All the RED FLAGS In Fabolous & Emily B's Hot Stankin' Mess Relationship 🚩🥴
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2024
- Fabolous and Emily Bustamante have been together on and off for 20 years. From the start, there were several signs that their relationship was doomed. Check out the red flags we discovered, and let us know if we missed any!
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It seems these women see the red flags and think it’s six flags 🥴
😂😂😂😂😂
Right! 🤣🤣🤣
She's a weak woman
Btw, I love your comment. But im gonna take your pin in 3, 2, 1 ma. But it is what it is.
I guess not. UA-cam hating on my comment. Won't let me fully post. But Whatever. You got it. Lol
But I broke it down with these 2. How she's weak. How Fab don't respect her. Why he most likely married her, etc. But YT hating right now. SMH!
& that was the last time Emily set some boundaries 🤣🤣😂😂
LMAOOOO
This tickled me for real 🤣🤣🤣
@@AquariusSoul We are terrible 😭😭😭
😂😆😂😁
@@rrg that wasn’t right, not at all, I’m bout to watch it again
😐 She thinks she can love him into loving her. That never works. People will never appreciate what you are willing to give them without them loving you. 🤷🏽♀️
& that's exactly what it is and it's sad 😢
When ppl love too much; the mate falls in love with the hands & not the heart. Unfortunately ppl with soft hearts give more & the takers take; it's their selfish nature.
The man doesn't want you nope.
@@divineselfentity y’all up here preaching a message I’m tryna learn myself honestly. 😢
Nope
She went 20 years without a commitment 🤦🏾♀️. I can say this, he did not lead her on, he told the world, and her, he was not interested in giving her a commitment.
Is Taina his daughter? I thought that was Emily's eldest with another man
@@SweetEssie no tainas dad is the man they showed in the beginning
This indeed true
I’m sorry but Emily had whole Red Sea 🌊 and still ignored it. It’s hard to feel sorry for her when she keeps allowing it.
People do that when they lack self esteem.
@@iamcarita girl this is beyond self esteem now. I don’t know even what to call it.
Well we all know as human beings many of our decisions are prompted by our emotions. If it was that easy to leave a bad situation NO ONE would ever be in a bad relationship. This is why i don't judge people who have a hard time leaving bad situation. Let's be honest many of our grandmothers and mothers put up with the same and any many cases much worse than what Emily is dealing with. My great grandparents stayed married until their death but that's nothing to brag about when you consider the fact that my great grandfather viciously be@t my great grandmother regularly. That being said i hope Emily finds the confidence and self-love she needs to leave Fab.
@@jakemiles1427 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@Muybonitacoco22 Care to elaborate?
One thing a hurt child gon do, is spill all of tea!! 😄😄😄
But 20 years?!?! No marriage?!
No real commitment!!!
Abuse!!!
Getting your teeth knocked out!!!
Cheating!!!
Fighting with the family!!
When is enough, enough?!
Ain't that much love in the world!!
Ok??!!! Sheesh 😩
LETS START AT THE START: THATS NOT L O V E that’s ABUSE 🚩
Makes you wonder if the money is really worth all this to her.
P.S if I’m loosing a teeth, he’s loosing a limb💀💀😂
As someone with a friend who’s going through similar circumstances, I can say from my POV, that women like this has had enough once their plate is full. There’s no amount of talking to them, therapy or dating other ppl that will make them say they had enough. You just have to let them be and pray they don’t get murked by their significant other
Ain't no way I can stay with a man 20 yrs & he won't even claim me.
Please . Yes you did
@@deerocker6987 you don't know me
Facts…..if it was for the money, she had enough money to leave, that woman was too beautiful to be fooling with him. 😂 Wasted her youth whew…
What bothers me the most is that Fabolous still gets support after his extreme act of abuse against Emily. The fact that people still support him and his music is disgusting!
