Marrying a divorced girl: | Urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

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  • Thoughts about rights of girls in the society and issues for marrying a divorced girl. Dr Javed Iqbal talking in a interview.
    #divorce #rightsofgirls
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    Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
    He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 333

  • @ayeshaahmad8824
    @ayeshaahmad8824 Рік тому +21

    My husband married me , I was divorced with one daughter....but his family in Pakistan never ever excepted me....they created so many problems it's unbelievable.
    But alhamdolillah after 30 years wr still together alhamdolillah

  • @495mubeen2
    @495mubeen2 3 роки тому +64

    Sir you made me consider the widows before i get married. A selfless relationship demands a selfless decision.

    • @muhammadsanwalsarfrazawan7117
      @muhammadsanwalsarfrazawan7117 3 роки тому +4

      Love demands sacrifice in every field of Life.
      ( Tariq shehzad;My teacher.)

    • @495mubeen2
      @495mubeen2 3 роки тому

      @Samrin's Vlog Ameen

    • @abdulrafaymaqbool3576
      @abdulrafaymaqbool3576 3 роки тому +6

      Must consider the reasons behind divorce ;)

    • @mrchand78
      @mrchand78 3 роки тому +1

      Khatal se. Widows ke sath bhi aik problem hoti he. Wo chudhary sab, mian sab, munne ke abba ko kbhi nahee bholteen. Wo to itne ache the. Aapke sath guzara he

    • @mrchand78
      @mrchand78 3 роки тому +3

      Bas yaad rakhen ye nabi pak saw ka dor nahee is liye bohut chokana aur mohtat rehna chaiye. I am sorry i may be hurting someone but i have experienced

  • @aliamunawar765
    @aliamunawar765 3 роки тому +11

    Sometimes I have no words to Say something but 😥
    Sir You are great

  • @imrankhanabbasi9561
    @imrankhanabbasi9561 3 роки тому +15

    Even a divorced girl has turned me down yesterday. What a legend I am!!!

  • @abcabc9297
    @abcabc9297 2 роки тому +4

    Sir but i have a girl in my family she took khula as her american husband was suffering from ADHD and was gay he did not keep marital relation due to his disease he had no attaraction for women. This girl is a doctor from a very good medical college she is very deendar but when we see her proposal families accept the proposal happily but when tell them that its her second marriage they turn away callouslly and this makes me realise our society is way back from what prophet's (SAW) riasat e madina

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN68 3 роки тому +9

    Marriage should be only for love, not for upgradation of life's living standards, or for sponsorship of life expenses. For that people can donate, do charity, etc.

    • @helloFN68
      @helloFN68 3 роки тому

      in this, western society has evolved the criteria for marriage correctly, just like other things. Also, it's one of the biggest lie that in western countries they don't have a family system, or that the family system in western countries is destroyed. Is the family system here intact?

  • @sadiazaheer8806
    @sadiazaheer8806 3 роки тому +6

    M also a divorcee..
    Unfortunately our society never accepts a divorcee, bitter reality.

    • @Ronaldon302
      @Ronaldon302 3 роки тому +1

      I will marry you, if you want too

    • @kingshan7635
      @kingshan7635 3 роки тому

      Ap kaha sy hain ?can we talk some

    • @Noumanh1
      @Noumanh1 Рік тому

      @@kingshan7635 🤣😂😂

  • @saharsardar_4
    @saharsardar_4 3 роки тому +16

    Kisi beti ko to talak lene ka bi haq nhi hota sir wo sirf apne maa baap ki trf dekh rhi hoti hai, us k parents faisla lengy tb hi divorce hoskti hai Wrna to wo bachi sari zindagi usi anparh, nalaik, berozgar, bemar k sath guzar deti hai, 95% aaj bi aisy hi parents hain hmary haan, divorcee larki se koi shadi krna psnd nhi krta or agr koi himat kr bi le to larky k parents nhi manty sir ye bi 1 boht bara lamha e fikariya hai 😕

    • @majidkhan8767
      @majidkhan8767 3 роки тому

      Sahar sardar sb u may right 50%. I know why, bcz in our countries or sorrounding , it is difficult to find a suitable ..... specially for a girl even for a un married, so parents think so.2. Mostly parents r not so rich to bear it likely or in likely, u know why bcz in western countries the govt is help full where in our eastern countries is not.3. The earning sources r limited, not so much field for a girl for earning or to stand up with full power.

