If She Says THIS Leave IMMEDIATELY! | Don't Stick Around!
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- If She Says THIS Leave IMMEDIATELY! | Don't Stick Around!
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Today I'm discussing an important topic that many people are reluctant to address in their relationships - respect. In this video, I'm diving deep into the implications of one powerful phrase: "I don't respect you."
When a woman utters these words, it's often a sign that there are deep-seated issues in the relationship that need addressing. In some cases, it might even mean it's time to leave.
Throughout this video, I'll be exploring:
-The importance of mutual respect in a relationship and why it's a crucial foundation for any healthy partnership.
-The psychological implications of the phrase "I don't respect you" and what it could be signaling about your relationship.
-Self-improvement tips and ways to build self-esteem, helping you command respect in your future relationships.
It's not an easy topic, but it's an important one. So, if you've ever found yourself in a situation where a woman has said, "I don't respect you," or if you want to know how to handle this should it ever arise, then this video is for you.
Remember, respect is a two-way street and it's essential for a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Watch the video, take notes, and let's start building healthier relationships today.
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That book would be interesting you are really wise and smart,yes I will admit attractive too.
What about the religion card? I'm saving myself for marriage lmfao this one is a dangerous one.
loving your videos you are on point.
guys this girl knows what's up and she telling the truth she definitely wife material
Just one thing, you need nicer microphone.
74% of adult women don't work more than 20 hours a week. If anyones leaving.ita the one that doesn't pay the bills
Another thing. If she doesn't respect you and you live together she will bring other people around that don't respect you. Remember that.
or she'll turn the other people that you have living there against you too. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE!!!
@@bark22 ain’t that the truth
You got that right my friend!
@@bark22 I have had that happen before.
Excellent insight. Even just with a male (fake) friend, I have experienced the same. It's like his friends had been told in advance I was there to be used.
She's right. Don't stick around. You can't make someone respect you. They either do or don't
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Yep
Stop messing with toxic disrespectful people. There are plenty of good men and women out here, first thing you have to do is decide whether or not you want one...
Facts!!
I agree 😊
If a woman doesn't respect you - she will never love you. Disrespect is my red line. Olivia is so right!!!
She is absolutely correct. The first sign of disrespect, you must leave this woman immediately. There is no coming back from this. Its over, and be thankful.
Disrespect leads to destruction, so there is no coming back.
She's describing textbook narcissistic personality disorder. I dated someone who constantly tried to tear me down through accusations, had zero respect for my boundaries. I told her if i was so bad, the door is always open for you to leave. She wouldn't leave. When i finally told her I'm done with her and I'm ending the relationship, she called me 17 times in a row (i didn't answer). She then showed up at my door at 1:00 am to continue arguing (i never answered the door). Next day i told her I'd get a restraining order against her if she shows up unannounced again. I later realized that the whole point of being in a relationship for her, was to shift her own internal rot onto someone else so she didn't have to "look in the mirror". That my friends is textbook narcissism. Stay strong my fellow men! And thank you for all the insight Olivia!
Blatant contempt and disrespect is a core trait of highly narcissistic individuals. And they often see nothing wrong with it either.
@@Henry1965ism 💯 severe lack of awareness and take zero responsibility for their actions.
My ex would always threaten to kill her self every time I would wanna break things off
@@glocksantana853 that’s horrible. Would she go through with it or just bluffing?
@@chestergloyd7530 who knows she was in a mental hospital tho
Thank you for this. We need more women who think like you. My ex-wife is a raging narcissist who uses manipulation tactics and gaslighting to get her way. And if she doesn’t get her way, watch out. She will spit the most venomous hurtful things, attacking my pride, my manhood, or any other personal matter I may’ve shared with her in the love-bombing stage. I dealt with this abuse for years unfortunately, and it has changed me. I refuse to be taken advantage of and disrespected ever again in life. I realized to begin the healing process, I had to forgive myself. Fellas, if you're being emotionally abused and gaslighted by a woman with no empathy, it's time to leave bro. GTFOT. She doesn't love you and never did. She was just mirroring you bro. You don’t love her either. You fell in love with yourself in that reflection, that’s why it’s so hard to leave her. That was the hardest thing to accept. Get out now before years fly by, and you must dig yourself out of depression. I want to write so much more, but I’ll stop here. Leave her.
Damn this is me 😭😭
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@@kayiverson5304 me 2..
