RIght man now I've realized now I gotta start respecting myself no more letting people disrespect me and call me names, now is when I draw the line. Nobody is gonna come in the rescue I have to speak up myself. Now is when I draw the line dammit.
Sohaib Ahmed, I understand you all to well, thing is I don't have people doing to me what your speaking of. I happy you have come to embrace your strength and worth. I have the deepest hurt inside due to a friend I have come to know as family and the horrible things said to me are to much to bear. I stuffed it down and walked away but as Mr. Brown stated so boldly " a nail in a wall... leaves a hole..." It just woke me up bigtime. I'm so sad and hurt and in reality I should never give anyone that power to put holes in my heart... say sorry and act like it's OK. NO ITS NEVER OK TO DESTROY SOMEONES PEICE OF MIND... ESPECIALLY IF THEY LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. Now I set the limit and KNOW FOR SURE IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO STAND UP FOR MYSELF. Brother keep strong and know that for every negative person who we walk away from another of positive Nature will walk beside us. xox
I, for the first time in my 24 years of life, just told my friends my boundaries, they responded negatively, twisting the fact that they had just made fun of me on my expense around into guilting me into apologizing. I finally decided to stop taking it, told them off, and cut off all communication. It feels lonely, but I know I did the only right thing. This speech reassured me so much.
Kári Jónsson leeches will try to make you feel guilty for having boundaries. True friends will respect you and your boundaries. You did the right thing Kári
Better times and people will come. ❤️ Stay strong and true to your self! Be your own best friend, use your life, care for yourself, build yourself up, be kind to yourself, keep the boundaries and use your potential and make your dreams come true!
Be prepared, this is a lonely road but very aspiring. Just know the times will get harder but the results will be greater. The pain of being alone still hasn't left me and it's been 3 years so far, but my outward progress and the things I've accomplished is greater than ever.
To all those who left comments I say well done you for the courage you hold in your hearts. Like me you love the wisdom and teachings of Les because he cares. X
KNOW YOUR WORTH AND ADD TAX IF YOU WANT! i DON'T KNOW IF THESE ARE YOUR OWN WORDS OR IF IT IS A QUOTE BUT WHAT YOU SAID HERE IS THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH! PREACH MY GIRL! i WILL NEVER FORGET THESE WORDS. I LOVE IT!
Draw the dam line in red 🔴. so they can see it. Stand up for youself. for those who are bullyied. cause sometimes You might not what would happen next.
Oh my GOD! This is my philosophy! Finally the truth is spoken through this man. Courage is moving forward in your convictions even though it goes against popular consensus. How brave can you be? Live your life with belief that you are worthy of love and respect but it doesnt come passively, it comes through earning it. Use your instincts and be brave. Be bold. Be daring. Over time you will have true power of authenticity. What is real and what is false? Real-ness is a life built on genuine happiness not the illusion of happiness. Real truth is unbreakable. Live your authentic life.
Angie L hello angie i most talk to you ...i feel a strong conection from a higher power .i believe we could make a great team ..if u are interested in someone very great and smart .then email me im jw .....at specailbreed00726@gmail.com
you know what is peace when you listen to your heart and stop letting people take unfair advantage of you when you stand up and isolate from them is when you let them know your worth and your status
I have a god damn right to stand up for myself I was the person who would influence me to do something different to what I didn't want to do. One day I just snapped and said enough is enough I got a life and who are you to judge whether I would fail it's my life no person should change it it's my life and I have a god damn right to stand up for myself
I'm living in a country with an oppressive government, and millions who put their blind faith in that government. And all my life I've felt like I'm surrounded by and being suffocated by those millions. Today, something happened that I can no longer ignore and keep quiet about. There's going be a protest in a few hours and I need these thoughts above desperately to be able to stand up against these leaders and their millions of followers. Wish me courage.
