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  • @jboucard34
    @jboucard34 4 місяці тому +7065

    The question "were you a fast girl" was so insensitive. Kids don't become fast. It's usually sexual abuse that makes them want to try more sexual things.

    • @jaysays2642
      @jaysays2642 4 місяці тому +564

      He’s so frustrating!!!! His implicit bias shows every time

    • @itsmarie1818
      @itsmarie1818 4 місяці тому +40

      @@jaysays2642right

    • @duncanblade
      @duncanblade 4 місяці тому +402

      He’s not here to be sympathetic or cruel. He’s asking hard questions and being objective. If you want the teary stuff - go watch Oprah.

    • @musicplug4720
      @musicplug4720 4 місяці тому +44

      Cap. Some feelings just bops , never been touched or none …. Just want bop all around from their role model figures such as moms, aunt, sisters, cousins whatever

    • @musicplug4720
      @musicplug4720 4 місяці тому +38

      Y’all stay justifying female actions bro …. Like this shit not ok at all

  • @deyoniah3743
    @deyoniah3743 4 місяці тому +9349

    Baby you weren’t fast, you just weren’t protected. 😢

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 4 місяці тому +184

      She was fast, the mother didn't help. I think the father would have led her to a different life.

    • @user-sp8bg1wc1v
      @user-sp8bg1wc1v 4 місяці тому +31

      You cant trust anyone true statement. I believe Mark is a loyal man I would trust him 100%

    • @Ashbash2121
      @Ashbash2121 4 місяці тому

      @@r.9874this comment is why lil black girls go through so much her father had her put a shirt on that said I’m a hoe you don’t treat your baby girls that way

    • @Starlee123
      @Starlee123 4 місяці тому +267

      @@r.9874 Her dad literaly abused her.

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 4 місяці тому +53

      @@Starlee123 the mother did too .

  • @stephaniehowell1109
    @stephaniehowell1109 Місяць тому +148

    That male family member who raped her at age 12, I hope he's brought to Justice one day. 😢😢😢

    • @raheelaibraheem9480
      @raheelaibraheem9480 Місяць тому +1

      Hopefully

    • @traceywatson6228
      @traceywatson6228 Місяць тому

      “Girl child ain’t safe in a family of men.”

    • @user-cc7nu1ni4k
      @user-cc7nu1ni4k 24 дні тому

      Sadly nothing will come of it. It's not like everyone in the family doesn't know. We sweep stuff under the rug. It's going to take real Men and Fathers to stop this. We need to teach our Sons that this behavior is unacceptable. We also need to control access to our children by anyone and stop being Soo comfortable. I had a great uncle cousin that ran through all his nieces when I was very young. No one did anything he ruined their lives. If her father knew dude should have come up missing. The fact that Mom was aware and did nothing is ridiculous.

  • @judithl2883
    @judithl2883 Місяць тому +300

    Asking 'are you fast?' Is so terrible. Have some respect.

    • @eateroftheworlds
      @eateroftheworlds Місяць тому +9

      Go make your own interviews.

    • @vibin7278
      @vibin7278 Місяць тому +1

      What does fast mean

    • @Officiallylou
      @Officiallylou Місяць тому +1

      @@vibin7278 sex drugs drinking young moving too fast

    • @Davirs-iz9zu
      @Davirs-iz9zu Місяць тому +1

      How is that disrespectful? Genuine question ​@@Officiallylou

    • @jackiej2551
      @jackiej2551 Місяць тому

      Debatable because times change unfortunately and a question has always been just that, a question. As you can see she had sexual abuse which is probably what led to diff things…..thus she did not have to answer if she felt it was disrespectful and let the person know how they feel but at the end of the day a person can ask what they want these days. Ppl be real nosy fr fr …….

  • @keirasmith5706
    @keirasmith5706 4 місяці тому +5614

    So sad how she says rape is normal sad😢. It’s not normal. Bianca, you deserve better.

    • @johng1634
      @johng1634 4 місяці тому

      It's normal for blacks.

    • @Psychedelic430
      @Psychedelic430 4 місяці тому +1

      Where them feminist chicks are? Imagine what would happen in the comments if her father was involved in the rapes instead of her mother.

    • @editingkinga
      @editingkinga 4 місяці тому +25

      NORMAL is debatable.

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +162

      Maybe she meant it’s not uncommon.

    • @addybaby7510
      @addybaby7510 4 місяці тому +28

      It is sadly

  • @clayshamz
    @clayshamz 4 місяці тому +2467

    The fact that she's smiling throughout this interview is so heartbreaking . She's suffered so much and she's only 19 .

    • @MA-yv8dw
      @MA-yv8dw 4 місяці тому +31

      her way of coping with life!