    • @AKMSahilYT
      @AKMSahilYT Рік тому

      Good advice thank you Dr Sahib

  • @raufwarraixh5175
    @raufwarraixh5175 3 роки тому +11

    Alhamdulillah sir maire big brother ki shadi talaq yafta sy ki ha hum us larki ko bachpan sy janty thy bey buniyad ilzam lga kr usy talaq di gai faimly main kuch ikhtlaf k bawjood main ny ami abu ko convince kia ab apny liy kisi bewah k koshish kron ga Insha Allah

    • @pakistannowthen916
      @pakistannowthen916 3 роки тому +1

      bhai us ko aap jantay thay. Jis ko na jaantay hon us se kartay waqt soch lijiye gaa

    • @raufwarraixh5175
      @raufwarraixh5175 3 роки тому +1

      @@pakistannowthen916 bhai hr larki galt ni hoti kuch jan bhojh k tang bhi krty hen khas kr k rishty daron mn

    • @pakistannowthen916
      @pakistannowthen916 3 роки тому

      @@raufwarraixh5175 آج کل بہت دھوکا ہے۔

    • @islahicooking6225
      @islahicooking6225 2 роки тому

      @@raufwarraixh5175 mere sath Bhi aisa hi hua

    • @artanddecor-ry2bg
      @artanddecor-ry2bg 11 місяців тому

      ​@@pakistannowthen916exactly just like me, meri 1.5 sal mangni rahi arrange marriage bat waghaira nai hoe hmari JB shadi hoe to pta chala larka mentally ill hai I tried my best k ghr bas jy Kisi trha lakin mery husband NY har tarha sy mental tourcher krna apny ghr walo or mery m galat fehmiya dalni Jan boj KR or phir kmry m ja k hsna k ye SB to bardasht krna he pry ga ghr nai baisan apna m ny har wakt us Ka mo dekhna k Kitna ajeeb hai but after 4 months my parents took stand for me alhamdulilah jaisy m ny waha 4 mahiny guzarny hai mujy pta hai JB insan Kisi mushkil m ho ek ek lamha gyzarna mushkil hota hai koi Soch b nai skta k sari Zindagi kaisy koi esy insan k sath rehy

  • @saladinrajput4012
    @saladinrajput4012 3 роки тому +4

    Dr Sab I am Huge Fan of Your nd Your Family Ap Real Mankind Hoo Hamre Ik Relatives k Treatment K Hawale se Jitni Ap ne Supportive Action Liya Allah apko Hamesha kush Rakhe 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @abbhadana9890
    @abbhadana9890 3 роки тому +2

    Widows & divorced women sy shadi krna boht ajar o swab ka kam hai jis k baray ma pyaare Nabi saw ne hukam b dia ha

  • @amiarooba
    @amiarooba 3 роки тому +3

    Sir has a beautiful strong accent. His voice quality is as good as Zia Moheeudin.

  • @junaidansari817
    @junaidansari817 5 місяців тому +2

    I've came across a divorce girl I found her really good wanted to marry her but don't know how to insist my family

  • @naturelplace
    @naturelplace 3 роки тому +7

    الحَمْدُ ِلله ڈاکٹر صاحب ميں نے ايک طلاق يافتہ عورت سے شادی کی ھے وہ بھی عمر ميں مجھ سے عمر ميں بھی بڑی ھے اور اس نے مجھے خود پرپوز کيا اور ميری دوسری شادی ھے اس کو يہ بھی پتہ ھے

  • @Muhammad-gn8cd
    @Muhammad-gn8cd 3 роки тому +7

    Can someone request this lady to let Javaid sb speak and not to interrupt him plz

  • @shoutforit
    @shoutforit 3 роки тому +13

    When elders are talking wisdom. Can children please keep quiet. This girl talking and laughing in the background is distracting.

  • @Yousafmadnihost
    @Yousafmadnihost 3 роки тому +7

    ڈاکٹر صاحب دی گرئٹ ۔ زبردست ۔ ماشاء الله

  • @nareshkumar-ep2oi
    @nareshkumar-ep2oi 3 роки тому +4

    Nice thinking 🙏🙏👌

  • @ajamira3672
    @ajamira3672 3 роки тому +3

    I am divorced girl aur mujc mre husbnd n sb k khilaf jak mujc shadi ki aur ab phir c dbra gar walo ki btao m ak muje chor rahe hn plz sb dua kre k mre sath dbra asa kuch na ho i m very worried

  • @adeelhussain5214
    @adeelhussain5214 Місяць тому

    JAZAK ALLAH O KHAIRAN KASIRA

  • @crazyboy6006
    @crazyboy6006 3 роки тому +3

    Sir, I think home grooming impact a lot on human personality. What I observe and analyze in our society, that there is a mistake in the upbringing of our children. This means if a child is a boy then parents don't make him capable of taking decisions and risk in life although they know that he is a male and in future, he has to manage all family affairs by himself and he will become Qawam of his own house. Bhle woh 20-25 saal ka hojaye but even then parents say "Tum abhi chotte ho tumhe nai pta" jis ki wjh s decision making skills enhance nai ho pati, or self-confidence alag loss hota hai and in result shadi k baad itna mature decision-maker nai hota jiski wjh s i thuink "Divorce ratio" zyada ho rha hai..
    On a girls side: Mothers raise their girls in a very sophisticated environment and can't make them able to do their own things jiski wjh s kaam krne ki adat nkal jati hai or jub shadi k baad naye ghar jati hain to purana wala mind set hi hota hai k kaam nai krna. Or agr bigger picture main analyze kia jaye to 1 women p poori generation ki zimedaari hoti hai k woh 1 ache citizens promote kr ske.
    Conclusion: Excessive mobie usage ki wjh s hum short term thinkers bn gaye hain or galti 2no sides ki hai. Baki degree s ar koi ye smjhe k ye aqalmand hai ya mature hai to bewakoof hi hoga decision lene wala bhi

