Can give advice and be speak truthfully with absolutely no disrespect to woman or the guys watching. That makes you high quality! LFA is a high value Alpha man. A real man! Love the beautiful green trees in this vid! Enjoy your evening 👍👍
A "real" man is a male 18 years of age or older with XY chromosomes, the unique internal organs, and the primary and secondary characteristics attendant to that. What a "real man' is not is a set of socially engineered social, physical, mental, etc. "standards" created by women through manufactured consensus on social media or anywhere else intended to brainwash all women to desire .06% of the male population after criteria are accounted for, but you do you. Just sayin'.
Lfa really doesn’t give a F lol 100% facts small example I was mad a couple days ago and this girl would not stop bothering me until I talked to her it was just an excuse to talk to me because as soon as I told her she was just like oh cool np try to control yourself more then we talked about other stuff.
The second part is spot on, communicating what you value and expect in a partnership is important and will save you the trouble further down the road. Just my two cents.
Ahoy there muscle mate. Right on brother . I’m 44 have much experience with dating women . Some women can’t submit to you period . After 2018 when I found your channel at 38 you were Truth TFL is real . Life is short . Go Doll b4 Democrat. Don’t be drinking any Budlights M.A.G.A.
I like it. Women also portray established independence because we have to until a male can take the place for that masculine need-we don’t have a man to protect, support and lead within our home (if we live on our own). But once the right male steps into that place, we are able to submit, while still remaining strong. Women have that need to obtain independence (which is a masculine feature) because we’re more likely to “leave the nest” early on instead of, per se, living at home with our parents until we’re were married (which is an out-of-date concept now). Trust is very important for willingness to submit because we’re putting our lives, decisions, and navigation into his hands. If we can’t trust your ability to make the best decisions for us, well… the last person you’d entrust your life to is a fool…
Huh.....so you'll go all neo-traditional when the right man shows up....got it. So that super-buff alpha airhead is supposed to forget and/or overlook your already-established masculine attitudes (which I doubt you'd relinquish) plus your likely-high body count? Right, ok. You're telling me that you'll suddenly submit after all that "independence" just because he meets criteria? Living at home until you're married enables men or women to save for that future they want. Consensus change doesn't make a concept "outdated", rather, if the concept was invalid or foolhardy, then you could make that case. Hearing the constant complaints from co-workers about living paycheck to paycheck just so they can fuck random guys/girls without parental knowledge. What's more, some of them are on gov't assistance on my dime. I hope it's worth it for those Stalinka dwellers. Some months ago, I was able to put close to $100K in a CD account? Why? because it's not going to a section 8 slum lord. Save your money.
Respectfully, I understand you think that is the logical and reasonable approach, but that's like a man saying I'll be a womanizer until I meet the proper feminine submissive loving woman. You are what you practice and are a reflection of your mindset. My achievements and drive to be on my purpose are totally and utterly independent of my interactions with women. No matter who you are, im still the principled masculine man. You can be a 304, a church goer or one of these so-called independent modern women, im still me. Not a mask,not a hedge or a cope or an excuse. You might believe your conditional feminine submissive side will be activated easily and automatically after many months,years or experiences and bodies. You are what you practice
@@owlontheprowl1657 I think you may be confusing independence with the recent wave of toxic feminism. Those are two separate creatures for sure. If we were submissive to every man that came along, then we wouldn’t end up with a good man in the end and wouldn’t have a way to “weed the bad one out”. Because the times have changed and we are given the opportunity to higher education, careers, and the ability to own property and make our own decisions, we have to be capable of standing our own ground in that factor. That doesn’t mean we have to step on men to do that successfully. However, it also doesn’t mean we should trust any man along the way. We are no longer under our father’s household until marriage-thus, we’ve lost the ability to have the protection and financial support by doing so. (We can still seek guidance and such from our fathers, but ideally we are left to be independent). Realistically speaking, we HAVE to succeed at independence due to the societal shifts in the last few decades. That doesn’t mean a woman has to be tough or hard natured.. it just simply means she has to look out for herself. And that doesn’t mean she’s not capable of being submissive. I know for myself that I am only submissive to four men in my life-God, my father, and my brothers. So technically, I practice that daily on those who have earned my trust. I seek their guidance and given heavy weight to their words. Certainly I would submit to a man I’m dating if he can earn that same place as them. But until then, I still remain independent, strong, and capable of being responsible for myself.
