar is not from Almighty Allah, thats it, and any book by human is subject to error and verification, Only Quran original text is error free.
You can believe any book that given to you is from God, you believe it, I will not. The Quran said in one of the verses that people write by their hand and say this is from Allah, do you know this ayat in Quran, if you cannot find I can give you the ayat number.
@@mujtabas please mention ayat no and surah
Allah ka lakh shukr hy k educated log b deen ko agy ly k chal rhy jin se boht kuch seekhny ko milta Engineer Ali mirza sahil adeem youth club k members Dr zakir naik I respect them all they r gems literally.
I am also facing this issue, my age 27 and my husband age is 53 , its my love marriage , today's Muslim is not a true Muslim, they only think according to their wills not according to our prophet Muhammad (saw). Plz pray for me,
Issue is not 27 and 53 yrs... Issue is 7 and 53!!!!
@@erumashfaq3387 I don't understand that U want to say
@@ainaabid8868 ur age bracket is 27...good enough for getting married... But justifying 7 , as per above video is very painful to digest. So we should not get involved in this issue as its too sensitive.
@@mohammedayan270 dont judge me pl. My eman is not wesk nor i wrote anything like that. I wrote, they r mothers of umma, so dont discuss them, specially when issuesr raised to create mess among muslims. Quran discusses, men, women, old n kids. So if 7 yr is considered a woman then who r children as per Islam? So lot things r messed by our mullas, to misguide people. Dont u agree that two maulvis r not united at way of namaz.... So when b/w things r made grey, such things we r way away to discuss. We love our umm al momineen n our Prophet!
Muj pe fatway na lagain pl. Thx.
@@mohammedayan270 means, k apko yaqeen dilana tha k ma eman wali hon?? Next how u judged from my point that i had athiest views??? Actually u r poking nose. Thanks.
اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کے ایمان اور علم میں مزید اضافہ عطاء فرمائیں ❤️
This man give me so much courage to me.
Alhumdulillah
Mother Aisha was engaged to Jubayr ib Mut'im's son before her marriage. When her father, Abu Bakr, received the proposal of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Abu Bark refused saying that Aisha is already engaged. Abu Bakr went to Jubayr's family and ask why are you delaying marriage. Jubayr's family replied that they don't want to keep any relationships with Abu Bakr's family since Abu Bakr's family has accepted Islam. It was the time Abu Bark accepted the proposal of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). The marriage happened but was consummated after a period of 3 years as per my knowledge.
So regardless of what age mother Aisha was at the time of marriage, she was ready enough to be married as per the historic facts, Arab culture at the time and norms of the society.
For the sake of argument, we want to research if she was really 9 y/o at the time of marriage then in my opinion, looking things in historic perspective is not evil as long as the intention is to connect dots. Because Quran is the only book claimed to have zero doubts so any other book on the face of the earth may have mistake. And questioning a hadeeth isn't questioning the prophethood or revelations but it just means to question the ability of narrator. Because in daily life, we experience that smart of the smartest or should I say normal people can and do make mistakes with so confidence that they know what they are doing but it turn out to be a mistake.
So there is a better way to put this argument being on the safe side which is, "the age of mother Aisha is unknown at the time of her marriage." Because there are other hadeeth's that conflict this that states that Mother Aisha was 9 y/o at the time of her marriage. So the safer position is that we know she was old enough to marry but we are not sure what that age was. Allah knows best.
And to extend this idea as an argument to non Muslims or Islamophobes, we can ask them this question. There are more than 100k hadeeth which are agreed upon by the Muslim scholars regarding the prophecy of Muhammad (PBUH) but Islamophobes want to believe only the ones which aren't considered authentic enough. This is hypocrisy of Islamophobes.
اَللّٰهُُ اَكْبَر ..جزاک اللّٰه
Abu Bakr reject the proposal of Muhammad SAWW
@@naeemsoomro4986 are you telling or asking. Either way, I can clear the doubt. Abu Bakr refused the proposal because Aisha was already engaged.
Not only it shows that mother Aisha was ready enough for marriage, it also shows that Abu Bakr could refuse Prophet's proposal when comes to the fulfillment of his agreement.
I'm asking brother can you please give reference from where you read.
Question is that Prophet Muhammad SAWW didn't knew that she was engaged? (at that I don't think so there was such things were existing engagement and than marriage)
2. Abu Bakr refused Prophet it's impossible.
What Prophet said is the saying of ALLAH at all sahaba strong believes in that.
@@naeemsoomro4986 reference, I am leaving for you as we are in 21st century and info is on the tip of our fingers.
And yes, Prophet PBUH didn't know a lot of things including mother Aisha's engagement.
An old lady named Khaula asked Prophet PBUH to marry. Prophet replied, do you know any lady. She answered with 2 names. Prophet chose Aisha's name. Lady took the proposal to Abu Bakr.
Rest of the story, I have told you.
Wow how explained. that is Iman. mashallah Allah kamyabiaan ataa kry.
Upon Hazrath Ayesha RA marriage I have the following take.
1. Hazrath Ayesha RA lived 40 years after prophet SAS and narrated numerous hadees never she complained about her marriage.
2. Hazrath Abubaker Siddiq loved to give his daughter to prophet SAS never complained about the marriage.
3. Hazrath Ayesha RA was engaged when Prophet SAS send alliance for marriage.
4. The maccans and the enemies of Prophet SAS never had any issue with the marriage of Hazrath Ayesha RA with Prophet SAS then.
Then now after around 1350 years why one should have the problem.
If I am wrong pl. do correct me.
Request for dua’s
That time if some body complain get headless
Yes they didn't complain because they didn't wrote hadith or history.
When considering the issue do also consider the source of the event. Which in this case was written after 100 years of Prophet death.
@@DanishAli-rm2ky bruh. What a stupid argument with less knowledge. Don't you know that even Sahaba used to write down the Ahadith? And they used to revise them and preach to their respective students and many institutions whichever city they used to live in. The authenticity of ahadith is judged by the character, memory, truthfulness, chain of Ustaad, & many other strong factors and these generations of thousands of people have preserved the life of Prophetﷺ safe from corruption, making the sciences of Ahadith, recorded like none of the personality in history as Allah SWT Himself ordered us to follow the life & Hikmah of Prophetﷺ in Qur'an kareem. And when the Abbasid empire expanded Islamic world was introduced to and got ease of access of more worthy papers and library's through china, which resulted in so many preserved collections of Ahadiths preserved by the excellent Imaams of this Ummah of their respective times and even then memory was the primary source of knowledge along with the written work, with authentic chains of narrations to cross verify by thousands of Scholars then and now. That's the Mercy of our Lord on us to preserve such knowledge and even for the last generation before Qiyamah to get access of this knowledge.
@@KingKing-bd4yb and when they don't listen to any of commandments of prophet, that time they don't have fear of headless body???
