"She doesn't have money to pay me",pride comes before a fall,Obina you'll only enjoy this now when Ada and Lola are still kids She needs respect irregardles
Ati 'for anybody watching this, ukidecide kuzaa, zaa na mtu ako na akili'?? Kaka Obinna get a hold of your anger. Don't drag all men into your issues. YOU took the actions, face the consequences and there is a way to do it away from social media. Na hakuna MAMA asiye na akili, kuzaa peke yake ni akili tosha! When you insult the mother of your children, that is an insult to your children. Drop your pride and get counsel. A man is a leader and with leadership comes responsibility. One responsibility is to protect your children, kids don't know brands, they know their father!
we should stop being judgemental only God can judge Obina is a good dad that's more important we are single mothers here struggling alone to raise our kids he is one of the few who actually own up to their responsibilities...
Obinna stop behaving like its mama Ada who started this..ni wewe ulianza hii ujinga ya kuleta drama zenu youtube. Poisoning your own kids to hate their mother..SHAME.Why don't you want her to do interviews,wewe pia uko hapa unafanya interview na kila mtu.Atleast we have known she is saying the truth
@@sheabouyarnie5733 they should all respect each other. From this conversation you can tell Obinna is arrogant and keeps mentioning how the woman will suffer without him and bragging about his money. Typical example of "maskini akipata matako hulia mbwata". Anyone in her shoes will react the same. Have you seen how he uses his kids to find issues from the lady. Check the videos you will see the woman was always irked. In general if someone wants to find a problem in you atasema hata you do not breath properly when you are just calm. This man has a problem, three baby mamas. The kids are almost at the same age, it is clear he even cheated on her but the woman akavumilia na kukaa just as the society expects us to. Anaongea maneno mengi very useless. Ashakosea huyu mmama ye ashughulikie watoto wake na apeane respect tu, the lady will calm down. Their dirt linen was aired by him first with the aim of defaming the lady to her own kids and she just responded. Probably he thought the woman will be quiet sahizi anajitetea for the sake of his career and even sending threats in an effort to shut her down.
Seils doty this not the real issues but just a presenting issue. Kuna mambo only that they are sharing what they think the views to hear.. the worst part is involving their children in all these drama.
If you're about to believe Obinna kindly go to the interview he did with Jalas and watch him confess how this particular baby mama stood with him. Hakumbuki🚮🚮
I used to respect Oga Obinna, but after watching how he is dragging his kids am pissed off!what is even bad is that the two step kids seem to be acting reporter of everything about his ex wife to him and Obinna entertains it!what is a child of 12 years doing in youtube with no parental guidance watching what his step mum's interview!I don't get it!surely the person that needs help is you Oga Obinna not your ex!you started it all by recording your kids saying things about their mum!take those kids for therapy!how do you call those kids your kids when two seem to hate the mother of the other!how would you feel if you had step kids that look down upon your own mum???????soon the other two will become uncomfortable with discussing their mum and start hating!stop torturing this woman and maintain your lane!the more you talk the more you look as if you are desperate to hide something! if your 5 year olds are thinking like grown ups, something isn't right, they have been exposed to toxicity!stop bragging to be earning more money than the mother of your kids!don't forget she had to sit home and tolerate sh*t and still had to give birth and take care of your kids while you worked!!everything is press record and so what you are advising your fellow men is to gaslight women and press record !!!!surely Oga obinna!
He must lower his pride,, mtoto wa 12 years anasema nininkuhusu ndoa ya wazazi wao. This obinna is very silly. Anakalisha watoto chini feeding them with lies then recording,, bure kabisa
This man is a typical narcissist.Its very clear that money has transformed this man into a wicked fool. May God come through for Lillian. I know how it feels to be despised by a man because of lack of financial independence. May God come through for Lillian.
Na kwani huyo Lilian ni kiwete? Is she aware that some single mothers don't have even their baby daddy's contacts wacha yeye analelewa watoto? She should be appreciative and respectful to this gentleman.
@@susananyango6471 am a single mum and am working my f**kng *ss out sasa huyo anatuambia nn sikuizi n kujituma hawa ndo wanafikiria if things don't work someone needs to help u 1
After listening from both Obinna and the baby mama...Obi you are the problem,I think money and fame has gotten to your head please even if she earns twenty thousands as long as she earns genuinely...she came out because you started showing her in bad light during your daughters birthday she was just telling her side of the story.
The bottom line of this fight is that Obinna has/had been cheating on Lilian, but he doesn't recognize it as a problem. And the other issue is that he's tainting her name in the eyes of the children and even posting. This is what needs to be sorted. Hizi drama zinaboo,mgrow bana.
So what !!! Muache Obinna and his drama alone;don’t judge people when you have never been part of the life they lived- what if the wife is lying, what will you say
Kids will always be on their mother side no matter how much you brain wash them... One day you will be surprised and depressed when those kids comes to their senses.
Funny thing people are saying that so long as he provides he is right are the same people that will react once some one dies in an emotionally abusive marriage and they stayed coz of the provision
She may not afford all those with her 20k a month; but you can ... The same God that gave you can easily take it back and give your baby mama more than you earn. Money is not everything. And the sooner you realize that the better.