I will submit while renaming strong…. If you speak womanize you understand what she’s saying. I will act feminine till the right gal comes along and draws out my macho side! Oh wait that’s dangerous I’ll be killed! This madness stops when the safety net crumbles, society collapses and the elitees put the chaos in full gear. Y’all will see how weak and deceitful they really are 😂😂
As a beta boy, being useful to the Alpha Jock is my utmost priority, watching this just makes _me_ wanna submit. 🤣 Thanks for letting a beta boy like me appreciate a Real Man that i'll never be, and i'm Honored for it, Boss Man Sir!
Women will fully submit to you first 2 years then thy get bold and do whatever thy like..honeymoon period lasts always 2 years at max then everything gets bored for HER
The funny thing is, I usually use a $2,000 camera with a super expensive lense and mic. In this video, I used my iPhone 14 pro with the built in mic. And the video and audio both sound GREAT!
Part of me knows you're right but the other part of me thinks that this just sounds exhausting and draining to have to "hold frame" like this constantly. My last ex wore me down over time and i started slipping. But maybe I'm just not at the man level I need to be at yet. Maybe at a certain level it becomes more natural. 🤷
It's not about good guys it's all about good men . Being men is the only thing . Do you instinct stick your standard. Always improving your own self . Be honourable .
He’s right about dominate acting independent women. Once she submits to you leading, it balances out her life. They get tired of being the boss at work or putting up a front and need a man she can be vulnerable and submissive around. Just don’t betray that or she will go full Dom mode.
Social isolation,backhanded complements and Full on gaslighting to make her question herself all of the time....that way she dont question if your the best she can get and other women cant influence her. it sounds bad but this is how you keep a woman.
Having just trust and communication is not enough - 100%. At least not with a narcissistic chick or super alpha chick. I’m telling you 100%. It’s not enough. Trust me I know. In this case game is very important.
The analogy you presented with 50 Shades of Gray is something I've never thought about before. After listening to your explanation, there is no doubt in my mind that you are absolutely correct. Thank you for helping me gain insight on the female perspective
Hah, you said such a blue pill that I'm surprised it's coming out of your mouth. Communication and trust are nowhere near the reason why a woman would submit to you. The key to getting a woman to submit to you is that you have a higher sexual value than her and that you behave accordingly
the thing is tho to get past the first stage of being even able to talk to her u need to traits for example looks status money (of course dont flaunt your money right of the bat) but i mean to even talk to a girl u already need to be a certain caliber of man
Man I love your content. It's so entertaining to watch these videos. But I got to tell you it's a wonderful place to get to in life when you don't hate women, you just realize thoroughly to your bones and to your heart that you do not need them. Your whole ass person by yourself. You young guys need to realize that chasing these women in any way is a very pathetic pursuit and a one-way ticket to unhappiness. Be strong and be a real man and walk around knowing you do not need a woman in your life to make it complete, fulfilling, and satisfying. Leave the women alone as my father used to say. Go out and chase your purpose. Chase your true self. There you will find all the love you will ever need. Women will distract you from your true happiness.
