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I LOVE YOU 2! In a wonderful 40 year marriage but years ago when we were going through hard times felt God said if you think it is hard in your marriage you have no idea how hard it will be if you leave. I'm so thankful I stuck through the hard times.
I want you both to know that I am ROCKIN' with you! I have been praying for you both ever since the news broke. I am so glad that OUR GOD is a healer and a restorer! Listening to your story and your honesty truly blesses me! I have been married for almost 31 years, and I can attest to the fact that marriage is not for the weak! 😂 But I can also testify to the fact that Our Daddy is faithful! I know He has chosen you both for such a time as this. Continuing to keep you lifted up and sending lots of LOVE! 💜🦋
Love you guys! Thank you for sharing! I’d be interested in hearing about other pastors who were good friends to y’all and supported your family through your journey. Who were they/how did they help/etc.
This is deep Keep healing guys Praying God will perfect all that concern you both in Jesus name name God is a specialist in SECOND CHANCE, HEALING AND GRACE
I'm giggling so hard at the fact that Carl decided to keep the hat. Thanks for sharing this! This is such a powerful and needed ministry. God bless you both.
“…the social media community is so prevalent with people commenting…because they have so much time because they aren’t doing anything.” CARRRRRRRLLLL!!!! 🤯🤯🤯
I agreed! he is so used to speaking that sometimes its hard to filter through what comes out of habit and what is real vulnerability, not rehearsed. I love them both so much i continue to pray over them
Jumping in here with the most respect as well. He has talked in the past about having ADHD. One of the traits people with ADHD have is to interrupt people while talking. I have ADHD and I try as hard as possible to not interrupt people, but my husband knows that when I do it doesn’t come from an unkind or lack of self awareness place. Im not saying that’s the reason why he does it, but it could be. I know that is something I particularly battle a lot with my ADHD.
@@rosamariabelisario6601omg I was just coming to say the same thing!!! It's usually me cutting my husband off because he's going on and on and on. They've been together for awhile so it's probably a combo of him speaking professionally all these years + having ADHD....and Laura's so used to it, so she doesn't really notice. I think that's the most important thing here. If she was fighting to be heard and it was painfully obvious, then I'd says yall are 1000000% right. I've seen some men intentionally try to dominate their wives like that in front of other people and it's super scary. This doesn't look like that...to me!
Doesn't` matter what anyone else thinks Carl & Laura.Jesus says cool, walk with him. That`s it. We all walking the journey. Churchianity followers might try shoot you down but true Jesus followers will be cheering you on.
Have a question: how did this journey affect your faith? Or change the way you view and live faith? I would like to hear more of how much effort you put in in your healing journey and how much of your journey was healed by GOD.
Oh me, oh my. He is not begging for anyone to believe anything he says and I am beyond thankful to see a pastor who has fallen to GET BACK UP to shine a light on things kept in the darkness for mass amounts of people going through the same things. Because he’s got a pod cast he’s trying to change peoples minds?! More like humility for his mistakes and ability to be real and raw in the face of adversity.
@@AnnaliseCisar I guess it’s a trust issue and yes, thats on me. I’ve watched a lot of his content since he started posting again and Im getting that Oprah interview vibe again. Its not my place to judge and demand anything from him but if he’s gonna come out, then he’s gotta stop sounding like how he used to from the pulpit.
What? If you’re sitting there listening for hours just watching to see any sign of honesty in his eyes, stop wasting your time. Go and watch someone whose eyes are glued to the screen instead lol
You know what interrupted this? The fact his talking and his wife is scrolling and staring at her phone. It’s likely pod related but it’s so distracting as his talking and all I can see is the phone in her hand and eyes down.
Yikes. Volunteers didn’t work for him… he was never the boss and so many people in control of him down to the very things he could or couldn’t preach about. Just because someone is paid in a substantial amount does not mean they can’t be used and that can be applied to other careers aside from a pastor. Preaching 5 plus sermons in a day is utterly insane and is absolutely a form of taking advantage of someone including numerous other ways. This seems incredibly judgmental.
I am not going to pretend I know anything about both of you. Yes, the internet is crazy with people talking shit. My observation has been, that you do all the talking. I wish that your wife had more of a voice.
You need to heal before you try to heal others. You do t need to change anyone’s mind. You need to change yours. That’s the only one you can change is your own mindset. Trying to change other’s peoples mind is manipulation.
