This Christmas is going to be especially hard. I lost my husband Wednesday the 15th of over 36 years married and almost 40 years together. He contracted MRSA from vascular surgery on his leg. We thought it was healed and everything was fine but there was infection we didn’t know about. Once we knew it was too late, it went to his lungs, blood and kidneys immediately then his heart and finally his brain. This was all within a week. I’m not writing this for sympathy, but only to remind everyone that we never know what tomorrow brings. Spend time with your loved ones, tell them you love them because tomorrow is not promised. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and Jamie, enjoy the little things! ♥️
Hey angel. Please don’t feel guilty about not going to visit your dad all the time. My dad died when I was younger and we only really go up to visit him on his birthday, anniversary and Christmas. He will be with you always and you don’t need to go visit him or somewhere which makes it hard for you. He will know you still love him and think of him always without doing this. Keep strong and do what’s best for you. Sending so much love ♥️💖
Can’t wait to watch this! I’m a teacher that’s looking forward to a cosy Sunday getting everything tidied and organised for Christmas, your vlogs always motivate me😆🎄💕
Thank you so much for what you do! Teachers are some of the most important yet somehow most under appreciated professionals on the planet 💓 I hope you know how important and wonderful you are!
I totally agree with you about New Year’s Eve. For years, me and my husband have a take out after a long walk or a cheese board and a movie and quietly celebrate and we are both in bed and asleep before the bells toll the new year (until the fireworks wake us up! ) I thought I was alone as I feel New Year’s Eve has always made me feel sad and under pressure to be having an amazing party or out with friends but now know a lot of people feel the same. God bless you both and happy Christmas to you Jamie and your families and look forward to watching your 2022 videos. 🎄🥂
It's lovely you're making a wreath for your dad 💕 don't feel guilty for not visiting his allotment 💔 my dad passed too & I tend to just visit it on his Birthday & Christmas day 💕 I think they're always with you & around you & are there especially when you need them 💕 whatever you're comfortable with 💕 he is definitely always with you 💕 hope you have a lovely Christmas 💕🎄
24 hours of Christmas story! I watch eve to Christmas day! Over and over lol. Just found your channel so I'm binge watching. Christmas in May, nothing better 😁
If I were a spirit I’d make sure to be present in those moments where my loved ones are feeling happy and fullfilled ❤️ I bet watching Jamie loving you and you guys building this beautiful life together means more than anything to a father! It’s not only the places…it’s the energy. So please don’t worry too much about the allotment!
When you said is your last video of the year my heart felt so upset but at the same time I'm happy for you that you will take some time off for yourself, be happy and radiant as you always look on your videos, happy holidays Gemma
Aw, last one of the year. The last 6 minutes really ring home with me, especially this year. Our first Christmas without the matriarch of our family, our wonderful mam... and I'm just starting to realise that it is OK to not be OK. Or to hear that, its OK to not be happy all the time. But I love Christmas, and the whole cosy, fuzzy, festive feeling it brings, so as hard as it will be, we will try to make it as happy as we can. Merry Christmas 🎄
Thank you Gemma. Thank you for always understanding and caring about your followers and subscribers. I am from Canada and this is my first year back at home from when I lived abroad. For years I have been looking forward to returning and having this amazing Christmas I remember having before I left. However I feel so guilty not experiencing the happiness I thought I would have by now. Thank you for making me realize it's normal and being so relatable like you always are. Merry Christmas to you and your family and hope you enjoy these next few weeks off and living in the moment. xx
Merry Christmas Gemma..my husband and I are home bodies and love being home we have a beautiful garden and pool and love to be here or in the house cuddling up and our dog with us. We love cosy NYE at home also with a cheese board a hot chocolate and playing Scrabble. We couldn't care less what anyone thinks we love our lives and spending time together and right now being well and safe is so important. Take care look forward to seeing you in the new year x 🎅❤️
I am a home buddy too and Gemma said you always feel the pressure to do something extra but I have realized that I don't care what people think and I will spend like gemma New years eve at home 😁
Can't believe it's the week of Christmas - completely agree with you the build up is the best bit! My must watch film on Christmas eve is Muppet Christmas Carol. Merry Christmas Gemma have a lovely one x
Gemma, your dad's allotment is just a place that has sentimental value. Always remember he is in you so cherish your memories but don't overthink it and stress. Merry Christmas from New Zealand x
Awe i had missed this one... but your speech...was much needed today in January! Ive been in a funky mood. And i don't like it. But like you said its ok. You are such an inspiration to watch and i love your vlogs. I wish you the best of 2022 theres so many blessing ahead for you two sweet people.
Gemma, your Dad is with you where ever you are. When we love someone so much, it's hard to visit their graves. He understands, and he's always with you xx
I had similar guilt about visiting my gramps at the cemetery. A medium told me that he knew of this and to not feel guilt and rush to visit as he wasn’t there, he was always with one of us. It took the pressure off and also the emotional weight off of visiting the cemetery. Think of it that your dad is with you whenever you need him and visiting his allotment is an added bonus x
That little motivational talk in the end was really meaningful. Thank you! Wishing you and your loved ones a heartwarming, cosy christmas and a blessed 2022. 🙏🎅🎄✨🎆🥂🥮
You are so sweet and have a kind heart ❤. Don't let your thoughts make you feel guilty. Your Dad is not there at his burial place. He is a spirit now. I think we go to feel closer to our missing loved ones. To show our love. You can close your eyes and feel the old memories. Ask God to comfort you and give you peace. Hugs
Starch and iron your napkins before you fold them. At the part when you pressed with your hands on the pleats do another tiny iron so the layers are pressed tight, then they will stay beautifully crisp and delineated on the table. Once they are folded you can pop them in a box or a drawer until Christmas day, they should stay wrinkle free and crisp then you just put the cutlery in on Christmas day.