    • @fahadali3136
      @fahadali3136 3 роки тому

      100% truth . Exactly what i think. The fears and negative qualities i possess in my current self, i will always blame them on my parents.
      They never understand tbh

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd784 3 роки тому +33

    Always marry divorced girls they r part of us nd human being just like males give them respect irrespective of virgin or married

    • @learnchildrenwithchild3686
      @learnchildrenwithchild3686 3 роки тому +1

      Aaj kl ye koi nhi krta.shaan ghat jati h mard ki.....

    • @shabbirhussain8803
      @shabbirhussain8803 2 роки тому

      Ye bat ghalt he divorce hony k peechy wjah hoti he. Awen nh hoti divorce har kahani alag he

    • @sira5977
      @sira5977 2 роки тому +4

      @@shabbirhussain8803 bilkul. Lekin har baar wajah ladki ke hissay mai dal dena galat baat hai.

    • @nematullahali6481
      @nematullahali6481 Рік тому

      @@sira5977 absolutely correct 💯

    • @bilalbaig9360
      @bilalbaig9360 Рік тому

      ویسے ہی مردوں کو بدنام کیا جاتا ہے طلاق یافتہ مردوں سے بھی شادی کوٸی نہیں کرتا

  • @hadditv5749
    @hadditv5749 3 роки тому +2

    Best teacher 👍👍👍

  • @awkallinbox2100
    @awkallinbox2100 3 роки тому +2

    Every one is hero own his valley

  • @user-qn2fp8nj3x
    @user-qn2fp8nj3x 7 місяців тому

    Very informative and nice 🎉

  • @zebakhan1421
    @zebakhan1421 3 роки тому +4

    Aslamualikum sir ap ne bht ache bat ki Allah taala sb logo m ap jese khayalaat ki hidayat de ap ki soch bht achi h

  • @guriag4579
    @guriag4579 3 роки тому +3

    Kehne ki baten hain koi nai pochta talaq yafta ko ,koi nai pochta k waja kia thi ilzam aurat ko hi dety hain..maa baap is ghum main dunya se rukhsat ho jaty hain...kitni zindagiyan tabah ho jati hain...

  • @mujahidahmed7402
    @mujahidahmed7402 2 роки тому +2

    Assalamualaikum
    I want to do nikah with a divorce girl but my parents didn't agree for it .
    I told them about her they started thinking what society will say about my family

    • @hassankhadim5106
      @hassankhadim5106 Рік тому

      Same here

    • @bianbde1683
      @bianbde1683 3 місяці тому

      Do what makes you happy. I know a guy who is physically v unhappy with his wife. He is stuck Bcz of his kids. Got married to the girl because of arrange marriage type thing. The guy is v good looking and the girl is not his match. We both had great chemistry and compatibility in every aspect. But he is just stuck. I told him that I could become his second wife if he had the courage to take the step. I think this person is weak emotionally. Not in touch with him anymore but I feel very sad for him some days.

  • @guriag4579
    @guriag4579 3 роки тому +3

    Shadi krty hain tou beti se maa baap b nai pochty unki merzi ...chand log jo betion ki baat ko b sunty unki merzi many hain...lekin aisa kam hota hai

    • @kkking.8
      @kkking.8 3 роки тому +1

      Talim ki kami or islam se dori ka nateja hy ..k girl ko aik janwar ki tarhan kisi bhi khonthy se band do wo kuch nahe kehti ..or dosri side ager larki zahen ho or apni zahanat se tehzeb main rehty howy bhi bat karny ka hunar janti ho toh kuch sharpasand uoratin he khandan main us ko ye bol kar badnam kar deti hain k bhi falan ki larki ki toh zaban tez hy us se reshta mat karna ..

    • @sameeribnmuhamedabushaza3730
      @sameeribnmuhamedabushaza3730 3 роки тому

      Love u dear

  • @urduwazaifchannel
    @urduwazaifchannel 3 роки тому +4

    Great lecture......Jazakallah dr sb

  • @x2diaries506
    @x2diaries506 3 роки тому +7

    Sir 2nd marriage pr bhi ek vlog krain kindly.

  • @ameerullahbrohi7954
    @ameerullahbrohi7954 3 роки тому

    Mashallah every topic is related with islam amazing

  • @faheem.ulhaq.siddiqui
    @faheem.ulhaq.siddiqui 3 роки тому +1

    Zabardast baatain.

