Alisha and the waiter talking about cameras and him charging her less for the drink is the most wholesome thing I've seen all day Edit: Aaaahh Alisha liked!
When he said you know what after she said she's taking herself on a date, I thought he'd say "you know what can I take you out to dinner?" .. then he asked about her camera 😂
I know this had the intention of being a lighthearted silly video but I love that Alisha is pushing the boundaries of her social anxiety and actually forcing herself to be okay in somewhat social situations!! This is also huge growth and a great way to look at life by loving yourself first and of course NOT NEEDING NO MAN!!! love you alisha!!
Coming here from the PB podcast: I heard your solo episode and you said there was a creep hitting on you, making you uncomfortable when you did this video. And you tried to soften it by saying you were wearing a bright red dress and picked a table on the sidewalk. I just want to let you know neither of those choices warrant a man to ever make you uncomfortable. You were doing you and didn’t ask for his presence. Love that you did this and loved that you voiced this!
I absolutely love your content! You’ve grown so much not only as a creator but also as a person. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and you have inspired me tremendously!!! I can wait to see what you will achieve in the future! You truly are capable of doing so much! ily 🥰🥰🥰
@@AlishaMarie It was one of those nights When you turned out the lights And everything comes into view She was taking her time I was losing my mind There was nothing that she wouldn't do It wasn't the first It wasn't the last She knew we was making love I was so satisfied Deep down inside Like a cute, positive girl should Seems like too much girl power Seems like too many positive vibes Too much girl power for my body, too many positive vibes for my brain This damn girl's gonna drive me insane She's got too much girl power, too many positive vibes She had the face of an angel Smiling with cuteness and positivity A cute, positive and aesthetic personality Dealing with danger Swift, powerful and peaceful, she is sworn protector of all things positive and aesthetic Let the thunder and lightning start It wasn't the first It wasn't the last It wasn't that she didn't care She wanted it now And wanted it fast She likes TikTok, girl power and following trends on social media Seems like too much girl power Seems like too many positive vibes Too many positive vibes for my body, too much girl power for my brain This damn girl's gonna drive me insane She has too many positive vibes, too much girl power I really want to share the girl power and positive vibes Girl you know you're giving me all those cute aesthetic girl vibes Seems like a little extra positive girl vibes Just a little more girl power I really need your positive vibes 'Cause you're cute, aesthetic, adorable, sweet and positive
You should make this like a mini challenge series for things people get nervous to do by themselves. Loved this! I’m an only child and in a new relationship that’s a little long distance (5 hours). It’s cool to see people do things by themselves.
I even travel alone … go to museum alone … go to clubs alone … why would I be with people that will ruin my mood in one way or another or complain or whatever … now my fiancée is exactly like me … we like the same stuff … we don’t complain … it’s the best…. It if I really want to go somewhere and he has to work … I go and come back … same with him … if he wants to do something I really don’t want he goes and come back … of course we share each other’s passion … but I’m not going to sit him down for a 3 days 3 hours figure skating competition … lol
Ok, can we just appreciate how hard this must have been for Alisha! From watching the vlogs, and listening to Pretty Basic, she has spoken alot about dealing with social anxiety so this is a big deal! SHE WINS!!! Love you xox
I think its so powerful to do that, I do have social anxiety and it's so hard when you're on your own, but Girl you did that, yaaaas 🥳 Also you get used so yeah jaja
YES - a part two! I've been single for 5 years. It's defiantly been a challenge. We don't need no man to treat our self's every once in a while! My favorite video you've made in long time! ❤️
This needs to be the new video idea everyone does on UA-cam. It would be such an empowering movement whether you are in a relationship or not. Alisha, way to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. It shows your strength and growth!
Girl you killed it! I also suffer from social anxiety to the point where if I go to the store, I have to hype myself up to get out of my car. But pre-covid, I use to go to brunch by myself and it was amazing. You just get to be without having to worry about being “on” all the time.
Alisha you inspired me to do this. I also struggle with social anxiety I’m trying my best to not overthink, pls do more of these videos. Also I hope you realize how confident you look, I was shocked seeing you being nervous I thought you were outgoing lmao
I love this! Tbh doing stuff like this scares me too but it’s so freeing once you do and realize you don’t need a man or a friend to do the stuff you want to do. Proud of you!