Your dad will be with everyone he spent time with, hel be protecting you and mum but also knows you have your life to live. Hes very proud and never too far away. 🖤🎄 xx
Loved this video 😍 I'm from Finland, and we always celebrate Christmas mainly on the Christmas Eve. There are a few Christmas shows in the morning, that are traditional. The main show is a live show 'the Santa Claus's hotline' and children can call him and he answers them on TV. Then there's the Snowman, of course. Right after Snowman there's the Declaration of Christmas peace at 12pm. Merry Christmas Gemma, Jamie, Teddy and Tilly ❤️✨
You make Christmas so magical. My dad passed away unexpectedly on (American) Thanksgiving, so this holiday season really hasn't felt right or festive for me. Getting to see your plans and excitement make me feel a bit better during a tough time. Cheers, happy holidays! 🎄
Gemma, you’re going to love doing Christmas when you decide to have kids. It’s sooo much fun! If you love all the planning now, you’ll love to see the excitement on your kids faces. I can’t wait for this day for you.. sigh.. patience! :p Merry Christmas to you, Jamie, and the family. Lots of love from Canada!
Merry Christmas to you all. Enjoy your time off. Hope you find comfort in visiting dads allotment. Don’t beat yaself up about not visiting often I think that happens for a lot of people. Enjoy all your lovely festive cooking. The cookies look amazing, you have a natural flare for being creative. Look forward to seeing you soon. 🎁🎄☃
Your videos always make me SO happy, and I hope you guys all enjoy your Christmas Eve week! Also, please don’t feel bad about your dad, you’re carrying him around in your heart and he wouldn’t want you to feel guilty. Every year gets easier! Merry Christmas!🎄
Thank you Gemma - nothing better than snuggling up in my Fluffy housecoat, coffee and my two girls - Bridget Jones😼 and Frida😺 and watching your vlogs! Wishing You, Jamie, Tilly and Teddy a Wonderful, cozy Christmas! 🎄🎁😊❄☕ 🎅☃️🥂🍬🐱🎄🐱🍾🎉
Don’t be too hard on yourself x I lost my dad this year x he is in your heart and around u wherever u are x only do what u want to do that’s what he probably would want you to do x to be happy xx have a lovely relaxing time x remember great Christmas’s with him that’s wot I’m gunna do 😘 xxxx
Every year since me and my boyfriend got together (over 10 years ago) we have watched The Santa Claus film (with Tim Allen) and this year I cant wait to watch it because our son, who is now 2 years old will be awake and alert enough to watch it with us 🥰🥰🥰
Enjoy your cosy Christmas with Jamie and the Mums! It sounds lovely and your hard work will be much appreciated. Also enjoy your well earned rest and reset. We'll miss you but totally understand. Here's to an amazing 2022! xxx
Aww Gemma, please don't feel guilty about not going to your dad's gravesite often. He's watching over you and your mom. He knows how much you love him and how you're feeling. I'm sure Christmas can be difficult since he hasn't been gone long. He is with you. I hope you have an amazing week up until Christmas. You definitely put me in the Christmas spirit!!!! I just adore your vlogs. Thank you and I wish you a very Merry Christmas!!!! Much love
Merry Christmas beautiful, you go enjoy the next few weeks with your loved ones - you deserve it. 🙏🏼🐱🐱🎄💝 Thank you for that speech at the end of the video, I needed that. For the last 17 month, I’ve been battling surgery’s bc of cell changes and suspected ALCL lymphoma, biopsy’s and complications after. But my head is high and I’ve simply decided that I’m gonna get through this. I do feel stronger than ever, even though everything is so uncertain in more ways than one. - btw, I just got my first law of attraction planner the other day!! I’m so excited 😍 hugs and warm wishes from Denmark. 🇩🇰
Get well soon, I’ve started watching joe dispenza he is based on healing ourselves - not in anyway saying to stop treatment! Just it’s important to stay positive 🤍
What you said at the end of the video really touched my heart Gemma, im actually crying right now because it felt like you were talking directly to me, cant hold back the tears now because I've been bottling it up for days. Thank you for making a very unfestive year for me a little bit more festive with your beautiful videos. You are so strong and inspiring. You have such a good soul, thank you for reminding me that I'm not alone in feeling sad and anxious about not creating the perfect Christmas this year. Hopefully next year will be better, for everyone. Merry Christmas. Have an amazing break, you deserve it so much 💜
hello from the states. I completely understand about not going to the cemetary for your dad. I lost my mom 11 years ago and i only go to her graveside maybe twice a year to take her flowers, mainly on mothers day. I dont particularly like going because it makes me sad when i am there. so I completely understand how you feel. I think its best to remember them as they were, all the happy times with them. This time of year is difficult when you are missing loved ones. Hope you and lovely family have a wonderful Christmas.