@@shamma5518 yes they have fear of being haedless .History and hadess read
Maa shaa Allah, Allah bless you Sahil bhai and all Muslims of entire world......!
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Very well said. The Prophet SAW never followed his own wishes and desires but simply followed what Allah asked him to do.
Dil tasalli😂😂😂
@@zackkneight1146 so then the god is a pedophile by your logic.. astaghfarullah
How differently u think... what a focus... SubhanAllah
ऐसा कहा जाता है कि जब हज़रत आयशा की उम्र 6 साल थी तब आपका निकाह हुआ और 9 साल मे रुख़सती हुई |
*इस गुमराह करने वाली इत्तेला (सूचना) ने मुस्लिम और गैर मुस्लिम भाइयों मे बहुत ही गलत तास्सुर दिया कि* *इस्लाम में बच्चों की शादी की इजाज़त है।* ये क़ाबिले गौर है कि इसके मुस्तनद (प्रमाणिक) होने की दलील नहीं है इसको साबित करने के लिए, रावियों, हालात और उस वक्त की कैफियत का तारीखी हक़ाएक़ (ऐतिहासिक तथ्यों) के साथ बाहमी ताल्लुक़ को देखा जाना चाहिए। इस सिलसिले में हिशाम की एक हदीस है जिसमें हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. की उम्र 9 साल होने का इशारा मिलता है|
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कई *मुस्तनद ( प्रमाणिक) हदीसें भी ज़ाहिर करती हैं कि हिशाम की रवायत नबी करीम (स.अ.व.) की जिंदगी की कई तारीख हक़ाएक़ (ऐतिहासिक तथ्य), के गैरमुताबिक़ हैं।* उमर अहमद उस्मानी, हकीम नियाज़ अहमद और हबीबुर्रहमान कांधोलवी जैसे उलमा के हवाले के साथ, इस हक़ीक़त के हक़ में *कुछ दलीलें पेश करना चाहूंगा, कि* *हज़रत आयशा रज़ि की उम्र कम से कम 18 साल थी जब आपका निकाह हुआ और आपकी उम्र कम से कम 21 साल थीं* जब आपकी रुखसती नबी करीम (स.अ.व.) के साथ रहने के लिए हुईं।
उमर अहमद उस्मानी के मुताबिक़, *सूरे अल-निसा* में ये कहा गया है कि _"यतीमों (अनाथों) के वली उनका माल उन्हें वापस करने से पहले उनकी लगातार आज़ामाइश करते रहें, जब तक कि वो शादी की उम्र तक पहुँच जायें"_ (4:6)। इससे उलेमा हज़रात ने ये नतीजा निकाला है कि *क़ुरआन ने शादी की एक कम से कम उम्र तय की है जो कम से कम सने बलोगत है।* चूंकि *लड़की की मंजूरी (कबूलियत) एक कानूनी/इस्लामी आवश्यकता है* इसलिए वो नाबालिग नहीं हो सकती है।
हिशाम बिन उरवह इस हदीस के खास रावी हैं। उनकी जिंदगी दो दौरों में तकसीम की गयी है: 131 A.H. में मदनी मुद्दत समाप्त हुई, और *इराकी अवधि शुरू हुई, उस समय हिशाम की उम्र 71 साल थी। हाफ़िज़ ज़हबी ने बाद के समय में हिशाम की याददाश्त खराब हो जाने के बारे में बात की है* । मदीना, में उनके तालिबे इल्मों इमाम मालिक और इमाम अबू हनीफह ने इस हदीस का ज़िक्र नहीं किया है । इमाम मालिक और मदीने के लोगों ने उन्हें उनकी *इराकी हदीसों के लिए तंक़ीद (आलोचना) भी की है।*
इस हदीस के सभी रावी इराकी हैं, जिन्होंने हिशाम से उसे सुना था। इराकी जो कि अभी तक खुलफाए राशिदीन और हज़रत आयशा से बुग्ज और अदावत रखते हैं | *अल्लामा कांधोलवी का कहना है कि हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. की उम्र के बारे में कहा गया शब्द 'तिस्सह अशरह' कहा गया है जिसका अर्थ 19 है, जब हिशाम ने सिर्फ तिस्सह सुना (या याद किया) जिसका मतलब 9 होता है।* मौलाना उस्मानी रह. का खयाल है कि इस तब्दीली को जान बूझ कर और बदनियती से बाद में बनाया गया था।
इतिहासकार इब्ने इसहाक़ ने 'सीरते रसूलल्लाह' (स.अ.व.) *इस्लाम के
पहले साल में इस्लाम स्वीकार करने वालों की एक फेहरिस्त (सूची) दी है* जिसमें हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. का नाम हज़रत अबु बक्र रज़ि. की छोटी बेटी आयशा रज़ि." के तौर पर दिया गया है। *अगर हम हिशाम के हिसाब को कुबूल करते हैं, तो उस वक्त तक वो पैदा भी नहीं हुई थीं।*
नबी सल्लल्लाहू अलैहि वसल्लम की पहली बीवी, हज़रत ख़दीजा की वफात के कुछ दिनों बाद, *हज़रत खौवलह रजि. ने नबी सल्लल्लाहू अलैहि वसल्लम को बकरुन से दोबारा शादी करने का सुझाव दिया,* जिसकी मुराद हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. से था (मसनद अहमद)। अरबी में बकरुन का अर्थ गैर शादीशुदा लड़की, जिसने सने बलोगत को पार कर लिया हो और शादी की उम्र हो गई हो । एक छह साल की लड़की के लिए ये शब्द इस्तेमाल नहीं किया जा सकता है ।
कुछ अहले इल्म हज़रात का खयाल है कि हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. की शादी जल्दी हो गई थी क्योंकि अरब में लड़कियाँ जल्दी बालिग़ हो जाती हैं। लेकिन ये उस वक्त अरबों का आम रिवाज नहीं था । ये अल्लामा कांधोलवी के मुताबिक़, *इस्लाम से पहले या उसके बाद इस तरह का कोई मामला दर्ज नहीं है और न ही उसे नबी करीम (स.अ.व.) की सुन्नत के रूप में बढ़ावा दिया गया। नबी सल्लल्लाहू अलैहि वसल्लम ने अपनी बेटियों की शादी हज़रत फ़ातिमा रज़ि की 21 और हज़रत रुक़य्या रज़ि. की 23 साल* की उम्र में शादी कर दी थी। इसके अलावा, हज़रत अबु बकर सिद्दीक रज़ियल्लाहु अन्हु, हज़रत आयशा रज़ि. के वालिद ने 26 साल की उम्र में अपनी सबसे बड़ी बेटी हजरते अस्मा रज़ि. की शादी कर दी थी ।
*इस बात पर सबकी इत्तेफाक़ राये है कि हज़रत आयशा रजि. अपनी बड़ी बहन अस्मह रज़ि. से 10 साल छोटी थीं, जिनकी हिजरत के वक्त उम्र लगभग 28 साल थी ।
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Thousands of hadits and major part of life of our beloved prophet reach us through aisha (R.A) all these things are planned by Allah(saw)...
