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  • She hated men her entire life until this man stood right in front of her.
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  • @wambuijacinta9723
    @wambuijacinta9723 2 роки тому +1182

    Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.

    • @bennjeri1886
      @bennjeri1886 2 роки тому +22

      Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.

    • @janegicheru973
      @janegicheru973 2 роки тому +11

      We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.

    • @jemimahnjoroge1322
      @jemimahnjoroge1322 2 роки тому +10

      May the Lord heal you from the traumatic experience. Pole.

    • @joycew.charles533
      @joycew.charles533 2 роки тому +9

      Love you girl 😘😘

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +45

      Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏
      My people, feel free to connect with Jacinta via +254742560671 or instagram.com/cinta_njoroge?
      Her number is also in the description box:).
      Thank you

  • @therryt6829
    @therryt6829 2 роки тому +466

    I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +14

      Thank you🙏💛

    • @asantesana5689
      @asantesana5689 2 роки тому +12

      Am from Zimbabwe too Love this show

    • @vimbaimadubeko5035
      @vimbaimadubeko5035 2 роки тому +4

      I'm from Zimbabwe too, you are doing an amazing God Lynn, God bless you

    • @rozy_mnk7550
      @rozy_mnk7550 2 роки тому +8

      From Rwanda love this show too

    • @munesugazi9765
      @munesugazi9765 2 роки тому +7

      Am from Zimbabwe too, an I've lived on this show for over 2years!Good job Lynn.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому +234

    Fellow human beings, kindly never ask anyone why he/she isn't getting married. Some are battling childhood traumas.

    • @masigalaura8176
      @masigalaura8176 2 роки тому +14

      This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому +3

      @@masigalaura8176 we share the same story. We shall overcome.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому

      @Nicholas Ngecu So so sad

    • @CharityMFavour
      @CharityMFavour 2 роки тому +1

      Sure haki

    • @lilianbirungi384
      @lilianbirungi384 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Lynn and team, Jacinta you are a fighter.

  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +33

    We truly hope you enjoy this episode💛
    You can reach Jacinta on +254 742 560671
    or connect with her here instagram.com/cinta_njoroge?
    Thank you for your incredible support.
    To share your story, send a summary of your story to lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com

    • @keeliesfoods7553
      @keeliesfoods7553 2 роки тому +4

      Show ni poa but don't live the street interview..mama mboga na ma hastlers interview..

    • @bahowithlarissa3156
      @bahowithlarissa3156 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for helping and supporting us, yes us, making our voices heard and ousting our hidden memories, worries. This was inspiring for sure, God bless you! I would want to share my story too but I'm not in Kenya 😭😭😭

    • @faithkinyanjui8903
      @faithkinyanjui8903 2 роки тому +2

      I love this lady

    • @jullyvlog8198
      @jullyvlog8198 2 роки тому +2

      And this is what am trying to fight alone.thought congest in the mind till.you feel.like your brain is bursting

  • @extrovert5829
    @extrovert5829 2 роки тому +71

    The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.

    • @timothyg1986
      @timothyg1986 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your lovely comment I feel it to the core.

    • @mercymeriy7851
      @mercymeriy7851 2 роки тому

      it's so true . at times u may think uko sawa ..but when triggered again realized not.

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 2 роки тому +31

    For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive

  • @resahbarasa810
    @resahbarasa810 2 роки тому +50

    Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. .
    I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas.
    I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace.
    I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy.
    Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.

    • @angella5876
      @angella5876 2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you love.

