Actually for 3, a girl doing that runs the risk of making the guy feel that the girl is pulling away... And all the advice on when that happens is to not over pursue. Meaning you could make the guy even less likely to suggest plans. Guys want to make plans when the texting is going well, not the opposite.
1) Q: What are you up to later? A: Depending on how I feel for the guy. Am I hot for him and want a booty call? "Not much, would be fun to meet up" 😉 Did I think I was about to fall in love and got dissappointed feeling like a hook up? "I had fun earlier, but I think I might start losing interest. I guess we werent that good match." (Because it's heading that way, better just say it.) What about the context in message nr 2? If Im into the guy, Im going to suggest a day and time, and if he cant, and dont come up with any own suggestions, I see it as lack of interest. If Im not interested I dont mirror him. I just say no thanks. Message 3, I answer, Im good, so what did you want? To make him stop the small talk. If he says something like "Nothing, just checking in" then I draw the conclusion he just wants attention, and check with myself, what do I want with him, and answer accordingly. If Im not that into him, I just let him know. Message nr 4: He did suggest another day, and thats good, so I would say yes If Im into him and trust him enough to be alone with him. If not, I let him know Im not comfortable, and ask to see him at a restaurant or cafe instead. Nr 5: If Im into him in some way, I reach out. Asking what he has been up to. Otherwise, I dont. No panic either way. I think a great messure of self asteem is to ask if you wonder what he thinks of you, or if you reflect on how you see him.
I’m so excited to watch, I’ve gotten much better at dating thanks to your advice, even though I currently can’t meet people in person!! I hope you’re doing well Hayley 💕
Actually for 3, a girl doing that runs the risk of making the guy feel that the girl is pulling away... And all the advice on when that happens is to not over pursue. Meaning you could make the guy even less likely to suggest plans. Guys want to make plans when the texting is going well, not the opposite.
For number 3, how about just saying you would like to meet, instead of hitting him with that kind of passive-aggressive silence?
1) Q: What are you up to later?
A: Depending on how I feel for the guy.
Am I hot for him and want a booty call?
"Not much, would be fun to meet up" 😉 Did I think I was about to fall in love and got dissappointed feeling like a hook up?
"I had fun earlier, but I think I might start losing interest. I guess we werent that good match." (Because it's heading that way, better just say it.)
What about the context in message nr 2?
If Im into the guy, Im going to suggest a day and time, and if he cant, and dont come up with any own suggestions, I see it as lack of interest. If Im not interested I dont mirror him. I just say no thanks.
Message 3, I answer, Im good, so what did you want? To make him stop the small talk. If he says something like "Nothing, just checking in" then I draw the conclusion he just wants attention, and check with myself, what do I want with him, and answer accordingly. If Im not that into him, I just let him know.
Message nr 4: He did suggest another day, and thats good, so I would say yes If Im into him and trust him enough to be alone with him. If not, I let him know Im not comfortable, and ask to see him at a restaurant or cafe instead.
Nr 5: If Im into him in some way, I reach out. Asking what he has been up to.
Otherwise, I dont. No panic either way.
I think a great messure of self asteem is to ask if you wonder what he thinks of you,
or if you reflect on how you see him.
Q1. Answer :- hey, i am a bit occupied at the moment. I will be free around the weekend. We can schedule something then ?
I’m so excited to watch, I’ve gotten much better at dating thanks to your advice, even though I currently can’t meet people in person!! I hope you’re doing well Hayley 💕
He probably has A lOT of options , it’s hard to get to 5 girls at the same time
Its abit mad, if someone goes silent I assume they are not interested
Its immature behaviour
Move on to next person
great video, plus you pronounced well schedule!!!!
Oh, I got 4 of them right! Haha! I'm your new dating coach 😂 Anyway, thank you, Hayley. Amazing content, as always! 💖
You are a Godsend!!!!! Thank u for this.
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she is married . 🤣
Wat makes u think like that!?!