*Bro stop poisoning your kids with negativity that their mum is bad remember you are both parents to those kids and they didnt apply for you to give birth to them so respect them dont involve them to you comedy solve your things behind the tent*
I can't judge you neither the woman the choice is yours and whatever choice you will make it will have consequences but all in all am wishing you all the best in your life
The narcissistic characteristics of a true narcissist....The lady in question is crying for help ... True narcissist card makes one believe they are the problem...not the other .
Why did you share the videos on the kids youtube channel??so you wanted her not to respond??A very selfish being,how were the kids mistreated??kila mtu aende alelewe na mama yake,atleast their mums are not dead
well women are great at buying sympathy she is playing you and everyone who thinks she is an angel. or you think she is in capable of dividing chocolate in a half?
This man right here is a sick one Beware of a patner that patronizes you... that's a toxic lot y'all... anyone noticed how he's evading questions and using 'the boy child phenomenal ' he's the true definition of a narcissist.. he's the one that needs help y'all.
This guy is a narcissist.Wanapenda kuona other people suffering.I can't believe is the same person who was advising Mulamua na Eric kuhusu relationships zao.
@@janengala5937 they don't even know the meaning of narcissist,if a narcissist can pay for my children fees and rent ya 40k na gari what else do I need from a man we have separated
You will be a fool of a lifetime,,, taking your baby mama to jail you will a fool I bet...ata wewe uliongea vibaya and money is just is just useless you can't take that woman to jail again you will be a fool🚮hii ni pride haina miguu... just accept you two are wrong In a way or another,,,, you are not an angel you pretend to be for the sake of those kids just man up and make peace
Money is not everything,, for now you can jail her thinking it will be well,, the guilt will kill you. Don't think your children will be happy seeing there mother in jail.
Everything is blooming most recklessly it's an unbelievable story. "This is not something people get over, this is something people carry with them forever like a bullet in the spine."
Obina is not answering the questions ,,, brooooh jibu swali if yes or no mbona unabeat around the bush and not answering the questions. He is explaining bullshit and not answering the questios asked🚮🚮🚮
Obinna is too full of himself. He is belittling his wife because he earns more than her. What hurts more is him involving children in all these shit. He goes as far as encouraging Lilian's children to talk negative of their own mother; very wrong. I hope all these will not cost Obinna anything. He should remember he is a public figure with so many people looking up to him, so how he handles situations such as this one speaks volumes about his personality. He should be careful.
If one can speak this way about his BM in public, what is he saying to her in private? If you can disrespect your children's mother in public, who will you respect? Anasema she has disrespected herself and he has 3 BMs before turning 30, help me somebody who has disrespected themselves here? And he admits to not knowing what he was doing then so anafaa aseme pole to the women for bringing them into his mess.
Oga just manner up. We are tired of this nonsense. No matter what she will remain ur bby mama en ur kids are growing up what kind of life are they growing in🙄🙄
Pride comes before a fall Obinah yu won't go far with this 👌 whatever your praying for that lady it will come back to yu in full 👌be prepared may God surprise yu ujue mungu aliye kupea ndiye atampea
This man is his own problem and downfall. Small coins and he forgets the favor done to him by her lady. If you want to know an idiot give him money and power/fame. After using and cheating on her now she isn't your type! Get a life .
How ? Is he not providing for her and her kids ? Let’s make statements we can back up with facts and evidence not just emotions and empty talk . If he abandoned his family then you would be right to make that statement
So she helps her mother, her sister and her sister’s kids, her personal stuff and those of her kids with only 20k salary?? This woman is a strong woman!
This guy is a true Narcissist, he is inhuman,callous and heartless.Ive watched the whole drama and I'm convinced Lilian is the best ,she is emotionally stable and true to herself and the world.May God come through for her.karma will catch up with you Obinna.
After listening to that baby mama I won't judge but this dude oga need deliverance. Money can't but happiness or respect. Mtu amekuzalia respect..imagine your kids reading comments eeish
Obina so your are such a evil man like that, how can you sue your baby mama trying to hide the truth your money means nothing before the eyes 👀👀 of the lord and the justice shall prevail to the baby mama in Jesus name
The best thing is just to respect ur babymama she has been there for u when u had nothing know that God has bless u ni matharao sasa amekuwa hana akili oohh my God the same God can bless her
People can be good parents but horrible partners. We can't force relationships. Let them sit and talk through their issues for the sake of the beautiful babies.
No, no, no. Obina never took your baby mama to jail it will bring Abad image in future to your children better u keep quiet and move your own life same to baby mama
I just want to say few things : _if the man is paying shelter and school fees.. Then the mother can buy food n clothes.. _you can't force love to a man who hates you... Just move on. _as a lady work hard, be that independent woman. _as a woman save alot when you have your baby dad helping you, because soon than you think, this kids will be grown and you will not have anything to claim from the baby dad. _ ladies in Kenya... Learn from the most single mothers in gulf... You will never find yourselves crying for a man.