Thank you for all your lovely vlogs throughout this last year, I hope you have an amazing Christmas with your family and a very happy New year, you deserve It!! You are the sweetest person, enjoy this festive time xxx
Happy Christmas to you and all your family. Have an amazing time. Happy new year! As a nurse I totally understand what you’re saying about the uncertainty, it will pass and we will get there. We can do this 💪 we all love you so much too 😘
We tend to watch Polar Express and Scrooge on Christmas Eve. Nice cozy clog today 🎄🎅🧑🎄 Hope you have a fab Christmas and thanks for your content this year.
Dear Gemma, I really enjoy your program, I love it that you are so transparent. My heart goes out to you as I see you missing your dad. I lost my parents and holidays are not the same. Just wanted to share with you that as a Christian person we know that our loved ones when they die they go to God’s presence the moment they close their eyes to eternity. So don’t feel bad that his spirit is somewhere else. Cherish the memories you had with him and make new ones with your mom and husband. Love you sweet princess.
Dont stress yourself about visiting the allotment. You’re dad will understand and will be around you wherever you are. X Best Xmas movie for Xmas Eve I think would be The Polar Express. Such a magical vibe. I watched the BBC’s All Aboard The Sleigh Ride one year. It was so peaceful and chilled. You have made me want to pop to m&s for a food haul for Xmas now. 😂 The food looks amazing. Loved the cheese board with the figs on too. Anyway, thanks for all your lovely videos. I hope you and yours have a happy Christmas and a merry New Year. X
Happy Christmas to you and Jamie, please no that it’s a lovely thing to visit your dads allotment… but dad is with you where ever you are in your heart and memories! Dad wouldn’t want you sad! Take a moment to acknowledge him and have a great Xmas for him cause your happiness is he’s everything xxxx
One thing I have noticed Gemma is every time you eat something on your vlogs, you always have the same reaction and I love it🤣 it’s either the eye roll/ close your eyes or the ‘mmmm’ 🤣
My dads funeral is 23rd December 💔 Thank you for talking about your dad and grief. I have found it so helpful Gemma. Your videos have helped me feel festive and comforted at such a tough time xx
This was a perfect day , cosy, relaxed and this is how I want the rest of the build up to Christmas to continue 🤗. Your Christmas Day plans sound wonderful and a tradition of having a walk and bubble and squeak is a great idea. Your words at the end were just right, fake Christmas does not sit well with me so Christmas in my own home is perfect with the spirit truly alive. Merry Christmas everyone stay safe stay well x
Gemma i think it is too soon to put yourself under pressure going to the allotment, it can take years to come to terms with loosing someone close . Eventually as you heal it will become easier . Your dads spirit will be with you where ever you are so please don’t feel its only at the allotment. Its been 8 years since i lost my parents within 8 wks of each other and i still feel like i dont enjoy christmas anymore. You never get over the loss but you do learn how to cope with it better. Sending big hugs xx
Really needed this today🥰Your Kind words really tucked my heart strings. I nearly cried! I fehlt so exhausted and lost lately. I couldn't really Enjoy my favourite time of the year but after watching this I feel so much Better! Thank you Gemma🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your Dad is not at the allotment he’s where ever you go and he’s there when you think of him don’t worry and don’t feel guilty he’s happy when you are have a great Christmas and he’ll be there enjoying it with your family 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕💕🙏🇬🇧🇬🇧
Merry Christmas Gemma, thank you so so much for all your content. It brings me so much joy and inspiration! You are such a wonderful person and I hope you enjoy your favourite time of the year! Love to you all.
Gemma you just steal my heart every time. I switch channels here there but every single time I come back you just warms my heart.. You ,Jamie, Tilly & Teddy are way up there with your loveliness. Happy Christmas to you and the family. All the best for the new year. Always and only in Love and Light. See you in 2022💝🇿🇦
Nothing better a Sunday watching a cosy vlog you can completely relate to. Going to really miss your vlogs leading up to Christmas. Please do little clips of your Christmas party and what u got up to!❤️ Happy Holidays✨
Gemma. Your Dad is In your heart, not in his grave. I use to feel that way about my Dad’s grave , but realize that isn’t feasible . Merry Christmas to you and yours
Merry Christmas Gemma,Jamie,tilly and teddy. I'm gonna miss you so much but understand everybody needs time to relax and enjoy family. I just wanted to let you know your fathers spirit is with you always, I miss my Granddaughter but I talk to her all the time and it makes me feel happy. I truly enjoy watching you, you make me happy. You rest and see you soon. Love you ❤❤🌲🎅
Merry Christmas Gemma, I will miss seeing you, but you deserve to have a break. Love ur little family with Jamie, tilly and teddy. You are the sweetest person and you make me laugh. Enjoy your holidays 🎄❤️
why am i trying to keep my tears in by the end of this video 🥺 feels so bittersweet saying goodbye for now until January, it feels like forever away although it’s just a few weeks! i can’t wait until you’re back with a bang gem gem & look forward to hearing from you over on insta. merry christmas & a happy new year to you, jamie, the cats & the whole family. you are of the very few people who make me feel all comfortable and soft inside at this time of year, as although it’s my favourite i am starting to feel very heavy about it all too. see you very soon i love you so much xxx
Gemma you don’t need to feel guilty not going to the allotment, your Dad is with you all the time no matter where you are. No need to be so hard on yourself.
