PAYING DOWRY : KENYAN LUO TRADITIONAL WEDDING | NEGOTIATIONS, AYIE & CELEBRATIONS : KENYA VLOG EP 2
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PAYING DOWRY: LUO TRADITIONAL NYOMBO WEDDING | NEGOTIATIONS, AYIE & CELEBRATIONS
DOWRY PAYMENT: LUO TRADITIONAL NYOMBO WEDDING | NEGOTIATIONS, AYIE & CELEBRATIONS
As a fellow Kenyan-diaspora Luo babe, this brought me to tears. I've never seen our culture and wedding festivities narrated and captured as elegantly and fully as in this series. It's perfect. It's painful how so many of us grow up not understanding these traditions, or even resenting them. And yet, this is so educative and celebratory of who we are and what we stand for. Truly, thank you Lydia for sharing your life and love with us, and illustrating how beautiful it is to be Luo, Kenyan, and African. It's such a beacon of light and an example for younger girlies like me who loveeeee their culture but rarely feel like it's understood, seen, and celebrated. This is how we keep our culture alive. I've always dreamed of doing an ayie, kisera, and nyombo, and this just set the standard - I can't wait, not just to celebrate my own one day, but hopefully to capture it in a way that inspires others to do the same, just like you. Can't wait for Part 3 - love and hugs, God bless!!! 💕💕💕
Well said. I have learnt so much. Lydia knew what she was talking about when she said we have to wait. So informative May God bless your beautiful union 🙏🏽❤
May God answer your prayers. May you be honored as you honor your parents & culture 💕
Such a beautiful part of the culture which needs to be preserved and passed down to the future generations
Ngl Lydia, you take the cake with the way you produce your videos! My Gosh! So well produced! Such quality content! I'm Ghanaian and I've never really appreciated the pageantry and the production behind African traditional events until I watched this video! I was gonna skip a traditional wedding but this video has made me want one! African culture is honestly superior!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Completely superior 💝
This was so cute to watch 😊really, i couldn't stop smiling, the live they have for each other is something else, Lord i need this type of love in my life
Mummy’s “check the back” “we know our own” “you can go, thanks for coming” was everything
My heart smiled
"Check the back" 😂😂😂
This was too beautiful to watch 😍
That comment took me out 😂😂😂 but true ❤
But don't Luos have traditional clothes like other countries or tribes? Her husband wore his traditional attire and not her
Me tooo 🤣🤣
I died lmbo
Cos I would too 😂😂
I cried multiple times. Watching your culture on full display really made me so emotional. I'm Caribbean - black people all over the world have such beautiful customs and traditions.
And the cinematic quality of these videos??? Lydia PLEASE 😩 the girls need a COURSE
When the man said, Lydia is worth more than rubies, something in my spirit agreed. Love this cultural experience, Lydia and Damini❤️
I love African culture. I find the part where the groom has to choose the bride so entertaining 😂😂😂😂😂😂 can you imagine if he gets wrong
He gets penalized…
In other cultures they deliberately leave out the bride to make it more entertaining and he will definitely choose wrong then he will be fined for not knowing his bride, if they have more girls and her friends this process can repeat two or three times then eventually the bride will be brought in.
I love our cultures as well and it’s amazing to be those from outside of my own country. We are all soo similar I love it ❤
One time a groom picked the brides grandma,😂😂it was too funny
No no no I’m not the only one who has cried through these videos ?? The wedding in London was beautiful but this thisssss this’s speaks to the real meaning of marriage a unity of family’s . When you sell to Netflix darling you invite me to premier ooohh love it
The way Damini confidently shooed away the imposter Lydias even after the uncle had put the frighteners on him if he got it wrong 🤣❤️💪🏾
My girl is carrying "nyash", check the back 😅
As in... Shuuuu🔥🔥😅
That's right 😅😅
17:20 This looks and feels like a real marriage of two families. You can see the Dinga family really welcomed and host the O's with joy, dignity and love. This is a reflection of what Christ wats for marriage. I love it ❤❤❤
Wow Lydia...this was so special. The dancers...the singers...the inclusion of subtitles so we could understand the songs...seeing how Damini's parents and representatives came to honour you. Can't wait for episode 3, thank you for bringing us all along.