Allah knows people will make objection in future so he can adopted as daughter too.
1000000000000000000000%truth
@@KingKing-bd4yb کالے انگریز تم اپنا کام اردو مین لکھ دو ویڈیو اردو مین ھے تم کو اردو سمجھ تو آتی ھے۔it is quite evident that you are not able to express yourself in English
@@masoodfarooki435 kale kehna zarori tha? Gore ko kale pe koi fazilat hasil ni ha!
SalAllahoAlaiheWasalam aur RadiAllahhoTalaAnha poora likha karein
Agaar har 10000 logoon main ek bhi sahil adeem hota to ham itni pasti main na hoty. Allah mujhy bhi aap jasa muslmaan bnay
20 cror me aik sahil adeem a gya h na Allah or bhej dy gy inshAllah
Khud Ko bnao Koi Maa Jahil Bchy ki Khawahish. Se Paida nhi krti
Kitabeay parhe apko ye bolne ke zarorat na ho. Q k ap khud kuch parhty nhi tu sahil adeem ke apko zarorat Hai. Ye banda khud ye bat krta Hai. Baqi ap parhe gy tu apko ye he soch k kafi log nazar aygg
Bhai ap bi sahil bhai ban sakty hey quraan pak pra karo tarjme ke sath chahy rozana aek ayt hi pro
@@adnannabi7909 bat krne ka yahi mqsad hai k Allah pak sb ko aese ilm se mala mal kre ... Ameen
What a way of explanation Alhamdulilah you are man of knowledge love you for sake of ALLAH you have explained with beauty of knowledge
Ma-Sha-Allah Thank u Sahil sir saare doughts clear ho gaie Alhamdulillah 🤎
6 saal ki bachee say shadi per iataraz hai lakin 6 saal ki bachee ko nokarani ( house worker maid ) rakhnay say kisee ko problem nahi . Us say sara ghar ka sara kaam khuwateen khud kerwati hai. Aur khud hi bachee ki shadi per iataraz hai. Problem mind set may hai.
Allah give him long life.
uske liye UNHR hai, aur kya tum apni 6 saal ki beti ki shadi 50 saal k buddhe se karwaoge
@@explorer7913 shut your mouth ...
aysa nahi Aap s.a.w nay aik hadith may kaha hay ki jaysay ladka or ladki baligh ho jaye to on ki foran shadi kardo
Aap s.a.w ko Ami jan Hazrat Aisha r.a say shadi ka hukam hoa tha Allah say nabi ka har action may koi hikmat hoti hay har wo kam jo nabi kar raha hay insan nahi kar sakta onho nay siraf logo ko sikhanay kay liye har umar ki aurat say shadi ki thats why he is our role model onho nay sab say achay say pesh anay kki talqeen ki humaysha say @@explorer7913
@@explorer7913tameez se ... Jahannum k Rasta mile ga. Okay
@@explorer7913 Agar Allah ka hukam ho to lekin Allah kiun dega mujhe yeh hukam? Hszrat Muhammad SAW to nabi the Allah ke.
Love you 😘
What a awesome explanation
May Allah give you long life and health 🙂
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Nice intellectual discussion.. scholarly raised points look valid
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
jazakAllah khair allah apse raazi hojaye sahil bhai may allah save u from evil eye
Jazak Allah. Bahut hi zabardast jawab.
Wow, so thought provoking talk. Wonderful points.
9:40 best point I have ever heard..... astagfirullah do open and see your own hearts my brother and sister......🥺
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
خوش کر دیا ھے .........پروفیسر. .......چھا گئے ہیں آپ......لگے رہو. .......اللہ خوش رکھے.
جزاکم اللہ خیرا ❤️
Jazak Allah khair MashaAllah beautiful explanation
What a real gem 💎 he is..... Loaded with wisdom and foresightedness ❤️❤️
ماشاء اللہ
Agreed
jahil
Very good explanation about Imaan... Jazakallah
First we have to understand the importance and level of rasool (saw).....
Great answer sir.....
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
ماشاء اللہ! کیا خوب بیان ھے دل خوش ھو گیا
Sir you are real defender of Islam . I don't have words to appreciate you but I can pray for you. Love you so much 🌹🌹🌹
Is ko kis ne scholar bana diya
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
MA . I agree with you. I am a MD. During my residency training I saw 12 years old with second child and she looked like 25 years old. Now a days 9 or 10 year old is not a child and they reach to puberty. During our Beloved Prophet Muhammad SAW time girls were reaching to puberty at that age and they were not looking a child like now a days in North America. That's why even enemies of Prophet Muhammad SAW had no objection on this marriage. Even in West their king married 10 to 12 years old
.No one is talking about that. People were objecting on many things of Muslims but time has proofed that their objections were not valid
A person can get married based on puberty level, not on intellect. fantastic. it is psychological thriller by behavioral psychologist. hahahaha
Feeling sad for your mental level and patients.But hey don't mind you will die with a closed mind!
All those raising objections on this issue are actually objecting marriage; not having sex.
The height of western hypocrisy is that, 11,12 years old girls are giving birth to children, and its on the record. On the other side, if the same couple do marriage, they’ll be arrested for violating the law.
What the heck is this???
@@mohammadsamer9151 are u still rejecting the vid ?
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
بسم اللہ وائی سونیا !! جیوندا رو۔
میرا سلام ہے آپ کو
Eye opening lecture MasaAllah
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Hamein Muhammad ﷺ ❤️ sai boht muhabat hai Alhumdulillah or hum un ki har ada or har sunnat sai pyar kartey hain.Allah ❤️hamein Muhammad ﷺ ❤️ ko poori tarha follow karney ki toufeeq ata frmye ameen
جزاک اللہ خیر
Salaam Aliekum brother Sahil, as someone who grew up in West and Pakistan, I have a lot to relate. MashAllah you seem to have good inyentions, rest Allah knows best.
Just a request in answering your questions if you can please stick to following then that would be awesome.
1. Stick to topic at first
2. Please watch out for your words in painting everyone with generic words, your audience is not all sitting in Pakistan and not all Pakistani are same.
3. Highlight extra points at the end
In terms of answering this question about Aisha (RA), you have put more confusion out there in my humble opinion. Ofcourse we have no doubt in Rasalt e rasool but its important that we understand the facts and fabrications too.
P.s. someone called xshadow in your comments have answered it well already,
Also I have heard this debate from top scholars in West before, marriage may have taken place by 9years of age (may have word is used as age calculation methods at that time may be different from our time) but consummation took place three years afterwards, in some evidences it was when around Aisha Ra around 13. Nonetheless there is an ambiguity and for us its enough that our prophet has done everything according to Allah (swt) will.