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd784 3 роки тому +5

    We males are powerfull not to dominate females we r power to full fill our responsibilities as a human

  • @iJagraho
    @iJagraho Рік тому

    پروفسسر صاحب آپ بھی آدھا تیتر اور آدھا بٹیر ہیں - آپ کا علم اور عمل دونوں !!

  • @shamimrawish9552
    @shamimrawish9552 3 роки тому +2

    Beve mn k ghar gaee ho to Parosan aa ja ay, lekin Hum office jain to Beve k Cousin ka aana bhee , hamy bardast nahee kuja k Parosee mard akaila ho aur hamareee usk ghar sy nikly, ye hi Seedhee bat. Hum kisy dhoka dy rahy hn, hum us mashreqe moaashry mn rah rahy hn jahan hum samajhty hi Souraj Magrib sy nikalta hi.

  • @MaryAngel361
    @MaryAngel361 3 роки тому +11

    plz sir single mother parenting k liye guide karde jb father non serious ho to mother kaise deal kare husband ko k woh bachon ki tarbiyat sahi tarah kar sake

    • @funnyclips660
      @funnyclips660 3 роки тому

      Kon sa father apnai bachai kai liyai non serious hota hai 😑😑😑
      Yai kab hogiya???????

    • @nasrinansary24
      @nasrinansary24 3 роки тому

      I also need these topic

    • @doctoronline5501
      @doctoronline5501 3 роки тому

      Kindly ap log kids ko ziada time dady so that child cannot develep autism ...
      Second you should yourself busy with ur kids and motivate yourself always ..
      Be brave enough to handle all these hurdles ...
      Dr junaid from peshawar waiting for someone to marry me too 🤣

  • @mehnazhassan3587
    @mehnazhassan3587 3 роки тому +1

    Nice words

  • @bilqueeskhalil9900
    @bilqueeskhalil9900 23 дні тому

    Aslam o elekum sir after my divorce ibeg my father for divorce after all come changes five times prayersThajjud israaq determine to iam right. Eith my prayers Islah dua alla convert all problem crises Hidayat yafta but still alone ithink you remember my problem old age mother Bilquis Khalil Feroza khalil Thanks

  • @syedayaan5937
    @syedayaan5937 3 роки тому +3

    ❤ from Kashmir

    • @bedowntoearth1591
      @bedowntoearth1591 2 роки тому

      I m also divorcee coz my husband is drug addictive

  • @sanaaminsana9153
    @sanaaminsana9153 8 днів тому +1

    Bari age k mardon k bare main video baanyee k kaise hoty hai in se shadi karni chahiye k nhi

  • @ShaikhShah-ip4ms
    @ShaikhShah-ip4ms Місяць тому

    Shaukat 😊 my husband
    Log kahte hai ki mai lucky hun mujhe Shaukat jaisa shohar mile unmarried rahte hue mujh jaisi khula talaq shuda se shadi ki mai khud ko duniya ki sab se khush naseeb aurt manne lagi thi alhamdulilah hame ek beti bhi hai
    Khush naseeb aurat to wo hoti hai jiska shohar usse razi ho khush ho afsos mai khush naseeb aurton me se nahi😢
    Dua ki darkhwast app sabhi se mujhe apne shohar ki ladki bivi banna hai mai used hun to ban nahi sakti 😢😢😢😢😢 sirf ek bar wo mujh se kahe meri pyari bivi dua ki darkhwast

  • @aneeraraheem6022
    @aneeraraheem6022 3 роки тому +5

    Meri b divorce Hui thi meri shadi phr hui us shakhs k eak beti hai woh b 16 saal k or usk bivi mar chuki hai mera is shadi c eak beta hai or meri bht larie hoti plz main bht preshan hun

    • @mrsazar5826
      @mrsazar5826 3 роки тому +5

      Pyari behna ap apas me larai ki jo bhi wajah hy ap usey khatam kr den Jin baton pr larai hoti hy un baton ko na honey den, agar shohar kuch bura keh den to ignore kr den Aur apney mizaj me narmi rakhen dil ko bra rakhen , Jb shohar gussa kren to kabhi jawab na den palat kr, balky ya Azeezu ka wird kr k khud pr dam kr len ,shohar ki pehli beti ko boht muhabbat den ye Soch kr k ye Allah ki makhlook hy aur ap usey Allah k liye maa ki trah pyar den, kbhi dono bachon me koi farq na kren,apka beta bhi ay aulad shohar aur bv me lakh ikhtilafat hon phir bhi inky rishtey ko mazboot bna deti hy, Allah pr bharosa rakhen,ghr basaney k liye boht mehnat krni hogi behna, bilkul wese hi jese Kisan beej bony se le kr fasal katney tak krta hy , baki namaz k Sath Sath hr wqt ya Wadoodu ka wird krti raha kren aur Allah se dua kren k Allah ap dono ke dil me aik Dorsey k liye muhabbat dal de. Ye dilon azmooda hy ap zaroor krna ,parh kr khud pr aur shohar pr dam kr den, shohar k ilamat jis se bhi larai rehti hy is k Sath bhi kr sakti Hyn bas niyyat saf Joni chahiye Baki choti choti baten ignore kr diye kren dil preshan ho to quran pak ko tarjuma k Sath parhen khud ko busy rakhen, hat hal me Allah ka shukr ada kren aur sadqa Allah ki kisi bhi makhlooq ko zaroor kia kren Allah apke hr kam ko Asan kr de ga in Sha Allah.