Lord I needed this today. There is a limit to what a person should have to put up with. And that bullshit coming from a family member doesn't mean it gets a pass, it means they should know better. Well this time, I ain't caving in. I am not going to feel like the bad guy, just because I won't roll over for the sake of "Keeping the Peace." Either I get that apology, half-assed or not, or this is gonna get real difficult.
when i started to stand for myself against the people i love ,i felt more powerful and more in control of my life , so yeah one negative effect is more powerful of being postive all the time we have to risk it and lose sometimes in order to save ourselves and thats the great victory
Mr. Les Brown I thank you for being who you are. I been struggling very badly with many issues. I come to realize that the more I do for others who don't care and appreciate what I do is a crime against myself. I faced the fact that I must let someone/some people go and walk away from them because the pain they caused me is much to deep. I fear doing it due to worry of what lies will be told... you helped me to see what I know already but doubted and second guessed. I am most important in my life. I am worth more than being spoken to and about in a negative way. I give love and if I'm not being loved back I have the right to WALK AWAY... Yes it's not easy but it's a must if I want to focus on growth and inspire others as they inspire me. Once again I thank you very much. I have come to the cross road in this toxic friendship and it's time to move into friendships that lift and not tear down. It's up to me to BE KNOCKED DOWN OR STAND UP FOR MYSELF.
I'VE HEARD THIS MOTIVATION SPEECH BEFORE AND I LISTENED TO IT JUST TODAY AND STILL LOVE IT TREMENDOUSLY!!! VERY POWERFUL AND SO TRUE!!! THANK YOU LES BROWN 😇
I have given and given and been stomped down and stomped on been lied to and been lie talking about me and enough is enough. Thank you God for giving me the courage in the wisdom to finally see.
@ 2:29 Wow...I never heard this from Les Brown nor did I think anyone would ever understand me. I live alone because of this and did draw the line with everyone in my life that crossed me the wrong way and did not back off. What hurt the most was having to do this to my mother an father. Only when I showed everyone they cannot walk all over me, control me did they stop trying to abuse me. It left me very depressed and full of rage. I was always very sensitive, emotional and mentally weak. I made up for it being physically stronger then most. The gym kept me going along with staring into the abyss as I created art on my computer. I had several bouts of depression and rage in my life because I was once disabled, then I was poor and when my own family turned on me It almost killed me. If anyone else ever has to go through this I share this with you hoping you stay strong and keep standing. Don't let your mind be ruled and find a way to get your peace and remove anyone who tries to harm you and tell you can't be who you want. I'm now healthier in my life and some of my family have started to become apart of my life again. This is very difficult for me as I still struggle with anger. Hopefully this helps someone.
Thank you sooo much . You really changed my life. People used to bully and I didn’t have the courage to stand up for my self but I do thanks to you. I congratulate you
make sure to not let anybody get you down, people try to take what they haven't got through jealousy, I've come to realise that as soon as negative words appear to you tell them simply I don't want to hear it. Come back when you have something nice to say.
For those who are bullyied You need to stand up for youself!!😇 Becuase if You don't it's going to spered. So draw the dam line🔴. It Will allow You to destory You or build You up.
GOD didn’t give us a spirit of fear nor did he make any person walking this earth more important than you. You have the right to stand up for yourself in any situation and should never feel as if you can’t.
I had a very toxic friend. She got me into trouble for no reason. I unfriended now my life is going so great. But she bully’s me till this day. Thanks for this video
I feel ya. That happened to me, she was very toxic, and she messed me up. She still bullied me after I got away, then she moved. Now I never have to see her again. You're so much more worth it, and you can often do more than you realize. Hang in there, and there's so many people out there that whether they know about this or not, if they did, would support you with everything they have.
"To go against the domineering thinking of your family, friends, and those other people you associate with everyday, is perhaps, the most difficult act of courage you will ever perform." -Theodore White. My main motive why I will never change for others. It will rust, it will deteriorate, it will grow old, but it will never change. Because the only thing that my family never apologized for was never believing in me. Nor did they apologize for disbelieving me.
I feel hurt everytime my father offends me about the things that i have one. I did no mistakes in my life ! I am proud of myself ! unlike him ... As Les said "a negative stroke is 16 times more powerfull than a positive stroke!" "You can allow it to destroy you or you can allow it to build you up!"
Thank you, whomever you are! I'll add this to my MORNING audio. Who the fck disliked this audio!? My god! there are some crazy negative people out there...
The one time i finally gathered my strength and spoke to a bully in private and confronted her woman to woman...she panicked and woke up the men in the house, fake cried and ran away. I have taken so much rudeness from other women in my life but since covid ive been working on setting my boundaries and the one time i confront the bully, speak respectfully, she flipped out in such a fake way...very strange.