It's called the blk community. Where violent predatory men will still be openly supported and a good number of women will too. This and the overwhelming number 0f blk people.who.still support R Kelly, doing his dances with their children on Tik Tok tells us this.
People care as much as Emily does....
Yeah.I can't even listen to his songs once I found out what he was like.Pulling out a gun knocking her teeth out cheating.Women like her need therapy and her kids will need it because its emotional abuse to them also.Ladies level up and leave abusers.There are other men out there.This why I'm into self care on my channel.
That's how it be.
Why should we blackball him,when she CLEARLY WONT?
Seeing these red flag videos are not only juicy and entertaining, but they serve as a reminder to me that it’s better to be happily single then be in a hot stankin’ mess relationship.
AMEN AND AWOMAN 🙌🏾
Sameeee
Facts 💯
🎯🎯🎯
Couldn't have said it better.
Emily is not unique. We all know women like this is our own families. Grandmas, mamas, sisters and aunts who have low self esteem and are afraid of being alone. They love trying to breath life into a dead man. Our community celebrates struggle love and it's weird. I rather set myself on fire than let a man put his hands on me and treat me like this.
I agree 💯 that Emily could easily be a friend or family member in our lives. What’s even more sad is that these women we know make their loved ones listen to their toxic, heartbreaking, abusive relationships and still STAY! When their loved ones give them advice that they choose not to listen to, the loved ones are accused of not only being unsupportive or unhelpful, but even sometimes accused of being jealous of their sad relationships. After giving out advice that’s simply wasting their breaths and time, the relationships between their loved ones are strained and they end up looking like the bad guys for trying to help.
I’ve seen it time and again what choosing a loser of a man does to the people around them. It alienates their loved ones sad to know that the drama of toxic 🍆 breaks up family and friendships over a guy. To know that the woman chooses that guy who’s cheated, never chosen them, never claimed them, physically & emotionally abused them, and took advantage of them, over their own people (flesh & blood), who’ve only loved and looked out for them, is all too COMMON with a majority of women. These women that choose heartbreak over real ❤️ need to know that these guys will always choose themselves over the them. And they’ll never find true love and respect until they start to love and respect themselves first.
F*6k struggle ❤️. I’m not saying the man must have 6 figures and be superficial but SHEESH! These “nursemaid”-type women need to start valuing themselves to a higher degree and stop asking for the bare minimum in their criteria of men. If it looks like a 🦆, quacks like a 🦆, and literally says they’re actual 🦆, these 🦆 gave them more than 🚩, they gave them the honest truth. If the man says clear as day “I want to be in a relationship. I want to be in your future, I care for you and love you”, it’s sad to say most women see no wounded bird they can heal, get very scared and intimidated, and run the opposite direction towards toxicity. I say it’s truly up to the woman to explore the mental health help she needs to find a healthy and stable relationship. She needs to find that inner peace first before entering a partnership.
Indeed Sis!! They even try to raise us that way to accept bs 🙄. Our community wants us to sacrifice ourselves for black men. I went through a phase and being a nice girl smh so glad I stopped.
And they wonder why so many men are trash. Too many women keep putting up with their bullish & they think we All will when that is not the case.
I don't. My family is small though. But no!
So true
Emily is beautiful but always struck me as someone who’s elevator never went all the way to the top.
Yes she doesn’t strike me as intelligent or the brightest bulb
I fell out when you said “aaand that was the LAST time Emily set some boundaries” 😂😂😂😂
The shade of it all! Lmbo
Timestamp?
“Aaaand _that_ was the last time Emily set some boundaries” 💀💀💀
Terrible 😭😭😭
@@rrg Terribly good 😆
🤣
LMAO the shade!
@@JL-vg3it Exactly 😆
A man only has to put his hands on me once, and it’s deuces. Thank you for this series 💜
All a man has to do is look like he might and I’m out.
All a man has to do is jump,like he’s about to hit me for me to leave.
And I wish my daddy would stand behind him.
I call bs
@@toriyt2714 that is my thought exactly.