    • @dianaprincess617
      @dianaprincess617 2 роки тому

      Sorry boo boo....hugs mamii

  • @wairari
    @wairari 2 роки тому +77

    Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 2 роки тому +25

    Oprah is a Queen who went through a lot but she became a queen of TalkShows

  • @francisnyapendi298
    @francisnyapendi298 2 роки тому +43

    i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 2 роки тому

      So sorry for that. Hugs

    • @catherinemuriuki1471
      @catherinemuriuki1471 2 роки тому +5

      You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗

    • @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
      @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations 2 роки тому +3

      You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 2 роки тому

      Am also a Ugandan sorry

    • @annewanjohi5745
      @annewanjohi5745 2 роки тому +4

      Please report this to the nearest children officer.seek help

  • @mbakanamedia8667
    @mbakanamedia8667 2 роки тому +59

    Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому +42

    I'm not a parent but this topic is helpful. We need to share on family WhatsApp groups.

  • @tujieleweglobal
    @tujieleweglobal 2 роки тому +18

    No envy, no jealousy. Pure respect and celebration. Lynn Ngugi this shows are 🔥🔥 🔥

  • @janewanjiku152
    @janewanjiku152 2 роки тому +42

    Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it

    • @justhome4850
      @justhome4850 2 роки тому +3

      Hey Jane, please seek counseling,get delivered cz it might repeat itself and u get married to such a man.. all the best

    • @maryannnyambura406
      @maryannnyambura406 2 роки тому +1

      Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal

  • @john_njonjo
    @john_njonjo 2 роки тому +26

    This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.

  • @kadzo6614
    @kadzo6614 2 роки тому +88

    As someone who was abused by my uncle, I spoke about it after 12 years. There's no forgetting

  • @lynnwanjiru1511
    @lynnwanjiru1511 2 роки тому +19

    Looks like an Oprah Winfrey show so proud of you Lynn

  • @lizwambui8320
    @lizwambui8320 2 роки тому +132

    What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +7

      Thank you so much🙏💛
      Truly appreciate the love:)

    • @janekihika1047
      @janekihika1047 2 роки тому +2

      Isaiah43:18-19

  • @msapereewabc939
    @msapereewabc939 2 роки тому +78

    I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls

  • @lavendernyawade1514
    @lavendernyawade1514 2 роки тому +25

    I watched this story on shared moment with Justus, I really cried. This lady went through a lot.

  • @blessedalicia7227
    @blessedalicia7227 2 роки тому +70

    This show is becoming something else i swear. Am so much hooked into it. Thanks Lynn,you are amazing 👏 ❤ 😘

  • @cookingwithnimoh
    @cookingwithnimoh 2 роки тому +25

    Painful story to listen to.. May she and others who have gone through similar traumas receive healing ❤

  • @InstaF.A.M
    @InstaF.A.M 2 роки тому +38

    So many parents have no idea what happens to their daughters behind the scenes in Kenya. So many girls go through this.Thanks Lyn for the platform

  • @TheCluelessMan
    @TheCluelessMan 2 роки тому +19

    We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.

  • @lilywhite8029
    @lilywhite8029 2 роки тому +22

    Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk?
    Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is

    • @Debby142
      @Debby142 2 роки тому

      That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..

  • @DaviesWokabi
    @DaviesWokabi 2 роки тому +6

    I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this

  • @felistermwongeli6334
    @felistermwongeli6334 2 роки тому +11

    This is the best place to be to be strong and come out of the pain you passed on thank so much Lynn for the good work 👏 🙌 God bless you 🙏

  • @gachugumaggy
    @gachugumaggy 2 роки тому +8

    Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪

  • @marthakibera1301
    @marthakibera1301 2 роки тому +19

    Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥

    • @mamalao8574
      @mamalao8574 2 роки тому +1

      Lynn baby girl see this need also to know how r coping with life

  • @katemillicent9433
    @katemillicent9433 2 роки тому +11

    That's a good job Lynn, healing comes by speaking out and letting go off the past,and being positive .

  • @lydiakaindi5872
    @lydiakaindi5872 2 роки тому +8

    Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her.
    See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy..
    I am so proud of her.
    She will partner well with Njeri.
    God bless her and give her strength.