Obinna please, don’t ever come and beg us to donate money for you. This chest stamping kaa nayo milele, when the rubber meets the road, don’t disturb us! Mungu hakuli githeri kawangare
1. Mentioning her salary is a big attempt to throw shade onto her. It's unnecessary. 2. Calling her stupid speaks alot about you because you looked for her not the reverse. 3. Recording everything in your relationship doesn't show how careful you are, it shows how malicious because you can't be preparing for war all your life. 4. You are trying so hard to look rich through making her look poor. I don't think it's any wise. 5. Calling the lady by weird names and declaring how u have never loved her is unnecessary after all you have two kids who came through intimacy and lived together by you asking her to move in not the other way round. I am a BIG ADVOCATE of the boychild , There is alot that MEN are going through in the hands of women which is so unfortunate and it's true being a Man today, not anyone rises up in your defence, but in this case, I doubt if Obinna is as innocent as he tries to sound.
Since we are not in his shoes, let’s give him benefit of doubt. Bottom line, they need to work out a plan on how they will raise their children and provide for them, it’s that simple.
You dragged the lady into the scene oga and she has spoken. Now you're the one bitter and ready for court.baba mgani anapelelkanga bibi kortini to hell. Mashalaah.
Ni wanawake wangapi wamepeleka their husbands to court? Bitter or not bitter, its only a court of law that can listen to both parties, consider the evidence and make judgement. Not the online yapping here.
@@bujake956 well 20 years from now you will see the fruits of this modern toxic woman. Its happening as we speak in America all the fatherless kids are killing dealing drugs and stripping for money as we talk.
I also think Obinna is too loud, in all this we have only been hearing Obinna. It's usually the other way, you are the one whose brand will take a blow .....
This guy has a lot of malingo. You are the one who started the 🔥, you put your kids their and disrespected your x. You are not a good person. I believe her
Lola and the sister are now young but after 20yrs after they will be weman they will understand there mother like there fellow woman you feel it obinna see u think yo doing good today, u see alie always on top at the first place but heee
This drama portrays how GBV is perceived in society. Sadly, no one will see things from the man's side because society expects men to take such silently. Truth be told, most men are suffering GBV just that they don't speak about it. May the truth come out someday and vindicate those it will.
The children are manipulated. Hao watoto wapeleke therapy there's so much In their mind... He's not right kueka watoto kuongea mama ya ada na wengine wakiwa hapo yet what you talking was negative..obinna we are not buying this, you started it
Please stop doing all these interviews za kujibizana..just shut up, enough is enough!!Lillian play your role as a mother,obinna be a good dad to your kids.. it's not about you..it's about your kids..stop poisoning them wachukie their mum or dad.. if you love your kids stop cursing them
I pity those supporting baby mama they were my neighbors and I support Obinna 100%...Those kids from step mother really suffered from the hands of that lady......ata Househelp she used to change almost a month...
If a lady has been emotionally abused and broken you expect her to be ok. You're a lady and you support this rubbish obina is talking full pride na matusi. Put yourself in her shoes, be used and cheated on and then come tell us your good neighbor stories. Mama mchene, wewe ndio ulicontribute problems, how do know about the house hepls! 😀... Busybody and wachana na watu , njega kwako...
Instead of women thinking of innocent kids they are here projecting Just cos their baby dads have checked out doesn’t mean you should condemn a man present and holding down his kids Don’t support stupidity just because you can relate How do you mistreat innocent kids as a mother and then come out shouting ati he has a sponsor So what ! Is that your business His dating life ?
Hii kitu kuvuana nguo kwa media si poa It will affect family Me what i can suggest is mume jaribu imekataa The best way ni separation,na each person akuwe na tym na watoi May wanakaa na babayo 3days na mama yao 4days We r in a generation which is like were caused,bfr kulikuwanga na mkikozana na mzee unajukua watoto wako na unaeda without even looking back unaabia God akue provider,ziku hizi baby dad anaogopa usimstaki kwa feader And in the other hard women r taking advantage of the situation. Mimi wangu tuliachana and i hv never looked back,am happy seeing My kid's growing up,and thanking God for where we're now even if am single but i hv peace now Ladies let's God's take control it is not easy but badala ya kujianika kwa midea hivi ata mkue pamoja again Hio pain haitawaisha kwa mwanaume,a man is sbody so proud in his nature
I think guys should buy this idea of yours ... Happiness and peace matters and we have to put our ego down n stop being narcissistic when sorting issues.... Thanks
Obbina Ur so proud. Money is not everything
"She doesn't have money to pay me",pride comes before a fall,Obina you'll only enjoy this now when Ada and Lola are still kids
She needs respect irregardles
Silly man he is
I dont see pride here Obina also need Respect madam..
He's talking the truth, and many hate that.Nkt!
@@mamaBright3 most pple don't like the truth and you are one of them,no pride here
Which pride madam? If your waiting for Obinna to fall, you will wait for a while. How is he disrespecting her?
Kiburi and bitterness... hakuna swali anajibu vile anaulizwa
Nenda ukamsaidie kujibu
Obina has 3 baby mama's and he says they are all toxic 🤔..
who is fooling who? Obina you need help, they are not triplets, you have a problem.
He's just toxic even to himself.
Exactly obinna🖕🖕
U have just spoken my mind
Heee, zero chills, waa🤣🤣🤣🤣
True sherys
I will never ever judge anybody,before this came to a limelight nobody knew where it started
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Well said honey
Great
Yeah true dear
Ati 'for anybody watching this, ukidecide kuzaa, zaa na mtu ako na akili'?? Kaka Obinna get a hold of your anger. Don't drag all men into your issues. YOU took the actions, face the consequences and there is a way to do it away from social media. Na hakuna MAMA asiye na akili, kuzaa peke yake ni akili tosha! When you insult the mother of your children, that is an insult to your children. Drop your pride and get counsel. A man is a leader and with leadership comes responsibility. One responsibility is to protect your children, kids don't know brands, they know their father!