I haven't been feeling very festive the last few days but cozy Gemma to the rescue as always.. Gemma I understand you feeling like that about your Dad but I can promise you it's not like that, for them it isn't about the place they go where the love Is , so I'm pretty sure he visits you at home alot bcoz he knows how much you love him ❤️❤️
Absolutely loved this!! Thank you for what you said at the end, it can be so easy to think that everyone online has perfect filtered lives and it's refreshing to be reminded that we only see a little snippet of your day! Merry Christmas xxxxxx
Please don’t feel guilty about not visiting your dad. Grief is weird. It’s also different for everyone and it’s okay. I like to believe that his spirit is with you and watching over you (like a guardian angel).
Merry Christmas Gemma and Jamie, enjoy your special time with your family. Relax and rejuvenate. Love your vids and look forward to seeing the first one in the new year! 😘
Gemma biscuits are amazing... Don't be so worried about visiting your Dad's grave as this is so difficult and anyway I'm sure he would be so happy with the attention you give to your Mam. Take care of the living, he is in forever in your heart and always on your mind. Thats what matters. Have a lovely chilled Christmas.🎄
Your videos are very uplifting. Always looking out for your updates. You helped me to look at Christmas more positively and with more enthusiasm this year
Enjoy your time off Gemma and Merry Christmas to you and Jamie, hope yous have the best Christmas and New Year! 🥰 I also loved your speech at the end of the vlog, thank you for that. This time of year is difficult for lots of people, sending love and hugs to anyone who is going through a tough time right now, remember you're not alone ❤️❤️
Thank you Gemma for all your lovely vlogs over the year have enjoyed, the shopping, moving house, recipes,cosy days at home and more. Glad I’m not the only one who is in bed by 11pm on NYE. New Year is the New Day when I wake. Have a Happy, Healthy Christmas, enjoy your time off. Look forward to seeing you in 2022.🎄❤️😎
Dearest Gemma. You are such a sweetheart 😘. What you shared about your Dad. I understand your feelings ....but you don't have to go to the place your Dad is. He is just a thought away from you always n he lives forever in your heart n thru you. You did a great job decorating the cookies! Your table looks lovely ...very nice n festive I think the wall where your tree is in dining room needs more decoration on that wall . Perhaps a pretty Print or large wreath. Just a thought. The food you are planning sounds great!!! I think the time you plan off to do what you like or regenerate is well deserved. Take that time n enjoy it. You given us much enjoyment thru the year. I really love your videos. You enjoy the simple n truly important things in life which is wonderful! Your love for life is so touching. You have a Merry Christmas n a Happy n healthy New Year. My wishes for Jamie had well. Thank you ..love you😘💞🙏🏻
8 years since losing my Dad, I can't go to the crematorium. It's too painful for me. It's interesting to hear your perspective as I don't really know anyone who has lost a parent so young. I completely get you.
Gemma, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 with your family and the very happiest of New Years you truly deserve it. Take care see you in 2022 xxxxxx ps as for your dad and the allotment, he would understand I’m sure, he sounds like he was a wonderful gentleman and let’s face it with your mum, they raised a magnificent daughter. Much love 💕 xxxx
This Christmas is going to be especially hard. I lost my husband Wednesday the 15th of over 36 years married and almost 40 years together. He contracted MRSA from vascular surgery on his leg. We thought it was healed and everything was fine but there was infection we didn’t know about. Once we knew it was too late, it went to his lungs, blood and kidneys immediately then his heart and finally his brain. This was all within a week. I’m not writing this for sympathy, but only to remind everyone that we never know what tomorrow brings. Spend time with your loved ones, tell them you love them because tomorrow is not promised. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and Jamie, enjoy the little things! ♥️
Sending so much love 🥺🤍
@@GemmaLouiseMiles ♥️
Anyone else revisiting those pre-announcement videos? ❤ such a different energy now that we know
Your dad wouldn't want you to be sad, he is with you always, seeing your achievements and giving you strength when you need him most. Xx
Hey angel. Please don’t feel guilty about not going to visit your dad all the time. My dad died when I was younger and we only really go up to visit him on his birthday, anniversary and Christmas. He will be with you always and you don’t need to go visit him or somewhere which makes it hard for you. He will know you still love him and think of him always without doing this. Keep strong and do what’s best for you. Sending so much love ♥️💖
Can’t wait to watch this! I’m a teacher that’s looking forward to a cosy Sunday getting everything tidied and organised for Christmas, your vlogs always motivate me😆🎄💕
Your hair is amazing!!!!! 😍
Thank you so much for what you do! Teachers are some of the most important yet somehow most under appreciated professionals on the planet 💓 I hope you know how important and wonderful you are!