@@LFA I've had that. For me, it's highly overrated. Maybe I'm just not patient enough but the best woman on Earth still requires patience and energy that I just no longer have. I went through way too many women in my youth. Most were shit, but some were amazing ladies. Especially my daughter's mother. She was and still is a great woman. I love all my female friends but the thought of attempting to date any of them is nauseating. Bro, while I was singing for a pretty popular East Coast band I slept with hundreds and hundreds of women. Most were skanks of course, but some were definitely high value women, professionals, HR directors, marketing directors, agents, etc. Either I'm loving the last year I've taken off from any sort of female contact a little bit too much, or this is just the life I was supposed to have been living. I don't know if he said it but Tom Hardy's quote really does say it best. "Being alone for a while is dangerous. It's addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people on that level anymore." That said, I realize you're talking to mostly younger guys, not my 50 year old ass, but hey man, I love your videos. Kind of my new little binge list. lol. I've listened to a lot of the dating coaches lIke AMS and while they make me laugh, you are 100% right, they are garbage. If young men are really wanting that female attraction so badly, at least yours teaches them how to do it right. So that said, if I ever do get back out there in that fucked up world of dating, especially at my age, I'd follow everything you have said. You nail it every single video my friend. You're doing good work so keep it up! I'll keep watching. I can't count how many times you've had me lookin silly from laughing so hard while listening to your great videos. 🙏🤘🏻💪
@@LFA now if I could just get the semen retention thing down, I think I'd be all set. lol. That shit is harder than quitting drinking!!! And I've been sober now 77 days after 30 years of HARD drinking bro. Jesus it's tough to stop jerkin off. lol. Keep those videos coming through. It's part of my spiritual journey I'm on. I went on the Keto diet and do intermittent fasting so now I'm sober, have the flat belly I wanted, but now onto my next challenge. SR. Any advice you have I'll be listening all ears bro!
I understand that but she doesn't trust me just because I don't trust her so how does that make sense and in the same since yeah I'd like her to submit but at the same time if it's going to be a bigger train wreck that I already exsperienced then I'm not going to be interested anyhow I just Care about her and what is best for her just saying but she can't seem to understand that I guess that makes me the week one cuz I want what I want and don't like playing games just saying smh
When you're a man in your 40's and want women in their early 20's then it's all about game. Not all of us are the perfect looking tall man with a beard that get it so easily. This is still Chad advice 100% I'm short, fat and missing teeth but because I know how to flirt and build emotions I am still able to captivate them. You must know how to show interest but also show her that she isn't everything. Give a little and then make her work for more. This gets her invested in you. When you give her all the attention and validation for free Then there is no value.
Nah. Some valid points, but i mostly disagree with your trust argument largely. They’re 304s at heart. They love taboo. It’s not just about trust. They want to be bad.
The business point was so on "point" you feel much more devalue than valued in their content then you go outside and wonder why this guy, he is not "high value" and in a relationship with HER? May be he is just a great human being so High value most of time, the girls around those "high value" are not even that pretty lmao, just hollow chicks, you can smell it. I am not into that.
Can give advice and be speak truthfully with absolutely no disrespect to woman or the guys watching. That makes you high quality! LFA is a high value Alpha man. A real man! Love the beautiful green trees in this vid! Enjoy your evening 👍👍
Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@LFA Welcome
A "real" man is a male 18 years of age or older with XY chromosomes, the unique internal organs, and the primary and secondary characteristics attendant to that. What a "real man' is not is a set of socially engineered social, physical, mental, etc. "standards" created by women through manufactured consensus on social media or anywhere else intended to brainwash all women to desire .06% of the male population after criteria are accounted for, but you do you. Just sayin'.
We can't control who we submit to, submission is an unconscious reaction to being around a dominant masculine man who we admire i believe
Also to whom we respect and admire
Yeah, you can control almost nothing as a woman. That's why you need protection and control outside.
Lfa really doesn’t give a F lol 100% facts small example I was mad a couple days ago and this girl would not stop bothering me until I talked to her it was just an excuse to talk to me because as soon as I told her she was just like oh cool np try to control yourself more then we talked about other stuff.
The second part is spot on, communicating what you value and expect in a partnership is important and will save you the trouble further down the road. Just my two cents.
The man doesn’t have to tell you he’s the man….
Ahoy there muscle mate. Right on brother . I’m 44 have much experience with dating women . Some women can’t submit to you period . After 2018 when I found your channel at 38 you were Truth TFL is real . Life is short . Go Doll b4 Democrat. Don’t be drinking any Budlights M.A.G.A.
Lol
This is correct. 100%.
👊🏼 Salute Brother!
Salute bros
@@LFAsalute men
Good talk bro, trust and communication 💯
💯Some of your best work here, thank you.
This was banger! High quality content!