@@swamperino5548 Courage doesn't mean that you have to be mean or nasty to stand up. What we all need to do is to cultivate self respect and to learn to love ourselves, the courage will come. I don't know your story but if you're in a difficult situation continue to watch inspiring videos and if possible surround yourself with positive individuals, this will empower you and the answer will come... from your mind and heart together. How you stand up will hopefully be filled with respect and dignity, not fear. Speaking with respect and dignity is very empowering, you'll figure it out. Just take one step at a time and keep moving forward in what ever direction that is for you... That's courage...
I am going through this right now. I was pulled over by a deputy for a inoperable taillight and I checked them and it was operable and it could be a illegal stop. I am getting all the paperwork in order to file a complaint against the deputy. I told my family and friends about, but they say you acting childish and you should let it go. I feel abused and they are trying shame me for doing this because they are afraid.
He's right. He was right all along. All my life, I may have been fed with the wrong food. I was told to do, to help others, for some reason that I took, because all I knew. And I rebelled. I rebelled cause it was a natural thing. A cause that even people like me knows this... "Don't follow orders your whole life. Think for yourself." That even people like me can take limits on what we've gone through, either being laughed at, ordered around or even judged by people that isn't God. All thanks to misunderstanding and ignorance. My family's among them. I spent every single time of my life helping them for some petty chores and needs. All to satisfy them. I stood up for myself with my angry courage and my motivation to never to respect all, trust all. I just wished I wanted to be independent, no matter how grave the circumstances are for me. But I had enough of my family's domineering and misunderstanding. Better to live up to my name and beliefs than to be treated like a slave.
I struggle with this too since the jokes they use are usually something that I am not happy about in my own life. I try not to get upset because I feel like that shows insecurity, but on the flipside I just want to be like you know fuck you fat losers are you do is sit around and smoke weed and do nothing anyway I am I even here with you people?
I'm learning that if it's enough to offend you, it doesn't matter, you don't have to put up with it, period! If you tell someone that something bothers you and they refuse to respect your feelings, they are not good to be around. (Toxic)
I need this right now I am going through some of this with my father. And I am done with it but I am scared to stand up me me and my mom and my brother and sisters. So I do not know if I can do it but I will try.
This where I draw the line. Not in sand, but in stone. Whatever bullshit comes out of their mouth, whatever I responded, it's hardly disrespectful, it is courage. I went up against my family's domineering bullshit ever since I never cared about what they think. I'm sick of all their telling horseshit and I can say whatever the FUCK I say, and not even my mother can say otherwise, because I went up against them. I stood up against the finger without cowering and I looked at my deadbeat brother right in the eye and I swear I draw the fucking line right here and right now, cause I'm sick of this controlling crap! And I have Les Brown to thank for that.
what do you do when you do speak up for yourself but it doesn’t stop anyone from continuing the abuse? what do you do when you become demonized just because you stood up for yourself?
This video helped. It's not easy to stand up for myself in a family of Conservatives and people who hate Communism with every pore of their bodies. Don't get me wrong, I love my family, but sometimes, I start to fear if I lose my faith in Communism. But, the more I get attacked for what I believe in or the more I get told to "give it up", the more radical and dedicated to Communism I become. I guess passion does help a lot.
how is it now? I stopped hanging out with my toxic friends as much as I once did, got closer to my friendlier friends, which are also more flourishing in our society I lost A social friends, that don't know how to speak to others, and met actual good people that are caring, good and not awkward or anti social
RIght man now I've realized now I gotta start respecting myself no more letting people disrespect me and call me names, now is when I draw the line. Nobody is gonna come in the rescue I have to speak up myself. Now is when I draw the line dammit.
good
Thanks David!