Generational curses are something. I pray those kids break that cycle. That is 1 unhealthy relationship to grow up in. Keep it coming RRG😘
I screamed IMMEDIATELY when I heard her say “he”ll never leave me” 🤣💀 the shots kept coming from there & I loved it 🤣
LMAO!
When someone shows you who they are in a relationship whether it's a man or woman, then don't turn a blind eye and become naive walk away before you put yourself in a situation where you're stuck with that person 4 life
Or killed by domestic violence. Men are being killed as well. See the sign first on and leave.
This is so true. My ex keep treating me like shit going in n out for whole 3 months. I kept holding onto him with hopes he will change but Lo behold, he never did. Ignoring every msg of mine, ghosted me 5 days bfore my birthday. Didnt even bought me no gift or wished me on my bday. I got fedup. So i backed out.
Now at present he keep watching my stories but ive lost interest now from him
This woman would cry on the love and hip hop show.
Chrissy and Jim Jones next please, that relationship has always perplexed me. Great video, no one feels bad for her it's been like 20 years and he knocked her tooth out. She needs to take accountability and walk out
Yes Chrissy and Jim Jones will be juicy
I thought another dude she was dating knocked her tooth out for stealing from him
@@darklovely2431 No it was definitely Fab. He was upset because she was hanging with Cam Newton at the time
i heard they actually got married
@@sinaitome8764 I heard that too but I looked into it and there’s no documentation that they’re legally married. I think ppl just assumed that because they wore wedding bands
So he assaults her, knocking out her teeth AND fights/threatens her dad and uncle yet they’re all good now? 😱How?!?! Praying for her safety and life. This is horrifying 😳
He's literally out of control. Very toxic
@@juancebollero762 Fab is that you?
@@juancebollero762 ok so what 😐. You were payed help lol you don’t know them either. But what we DO know is he knocked her teeth out and brandished a weapon.
@@juancebollero762 fab been toxic and you know it
I refuse to pray because she doesn’t care
Hope is a dangerous thing when you keep hoping an abuser will change 😢
"And that was the first and last time Emily set some boundaries" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Y'all needed to filled up the screen with red flags when talking about him knocking her teeth out
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Factssss so sad!!!!
I lost it at hot stankin mess 😂😂😂😂😂
She's hilarious 😂
😂💀💀🤣 Me too!
This is what happens when you love a man more than you love yourself
You _know_ it’s bad when the babies are doing the clapping back 😓
Unfortunately she's been observing this toxic relationship all her life. Hopefully Emily daughter's view this as an ultimate cautionary tale.
@@jasminemonroe5784 I hope so 😭
@@jasminemonroe5784 With G Herbo as the father of her two children? I doubt it.
Exactly!! It's sad..her daughter shouldn't have to do that.
The way Fabolous treated Emily...no one deserves that!
Separate to that, RRG, you are on a roll with these red flags videos! 🙃
Girl, he knocked out your two front teeth and chased you with a knife and you still pressed for him to marry you after he also said marriage scares him and it’s not for him?!?! Also having another child with him so he can trap you even longer?!?!?! Where’s the self esteem?!?!?
She s a spicy Latina... Smh
The thing about toxic relationships is that YOU as an individual decide to stay, but many times bring your family along for that toxic ride. Not just your kids, but like in Emily's case her father and brother smh. They dont need that drama in their life, but because of her choices, they have to deal with that drama.
And it's not uncommon, unfortunately...
Yup
I remember that clip when she said "he'll never leave me" when it aired. I was side eyeing the TV 😂
LOL we all were like 👀🥴
@Dr. Alia Dixon Nurse Practitioner I really don't understand what skin complexion has to do with it but... Okay.
@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 preferences😆.....swear they are winning 🏆
Chile, all these celebrities about to be coming for RRG's channel for outing their relationships 😂. Stay strong, RRG! We love y'all and this series! ❤️ 😂
LMAO! We love you too boo!