This vlog was too short 😭😭😭😭 can't wait for part 3
I don’t know why but I cry when African women sing. There is something magical that happens. Love all my brothers and sisters in Africa 💞
WoW! WoW! WoW! Africa is beautiful. Love all the colors. Your 🇨🇩 sister here. I love that you are showing everyone our African cultures.
So lovely how not only Damini but his parents embraced the Nyombo xx
Not Lydia being an auntyyyy saying “I carried you when you were a baby” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
OMG Lydia. This episode just literally brought me to tears. I’m seriously crying tears of joy just watching the HAPPINESS on everyone’s faces. I am African America and this just makes me want to experience these traditions. I LOVE everything about your Nyombo wedding. I watch all your videos but I never comment. I HAD to come here today just to say THANK YOU for inviting us into your family home and your tradition. So BEAUTIFUL ❤
Hey Lydia Girl! Im actually a luo babe from Ethiopia and we call our ceremony Nyom. So when I saw that you call your wedding ceremony Nyombo I felt like a distant cousin lol Watching this series puts joy in my heart because I get to watch our beautiful culture in HD quality!. I wish you and Damini nothing but joy, love and MORE MONEY!!!!!! Can wait for episode 3.
Woooow that is so cool - thank you for educating us. It feels like we are one large culture. The pronunciations have just changed over the years
@@michellekwaka7215 Yes, I am sure as we traveled down the river nile we started mixing in bantu languages. The "bo" now could very much be Swahili influenced. But is still Luo based. I love it.
Was surprised to meet a luo pharmacist in Congo DRC I am a lui lady from Kano we had a great conversation
@@hadassah1603 How nice! Yes were scattered across the nile. We have luo in South Sudan as well
As a Haitian American I feel close to my African culture because my family is from Haiti but there is still a longing feeling that we have lost out on so much. So beautiful to see our people in the motherland land continuing these beautiful traditions. So many of our traditions were lost crossing the Atlantic.
The uncovering of the bride was hilarious! Loving seeing another culture, what a beautiful and colorful day ❤
As a luo I am proud of how you showcased everything Lydia.
Our culture is beautiful and we should show more of it.
Very well done and narrated.
Reminded me of how my day was.🎉😊
Love this so much ❤
"Chech the back....check the back" that comment when identifying the bride so funny but also so true! I havent attended one of these in a loooong time since moving to the diaspora! This made me miss home (Zimbabwe) so much! I love our wholesome traditions and the similarities. Thanks for sharing.
So interesting because African Cultures are kind of the same. Loved every bit of this vlog ❤👌
Love the way you are unapologetically Kenyan and always showcase the culture, as a fellow Kenyan its always nice to see our culture appreciated ❤ and can never say this enough but you're cinematography mwuahh eats everyyyytimeee
Crazy how similar this is to the Zulu traditional lobola ceremony here in South Africa... beautiful 🥰
Now I see where that beautiful spirit derives❤❤❤Your Culture …What a Blessing ..Your ancestors must be so proud . You Go Lydia & Damani..May what god bring together ..no man take apart ❤
This was absolutely amazing and I must say S/O to the uncle that said "Lydia is worth more than any monetary value" 👏🏽💯
The process and concept is very similar similar to the South African (Lobola ceremony combined with gift exchanging) however gift exchanging in South Africa is for both families 😊😊
Congratulations on your union and May the Good Lord be the corner stone and the cover of your Union🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Another Banga!! I was smiling throughout. This vlog is rich! Rich in colour, rich in culture, rich in love and happiness. I’m really enjoying learning more about your traditions, thanks Lydia 😍❤️
The identification part of the bride is always a tricky one a misstep would warrant heavy fines.....
You would swear Lydia is my personal friend the way I am crying with happiness over her traditional ceremony….. May God continue to bless your union.❤
The way it was refusing to upload I just know it’s gonna slap so hard!!!
Pausing to say: What a cinematic vlog!😍
LYDIA! LYDIA! LYDIA! This gorgeous vlog simply radiates love and made me cry at several parts. As an African American girlie, thank you so much for sharing your love for your family and culture ❤
As a Yoruba , enjoyed watching this so much ! Was grinning ear to ear all through. Our African marriage traditions as so fun and beautiful ❤
MY SUNDAY IS NOW COMPLETE. I clicked so fast expecting it to be a Monday upload. Now i need to manage myself for part 3. Such a lovely episode
I'll say this again it's so amazing how similar our African culture are this was so beautiful to watch
Especially him identifying his bride this is so cool
6:01 one thing about Kenyans, they will FEED YOU BRO!!! LOVE IT DOWN!!!!!😂😂❤❤
It’s the Yoruba for me & the fact that Damini picked Lydia correctly 😂😂
This was fabulous ❤
As luo from. Uganda we call traditional ceremony nyomb x
This was so lovely. It’s so funny my mom passed by and was like “oh is that your friend? No. She seems like a friend of yours you watch her so often” lol
Yess mummy!!! VIPS are besties around here!