Yani anatusi mama ya watoto wake na they will grow up n watch all this..wah this man is so bad.
kabisa
Sure
Well said
He’s trying so hard to make the kids hate the lady nkt
we should stop being judgemental only God can judge Obina is a good dad that's more important we are single mothers here struggling alone to raise our kids he is one of the few who actually own up to their responsibilities...
"She doesnt have money to pay me" obinna pride comes before a fall
Amen
Which pride...sometimes women ile
@@joycewanjiku1533 He didn't say she lied ..he just expressed how powerful he is ...very stupid.
The woman who bairthed you two children???pride comes before a fall,may God be justified on this
No pride there, that's a fact
All of the three baby mamas couldn't be toxic Obina you're a narcissist let's just agree
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Imgne wanawake wote wanaeza aje kua toxic he’s the problem and full of pride alfu toxic imeja kwa roho yake
Maybe its just bad luck on his side coz there are ladies now on their 5th marriages..
@@marionnjoroge441 Thank you.
I was also thinking the same,you can clearly tell from how he is talking
The lady akiulizwa na Ali alikuwa anaeda direct Kwa swali lakini wewe unaeda Kwa corner means you're a liar 🤥
Exactly
Kabisa
Hata kama the main agenda ya huyo mama kufanyiwa interview ilikuwa Gani watoto wanasomeshwa analipiwa rent ajisort shida ni hataki kumove on
@@carocarlos393 ni obina alianza drama but lady akaona amezidi sana juu amenyamaza
Obinna stop behaving like its mama Ada who started this..ni wewe ulianza hii ujinga ya kuleta drama zenu youtube. Poisoning your own kids to hate their mother..SHAME.Why don't you want her to do interviews,wewe pia uko hapa unafanya interview na kila mtu.Atleast we have known she is saying the truth
True yeye ndio alianza kupost videos
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aki, now anakasirikia Ali na ni yeye alianza kuongelea the mother to her kids ..Hata kama alikosea aje
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What this woman needs is RESPECT. Everyone needs respect irregardless wether she is your baby mama or not. Supporting your kids is your duty.
True well said
Does she respect Obinna?
Thank you name c
Respect is a Two way traffic if she respects the man then likewise obinna will also respect her
@@sheabouyarnie5733 they should all respect each other. From this conversation you can tell Obinna is arrogant and keeps mentioning how the woman will suffer without him and bragging about his money. Typical example of "maskini akipata matako hulia mbwata". Anyone in her shoes will react the same. Have you seen how he uses his kids to find issues from the lady. Check the videos you will see the woman was always irked. In general if someone wants to find a problem in you atasema hata you do not breath properly when you are just calm. This man has a problem, three baby mamas. The kids are almost at the same age, it is clear he even cheated on her but the woman akavumilia na kukaa just as the society expects us to. Anaongea maneno mengi very useless. Ashakosea huyu mmama ye ashughulikie watoto wake na apeane respect tu, the lady will calm down. Their dirt linen was aired by him first with the aim of defaming the lady to her own kids and she just responded. Probably he thought the woman will be quiet sahizi anajitetea for the sake of his career and even sending threats in an effort to shut her down.
Obinna you have already talked badly, get to counseling, it will be well, money is useless without peace!
Seils doty this not the real issues but just a presenting issue. Kuna mambo only that they are sharing what they think the views to hear.. the worst part is involving their children in all these drama.
If you're about to believe Obinna kindly go to the interview he did with Jalas and watch him confess how this particular baby mama stood with him. Hakumbuki🚮🚮
Anakumbuka wanataka kutrend
Very money has changed him or he is changing the money cheiiii
Yess mamaaa
Anaongea vibaya surely. Pesa huisha
Thank you babe 🙌👊👍
I used to respect Oga Obinna, but after watching how he is dragging his kids am pissed off!what is even bad is that the two step kids seem to be acting reporter of everything about his ex wife to him and Obinna entertains it!what is a child of 12 years doing in youtube with no parental guidance watching what his step mum's interview!I don't get it!surely the person that needs help is you Oga Obinna not your ex!you started it all by recording your kids saying things about their mum!take those kids for therapy!how do you call those kids your kids when two seem to hate the mother of the other!how would you feel if you had step kids that look down upon your own mum???????soon the other two will become uncomfortable with discussing their mum and start hating!stop torturing this woman and maintain your lane!the more you talk the more you look as if you are desperate to hide something! if your 5 year olds are thinking like grown ups, something isn't right, they have been exposed to toxicity!stop bragging to be earning more money than the mother of your kids!don't forget she had to sit home and tolerate sh*t and still had to give birth and take care of your kids while you worked!!everything is press record and so what you are advising your fellow men is to gaslight women and press record !!!!surely Oga obinna!
He must lower his pride,, mtoto wa 12 years anasema nininkuhusu ndoa ya wazazi wao. This obinna is very silly. Anakalisha watoto chini feeding them with lies then recording,, bure kabisa
I also noticed that he uses the step children against this hurting woman
So sad
Getting messy and so weird.