I had an ex try to justify fabulous knocking Emily’s teeth out and fighting her family. 🚩🚩
@Dr. Alia Dixon Nurse Practitioner thanks love. When he said that I just looked at him and he was just serious and I stayed quiet and planned my exit strategy.
@Charla Amen thank love!
@@Shelly____thank goodness you planned it silently and am glad you left safely from that toxicity!❤
JUST GIVE ME 5MIN ALONE WIT EM I A LOCKED CAGE
The “he’ll never leave me” slo-no is already sending me and it’s less than 10 seconds in. #hotSTANKINmess
That was sad. So as long as he come home to you he can cheat . You meant to say I'm not leaving him
I think Emily stayed so long because she depended on him financially especially with kids and and a "left kids for dead" babys father.
Facts!!!🥴🥴
But it seems like Tainas dad was in her life even though him and Emily weren’t together
I wouldn't have had those last two kids. And she could've used him to be connected to other men with money. When he would've not claimed me that's when I would be looking to replace him.
A dude knows when it may be the money
Emily WAS A STYLIST to the stars and was styling his Dusty ass🙄🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣 she was already making a bag and he ain't help in that shit🤣🤣 she was even styling mfs on her lil 2 seasons on LHH 🤷🏿♀️🤣
How a person treat you,is how they really feel about you. The longer she stays in the relationship and she's not getting anything in return, the longer it will take her to leave. He shows her every single day the type of man he is so please Emily believe him!
I love the couples you've been choosing lately. More basketball wives & love and hip hop relationships, please!
It’s sad because the Daughter ain’t to different from the mama 🥴
What do you mean?
This!
A 2x baby mother to a rapper with no ring like mother like daughter.
@@blackbutterfly8136 Y’all really be in these comments talking like y’all are all Married to men with money! It literally be baby mamas for deadbeats criticizing a woman for not getting a ring. It’s insane
@@malikyoung3220 I'd rather keep my teeth thanks.... Some us have careers
I really hope Emily doesn’t go back and leaves for good this time. He showed you who he is, BELIEVE HIM!!
They will be back together next year
@@natashalampkin366 the holidays chile 😅
You wrong for slowing down “he’ll never leave me 😂 “ I died messyyy.
I still can't believe he knocked out her teeth 🙁 you know how hard you have to hit someone to knock teeth out
Y’all on a roll with these red flag videos !! Keep the content coming ❤
No seriously I’ve never felt so nosey 😂 I stay clicking as soon as I see it
Thanks for watching!
Yassss!
Da best channel ever!! Nosey
I think what it is that she's not comfortable being by herself and that is something that you need to do before dating anybody and having self love. Don't ever settle for less ladies and gentlemen! This is a example of a toxic relationship 🚩
I knew a woman who admitted that she couldn't be alone. She always had to have a man smh
She needs to know her worth.
well said, shes not setting a good example for her daughter.
Certain people (men and women) have a fear of being alone. Many times, they get in a relationship who someone who use that fear to control them, whether by physical and/or psychological abuse.
She’s gonna be in SHAMBLES if he marries someone else within a year and a half
Yupppp!
I know she's regretting wasting those 20 years on trying to love a man who never really loved her back, smh!
Lol she love that money and fame lol 😂
@@terrybeck8773 what fame? He never acknowledged her
😂😂😂😂😂
I love the consistent red flag videos recently
Thanks, boo! Glad you're enjoying them ❤️
Right very dope 👌 Jackpot !
@ Maraysha Washington Fine as frog hair
Watching him disrespect her dad was the craziest video right before the one we thankfully haven’t seen yet. @1:45 shows how their toxic relationship have sucked the life right out of them 😢
He is disgusting, it’s sad to watch
“And that was the last time Emily set some boundaries “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We need to start holding these rappers accountable for being abusive and stop letting them slide because we like they music. Majority of these rappers got anger issues. I’m always hearing about them in some kind of assault allegations when it comes to women. I don’t support any artist that has been abusive towards women. Dr Dre was the first cancel one for me. Soulja boy, Tory Lanez, NBA Youngboy, Sheck Wes, Famous Dex … and the list goes on. And these women need to stop seeing dollar signs and start loving themselves. These dudes ain’t nothing special. Fame and money not worth your self esteem and your life.