Same I love Gemma's videos around Christmas when I'm lacking motivation or Christmas spirit lol 🤣 hope anyone reading this has a lovely Christmas xxx
Christmas in less than a week and this is the perfect way to start Christmas Eve week 🎄🎄🎄 Merry Christmas Gemma, Jamie, Tilly and Teddy
Aw your Dads right next to you! Hes watching you in every beautiful moment. Spirits are never just in one place 🥰😍😘❤
I totally agree with you about New Year’s Eve. For years, me and my husband have a take out after a long walk or a cheese board and a movie and quietly celebrate and we are both in bed and asleep before the bells toll the new year (until the fireworks wake us up! ) I thought I was alone as I feel New Year’s Eve has always made me feel sad and under pressure to be having an amazing party or out with friends but now know a lot of people feel the same. God bless you both and happy Christmas to you Jamie and your families and look forward to watching your 2022 videos. 🎄🥂
It’s not boring having a cheeseboard and going to bed at 10.00 on New Years!🥰❤️I’m exactly the same!🥰🥰🥰
It's lovely you're making a wreath for your dad 💕 don't feel guilty for not visiting his allotment 💔 my dad passed too & I tend to just visit it on his Birthday & Christmas day 💕 I think they're always with you & around you & are there especially when you need them 💕 whatever you're comfortable with 💕 he is definitely always with you 💕 hope you have a lovely Christmas 💕🎄
24 hours of Christmas story! I watch eve to Christmas day! Over and over lol. Just found your channel so I'm binge watching. Christmas in May, nothing better 😁
If I were a spirit I’d make sure to be present in those moments where my loved ones are feeling happy and fullfilled ❤️ I bet watching Jamie loving you and you guys building this beautiful life together means more than anything to a father! It’s not only the places…it’s the energy. So please don’t worry too much about the allotment!
Oh yes, the most perfect way to start a Sunday with my morning coffee!☺💞
When you said is your last video of the year my heart felt so upset but at the same time I'm happy for you that you will take some time off for yourself, be happy and radiant as you always look on your videos, happy holidays Gemma
watching this in august 2022, can’t wait for this year’s vlogmases 🌲❄️🎊
I’m also watching in August 🤣 can’t wait for them either! X
Aw, last one of the year.
The last 6 minutes really ring home with me, especially this year. Our first Christmas without the matriarch of our family, our wonderful mam... and I'm just starting to realise that it is OK to not be OK. Or to hear that, its OK to not be happy all the time. But I love Christmas, and the whole cosy, fuzzy, festive feeling it brings, so as hard as it will be, we will try to make it as happy as we can. Merry Christmas 🎄
Thank you Gemma. Thank you for always understanding and caring about your followers and subscribers. I am from Canada and this is my first year back at home from when I lived abroad. For years I have been looking forward to returning and having this amazing Christmas I remember having before I left. However I feel so guilty not experiencing the happiness I thought I would have by now. Thank you for making me realize it's normal and being so relatable like you always are. Merry Christmas to you and your family and hope you enjoy these next few weeks off and living in the moment. xx
Merry Christmas Gemma..my husband and I are home bodies and love being home we have a beautiful garden and pool and love to be here or in the house cuddling up and our dog with us. We love cosy NYE at home also with a cheese board a hot chocolate and playing Scrabble. We couldn't care less what anyone thinks we love our lives and spending time together and right now being well and safe is so important. Take care look forward to seeing you in the new year x 🎅❤️
I am a home buddy too and Gemma said you always feel the pressure to do something extra but I have realized that I don't care what people think and I will spend like gemma New years eve at home 😁
@@Ardit-kq4bt good for you.. life is too short to care what people think. Merry Christmas
Your NYE plans sound like a dream!
@@gregsgirl23au merry Christmas to you too ⛄️🎄
@@christinaviolet_ probably not a dream to most people lol but for us it's perfect merry Christmas 🎄
Can't believe it's the week of Christmas - completely agree with you the build up is the best bit! My must watch film on Christmas eve is Muppet Christmas Carol. Merry Christmas Gemma have a lovely one x
Gemma, your dad's allotment is just a place that has sentimental value. Always remember he is in you so cherish your memories but don't overthink it and stress. Merry Christmas from New Zealand x
Awe i had missed this one... but your speech...was much needed today in January! Ive been in a funky mood. And i don't like it. But like you said its ok. You are such an inspiration to watch and i love your vlogs. I wish you the best of 2022 theres so many blessing ahead for you two sweet people.
Gemma, your Dad is with you where ever you are. When we love someone so much, it's hard to visit their graves. He understands, and he's always with you xx
I had similar guilt about visiting my gramps at the cemetery. A medium told me that he knew of this and to not feel guilt and rush to visit as he wasn’t there, he was always with one of us. It took the pressure off and also the emotional weight off of visiting the cemetery. Think of it that your dad is with you whenever you need him and visiting his allotment is an added bonus x
Jenna our loved ones who have past are not in anyone place. They are in our hearts , and with us whenever we think of them ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That little motivational talk in the end was really meaningful. Thank you! Wishing you and your loved ones a heartwarming, cosy christmas and a blessed 2022. 🙏🎅🎄✨🎆🥂🥮
Thank you Gemma for all of your videos over the past year - hope you Jamie, Tilly & Teddy have the best Xmas xxx
You are so sweet and have a kind heart ❤. Don't let your thoughts make you feel guilty. Your Dad is not there at his burial place. He is a spirit now. I think we go to feel closer to our missing loved ones. To show our love. You can close your eyes and feel the old memories. Ask God to comfort you and give you peace. Hugs
Thank you for this, after having an awful couple of days with my health this is just what I needed
Starch and iron your napkins before you fold them. At the part when you pressed with your hands on the pleats do another tiny iron so the layers are pressed tight, then they will stay beautifully crisp and delineated on the table. Once they are folded you can pop them in a box or a drawer until Christmas day, they should stay wrinkle free and crisp then you just put the cutlery in on Christmas day.