The kids are so exposed which is bad.
Aaghhhh. Too much for kids.
Thumbs up and kudos for the advice 👏👏👏
let hiM send RESPECT that is the base of all his problems
This man is a typical narcissist.Its very clear that money has transformed this man into a wicked fool. May God come through for Lillian. I know how it feels to be despised by a man because of lack of financial independence. May God come through for Lillian.
Sasa shida yako ni gani? Si huyo rafiki yako Lilian atafute pesa. I hate this kind of reasoning
@@susananyango6471 mwambie daisy kumbe some women use brains and not judge because of emotions...wamama kama Hawa wanaboo
Lilian can hustle like every other kenya not to take advantage of Obinna fame and fortune.....the hell re u saying
Na kwani huyo Lilian ni kiwete? Is she aware that some single mothers don't have even their baby daddy's contacts wacha yeye analelewa watoto? She should be appreciative and respectful to this gentleman.
@@susananyango6471 am a single mum and am working my f**kng *ss out sasa huyo anatuambia nn sikuizi n kujituma hawa ndo wanafikiria if things don't work someone needs to help u 1
After listening from both Obinna and the baby mama...Obi you are the problem,I think money and fame has gotten to your head please even if she earns twenty thousands as long as she earns genuinely...she came out because you started showing her in bad light during your daughters birthday she was just telling her side of the story.
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Exactly 💯
You're right.
Kabisaaaaa That so spoken about video ya birthday anyone watching it without his captions is a very genuine video.
Did she have to paint him in a bad way? What has she gained?
But the guy is not answering the questions!!! Oga is a liar. so yes the baby mama was saying the truth.
I noticed it too he is not answering the questions
Very true, he is just promoting his online content..
Very true he is n
The comment I was looking for
The bottom line of this fight is that Obinna has/had been cheating on Lilian, but he doesn't recognize it as a problem. And the other issue is that he's tainting her name in the eyes of the children and even posting. This is what needs to be sorted. Hizi drama zinaboo,mgrow bana.
So what !!! Muache Obinna and his drama alone;don’t judge people when you have never been part of the life they lived- what if the wife is lying, what will you say
I watch every episode he does with kids. If anything , have noticed ,he is Very wise and respectful with his responses.
We ni fala sana
ako na lilian mgani huyo Muli?
@@graciakiki2188 sure I also see this have not seen him talking shit about the baby mamaa
Manze oga obinna I have really started to like you manze you thinking like a gentleman..May God be with you as you go through this.
Narcissist will never answer a question, after all that we know less than when we started.
Now who to amini coz the lady sounded so genuine ,humble
The lady is right
The lady of course huyu anajaribu ku copy Jonny Depp but wapi?
Kids will always be on their mother side no matter how much you brain wash them... One day you will be surprised and depressed when those kids comes to their senses.
Funny thing people are saying that so long as he provides he is right are the same people that will react once some one dies in an emotionally abusive marriage and they stayed coz of the provision
Exactly....avumilie juu anaprovidia watoto but akue disrespected
She may not afford all those with her 20k a month; but you can ... The same God that gave you can easily take it back and give your baby mama more than you earn. Money is not everything. And the sooner you realize that the better.
This is so true 👌 only God knows our end .
Wen alikua hana hamkubonga the bidii he does wacha ajibambe some shining isn't boast its juhs testimony
This guy is narcissistic, my thoughts though 😳
True 100percent
Very
You're a feminist my thoughts though
@@badboydon3871 you are a clit my thoughts though
Your right. Io ni kiburi inaongea
*Bro stop poisoning your kids with negativity that their mum is bad remember you are both parents to those kids and they didnt apply for you to give birth to them so respect them dont involve them to you comedy solve your things behind the tent*
You are correct man this kids will eventually grow up he has to find solution
Men, normalize washing your own boxers. Am not happy with what I am hearing outside here 😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣Thi's the Comment l was looking for 😆😆Otherwise let's continue with the Drama 😅😅😅😅naona tukipata memes
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This guy is so proud aki pesa huwa zinaisha, pride comes before a fall, mimi hadi nimechukia hizo kula kula show zake, he is soo proud
Because he is are gentleman
Come now 2 years down the line and read your comment
I can't judge you neither the woman the choice is yours and whatever choice you will make it will have consequences but all in all am wishing you all the best in your life
wicked narcissist, these types of guys have the same story,, same script.
The narcissistic characteristics of a true narcissist....The lady in question is crying for help ... True narcissist card makes one believe they are the problem...not the other .
True he’s such a Narcissist. U see he can’t answer any questions only threats test he’ll sue
Such arrogance!
Mmmmm narcissist play victims. Most of the time they have multiple women or multiple men.
The problem is women always think they are always on the right. His baby mama is toxic
If only Obinna listened to Andrew Kibe. Otherwise Mr Ochichi your lambistic nature is astronomical.
Why did you share the videos on the kids youtube channel??so you wanted her not to respond??A very selfish being,how were the kids mistreated??kila mtu aende alelewe na mama yake,atleast their mums are not dead
I like your comment.
Lilian shouldn’t have to put up with kids who are not hers.