  • @mutukucosmas3549
    @mutukucosmas3549 2 роки тому +9

    "unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through

  • @vicvic9792
    @vicvic9792 2 роки тому +28

    Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u

  • @ireneabuya7231
    @ireneabuya7231 2 роки тому +17

    This interview was so dope and very emotional at the same time,God may you protect us always 😭😭😭😭

  • @masj8160
    @masj8160 2 роки тому +153

    So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому +3

      Sorry for what you went through.

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 роки тому +5

      So sorry for what you went through, I hope you get help to overcome it💕

    • @kiwishbj1
      @kiwishbj1 2 роки тому +53

      I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open.
      I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say.
      But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 роки тому +10

      I don't even want to remember my life living with relatives, am so sorry 💕

    • @menameir1786
      @menameir1786 2 роки тому +3

      @@kiwishbj1 God bl6you bro

  • @bennjeri1886
    @bennjeri1886 2 роки тому +49

    God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.

  • @amigrowing
    @amigrowing 2 роки тому +55

    I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone.
    Xoxo💜

  • @zakstv7368
    @zakstv7368 2 роки тому +7

    Mimi ni Mtanzania🇹🇿 ningekwepo hapo na mimi ningesimulia yangu pia wazazi wanafaa kuangalia watoto😭😭

  • @254muthonirachael
    @254muthonirachael 2 роки тому +19

    I'm happy to see some of your guest supporting your show Lynn♥️may God bless your work girl 🙏

  • @MissT292
    @MissT292 2 роки тому +13

    This is the best interview I have ever watched,,,I pray that God restores her n many others like her,,for u Lynn keep winning Mamie🥰🥰🥰

  • @masigalaura8176
    @masigalaura8176 2 роки тому +20

    I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.

  • @claireclarkeignite8458
    @claireclarkeignite8458 2 роки тому +16

    Lynn this was an excellent show. I hope both persons received the help to continue their journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world

  • @KuiWaKamau
    @KuiWaKamau 2 роки тому +9

    Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +1

      I never take for granted the impact I am able to make with your support 🙏

  • @anitawambui7128
    @anitawambui7128 2 роки тому +5

    I pray total healing to all survivors either rape abuse, emotional or domestic abuse may God help you all to overcome it .💜💜

  • @mariawangari2670
    @mariawangari2670 2 роки тому +6

    This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed

  • @MARKOSJ27
    @MARKOSJ27 2 роки тому +6

    The best show ever so that parents out there should learned something heal. Thanks alot Lynn for this courage and support

  • @titus254
    @titus254 2 роки тому +34

    @Lynn you took this show a notch higher. This is life changing experience and you have proved to be the best.

  • @menameir1786
    @menameir1786 2 роки тому +17

    Who defiles a 4 day old baby or a 5 months or any child at all? These people should be killed or isolated from the world completely. It's sickening even to think of it. Suerly njeri you are a strong woman to handle this case,. May God bless you and give you more strength to carry on.

    • @judithtwinomugisha8917
      @judithtwinomugisha8917 2 роки тому +1

      Our Ugandan president keeps proposing that these people should be kept away from society but the so called human rights. Oh God this is so sad. Men please have mercy and self control. This saddens me so much!

  • @staicykagai400
    @staicykagai400 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks Lyn.This is go to help many people are suffering in silence.The show will be in another level soon.

  • @petersonwanjiku3661
    @petersonwanjiku3661 2 роки тому +29

    Now this is another direction
    I'm happy for the show.
    Thanks

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much🙏

  • @nimojameskitchen1221
    @nimojameskitchen1221 2 роки тому +3

    This has touched me…I almost went through it through a relative but my cousin saved me.. by telling me what the man intended to do. It was in the evening and I run through a thicket to my place. That was back in 2003.Fact is I was able to say hi to that relative last year since 2003.May God heal this beauty.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 роки тому +36

    Few encounters with people can make you rule out everyone but in God's perfect timing he makes everything beautiful ❤️