It's so hard to like you guys for being with Mike Todd. He's one of the worst pastors of our day who had a public platform n the way yall don't see that is just WILD
Been loving your conversations but kinda bugs me to see you talk to each other with phones in hand and on table. Sorry to be negative, but hopefully constructive.
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Chapter Markers
0:00 - Introduction
1:43 - Choose Your Hard
2:41 - Unhealthy, Unsustainable Pace
6:39 - BSIDE SALE: Download the BSIDE App
7:09 - More Is Not Better
9:30 - The Hardest Part?
12:19 - Is Doing This Podcast Healthy?
17:40 - Stepping Out and Taking Risks
22:48 - Proving Things to People, Somebody is Going to Disagree
25:02 - The Theft of Unconscious Bias
27:20 - An Encouragement for the Weary
28:50 - Dealing with Criticism
29:51 - Kanye Said it
31:37 - Conclusion
I LOVE YOU 2! In a wonderful 40 year marriage but years ago when we were going through hard times felt God said if you think it is hard in your marriage you have no idea how hard it will be if you leave. I'm so thankful I stuck through the hard times.
Thank you for being so authentic about your journey! Encouraging and empowering podcasts 🙏🏾
Why do I feel so refreshed everytime I listen to your podcast.....😊Respect
I want you both to know that I am ROCKIN' with you! I have been praying for you both ever since the news broke. I am so glad that OUR GOD is a healer and a restorer! Listening to your story and your honesty truly blesses me! I have been married for almost 31 years, and I can attest to the fact that marriage is not for the weak! 😂 But I can also testify to the fact that Our Daddy is faithful! I know He has chosen you both for such a time as this. Continuing to keep you lifted up and sending lots of LOVE! 💜🦋
Laura, you’re like a breath of fresh air xxx
I like that Carl humbly talks about the situation. It's good to see. Anyone can change!
I’ve enjoyed listening to the journey that you both have been on. May God continue to heal and bless you and your family.
This is THE BEST podcast! I've shared it and it was so impactful, I'm listening to it a second time. THANK YOU for this!
Love you guys! Thank you for sharing! I’d be interested in hearing about other pastors who were good friends to y’all and supported your family through your journey. Who were they/how did they help/etc.
These convos are soo healing. I love these. Such truth. I went through a divorce 16 years ago but never healed...
This has been amazing thank you both for jumping out and living grace in real time
This is so good! I’ve pulled out of “ministry “ just to sit and build my relationship with Jesus. I’m putting the Word into my mind.
Man I really feel for you guys. The world was against you from the beginning. Bless you
This is deep
Keep healing guys
Praying God will perfect all that concern you both in Jesus name name
God is a specialist in SECOND CHANCE, HEALING AND GRACE
So proud of both of you & your family! Love listening to your podcasts from South Africa. Keep up the good work.
I'm giggling so hard at the fact that Carl decided to keep the hat.
Thanks for sharing this! This is such a powerful and needed ministry. God bless you both.
Me too! I have the b-side app but I came here to read the hat hater comments. 😂
Love this ( margin ) so much wisdom ! 👏🇨🇦
“…the social media community is so prevalent with people commenting…because they have so much time because they aren’t doing anything.”
CARRRRRRRLLLL!!!! 🤯🤯🤯
I mean this in the most respectful way, he needs to let her finish speaking. She should def start her own pod. Much love to both of you.🩵
I agreed! he is so used to speaking that sometimes its hard to filter through what comes out of habit and what is real vulnerability, not rehearsed. I love them both so much i continue to pray over them
I wish he would too.. I remember him saying that she usually doesn’t do a lot of talking but even when she does HE CUTS HER OFF EVERY TIME 🤦🏽♀️
Jumping in here with the most respect as well. He has talked in the past about having ADHD. One of the traits people with ADHD have is to interrupt people while talking. I have ADHD and I try as hard as possible to not interrupt people, but my husband knows that when I do it doesn’t come from an unkind or lack of self awareness place. Im not saying that’s the reason why he does it, but it could be. I know that is something I particularly battle a lot with my ADHD.
@@rosamariabelisario6601omg I was just coming to say the same thing!!! It's usually me cutting my husband off because he's going on and on and on. They've been together for awhile so it's probably a combo of him speaking professionally all these years + having ADHD....and Laura's so used to it, so she doesn't really notice. I think that's the most important thing here. If she was fighting to be heard and it was painfully obvious, then I'd says yall are 1000000% right. I've seen some men intentionally try to dominate their wives like that in front of other people and it's super scary. This doesn't look like that...to me!