I needed to hear this. She doesn't truly love me but I keep going back. Wise words right here, feel free to share more. I need to snap out of it
Yo...you are speaking to me right now. Thank you
This is why I NEVER SAY A WORD no response & I disappear. Speaks volumes
We've got a lone wolf here 🙌
Sadly, my wife said this to me during an argument. Because of my 14 year old son, is the only reason i'm still here. We sleep in two separate bedrooms, and months later she acts like nothing happened, and when i tell her that that day, was the day i mentally checked out, she goes in defense mode and says it wasn't even that serious. The day my son graduates from HS , is the day I'm out. I chose not to have my son grow in a house without my guidance and presence.
Relatable b to the T
So sad
She's sounds narc. Protect your peace like an ice cube passing through hell.
Take my hat off to you brother. I wish I had the staying power to do the same. My son is 6 and I wasn't going to let him grow up thinking the relationship between his parents is a normal one. I want to show him that you don't need anyone else to feel validated or complete.
@@creating1_c1999 but thats what she calls me, why? i have no idea, i never initiate conversation, anything she says or asks i give one , two word answers, and pretty much try to stay out of her way.
This goes for anyone never tolerate disrespect. Most women lack respect for anyone even themselves.
I agree & total diserspect from a toxic woman has a lot of red flags.
For me i don,t tolerate women who loves drama & disrespect for when i see those red flags popping up i,d stay gone & no contact.
Been through that hell. The irony is that I thought she truly was my friend before we decided to get together. Back then, I was ignorant enough to give her a pass (at first) thinking that she was my friend and that her idiotic behavior wasn't who she was. I was wrong, it was indeed her true nature. I let a lot slide at first. Until one day I noticed how she was affecting me. She slowly tore me down mentally and physically. I went from working out in the gym 8 to 10 hours a week. To not going at all and being out of shape. I had zero energy, I was depressed and she had me to where I just had brain fog all day. I looked around and said wtf am I doing? I couldn't believe I had allowed someone to tear me down like that. I turned around and made it a game. Start taunting and laughing at her ignorance and idiocy. Once I woke up, the gloves were off and I did things just to piss her off. She started noticing that her manipulative tactics weren't working anymore. I then told her I was out. She still to this day tries to contact me. Never again will I ever allow a woman to manipulate me. Women like that are a huge burden to your life. When they start playing games, throw them out into the streets where they belong. Don't be giving them a pass. You'll just burden yourself.
Amen brother amen
Going through this now bro exact same
Good for you! After ignoring the obvious red signs, I finally decided to bail. Congratulations to you for regaining your dignity and self-worth.
A majority of the time she won't say it out loud but her actions will reveal it for sure🥂
The most disrespectful displays I see increasingly, is when anyone, man or woman, openly talk about who they would cheat with given the chance, cat call or openly flirt with another person in front of their partner. Anyone who does that immediately disqualifies themselves as a partner, period. That's lack of self control over the lust of the eyes, flesh and the boastful pride of life.
It's a manipulative tactic, one that hardly if ever is applied to affirm you, but control you.
People actually do that?!
@@Just_a_Reflection Have you ever seen the videos of people who are asked who their Hollywood crush is and if they could get away with cheating or taking a relationship break to cheat with that crush, would they do it? Sadly, most people asked this on camera say yes.
@@searlearnold2867 No, i don't watch much of that type of entertainment so it isn't suggested to my feed. One of my exes had a crush on Bob Marley and told me that he was the only man that she would leave me for, but that was okay because he is long past😅. I never told her that my crush is the comedienne, Mo'Nique, because I didn't want her to be suspicious around pretty larger women😜.
This bih goes Gaga everytime method man comes on the tv. Her excuse is “ I’ll never meet him”
5:10 {walk away like the king that you are. }
Exactly what I did 3 days ago with a girl who was disrespectful after dating for months. I told her “ I deserve better” to her face.
You Sir are a National treasure ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Exactly. Stay strong and keep it ended. Speaking from experience.
Everybody ain't a king. Sorry. People like olivia playen crazy generalizing all men are kings. Naw all men are men of God. Not kings.
@@hplaya2268
I smell negativity. All men are not kings but you can choose to be one of them.