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 2 роки тому +52

    Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling

  • @roydhaluwa6543
    @roydhaluwa6543 2 роки тому +7

    This has touched my heart, it's so painful to be tomented psychologically due to trauma. Lynn keep up with what you are doing, I personally have learnt that Rape and sexual assault affects the growth and development of a child

  • @annabelnduta3824
    @annabelnduta3824 2 роки тому +5

    This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs

  • @theachebes5724
    @theachebes5724 2 роки тому +7

    Lynn this is amazing. I believe just like anyone in ministry you too are called to reach out our generation. I am a servant of God and I must bless the Lord for such a unique grace on your life. Keep it moving!

  • @TeacherFaithlearnandgrow
    @TeacherFaithlearnandgrow 2 роки тому +41

    Jacinta, thank you for honouring us with your story.
    I celebrate your courage to own and Honour your story.
    Wishing you love, strength and healing.
    You are Loved, Valued and you matter.
    You're not alone.
    💜💜💜💜
    Thank you Lynn for amplifying the survivor's voice. Thanks for believing.
    I celebrate you for this!
    💜💜💜

  • @estherwanjiku9472
    @estherwanjiku9472 2 роки тому +4

    I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.

  • @carolinewanjiku7609
    @carolinewanjiku7609 2 роки тому +6

    I went through the same and the person who did it was my father's blood brother,His thing could not fit in my small v so he would put it in my mouth,I never told my parents cause they were busy fighting each other.When I started to develope breast he touched me and I got very mad and reported him to my mother who told my father.My father was soo mad but kama kawaida it was solved kifamilia.I would look at them and tell myself mgejua kuna ingine mbaya sijawaambia.I was also this shy anti social person,with very low self esteem.I can't wait for my abuser to die cause that day I will be celebrating.God's justice.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 2 роки тому

      We have gone through alot but please forgive and let go and let in God

  • @Njeri-
    @Njeri- 2 роки тому +76

    Am glad to have been part of this live show and sharing my experience too
    " to parents/guardians : know who you are bringing closer to your children", make your children feel safe with you
    Lynne you are a blessing💕 God bless you

    • @beingkiddo1643
      @beingkiddo1643 2 роки тому +3

      You Soo talented mamaa😍😍😍how can I reach you ? Just need a piece of advice please 🥺

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much Njeri💛💛

    • @wambuijacinta9723
      @wambuijacinta9723 2 роки тому +5

      Njerih was happy to see you also open up and share your experience 👏❤️

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 роки тому +2

      @@wambuijacinta9723 Jess you are so brave and strong
      You are life Jess 💕💕💕💕

    • @wambuijacinta9723
      @wambuijacinta9723 2 роки тому +2

      @@Njeri- Thankyou ❤️

  • @ponijada3697
    @ponijada3697 2 роки тому +6

    So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids .
    Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist
    Love from South sudan

  • @josephmuhalya8078
    @josephmuhalya8078 2 роки тому +18

    Hello am Michelle Bahati, thank you so much Lynn, Ngugi for this show, I I was also raped by my cousin in 2004 by then I was staying with them in Nairobi, because am an orphan, I can surely tell you, that I haven't forgotten, I told his mum who is now dead, but she did nothing instead she beat me up,,,,, I'll never forgive you JUNIOUR!!!!!!!

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 2 роки тому +1

      So sorry for Wht u went through. Hugs

    • @marynduku8422
      @marynduku8422 2 роки тому +2

      My heart goes out to you Michelle. I believe in you and i know you will overcome because you are more than a conquer through Him who strengthens you. Pls forgive him it is the first step to healing, release him and hand him over to God

    • @joycemumbe6868
      @joycemumbe6868 2 роки тому +2

      So sorry hugs dear

    • @hehe-tr1ci
      @hehe-tr1ci 4 години тому

      Dont carry this burden, speak it out and declare that you forgive junior and the rest is up to God. It works. Junior is not worth your peace of mind