@@markojovanovic5901 well wouldn't say rude but more of a generalisation...but I meannn some guys dont even wipe their booty hole cuz they thought it's gey
I went on a date by myself once because I wanted to start feeling normal about being in my own company and my phone was dying so I kept pretending to be on my phone although it was on 20% * I was definitely crying inside*
I do this all the time! It was a goal of mine when I turned 21 ... 6 years ago 🥴. But I love it and actually prefer it now! So glad this a trend. More people need to be comfortable with their solitude.
this is amazing!! yesterday i took a huge step with my anxiety and sat alone in a cafe waiting for my friends to arrive - instead of waiting outside 🥳 it’s the little steps x
Nothing wrong taking oneself out on a date especially when it comes to just wanting to treat oneself to food /beverage - it’s not necessary to always eat out w/ people. The introvert in me would rather not eat with others. The fact that People rely on societal expectations that give them validation of what to do and what not to do defeats the purpose of living on their own terms and or being the boss of their own life. Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anything or anyone to approve of your worth. When you understand this you will be free.
Alisha I can honestly say you are one of my favorite youtubers! I love the consistency of your posts as well as the energy you give off. I think you're a great role model to young girls, while also still giving us more mature content. This video was hilarious but also had a great message. I'm so proud of you for doing this!!!
I loved this video, I used to do this when I changed city and didn’t know anyone. Your video reminded me on how it felt the first times hanging out alone.
Yesssss! I started taking myself out when I was in college because I realized no one can love me the way I can love myself. Including my husband lol and I hated waiting for someone to be there in order to do something I wanna do. I think everyone should take themselves out at least once ✨
this could totally be an ongoing series where alisha helps girls glam themselves up to themselves on a date. single or taken sister. we need that self love.
I have social anxiety also. I don’t like doing things alone either. Especially like you mentioned in the world we have now. But I’m proud of you… would I do it for myself idk .. you know maybe? Like a quick coffee drink ya know. So if you ever back to Palm Springs girl hollla ;) hehe. Coco
Living for this video concept you are right Alisha we don't need a relationship a man for validation. Getting glam for ourselves - self care time - is the best feeling sometimes! Delighted that you're taking yourself on a date; same I get nervous sitting by myself in public fine in a coffee shop not in a restaurant- respect for you social anxiety is tough sometimes! Hope that you and the roomates are well.👏💜
I actually live this so much. When I was single I would take myself on dates all the time. It took some getting used to but it really did help me learn who I was and what I wanted in a partner. It also helped me realize that I was absolutely content not having a partner even though all my friends did.
say it with me....WE DONT NEED NO MAN!!!! self love is the best kind...comment ur go to date outfit ❤️
we. dont. need. no. man.
WE DONT NEED NO MAN
We don’t need a man!!!!
YES ALISHA MARIE WE DON’T NEED NO MAN🙌🙌🙌
We_don't_need_no_man
When she says " we can dress up for our self" girlll I totally agree with you
Yess i wear hijab and its 100% for myself 💕
All y'all should dress for yourself and your own well being cuz it will make you happier and more confident ☺️have a great day ✨
That’s why I wear lip gloss under my mask
@@karliestidham hi
I do it all the time 🤷🏽♀️
Alisha and the waiter talking about cameras and him charging her less for the drink is the most wholesome thing I've seen all day
Edit: Aaaahh Alisha liked!
And then you edited it lol
@@Lavenderlove-y6u dang 😔
When he said you know what after she said she's taking herself on a date, I thought he'd say "you know what can I take you out to dinner?" .. then he asked about her camera 😂
@Heidi Schwendinger No she didn't, I just edited it which took the like away
No she didn’t 😂😂😂
I love her convos with the waiter she comes off so much more confident than I think she realizes, love you Alisha!
THIS!!! 👏🏼
Right?! Go girl!
Totally!
EVERY GIRL SHOULD DO THIS EVEN IF SHE’S TAKEN!!!
OOO I NEED TOO
Lol everyone should do this even boys lol
Guys should too
yasss! we need a part two!!!! i loved this video
YES
helloooo
The amount of posting in a week is everythingggg
the most wholesome thing is the fact that mauricio asked about cameras and hooked alisha up with a double shot for less $$$ we need more mauricios!