Wow What a Sunday treat!! Hubby is making dinner, wine ready and we are watching this tonight. Thank you girrrl 😍
“Check the back” took me all the way OUT🤣🤣. Loved every bit of this vlog!
Why isn't this one on Netflix ?❤ this is avery beautiful cultural documentary ❤️. Proud ugandan here 🇺🇬🇺🇬 lydia you are loved 😍
This is TOP TIER!!!
As a half Ugandan, just hearing the kijera made me so proud and nostalgic of my own traditional 🥹
This was beautiful to watch 🤍
I'm just in at five seconds and the edit is fire. Thanks for posting. Congrats again. I'm a northern Kenyan mum to a young luo ten Yr old luo babe so this is nice to watch.
I was refreshing my page every 2 seconds 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so happy
This is NOT A VLOG!!! This is a documentary!!! ❤ I loved watching your culture in action was so beautiful to watch as a westerner. The level of planning you’ve done. The White House being built JUST for your traditional wedding! All of the stories behind the process is astounding! Like your brothers home being built on the right of your father’s due to custom. You hiding away and being selected out of all of those women was AMAZING TO WATCH. THE CROWD that came to support your union. 😮. Everything was soo well put together.
This is definately a documentary 😍. It needs to be broadcast on TV and archived in Libraries 😍😍
This was great to watch, I can’t wait to wed my Luo Queen🇸🇱🇰🇪👩❤️💋👨
I got teary eyed watching this. What a beautiful celebration. I never imagined the ceremony being romantic, bringing the family together in harmony, good vibes. This was amazing to see for the culture. The story was told beautifully, execution and everything was phenomenal. I’ve been watching since you were on your internship, this has now become my favourite series.
Awh thank you for going the extra mile to upload this!!❤️❤️❤️ We appreciate you!
The intersectionality of African cultures is so beautiful to see, this is so similar to South African Lobola/Makgadi negotiations 🥹 I love us 🌍
I cried from the beginning till the end.
The production behind this is insane. The editing, the tradition, the cultural side,the sound track , the angles. Lydia we don’t deserve you. Thank youuuuuu honestly.
I see where Damini gets his mannerism of really immersing himself into people's cultures... His parents were lit and really feeling the dance 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations 🎊
You guys are a Pan-African dream ❤ Black love forever🎉
Watched this with my mom then we went back and watched the wedding video from the first time together. Love seeing your cultures and traditions. Love always Lydia
And we are Live !! Thanks for your hard work guys 💖💖
Thank you for sharing your culture with us! It was lovely learning about Kenyan traditions! And the editing... SIS YOU ARE EATING!! Really enjoying this series
Well executed video, showing the beautiful Kenyan culture 🇰🇪. I am South African, specifically from the Basotho/ isiXhosa culture and I have noticed similarities the Kenyan dowry and Basotho dowry with is called lobola. Both cultures do the identification of the bride, the bride does confirm she knows the family that has come to negotiate. The only differences is the groom is not part of the negotiations only his representatives and the brides family is given gifts and not money in the form of showing appreciation. Our Nyombo is called “umhlabiso” which is a traditional wedding held in the brides home.
Loving this series! This was captured so beautifully & well explained. Ah! African culture is so rich ! Can’t wait for the next one. Love love love it!
I never clicked on a video so fast. Thank you for blessing us with this beautiful content! ❤❤
I love the fact that you stay true to yourself and always posting your real life. Congratulations!!!!!
ONE THING ABOUT LYDIA SHE DOES IT EVERY TIMEE🧚🏾♀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
SA TIME ZONE 🇿🇦 I was never going to sleep without watching this Video😭😭🤩
What a lovely ceremony wishing you both all the love and happiness in years to come I didn't understand everything but I loved every moment thank you Lydia for uploading this brilliant content.❤🎉🎉 😀❤
Yes, Lydia I agree with him...your worth is priceless! Thank you & Damini SO much for educating us with a glimpse of Kenyan culture. I'm African-American & my husband is Nigerian. We celebrated 21 years of marriage back in May! May the Lord's hands always rest upon your union that He joined. In Jesus's Name.