Your dad will be with everyone he spent time with, hel be protecting you and mum but also knows you have your life to live. Hes very proud and never too far away. 🖤🎄 xx
Loved this video 😍 I'm from Finland, and we always celebrate Christmas mainly on the Christmas Eve. There are a few Christmas shows in the morning, that are traditional. The main show is a live show 'the Santa Claus's hotline' and children can call him and he answers them on TV. Then there's the Snowman, of course. Right after Snowman there's the Declaration of Christmas peace at 12pm. Merry Christmas Gemma, Jamie, Teddy and Tilly ❤️✨
The Grinch is our Christmas Eve film every year without fail!💚
You make Christmas so magical. My dad passed away unexpectedly on (American) Thanksgiving, so this holiday season really hasn't felt right or festive for me. Getting to see your plans and excitement make me feel a bit better during a tough time. Cheers, happy holidays! 🎄
You were totally pregs in this video. 🥳 you guys!
Gemma, you’re going to love doing Christmas when you decide to have kids. It’s sooo much fun! If you love all the planning now, you’ll love to see the excitement on your kids faces. I can’t wait for this day for you.. sigh.. patience! :p Merry Christmas to you, Jamie, and the family. Lots of love from Canada!
Merry Christmas to you all. Enjoy your time off. Hope you find comfort in visiting dads allotment. Don’t beat yaself up about not visiting often I think that happens for a lot of people. Enjoy all your lovely festive cooking. The cookies look amazing, you have a natural flare for being creative. Look forward to seeing you soon. 🎁🎄☃
Will never ever get over the coziness from these videos! Merry Christmas Gemma, Jamie, Tilly, and Teddy! 🎄
Your videos always make me SO happy, and I hope you guys all enjoy your Christmas Eve week! Also, please don’t feel bad about your dad, you’re carrying him around in your heart and he wouldn’t want you to feel guilty. Every year gets easier! Merry Christmas!🎄
Thank you Gemma - nothing better than snuggling up in my Fluffy housecoat, coffee and my two girls - Bridget Jones😼 and Frida😺 and watching your vlogs!
Wishing You, Jamie, Tilly and Teddy a Wonderful, cozy Christmas! 🎄🎁😊❄☕ 🎅☃️🥂🍬🐱🎄🐱🍾🎉
Hope you all have a lovely Christmas and happy new year! Thank you again for another year of cosy and inspiring vibes 💖✨
Don’t be too hard on yourself x I lost my dad this year x he is in your heart and around u wherever u are x only do what u want to do that’s what he probably would want you to do x to be happy xx have a lovely relaxing time x remember great Christmas’s with him that’s wot I’m gunna do 😘 xxxx
Every year since me and my boyfriend got together (over 10 years ago) we have watched The Santa Claus film (with Tim Allen) and this year I cant wait to watch it because our son, who is now 2 years old will be awake and alert enough to watch it with us 🥰🥰🥰
We, sad this is the last video of the year. Wishing you, Jamie and all loved ones a very merry Christmas and a happy new year. 🎄💕
Enjoy your cosy Christmas with Jamie and the Mums! It sounds lovely and your hard work will be much appreciated. Also enjoy your well earned rest and reset. We'll miss you but totally understand. Here's to an amazing 2022! xxx
Aww Gemma, please don't feel guilty about not going to your dad's gravesite often. He's watching over you and your mom. He knows how much you love him and how you're feeling. I'm sure Christmas can be difficult since he hasn't been gone long. He is with you. I hope you have an amazing week up until Christmas. You definitely put me in the Christmas spirit!!!! I just adore your vlogs. Thank you and I wish you a very Merry Christmas!!!! Much love
Merry Christmas beautiful, you go enjoy the next few weeks with your loved ones - you deserve it. 🙏🏼🐱🐱🎄💝 Thank you for that speech at the end of the video, I needed that. For the last 17 month, I’ve been battling surgery’s bc of cell changes and suspected ALCL lymphoma, biopsy’s and complications after. But my head is high and I’ve simply decided that I’m gonna get through this. I do feel stronger than ever, even though everything is so uncertain in more ways than one. - btw, I just got my first law of attraction planner the other day!! I’m so excited 😍 hugs and warm wishes from Denmark. 🇩🇰
Sending all my love 🥰🤍
Get well soon, I’ve started watching joe dispenza he is based on healing ourselves - not in anyway saying to stop treatment! Just it’s important to stay positive 🤍
What you said at the end of the video really touched my heart Gemma, im actually crying right now because it felt like you were talking directly to me, cant hold back the tears now because I've been bottling it up for days. Thank you for making a very unfestive year for me a little bit more festive with your beautiful videos. You are so strong and inspiring. You have such a good soul, thank you for reminding me that I'm not alone in feeling sad and anxious about not creating the perfect Christmas this year. Hopefully next year will be better, for everyone. Merry Christmas. Have an amazing break, you deserve it so much 💜
hello from the states. I completely understand about not going to the cemetary for your dad. I lost my mom 11 years ago and i only go to her graveside maybe twice a year to take her flowers, mainly on mothers day. I dont particularly like going because it makes me sad when i am there. so I completely understand how you feel. I think its best to remember them as they were, all the happy times with them. This time of year is difficult when you are missing loved ones. Hope you and lovely family have a wonderful Christmas.
here i am in august getting in the festive mood already... no guilt
The night they saved christmas is a must
Thank you for all your lovely vlogs throughout this last year, I hope you have an amazing Christmas with your family and a very happy New year, you deserve It!! You are the sweetest person, enjoy this festive time xxx
Happy Christmas to you and all your family. Have an amazing time. Happy new year!