I don't want to be the judge of this but she beat you on composure during the interviews.
well women are great at buying sympathy she is playing you and everyone who thinks she is an angel. or you think she is in capable of dividing chocolate in a half?
@@g.p.f2011 boss you didn't get my point - please don't be a dolt - we sincerely request for developed and well thought comments
@@icelandicoverland921 Oh My! You clearly didn't get my point - body language speaks a lot
Wisdom
This man right here is a sick one
Beware of a patner that patronizes you... that's a toxic lot y'all... anyone noticed how he's evading questions and using 'the boy child phenomenal ' he's the true definition of a narcissist.. he's the one that needs help y'all.
If kujisifu was a person 🤣🤣na watoto hata nguo, wacha nifagie kwangu🚶♀️
😂😂
This guy is a narcissist.Wanapenda kuona other people suffering.I can't believe is the same person who was advising Mulamua na Eric kuhusu relationships zao.
An idiot of himself
U guys misuse this word 'narcissistic '..
@@janengala5937 they don't even know the meaning of narcissist,if a narcissist can pay for my children fees and rent ya 40k na gari what else do I need from a man we have separated
@@janengala5937 and its only women bitter ones who try to defend the crazy baby mama
@@josephinemulama6338 So according to you narcissists hawalipangi bills?
You will be a fool of a lifetime,,, taking your baby mama to jail you will a fool I bet...ata wewe uliongea vibaya and money is just is just useless you can't take that woman to jail again you will be a fool🚮hii ni pride haina miguu... just accept you two are wrong In a way or another,,,, you are not an angel you pretend to be for the sake of those kids just man up and make peace
Money is not everything,, for now you can jail her thinking it will be well,, the guilt will kill you. Don't think your children will be happy seeing there mother in jail.
we don't accept phone recordings (audio)as evidence in court.
There's only one lawyer and judge,the one who is able to save and destroy
Everything is blooming most recklessly it's an unbelievable story. "This is not something people get over, this is something people carry with them forever like a bullet in the spine."
Money is not everything 🤞stop involving kids in ur drama .....every woman needs Respect
Obina is not answering the questions ,,, brooooh jibu swali if yes or no mbona unabeat around the bush and not answering the questions. He is explaining bullshit and not answering the questios asked🚮🚮🚮
Not a single was answered. Hata Kioko ameboeka but he has to keep it professional.
Aki...he has answered no question..ni kujidai tu vile atamusue
Like which question to be specific
I will remember you both in prayers mnasinya
Obinna is too full of himself. He is belittling his wife because he earns more than her. What hurts more is him involving children in all these shit. He goes as far as encouraging Lilian's children to talk negative of their own mother; very wrong. I hope all these will not cost Obinna anything. He should remember he is a public figure with so many people looking up to him, so how he handles situations such as this one speaks volumes about his personality. He should be careful.
He’s a terrible person 🤮
He says I don't give a shit blah blah blah remember he wasn't even in good terms with his own father....nkt ako na shida ya arrogance saaana
I know his wife is much better than him...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂ladies mnachochana comment section.......anyhu kids have a sharp memory kukuliko.......just focus na yako.
If one can speak this way about his BM in public, what is he saying to her in private? If you can disrespect your children's mother in public, who will you respect? Anasema she has disrespected herself and he has 3 BMs before turning 30, help me somebody who has disrespected themselves here? And he admits to not knowing what he was doing then so anafaa aseme pole to the women for bringing them into his mess.
If you marry a man before money is soo dangerous ...
👌akipata pesa utajua ujui
Oga just manner up. We are tired of this nonsense. No matter what she will remain ur bby mama en ur kids are growing up what kind of life are they growing in🙄🙄
Pride comes before a fall Obinah yu won't go far with this 👌 whatever your praying for that lady it will come back to yu in full 👌be prepared may God surprise yu ujue mungu aliye kupea ndiye atampea
This man is his own problem and downfall. Small coins and he forgets the favor done to him by her lady. If you want to know an idiot give him money and power/fame.
After using and cheating on her now she isn't your type! Get a life .
Exactly
How ? Is he not providing for her and her kids ?
Let’s make statements we can back up with facts and evidence not just emotions and empty talk .
If he abandoned his family then you would be right to make that statement
Do you know women well?!
Kwanza huyo mwananke akicheat obinna ata feel aje
@@JayyAAAA cheating is emotional breakdown. Wacha kiherehere. Even God hates cheating. Be cheated and come back lecture us about emotions
So she helps her mother, her sister and her sister’s kids, her personal stuff and those of her kids with only 20k salary?? This woman is a strong woman!
You feel she's strong coz the husband is providing for everything,supposing he wasn't providing hata gari angeuza juu hangetoboa services
@@josephinemulama6338 and she has the guts to try and drag Obinna's name on the mad.With this economy that money isn't enough.
Very strong
Lies
Very true
This guy is a true Narcissist, he is inhuman,callous and heartless.Ive watched the whole drama and I'm convinced Lilian is the best ,she is emotionally stable and true to herself and the world.May God come through for her.karma will catch up with you Obinna.
Ambia Lilian apate bwana mungine kama ni lazima awe na bwana,why she should she come on cameras just to be humiliated this much
you must be a very poor judge of character then
@@icelandicoverland921 shauriyako ukiachwa achika
The fact that Oga has 3 baby mamas is a clear indication tha.....
