It's always not that the man doesn't want to allow the woman to work or that he is not willing to share responsibility. Some mothers or most mothers or I don't know maybe all mother's get very possessive of their kids esp if the kids get attached to anybody more than them a lot of times they feel they failed and it really takes an emotional toll on them.
@@PMcseYes, every woman must be financially independent but here I ain't talking about that. I was talking about the sacrifice that Mothers make for their children ( for instance, leaving her job so that she can take care of her family properly) - Not every independent woman can make sacrifices. Hence, mothers do deserve massive respect.
But sacrifice se kich ni milta Main apni shadi per 40kg thi 3bachche hue c section se ghar se nahi nikli bachcho me busy hogai aaj weight 84 hai Spine problem hogai Log sacrifice na dekhker bolte hain kam khaya kar Main kal bhi vegetarian thi aaj bhi Outside food nahi khati But ghar se bahar nahi nikalti shayad isliye weight gain hua... Lekin ye kisi ko samajh ni ata Subah walk k liye jai bachche chote hain Sham me nikli dinner time Dopeher me bachcho ko sulana zaroori hai... Lekin ab kamar me dard hita hai to lagta hai shuru se kuch kiya hota...
Very meaningful and nicely curated content. Kabhi kabhi rula dete ho..... But yes respect for moms who dare to put foot down n go ahead with their careers. When you are focussed, all how's and whys are taken care of.
Amazing message.....just half an hr ago I was yelling at my mom, why dont you sit somewhere and relax for few minutes...i was preparing some dishes today to give her some rest...but no, she can't rest.... She replied ... "Mothers are like this..i love to be busy for my family "
After years of sacrificing everything for family, some women forget how to give time for herself. They can't sit and relax. So many of them forget what they like to eat.
It's difficult for the mothers to see or watch their kids managing everything on their own.they want to do every little bit to see their daughters/ kids relax.Indian mothers are like this 🙏
It took me 2yrs to understand after child birth, that I am also important. It's ok to take out some time from my baby's routine and spend it for myself.
Absolutely required And this you have to do yourself No one else will grant you this Only the mothers routine changes For everyone else it's just like before
Same is my experience of Guddu’s Mom. My son will b 14 yrs soon. I’m his frnd but slowly he’ll have his life. & n one understands the sacrifices made. I saw myself
Really..... We mothers give our whole self to put children And.... No one recognises..... I am also a mother of 7 Months baby... I am doing my best and continuing studies
As always, amazing content! The concept of a 'sacrificing mother' is now not acceptable to most young women who want to have it all, motherhood, a career, and a life. For this, the family unit needs to come together. Responsibility needs to be shared. Kudos to you all for always encouraging the youth of today
She is saying only a best phase of life and not to make it a life career. It may be wrong. Depends upon circumstances and individual choice . Need to look at what the society says. When everyone completely don’t bother about society there will not be any society.
So true ma'am. I am an architect and a mothet of a toddler. I do the household chores, take care of my baby (mostly alone) and when he goes to sleep, I open my laptop and work. I do not want to regret later that I must have worked and settled my business when my baby grows up and gets busy in his own life. I'm ready to sacrifice my sleep for few hours now rather than regretting it later.
Good story, I also left my service for my children, motherhood is best, but now I realize that we should think about ourselves now a days, we should think about our identity
You made me cry.I recalled all how I sacrificed my bright career, self esteem , hobbies and almost everything for upbringing of my children. Though I am satisfied as a mother but I don't want my daughter to live my line of life. Before marriage every girl is chirpy, ambitious and a free bird but life puts you at 180° when circumstances are not favorable after marriage. Sometimes it snatches even smile from the face of an otherwise bubbly girl. God bless and keep all of them happy !
Awesome message you hv given...I also took 3 years to understand that mother also has a self life and has to think about herself also..taking care of our child is important but also it is important to take care of her dreams and career also...if family members gives support to every mother then she will be able to complete her dreams without sacrificing anything...
Aww so so sweet amazing content. Tears came in my eyes upon realising how mothers sacrifice. But great lesson given-life ke is phase ko apni poori life mat bana lena
So true I am a mother of 3 year old.. it didn't take me 50years. I 3years I releised why I took step when noone to support me in this phase of motherhood. Co parenting sunne mein acha lagta hai
Thank you for showing such a beautiful emotion🙏I have just lost my mom one month ago seeing this one has made me cry as I miss her the most every moment.To everyone please value mom as children who loose mothers can't even express how it feels when mom is not around.
