Dear Mum.... and Dad and family, I am truly so very sorry that Mum has been struck by this truly horrible disease. I watched my mother slowly pass of this devastating, debilitating disease. What is really horrible is her intellect, your Mom's essence, who she is, that bright shiny brilliance of thought and mind, remains fully intact. My Mom passes in 2008 long before the "right to die" legislation for the terminally ill was enacted. Mom, my Mom, passed with dignity and courage, after three long years.. I remember exactly the nursing home calling at six in the morning to say she had just passed. My response... pure joy for her. " Thank God! She is free! Mom is free at last!"
this poor woman if an animal is suffering they dont let them suffer they put them to sleep.A human being should not be forced to suffer like this it is HER RIGHT TO CHOOSE AN NOT SUFFER
My husband’s grandmother was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago. She wants control over her death as well. She told me that she has been saving her morphine for when she decides she is ready to go. I love her dearly. She is a beautiful woman. We all agreed not to interfere with it when she decides it’s her time.
If she has antinausea meds then she should probably keep about the same amount that she is saving as her morphine just to hopefully prevent her body from rejecting the amount of morphine that she plans on taking...... just a thought to keep note of. Best of luck for/to her and all of your family.
@@katydid1600 I figured that I would give the info about using antinausea meds in rough equivalent to the amount of the opiate that the grandmother is going to take in effort to hasten the speed of death (in order to have a good death) is because if her body rejects the opiate (vomits it) then the lady will likely need to wait until the next fill of medication while at the same not having any to cover for pain control until the next fill of medication. In my personal experience with having severe chronic pain, if I don't have enough opiate in my system (like right now because of the migraines I have actually get worse when I take my regular amount of opiate) I'm not a fan of having anything touching my skin whether it be air being blown on my skin, blankets/coverings, clothes or even my own skin on my body because of how hypersensitive my nerves are (I've got CRPS, central pain syndrome along with hyperalgesia and allodynia so I'm always in pain 😣😢😤).
You didn't give life, so you have no right to take it away. It belongs to GOD only. No matter what He alone allows. It's not easy to accept, but true, none the less.
My mom passed away from ALS a little over 2yrs ago and this disease seems just like that. It starts with loss of motor skills and progresses to lose of speech and eventually takes their life. It is a horrible thing to have to endure and just as horrible to watch your loved one go through knowing that there is nothing you can do to help them other than make them as comfortable as possible and keep loving them as much as possible!! I miss my mom every second of every day and my life has changed so much since she has gone. I then lost a sister to cancer 1 year later and I was very close to her also and it has had such a huge impact on my life losing both of them, it doesn't get better with time like people say because it feels like I just lost them both yesterday and I feel that way every second of every day also. I want to say to them both, GONKY & NIMI I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU EVERY SECOND OF MY DAY AND I WILL SEE YOU WHEN I GET TO HEAVEN ONE DAY, TILL THEN I WILL CONTINUE TO DO AS I PROMISED YOU BOTH SO KEEP WATCHING OVER ME!! 😢
This is so sad! I hope the laws have changed. Maybe if the person /people who make these laws were suffering or had a loved one in the same situation I bet bet you the laws would be changed very quickly.
No one should be able to dictate when you die or how. If there is an alternative to living in a shell that no longer provides love and protection with no way out then I back people 110% to choose their own time. Xx
To all the people suffering with this terrible disease just know that many of us throughout the world are and will continue to pray for all of you and when you get to heaven your new journey of pain free life will begin. God bless all of you 🙏
I think it’s extremely selfish to tell someone they can’t die peacefully on their own terms. Being scared or uncomfortable with death isn’t gonna stop it from happening.
That's sad, when the brain gies. I think they should put people to sleep. Y should humans suffer, with neurological problems? My suster had Lewy Body dementia for 7 years. She had round the clock care, in her house , for 4 years. Diapers no motor skills, couldnt talk. The last 3, in assisted living, in Darien, CT. The Residence. It was very expensive . 3700 a month, and with all the extras, 10,000 a month. Private ins. The greedy corporations, just want money.