    • @mylessteward688
      @mylessteward688 3 місяці тому +31

      Gotta laugh to keep from crying

    • @TheNewCryptoGuy-mu1du
      @TheNewCryptoGuy-mu1du 3 місяці тому +13

      When you've got every reason to cry, you don't😊

    • @18TVofficial
      @18TVofficial 3 місяці тому +1

      Woow

    • @KingTaco007
      @KingTaco007 3 місяці тому

      She’s lower than a dog no love for her

  • @ellqons7495
    @ellqons7495 3 місяці тому +628

    These perverts need to be held accountable for violating these kids 😠

    • @hornkneekneegrow7942
      @hornkneekneegrow7942 2 місяці тому +3

      Lol never

    • @relaxingmusic1476
      @relaxingmusic1476 Місяць тому +1

      Fr man Drake needs to stop

    • @mstartv7752
      @mstartv7752 Місяць тому +3

      @@hornkneekneegrow7942you’re sick

    • @hornkneekneegrow7942
      @hornkneekneegrow7942 Місяць тому +2

      @mstartv7752 I'm sick?! How? Lmao how basically saying these perverts will never be held accountable? They won't and to add fuel to your fire lol legislation will be passed to create a VERY thin line on what consent is 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @projectacuhope
      @projectacuhope Місяць тому +3

      They rarely are. Also, a lot of the power players at the top are into kids. More life force. More vitality. A rejuvenation at the expense of the child.

  • @2L8BYE
    @2L8BYE Місяць тому +370

    it amazes me how Mark interviews so many people, yet is still so simple and closed-minded.

    • @tenkoh6245
      @tenkoh6245 Місяць тому +47

      yeah. very shallow and even disrespectful questions.

    • @laddenigerra2
      @laddenigerra2 Місяць тому +9

      THANK YOU

    • @laddenigerra2
      @laddenigerra2 Місяць тому

      he’s a disgusting human being

    • @roxyg7023
      @roxyg7023 26 днів тому +8

      Cause he's a damn Jerk

    • @MM-cn2tg
      @MM-cn2tg 23 дні тому +1

      LITERALLY

  • @BurnedBeauty2018
    @BurnedBeauty2018 3 місяці тому +1473

    No, she was not a fast girl. She was a little girl without guidance or protection.

    • @paracozms
      @paracozms 2 місяці тому +2

      I love your TikTok’s!!

    • @Anni3sgotagun
      @Anni3sgotagun 2 місяці тому +8

      Her dad had other kids and out of all of them she’s the only one that ended up like this but he’s the problem?
      Something don’t add up

    • @marlenemuse7455
      @marlenemuse7455 Місяць тому +9

      Such a pretty girl.. off to a rough start.. unprotected.. so sad.. hope she gets I together 😊

    • @atangmpshe416
      @atangmpshe416 Місяць тому +3

      She was a fast girl stop lying

    • @MarieRenteria-qb7xx
      @MarieRenteria-qb7xx Місяць тому

      😢

  • @Madreministry
    @Madreministry 4 місяці тому +2306

    Her mom knew her cousin was “s3xual with children” and still allowed her to be around him?! Then he felt comfortable enough to assault her with her sister asleep right next to them? This is so sad 😣 Bianca I’m sorry no one protected you. You were not “fast” you were a child who was not protected 💔

    • @aspire2begreat938
      @aspire2begreat938 4 місяці тому +58

      That's allll I could think about she was trying to pinpoint why none of her siblings have been down the same road and it's because of that assault 😢

    • @justclicking4366
      @justclicking4366 4 місяці тому +20

      I’m trying to figure out who is this male cousin. Because I can’t think of anyone. I’m highly upset and bothered by this interview. She doesn’t have that many male cousins. Must have been a play cousin her mom told her was her real cousin

    • @yepisaidit1507
      @yepisaidit1507 4 місяці тому +24

      Evil ! Terrible...her mother is Evil too..

    • @BakareLawrence
      @BakareLawrence 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@yepisaidit1507 Evil raises evil. Simple.

    • @mezuobi6391
      @mezuobi6391 4 місяці тому +7

      Abuse is wrong but we need to be responsible for our actions. Not everyone that is abused is on the street prostituting

  • @fortunatebeing-pcos
    @fortunatebeing-pcos 23 дні тому +41

    This interview was AWFUlL. This girl needed the respect of time and listening. The interruptions and the tone, good grief. I just want to give her abig hug. I hope she is okay.