For me its not a difficulty to answer this question: as a doctor I see girls as young as 8 taking contraception in West and their stupid law of autonomy doesn't allow us to elude that to parents unless child allows or if there is a harm to another child (in case of child abuse cases). So if someone asks me they get an answer right on their face, i.e. what value system are you using to judge prophet Saw
BEST ANSWER I EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE!
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
MASHA ALLAH Brother Beautiful Bayan
Masha Allah subhan Allah bahut achche se logon ko samjhya hai Alaah Apki hifazat farmai Ameen
اللہ آپ کے علم میں برکت عطا فرمائے آمین
He explained that matter very deeply and precisely.....well said !
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Javaid Ghamdi Sb gave the best answer on this, with logic and factual references. This answer is more emotional than based on research.
Actualy Ghambdi sb's answer was way far from facts and was more emotional as he tried his best to make everything suitable to modern political correctness and international standards and in his effort he even made authentic sources doubtable. Now anyone can use his framework to mold historical events as per his agenda.
کیا قیامت والے دن اللہ آپ سے آپ کے اعمال کے بارے میں پوچھے گا یا حضرت عائشہ کی عمر پوچھے گا؟؟ گدھے کی طرح پوری قوم فضول سوالات میں الجھی ہوئی ہے۔ اپنے اعمال صحیح کرو لوگوں کے ساتھ اخلاق اور مدد کرو۔
صحیح اعمال کون سے ہوتے ہیں جناب؟
@@TheFarooq123 کیا حکومت کا شادی کے لئیےکم از کم سولہ یا اٹھارہ سال عمر کی قید صحیح عمل ہے؟ کیا میرا اس قانون کی خلاف ورزی صحیح عمل ہو گا؟
Ahem ye h ki HM question kiu kre
Simple fact is thay 20th century has experienced the rise of new terminology "Adolescent"...age between childhood and puberty...as we know in 20th century whole new schooling system was established that has seen students be it young girl or young boy finish their O levels or matriculation at the age of 16. So, its soceital changes that has made early age marriage an uphill struggle due to career orientation developed in humans in last 100 or 150 years. So, we as humans are socialized to perception that age of 23, 24 or 25 onwards are right age of marriage. Back in those days 1400 years ago age of marriage was dependent on level of maturity and Alhumdulilaah we all know how intelligent and genius the Mother of Momineens Hazrat Ayesha R.A. was and her marriage with Prophet Mohammad S.A.W was Special and Exclusive previliges of Nabbuwah bestowed on Rasul Allah S.A.W.
Also
1. Hazrat Maryam gave birth to Jesus P.B.U.H when she was around 12 to 16 years of age and she was bethroted to Joseph the Carpenter even before she was 12....(Why critics didn't raise question on this?)
2. According to Old Testament Book of Genesis Prophet Isaac P.B.U.H married at the age of 40 to Rebbeca when she was 3 years of age or 14 years
1.Hazrat Sarah was 90 when Hazrat Ibrahim A.S. was 100 (Genesis 17:17)
2. Hazrat Ibrahim A.S. was 100 when Hazrat Isaac A.S. was born (Genesis 21:5)
3. Hazrat Sarah died at aged 127 (Genesis 23:1-2)
4. Hazrat Isaac A.S. was 40 when he married Rebekah (Genesis 25:20)
5. When Rebekah was born Hazrat Isaac A.S. was 37 and Hazrat Isaac A.S. got married at age of 40 (Genesis 25:20).
Not only this, few hundred years back in England marriages of differrent Queens were taken place at the age of 7, 11, 8, 14 etc...
Queen Antonette of France married age 14
Christina of Denmark Aged 11 was married to Francis ll Duke of Milan Aged 38 in September 1533
YO, Bro. Literally that's the most convincing answer to this question, I have ever heard. Thanks.
Thanku bahi.....
Zabardast best answer and best knowledge .
It does not give justification how a minor who was playing with her friends and dolls is ready to get married.
In sahih hadiths, it is quoted that hazrat ayesha was playing when she got married so it tells that it is very low age.
Have you ever considered a girl who is 6 or 9 years old, playing with doll is ready to get merried.
Not every where people consider educational level as age of maturity.
Still people know very well when a kid grow up.
And also western personalities are not moral standard for all and rest of the world till last day of judgement. So comparing them with Prophet is very absurd.
ALLAH apko is kaam ka ajr ata karein sahil bhai , bohot h umda tareeke se aapne explain kiya hai
Jazak Allah.......I find ur answer most beautiful among many answers I m hearing these days....
Years before partitions my grandma was only 10when she got married. My granddad who was not really older than her, brought her up. Her period started after few years and they had kids.( people who have issues and doubts about hazrat Ayesha RA , don’t even know the names of their ancestors.) These things were very common in those times. But none believer never talk logic.
These things were very common in dore jahiliat
Aurat k prriod aane lage bas wo bachey banane ki machine hai kardo mard k hawale..q zhni meturity ki age 18 sal hai q graduation ya kam az kam high school zrori hai ..q k insan janwer nahi k sirf sex ya nasal barhane hi zndgi hai zndgi shaoor k sath jene ka nam hai.jeetey to janwer bhi hain
Aik 10 sal ki maa 48 sal ki umer tak 22 bachey paida karsakti hai..agar znda rahi to .or agar aik admi 4 bv rakhe to..dunya jangal ka namoona hogi
@@sumerasyed7311 why you so angry?😂 My grandad was well educated. It’s not about education. It’s about culture. Even now Many Pakistanis and Indians study abroad but their families can kill them if they go against some traditions. Now back to the logic..... not just Muslims but in general people used to get married in young age in the past and it’s not about just producing children. Currently in Europe 12 years old are in relationship. And it’s normal for their families.
@@sumerasyed7311 aur ap un larkuen k bare me Kya sochti ho Jo 10 12 sal ki hoti hain. Lekan bf hote Hain. Boys par mar rai hoti hain. Adultery me mubtla Hoti hain. Bus proper marriage Karna he tumhara issue ha ? Shadi k Bina jis age me BHe ho no problem 🤣🤣
@@khawarali8211 ye ana ki jang hai na hi total islamic population ki aik feesad currupt ya buri tarbiat wali kam umer larkion ki bat hai..pehley aap puri conversation ko parhen phir bat karen
Me q shadi k khilaf hon gi.me to khud married hon
Sawal ye hai k 9 sal ki bachi ..ki life kia hogi uski zhni jismani halat kia hogi muashra kia hoga agar nabi ki sunnat ko man kar es.umer ki larki ko mard k hawale kar dia jae..
@@khawarali8211 jo larkia aisa karti hain unko jootey parne zrori hain or unki mao ki zmedari hai unko sahi ghalat ki tameez dena.