Thank you for saying that cause these rappers are so lame putting hands on their queens but I wish these women will wising up cause just cause they have money and fame doesn't mean it's gonna be great for them.
They Women are NOT holding them ACCOUNTABLE for it they settle for a monetary settlement and they good for another beating so what do expect someone else to do? They won't give a statement, even if it's on video?!!!
A hot what? Not a hot stankin' mess 😂. I just hollered.
😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
I clicked on just because of that lol
This is a red flags video that was long overdue. Can y’all do Jim Jones & Chrissy next?
We are looking into it 😃
OMG YES!
@@rrg Real look into Beyonce ass too. 🤷
With the rides these dudes taking these gold diggers on I can see that!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nevermind lol
“And that’s the last time Emily set some boundaries”….dead!!!!😂😂😂
You said "Hot Schtankin Mess".... 🤣🤣🤣. This is the best tea channel.
I love when content creators stand out and find their niche and these red flags got me giving everyone a side eye 😒 u really give ppl something to think about 😂
I feel bad for her. I’ve known women in her situation before and it’s very difficult to get out of a cycle like that. I hope she can stay away for good this time!
She's enjoying the money isn't she?
It’s really not difficult when you actually love yourself.
@@mspennyisaac of course, but there are clearly many people who lack self esteem for whatever reason and I think she’s one of them.
You know women like Emily are weak as fuck when it comes to being with their baby daddy. They can't let their trifling baby daddy go. She's stuck on baby daddy for life until she comes to her senses.
@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 What with no front teeth! KMT
1:21 "and that was the last time that Emily set some boundaries" omggg you shady boots made me choke on my soda lmaooo
“Soft voice” and hard back hand smacks 😵💫The “HOOOTTT stinking mess” took me clean out.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Hot stankin mess" will never get old!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Baby, I have never cared for Fabolous. Chile...... 👀
“ the last time she sat some boundaries” 😂😂😂
The Viola Davis gif gets me every time 😂😂
I remember being a teenager thinking she was silly watching that first or second season of L&HH 😅😂
"He'll never leave me" Of course not honey. Why would he?! You’re his *personal* doormat, you'll be there no matter what.
#notaflex #jesustakethewheel
I wouldn’t get involved in their drama. She’s going back.
She clearly has to heal. She keeps thinking that he will see how loyal and devoted she is to him no matter what happens but really he's wasting her time. She's showing her daughter how to allow men to treat you which is not good. He's also showing his sons to imitate him. I feel sorry for Emily.
"And that's the last time she set boundaries?" Hahaha you play all day gurl! 🤣
Chile Emily didn’t gain self-confidence until 20 years later… ⚠️this is a cautionary tale⚠️💀
Yup!
I hope she takes time to heal, pray, unconditionally love herself, and get therapy.
Also, I luv the way you say “hawt!” (Hot)
That's some very sweet advice. Hopefully she sees your comment ❤️
Emily that man knocked ya tooth out. Bye!
"That had to be the last straw right? WROOOOOOOOOONG!" 😂
Y'all doing it up, I'm loving these daily Red Flags 🚩 videos
Thanks so much for watching, bestie!
Same
This is the one! I clicked so damn fast on this video😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Did you enjoy it? 😃
I think Taina spoke up about it now because she’s a mom of 2 and we know how much motherhood changes a person. They should’ve moved on from fab ever since the domestic violence situation. But im happy that Emily finally came to her senses even though it took forever.