My grandad died a long drawn out death of this disease my grandma was a mormon so insisted on keeping him alive on tubes for years she didnt know how to let go . It was terrible . He was a professional footballer before he got ill so hated been bed ridden more than most .they also lived in Australia. Its been over 20 years now sad to find out they still haven't changed the laws
when our dogs are at that point we give him a shot and they just go to sleep peacefully painlessly. why can't we do that for our loved ones? why can we not get control of our politicians?
I believe everyone should have the right to die with dignity. I am from the USA and fully support that right. But, it's all about the money. I hope you get that right to die when you feel it's time. No one wants to watch a loved one suffer. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Who ever is at fault for making people live their last life suffering should move in and be a care taker to these people, believe me you will change your mind immediately
My cousin, who was loved by many and had an exciting life, just died suddenly at the age of 54....at times, I wonder if it's better to die young with people who love u or die old, after most of the people u once loved are gone...
I’m barely seeing this and she’s such a beautiful soul💙 Here in Texas we don’t have that law I have Cancer and I’m ready to go. I don’t know how to start do I call Doctors I don’t know what I need? Can someone tell me?
Esmeralda Montalvo. Hi there, here in NZ we do have the right to assisted dying, once your disease is classed as terminal with a six month period of life left, you have the right to choose and make that decision. This was passed in parliament last year. Of course there are certain groups and doctors who stand against this bill of rights. It is your choice and yours alone! I believe there are certain states in the US that have this option available to those who seek it. I have heard that many people who are terminal and don’t have that right in their state, they move home to a another State that has that law in place. Your doctor should to able to inform you of all the details required, even if it is against his belief. Stand firm and seek out which states can assist you. I hope you get the help you need. When my time comes, I shall also chose the same path. 💕🇳🇿
Hi I just want to say bless you firstly . In Oregon I heard of a place called the hemlock society I hope everything will go smoothly for you we all are gonna go down this path and no one needs to suffer unnecessarily.
If we had a pet and allowed it to suffer a horrible death we would be put in jail. I deserve the right to say quality over quality and if i no longer have quality of life let me go, with dignity and respect and love.
A person should have the right to do what they want to do. Many times it is not what they want but it is the better way for them than leaving someone to suffer so bad.
Diese Unfairness habe ich nie verstanden. Die liebsten und tollsten Menschen, die gebraucht werden und eine unfassbare Leere hinterlassen, die leben wollen, die werden oft viel zu früh ihre Familie und Liebsten verlassen. Die jedoch, die nichts und niemanden haben, deren Tod nichtmal auffallen würde und Jahrzehnte lang mit unglaublichen Schmerzen leben, die werden natürlich Steinalt und für alle und jeden zu einer Dauerbelastung. Ich bete für all die Menschen, das sie Kraft und den Mut haben bis zuletzt zu kämpfen. ❤❤❤
I haven’t watched this, but when I scrolled by, I saw that there was a little boy without a pair of pants on. May want to change that screen shot. Just too many creepy perverts in this world, watching anything and turning it into something sick for their own disgusting pleasure.
My mother had a will that included a DNR if she ever had a massive stroke, for example. She'd seen my uncle Eldon and an older friend at our church who had a massive stroke and didn't want to end up like them. In '99, shortly before her 80th birthday, she had a massive stroke and ended up in hospital. The drs. did as she wanted and took her off her meds. I miss her and my dad-who had a heart attack in '84 and died while my sister and I were in college. I also desired a DNR as well and it almost became necessary as I caught Covid and nearly died in 2020- I couldn't find a pharmacy near me that had the vaccine, even though I tested negative then. Fortunately, I didn't test positive for a stroke and am still alive, taking vaccines when needed. Even Dr. Denmark, who lived to be 114, believed in vaccination shots.
II Corinthians 2:9. Eye has not seen Ear has not heard nor mind can conceive what God has in store for those who love them. I have end stage fourCOPD. There is no cure.
As a nurse of decades, I've seen more death than most. I believe IF a person is terminally ill with no cure. They should have a right to a luxurious mini vacation to be completely pampered as well as immediate family. Have a luxury hotel so them, their pets ,spouse and children can be with them and gently and lovingly help them be truely free. I would want that....a nice gentle massage, bubble bath....nice meal....my beloved pets and children around me....soft music......