I have read in a book written by a historian that Ammi Ayesha (R.A.) age was around 16 years when she got married. That historian is Mahmood Ahmad Abbasi and he wrote this book in 1958 quoting references from different books then analysing this matter.
Ghamidi sahab ne bhi detail mein explain kar ke yahi samjhaya hai. Ja kar clip dekh lein.
There are many modern researchers who refute the single person's narration Bikhari and some other Books. Prophet didn't allow Ibni Umar at 14 year age to participate in in Battle of Uhad. If we take Aesha's age 9 in 2nd Hijra, She was 10 in the year of Uhad Battle wherein she was certainly ptesent. How come she wud have been allowed?
Secondly, Asma her sister was 10 year older to Aesha. Asma was 28 in 1st Hijra. Aesha must be 18 and she moved to Prophet's House in 2nd Hijrah at 19 years of age.
mahmood ahmed abbasi was a fine scholar. He pointed out many huge misconceptions of islamic history but sadly most of his work was banned and confiscated in Pakistan.
do you have book in pdf?
@@zplus7825 I have original book, hard copy
You are also posing the same kind of apologetic thought process, which is portrayed in this video.
اللھم صل علٰی محمد و علٰی آل محمد کما صلیت علٰی ابراھیم و علٰی آل ابراھیم انک حمید مجید ۔
اللھم بارک علٰی محمد و علٰی آل محمد کما بارکت علٰی ابراھیم و علٰی آل ابراھیم انک حمید مجید
SubhanAllah im proud of you my dr brother may Allah increase you in knowledge and gives hidayaa to all of us Aameen Mere Nabi Swallahu Alaysi Wa Salam jeisa na koyi tha na hai na hoga he SAW is the best of human being we should be proud to be in Ummate Muhamad SAW
Masha Allha Sahil. Jazak Allha you make it very clear. And this video pop up in very right time. You really shake my faith and clear my mind. Thanks to ALLHA Almighty. He sent us the answers of our confusion in many ways. ALLHA is Greatest.
I had never objection,luck of Aisha ra
But non Muslims question this and we try but cant have much words because they even dont have idea,what prophet pbuh is ❤❤💕💕💖💖💖💕💖💖💖💖❤❤❤❤❤❤
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
yes
Right thats the point.
We don't expect you to discuss such issues, you are a good knowledgeable person. Please don't touch conflicting issues which are many times discussed by many scholars.
Please give a vision to young generation and creat a difference by linking Quran with what is happening now and how we have to live in the society and act. How to be a better human and prove it by Quran.
1400 years ago 9 year old person was not a child.
Hazart Ayesha r.a was a self-confidant, brave and highly knowledgeable girl when she was married to nabi pak saw.
REASONS WHY SHE CAN NOT BE REGARDED AS CHILD:
1. She is the reason we have valid hadees source because she has narrated and corrected almost 2000 hadiths.
2. She had an unexplainable and deep love for Rasool Allah saw that she felt jealous for him sometimes. While in child marriage victim can't love the oppressor.
3. She was so confident and she used to question everyone in society and even Rasool Allah on a matter of debate (it was the part of their chemistry ❤) at the end Rasoon Allah used to win obviously but she had that much clarity to question things.
4. All people in medinah even most renowned sahabas used to consult Hazrat Ayesha ra and her students on difficult matters of shariah. Because she was so well known for her knowledge regarding islam specifically.
5. She had great knowledge of medicine, history, sociology and islam. (Some other subjects that I did not remember clearly.)
6. She (ra)and her sister hazrat asma (ra) was the most sadqa giving women in medinah.
And so forth 😊
All the above information is valid. You can check the following Khutbah of Sheikh Omer Suleiman.
ua-cam.com/video/5gDTh-6X9vo/v-deo.html
And following link will provide you different researches on this topic, read if you want clear knowledge,
yaqeeninstitute.org/faraz-malik/the-age-of-aisha-ra-rejecting-historical-revisionism-and-modernist-presumptions
Give me any independent source, rathher than Islam.... That clearly says 14 years ago 9 years kid was not a child..
Very very stupid logic you gave
@@hashiiem8621 I've mentioned a link of research articles below which is not only islam oriented. Read if you are a real truth lover and wants to remove your doubts.
@@sarahrahmat28m45 I've gone through it already, it's all mental gymnastics and doesn't have any Logic unfortunately
اللہ تعالیٰ ہمارے ایمانوں کی حفاظت فرمائے. آمین.
Allah ka lakh shukr hy k educated log b deen ko agy ly k chal rhy jin se boht kuch seekhny ko milta Engineer Ali mirza sahil adeem youth club k members Dr zakir naik I respect them all they r gems literally
Mashallah... Eyes opened 😔
Kesi ko bthaya ga nhi , nazar lag jayi ge !
sahil adeem - Man with so much of IQ , knowledge and clarity..dept of knowledge..
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
رحمت لِلعٰلمِینﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺﷺ
Masha Allah apny bhht Achi BAAT Kahi hamen as a Muslim koi doubt nhi Hona Chahiye apny Nabi S.A.W or un ki talemat pr
Yar banda mashAllah kamal ka hai ....❤❤❤❤
آپ کے سمجھانے کا انداذ الگ ہے میں نے یہ مسلہ دوسرے زاویوں سے سمجھا ہے اور مجھے کوئی ابہام باقی نہیں الحمدللہ
کیا سمجھا ہے، ہمیں بھی سمجھا دے بھائی
کیا قیامت والے دن اللہ آپ سے آپ کے اعمال کے بارے میں پوچھے گا یا حضرت عائشہ کی عمر پوچھے گا؟؟ گدھے کی طرح پوری قوم فضول سوالات میں الجھی ہوئی ہے۔ اپنے اعمال صحیح کرو لوگوں کے ساتھ اخلاق اور مدد کرو۔
I have listened some scholars who say that it was wrongly written . It was actually 19, they also deduct it through some Hades. Can you discuss that ?
Those scholars are right. Books of hadith are written 200 years after the death of Prophet. We can't give them the same status as Quran. Their are some hadiths which says she was 6 and some says 9. And that's not very reliable. We should know that Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) is the role model for entire mankind know matter which era. He would never do something like that. Also if a girl gets pregnant at such small age then it's dangerous for her life as well. That's why a 9 or 6 year old is never suitable for marriage. Also Javed Ahmad Gamidi discuss this matter and they tell that her age was 16-19 not 6-9. That's a historical error
Those scholars are wrong. Trying to please attackers by giving logical answers which ain't gonna work.
@@muhammadqasim5564 lol if theyre giving logical answers then it is right. do yyou know what logical means.
@@muhammadqasim5564 , Allah tells many times in the Quran to ponder on his revelation. And that requires logic.
You are great my brother.
Mashallah dear sahil adeem Allah bless you you are doing great work on this planet and we love you
ما شاء اللہ
Sahil Brother Keep It Up
First of all her age was 9 when she got married. So why do we even agree on it?
there was the reason Hazrat Ayesha was very intelligent with Holy Prophet she reach to the highest level of her potential which otherwise might not be that much possible. She was bold with great leadership qualities.