  • @StellahWekesa
    @StellahWekesa 2 роки тому +7

    I have watched this episode and it's just on another level good Lynn ngugi..Ihave learn alot jecinta thank you for sharing your story❤️

  • @amiej9934
    @amiej9934 2 роки тому +13

    I have not watched but I must admit I feared men until I met a guy 2yrs ago .I stayed for more than 28yrs for what happened when I was 13 and didn't want anything to do with men.I feared him too but I don't know what happened since it was different. I met the love of my soul. My twin soul

  • @emmily2693
    @emmily2693 2 роки тому +51

    Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.

  • @victorwasonga5726
    @victorwasonga5726 2 роки тому +34

    Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.

    • @kembabazichristine7027
      @kembabazichristine7027 2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate, and advise that lady how to have a safe retaliationship

  • @gontlafetsembeha2848
    @gontlafetsembeha2848 2 роки тому +4

    Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @raelchepkoech7966
    @raelchepkoech7966 2 роки тому +7

    Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.

  • @IamGodsfavourite6518
    @IamGodsfavourite6518 2 роки тому +6

    Waoh.This is a new level.awesome.Biggup Lyn.
    You are trully blessed and you have become a blessing.for the lives you touch,God will reward you

  • @Annierukenya
    @Annierukenya 2 роки тому +8

    Happy new year 🎉🥳❣️❣️❣️ we are here for the love Lynn. Commenting before watching, I'm sure it's a great show and I'll be inspired.

  • @gontlafetsembeha2848
    @gontlafetsembeha2848 2 роки тому +5

    The therapist is soo amazing! I watched her story as well ❤️

  • @CoachVioletRibu
    @CoachVioletRibu 2 роки тому +25

    Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.

  • @maureenodhiambo6023
    @maureenodhiambo6023 2 роки тому +48

    I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.

    • @gathonimaria1636
      @gathonimaria1636 2 роки тому +3

      Be strong

    • @oderatrizah5087
      @oderatrizah5087 2 роки тому +3

      Hugs dear, all will be well

    • @joykiru8858
      @joykiru8858 2 роки тому +1

      It is well dear, nobody understands the pain of such an encounter. I pray that God gives you peace and love

    • @josephmbira399
      @josephmbira399 2 роки тому +1

      @@oderatrizah5087 a

    • @truth8027
      @truth8027 2 роки тому +1

      @maureen Odhiambo,
      Please get the help you so need. See a trauma specialist for sexual assault. 💜😘

  • @wambuialice5987
    @wambuialice5987 2 роки тому +24

    Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +3

      Dear Alice, we are sending you so much love and light💛💛💛

    • @overandabove9821
      @overandabove9821 2 роки тому +1

      May the Lord heal you ...

    • @annndunge8412
      @annndunge8412 2 роки тому

      Wow, I see life's being changed through this show... Keep doing what u love most: touching lives💕

  • @jedidahakinyi9681
    @jedidahakinyi9681 2 роки тому +8

    When she spoke about memories being suppressed but the body never forgetting, I remembered something that always comes back to me. I have always wondered whether it actually happened or it's a dream. It's at night, pitch black. We are sleeping on a mat in a room just close to my mum's and step father. And I feel someone trying to force themselves on me. I was probably around 6 or 7. How do I explain this? I have never spoken about it because, how do I start? Now that she spoke about it, I am scared that I may have been sexually assaulted and I didn't even know it. And I have cried.
    Thank you Lynn

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 роки тому +3

      Sending love your way

  • @hellenmkalla350
    @hellenmkalla350 2 роки тому +17

    Lynn this show has encouraged so many people being one of them. Some might not come out but through this they alreally concoured the fear and become victories. Thank you and congratulations.