You live in immense unending pain with cancer and have trouble swallowing then no longer being able to eat. At the end looking like a skeleton from a concentration camp. I 🤔 think know after her death it would have been better for her to choose assisted death than crying out in pain from cancer😭
I’m not here to judge, You really have to listen to Padre Pío, oh God, give me more suffering give more pain, so I can gather my pains with your son Jesus for all us sinners all the people that don’t know you and don’t believe in you. We need to have more faith
My father died of this 15 years ago. It’s heartbreaking! We need to find a cure. X
This video is 6 yrs old. RIP sweet lady, I hope you had a peaceful end. My thoughts to her family. Stay strong.
I too hope your end was peaceful. And I also think it is kind of odd that we can put a pet to sleep to end suffering and can't do it for people.
@@Lynn-d6r- Excellent point!
Dear Mum.... and Dad and family, I am truly so very sorry that Mum has been struck by this truly horrible disease. I watched my mother slowly pass of this devastating, debilitating disease. What is really horrible is her intellect, your Mom's essence, who she is, that bright shiny brilliance of thought and mind, remains fully intact. My Mom passes in 2008 long before the "right to die" legislation for the terminally ill was enacted. Mom, my Mom, passed with dignity and courage, after three long years.. I remember exactly the nursing home calling at six in the morning to say she had just passed. My response... pure joy for her. " Thank God! She is free! Mom is free at last!"
this poor woman if an animal is suffering they dont let them suffer they put them to sleep.A human being should not be forced to suffer like this it is HER RIGHT TO CHOOSE AN NOT SUFFER
Absolutely. It seems cruel to let someone who is close to death, suffer.
My husband’s grandmother was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago. She wants control over her death as well. She told me that she has been saving her morphine for when she decides she is ready to go. I love her dearly. She is a beautiful woman. We all agreed not to interfere with it when she decides it’s her time.
If she has antinausea meds then she should probably keep about the same amount that she is saving as her morphine just to hopefully prevent her body from rejecting the amount of morphine that she plans on taking...... just a thought to keep note of.
Best of luck for/to her and all of your family.
@@Furby_will_protect thank you for the tip. I’ll definitely let her know. ❤️
@@Furby_will_protectThat was nice of you to let her know that. It is her right to choose death instead of living with this most horrible death.
@@katydid1600 I figured that I would give the info about using antinausea meds in rough equivalent to the amount of the opiate that the grandmother is going to take in effort to hasten the speed of death (in order to have a good death) is because if her body rejects the opiate (vomits it) then the lady will likely need to wait until the next fill of medication while at the same not having any to cover for pain control until the next fill of medication. In my personal experience with having severe chronic pain, if I don't have enough opiate in my system (like right now because of the migraines I have actually get worse when I take my regular amount of opiate) I'm not a fan of having anything touching my skin whether it be air being blown on my skin, blankets/coverings, clothes or even my own skin on my body because of how hypersensitive my nerves are (I've got CRPS, central pain syndrome along with hyperalgesia and allodynia so I'm always in pain 😣😢😤).
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Suffering is worst than dying.
Well that’s a given
You are so right everyone should have that choice god bless you Annie I hope you get your wish ❤❤
The "crime" is NOT dying with dignity. It is not be allowed to.
now we have legal euthanasia at last here in Australia
Everyone has the right to terminate their own lives in situations like this. The society needs to get over it and grow intellectually.
I Agree.😢
Agreed its all so backwards to think society are so ignorant, assisted dying is not just wonderful gift it is absolutely the persons right!!
Yes I agree💯
You didn't give life, so you have no right to take it away. It belongs to GOD only. No matter what He alone allows. It's not easy to accept, but true, none the less.
He alone decides our fate.
We would not allow a beloved pet to suffer like this, why another human being, especially a loved one, close family?