@@hplaya2268
- a good man
- on top of his shit in life and has a good system going
- able to relax and give time to things other than work, despite being on top of his shit
- recognise when he is making a mistake and when he is not making a mistake - also important because it’s also knowing when to take full responsibility for a mistake to fix it, and knowing when a problem in a relationship for example is not his fault but could potentially get blamed on him
- doesn’t take shit because he knows he deserves better, and doesn’t waste his time on people who don’t respect him, doesn’t give those people the power of allowing them into the inner layers of his being where they can sabotage him for their pride’s sake I.e. knows who to and who not to have close to him
This is the path of the king.
It’s the path every man has the capability to walk, and it’s the path our instincts are really telling us they want us to walk - until we fool ourselves.
Don’t fool yourself.
Every man of race needs to listen to this message.this is the most powerful message that I ever heard in my life.
Reminds me of something my late grandfather told me when I was till a kid: "I can respect someone I don't like, I can't like someone I don't respect." Respect is the foundation of any relationship, not just romantic. Without it there is nothing.
zero tolerance is the only way to deal with a women who demonstrates disrespect. you gotta be willing to walk away for good . it's hard, especially if you got real feelings for her, but the long term damage staying in a relationship with a toxic, unappreciative women is a lot worse than the short term pain of walking away.
this the one 💪🏾💯💯💯
I needed this
I agree with that 💯
These women are killers too homie.
True zero tolerance for everyone tbh
This is facts right here. Men please understand walking away from a disrepectful female is a superpower. Working on you, putting yourself first and your peace better than dealing with the disrespect.
The masses don't understand.. Women can't take it when you walk away from em!
@@PlayaflyJoe27 i walked out on a relationship where i wasn't valued
walking away is a superpower not only from toxic women, but toxic people and situations in general.
@@iandiru6433 good job brethren! Continue to do that when you don't feel valued!
@@PlayaflyJoe27 🙏
Unfortunately a woman with no empathy will never change. That woman had me second guessing myself and finally a day came where I had to look in the mirror and say I’m better than this. I left without saying anything, and felt I gained my power back. Moral of the story is no matter how pretty they are do not accept disrespectful behavior from women, ever!!!!
Always know your worth , never tolerate disrespect from anybody, most importantly stay away from low vibrational frequency!!
She will SHOW you disrespect LONG before she ever says it !
Gentlemen you're not only sending a message to her and yourself but most importantly to the universe
That is powerful!
@creating1_c1999 Thank you my friend. I just turned the big 50 even though people tell me. I don't look it or sound like it with my very deep masculine sexy voice. Women. Tell me every day. It's a blessing sometimes a curse lol but seriously though you don't get to be 50 years old to be this healthy and strong. Without learning a few hard lessons over the years and decades thank you and sending blessings your way again. Don't mind my silly sense of humor I love to make people laugh
...that's deep. I must've sent a clear and cordial message to her and the universe. I walked away from my girl. She changed or I just didn't know her, but the disrespect was clear. I broke her spell and I hope the universe is pleased.
@Patrick James Holmes 👍
@@creating1_c1999 no it's not simpleton
I don't know how you decided to put the information out here but I've been there when I was 30 to 32. You have to leave if you respect yourself and love a great situation. If you do take her back and it doesn't change you gotta leave. I learned once in a relationship and that's all it took. I'd rather be single than to give my pearls to swine who intentionally or unintentionally but consistently undermines my abilities, doesn't have respect for my efforts or well being in a relationship. Guys if you care about having a healthy relationship and yourself you gotta choose respect over feelings. They both should go hand in hand when its worth it and makes sense.
A relationship can't work without boundaries, respect, or trust. You gotta value yourself if you want someone else to do the same. That's why my last relationship went sour because I let go of my boundaries, and it opened the flood gates man. I'm mad at myself for not having the self-worth to leave sooner, but I feel like I needed that wake-up call.
I turn the disrespect into no or limited contact. They can't stand it and become irritated
When the emotions come out so does the truth
Facts. I got divorced *immediately* when my ex wife said this. Literally gave her everything and she still didn't respect me. I didn't shed a single tear or look back once. I'm with someone that actually respects me, and it's way better. Hold your head up, kings.
And good luck to her. Gonna need it lol
I can't even imagine being with someone who doesn't respect me. That's the entire foundation of the relationship to begin with. Trust and respect. With out either, there is no relationship. You don't even need her to say it, you can tell when someone doesn't respect you through their actions and demeanor. It's written all over them. If you let go to the point where she actually does say it to your face, then you're a sucker.
Damn! I'm living it now! I just got fed up with the disrespect by my wife and I just filed for divorce and now she's mad and blaming me for everything!