    • @saadawan589
      @saadawan589 3 роки тому

      Aneera talk to me

    • @aneeraraheem6022
      @aneeraraheem6022 3 роки тому +2

      @@saadawan589 g

    • @aneeraraheem6022
      @aneeraraheem6022 3 роки тому +1

      @@mrsazar5826 kya apka koi sutela bacha hai yah bachi jis c shadi hui unk bivi zinda hai k mar gai

    • @kingshan7635
      @kingshan7635 3 роки тому

      Nimaz aur sabr sy duya kia krain hum b ap ky ley krain gay zror

  • @turabmir6346
    @turabmir6346 2 роки тому +1

    Lekin agar wife husband alag hojay tu bachon ko kia hoga mother ke pass rehny den ya father ke pass?

    • @Awaz-e-Ummat
      @Awaz-e-Ummat 6 місяців тому

      Agar orat ko dusri shadi karni ho or esa ho jaye ki orat ko bachon ko Nana Nani ke pass chorna pade to is se behtar he ki bachon ko uske baap ke pass rakha jaye...

  • @lubnaawan3300
    @lubnaawan3300 3 роки тому +1

    Nice

  • @CravingEats
    @CravingEats Місяць тому

    I m ready to get marry a divorced or a widowed women. M living in Dubai.. Please comment for details..

  • @dirikkhan2878
    @dirikkhan2878 3 роки тому +1

    very true now boys are considering divorced woman more than unmarried girls. also they are more towards older woman I don't know why. May be its good too but like this unmarried young girls are sitting at home which is also not good on the other side

  • @NoorKhan-tz2hg
    @NoorKhan-tz2hg 3 роки тому +4

    Sir mare b tahlaq hui hy AJ se 15 sal hu gy hn beta b 15 sal Ka Hy Zindagi buhut mushkill Hy koe gar asra b ni us admi ne 15 sal se kharcha b ni data bate ki waja 2ri shadi b ni koe asra ni dar badar hn

    • @btspakistan6821
      @btspakistan6821 3 роки тому +1

      Sister aub law bohat sakht hen ap adalat jyen adalat ap ko 15 sal ka kharcha ly ky dy gi ap ko himmat kurni ho hi ik dafa court chli gai to adalat ap ko us ki property sale kur ky kharcha ly ky dy gi

    • @cooking-scope
      @cooking-scope 3 роки тому +1

      @@btspakistan6821 adalat k chakkar Aur kahi Saal lag janay hen Aur paisa b lag jata he lekkin insaaf koye nhi

    • @kingshan7635
      @kingshan7635 3 роки тому

      Apnkaha sy hain ? Can we talk some if you serious???

  • @Kashi-Bajwa
    @Kashi-Bajwa 3 роки тому +4

    Har insan ajkal apni taraf se speaker bana phirta hai

  • @nabeelahmed5738
    @nabeelahmed5738 2 роки тому

    Im also looking forward that kinda women insha Allah

  • @ataullahkhan3306
    @ataullahkhan3306 Рік тому

    Hum Allah se dua kren Allah talak yafta ka dard nhi dekh sakta bhejega Apna Naik banda uske dil mei Mohabbat dalkr ☝🏼💞 Allah sabki dilon se milaye naik

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN68 3 роки тому +1

    Western people including the ladies accept us as equal humans regardless of our religion, race, caste, sub caste, ethnicity, sect, financial and social status, our parents education and profession, etc. Maybe i will get hate and curses for speaking the truth. I used to post for matrimonial for myself, and used to write the fact that i am alone, and i used to get so many hate and curse comments telling me i don't have a right to get married, just because i am alone! What kind of tradition is this? Pakistanis do the world's strictest investigations for marriage, they have the most difficult rules and criteria for selection, yet divorce rate is one of the highest in the world! So despite such strict rules and investigations and interviews they get divorced, so what is the use of such hard selection criteria? And what difference does it make if someone is alone?