I think a woman or a mother's life is so precious. We have to do our job wholeheartedly. Sometimes we get the feeling that we won't get respect and value in the family or the society because we don't earn. But my opinion is , our love, service and sacrifices are priceless yaar.. So enjoy your motherhood then only we can raise healthy children both physically and mentally. 😊
Motherhood is just a phase, not the whole life. Also, the decision to whether become a mother or not must be taken by the woman without any pressure. It's alright not to become a mother at all. It's a choice, not a rule. Women need to understand this.
@@HemantBEE hamara population kaafi he sir agar ek do nahi karna chahte bache baaki log 2-3 karke population badha rhe he.desh bache peda krne se nhi par abhi tak jitne peda hue unke vikas se aage badhega.soch badlega toh zarur aage badhega.
@@manisha551991 You now what these videos are just for views and if you see data on Google and read a little then you will see that every women need to have 2 children for a good nation and population has increased that's true but nothing can be done on that. BUT IF PEOPLE START not to born child or giving birth to one child then India will become a country like of Korea " buddho ko desh" vahan pr young people bahut kam h
Whatever has been filmed in this is completely true. Don’t know when they become our life and when we start living for them. Sacrificing so many things , adjusting for the sake of their future and thinking that they are only our identity. Truely, sometimes it feels magic when they call ‘Amma’.
Uff so practical dialogues spoken out..... Life never gives a second chance .. but yes m lucky to be a mother of two kids.... Motherhood is a wonderful phase
All praises to Moms and Motherhood. 1 thing that i disagree was “coparenting sirf Chochle hain” I am a dad and I take care of my child equally as much as my wife does. We both ensures equal time spent and efforts given for his parenting. We have a beautiful relationship in our home and my son is learning the same.
I wish that 20yrs back bhi logo ki aisi soch hoti.. Bas sari Sapno ko Parivar k naam me kurbaan karte jao..aur milta kutch nahi hai.. Beeta samay kabhi bhi vapis nahi aata.. So truly said that motherhood is the most beautiful phase of a woman's life lekin isko apni life mat bana lena..
Glad that me and my mother realized it when he was 10 and i was 5 after some incident.....so we made a rule that every special thing be it sweets or chocolate or pizza (that mom hates) wiuld be first given to grandparents then parents n then to us....so that even if they pretend not to.like it, they have to eat it anyway!!!!
So true, I am so thankful that you did this one. It's so thought provoking. Yes, as a mother, I have never thought about myself, me time, my likings. But, I have started doing everything that I want to do. Sacrifices are a part of motherhood, but if it exceeds the limit, life becomes bitter and we cannot blame anyone, as they will move on in life. Thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am also in the same situation. I am quitting my job for my baby. As a pregnant In this covid situation it's not good for to go outside for the job it's not work from job. But I am thinking to do job work from home. I really like to do job. Pls god show me right path🙏🙏
No matter what, it's always woman (mother) who have to sacrifice a lot in her life. And somewhere she completely forget to take care of herself. Despite all this many don't recognise her. One should never compromise with his/her dreams.
Yes my mother also left govt job and now she has become her habit to taunt everyday ...... I left this and that because of you... and what I am getting.....
U never have too change Your self b cause u being a mother Aap ek achi maa ke sath sath Aap khud bhi vahi person reh sakte ho jo aap ho jaise aap ho There is nothing too change
I really like all your videos...but this time as a mother to one year baby girl, It really touched my heart 💓..Mam as a mother your every sentence is so relatable and Yes as you said Motherhood is indeed best phase😘
I was mongo lover.. i fought with my family members too eat so many mangoes... But now after being mother of 2 sons I eat only one piece of mango rest I give to my son's... there is no problem to me 🙂😊
Outstanding concept !!! So beautiful script writing and such an easy and clean presentation....really wonderful. The most important thing about the characters is that all of them are really excellent actors....they absolutely fit themselves in each and every role they play 👍
Really .... whatever the difficulties I'm enjoying my mother hood phase now ... We need lot of support for this thanks for every one.... specially my husband
Very very very true... मेरी माँ भी बिल्कुल ऐसी ही थी... बस अपने बच्चों के लिए जीती थी... हाँ उसने तो अपनी जिंदगी ही खो दी अपने बच्चों के लिए... I lost her few month ago.. Very very very true and sad too
I think the onus lies on your spouse. As long as both partners are 100% devoted and committed towards child bearing and child rearing responsibilities, there is no room for any kind of sense of loss or regret. And, of course, no frustrations.......because the whole experience is of togetherness.
