THE DAY WE LOST OUR TWINS (OUR STILLBIRTH STORY)

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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2021
  • October is National Infant Loss Awareness, so we wanted to share our stillbirth story of the day we lost our twin boys, Angel and Christian in hopes that we can help anyone who has gone through this or is going through this right now. Our prayers are with you.
    We have shared our stillbirth story in the past but not about the actual day we lost them and what happened. This is our story.
    1 out of 160 pregnancies end in stillbirth. I am that 1.
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  • @OurFamilyVine
    @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +11

    Thank you for watching! Stay safe and blessings to everyone! ❤ SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE VIDEOS: bit.ly/OurFamilyVine

  • @susanwanjiruw1618
    @susanwanjiruw1618 Рік тому +6

    I lost my identical twins last week at 34 weeks . I can't overcome my grief help me Lord

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  Рік тому +3

      I’m so so sorry for your loss. Please allow yourself the time to grieve…it took me a long time. Sending you so much love and prayers during this time. Message us anytime.

  • @kennithjones5907
    @kennithjones5907 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for sharing. I lost my daughter to unexplained stillbirth at 30 weeks. We went to the hospital to check for decreased fetal movement and within minutes our dream became a nightmare. I’m so sorry for your losses.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  Рік тому +2

      Thank you! I’m so sorry your loss. It’s so heartbreaking 💔

  • @ThePsr89
    @ThePsr89 2 роки тому +11

    Even after 22 years, your pain is fresh as a day before..... God bless you and take away this pain completely I cried the whole time as I watched this

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! God bless you too.

  • @sara.smile.858
    @sara.smile.858 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your story. I wish I could take your pain away. Loss isn't just once.. you lose them every day and they are not there. Every flutter in your tummy. Every time someone says their name... so many things put you right there again.

  • @lexismom9341
    @lexismom9341 2 роки тому +8

    My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry you had to go through such a painful loss. My prayers are with you.

  • @nite0wl014
    @nite0wl014 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this personal story with everyone. We miss Angel and Christian every day, but we know they're watching over all of you. Even though they weren't with us long, they blessed us with their presence and made our family bonds stronger.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching! They blessed us with their short time with us but I carry those short moments with me forever.

  • @martvillatuya2964
    @martvillatuya2964 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you for sharing, and I pray it gets easier for you and Cesar, and that time heals your wounds. God Bless your family.

  • @kathleenosmer8300
    @kathleenosmer8300 Рік тому +2

    Can't imagine your pain I like to express my deepest sympathy . So sorry for your loss

  • @hafsamuhammad1970
    @hafsamuhammad1970 Рік тому +2

    Hello , sorry for your loss,
    I had gone through this this year only,i had given stillbirth baby on August 30 ,i was 6 month pregnant,and this was my first pregnency after 5years of marriage.
    The blood flow was not proper to him so already doc told me that i could have premature baby,
    But before all that just i lost his movment and then doc said that his heart beat had stopped.
    Till now I'm not able to overcome from it.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  Рік тому +3

      We're so sorry for your loss. It's the hardest thing we've ever been through. Take your time to grieve. Sending a virtual hug and prayers. Send me a message if you ever need to talk.

  • @JoyBean
    @JoyBean 2 роки тому +2

    Thinking of You. Wishing you peace and comforting healing during this time. May you find some solace during this time and coming up. I am glad that you are sharing so much from the heart and helping others through their times of troubles. It is easy to second guess but, one never knows what life has planned unfortunately. Much love.. interesting you talked about the white feathers for us who we have had some pets pass away and one this year and it has been white butterflies that have been making their presence very well known.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! White butterflies are a beautiful symbol.

  • @denicefenn853
    @denicefenn853 2 роки тому +2

    I feel your pain and would give anything to be able to give you a hug. No matter how many years go by the pain of losing a child(ren) never goes away. You just learn to deal with it differently. I lost my beautiful daughter, Tasha, at the age of two and a half. Sadly I was to afraid to have any more children after that. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you all my love

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      So true. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing and for your kind words. Sending you love too!