I m satisfied so nyc stey blessed.
Ma Sha ALLAH 😍ALLAH pak ap ko apne hifz o Omaaaan ma rakhy Ameen
جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا
Sahil bhai question is not this k hame atraz ha hma koi atraz nhi but i want to know k ma kia jwab do jb mujse koi athiest ye swal poche ma try krta hn k us ko jwab dedo but wo satisfy nhi hote ma to janta hn Alhamdullilah but us banda ko satisfy kesa kia jy
hamara kaam satisfy krna nhi hai. ham ksi ko force nhi kr sktay. aur wese bhi jo arrogant hota hai wo haqq janne k bawujood bhi uska inkaar hi kre ga. ap aik sawal ka jawab do gay wo doosra sawal puchay ga, uska jawab do gay to teesra. and it goes on.
@@syedsaad1594 I agree that ignorant and arrogant people wouldn't listen even if rationally explained proof is brought to them because they themselves are taking an emotional and irrational approach. They're usually toxic to the core and usually just come for the sake of arguments.
However, the fact that many of us are unaware of the logical and factual reasoning behind Islamic ideology isn't safe and in a way does put our Iman in danger.
Also everyone isn't the same and doesn't have the same feelings, sometimes getting deep logical reasoning is a necessity to put yourself at peace. I think the more we try to understand Islam, the easier it is to move closer to shariah and accept it but simply doing something without understanding it or making it meaningful to us can be very dangerous for you if you have a curious and creativity-sparked personality because your doubts can mislead you unless you get the right answers instead of what seems to be many immature and ambiguous answers by some scholars.( I do not mean any disrespect to the scholars as I know it's probably not an easy task to explain, but we must try to break it down to the core to make it as easy to understand as we can.)
کیا قیامت والے دن اللہ آپ سے آپ کے اعمال کے بارے میں پوچھے گا یا حضرت عائشہ کی عمر پوچھے گا؟؟ گدھے کی طرح پوری قوم فضول سوالات میں الجھی ہوئی ہے۔ اپنے اعمال صحیح کرو لوگوں کے ساتھ اخلاق اور مدد کرو۔
@@TheFarooq123 Sir with all due respect, I do somewhat agree with you, but if someone is having doubts, they need to clear them. It doesn't matter if their questions appear immature, useless or 'fazool' to you. If one can't clear their doubts about Islam, how can they even believe in it completely?
I do acknowledge that if we focus on our deeds and try to do good while taking care of other people's rights instead of being selfish, then we will be able to create a more productive, cooperative and peaceful society, but even for that we need to understand the importance of balance of rights and responsibilities.
I don't wanna throw hate towards anyone, but in my opinion, it seems extremely delusional and childish to think that a person can blindly follow something without experiencing it's benefits or comprehending it's importance.
You can't always just force someone to do what you think is good without them understanding why it is good, there's a likely chance that they will deny it unless you give them a mature reason when they're on equal terms of power with you.
My grandmother was married at the age of 15/16 vs 24 my grandpa
My mom was married at the age of 18 vs 24 my dad
My daughter has been married at the age of 25 vs 25 my son in law
Just see 3 generations created such a Gap.
Do not u find that in early ages n specially 1500 years ago difference of age did not matter a lot
Anyway, save what is necessary n foremost is eeman
We have to accept our prophet saaw n his seerah in totality, otherwise we r also at stakes like non believer
There is a vast difference between 9 and 15 years
,Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Perfectly explained
Masha Allah ☘️🕊️☘️🕊️☘️🕊️
11:20 بہت اچھی طرح وضاحت کر دی آپ نے -مجھے سمجھ نہیں آ تی مسلمان اسی بات کو لے کر کیوں بیٹھ جاتے ہیں ہر مسلمان کو سیرت النبی کا مطا لعہ ضرور کرنا چاہیے ہر بات کا جواب مل جاۓ گا انہیں -❤
One things I want to mention is no matter if it was 9 or 19, it was acceptable even for non believers of those times, why, because before 19th century this point was hardly ever raised by Islam's critics
Sunan Nasai سنن نسائی
Hadith # 3225
Translation:
Narrated Abdullah bin Buraidah: It was narrated from Abdullah bin Buraidah that his father said: "Abu Bakr and Umar (RA), proposed marriage to Fatimah (RA) but the Messenger of Allah said: She is young. Then Ali proposed marriage to her and he married her to him.
@@DanishAli-rm2ky and what do the commentators of this Hadith say? Is it Sahih? What was Fatima R.A's age?
@@legendofnothing1
If you asking about status of hadith then according to daruldawah and shaikh albani, it is sahih hadith.
The age of fatima ra is mentioned in any hadith book. Some reference says she born on 605 and merried at 622 at age of 17/18. But Shia claim that she was nine when she got married to Ali and died at 18 years of age). They believe she was born in 615 AD, Six years after prophethood.
@@DanishAli-rm2ky First of all I personally believe there is no real consensus on this. Besides why is age of marriage a point of debate in "Deen"? There are no clear instructions as far as age is concerned. It has all to do with Biology and Social/Cultural norms.
Now biologically, a women must have reached puberty to consummate the marriage. And socially, the societies have evolved over time. Can you get your 6-7 years old daughter married? Ask all muslims and 99% would say No. Did prophet do it? I am not sure, and I don't care. All I know is there is more than enough evidence for me to believe that he was the true prophet and we must follow Quran and Sunnah (is age of marriage a Sunnah, I don't believe so). I strongly feel that some of our ulema do not want to consider the possibility of a mistake in such hadith because they dont want any question marks on "Sahih Hadith". But infact Hadith can never be as reliable as Quran itself. It can be for example 98-99% sahih but never 100%. Which creates a room for debate which ulema does. There are other methods to interpret Quran, Hadith is one of these. It was Imam Shafi who popularized the idea of understanding Quran always in the light of the Hadith but other Aimas before him believed the opposite.
@@legendofnothing1
I completely agree with you.
But you find those people in comment section who don't have any problems in child marriage. Also there are people and specially our fiqa which took inspiration from this hadith to merry at such young age.
That is why we see such cases in rural areas of country.
I mean it is not justmatter of event in Prophet's life but also legal an sharia matters.
Mashallah ❤️❤️
He didn't answer the question...
He just dodged the question with questions like "why don't they have any objections on Hazrat Abraham for slaughtering his son"
"His whole point was that don't ask question, never raise any question on Islam or Prophet." (And become a blind believer)
Which this statement on its own is against Islam and against God.
If you don't question, you'll not learn.
The unexamined life is not worth living.
Socrates
Brother read my comment
@@jehanzaib6179 where's your comment?