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Waww very nice sharing... Heart touching
Hi, please make a video on Adoption. Thankyou 🙂
@@meetad2929 Ok, but your Name is so Strange Meeta, Haaaah 😂😂, Ok but Sorry!! 😂🙄
Please make such video and video on which on own don't want to be mother that is her choice how society reacts and how partners can understand
beautiful video and message. I exactly taught my daughters same thing
"Life doesn't give you a second chance" this line touched my heart
Right
Right
💯
Mother's not only sacrificing careers and interests but also selfrespect
True!
Yes.bcz no money no respect
Yes ...you need to keep silent to wrong things to protect your kids from bad effects....you need to bear stupid people
❤❤
Not sacrifice jobs job bhi krthi h ur humai bhi bada kr padathi h
Last line is so true. " motherhood is a most beautiful phase of a women's life. But dont make this phase ,your whole life."
I am so glad I grew up in a family where equality in marriage and co-parenting are reality.
Me too
@Chittra Ag was???
It's always not that the man doesn't want to allow the woman to work or that he is not willing to share responsibility. Some mothers or most mothers or I don't know maybe all mother's get very possessive of their kids esp if the kids get attached to anybody more than them a lot of times they feel they failed and it really takes an emotional toll on them.
Lucky you are
You're a rare One. Lucky you
Moms are the only ones who can sacrifice literally anything for their children. Massive respect to all the mothers out there❤
Sirf mother ke naam pe respect dene se kuch nhi hoga. Women (whether mother or not) must be financially independent.
@@PMcseYes, every woman must be financially independent but here I ain't talking about that. I was talking about the sacrifice that Mothers make for their children ( for instance, leaving her job so that she can take care of her family properly) - Not every independent woman can make sacrifices. Hence, mothers do deserve massive respect.
Sb jhuth hai. Meri mom itni supportive nhi hai. Even wo to mujhe mere aage ki study k liye rok k shadi k liye force kr rhi hai
😭😭😭😭
But sacrifice se kich ni milta
Main apni shadi per 40kg thi
3bachche hue c section se ghar se nahi nikli bachcho me busy hogai aaj weight 84 hai
Spine problem hogai
Log sacrifice na dekhker bolte hain kam khaya kar
Main kal bhi vegetarian thi aaj bhi
Outside food nahi khati
But ghar se bahar nahi nikalti shayad isliye weight gain hua...
Lekin ye kisi ko samajh ni ata
Subah walk k liye jai bachche chote hain
Sham me nikli dinner time
Dopeher me bachcho ko sulana zaroori hai...
Lekin ab kamar me dard hita hai to lagta hai shuru se kuch kiya hota...
Very meaningful and nicely curated content. Kabhi kabhi rula dete ho.....
But yes respect for moms who dare to put foot down n go ahead with their careers. When you are focussed, all how's and whys are taken care of.
Amazing message.....just half an hr ago I was yelling at my mom, why dont you sit somewhere and relax for few minutes...i was preparing some dishes today to give her some rest...but no, she can't rest.... She replied ... "Mothers are like this..i love to be busy for my family "
After years of sacrificing everything for family, some women forget how to give time for herself. They can't sit and relax. So many of them forget what they like to eat.
My mother do same when I was cooking for her rest ..
Same is mine. Means she was having fever I told i ll do it u go.
It's difficult for the mothers to see or watch their kids managing everything on their own.they want to do every little bit to see their daughters/ kids relax.Indian mothers are like this 🙏
It took me 2yrs to understand after child birth, that I am also important. It's ok to take out some time from my baby's routine and spend it for myself.
Dear how u spend the time for yourself?