5 business and 2 cars and oga was the bad one toxic woman will kill us with lies
After listening to that baby mama I won't judge but this dude oga need deliverance. Money can't but happiness or respect. Mtu amekuzalia respect..imagine your kids reading comments eeish
Obina so your are such a evil man like that, how can you sue your baby mama trying to hide the truth your money means nothing before the eyes 👀👀 of the lord and the justice shall prevail to the baby mama in Jesus name
Mmmh I pity you....if you only know the truth
Which justice when Obina is full filling his parental role?
Amen he should get wisdom from The Don
if his money means nothing you wouldn't be talking about it. the toxic woman wants everyone to believe they are independent but its all an act
The best thing is just to respect ur babymama she has been there for u when u had nothing know that God has bless u ni matharao sasa amekuwa hana akili oohh my God the same God can bless her
Amemlelea watoi wawili wenye ajazaa for more than 7 yrs uyu mwanaume Ana asante
People can be good parents but horrible partners. We can't force relationships. Let them sit and talk through their issues for the sake of the beautiful babies.
HUYU ATA HAJIBU MASWALI VILE ANAULIZWA....DID YOU LEAVE HER WHEN SHE WENT TO DELIVER..JUSY SAY YES OR NO SIMPLE
There is 3 sides of a story....HIS SIDE,HER SIDE AND THE TRUTH....bt wapi sauti kioko bana😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This man has a lot pride,,
May God fight for this woman.
2024 19th NOVEMBER,,,,,,
Obinna is a legend kama Leo ni 2024 na anaendelea after all that 👊👊
No, no, no. Obina never took your baby mama to jail it will bring Abad image in future to your children better u keep quiet and move your own life same to baby mama
Very true
Can he even win the case when it's all the truth 😅
I just want to say few things :
_if the man is paying shelter and school fees.. Then the mother can buy food n clothes..
_you can't force love to a man who hates you... Just move on.
_as a lady work hard, be that independent woman.
_as a woman save alot when you have your baby dad helping you, because soon than you think, this kids will be grown and you will not have anything to claim from the baby dad.
_ ladies in Kenya... Learn from the most single mothers in gulf... You will never find yourselves crying for a man.
My thoughts exactly n u r nolonger together, the man make it clear he doesn't want marriage . Move gel these kids wl grow some day
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Very true ashukuru yeye baba watoi wake anahelp watoi....wengine wetu atusaidiwi na baby daddy ata shilling
Very true..sometimes it's okay to agree
You have nailed it bt people won't understand this
This is how mtu akiomoka anadharau mwenye walikua hustle pamoja, me never will I vumilia mtu heti ipo siku, NEVER
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 never ever ask me 😅
It happen to me ,wacha tu l.dont trust this man ,mm.najui vile huyo mama anasema its totally true
@@rahabmwaura6579 its true
@@salmanh9778 NEVER PLEASE
Obinna please, don’t ever come and beg us to donate money for you. This chest stamping kaa nayo milele, when the rubber meets the road, don’t disturb us! Mungu hakuli githeri kawangare
This guy should shut up...ako na umama
Too full of your self live this woman alone , women deserves respect shame on you
Obinna the situation is so hard
I can't stand watching this video. Let God be the best judge
You n me same whatsap group
Am not on anyone's side but I guess this thing is going to affect Ada n Lola more
Kweli kabisa...especially Ada
Coz their mum doesn't care!what a mother!!
@@harietmeshack3668 no it is their dad...the mom just defended her position
@@masonsanders7689 bt the mum don't have time with the kids as the dad do
This thing of women playing victim all the time,if marriage hasn't worked let's just co parent and get along.
Very true James
1. Mentioning her salary is a big attempt to throw shade onto her. It's unnecessary.
2. Calling her stupid speaks alot about you because you looked for her not the reverse.
3. Recording everything in your relationship doesn't show how careful you are, it shows how malicious because you can't be preparing for war all your life.
4. You are trying so hard to look rich through making her look poor. I don't think it's any wise.
5. Calling the lady by weird names and declaring how u have never loved her is unnecessary after all you have two kids who came through intimacy and lived together by you asking her to move in not the other way round.
I am a BIG ADVOCATE of the boychild , There is alot that MEN are going through in the hands of women which is so unfortunate and it's true being a Man today, not anyone rises up in your defence, but in this case, I doubt if Obinna is as innocent as he tries to sound.
Well said
Well said!
Since we are not in his shoes, let’s give him benefit of doubt. Bottom line, they need to work out a plan on how they will raise their children and provide for them, it’s that simple.
Wisdom
It is your opinion though.
Just know that with God everything is possible,,,
Why argue with a woman,be the bigger person for the sake of your kids,it's ashame
You dragged the lady into the scene oga and she has spoken. Now you're the one bitter and ready for court.baba mgani anapelelkanga bibi kortini to hell. Mashalaah.
Ni wanawake wangapi wamepeleka their husbands to court? Bitter or not bitter, its only a court of law that can listen to both parties, consider the evidence and make judgement. Not the online yapping here.
Guys let's pray for that lady it must be hard dealing with this type of a guy his ego and pride is on another level.
pray for her so that she can learn one chocolate can be divided into pieces.