My mom passed away from ALS a little over 2yrs ago and this disease seems just like that. It starts with loss of motor skills and progresses to lose of speech and eventually takes their life. It is a horrible thing to have to endure and just as horrible to watch your loved one go through knowing that there is nothing you can do to help them other than make them as comfortable as possible and keep loving them as much as possible!! I miss my mom every second of every day and my life has changed so much since she has gone. I then lost a sister to cancer 1 year later and I was very close to her also and it has had such a huge impact on my life losing both of them, it doesn't get better with time like people say because it feels like I just lost them both yesterday and I feel that way every second of every day also. I want to say to them both, GONKY & NIMI I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU EVERY SECOND OF MY DAY AND I WILL SEE YOU WHEN I GET TO HEAVEN ONE DAY, TILL THEN I WILL CONTINUE TO DO AS I PROMISED YOU BOTH SO KEEP WATCHING OVER ME!! 😢
hi, yes, I believe MND is the same disease as ALS. My mom also died from .aLS in 2008, yet, it feels like yesterday...
It is the same disease yes.
Bless her heart , the worst possible ending for any human being
This is so sad! I hope the laws have changed. Maybe if the person /people who make these laws were suffering or had a loved one in the same situation I bet bet you the laws would be changed very quickly.
No one should be able to dictate when you die or how. If there is an alternative to living in a shell that no longer provides love and protection with no way out then I back people 110% to choose their own time. Xx
To all the people suffering with this terrible disease just know that many of us throughout the world are and will continue to pray for all of you and when you get to heaven your new journey of pain free life will begin. God bless all of you 🙏
Amen 🙏 ❤
I think it’s extremely selfish to tell someone they can’t die peacefully on their own terms. Being scared or uncomfortable with death isn’t gonna stop it from happening.
What's the big deal about letting people "move on" when they decide they're ready? Let them go!
That's sad, when the brain gies. I think they should put people to sleep. Y should humans suffer, with neurological problems? My suster had Lewy Body dementia for 7 years. She had round the clock care, in her house , for 4 years. Diapers no motor skills, couldnt talk. The last 3, in assisted living, in Darien, CT. The Residence. It was very expensive . 3700 a month, and with all the extras, 10,000 a month. Private ins. The greedy corporations, just want money.
My grandad died a long drawn out death of this disease my grandma was a mormon so insisted on keeping him alive on tubes for years she didnt know how to let go . It was terrible . He was a professional footballer before he got ill so hated been bed ridden more than most .they also lived in Australia. Its been over 20 years now sad to find out they still haven't changed the laws
Everyone contact your representatives- keep pestering them every day until death with dignity legislation is passed in every state.
Gods grace be with you 🙏 ❤
when our dogs are at that point we give him a shot and they just go to sleep peacefully painlessly. why can't we do that for our loved ones? why can we not get control of our politicians?
I believe everyone should have the right to die with dignity. I am from the USA and fully support that right. But, it's all about the money. I hope you get that right to die when you feel it's time. No one wants to watch a loved one suffer. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It’s been six years now and I’m sure she has already passed away. And my Condolences to her family and friends.
Who ever is at fault for making people live their last life suffering should move in and be a care taker to these people, believe me you will change your mind immediately
My cousin, who was loved by many and had an exciting life, just died suddenly at the age of 54....at times, I wonder if it's better to die young with people who love u or die old, after most of the people u once loved are gone...
She died at 55.
Your very thoughtful. I wonder the same think at times. Life is difficult at any age.
We put down dogs because it is sometimes a humane thing to do...why should humans have to suffer!!:(
My cousin lives for 13 years with this disease it was horrible
I get a lot of my pain medication and I would take that if I had too.
we are lucky now at last!
I’m barely seeing this and she’s such a beautiful soul💙 Here in Texas we don’t have that law I have Cancer and I’m ready to go. I don’t know how to start do I call Doctors I don’t know what I need? Can someone tell me?
Esmeralda Montalvo. Hi there, here in NZ we do have the right to assisted dying, once your disease is classed as terminal with a six month period of life left, you have the right to choose and make that decision. This was passed in parliament last year. Of course there are certain groups and doctors who stand against this bill of rights. It is your choice and yours alone! I believe there are certain states in the US that have this option available to those who seek it. I have heard that many people who are terminal and don’t have that right in their state, they move home to a another State that has that law in place. Your doctor should to able to inform you of all the details required, even if it is against his belief. Stand firm and seek out which states can assist you. I hope you get the help you need. When my time comes, I shall also chose the same path. 💕🇳🇿
Hi I just want to say bless you firstly .