  • @JJones-oh3dd
    @JJones-oh3dd 2 роки тому +9

    This is my story😭😭hugs Gals💔after watching this show am ready to come out and tell my untold story...thank you Lynne for always having our backs🙏❤

    • @hellenmwangi4598
      @hellenmwangi4598 2 роки тому

      Jeanifer you are a strong lady, by talking it you heal
      Hugs

  • @zalwango73
    @zalwango73 2 роки тому +9

    Lynn, our Kenyan version of Oprah Winfrey. Good job.

  • @babieuniya
    @babieuniya 2 роки тому +4

    Waaaaoooooo I just love the setup, so beautiful, a combination of Dr. Phil, Oprah and Ellen in own very own Kenyan girl. Kazi safi sana Lyn.

  • @nancy3734
    @nancy3734 2 роки тому +9

    Happy New year full of God's blessings everyone. @Lynn Ngugi... I'm your ardent fan and since the day I saw your first show I'm an addict to your shows. From the get go I saw a young lady surrounded by God's grace. May God heal all abused and do a new thing in their lives.
    Trauma and for men comes from vast reasons. Mine was betrayal emotional abuse from my ex. To this date I hate men and when one talks to me I feel insulted coz all I see is a wolf I a sheep's skin. Many women are living this but don't talk. You just die slowly deep inside. It's like a spreading cancer.
    I have a story that can heal many women. Keep it up Lynn. God will reward you to unmerited..unimaginable levels for the lives you touch and change through your God given grace

  • @AregoJuddy
    @AregoJuddy 2 роки тому +9

    You can move from a survivor to the thriver that you are🙏🙏

  • @gracegakumo3624
    @gracegakumo3624 2 роки тому +6

    God bless you Lynn for the great work you are doing, you really touch many souls

  • @catherinemuthike4948
    @catherinemuthike4948 2 роки тому +1

    I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.

  • @janetshiku186
    @janetshiku186 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you Lynn for this program, through what she has shared I've realised that i also suffer PTSD from my previous abusive marriage. It's 9 years since I left and I can't wrap my head around getting into a relationship.I've tried it twice but just when we are about to get serious the past memories flashes back and I end up ghosting that relationship.
    Don't know how to get over it.

    • @gladyswasambla4327
      @gladyswasambla4327 2 роки тому

      Lynn,
      Keep up the good work. It is so important to raise awareness about this sensitive issue for which so much help is needed. God bless you, the beautiful work and the platform you have availed to many who are dealing with different situations and circumstances.

  • @krystynaha2455
    @krystynaha2455 2 роки тому +14

    Wow ,before I even comment about this couple ..... let me just say 👍🏼 good job Lynn 👏😊💕 new year , new content , you've upgraded 🥰

  • @elizabethkivai4954
    @elizabethkivai4954 2 роки тому +5

    Exellent job Lynn,may God bless you so much,and Jacinta thank you for sharing your story,and its part of healing and God will help you go through it.

  • @lovethildah7340
    @lovethildah7340 2 роки тому +14

    Wooow, I had to check whether I'm lost😌
    This is another big step Miss Lyn, Congrats!❤

    • @chebby010
      @chebby010 2 роки тому

      Very true 💞 Lynne is a real epitome in this society....we love you mummy 💞

  • @mercyomulela6832
    @mercyomulela6832 2 роки тому +4

    Very informative we learn everyday & congrats Lynn nice set up! May God's favour & mercy shine on you & the crew in 2022 ♥️

  • @sofiemission3333
    @sofiemission3333 2 роки тому +18

    It's hard to understand if you have never being abusive.
    I had attempted abusive and that things disturb me alot
    Sometime you can't speak out because the society will judge you without understand what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @lucyikua5988
    @lucyikua5988 2 роки тому +5

    Soo many souls out there are abused, The only thing we can do now is to try and make the upcoming generation feel they are in a safe place by making the world today better than yesterday.

  • @mallikgraphics5044
    @mallikgraphics5044 2 роки тому +3

    Jacinta you are a brave woman for coming out and speak about your past life and fears. One thing I need you to know is that God really loves you and he has great things for you. Stay strong with God's protection. And to you Lyn, big up for the wonderful job you are doing. May God keep rising you to that awesome ladder. We love your work together with my wife.