Alisha so much moneyyy
"I'm giving you a double but I'm charging you for a single amor" MY HEART he is so sweet
“mAuRiCiO!”
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My anxiety: 📈
Alisha's anxiety: 📈
The waiter: Is that a Canon 📷?
I know this had the intention of being a lighthearted silly video but I love that Alisha is pushing the boundaries of her social anxiety and actually forcing herself to be okay in somewhat social situations!! This is also huge growth and a great way to look at life by loving yourself first and of course NOT NEEDING NO MAN!!! love you alisha!!
Coming here from the PB podcast: I heard your solo episode and you said there was a creep hitting on you, making you uncomfortable when you did this video. And you tried to soften it by saying you were wearing a bright red dress and picked a table on the sidewalk. I just want to let you know neither of those choices warrant a man to ever make you uncomfortable. You were doing you and didn’t ask for his presence. Love that you did this and loved that you voiced this!
THE INTEO IS SO CUTE
I absolutely love your content! You’ve grown so much not only as a creator but also as a person. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and you have inspired me tremendously!!! I can wait to see what you will achieve in the future! You truly are capable of doing so much! ily 🥰🥰🥰
wow means so much hailey 😊
@@AlishaMarie
It was one of those nights
When you turned out the lights
And everything comes into view
She was taking her time
I was losing my mind
There was nothing that she wouldn't do
It wasn't the first
It wasn't the last
She knew we was making love
I was so satisfied
Deep down inside
Like a cute, positive girl should
Seems like too much girl power
Seems like too many positive vibes
Too much girl power for my body, too many positive vibes for my brain
This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
She's got too much girl power, too many positive vibes
She had the face of an angel
Smiling with cuteness and positivity
A cute, positive and aesthetic personality
Dealing with danger
Swift, powerful and peaceful, she is sworn protector of all things positive and aesthetic
Let the thunder and lightning start
It wasn't the first
It wasn't the last
It wasn't that she didn't care
She wanted it now
And wanted it fast
She likes TikTok, girl power and following trends on social media
Seems like too much girl power
Seems like too many positive vibes
Too many positive vibes for my body, too much girl power for my brain
This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
She has too many positive vibes, too much girl power
I really want to share the girl power and positive vibes
Girl you know you're giving me all those cute aesthetic girl vibes
Seems like a little extra positive girl vibes
Just a little more girl power
I really need your positive vibes
'Cause you're cute, aesthetic, adorable, sweet and positive
THE RED AESTHETIC IS VERY MUCH GIVING ME TK VIBES
everyone say THANK YOU TK for all of her support cuz she’s the literal best. WE LOVE YOU MISS TAYLOR KING
You should make this like a mini challenge series for things people get nervous to do by themselves. Loved this! I’m an only child and in a new relationship that’s a little long distance (5 hours). It’s cool to see people do things by themselves.
I even travel alone … go to museum alone … go to clubs alone … why would I be with people that will ruin my mood in one way or another or complain or whatever … now my fiancée is exactly like me … we like the same stuff … we don’t complain … it’s the best…. It if I really want to go somewhere and he has to work … I go and come back … same with him … if he wants to do something I really don’t want he goes and come back … of course we share each other’s passion … but I’m not going to sit him down for a 3 days 3 hours figure skating competition … lol
THIS IS THE CONTENT WE SIGNED UP FOR ‼️
WE DON’T NEED NO MAN!! That saying means everything
But we want a man
@@avivaliok8103 true tho
Ok, can we just appreciate how hard this must have been for Alisha! From watching the vlogs, and listening to Pretty Basic, she has spoken alot about dealing with social anxiety so this is a big deal! SHE WINS!!! Love you xox
okay, but why is she NOT taken-🤩
This is the WE DONT NEED NO MAN youtube tutorial🔥🔥
I think its so powerful to do that, I do have social anxiety and it's so hard when you're on your own, but Girl you did that, yaaaas 🥳
Also you get used so yeah jaja
UGH ILY!!!
she can literally pull off any date even by herself ngl
I literally thought about Eva, Sierra, and Teala when you said that it’s just like getting implants and then you said the same thing!