@@otdreamer193 Thanks for your advice! I'm working through it right now but it just going to take time for me to get over it. She acting like she doesn't have a care in the world and I am going through it all. Then I had to leave my house to start the separation period for the divorce.
Unfortunately when you have to let her go to respect you, it's time to part company forever. It's too late for anything by this point.
Especially if you have a Lizzo type whos costing you 1000 a month on food
Mike 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Damn.
They usually wont come out and tell you that they dont respect you,but they will definitely show it. The longer you allow it,they will begin to actually disrespect you.
The moment you feel a woman is trying or testing you,its time to move on. Dont argue dont try to figure things out,just move on.
Once you think or feel it's over. IT IS, LEAVE IMMEDIATELY.
When a woman falls out of love with you, there is nothing you can do to change her feelings.
I rather be single than to be putting up with stuff like that
So far in my experience, they’ll show disrespect more than they say it, or they will say it indirectly. LEAVE!!
I have being recording all her disrespectful insults towards me. But she kept denying it. I will throw the recordings in her face soon. What they say behind you matters....
This is spot on! Another thing that a woman says is "You don't know me" which has the same vibes as "I don't respect you." It's usually a nonchalant vibe if you have been the man who does everything and you have been an open book.
Spot on 💯
A woman once asked me to be in a relationship with her but told me I had to earn her respect. I know I did the right thing by walking away from her before anything had even started. I don't have to earn someone respect, the only thing that needs to be earned is trust. I'm sorry for whatever man she may find that does not realize what kind of person she is until it's too late, but it won't be me. 😊
Most won't say it verbally. They will say it with body language and actions. Pay attention
Been there seen it, and they will always find different angles so to let your guard down… be alert Bruthas! Women of today are brainwashed by Walt Disney,Hollywood, and especially the feminist academia that came out from the 1960’s
Clothes will tell the tale. If they don’t care about your thoughts on how they dress themselves, that tells you what you need to know about their feelings of respect or lack thereof to you
"A drunk mind speaks a sober heart." This quote definitely came across my mind while watching this gem 💎. Blessings to you 🙏🏾 ❤️ ✨️
Crazy that the only time a person will listen to or believe another person is when they're drunk smh.
Crazy that the only time a person will listen to or believe another person is when they're drunk smh.
Agreeing with this. After 2.5 years ex said to me “what if I never find her?!?”
I realized we were incompletely two different places in the relationship & the next thing I said to him were my final words to him were “Go find her.”
I walked out the door 6 months ago & I haven’t bothered saying anything since.
I paid for & Shipped his sh*t back UPS 30 days later despite the fact everyone told me to burn his stuff.
I lost complete respect with him in the 6 words he said - highly insecure & lining himself up to be a potential cheater if that eye is gonna keep wandering looking for “the one”. Don’t need him being a narcissistic cheater like his mother was.
After investing a lot of work, effort & commitment into the relationship I don’t need to stick around for someone who is gonna disrespect me & waste my time & effort. They aren’t going to make the growth relationship a priority.
It’s all about them….
Such a woman won't say it outright, but will be obvious disrespectful via how she speaks and acts towards you.
Queen once again spitting factuals. Salute. Before you even jump in a relationship respect has to be established from the gate. The moment she starts to test you is the moment you chop that down. That behavior comes from a place of manipulation in order to gain power/control over you as a man. Don't even waste your time trying to get something you already deserve to get.
And here is where I failed myself by sticking around, hoping it would change and I could do things that I would gain respect.
@@melechstewart I'm glad you valued self higher in the end bro. Trying to "earn" respect after you've given it is like giving water to a dead plant and expecting it to blossom. You always deserve to recieve the energy you put out.
It must be squashed immediately like whack-a-mole. Let it slide and it will become more frequent and intense.
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"Queen?" This is the kind of language men need to stop using! She is a woman with a UA-cam channel giving her perspective. Where does that make her a "queen?"
Never, ever, put up with disrespect. It will make you absolutely miserable. Even if she doesn't admit it, if you see the signs it's time to leave and never look back.
She doesn't have to tell you...with words. She will show you.
She probably will never come out and say it anyway, and May actually tell you that she does respect you, while showing the opposite.