Really wonderful talk by Sahil adeem shb. You must ask questions, nobody will deny it but if you start discussing the character of prophets, nothing is left. That's what Mushrikeen used to do.
@@muhammadqasim5564 so do you think we shouldn't discuss the life and character of Prophets?!
@@theq7957 Bro, its not about discussing, its about questioning (in negative way like infidels and munafiqs did). Feel the difference!
Remember the accusations on Hazrat Ayesha (R.A) by munafiqs? They were _"just discussing"_ her life and character but you know what Quran said about them.
MaShaAllah kya counter argument diya app nay. Is say phalay is topic per is say bahter counter argument nahi suna main nay.
Masha Allah you explained it very well.
I love MUHAMMAD 💝
Masha-Allah how beautifully answered
Eye opening talk
You are great sir
wallahi.....what a thoughtful thinking every line
Very very well explained. May Allah reward Mr Sahil Adeem.
emotional response , not an educational one or ilmi daleel
Open your channel and give ilmi daleel rather ranting upon someone who is atleast doing something.
@@fahd4550 you can visit my channel,
Brother I m watching this video right now when I'll finish video then I'll comment
2 weeks for a 11 min video is bit of a stretch. Are you using a dial up connection? 😋
Beautifully explained.
Very beautifully defined Allah Almighty bless you always
اللہ تعالیٰ ہمارے ایمان کواپنی حفاظت میں رکھے آمین یارب العالمین
Best Lines ♥️♥️
خالی گلاس پیاس نہیں بجھاتا جب تک اندر پانی نہ آ جائے
خالی کعبہ ہدایت نہیں کرتا جب تک اندر حیدر کرار نہ آ جائے
Hahahah
WTF
bro don't be crazy nobody didn't say anything like that
sab kam Allah karta hay or hidayat bhi Allah hi dayta hay na ki kaaba
Sir, I have a suggestion for you that your faith is perfect(if I have another better word I would use it)as per my faith and may Allah keep you blessed with His Noor but, keep in constant touch with Islamic Scholars and Haq Sufis who will not lead you out of path.
May Allah help you!
sufi aur scholar mein kiya farq hai?
“Haq sufis” 😂😂😂
U didn't answer the question ... instead u are questioning our faith for asking such questions.... avoiding to answer this.... creats further doubts
He is always talking on presuppositions, and falsely judging Imam of every doubter of the hadith about Hazrat Aisha's age. His analysis is incomplete. Yes, some people doubt it cz of Iman but not everyone.
First of all, Hazrat Ayesha's age is not a "Deeni masla". Whatever her age was it must be right age for her marriage to prophet PBUH, anyone who uses her age to judge the prophethood is not a muslim as per my understanding.
Now, I believed the hadith about 6-9 yrs in the beginning. But when you talk to non muslims who have certain social and scientific backgrounds, I had to look into and believe the arguments about geographical variations in age of puberty etc. And that Marriage is not about sexual needs alone and prophet pbuh married all older widows except Ayesha r.a. And her wisdom and knowlede is a proof of what impact this marriage had on Islam etc. Now, I am not rejecting all that but I came to a believe that no matter the age of puberty at 6-9 a person is considered a kid in any soceity, and since Islam is a religion till Qiyamah and Sunnah has to be followed till Qiyamah, so If I ask myself, If I would marry a 9year old today, or marry my 9 year old daughter to any one let alone someone much older, the answer would be no. And I dont find such examples among scholars in more accurately recorded islamic history (if there are any let me know). So once again, it has nothing to do with credibility of our Prophet nauzubillah. I only see it as a historical issue and logically I side more with 19 than 9. I agree with Ghamidi sahab's opinion here. Rest Allah knows the best.
you can find arguments on both sides among muslim scholars. Check out hyde park's debate on Hazrat Ayesha's age by Adnan Rashid (he follows hadith about 6-9 years) and also check out Ghamidi sahab's explanation (19 is the age as per him). You will find compelling arguments on both side but I am more tilted towards Ghamidi Sahab on this.
any woman who has started her periods which in this day and age is 11/12 maximum 13, 14 would be considered late, is a woman. ayeshas friends also married when their periods started. TODAY islam STILL says marry a female off when she becomes a woman. she had her nikah which was a paper marriage age 6, and her rukhsati age 9, the reason for the age gap with the prophet is that he was a prophetr. had he not been a prophet her father would have married her off to someone with a smaller age gap. the mission was to honour her as a woman of paradise and that mission has been accomplished. today she is the mother of the believers. by ALL accounts she grew up happy, confident and strong and politically minded, she prepared an army against hazrat Ali. this is all proof that this is not paedophilia otherwise she would have been a nervous wreck. and the fact that she was so confident tells us that in that age a 9 year old woman was not emotionally as week as an 11 year old girl today. there is a gap of 1400 years.
thats your answer
@@razamughal9095 sorry your answer is still debatable. First of all, if a 9 year old in today's age was physically and mentally capable of doing what Hazrat Ayesha (r.a) did as per majority believe there wouldn't have been a debate. But since our current times indicate that a 9 year old is too young to take such a role and to reach puberty in most parts of the world, there is a question mark on Hazrat Ayesha's (r.a) true age. Its not a question of prophet's character (he is infallible, no debate there). It's a historical question. Hadith may have mistakes, I don't believe that Sahih Bukhari or Muslim is 100% correct. I had the same belief as you, it's a well known explanation but I believe more in Ghamidi sahab's explanation now. And for me it's not an issue of my faith as I said, Prophet is infallible, full stop. It could be that she was 9 but hard to believe for me that kids grew up that fast 1400 years ago, but wallah o alam.
حضور نے جو اعمال بھی کیئے بہترین کیے😊
Well needed video. Pray for ummah.