Culture is everything man simply beautiful ❤❤❤ congratulations again to you and your husband. I pray God will bless this marriage and your home.
I love this, I'm Somalian and have always wanted to learn about other countries' traditions. the video quality is always perfect.
Wow Lydia, been watching you since you were in your 20s and to see this new era of your life brings hope to me as a 20 something year old ❤
I loved the opening song. ...Wonderful to see culture prevailing in these times.
Gaaaaal🎉🎉🎉🎉
When I say you’ve done it for us all🙌🏾May the Lord bless you!!
This should be trademarked as a REFERENCE material!! IMMEDIATELY!!!
Cause not me sitting my Carrib man to make him understand what to look forward to🥲!! Bless you Lydia🫶🏾
And May the Lord bless your union.❤
Lydia the way you produce each video, is honestly iconic. Love this series! What a treat to watch you get ready to get married again! x
The video production is splendid and clean
It wouldn’t be Africa without a 2pac Tshirt in the mix 🙌 I absolutely loved this!!! ❤
We Africa are beautiful omg why am i crying Lydia Thankyou for sharing I forgot my culture because of everything going on on there ❤
like 👍🏾 before I even watch! I know this is going to be another great/amazing vlog!❗️
I had to watch this again‼️Lydia you snapped❗️thanks again for sharing ❤️ love from the States ❤️
Checkkk the backkkkk!!!! 😭😭😭
This is so beautiful 🥹🥹 congratulations again Mrs O
13:05 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I would check the beck tooooo.... shoooooot 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
This just brought sooo many memories of my ruracio in 2018 ......I 🇰🇪love our culture honestly. Am crying right now. Am soo happy for you too Lydia
Thanks Lydia for showing your culture much appreciated.
Your culture is so rich and beautiful to learn about. I absolutely love love the way you always capture a story in your films.
Lydiaaaa you're fulfilling my binge cravings! 👀📺 you need a TV SHOW
Not me tearing 😢 up this so beautiful, I am so happy to see your future blossom as a long time watcher
So so beautiful 🥹🥹
Look at me smiling from ear to ear 🥰
“Lydia is priceless!” And we all nod in agreement
Lydia said 🥺🥹 under the covering!!!! I love this so much I can’t say it enough you always set pace when it comes to production and content. Quality filmmaking has us feeling like we’re family or flies on the wall man wow
My heart is beaming!!! 😭😭😭😭
The quality and steadiness of each shot is truly amazing. I felt like I was right there in person 😍
You've outdone yourself with this series, it is absolutely stunning. This is an emotional documentary, of deep cultural and anthropological significance. What a show of joy and happiness! Please don't take this for granted!
I hope this series gets you a couple of awards, bravo!!!!
Future Documentarian??? 😉😉
Best videos ever on the channel to me, the previous and this one.
Keep on keeping one young lady 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I haven’t watched vlogs in awhile but this was refreshing and fun to watch !
I love watching your traditional wedding videos. I am from South Sudan (Dinka tribe) and our traditional are very much similar. It made me happy and excited to watch as if you were my sister getting married. Thanks for explaining the process well, very educational. Congratulations! ❤️
Beautiful. Nobody is topping Lydia with the vlogs! Entertaining and educational 🔥
I was smiling from ear to ear the whole video. I loved it! Congratulations 🎉
This was so beautiful to watch, I was smiling throughout. Thank you for sharing Mrs O ❤
Our back (and legs) havecand always will be our "trademark" and we are not even making it up! Chuffed that the Aunty saw the angle❤
Praise God!! Thank you Lydia for sharing your wedding, such a beautiful family. Praying for blessings upon blessings for you and your groom.
This video is one of the best I have seen on UA-cam in a while!
Culture is soo beautiful ugh 😍😍
Been waiting 🔥🔥
The Luo and Nigerian culture are the best ❤..congratulations nyathiwa
This is soo beautiful 🤩, everytime I watch or see a traditional wedding I grow to love our cultures soo much and want to have one too. I can’t wait to do one as well. Love this for you guys and love how the in-laws made it clear that you’re priceless and no money can amount to what they have been blessed with ❤
This was beautiful to watch. Love our cultures 🇰🇪❤