Protect this woman at all cost
I remember being a simp for my toxic clinically insane ex, who would say "I need someone that challenges me" when I would pay for months of her rent, internet bill, pay for bday events for her daughter to which I was never invited and school supplies/ field trips. It was Psychological Manipulation and I was not aware of it, instead I would take it as if I need to step up and become better in life and pay for more of her stuff, take her on vacations so she can 'realize' I am a good guy and a challenge while always trying to be extra cautious to not 'ruin' things or 'start' an argument because apparently everything was my fault. I ended up leaving her and realized that I had money every weekend to buy new clothes and travel and hang out meet new and NICE people.
Dang she stupid. Sounds like you have good qualities. Your spending is a bonus. I would’ve appreciated and thanked the hell out of you everyday. Yeah she stupid.
It's never enough with some people, no matter what you do .
In the same boat and happy bye felicia
Uhm your problem was that you took what she said and interpreted what it would mean to YOU. I don't think you were listening to her. "I need someone that challenges me" doesn't translate to "I need you to pay for more things and throw more money at me to prove you're a good man"... Yeah those two things do not equate lol you were probably boring the hell out of her.
@@MelenaSoleil yea, i know it did not equated, however she was still taking advantages by not complaining of what she did not meant since she was getting free shit, I got the hell out of there and allowed her to find someone toxic that can challenge her and fight with her so they can make up until the next argument, thats what I found out she really wanted
I went through the same shit. Took her back, moved back in together for the same damn shit to replay. 1yr later, going separate ways again. This time its PERMANENT. Narcissistic people are the worst. Dont waste valuable time on them. They WONT CHANGE.
Im Living and Learning.
Im going through the separation phase now. Soon after will be divorce. She puts the blame on me entirely and always says that I failed the kids too if i bring it up. So im waiting patiently for my kids to get older and continue being cordial with my ex. When I get my Best self going, Im going to be better for myself, my kids, and whoever i end up with. She may one day realize that it was always a two way street but by then i will be happily strong and confident in myself with or without someone at my side. Got lots of healing to do.
..."...a Freudian slip"......wow, never heard that term. That's why I love your content. It's always fresh.
It has been around for a long time, but not used much in contemporary society.
Exactly. Even if those words aren't said to you recognize her actions towards you and call her out immediately! If she deflects, walk or show her the door.
Walking away is what I did with my ex and I haven’t looked back
Never let a woman disrespect you period.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@@DailamiPuang please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@@peterwilliams6361 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Facts...I've been there and am happy I didn't accept disrespect because women are wired to respect the man that they truly wants. Disrespect suggest that you should hit the road.🏃♂🏃♀🏃♂🏃
Well not all women are wired that way. What I mean by that is I respect all men whether I want him or not. If I don’t want him I just be cordial and polite but I won’t toy with him and falsely lead him on. What’s the point of being with a man you know you don’t like like that just to disrespect him?? That’s a waste of time.
I’m staying single until the right one comes in my life I won’t settle for less.
Theres no such thing as the right one😂
@@TheFeezy777 speak for yourself this isn’t a laughing matter
@@mauricewilliams1724 if you think theres the "right one" out there, youre in for disappointment.
@@TheFeezy777 like I said speak for yourself. I know where I stand.
@maurice the feezy777 is right tho. Nobody is perfect. Even the “right one” has some flaws. Man y’all gone trick yourselves out of “what could be” and before you know it time will be up.
Olivia Alexa is 100% right.shes telling the truth.
This not only is limited to relationships, this also goes to working life/bosses etc. Get out immediately. I literally called out their behaviour and walked out..infact if your superiors bullying you its even worse than relationships imo because you can be used as a puppet for manipulation and lies.If you know you know. Atleast with relationships you have more power to take any decision and make it out without a dent.
If she says don’t tell me what to do, that’s basically the same.
Walking and silence is the most biggest weapon you have as a man. Once you walked away she’s dead to you delete her number, unfollow all her social media and change your social media account and profile name so that she will never see you again.
That’s a bit extreme with the changing your profile name and social media account. Don’t you think? Just delete them from your account like you would from your phone contacts. Unless you two were long distance, you may run into her and see her again so you can’t delete her from Society. Dang man you’re trying to change your whole existence to keep this girl away from you. You don’t have to do all that!!! Lol! She must’ve really had power over you!! 😂😂. That’s doing too much don’t do all that. Just keep it simple and release her!! Booooy you…! Lol
Just by being silent and walking away, closing the chapter is so powerful.
Which island are you from?
Did exactly this one month ago. Never felt more satisfied w any decision of mine.
You WILL be respected at the end of the day - whether you're being respected by her or by yourself. And if not by her then it must be by yourself.