In Oregon I heard of a place called the hemlock society I hope everything will go smoothly for you we all are gonna go down this path and no one needs to suffer unnecessarily.
If we had a pet and allowed it to suffer a horrible death we would be put in jail. I deserve the right to say quality over quality and if i no longer have quality of life let me go, with dignity and respect and love.
A person should have the right to do what they want to do. Many times it is not what they want but it is the better way for them than leaving someone to suffer so bad.
Diese Unfairness habe ich nie verstanden. Die liebsten und tollsten Menschen, die gebraucht werden und eine unfassbare Leere hinterlassen, die leben wollen, die werden oft viel zu früh ihre Familie und Liebsten verlassen. Die jedoch, die nichts und niemanden haben, deren Tod nichtmal auffallen würde und Jahrzehnte lang mit unglaublichen Schmerzen leben, die werden natürlich Steinalt und für alle und jeden zu einer Dauerbelastung. Ich bete für all die Menschen, das sie Kraft und den Mut haben bis zuletzt zu kämpfen. ❤❤❤
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Life has value. Suffering has value. God is the Author of Life. It is not our decision when it ends.
I haven’t watched this, but when I scrolled by, I saw that there was a little boy without a pair of pants on. May want to change that screen shot. Just too many creepy perverts in this world, watching anything and turning it into something sick for their own disgusting pleasure.
How is she today in October 2024?
My mother had a will that included a DNR if she ever had a massive stroke, for example. She'd seen my uncle Eldon and an older friend at our church who had a massive stroke and didn't want to end up like them. In '99, shortly before her 80th birthday, she had a massive stroke and ended up in hospital. The drs. did as she wanted and took her off her meds. I miss her and my dad-who had a heart attack in '84 and died while my sister and I were in college. I also desired a DNR as well and it almost became necessary as I caught Covid and nearly died in 2020- I couldn't find a pharmacy near me that had the vaccine, even though I tested negative then. Fortunately, I didn't test positive for a stroke and am still alive, taking vaccines when needed. Even Dr. Denmark, who lived to be 114, believed in vaccination shots.
No vaccine can help AFTER you’re infected with the disease.
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Did Annie Died From This Condition So Sad Scott Erman USA 🇺🇸 😢
Typo goes and sister
II Corinthians 2:9. Eye has not seen Ear has not heard nor mind can conceive what God has in store for those who love them. I have end stage fourCOPD. There is no cure.
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I'll never understand how pro abortionists say "My body my choice" and it's legal nd yet these people don't have a choice
As a nurse of decades, I've seen more death than most. I believe IF a person is terminally ill with no cure. They should have a right to a luxurious mini vacation to be completely pampered as well as immediate family. Have a luxury hotel so them, their pets ,spouse and children can be with them and gently and lovingly help them be truely free.
I would want that....a nice gentle massage, bubble bath....nice meal....my beloved pets and children around me....soft music......
Trust in the Lord Almighty Father GOD/Supreme Creator/The Alpha and The Omega our GOD and lean not unto your own understanding.
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So your lord did this to this woman, and wants to punish her for her wanting to end her pain? Your god is evil then.
you delusional clown, go away and take that nonsense with you
You live in immense unending pain with cancer and have trouble swallowing then no longer being able to eat. At the end looking like a skeleton from a concentration camp. I 🤔 think know after her death it would have been better for her to choose assisted death than crying out in pain from cancer😭
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Not everyone believes in that though, truth be told, no one knows what or who is out there.
I’m not here to judge, You really have to listen to Padre Pío, oh God, give me more suffering give more pain, so I can gather my pains with your son Jesus for all us sinners all the people that don’t know you and don’t believe in you. We need to have more faith
I hope you get your prayer answered.
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@Jamie Gallier
I hope that this person's prayer gets answered ten times over. (It is people like this that give believers like me a bad name.)