Absolutely required
And this you have to do yourself
No one else will grant you this
Only the mothers routine changes
For everyone else it's just like before
Mom k sacrifices k aage sab fail hain...moms are best gift forever😍
Same is my experience of Guddu’s Mom. My son will b 14 yrs soon. I’m his frnd but slowly he’ll have his life. & n one understands the sacrifices made. I saw myself
Really..... We mothers give our whole self to put children And.... No one recognises..... I am also a mother of 7 Months baby... I am doing my best and continuing studies
Take care of yourself and start allotting time for the things that you really love except your kids
As always, amazing content! The concept of a 'sacrificing mother' is now not acceptable to most young women who want to have it all, motherhood, a career, and a life. For this, the family unit needs to come together. Responsibility needs to be shared. Kudos to you all for always encouraging the youth of today
She is saying only a best phase of life and not to make it a life career. It may be wrong. Depends upon circumstances and individual choice . Need to look at what the society says. When everyone completely don’t bother about society there will not be any society.
So true ma'am. I am an architect and a mothet of a toddler. I do the household chores, take care of my baby (mostly alone) and when he goes to sleep, I open my laptop and work. I do not want to regret later that I must have worked and settled my business when my baby grows up and gets busy in his own life. I'm ready to sacrifice my sleep for few hours now rather than regretting it later.
@@geetikagambhir1807 great decision
proud of you mam 👏
The mother here is such a beautiful actress❤️
Good story, I also left my service for my children, motherhood is best, but now I realize that we should think about ourselves now a days, we should think about our identity
I am pregnant and I am watching this video.. Going through the same feeling shown in this video...
I am 5 month pregnant and working as a software engineer. But I am scared what going to happen after delivery.
You made me cry.I recalled all how I sacrificed my bright career, self esteem , hobbies and almost everything for upbringing of my children. Though I am satisfied as a mother but I don't want my daughter to live my line of life. Before marriage every girl is chirpy, ambitious and a free bird but life puts you at 180° when circumstances are not favorable after marriage. Sometimes it snatches even smile from the face of an otherwise bubbly girl. God bless and keep all of them happy !
Co parenting and equality in marriage sab chochle hai😂😂 so true
Can u tell me the meaning of chochle ?
@@spectrum8118 rubbish talks
@@achines4237 thank you ❤️
Parenting*
Yes...its co parenting....
My mom left me alone . She died 1.2 years ago & now I realise what I have lost . I love you maa .
Woww such a breath of fresh air. Very much required in India where sacrifices are over glorified.
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Rightly said
And anyone who thinks otherwise is considered self centered
I am a mother to three cats. Yes motherhood is awesome 🐱
Great
Awwwiee...😀😀😀
Ve to sab se sundar bache hain))
@@katerusse6173 very true
Absolutely right... Bachcho k liye sb sacrifice ho jata h... Unki ek smile dekhke bhut khushi milti h.. Bhut Acha video... Well done
Maa banana ek world best feeling hai
Mom's action is superb ❤️ love all the characters of this channel ❤️
My mom is like this only.. leaving everything so that I can have all❤️
Awesome message you hv given...I also took 3 years to understand that mother also has a self life and has to think about herself also..taking care of our child is important but also it is important to take care of her dreams and career also...if family members gives support to every mother then she will be able to complete her dreams without sacrificing anything...
Mene apni mom ko kuch vi chorne nai diya. Unka education pura krne me pura help kiya. Phir job vi . Now vo ek bahut achi teacher hai.
The actress performaning mother is so awesome. I like her in every role
Sabko maa ka sacrifice dikhai deta hai ..par usne kya khoya vo nhi ..that line
Aww so so sweet amazing content. Tears came in my eyes upon realising how mothers sacrifice. But great lesson given-life ke is phase ko apni poori life mat bana lena
@Turkey Drama Lovers 😊
I respect their sacrifices... But still mom also have their identity.... 🙌
So true I am a mother of 3 year old.. it didn't take me 50years. I 3years I releised why I took step when noone to support me in this phase of motherhood. Co parenting sunne mein acha lagta hai
Thank you for showing such a beautiful emotion🙏I have just lost my mom one month ago seeing this one has made me cry as I miss her the most every moment.To everyone please value mom as children who loose mothers can't even express how it feels when mom is not around.