  • @blessed_rose190
    @blessed_rose190 2 роки тому +14

    This show is a life changing thank you Lynn,,,, I know this gal has receive healing and this is her new beginning of her life ❤️❤️

  • @joycegacheri5177
    @joycegacheri5177 2 роки тому +4

    Aki vile nampenda Lynn 😍😍may God keep here give her strength and more wisdom to do more we grow together with Lynn we learn together and we change our lifes together God protect Lynn from every evil Amen and Amen

  • @victoreddie9552
    @victoreddie9552 2 роки тому +6

    I am happy that Lynn Ngugi is back on her feet again

  • @jnn1715
    @jnn1715 2 роки тому +4

    Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.

  • @wanjiru-usa1
    @wanjiru-usa1 2 роки тому +42

    I'm about to turn 41. Having gone through similar experiences, its not easy to forget but I always talk to self that I have to beat my past and move forward. Lynn, this is a great enlightening show. Keep up soaring.
    Many women who've lived in these trauma will come out, brave it, and live again.

    • @carolynewambui6362
      @carolynewambui6362 2 роки тому +2

      True true,it hurts when u realize such serious issues when you all grown,i think parents also needs to try and be open/best frds with the kids,maybe is she was close with the mom they would have at some point talked about it and maybe sought help early enough.

    • @rehobothjennie3456
      @rehobothjennie3456 2 роки тому

      That's true, I'm also turning 43, my Mum abused me and rejected me before I was even born, I remember she would send me to fetch water at night, so I can be eaten by Hyena's and leave her live forever 😭😭😭😭
      I grew up like an animal, a very bitter person and a depressed one. My husband never understands my emotional weakness and he even makes it worse for me, by mocking me when I becomes emotional and starts crying. I really don't know how to control my emotions, all thanks to the abusive environment I grew to.
      May Almighty God help this young lady to overcome it totally in Jesus name.

    • @wanjiru-usa1
      @wanjiru-usa1 2 роки тому

      @@carolynewambui6362, it hurts. At somepoint I felt like blaming parents, but I realized blaming them won't heal the wounds. Some of our parents may still be not that enlightened of how cruel the world is, and not knowing that the people they trust most with their children are the great threats.

    • @wanjiru-usa1
      @wanjiru-usa1 2 роки тому

      @@rehobothjennie3456 sorry for the experience. I hope you've been able to forgive your mom and you've made ✌.

    • @rehobothjennie3456
      @rehobothjennie3456 2 роки тому

      @@wanjiru-usa1 I forgave her long time ago, but there's no motherly connection. I just see her as my neighbor.

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 роки тому +3

    Gods timing is the best! May she heal and stop fearing men..I commend her courage to share her story.

  • @perpetuaishika2574
    @perpetuaishika2574 2 роки тому +5

    Hugs to you dear. Thank you Lynn for making effort to make sure we discuss these things openly. People are really struggling out there.
    Good bless you
    Hugs to you too Lynn and happy new year 2022🧡🧡

  • @susanwangeci6323
    @susanwangeci6323 2 роки тому +38

    Looking at everyone's reaction to her sad story, I really wonder who has not been through some traumatic event in their childhood or even adulthood ? So many people are living with alot of pain. God please heal us.

  • @victorianzembi9201
    @victorianzembi9201 2 роки тому +7

    I will never get tired of watching this show I always watch it from the toilet 🤣 those are leaving in gulf know it well but when I realise Is out I can't imagine how people they can take opportunity to misuse a small girl and are the one who are supposed to show good example but anyway I'm sorry gal toto you are so brave and strong you will get your man when God bless you with one so God's timing is the best even me I remember I passed there but when I remember it always broke my heart 💓 Lynn continue impacting people life and even enlightening