I love you guys ❤❤❤
I am very proud of the both of you!!
literally been thinking about the whole thing more is not always better!!
Love this podcast ❤
Doesn't` matter what anyone else thinks Carl & Laura.Jesus says cool, walk with him. That`s it. We all walking the journey. Churchianity followers might try shoot you down but true Jesus followers will be cheering you on.
Less is more!!! So true! ❤
Love you guys souch!
Great job!! ❤❤❤
Good to see this knowing the history.
Toby
Lauras answer about finding one or two true friends- HOW do you find the right ones.
Have a question: how did this journey affect your faith? Or change the way you view and live faith?
I would like to hear more of how much effort you put in in your healing journey and how much of your journey was healed by GOD.
Uufff! Being a Christian for 12 years “more” seems to always be good. But is it heathy????? So good!
who are the two celebrity pastors you refer to? what about all the instagram ones- duck dynasty etc?
Who are those celebrity pastors?
Who are the TWO celebrity pastors?! 😂
These comments about his eyes being covered.. gross
This pod is dope
“Its not my job to change people’s minds” and yet here you are.
Oh me, oh my. He is not begging for anyone to believe anything he says and I am beyond thankful to see a pastor who has fallen to GET BACK UP to shine a light on things kept in the darkness for mass amounts of people going through the same things. Because he’s got a pod cast he’s trying to change peoples minds?! More like humility for his mistakes and ability to be real and raw in the face of adversity.
@@AnnaliseCisar I guess it’s a trust issue and yes, thats on me. I’ve watched a lot of his content since he started posting again and Im getting that Oprah interview vibe again. Its not my place to judge and demand anything from him but if he’s gonna come out, then he’s gotta stop sounding like how he used to from the pulpit.
He doesn't let her speak. He takes over completely. It's annoying and uncomfortable to watch.
Do you mind not chewing gum when you do the podcast? 😅
He's lost touch with reality
Please stop chewing gum during your podcast presentation…..super distracting!
I can't watch the last two videos because his eyes are covered. I need to see your eyes to see if you are genuine or if you are hiding.
What? If you’re sitting there listening for hours just watching to see any sign of honesty in his eyes, stop wasting your time. Go and watch someone whose eyes are glued to the screen instead lol
You got a gift! You should join a circus. 😂
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Carl\s gotta lose the gum... the smacking into the microphone omg.
He loves hearing himself talk he’s good at it but let Laura talk !
You know what interrupted this? The fact his talking and his wife is scrolling and staring at her phone. It’s likely pod related but it’s so distracting as his talking and all I can see is the phone in her hand and eyes down.
You were being paid a huge amount. It doesn't seem like you were being used. You got a huge paycheck. You had volunteers that worked for free.
Yikes. Volunteers didn’t work for him… he was never the boss and so many people in control of him down to the very things he could or couldn’t preach about. Just because someone is paid in a substantial amount does not mean they can’t be used and that can be applied to other careers aside from a pastor. Preaching 5 plus sermons in a day is utterly insane and is absolutely a form of taking advantage of someone including numerous other ways. This seems incredibly judgmental.
I am not going to pretend I know anything about both of you. Yes, the internet is crazy with people talking shit. My observation has been, that you do all the talking. I wish that your wife had more of a voice.
You need to heal before you try to heal others. You do t need to change anyone’s mind. You need to change yours. That’s the only one you can change is your own mindset. Trying to change other’s peoples mind is manipulation.
Can somebody tell Carl to STOP wearing his hat please!!!! Bro, I want to see your eyes. You don't need a hat to be cool man.
It's so hard to like you guys for being with Mike Todd. He's one of the worst pastors of our day who had a public platform n the way yall don't see that is just WILD
I have no skin in the game here, if you don’t mind me asking, why is it that you think that about Mike Todd?
@@ronniechacon3909Have you seen his controversial sermons?
it's very distracting that you don't see Carl's eyes. Hard to watch.
Been loving your conversations but kinda bugs me to see you talk to each other with phones in hand and on table. Sorry to be negative, but hopefully constructive.
Alright, commented too quick. Your questions are on the phone. I get it. I think there's a Proverb about speaking to quickly. I'll go read it.