As a nurse I totally understand what you’re saying about the uncertainty, it will pass and we will get there. We can do this 💪 we all love you so much too 😘
We tend to watch Polar Express and Scrooge on Christmas Eve.
Nice cozy clog today 🎄🎅🧑🎄
Hope you have a fab Christmas and thanks for your content this year.
Dear Gemma, I really enjoy your program, I love it that you are so transparent. My heart goes out to you as I see you missing your dad. I lost my parents and holidays are not the same. Just wanted to share with you that as a Christian person we know that our loved ones when they die they go to God’s presence the moment they close their eyes to eternity. So don’t feel bad that his spirit is somewhere else. Cherish the memories you had with him and make new ones with your mom and husband. Love you sweet princess.
Dont stress yourself about visiting the allotment. You’re dad will understand and will be around you wherever you are. X
Best Xmas movie for Xmas Eve I think would be The Polar Express. Such a magical vibe. I watched the BBC’s All Aboard The Sleigh Ride one year. It was so peaceful and chilled.
You have made me want to pop to m&s for a food haul for Xmas now. 😂 The food looks amazing. Loved the cheese board with the figs on too.
Anyway, thanks for all your lovely videos. I hope you and yours have a happy Christmas and a merry New Year. X
Polar express and The Holiday with Kate Winslet,Jude Law, Cameron Dias, Jack Black! Awesome !...
My dad died a few months ago and your videos are one of the few things that relax me during this hard time, so just… thank you 🤍
Sweetheart, your dad is with you he is in your heart ❤️ xxxx
Happy Christmas to you and Jamie, please no that it’s a lovely thing to visit your dads allotment… but dad is with you where ever you are in your heart and memories! Dad wouldn’t want you sad! Take a moment to acknowledge him and have a great Xmas for him cause your happiness is he’s everything xxxx
Watched you for a long time now and just feel like you do not have the same love for youtube as you did in the earlier days
One thing I have noticed Gemma is every time you eat something on your vlogs, you always have the same reaction and I love it🤣 it’s either the eye roll/ close your eyes or the ‘mmmm’ 🤣
My dads funeral is 23rd December 💔 Thank you for talking about your dad and grief. I have found it so helpful Gemma. Your videos have helped me feel festive and comforted at such a tough time xx
😪thoughts and prayers to you
You make my heart so so happy! I would do anything for a video from you!
NO ONE, literally no one makes cosy-er videos than you! ❤been watching your Christmas videos for the second year now and more to come!
This was a perfect day , cosy, relaxed and this is how I want the rest of the build up to Christmas to continue 🤗.
Your Christmas Day plans sound wonderful and a tradition of having a walk and bubble and squeak is a great idea.
Your words at the end were just right, fake Christmas does not sit well with me so Christmas in my own home is perfect with the spirit truly alive.
Merry Christmas everyone stay safe stay well x
Gemma i think it is too soon to put yourself under pressure going to the allotment, it can take years to come to terms with loosing someone close . Eventually as you heal it will become easier . Your dads spirit will be with you where ever you are so please don’t feel its only at the allotment. Its been 8 years since i lost my parents within 8 wks of each other and i still feel like i dont enjoy christmas anymore. You never get over the loss but you do learn how to cope with it better. Sending big hugs xx
Really needed this today🥰Your Kind words really tucked my heart strings. I nearly cried! I fehlt so exhausted and lost lately. I couldn't really Enjoy my favourite time of the year but after watching this I feel so much Better! Thank you Gemma🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your Dad is not at the allotment he’s where ever you go and he’s there when you think of him don’t worry and don’t feel guilty he’s happy when you are have a great Christmas and he’ll be there enjoying it with your family 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕💕🙏🇬🇧🇬🇧
Merry Christmas Gemma, thank you so so much for all your content. It brings me so much joy and inspiration! You are such a wonderful person and I hope you enjoy your favourite time of the year! Love to you all.
Gemma you just steal my heart every time. I switch channels here there but every single time I come back you just warms my heart.. You ,Jamie, Tilly & Teddy are way up there with your loveliness. Happy Christmas to you and the family. All the best for the new year. Always and only in Love and Light. See you in 2022💝🇿🇦
Nothing better a Sunday watching a cosy vlog you can completely relate to. Going to really miss your vlogs leading up to Christmas. Please do little clips of your Christmas party and what u got up to!❤️ Happy Holidays✨
Gemma. Your Dad is In your heart, not in his grave. I use to feel that way about my Dad’s grave , but realize that isn’t feasible . Merry Christmas to you and yours
Merry Christmas Gemma,Jamie,tilly and teddy. I'm gonna miss you so much but understand everybody needs time to relax and enjoy family. I just wanted to let you know your fathers spirit is with you always, I miss my Granddaughter but I talk to her all the time and it makes me feel happy. I truly enjoy watching you, you make me happy. You rest and see you soon. Love you ❤❤🌲🎅
If you like mukbangs, I love watching Steph Pappas she does a variety of videos but I love her mukbang videos ☺️
Merry Christmas Gemma, I will miss seeing you, but you deserve to have a break. Love ur little family with Jamie, tilly and teddy. You are the sweetest person and you make me laugh. Enjoy your holidays 🎄❤️
My job today is to go through the freezer and reorganise before the Christmas shop! Have a great Christmas Gemma and Jamie. HAPPY NEW YEAR XXxxXX
why am i trying to keep my tears in by the end of this video 🥺 feels so bittersweet saying goodbye for now until January, it feels like forever away although it’s just a few weeks! i can’t wait until you’re back with a bang gem gem & look forward to hearing from you over on insta. merry christmas & a happy new year to you, jamie, the cats & the whole family. you are of the very few people who make me feel all comfortable and soft inside at this time of year, as although it’s my favourite i am starting to feel very heavy about it all too. see you very soon i love you so much xxx
Gemma you don’t need to feel guilty not going to the allotment, your Dad is with you all the time no matter where you are. No need to be so hard on yourself.