I like it. Women also portray established independence because we have to until a male can take the place for that masculine need-we don’t have a man to protect, support and lead within our home (if we live on our own). But once the right male steps into that place, we are able to submit, while still remaining strong. Women have that need to obtain independence (which is a masculine feature) because we’re more likely to “leave the nest” early on instead of, per se, living at home with our parents until we’re were married (which is an out-of-date concept now).
Trust is very important for willingness to submit because we’re putting our lives, decisions, and navigation into his hands. If we can’t trust your ability to make the best decisions for us, well… the last person you’d entrust your life to is a fool…
Huh.....so you'll go all neo-traditional when the right man shows up....got it. So that super-buff alpha airhead is supposed to forget and/or overlook your already-established masculine attitudes (which I doubt you'd relinquish) plus your likely-high body count? Right, ok. You're telling me that you'll suddenly submit after all that "independence" just because he meets criteria? Living at home until you're married enables men or women to save for that future they want. Consensus change doesn't make a concept "outdated", rather, if the concept was invalid or foolhardy, then you could make that case. Hearing the constant complaints from co-workers about living paycheck to paycheck just so they can fuck random guys/girls without parental knowledge. What's more, some of them are on gov't assistance on my dime. I hope it's worth it for those Stalinka dwellers. Some months ago, I was able to put close to $100K in a CD account? Why? because it's not going to a section 8 slum lord. Save your money.
@Cary Sontag oh lawd 🤣🤣🤣
Respectfully, I understand you think that is the logical and reasonable approach, but that's like a man saying I'll be a womanizer until I meet the proper feminine submissive loving woman. You are what you practice and are a reflection of your mindset. My achievements and drive to be on my purpose are totally and utterly independent of my interactions with women. No matter who you are, im still the principled masculine man. You can be a 304, a church goer or one of these so-called independent modern women, im still me. Not a mask,not a hedge or a cope or an excuse. You might believe your conditional feminine submissive side will be activated easily and automatically after many months,years or experiences and bodies. You are what you practice
@@owlontheprowl1657 I think you may be confusing independence with the recent wave of toxic feminism. Those are two separate creatures for sure. If we were submissive to every man that came along, then we wouldn’t end up with a good man in the end and wouldn’t have a way to “weed the bad one out”. Because the times have changed and we are given the opportunity to higher education, careers, and the ability to own property and make our own decisions, we have to be capable of standing our own ground in that factor. That doesn’t mean we have to step on men to do that successfully. However, it also doesn’t mean we should trust any man along the way. We are no longer under our father’s household until marriage-thus, we’ve lost the ability to have the protection and financial support by doing so. (We can still seek guidance and such from our fathers, but ideally we are left to be independent). Realistically speaking, we HAVE to succeed at independence due to the societal shifts in the last few decades. That doesn’t mean a woman has to be tough or hard natured.. it just simply means she has to look out for herself. And that doesn’t mean she’s not capable of being submissive. I know for myself that I am only submissive to four men in my life-God, my father, and my brothers. So technically, I practice that daily on those who have earned my trust. I seek their guidance and given heavy weight to their words. Certainly I would submit to a man I’m dating if he can earn that same place as them. But until then, I still remain independent, strong, and capable of being responsible for myself.
I will submit while renaming strong…. If you speak womanize you understand what she’s saying.
I will act feminine till the right gal comes along and draws out my macho side! Oh wait that’s dangerous I’ll be killed!
This madness stops when the safety net crumbles, society collapses and the elitees put the chaos in full gear. Y’all will see how weak and deceitful they really are 😂😂
Great advce bro. You deserve way more subscribers and views
Thanks!
I appreciate that!!
@@LFA it’s smart to change the narrative. Being real ! 👍👍 gotta get you and Tate on a show together.
Facts!
This one is hands down one of the best vids ive seen , no fluff. Pure information, great stuff
Men of fearless you say the truth
Shutu low classes rock bottoms outu ! Completely thickened and elevated ! Outu bro !
Thank You , Blessings 😊🤗💖🏕🏞🏝⛵
As a beta boy, being useful to the Alpha Jock is my utmost priority, watching this just makes _me_ wanna submit. 🤣 Thanks for letting a beta boy like me appreciate a Real Man that i'll never be, and i'm Honored for it, Boss Man Sir!