sohaib ahmed hope its going great
Keep going man! im dealing with the same thing, but now im just gonna fuck em up
Sohaib Ahmed, I understand you all to well, thing is I don't have people doing to me what your speaking of. I happy you have come to embrace your strength and worth. I have the deepest hurt inside due to a friend I have come to know as family and the horrible things said to me are to much to bear. I stuffed it down and walked away but as Mr. Brown stated so boldly " a nail in a wall... leaves a hole..." It just woke me up bigtime. I'm so sad and hurt and in reality I should never give anyone that power to put holes in my heart... say sorry and act like it's OK. NO ITS NEVER OK TO DESTROY SOMEONES PEICE OF MIND... ESPECIALLY IF THEY LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. Now I set the limit and KNOW FOR SURE IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO STAND UP FOR MYSELF. Brother keep strong and know that for every negative person who we walk away from another of positive Nature will walk beside us. xox
Thats the mindset brother
I, for the first time in my 24 years of life, just told my friends my boundaries, they responded negatively, twisting the fact that they had just made fun of me on my expense around into guilting me into apologizing.
I finally decided to stop taking it, told them off, and cut off all communication.
It feels lonely, but I know I did the only right thing.
This speech reassured me so much.
Kári Jónsson you did the right thing
fuck him fuck them fuck them
If they don’t respect you they aren’t real friends your inner circle will become smaller thru life but it becomes truer and more positive
Kári Jónsson leeches will try to make you feel guilty for having boundaries. True friends will respect you and your boundaries. You did the right thing Kári
Better times and people will come. ❤️ Stay strong and true to your self! Be your own best friend, use your life, care for yourself, build yourself up, be kind to yourself, keep the boundaries and use your potential and make your dreams come true!
I choose to allow it to build me up. I am in the process of releasing toxic people from from life. It feels GOOD!
I've kicked three out recently. Keep going. Walk in Blessedness.
Same here. God bless you all
Got rid of a lot of people like this feels great 🙏❤
Same here. Stay strong.
I cut off toxic people, I only allow good people to be around me now
Made me cry when said when people are not sensitive to who you are
Be prepared, this is a lonely road but very aspiring. Just know the times will get harder but the results will be greater. The pain of being alone still hasn't left me and it's been 3 years so far, but my outward progress and the things I've accomplished is greater than ever.
Aspiring
Well done!
I’m depressed right now and these help me it helps me to care about my self and the life is short
I needed this.
Same.
Arjun Raju ferreal
Edwin J. Morais Jr. Aye, brother
Karen Duncan so did i ..hello
Karen Duncan me too
Draw the line! Use your power!
No matter what has happened to you!
To all those who left comments I say well done you for the courage you hold in your hearts.
Like me you love the wisdom and teachings of Les because he cares. X
1. Know your worth.
2. Add tax if you want.
3. Draw the damn Line!!!! Draw it in Bold Red🔴, so they see it👀‼️
KNOW YOUR WORTH AND ADD TAX IF YOU WANT! i DON'T KNOW IF THESE ARE YOUR OWN WORDS OR IF IT IS A QUOTE BUT WHAT YOU SAID HERE IS THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH! PREACH MY GIRL! i WILL NEVER FORGET THESE WORDS. I LOVE IT!
Aina Elifas just loved it ur statement
Draw the dam line in red 🔴. so they can see it. Stand up for youself. for those who are bullyied. cause sometimes You might not what would happen next.
Oh my GOD! This is my philosophy! Finally the truth is spoken through this man. Courage is moving forward in your convictions even though it goes against popular consensus. How brave can you be? Live your life with belief that you are worthy of love and respect but it doesnt come passively, it comes through earning it. Use your instincts and be brave. Be bold. Be daring. Over time you will have true power of authenticity.
What is real and what is false? Real-ness is a life built on genuine happiness not the illusion of happiness. Real truth is unbreakable. Live your authentic life.
Angie L hello angie i most talk to you ...i feel a strong conection from a higher power .i believe we could make a great team ..if u are interested in someone very great and smart .then email me im jw .....at specailbreed00726@gmail.com
Les brown should be given the highest honours to service to humanity. Makes me feel instantly better just listening him Speak
you know what is peace when you listen to your heart and stop letting people take unfair advantage of you when you stand up and isolate from them is when you let them know your worth and your status
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
Sometimes it takes someone you least expect or haven't even met to change your world for the better. #SoPowerful!!