Not the last time she set some boundaries 😂.... If only you could hear me yelling go to the corner! 😂 This video was right on time! ♥️
So in Emily’s case, she feels like adding babies to the mix is helping the situation????🤔🤔🤔 These Latin women thinking these black men really want them like that baffles me🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Girl bye we Latinas as a collective don't want AA man we have our own black Hispanic man you just have us in your head and I know for a fact you kill to be a preference even if it kills you literally
😂💯 They think they are going to treat them better.
I’m staying away from Latinas after being in Panama and Columbia lol if u got gold the will dig
No thats not it, you dont know shit about latinas, emily got rejected by her own men thats why she ended up with fabolous
@@Maria-oh1nq ok I guess he broke lol
I was waiting for this one! We love the consistency ❤️
Were we on point with the red flags? 👀
The drama on saying "Wrong" 🤣🤣🤣 you the best RRG💜
"Wrrrooooooonnggg!" 🤣🤣🤣 gurl you Crack me up with them adlibs and what not
this channel is my guilty pleasure lol
😃😃❤️❤️
"GO AWAY FROM ME WITH THISSS"
Can u do Phaedra and Apollo?
Erica and Safari?
Jim Jones & Chrissy ?
Porsha + Dennis+Afrian man????
"aaannnnnddddd that was the last time Emily set some boundaries" 💀💀 🤣🤣🤣
I literally said the same thing at the same time 🤣
I love the way she says "Stankin Mess" 😂 so funny. And I can't wait to try these snacks!
Ok RRG, y’all have hit me over the head so many times with these red flags I’m starting to see stars ✨ lol 😂 keep it coming!!
I loooveeee the red flag videos! The “dim dim dim” be sendingg meee 😂😂😂
I'm now addicted and fully invested in this channel! I love it.
Thanks so much for tuning in!
Please do an episode of Chrissy and Jim Jones blue, black and red flags relationship!!!
Y’all been eating with these vids back to back 😭🤣❤️
You were on a roll on this one...I hollered thru the entire video...LMBO!
I’ve learned that you can never manipulate love. You will only waste you time trying. Many blessings to them.
Gurl!!! You gave this segment the right title! it’s sad for the kids, one day hopefully..she will realize, all the time and years that she has wasted, plus her youth, but life is a learning process🤷🏽♀️
I'm sure she's not just staying because she loves him.. She's become accustomed to the money that Fabolous has. 20 years is a long time and she concentrated her energies on him,but I don't think she has done anything for herself in order to be independent of him and not DEPENDENT on him!!! Also,he has commitment issues!! Serious red flag! I'm surprised as she isn't a black woman,as they are usually very quick to marry "exotic" Latinas like her!!
She could be staying partly because she's become too familiar to life with him. She prob lost more and more self esteem the longer she stayed with Fab and now she doubts her ability to be loved by anyone else or that anyone would treat her better.
Sometimes people are scared to put themselves in a situation they're unfamiliar with and would rather stay with the devil they know.
Emily is a sad reminder that all women need to have her own. Does she even do anything outside motherhood?
She's a fashion stylist.
Motherhood is a full time job on its own..
She been a stylist she was fabs stylist for years
@@TruthSpeaker4 That's not her own. Dressing your 20-year boyfriend is not a career. Do you want to dress like Fabolous? 😮💨
@@aphillyate1 fool she was a stylist b4 she met him & she had other clients besides fab .. your welcome
I was dying over the "we got a video on Diddy too link in bio" 🤣
you’re narration is sending me 😂😂
I’m still cracking up at your Shaq impersonation 😂😂😂😂
24 hours later? 😂😂😂 Love that
Please keep these videos coming!!!
The title of this video alone is SENDING me lmaoooo plz 😂
Please keep these videos coming!! Its keeping me on the right track for law school LOL
These videos be on point!! Love it! ❤️😁
Glad you like them!
We love your red flags series🤗
that " better known as FABOLOUS" took me out lmaooo
The editing is TOP NOTCH! Viola Davis meme of her grabbing her purse and leaving had me crying!!!
They were a mess from day 1. Emily was a “kept woman” for many years