This could be the most important video in the manosphere .
Average dudes have no chance. When big alpha shows up, she is all smiles 😂
Always be big alpha
Boss
Nicely explained bro
Women will fully submit to you first 2 years then thy get bold and do whatever thy like..honeymoon period lasts always 2 years at max then everything gets bored for HER
once the feelings and honeymoon phase wears off, it becomes "who files the papers for divorce first?"
Or, they get so attached to you that they become a pest and you end up getting a few side chicks.
Thats why you never want to fully commit to them
@@dragorn3212 or be as much apart as you are together.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 yep and just when she thinks you're going to commit, you get drunk and forget to respond to her
Hey LFA I missed your live videos man, I hope you'll do it again soon.
I’ll try to make a 1 hr live every Thursday on my live channel.
W LFA livestreams
LFA, what camera do you use? It looks awesome.
The funny thing is, I usually use a $2,000 camera with a super expensive lense and mic. In this video, I used my iPhone 14 pro with the built in mic. And the video and audio both sound GREAT!
2:15
trusts you
Adequate amount of communication
that cigarette example is so so good
2-5 years then its starts to decline..the gonna lay their emotionals needs etc all over the place😮spreading...
0:59 You just red pilled us about The Red Pill there, lol.
Part of me knows you're right but the other part of me thinks that this just sounds exhausting and draining to have to "hold frame" like this constantly. My last ex wore me down over time and i started slipping.
But maybe I'm just not at the man level I need to be at yet. Maybe at a certain level it becomes more natural. 🤷
Who said anything about holding frame?
Believe n follow Jesus Christ
This guy is all truth
My guy
It's not about good guys it's all about good men . Being men is the only thing . Do you instinct stick your standard. Always improving your own self . Be honourable .
He’s right about dominate acting independent women. Once she submits to you leading, it balances out her life. They get tired of being the boss at work or putting up a front and need a man she can be vulnerable and submissive around. Just don’t betray that or she will go full Dom mode.
"That's your Red pill for today" 😂
Love and honour the woman and the will submit😊
This is gold
Great video,
Thanks uncle lfa
Social isolation,backhanded complements and Full on gaslighting to make her question herself all of the time....that way she dont question if your the best she can get and other women cant influence her. it sounds bad but this is how you keep a woman.
Having just trust and communication is not enough - 100%. At least not with a narcissistic chick or super alpha chick. I’m telling you 100%. It’s not enough. Trust me I know. In this case game is very important.
Thanks for sharing your experience! But what you call game, men call being men.
so their looking for an unaccountable, insecure little boy. have fun with them
Good one
Women are superficialy emotional and deeply practical
Elevated bro 😂
The analogy you presented with 50 Shades of Gray is something I've never thought about before. After listening to your explanation, there is no doubt in my mind that you are absolutely correct. Thank you for helping me gain insight on the female perspective
Facts 🔥🔥🔥
Figure 4 leg lock?
Do u like Casey Zander???
Very very abusive and controlling male , a male bro !
What camera do you use?
today i kept it simple and used my iphone. I usually use a $2000 camera
@@LFA looks clean af
It does the job. Post production does the rest.
The idea that you have to have higher market value than her is usually true though. The rest is good.
14:30 what about weed?
Hah, you said such a blue pill that I'm surprised it's coming out of your mouth. Communication and trust are nowhere near the reason why a woman would submit to you. The key to getting a woman to submit to you is that you have a higher sexual value than her and that you behave accordingly
You’re sugar daddy pilled. That doesn’t apply to men who women actually like,
You mean they dangle the threat of all the other women who want them in her face, right. I dumped my ex for doing that.
interesting
the thing is tho to get past the first stage of being even able to talk to her u need to traits for example looks status money (of course dont flaunt your money right of the bat) but i mean to even talk to a girl u already need to be a certain caliber of man
This was for guys that are already past that stage brother.
@@LFA oh my bad
very true. If a man doesn't have that stuff, he might as well remove himself from the game. I did.