Definitely experienced this. She tried to disrespect me and then post victim.
Not only be aware of her words, but also her facial expressions & body behavior or language. What suppressed in the spirit & soul, will sooner or later manifest outwardly. In these days most women show their true colors immediately. Peace!
Facts
Wow… you’re so on point! I’ve been tolerating her very behavior for the past 6yrs and am at my breaking point now 😢
Walk tf away it ain’t worth it bro
I feel you my dude. 5yrs in. On and off. Today I’ve made the decision to walk away and to be honest I’m up beat about it. I should have never been in this situation and I will never take her back. I’m excited for what the future holds.
@@Pmason718 I’m really glad you did and I hope to get some pointers on how to make that shift.
@@cliffinambao6228 It’s a hard decision to make but in time you will see it’s probably one of the best decisions you could ever make. Write everything down. Good and bad. Ask yourself do you deserve that type behavior? That type of treatment? If the answer is no it’s time to walk away.
Love yourself and respect yourself.
This woman is a genius,us males get blinded by a woman's looks,but it's her personality that's in question at times.
Pro tip......if you going to be dealing with these girls and dating them, YOU SHOULD NOT under any circumstances take them SERIOUSLY 💯🙏Take Care🔥
Pure facts Olivia!!!! You got to walk away!! It'll NEVER get better!!!!
Nope it will never get better, replace her.
only a man who leaves when disrespected,
gets respect.
I’m over 40, divorced, and have dated A LOT of women since the divorce a decade ago,
This lady is Right on point! I’ve lived exactly what she talks about. Wow!!!
Listen to her! Walk AWAY from insecure, disrespectful women. Here’s something she didn’t mention- DON’T LOOK BACK. Go find better!!! There are millions of women out there. Expand your horizons and find your partner somewhere else.
Everything you have said literally described my “ex-wife” she later turn lesbian, weird right!?!
Anyways thank you Miss Olivia for all you hard work.
Real talk! She doesn't has say it! By her actions the first time she disrespect you LEAVE!
I had to learn this lesson the hard way years ago
But the disrespect is normally shown vs verbalized. Pay attention to how she treats you and use your head to interpret what your heart feels. If it helps, write down what she has done to you and a day or two later, read it as someone wrote a letter to you saying what they are going through. The advice you give this person is the advice you should take as your heart is now removed and logic is in the forefront.
this is a helpful exercise!
As men, we cannot let out hearts overrule common sense.. if you are confused, talk to a friend who is not captivated by love. A woman wants and needs a man of strength.. no matter what she says. Being so in love, you loosen restrictions and allow things you normally would not. She will definitely take advantage of this..even a good woman will do this so it must be their nature. So if she is true to hers.. BE TRUE TO YOURS.
@@toneyclayton485 facts bra
It is sad but being in love you drop your guard and use your heart instead of your head. Now you will do things without logic. This is extremely dangerous for men. Because God gave man the logic and spoke to him. It is from God so when it is removed you will do something stupid..like Adam. Don’t be like Adam..be better.
@@toneyclayton485 facts
Thank you Olivia for looking out for us men!
Us Men need to start looking out for ourselves and start holding these women accountable for their actions. We shouldn't need anyone to speak up for us.
@@crwnofenlightenment I agree with you 100%
@@crwnofenlightenment disagree. We do need women - like psychotherapist 😂 not UA-cam “influencers”
I used to hear women say things like only your disrespect earns you respect. People who think this way are insecure. You will never have peace nor create a symbiotic relationship if you are competitive with your partner, mistreating your partner, or withholding love and adoration to control your partner.
Rejoice and be glad in choosing peace, spirit of team/compromise, respect, and love. If a person is not reciprocal of that, then you move on. It's their loss. Never retrofit Godly principles to match the devils energy. The devil will never like you. His spiritual mission: steal, kill, and destroy you.
If you ever want to learn how a person truly is, give of the spirt things which are priceless and cannot be commodified. Then watch how the person responds to you in earnest. And once they show you, believe it.
What do you mean by give of the spirit thing? Sincere question
@@the_one_who-knocks No problem.
Spiritual gifts or giving spiritually:
1. your wisdom and teaching
2. patience and understanding
3. love and kindness
4. respect and submission
@@creating1_c1999 oh ok, that makes sense
This is a very important message fellas. I had a similar experience... meaning, the only component missing was the verbal confirmation of not having respect for me. It was shown in actions. It was tough to get in the mindset of leaving, later realizing I had fallen into an unrecognizable state. You know what you want out of your relationship, and are in complete control of making that happen!