  • @sabahatansari4335
    @sabahatansari4335 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing

  • @munazzamano
    @munazzamano 3 роки тому +12

    Koi change nai aaya na aaye ga talaq shuda se shadi aaj bhi log krna mayoob samjhty hain talaq ki stamp uski pori zindgi lagi rehti hy phir koi bachon wala hi karay to karay otherwise logon k zehen qabool hi nai krty k unk bety ki shadi divorced se ho it's fact 😑

    • @x2diaries506
      @x2diaries506 3 роки тому +2

      I think we need to revise our minds and promote this video. If I got chance I shall marry with the widow.

    • @waqad3063
      @waqad3063 3 роки тому

      @@x2diaries506 nice thinking 👍

    • @x2diaries506
      @x2diaries506 3 роки тому +1

      @@waqad3063 The marriage is simplest by all means but our society makes it so difficult and extra-marital relationships are seams easy and very common in our society. So I think If I could able to contribute I definelty will do.

    • @hadiyaaslam5461
      @hadiyaaslam5461 3 роки тому +3

      apny bilkul thk kaha divorced women ki koi apni zaat ni rehti koi kuch ni samjta kum hi next luck se acha gar or life partner milta

    • @hadiyaaslam5461
      @hadiyaaslam5461 3 роки тому +2

      @@x2diaries506 good thinking bro buhat ajar mily ga

  • @umerhayat1590
    @umerhayat1590 5 місяців тому +1

    Kash ke ulma bevao or talaq yafta ke hq me baat krein

  • @drizzle786
    @drizzle786 3 роки тому +1

    Agreed

  • @RajaShoaib-pz7du
    @RajaShoaib-pz7du Місяць тому

    Assalam o Alaikum sir mri pehli shadi hui thi Mgr affsos kamyab nhi hui ubi dosri shadi divorced or yateem larki k sth kr rha hun unka 1 bacha b h kya m us bachyn ko apne sth rakh skhta hun

  • @rabiatariq2550
    @rabiatariq2550 3 роки тому +1

    Sir.... Ap councling k liye time dyte hyn?

  • @bab3003
    @bab3003 3 роки тому

    ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب

  • @pakistannowthen916
    @pakistannowthen916 3 роки тому +7

    Divorcee girl is more difficult to handle. Although one should learn how to handle her. Aap ne khud agar ek divorcee se shadi nahi ki tou aap ko is bat ka andaza hi nahi.

    • @bpp827
      @bpp827 Рік тому

      What about divorced men...😂😂 galti men ki bhi ho sakti hai .. divorce Dene me...har jagah aurto ki galti nahi hoti..

  • @naeemkhan1951
    @naeemkhan1951 3 роки тому +2

    Janab dr. sahib West is not all Azad ,Here in uk citizens are living under thousands of rules and regulations and most people obey and respect these and any body who doesnt gets punished.There is no safaresh.

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd784 3 роки тому +2

    We humans are still like animals in a sense males are powerfull they dominate opoostie gender ......
    We all males come out of women we should respect every human irrespect of gender color age etc

  • @ziaulislam8502
    @ziaulislam8502 3 роки тому +1

    Ma to krna chahta ho magar koi mel nhi rahi

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN68 3 роки тому +1

    Sir agar Pakistani divorced will lower her extremely materialistic demands, stop judging everyone negatively, she will definaly be able to get married. At least in western cultures the women don't sell themselves. By the way, anti-depressants and alcohol consumption is very very high here too.

  • @salehfaraj7546
    @salehfaraj7546 3 роки тому +1

    muhtarama sir ko bat complete karny du

  • @MianAwais-jv9ru
    @MianAwais-jv9ru 3 місяці тому

    Ok

  • @amnasultan2462
    @amnasultan2462 3 роки тому +5

    JazakAllah sach haq baat bolte hai

  • @saleemtobe-fit1533
    @saleemtobe-fit1533 3 роки тому

    Excellent

  • @ahsanshahab7462
    @ahsanshahab7462 3 роки тому +6

    MashaAllah ❤️

  • @nmdnmd8306
    @nmdnmd8306 3 роки тому +3

    What's the meaning of fardh can someone plz translate for me.

  • @12345jamilful
    @12345jamilful 3 роки тому +1

    محترم ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ میری بات سے ناراض نہ ہوجائیں . لیکن پہلے مغرب اورر اس کی معاشرت کو پڑھ لیں مسلم عبد ھے اور عبد غلام ہوتا ھے اس کی اپنی کوئی مرضی نہیں ہوتی وہ ہر معملے میں اتباع کرتا ھے ہم بلکل آزاد نہیں ھیں کسی بھی ڈومین میں

  • @syedahmed6688
    @syedahmed6688 3 роки тому +2

    Really I like your each & every video very informative & interesting thanks a lot
    I wish could meet you personally
    Syed suhail ahmed
    New Delhi India

  • @kingshan7635
    @kingshan7635 3 роки тому

    Main zror kr ga aisa krny ki agr koi achi divorced girl....