Huyu obinna anakaa kamkora fulani
@@bujake956 so you don't understand what cancel culture is and how this daughters of jezebel have been destroying men?
@@icelandicoverland921 you will know Who is toxic when they involve kids.
@@bujake956 well 20 years from now you will see the fruits of this modern toxic woman. Its happening as we speak in America all the fatherless kids are killing dealing drugs and stripping for money as we talk.
I also think Obinna is too loud, in all this we have only been hearing Obinna. It's usually the other way, you are the one whose brand will take a blow .....
This guy has a lot of malingo. You are the one who started the 🔥, you put your kids their and disrespected your x. You are not a good person. I believe her
I can't blame anyone let them solve their own issue but one thing never lie your dirty linen on social media
Obina my brother,your too full of yourself,humble yourself,humble bro,life is a long journey we all don't know our destination yet
True
He's just defending himself with other baby daddies 😅😅😅
I knew that this lady wanted Obinna back,,,,,that text 🔥🔥🔥🤫
You can sue her but truth will never change
Haungeonyesha iyo text...internet never forgets
Obinna is exposing himself very badly..,,public opinion is changing against him very rapidly.
The guy is full of pride. Trend slowly young man & have respect for your baby mama, nobody knows about tomorrow, only God
Mature up bro Mali Safi wife material den you Edd up following momma take care Money is not everything oga
Wewe pia tafuta pesa.
Respect your woman Obinna
Goverment inafaa kuchukuwa hawa watoto, I pity them they don't deserve such parents.
Compare his dressing code and the kids
Kama ni majuu wangekuwa wamechukuliwa,,, hapa kenya serikali yenyewe imeoza ata heri wakae tu na the disputing parents 😢
Government hii ya Kenya or which one?
@@jacklineloise. imagine
Kenya is a lawless country its survival for the fittest.
Lola and the sister are now young but after 20yrs after they will be weman they will understand there mother like there fellow woman you feel it obinna see u think yo doing good today, u see alie always on top at the first place but heee
This drama portrays how GBV is perceived in society. Sadly, no one will see things from the man's side because society expects men to take such silently. Truth be told, most men are suffering GBV just that they don't speak about it. May the truth come out someday and vindicate those it will.
Obinna Obinna Obinna, pride comes before a fall. Just don't do your things in public.
That is the mother of your kids plz respect.take care of your kids
Obina pride comes before a fall
The children are manipulated. Hao watoto wapeleke therapy there's so much In their mind... He's not right kueka watoto kuongea mama ya ada na wengine wakiwa hapo yet what you talking was negative..obinna we are not buying this, you started it
I saw that and it was bad. Who does that
Exactly
Omg you hut the nail. Huyo Lola the choppy wait the day she figures what is going on. Atakua kiboko yake
Please stop doing all these interviews za kujibizana..just shut up, enough is enough!!Lillian play your role as a mother,obinna be a good dad to your kids.. it's not about you..it's about your kids..stop poisoning them wachukie their mum or dad.. if you love your kids stop cursing them
I pity those supporting baby mama they were my neighbors and I support Obinna 100%...Those kids from step mother really suffered from the hands of that lady......ata Househelp she used to change almost a month...
Na hao wa mama si wachukue watoto neiba
Weuh mm sina maoni but the way kids wanaogopa huyo mama talks alot
If a lady has been emotionally abused and broken you expect her to be ok. You're a lady and you support this rubbish obina is talking full pride na matusi.
Put yourself in her shoes, be used and cheated on and then come tell us your good neighbor stories. Mama mchene, wewe ndio ulicontribute problems, how do know about the house hepls! 😀... Busybody and wachana na watu , njega kwako...
Instead of women thinking of innocent kids they are here projecting
Just cos their baby dads have checked out doesn’t mean you should condemn a man present and holding down his kids
Don’t support stupidity just because you can relate
How do you mistreat innocent kids as a mother and then come out shouting ati he has a sponsor
So what ! Is that your business
His dating life ?
I wonder why kids could stay with stepmother and there mum's are alive boolishit...kila mtu akae na mamake
Hii kitu kuvuana nguo kwa media si poa
It will affect family
Me what i can suggest is mume jaribu imekataa
The best way ni separation,na each person akuwe na tym na watoi
May wanakaa na babayo 3days na mama yao 4days
We r in a generation which is like were caused,bfr kulikuwanga na mkikozana na mzee unajukua watoto wako na unaeda without even looking back unaabia God akue provider,ziku hizi baby dad anaogopa usimstaki kwa feader
And in the other hard women r taking advantage of the situation.
Mimi wangu tuliachana and i hv never looked back,am happy seeing
My kid's growing up,and thanking God for where we're now even if am single but i hv peace now
Ladies let's God's take control it is not easy but badala ya kujianika kwa midea hivi ata mkue pamoja again
Hio pain haitawaisha kwa mwanaume,a man is sbody so proud in his nature
Ukiachwa achika look for job and maintain yourself and raise your kids
I think guys should buy this idea of yours ... Happiness and peace matters and we have to put our ego down n stop being narcissistic when sorting issues.... Thanks
Seems your character ndo ilikufanya muachane
Both wako na makosa.. Wakae chini waongee
No matter what oga is best dad... through what am seeing in the obinaz channel.....