It must be meaningful as always and as expected😊😊❤️❤️
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This mom's character is just sooperrbbb... She has such a natural acting
I think a woman or a mother's life is so precious. We have to do our job wholeheartedly. Sometimes we get the feeling that we won't get respect and value in the family or the society because we don't earn. But my opinion is , our love, service and sacrifices are priceless yaar.. So enjoy your motherhood then only we can raise healthy children both physically and mentally. 😊
You are amazing auntie,
I Love You 🙏
You are just like great mom,teaching us good &bad
As she said motherhood is the most beautiful phase and feeling of life..mother and Father both are diamond 💍💎💎
nanhi si jan jab maa ki jaan ban jati h☺️so beautiful👌👌
So true words.... Motherhood is the most beautiful phase of life,but iss phase ko apni life maat bana len
Motherhood is just a phase, not the whole life. Also, the decision to whether become a mother or not must be taken by the woman without any pressure. It's alright not to become a mother at all. It's a choice, not a rule. Women need to understand this.
Thank u
saale desh kaise aage badega
@@HemantBEE hamara population kaafi he sir agar ek do nahi karna chahte bache baaki log 2-3 karke population badha rhe he.desh bache peda krne se nhi par abhi tak jitne peda hue unke vikas se aage badhega.soch badlega toh zarur aage badhega.
@@manisha551991 You now what these videos are just for views and if you see data on Google and read a little then you will see that every women need to have 2 children for a good nation and population has increased that's true but nothing can be done on that. BUT IF PEOPLE START not to born child or giving birth to one child then India will become a country like of Korea " buddho ko desh" vahan pr young people bahut kam h
Fully touch my heart ❤❤💕 Love life tak
Whatever has been filmed in this is completely true. Don’t know when they become our life and when we start living for them. Sacrificing so many things , adjusting for the sake of their future and thinking that they are only our identity. Truely, sometimes it feels magic when they call ‘Amma’.
Uff so practical dialogues spoken out..... Life never gives a second chance .. but yes m lucky to be a mother of two kids.... Motherhood is a wonderful phase
All praises to Moms and Motherhood.
1 thing that i disagree was “coparenting sirf Chochle hain” I am a dad and I take care of my child equally as much as my wife does. We both ensures equal time spent and efforts given for his parenting. We have a beautiful relationship in our home and my son is learning the same.
Lucky wife
That should be the thing with ecery father but is sadly rarely seen
Once in a blue moon...... congratulations sir and mam
So inspirational and touchy VIDEO
Pata nai Q Rona Aa gaya....
Day by Day the quality of your content is just turning out to be amazing and it's also spreading positivity around 👍 keep it up guys 👍
So true
Such a brilliant concept. No words for admiring.❤
The line u cannot make people happy is soooooooooo.......... true
I wish that 20yrs back bhi logo ki aisi soch hoti..
Bas sari Sapno ko Parivar k naam me kurbaan karte jao..aur milta kutch nahi hai..
Beeta samay kabhi bhi vapis nahi aata..
So truly said that motherhood is the most beautiful phase of a woman's life lekin isko apni life mat bana lena..
I love my mom so much . She always guides me right . And always puts me before than her.
Oh my god ...god bless all the moms around
No substitute for parents
Glad that me and my mother realized it when he was 10 and i was 5 after some incident.....so we made a rule that every special thing be it sweets or chocolate or pizza (that mom hates) wiuld be first given to grandparents then parents n then to us....so that even if they pretend not to.like it, they have to eat it anyway!!!!
So true, I am so thankful that you did this one. It's so thought provoking. Yes, as a mother, I have never thought about myself, me time, my likings. But, I have started doing everything that I want to do. Sacrifices are a part of motherhood, but if it exceeds the limit, life becomes bitter and we cannot blame anyone, as they will move on in life. Thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi mem 👌👌👌👌
I am also in the same situation. I am quitting my job for my baby. As a pregnant In this covid situation it's not good for to go outside for the job it's not work from job. But I am thinking to do job work from home. I really like to do job. Pls god show me right path🙏🙏
Same here
No matter what, it's always woman (mother) who have to sacrifice a lot in her life. And somewhere she completely forget to take care of herself. Despite all this many don't recognise her. One should never compromise with his/her dreams.
Literally I have tear in my eyes
Sach me aapki ye wali story to bahot jyada pasand aai hame... Bahot achha concept hai.. and aapki har ek bat sahi hai story me
Realising every word as I am a mother of one month old baby.