She is 100% right.
Thanks for the refresher. Like many of you, I've also learned this the hard way. If circumstances that are out of your control happen to complicate your relationship, and the first thing she does is not only blame you, but try to break your self-esteem and try to make you feel like negligible scum, this isn't because she feels deeply about your relationship; it means she emotionally moved on from you, and, as was my case, is interested in someone new.
Like Olivia said, even if such blatant disrespect is followed by profuse apologies and supposedly reciprocated understanding, that should give you a hint that you should leave. Whoever wronged you now has a downright cruel way to manipulate you, not just during trying times, but otherwise when she simply feels like it, and it's better to simply move forward and not put yourself through all that again.
So true, there is life and death . No respect is a sign of death. Peace, I'm out for good where there is smoke fire will be a 🔥.
I ignored it for YEARS and made excuses and over looked actions untill i couldn’t take it no more smh checked out mentally and then i left
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Facts...i was jus becoming a paycheque for her. Stayed as long as i could for the kids sake, but i had to walk away. Could not let my kids be around that negative nrgy any longer...co-parenting is a work in progress, but at least my kids smile when they see me. My heart n soul feels so much bettr. 👊🏽
Fuck it’s taken me awhile to realize this was me. Love made me blind and I lost all sense of self and pride trying to save the relationship and, when it ended, trying to get her back. In the end, I left it ugly and aired it all out, which I’ve felt terrible about, but I realize I wasn’t wrong about what I said, still wish I hadn’t said it all the way I did though. I came off as weak through it all. Miss her incredibly, and even knowing all this I still have bad days where I just want to reach out to her. I’ve never known love like the kind I had for her. These videos have helped me realize that seems to be more of a problem than a blessing though. Keep your head up y’all. For any going through something similar, stay strong. It’s going to take what seems like an excruciating amount of time to heal and return to some sense of self. You’ll likely never be the person you were before so don’t get caught up chasing that. You’ll probably never completely lose that love or longing either, but stay strong and don’t reach out. It’s for the best.
Love is free, it's truthful, it's light, and it gives sight. It doesn't blind us.
And as a man speaking from experience, you are correct.
If I respect her I expect to be respected too. Thank you.
I went down with an injury and the big “C” bug at the same time and was unable to work for several weeks. We were in a very tough spot.
After 28 years of marriage and often working 2-3 jobs up to 80 hours a week, she looked me straight in the eye and told me “you are no longer a strong enough husband for ME, a strong enough father for MY kids or a strong enough man.” (Ahem…. OUR kids, NOT just hers!!!)
I died a thousand deaths that day.
We are kings for a reason. She knows from both sides of the story and we appreciate it because it’s not many who does. Protect her at all times. #KeepBringingHeat #OliviaAlexa2023
Well said, remove yourself, be mindful, especially if you have family/children it is truly about self-worth 💯, from it gets to that level time to disconnect.
There's a shortage of cool, strong-willed, intelligent, level-headed people (male or female) in this world. Keep leading!
It's true, and it's complicated when you have kids. But you are right.
Fellas please listen to this woman she giving us free game
I love the sincerity when you said “It’s game over”. Great lesson. Thank You
This woman is a gem, saving countless men from toxic relationships. ❤️ Stay strong girl
Protect this Woman at all costs💯😮💨
Trust Your Gut. Thank you for this Olivia, I am in this situation yet again. And this time its not even a romantic relationship. Great advice as always
💯✅. Thank you so much. You hit the nail right on the head. Respect is everything to a man and foundational to a healthy relationship with a woman. If she doesn’t respect you be ready and bold enough to walk away. DO NOT COMPROMISE on this. You will live to regret it.
Great video Sis👑 Thanks 🙏🏼
A LOT of people spoke to me for the very last time, but they didn't know it.
Bad thing about it is I really loved her and I knew from the start that it was going to be like this but I was clouding up my vision and had to live it for 2 years and a half
FRL FRL queen. ❤I see this from family members and co workers. and you’re right on ghosting them when they try to undermine and disrespect you. 😊♏️
You a Scorpio? That’s true there’s a lot of co workers I had to ghost. I walk pass them like they’re an old trash can. I don’t go out my way to dodge. Their existence is irrelevant.
I will protect this woman with my life