  • @zaimarasheed5203
    @zaimarasheed5203 3 роки тому +1

    Plz make a video about that kind of persons who continue their past relationship after marriage.....
    What should she do and don't

  • @amks...9423
    @amks...9423 2 роки тому

    Agar aisa hota to last prophet of islam pbuh baaki 10 shaadiyan widows se kyun kiye? is mein solution hai ya nhi jab hum janenge tab to???

  • @subaidamohamed774
    @subaidamohamed774 2 роки тому

    Assalamualaikum Varahmathullahi Vabarakathuhu

  • @Fal01100
    @Fal01100 3 роки тому

    kindly sitting posture descent karain ...side se bhut ajeeb sa lag rha ha....

  • @ishankhullar3295
    @ishankhullar3295 3 роки тому +1

    Sir, Eid Mubarak. I want to watch one of your videos, I searched that video but could not find that one. I need link for that video. In that video you are taking about ethics and morality and you are giving the example of a poor man and a staff member of a hospital. The poor man is asking whether I should get the operation done in your costly hospital or a little cheaper another hospital.
    I need link of one more video in which you said that Character is what you are when no one is seeing you.
    Best regards

  • @naseeruddinkarnataka9981
    @naseeruddinkarnataka9981 3 роки тому

    Jahan Shohar acha hota hai wahan bivi Haraami hoti hai aur Jahan bivi achi hoti hai wahan shohar Haraami hota hai.fir kaise bhala jeendagi me sukun mile.hargis nahi Mein to Har Namaaz me duva karta hun Har Haraami Aurat aur Haraami mard allah kisiki bivi aur kisika mard Na banaaye.aameen.

  • @razashah7881
    @razashah7881 3 роки тому +2

    Sir, pehli bat to ye hey k me is topic par aap sey mzeed detail chahta hun, or isey mzeed asaan ilfaz me samjhaen k is amal ko ham kis tarha aagey barhaen?
    2nd: me aksar aik jumla qoute karta hun. "almiya ye nahi k new generation khraab ho rahi hey, balkey musibat ye hey k aaney wali generations ko khraab waldain milengey" is bat ka hzaaron pehlu nikal saktey hen,, lakin me ney ye bat kis context me kahi?
    Sir, me apney halqa e ehbaab me apney doston ko chand cheezon par kafi arsey sey qael kar raha hun jis ki is muashrey ko ashad zroorat hey jis me especially jahaiz na lena ya usey jitna ho sakey minimze karna, aik acha husband kesey ban'na hey, or shadi k bad wali life me halaat ko kesey sambhaalna hey, chotey motey kamon me bivi ki help karna, usko respect dena, or uska har tarha sey khyal rakhna (bad qismati sey jisey jahil log "ran mureedi kehtey hen) or jis thumbnail ko dekh kar me ne is video par click kiya yani aik tlaaq yafta, ya aik ghreeb larki sey shadi karna ye sari cheezen me apney doston sey aksar okat discuss karta hun, new generation ye sab kuch karna chahti hey,, lakin Sir, bohat mazrat k sath hmarey parents ka woi purana mind set,, uskey hathon majboor hojatey hen ham log. hamari ye dili khwahish hey, or awaleen tarjeeh hey k ham aik hlaal rishtey me zroorat mand larkiyon ka sahara banen.. lakin ham apney parents ko kesey qael karen ko wo hamen is bat ki ijazat den or un sey nafrat na karen.

    • @waqasali8675
      @waqasali8675 3 роки тому

      me b jan'na chahti hu agr koi solutions mily to btana mjhy aur aisi girl jisko 2 time divorce hue ho uska kya future is society me yh b btana

    • @razashah7881
      @razashah7881 3 роки тому

      @@waqasali8675 dekhen, punjabi me aik misaal di jati hey shyed aapney suni ho "so hath rassa tey ak hath gadd" agar at the end, fesla hmarey parents ney hi karna hey to hmari apni soch gai pahaar me. ham jitna bhi acha soch len, agar hmarey parents ney hi purney mind set me phsey rehna hey hmesha, to phir hmara sochna kafi had tak besood ho jata hey, to just us waqt impliment ho sakta hey jab hmarey bachey hongey or ham unko is tarha ki tarbiyat dengey, jo filwaqt halaat chal rahey hen wo sabhi jaantey hen k aik tlaak yafta larki ki muashrey me koi izzat nahi hoti, wo dhutkari hui hoti hey, old mind set sey hmarey baron me achayyon k sath sath bohat sari khraabiyan bhi grab ki hen, jo k abhi tak sath chalti aa rahi hen. hamarey parents just logic ko hi dekh len to msaael hal ho saktey hen. lakin wo esa nahi kartey, wo dunya dari ko dekhtey hen or hinduana rasm o riwaaj jo dekhtey hen. agar baghor dekha jaey to esi community zulm ka sath de rahi hoti hey chahey phir unko pta ho ya na. bohat sari majbooriyan ham ney aaj k doar me bilawja bna rakhi hen, or sab sey bari baat k log kya kahengey. agar me apney barey me kuch kahon to wo ye hey, k me kam az kam apney bachon ko ye bat zroor samjhonga "Love for someone's heart, not their Wealth. A good Heart is bigger than anything."