I haven't been feeling very festive the last few days but cozy Gemma to the rescue as always.. Gemma I understand you feeling like that about your Dad but I can promise you it's not like that, for them it isn't about the place they go where the love Is , so I'm pretty sure he visits you at home alot bcoz he knows how much you love him ❤️❤️
Wishing you and Jamie a wonderful first Christmas in your new home. Thank you for all the fabulous videos you have shared with us all in 2021.👍🎄☃️🥰
I pray you have a great Christmas Gemma & a wholesome new year- take a well deserved break 🙏🏽 🎄☃️❄️🎆
Absolutely loved this!! Thank you for what you said at the end, it can be so easy to think that everyone online has perfect filtered lives and it's refreshing to be reminded that we only see a little snippet of your day! Merry Christmas xxxxxx
I think the clips are for when you open a bag of treats you can find the top over and clip it to keep it fresh
Please don’t feel guilty about not visiting your dad. Grief is weird. It’s also different for everyone and it’s okay. I like to believe that his spirit is with you and watching over you (like a guardian angel).
Merry Christmas Gemma and Jamie, enjoy your special time with your family. Relax and rejuvenate. Love your vids and look forward to seeing the first one in the new year! 😘
Your snowflake decorations on the gingerbreads were actually so good ! Also your food shopping haul looked delicious !!
Have a lovely and well deserved holiday Gemma! Merry Christmas and thank you for being the very best UA-camr. Your uploads never fail to make me happy
Gemma biscuits are amazing... Don't be so worried about visiting your Dad's grave as this is so difficult and anyway I'm sure he would be so happy with the attention you give to your Mam. Take care of the living, he is in forever in your heart and always on your mind. Thats what matters. Have a lovely chilled Christmas.🎄
Your videos are very uplifting. Always looking out for your updates. You helped me to look at Christmas more positively and with more enthusiasm this year
Christmas is not christmas without Home alone, elf, and Frosty The Snowman. 😘🤩😍
Really loved this vid! Especially the chat at the end💖💖 Thank you for always being so real and relatable x
Enjoy your time off Gemma and Merry Christmas to you and Jamie, hope yous have the best Christmas and New Year! 🥰 I also loved your speech at the end of the vlog, thank you for that. This time of year is difficult for lots of people, sending love and hugs to anyone who is going through a tough time right now, remember you're not alone ❤️❤️
I'm in the USA , its wonderful seeing what the specialties are for You in your homeland.
Gemma , you need to remember that u’re his doughter and everywhere u are , your dad is with you !!!❤️
Thank you Gemma for all your lovely vlogs over the year have enjoyed, the shopping, moving house, recipes,cosy days at home and more. Glad I’m not the only one who is in bed by 11pm on NYE. New Year is the New Day when I wake. Have a Happy, Healthy Christmas, enjoy your time off. Look forward to seeing you in 2022.🎄❤️😎
Dearest Gemma. You are such a sweetheart 😘. What you shared about your Dad. I understand your feelings ....but you don't have to go to the place your Dad is. He is just a thought away from you always n he lives forever in your heart n thru you.
You did a great job decorating the cookies!
Your table looks lovely ...very nice n festive
I think the wall where your tree is in dining room needs more decoration on that wall . Perhaps a pretty
Print or large wreath. Just a thought.
The food you are planning sounds great!!!
I think the time you plan off to do what you like or regenerate is well deserved. Take that time n enjoy it. You given us much enjoyment thru the year. I really love your videos. You enjoy the simple n truly important things in life which is wonderful! Your love for life is so touching. You have a Merry Christmas n a Happy n healthy New Year. My wishes for Jamie had well. Thank you ..love you😘💞🙏🏻
Thank you for a lovely message at the end of the vlog. Wishing you and Jamie a lovely Christmas and a happy New year 🎉
watching this on the hottest day of the year, 39 degrees, cause you make me cozyyyyyyy
8 years since losing my Dad, I can't go to the crematorium. It's too painful for me. It's interesting to hear your perspective as I don't really know anyone who has lost a parent so young. I completely get you.
Gemma, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 with your family and the very happiest of New Years you truly deserve it. Take care see you in 2022 xxxxxx ps as for your dad and the allotment, he would understand I’m sure, he sounds like he was a wonderful gentleman and let’s face it with your mum, they raised a magnificent daughter. Much love 💕 xxxx
Amen to that.💞⚘
Merry Christmas, make 2022 the best year of your life!🎅☃🎄