I have a god damn right to stand up for myself I was the person who would influence me to do something different to what I didn't want to do. One day I just snapped and said enough is enough I got a life and who are you to judge whether I would fail it's my life no person should change it it's my life and I have a god damn right to stand up for myself
I'm living in a country with an oppressive government, and millions who put their blind faith in that government. And all my life I've felt like I'm surrounded by and being suffocated by those millions. Today, something happened that I can no longer ignore and keep quiet about. There's going be a protest in a few hours and I need these thoughts above desperately to be able to stand up against these leaders and their millions of followers.
Wish me courage.
You are courage.
I have my own agenda, I’m not powerless I’m powerful
im keep getting bullied at my school but this is inspring to fight for myself and I train kickboxing for over 2 years
Good fair play to you hope it's all going good for you now 💪🙏
From now on I will stand up for myself God bless you
Thank god I found this
Lord I needed this today.
There is a limit to what a person should have to put up with. And that bullshit coming from a family member doesn't mean it gets a pass, it means they should know better.
Well this time, I ain't caving in. I am not going to feel like the bad guy, just because I won't roll over for the sake of "Keeping the Peace." Either I get that apology, half-assed or not, or this is gonna get real difficult.
when i started to stand for myself against the people i love ,i felt more powerful and more in control of my life , so yeah one negative effect is more powerful of being postive all the time we have to risk it and lose sometimes in order to save ourselves and thats the great victory
Mr. Les Brown I thank you for being who you are. I been struggling very badly with many issues. I come to realize that the more I do for others who don't care and appreciate what I do is a crime against myself. I faced the fact that I must let someone/some people go and walk away from them because the pain they caused me is much to deep. I fear doing it due to worry of what lies will be told... you helped me to see what I know already but doubted and second guessed. I am most important in my life. I am worth more than being spoken to and about in a negative way. I give love and if I'm not being loved back I have the right to WALK AWAY... Yes it's not easy but it's a must if I want to focus on growth and inspire others as they inspire me. Once again I thank you very much. I have come to the cross road in this toxic friendship and it's time to move into friendships that lift and not tear down. It's up to me to BE KNOCKED DOWN OR STAND UP FOR MYSELF.
I'VE HEARD THIS MOTIVATION SPEECH BEFORE AND I LISTENED TO IT JUST TODAY AND STILL LOVE IT TREMENDOUSLY!!!
VERY POWERFUL AND SO TRUE!!!
THANK YOU LES BROWN 😇
Pure poetry. Preach it Les! Thank you needed this more than ever in this exact moment in life.
I have given and given and been stomped down and stomped on been lied to and been lie talking about me and enough is enough. Thank you God for giving me the courage in the wisdom to finally see.
@ 2:29 Wow...I never heard this from Les Brown nor did I think anyone would ever understand me. I live alone because of this and did draw the line with everyone in my life that crossed me the wrong way and did not back off. What hurt the most was having to do this to my mother an father. Only when I showed everyone they cannot walk all over me, control me did they stop trying to abuse me. It left me very depressed and full of rage. I was always very sensitive, emotional and mentally weak. I made up for it being physically stronger then most. The gym kept me going along with staring into the abyss as I created art on my computer. I had several bouts of depression and rage in my life because I was once disabled, then I was poor and when my own family turned on me It almost killed me. If anyone else ever has to go through this I share this with you hoping you stay strong and keep standing. Don't let your mind be ruled and find a way to get your peace and remove anyone who tries to harm you and tell you can't be who you want. I'm now healthier in my life and some of my family have started to become apart of my life again. This is very difficult for me as I still struggle with anger. Hopefully this helps someone.
Thank you sooo much . You really changed my life. People used to bully and I didn’t have the courage to stand up for my self but I do thanks to you. I congratulate you
2:30 needed to hear that more than once.
Its very true. Its the one thing I needed support in, and I found it in this video.
Great words. I don’t care who you are, rich, poor or in the middle, but this speaks to all of us.
Yesssss put put a nail in the hole the impression is still there. What is done is done.
make sure to not let anybody get you down, people try to take what they haven't got through jealousy, I've come to realise that as soon as negative words appear to you tell them simply I don't want to hear it. Come back when you have something nice to say.
For those who are bullyied You need to stand up for youself!!😇 Becuase if You don't it's going to spered. So draw the dam line🔴. It Will allow You to destory You or build You up.