Believe n folllpw Jesus Christ. Done
This is why I dipped random girls
Man I love your content. It's so entertaining to watch these videos. But I got to tell you it's a wonderful place to get to in life when you don't hate women, you just realize thoroughly to your bones and to your heart that you do not need them. Your whole ass person by yourself. You young guys need to realize that chasing these women in any way is a very pathetic pursuit and a one-way ticket to unhappiness. Be strong and be a real man and walk around knowing you do not need a woman in your life to make it complete, fulfilling, and satisfying. Leave the women alone as my father used to say. Go out and chase your purpose. Chase your true self. There you will find all the love you will ever need. Women will distract you from your true happiness.
Yeah but life is much better with a good woman by your side.
@@LFA I've had that. For me, it's highly overrated. Maybe I'm just not patient enough but the best woman on Earth still requires patience and energy that I just no longer have. I went through way too many women in my youth. Most were shit, but some were amazing ladies. Especially my daughter's mother. She was and still is a great woman. I love all my female friends but the thought of attempting to date any of them is nauseating. Bro, while I was singing for a pretty popular East Coast band I slept with hundreds and hundreds of women. Most were skanks of course, but some were definitely high value women, professionals, HR directors, marketing directors, agents, etc. Either I'm loving the last year I've taken off from any sort of female contact a little bit too much, or this is just the life I was supposed to have been living. I don't know if he said it but Tom Hardy's quote really does say it best. "Being alone for a while is dangerous. It's addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people on that level anymore." That said, I realize you're talking to mostly younger guys, not my 50 year old ass, but hey man, I love your videos. Kind of my new little binge list. lol. I've listened to a lot of the dating coaches lIke AMS and while they make me laugh, you are 100% right, they are garbage. If young men are really wanting that female attraction so badly, at least yours teaches them how to do it right. So that said, if I ever do get back out there in that fucked up world of dating, especially at my age, I'd follow everything you have said. You nail it every single video my friend. You're doing good work so keep it up! I'll keep watching. I can't count how many times you've had me lookin silly from laughing so hard while listening to your great videos. 🙏🤘🏻💪
@@LFA now if I could just get the semen retention thing down, I think I'd be all set. lol. That shit is harder than quitting drinking!!! And I've been sober now 77 days after 30 years of HARD drinking bro. Jesus it's tough to stop jerkin off. lol. Keep those videos coming through. It's part of my spiritual journey I'm on. I went on the Keto diet and do intermittent fasting so now I'm sober, have the flat belly I wanted, but now onto my next challenge. SR. Any advice you have I'll be listening all ears bro!
Women it's feels before reals
I understand that but she doesn't trust me just because I don't trust her so how does that make sense and in the same since yeah I'd like her to submit but at the same time if it's going to be a bigger train wreck that I already exsperienced then I'm not going to be interested anyhow I just Care about her and what is best for her just saying but she can't seem to understand that I guess that makes me the week one cuz I want what I want and don't like playing games just saying smh
How old are you LFA
When you're a man in your 40's and want women in their early 20's then it's all about game.
Not all of us are the perfect looking tall man with a beard that get it so easily.
This is still Chad advice 100%
I'm short, fat and missing teeth but because I know how to flirt and build emotions I am still able to captivate them.
You must know how to show interest but also show her that she isn't everything. Give a little and then make her work for more. This gets her invested in you. When you give her all the attention and validation for free Then there is no value.
Nah. Some valid points, but i mostly disagree with your trust argument largely. They’re 304s at heart. They love taboo. It’s not just about trust. They want to be bad.
get a better camerara / computer so you can make the video as long as needed
that is the right choice
The business point was so on "point"
you feel much more devalue than valued in their content then you go outside and wonder why this guy, he is not "high value" and in a relationship with HER? May be he is just a great human being so High value
most of time, the girls around those "high value" are not even that pretty lmao, just hollow chicks, you can smell it. I am not into that.
Why you dont talk about seed retention no more??😢
That’s only a small part of my journey
Hes like 36
Close
Ahh chilling mode 🫡😆
YOU MAKE A WOMAN SUBMIT TO YOU BY LEAVING THE WEST AND TRAVELING OVERSEAS YOURE WELCOME
No lies detected
I couldn't care less because they never really submit for long. Best to next.
How old are you LFA