  • @jeanettemajor9521
    @jeanettemajor9521 2 роки тому

    Sorry for your loss...God bless

  • @stephanieborkin7087
    @stephanieborkin7087 Рік тому

    I can’t even imagine. Thank you for sharing. 💔💔

  • @gayleleier8115
    @gayleleier8115 2 роки тому +6

    The issue in our case also is - - - WE WERE THERE !!!!!!! WHY DIDN'T THEY DELIVER THEN? WHY SEND US HOME AND TELL US TO COME BACK THE NEXT DAY OR TWO. In those 2 days ours died. I am the grandmother and I have never had anything hurt so bad. I so understand and synpathize with you. Although I know that really does not help.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      So sorry for your loss. Same…sent me home and I returned not even 12 hours later and it was too late. I asked myself that same question for so long, “Why didn’t they deliver then?”

  • @amberkelley5688
    @amberkelley5688 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, for this shared story.

  • @janetaylor4321
    @janetaylor4321 2 роки тому +1

    Prayers

  • @lyricalaska
    @lyricalaska 11 місяців тому

    Many prayers!

  • @justelleslife507
    @justelleslife507 11 місяців тому +1

    My pharmacist lost two twin boys 4 days before their scheduled C-section, it wasn't her first loss either, her husband didn't want to become acquainted with them because he was afraid he would lose them too, I remember talking to her, I couldn't believe it, she said her husband finally was getting their room ready because he believed they would make it that they'd have babies to bring home, they went through so many losses, she transferred closer to her home so I lost contact with her but always thought about her, she was the sweetest person and I hope by now they have their babies and children. They had an autopsy done which came back as not showing what caused her loss.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  11 місяців тому +1

      I'm so sorry to hear about her loss. It's so devastating. My heart goes out to her. Thank you for sharing.

  • @barbcosgrove64
    @barbcosgrove64 2 роки тому +2

    OH MY ❤ BRAKS FOR YOU. KNOWING THEY'D BE 21RS OLD SADDENS ME 😔 😞. MY 🙏 🤲 RS @ ❤ ARE WITH YOU.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers!

  • @annaclaire9927
    @annaclaire9927 Рік тому

    So sorry

  • @hazelgillett7168
    @hazelgillett7168 11 місяців тому

    You will spend eternity together, so their short earthly lives were not in vain. Good bless you all & give you peace. 🙏🕊️🌈👼👼💕🫂😘

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  11 місяців тому

      Thank you! I appreciate your kind words. God bless you too!

  • @Leonard_Wilson
    @Leonard_Wilson 2 роки тому +4

    Did you get grief counseling?
    The pain will never go away. With that said, you have four kids and a husband who all love you. I don’t want to say to appreciate what you have rather than being upset over something that you can’t change. Saying that would be insensitive.
    I’ve never met you in person, but I wish I could help you heal.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +3

      I did. Thank you so much for your kind words.

  • @zsazsa4159
    @zsazsa4159 Місяць тому

    I lost my twins 6 months ago, one was still born and the other lived for one day, I had an emergency c section for the second twin who was already dead in my stomach, i almost died I hemorrhaged and 2 Liters of blood, this is the worst pain I would not wish on my worst enemy, I thank God I lived, but I think of my twins and how my life would be with them.

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  Місяць тому +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I think of my twin boys every day…they would have been 24 years old today. Sometimes it can feel like yesterday. Thank you for sharing!

  • @schatzfarms4471
    @schatzfarms4471 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry you lost your babies. All moms should have a home Doppler to check heartbeats. It’s such an inexpensive safety device.

  • @maryk96
    @maryk96 Рік тому +1

    ✝️🙏✝️

  • @mariesahota1478
    @mariesahota1478 2 роки тому +2

    WHAT happened to them?

    • @OurFamilyVine
      @OurFamilyVine  2 роки тому +1

      They said it was possible twin-to-twin transfusion.

  • @jennifervoltin1173
    @jennifervoltin1173 2 роки тому +2

    I share this story with you.