@@jpseflores7709 Yes I just did this 😁
GOD didn’t give us a spirit of fear nor did he make any person walking this earth more important than you. You have the right to stand up for yourself in any situation and should never feel as if you can’t.
I had a very toxic friend. She got me into trouble for no reason. I unfriended now my life is going so great. But she bully’s me till this day. Thanks for this video
I feel ya. That happened to me, she was very toxic, and she messed me up. She still bullied me after I got away, then she moved. Now I never have to see her again. You're so much more worth it, and you can often do more than you realize. Hang in there, and there's so many people out there that whether they know about this or not, if they did, would support you with everything they have.
when i stand up for myself, they fight back, harder. my self esteem can't handle that.
Ava McCarthy Then get away from them for awhile.. build up your self esteem and then.. if you ever meet them again you stand up for yourself
Crovio i live with one of them and go to school with the rest... kind of unavoidable.
DONT EVER GOVE UP! You have SO MUCH more strength in you than you than you know. If you have to cry while your defending yourself, cry.
Keep standing up for yourself. Every day keep going. And cut toxic people off. You don’t need them.
This is a hard undertaking. The people l let have in my real life are loving and caring. The only person not doesn't matter anymore
Did this today preparing to defend my self from any possible punishment
I'm going to do this today
"To go against the domineering thinking of your family, friends, and those other people you associate with everyday, is perhaps, the most difficult act of courage you will ever perform."
-Theodore White.
My main motive why I will never change for others. It will rust, it will deteriorate, it will grow old, but it will never change.
Because the only thing that my family never apologized for was never believing in me. Nor did they apologize for disbelieving me.
I feel this way about being around my big Son and I'm needed this to use my power.
Same here Mr. Brown .. several have been insensitive. I finally made the hard decision to "cut off" the branches that do not produce fruit!
I feel hurt everytime my father offends me about the things that i have one. I did no mistakes in my life ! I am proud of myself ! unlike him ... As Les said "a negative stroke is 16 times more powerfull than a positive stroke!" "You can allow it to destroy you or you can allow it to build you up!"
This has helped me so much. Thank you so much for showing me this.
I listened to this more than once.
Radio host Moonman of Wol spoke of having people to help one get their agenda done, not to change one's agenda.
Beautiful speech needed it 🤍🥹
thank you
this video just changed my life thank you
Damn right yoo!
Thank you Les Brown💪❤️❤️. I just don’t know how to do it
This video is 100% on point!
Thank you so much
Thank you for sharing 😁 and I agree with what you said 😁
Thank you, whomever you are! I'll add this to my MORNING audio.
Who the fck disliked this audio!? My god! there are some crazy negative people out there...
The one time i finally gathered my strength and spoke to a bully in private and confronted her woman to woman...she panicked and woke up the men in the house, fake cried and ran away. I have taken so much rudeness from other women in my life but since covid ive been working on setting my boundaries and the one time i confront the bully, speak respectfully, she flipped out in such a fake way...very strange.
best speech ever!
Wonderful speech !👍
Two of my so-called friends belittled my achievements, so I had to let them go even though the entire drama was painful.
#StandUpforYourself
***** The Call by Dario Marianelli.
Please 2nd and 3rd song's name!
first song ?
I dont have enough courage to stand up😳
@@swamperino5548 Courage doesn't mean that you have to be mean or nasty to stand up. What we all need to do is to cultivate self respect and to learn to love ourselves, the courage will come. I don't know your story but if you're in a difficult situation continue to watch inspiring videos and if possible surround yourself with positive individuals, this will empower you and the answer will come... from your mind and heart together. How you stand up will hopefully be filled with respect and dignity, not fear. Speaking with respect and dignity is very empowering, you'll figure it out. Just take one step at a time and keep moving forward in what ever direction that is for you... That's courage...
Thank you it’s really helped me
Bravo🤩🤩Spot on💯💯💯Absolutely correct 🌺🌺🌺💓
This made me cry..😭👍🏻❤
I am going through this right now. I was pulled over by a deputy for a inoperable taillight and I checked them and it was operable and it could be a illegal stop. I am getting all the paperwork in order to file a complaint against the deputy. I told my family and friends about, but they say you acting childish and you should let it go. I feel abused and they are trying shame me for doing this because they are afraid.