    • @waqasali8675
      @waqasali8675 3 роки тому

      do u have instagram or fb account mjhy kuch bt krni hai in detail if you don't mind

  • @ZubairKhan-ex2si
    @ZubairKhan-ex2si 3 роки тому +1

    Assalam o alaikum, sir aap understand to ache se karte ho, but aap ki jo topic hoti hai usko aap ghuma dete ho phir concept clear nahi ho pati hai❓❓❓❓

  • @MUSHTAQMALIKCHANNEROFFICIAL
    @MUSHTAQMALIKCHANNEROFFICIAL 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome Dear

  • @basicenglishknowledge3815
    @basicenglishknowledge3815 3 роки тому

    Good

  • @abdul.aziz.ansaraziz250
    @abdul.aziz.ansaraziz250 3 роки тому

    Dr.shb.slam.

  • @SalmanQureshi-sh3mc
    @SalmanQureshi-sh3mc Рік тому

    سر میں آپ کے لیکچرز سے بہت فائدہ اٹھاتا ہوں۔ لیکن طلاق سے متعلق آپ کے اس لیکچر کے اس حصہ سے متفق نہیں ہوں کہ طلاق عورت کو حقوق نہ ملنے کی وجہ سے ہوتی ہے۔ یہ بھی ایک وجہ تو ضرور ہو سکتی ہے تاہم زیادہ تر خواتین کی طلاق کی وجہ اپنے حقوق کے بارے میں مطلوبہ حد سے زیادہ حساس ہونے کی وجہ سے ہوتی ہے۔ ابھی تک آپ کے سنے گئے لیکچرز میں سے یہ واحد لیکچر ہے جس سے جزوی اختلاف کیا ہے۔

  • @yourszee5314
    @yourszee5314 3 роки тому +2

    MashAllah u r great Sir

  • @ibrahimmd4369
    @ibrahimmd4369 3 роки тому +1

    Garib Larky sy Shaadi par ek video banaye please. Kya Ek Amir Larki Garib Larky sy Shaadi kyon nahi kar sakty Aap Sirf Ek tarfa baat kyon karte hai Janab

  • @ayyaz9803
    @ayyaz9803 3 роки тому +7

    Ye meri khuwish h k mai tallaq shuda larki se shadi kru

  • @muhammadhamid1961
    @muhammadhamid1961 11 місяців тому

    Nice video lekin ye jo. Larki bich me bol bol k disturb krdya or sara tempo tordya... Sir smjha rhe he or wo tang krhi

  • @abdulsamadshaikh3696
    @abdulsamadshaikh3696 3 роки тому

    How woman suitable , for second marriage. No shyness, No hesitation.
    One time marriage is enough...

    • @bpp827
      @bpp827 Рік тому

      Men do char biwi la de wo enough hai..😂😂

  • @movieshots790
    @movieshots790 3 роки тому

    Dr Saab think about ur junior Drs...raise voice against private medical colleges...I think you urself running a private medical college...

  • @syedkalimullah2011
    @syedkalimullah2011 3 роки тому +3

    Girls k Divorced bawt hoo rah ha ajkal ... Magr Boys divorced girls sy shadi nae karty Reason parent ha No permission :( ALLAH Hum sub ko Hadyath de Allah Sub girls ki shadi Karya Ameen

  • @awkallinbox2100
    @awkallinbox2100 3 роки тому +1

    Don't be a jack of all trade live within your area

  • @m.umairgani82
    @m.umairgani82 3 роки тому

    Sir apse contact kaise ho skta hai

  • @ijazkhan-gx9ip
    @ijazkhan-gx9ip 3 роки тому

    I think bill was only promote the devorce .that is resiion of his Devorce .

  • @tahiratabassum5345
    @tahiratabassum5345 3 роки тому

    Though good video...but too much interruption by the lady

  • @babarishaque259
    @babarishaque259 3 роки тому +2

    خاتون کی آواز نے بہت زیادہ تنگ کیا ۔

  • @samanali4418
    @samanali4418 3 роки тому +2

    Mere apne maamu mumani ne apne bete ko mujhse shadi karne se sakht mana kardia as i was divorcee

    • @fahadsayed6104
      @fahadsayed6104 3 роки тому

      Insha Allah Allah bless you great care taking husband don't worry leave things to The All Mighty Allah

  • @muhammadijazghallu2507
    @muhammadijazghallu2507 3 роки тому

    I want to marry a divorced or widow

  • @cookgaming7096
    @cookgaming7096 3 роки тому

    Asslamualekum
    Maqsood khan alig