Heart to Heart conversation between Mother and Mother to be is best in this video
Both mother and daughter have superb acting skills. Love to watch your channel because it conveys meaningful messages.
I love the way aunty talks❤️❤️❤️
Nice message.. and so pure
Yes my mother also left govt job and now she has become her habit to taunt everyday ...... I left this and that because of you... and what I am getting.....
Yes
Har bar surprise kar dete ho aaplog
Such an incredible findings...❤❤❤
So true..... touched my heart ..
U never have too change
Your self b cause u being a mother
Aap ek achi maa ke sath sath
Aap khud bhi vahi person reh sakte ho jo aap ho jaise aap ho
There is nothing too change
He really me nice 👌👌
Wonderful message. 😢
Beautifully potrayed the reality of a woman. Amazing content.👌
This is the truth of every mom's and daughter's life. Career and family goes together.this is the wise decision.
I really like all your videos...but this time as a mother to one year baby girl, It really touched my heart 💓..Mam as a mother your every sentence is so relatable and Yes as you said Motherhood is indeed best phase😘
Love moms acting and her explanation so well said
And still we do not value our wives/mothers enough. Excellent
Awesome I have started thing from 38 only though not reached 50 still thinking about it
That's really true....Life never gives you a second chance...
Beautiful content....Thank you!!
Hi mem 👰👌
Mem aap kahase hain you from mem
Absolutely... Very well said. Mom's definitely love their kids a lot, but that doesn't mean mom's need to sacrifice their life for this phase
The best video and the best advice given in a very beautiful and logical way. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👌🏻
Nice vdeo... I love to watch each vdeo of urs must say best concepts lovely vdeos love you all🥰🥰🥰🥰
U know what i am in love with this channel 😍💕❤
I was mongo lover.. i fought with my family members too eat so many mangoes... But now after being mother of 2 sons I eat only one piece of mango rest I give to my son's... there is no problem to me 🙂😊
But why?? U can also eat more? Just buy more
@@ggdd8666 agree
I also do the same...paise nahi hote hai itne to eat more...so hm km khake apne bachho ko dena
Apke videos dil ko chhu jate h. I am also a working mother and this video make me strong to do my best with my baby and in my job
Such a true and meaningful video. specially "life ke is part ko puri life mat bana dena" these lines 😍
Outstanding concept !!! So beautiful script writing and such an easy and clean presentation....really wonderful. The most important thing about the characters is that all of them are really excellent actors....they absolutely fit themselves in each and every role they play 👍
Thank you for such a beautiful and meaningful video. I really needed it. 😌
Amazing content. The best line was log to kisi haal main khush nahi hongay😊👍
I love the mom, every episodes she is superb.
So well acted by mom..no words
Lovely content as always ❣️
Mothers are the biggest blessings on earth. I can’t imagine my life without my mother!
Really .... whatever the difficulties I'm enjoying my mother hood phase now ... We need lot of support for this thanks for every one.... specially my
husband
Who ever write your script he / she is very talented and you all did very natural acting love all your contents
How beautifully they r showing different story, so heart touching, such a inspirational, true, LIFE DOESN'T GIVE US 2ND CHANCE 😍
This is great story 👏 👌 🙌 👍 ❤. So beautiful all the mums. So true. I really respect 💕😌👍
Wonderful again. Always wait for Life Tak episode. Love to watch and also love wonderful msg in each episode. 😊👏
Always excellent performance by nirupamaji and manu.... love 😻❤️🥰
#Reallity of women..👏👏👏👏👏 Amazing content ❤️
Thank you guys making such a beautiful video! All women need to understand this.
You are dealing beautifully with human psychology.great performance by your team
Nirupama ji you are awesome.God bless you Ma'am
Very very very true... मेरी माँ भी बिल्कुल ऐसी ही थी... बस अपने बच्चों के लिए जीती थी... हाँ उसने तो अपनी जिंदगी ही खो दी अपने बच्चों के लिए... I lost her few month ago.. Very very very true and sad too
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True . Hope may people watches it.
I think the onus lies on your spouse. As long as both partners are 100% devoted and committed towards child bearing and child rearing responsibilities, there is no room for any kind of sense of loss or regret.
And, of course, no frustrations.......because the whole experience is of togetherness.