I literally did this last week. It was so refreshing. I’m introverted so I like time alone ☺️
props to alisha for even having the guts to do this video cuz my anxiety would go *brrt* 📈😭😭 but you go girl omg
every girl should do this. period we don’t need no man !!!!
YES this is amazing. The exact kind of energy we need. Fall in love with hanging out with yourself and anything can be a good time
this is ICONIC and loooove all the content being posted today!!
Alisha walking down the stairs in the red dress was the most glamorous thing that I have seen since quarantine started
very 2021😂😭 being single is a aesthetic tbh😭😭😂
Lol
TK needs a raise that’s was a good idea to film you across the street
The dress…the EVERYTHING, you’re so beautiful ❤️
YES - a part two! I've been single for 5 years. It's defiantly been a challenge. We don't need no man to treat our self's every once in a while! My favorite video you've made in long time! ❤️
this is on another level of so extra I STAN
I’ve always loved seeing people doing things alone. Whenever I see someone eating out by themselves it makes me want to do it.
ur content is what’s keeping me happy
as someone who's in a long distance relationship (different countries) I just wanna say that I absolutely love this!
this is the hot girl summer motivation we all needed alisha is doing it right
This needs to be the new video idea everyone does on UA-cam. It would be such an empowering movement whether you are in a relationship or not. Alisha, way to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. It shows your strength and growth!
Hahaha okay okay, i’m going to do this 💪
Girl you killed it! I also suffer from social anxiety to the point where if I go to the store, I have to hype myself up to get out of my car. But pre-covid, I use to go to brunch by myself and it was amazing. You just get to be without having to worry about being “on” all the time.
WHEN YOU’RE TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH EVA, SIERRA AND TEALA 😂💀
Alisha you inspired me to do this. I also struggle with social anxiety I’m trying my best to not overthink, pls do more of these videos.
Also I hope you realize how confident you look, I was shocked seeing you being nervous I thought you were outgoing lmao
Gurl, didn't know i NEEDED this!!!!
As a young girl you make me feel so confident in myself. The talks you give the camera make me feel so good about myself I love you and thank you.
I think this was such a fun idea, you should make it into a series challenging yourself to work on your social anxiety ✨
I love this! Tbh doing stuff like this scares me too but it’s so freeing once you do and realize you don’t need a man or a friend to do the stuff you want to do. Proud of you!
Me, who is a guy, who uses 2 hrs to get ready for any social event and plans out the prep the night before : 👁️👄👁️
My boyfriend ist the same. It takes him longer than me to get ready lol
And the way alisha speaks about guys like they are emotionless animals. "They maybe shower" like come on that is soo rude.
@@markojovanovic5901 well wouldn't say rude but more of a generalisation...but I meannn some guys dont even wipe their booty hole cuz they thought it's gey
@@nicholasyong7051 um whay
She’s so beautiful, like whaaaaat!!
WE DON'T NEED TO MAN ✨💕
PERIODT SIS WE DONT NEED NO MAN 👏
Honestly I wouldn’t go out alone 🥺 but you are amazing Alisha!!!! I need to do this tho to get out of my comfort zone thanks to you love you!!!!
I went on a date by myself once because I wanted to start feeling normal about being in my own company and my phone was dying so I kept pretending to be on my phone although it was on 20% * I was definitely crying inside*
More self love videos ❤️ love that you take your self on a date❤️
a "how to" on your eye makeup would be amazing
YES ALISHAAA WE DON"T NEED NO MANS you go girl!!!!!!
eating at a restaurant alone for the first time was such a freeing experience for me! it was nice to just vibe and hang out and eat!
I do this all the time! It was a goal of mine when I turned 21 ... 6 years ago 🥴. But I love it and actually prefer it now! So glad this a trend. More people need to be comfortable with their solitude.