Right on, right on man
Thank you ❤️
He's right. He was right all along. All my life, I may have been fed with the wrong food. I was told to do, to help others, for some reason that I took, because all I knew. And I rebelled. I rebelled cause it was a natural thing. A cause that even people like me knows this...
"Don't follow orders your whole life. Think for yourself."
That even people like me can take limits on what we've gone through, either being laughed at, ordered around or even judged by people that isn't God. All thanks to misunderstanding and ignorance. My family's among them. I spent every single time of my life helping them for some petty chores and needs. All to satisfy them. I stood up for myself with my angry courage and my motivation to never to respect all, trust all. I just wished I wanted to be independent, no matter how grave the circumstances are for me. But I had enough of my family's domineering and misunderstanding. Better to live up to my name and beliefs than to be treated like a slave.
I just do t know when its a playful joke or its a personnel attack, especially i keep being the “butt” of the joke.
I struggle with this too since the jokes they use are usually something that I am not happy about in my own life. I try not to get upset because I feel like that shows insecurity, but on the flipside I just want to be like you know fuck you fat losers are you do is sit around and smoke weed and do nothing anyway I am I even here with you people?
I'm learning that if it's enough to offend you, it doesn't matter, you don't have to put up with it, period! If you tell someone that something bothers you and they refuse to respect your feelings, they are not good to be around. (Toxic)
Awesome advice people, take note and make some changes in your life, it makes common sense :)
Absolutely love this.
Thank you
People fight when what there talking about is important to them
Great post, do you have the full vid of this by any chance?
Experiencing this right now and it hurts…
thanks
I need this right now I am going through some of this with my father. And I am done with it but I am scared to stand up me me and my mom and my brother and sisters. So I do not know if I can do it but I will try.
thanks man I needed this
Thanks a lot my master!
Thank you this help
Great video! This is very helpful.
Trying to standup to my abusive family!
I have to learn this
Wow thank you xxxxxxxxxxx
😢Thanks for the motivation sir
I love u Les
This where I draw the line. Not in sand, but in stone. Whatever bullshit comes out of their mouth, whatever I responded, it's hardly disrespectful, it is courage. I went up against my family's domineering bullshit ever since I never cared about what they think. I'm sick of all their telling horseshit and I can say whatever the FUCK I say, and not even my mother can say otherwise, because I went up against them. I stood up against the finger without cowering and I looked at my deadbeat brother right in the eye and I swear I draw the fucking line right here and right now, cause I'm sick of this controlling crap! And I have Les Brown to thank for that.
Love this
beautiful
Fantastic one..😃😄😄
its tuff, but i beleive i could
TimeLierCheetah keep going man
what do you do when you do speak
up for yourself but it doesn’t stop anyone from continuing the abuse? what do you do when you become demonized just because you stood up for yourself?
⋆ 𝓍𝑒𝓃𝒾𝒶 ☿ ⋆.•° - That’s a toxic person and it’s usually someone you care about.
Thank u
I can't do it when people call me names or make fun of me I still feel down 😞
Thank you bhai
I don't listen to people what they call me I am who I am 💯💯💯💯💪💪💪💪💪♥️♥️♥️♥️
This video helped. It's not easy to stand up for myself in a family of Conservatives and people who hate Communism with every pore of their bodies. Don't get me wrong, I love my family, but sometimes, I start to fear if I lose my faith in Communism. But, the more I get attacked for what I believe in or the more I get told to "give it up", the more radical and dedicated to Communism I become. I guess passion does help a lot.
Always ...
Does anyone know which of Les Brown’s speeches this excerpt comes from?
Where can I find the full video
Took me some time but Iam drawing my line.
I'm drawing the line now...... I hope it works my beat friend is even being rude to me...
how is it now?
I stopped hanging out with my toxic friends as much as I once did, got closer to my friendlier friends, which are also more flourishing in our society
I lost A social friends, that don't know how to speak to others, and met actual good people that are caring, good and not awkward or anti social
Ight I'm done I need to let go I haven't in so many years I'm 12 and young and need to learn and stand up we are all equal humans
This girl is bullying me and my friends and today I'm going to fight back
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