👍👍 best explanation
*I respect you sir but I totally disagree with some points*
Let me clear
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پہلے تو قرآن کی آیت آپ نے بتائی نہیں مفہوم(خود کا) بتا دیا، جہاں تک میں جانتا ہوں قرآن میں طلاق کے موقع پر اس طرح کی آیت ہے کہ جس کا ترجمہ کیا جاتا ہے اگر ان الفاظ کو جملے میں رکھیں تو پہلے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ نے اس عورت کی عدت بتاںٔی جسے حیض آتا ہو پھر کہا کہ جسے حیض نا آتا ہو اس کا صاف مطلب ہی یہ بنتا ہے کہ کوئی اتنی بوڑھی ہو کہ اب حیض آنے کی امید نہیں، سب نے اس سے مراد یہی لیے ہیں،
بہرحال اگر آپ آیت نمبر بھی بتا دیتے تو ٹھیک رہتا،
دوسرا حضرت ابرہیم علیہ السلام اگر چھری چلا دیتے اپنے بیٹے پر پھر اعتراض بنتا، اللّٰہ تعالیٰ نے خود اسے امتحان کے طور پر بیان کیا ہے،
بائیبل میں جن انبیاء کی شادی کم عمر لڑکیوں سے لکھی گئیں ہیں وہ محض تاریخی طور پر لکھی گئیں ہیں کوئی الہام نہیں ہے (یعنی تورات، انجیل کی کتابوں میں نہیں)
اور تاریخی باتوں پر اعتراض بھی ہو سکتا اور قبول بھی کی جا سکتی ہیں اور تاریخی طور پر تو وہاں انبیاء کے متعلق غیر اخلاقی واقعات منسوب ہیں کیا اس کے بعد بھی آپ ان واقعات کو قبول کرلیں گے؟ اگر قبول کرتے ہیں تو پہلے ان انبیاء کی نبوت ثابت کرنا ہو گی کیونکہ قرآن تو انبیاء کی شان بیان کرتا ہے 'نا وہ بھٹکے ہیں، اور نہ بے راہ چلے ہیں'۔
اب حضرت عائشہ رضی اللّٰہ کی عمر کا جہاں تک تعلق ہے وہ بھی ایک روایت میں بیان ہے اس کے راویوں میں سے بعد کے راوی (Narrators) غیر عرب ہیں جس میں ظاہر ہے انہیں غلطی لگ سکتی ہے 'عشرہ' کا لفظ نا سننے میں،
اردو میں بھی ایسے ہی ہوتا ہے جیسے pronunciation میں 19 کو 90 بھی سنا جاسکتا ہے، بخاری صاحب نے اسے غالباً راویوں کے صدیق ہونے کی بناء پر اپنی کتاب میں لکھ دیا ہے،
لیکن یہ حدیث ہماری لیے غور طلب تب ہوئی جب دنیا نے شادی کی عمر بڑھاںٔی وگرنہ تو 1876 تک تو امریکہ کے شہر Dallas میں بھی شادی کی عمر 7 سال رہی،
بہرحال جب ڈاکٹر زاکر کے سامنے بھی یہ بات رکھی تو انہوں نے کہا کہ ہو سکتا ہے مگر یہ صرف assumption ہے کیونکہ وہ بھی بخاری والی بات کر رہے کہ راوی ٹھیک ہیں،
لیکن اس assumption کی بڑی وجہ وہ بہت سی احادیث ہیں جو اس کے خلاف ہیں یعنی
جب محمد الرسول اللہ کی خالا گھر میں آپ کی اولاد کی دیکھ بھال کےلئے حضرت خدیجہ کی وفات کے بعد تو کہا کہ 'ایک بیوہ ہیں (عمر 50 کے اوپر تھی) اور دوسری کنواری ہے' (یعنی حضرت عائشہ)
پہلی بات تو کیا وہ ایک بیوہ کے ساتھ اتنی کنواری کا رشتا لے آئیں اور کیا بچوں کی دیکھ بھال کےلئے ایک اور 6 سالا لے آںٔیں؟
دوسری یہ بات معلوم ہے کہ ہجرت کے بعد (3 سال کے وقفے بعد) حضرت عائشہ محمد الرسول اللہ کے گھر آئیں اور پہلی ہی جنگ میں خود روایت کرتی ہیں کہ اپنی بہن کے ساتھ جنگ میں زخمیوں کی تیمارداری، اسلحہ اور شہیدوں کی منتقلی کا کام کرتی تو کیا یہ ایک 10 سالا کر سکتی تھی (کہ سکتے کے عرب کے لوگ بڑے مضبوط تھے) تو ہمیں یہ بھی معلوم ہے محمد الرسول اللہ نے جنگ میں 15 سال سے کم جنگجو بھی نہیں لے کر جاتے تو کیا اپنی چھوٹی سی زوجہ لے گئے؟
اور اگر ان کی بڑی بہن اور ان میں درمیان کا وقفہ دس سال ہے تو جنگ کے وقت ان کی عمر 20 سال تو ہونی ہی چاہیے
اس سے بڑھکر ہجرت حبشہ سے پہلے ان کا رشتا طے تھا لیکن پھر ٹوٹ گیا تو اس کا مطلب پہلا رشتا 1 سال کی عمر میں ہوا ہو گا پھر؟
یہ تمام احادیث صحیح ہیں تو کیا ان احادیث اور قرآن کی روشنی میں اس حدیث کو کم ازکم حسن تو کر ہی سکتے کیونکہ contradict کر رہی ہے،
کیونکہ اتنی صحیح احادیث کے بعد کوںٔی یہ کیسے کہہ سکتا ہے کہ 6 یا 9 سال؟
بہر حال اپ اسے کیسے بیان کرتے ہیں اس ویڈیو میں بھی آپ نے بتایا نہیں
لیکن اتفاق ہمیں ہے کہ کم از کم وہ بچی نہیں تھیں اور اگر یہ کوئی ملحد بھی کہے گا تو ان سے روایت کی ہونی 2000 سے زائد احادیث اس کے منہ پر تمانچہ ہوں گی،
آپ نے اس ویڈیو میں محض counter سوالات بتا دیٔے لیکن اخلاقی طور پر سمجھایا نہیں الٹاجو سمجھانا چاہ رہے انہیں پر سیکیولرازم کا فتویٰ لگا دیا حالانکہ ان کا استدلال بھی صحیح احادیث ہی ہیں لیکن ایسے ایک تاریخی روایت کو پکڑ بیٹھے ہیں جیسے قرآن کا حصہ ہو اور حد تو یہ کہ اسے ثابت کرنے کےلئے قرآن سے استدلال کرنے کی کوشش کی،
بہرحال اللّٰہ مجھے اور ہم سب کو صحیح بات سمجھنے اور صراط مستقیم پر چلنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے ۔ آمین
In Arabia, a girl's age begins with her first menstrual period. Hazrat Ayesha's age is counted starting from nine years before her. Writing the date of Ayesha's birth was against the Arab tradition. According to an estimate, if the first menstruation was at the age of ten, then according to today's custom, she was nineteen years old.
.Logically and Scientifically, Many of European Girls Become Pregnant at the Age of 9 to 12 Years By Making Sex Without Marriage.
Logically in European Countries, Condoms Are Provided to School Girls and Boys to Make Safe Sex at illegal Age.
Morally in European countries, Asking Father's Name of An Infant is Considered 'Insulting' Which Means They Are Not Legal Children.
All of The Above Points, Clearly Prove That:
1. The Exact Age of Adolescence is from 9 Years, Not 18 or 21 years.
2. Having Sex With Marriage is Honorable and More Comfortable Than Having Sex Without Marriage.
3. Instead of Having Sex Problems Within Their Own Nations/Countries in Present, They Insist to Inquire About Prophet's Marriage Which is the Part of Far History.... This Course of Action Indicates Their Calamities With Islam Only, Not for The Humanitarian Purposes; and They Also Want to Disrespect The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.
Very Good explaination
Jzaklallah g Allah slamt rakhy apko or ap k ilam me izafa krry