TWO Alisha videos in ONE day?! The gods have blessed us. ❤❤
I don’t understand how a guy would cancel a date with you! He just forking threw a literal diamond!
you should do this but together with TK like a girl-friends date
alisha owns the word iconic!!
also, I love your transparency on the main channel as well
can’t go without a week without watching alishas videos
this is amazing!! yesterday i took a huge step with my anxiety and sat alone in a cafe waiting for my friends to arrive - instead of waiting outside 🥳 it’s the little steps x
sending herself flowers... clueless vibes yup
Honestly girl you are so independent and brave to go out of your comfort zone I love it!💖💖
When the "WE DON'T NEED NO MAN" becomes a vibes💞 QUEEN✨
I’m happy being single!❤️ I’m focusing on my hobbies and being single has benefits. I get dressed up for myself ALL THE DAMN TIME!🥰
“If any one you have blonde brothers send them my way” 😂😂😂😂god I love you Alisha.
Thanks for sharing a bit of your social anxiety struggle, please share more/experiments to overcome it! I struggle with this a lot
AHHH SO EXCITED TO WATCH
Make this a series! Take yourself on dates to fun places, like the movies or something
I swear, she needs "we don't need no man" merch like--- also ilysmm Alisha you're a QUEEN I love your videos!!
Alisha
I literally get such a vibe to watch you like you’re so entertaining and you’re so right we don’t need no man
Nothing wrong taking oneself out on a date especially when it comes to just wanting to treat oneself to food /beverage - it’s not necessary to always eat out w/ people. The introvert in me would rather not eat with others. The fact that People rely on societal expectations that give them validation of what to do and what not to do defeats the purpose of living on their own terms and or being the boss of their own life. Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anything or anyone to approve of your worth. When you understand this you will be free.
Alisha I can honestly say you are one of my favorite youtubers! I love the consistency of your posts as well as the energy you give off. I think you're a great role model to young girls, while also still giving us more mature content. This video was hilarious but also had a great message. I'm so proud of you for doing this!!!
Literally love this vid!!!! Fire 🔥
I loved this video, I used to do this when I changed city and didn’t know anyone. Your video reminded me on how it felt the first times hanging out alone.
Idk i feel like most men are afraid to date women like this. And it makes me sad. :(
Like what? Independent?
@@TWForeeever no a youtuber. some people just don’t like being on camera
Yesssss! I started taking myself out when I was in college because I realized no one can love me the way I can love myself. Including my husband lol and I hated waiting for someone to be there in order to do something I wanna do. I think everyone should take themselves out at least once ✨
i just know I KNOWWW that i don’t need a boy alisha marie has always had my back since i was literally 7 HAHA
this could totally be an ongoing series where alisha helps girls glam themselves up to themselves on a date. single or taken sister. we need that self love.
I have social anxiety also. I don’t like doing things alone either. Especially like you mentioned in the world we have now. But I’m proud of you… would I do it for myself idk .. you know maybe? Like a quick coffee drink ya know. So if you ever back to Palm Springs girl hollla ;) hehe. Coco
A date essentials video!
"My battery's dying fu-" PLS ALISHA
Tbh alisha needs this she has been doing so good she neeeeeds this purrrrr
Going on dates Alone cause we dont need no man 😌😂✌️
Living for this video concept you are right Alisha we don't need a relationship a man for validation. Getting glam for ourselves - self care time - is the best feeling sometimes! Delighted that you're taking yourself on a date; same I get nervous sitting by myself in public fine in a coffee shop not in a restaurant- respect for you social anxiety is tough sometimes! Hope that you and the roomates are well.👏💜
i watched this and then got dressed to the nines to do things by myself and i’ve gotta say we don’t need no man
I actually live this so much. When I was single I would take myself on dates all the time. It took some getting used to but it really did help me learn who I was and what I wanted in a partner. It also helped me realize that I was absolutely content not having a partner even though all my friends did.
girl ur so brave for doing this i literally would never LMAO
ikr my anxiety could never 🥲
Dates with myself are my favourite kind! Also tend to always get treated nicely/a lot of free stuff in restaurants 😂 xoxox
"Guys dont understand the mentality of going on a date, all they do is throw on some axe body spray and they're done."
*PERIODT.*
Girl you come off as so confident and you don’t even realize! Girl you did so great!!!! Thank you for sharing this❤️
The biggest mystery ever is Alisha being single. Like how?
Definitely do want a part 2 that was like a power statement for you to do that. Such an inspiration.
ok I think everyone is thinking this…
we need “we don’t need no man” merch in our lives
THE MUSIC FOR THE OUTRO🤚😍😍 IT’S SOOOO GOOD ALISHA