  • @dymondbabyyy2625
    @dymondbabyyy2625 2 місяці тому +292

    As a classmate who went to the same continuation school as her, she was always well reserved. She only hung out with this girl named Maya. We'd talk to each other everyday and everything was always fine. But i noticed whenever id compliment her as a person or how pretty she is, she'd get shy or act like she wouldnt know what to do with herself. She also used to confide in me about the things her mom brought her through and how they had a very SOUR relationship. I used to hug her and tell her everything would be okay. I genuinely wish she gets herself together 🥺. Shes always been beautiful and ive always known some of her story but to get the full version through this video is so heart wrenching. I pray on healing and peace for you B❤️. Love, the girl who was ALWAYS nice to you in school 🥺

  • @mbudumamasoka5086
    @mbudumamasoka5086 4 місяці тому +2576

    I've learnt not to judge prostitutes, most of them have gone through a lot.

    • @markgm222
      @markgm222 3 місяці тому +56

      Me either.. I just pay them for their services and say thank you and be on my way👍

    • @vuksgitau
      @vuksgitau 3 місяці тому +18

      It's true TD Jakes said don't judge a woman until you know what's in her alabaster box.

    • @nosiphomanzi6149
      @nosiphomanzi6149 3 місяці тому +28

      @@markgm222 🤣

    • @ThaGreatOwire
      @ThaGreatOwire 3 місяці тому +9

      A lot has gone through them...

    • @jadensmith798
      @jadensmith798 3 місяці тому

      Yeah, a lot of DICK

  • @LoneWulf278
    @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +2462

    “The *help that I didn’t get* is what changed me”. This spoke to me on such a strong level. ❤

    • @sharronlove222
      @sharronlove222 4 місяці тому +34

      How dare you ask her if SHE was fast. She was a child

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +7

      @@sharronlove222 Did someone say that? Their comment must’ve been deleted.

    • @nwinsto602
      @nwinsto602 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@@LoneWulf278Mark did, but I don't think he was trying to shit on her like that he was just asking for context of her childhood

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +8

      @@nwinsto602 I see. He was probably just trying to make an appeal to her story narrative. Sometimes, the girls think they were fast or promiscuous. So if you appeal to what they already think, then you could get them to reveal more information without them feeling embarrassed. It’s just a social technique. I don’t think he’d sincerely believe a kid is fast.

    • @bkgang8909
      @bkgang8909 4 місяці тому +4

      Maaaaaan I can relate so much to that 🥺

  • @ItsAlicea
    @ItsAlicea 3 місяці тому +483

    No condolences when she mentioned her grandmother died who was also her best friend??? It’s the behavior of the so called interviewer for me. I wished she had walked tf out he didn’t deserve to hear her story…

    • @leanita2010
      @leanita2010 2 місяці тому +52

      That was my aunt who we lost last october. Who dropped dead in the livingroom right in front of Bianca randomly. And lay on the floor for hours until coroners came, as Bianca sat beside her body & held her hand the whole time. So yes, Bianca, my little cousin has been through a lot and ran away from the family shortly after that.

    • @musha456
      @musha456 2 місяці тому +13

      somebody need to expose her family doesn't matter if the interviewer is shit. She's sharing for us and for herself as well

    • @ilovediscus94
      @ilovediscus94 2 місяці тому +4

      @@leanita2010oh my I’m
      So sorry

    • @sjenaidaandisong5945
      @sjenaidaandisong5945 2 місяці тому +17

      @@leanita2010what about the cousin who raped her did you guys do something about it

    • @kyoril.42
      @kyoril.42 Місяць тому +18

      Right? You can tell that that was a very serious topic for her and he passed over it at first like it was nothing. It was so nice seeing how her face lit up and demeanor changed whenever her grandma was brought up. Seems like she could go on and on about how much she loved her and enjoyed her company. I’m happy she’s experienced such a great relationship that she’ll always hold dear. I hope that whenever she’s going through dark times, she can think of her grandma to help her mind escape to a better place and bring a little light back to her mood.

  • @missbella_sa
    @missbella_sa 3 місяці тому +136

    I’ve never wanted to give someone a hug so badly. I hope she’s okay

  • @comcastlover
    @comcastlover 4 місяці тому +4450

    She is only 19... I can't believe it. She seems so grown for her age. Her dad giving her a shirt like that is truly disgusting, her parents really just failed her. I'm so sorry. She is beautiful, well-spoke, and intelligent... I truly pray and hope she gets out of this situation as soon as possible :(

    • @baublesanddolls
      @baublesanddolls 4 місяці тому

      There is absolutely no way in hell that she is 19 years old. She says that because tricks like young girls. What 19-year-old female has boobs like that??? Come on does she think we’re stupid!

    • @user-ek5nl1jc4b
      @user-ek5nl1jc4b 4 місяці тому

      Yeah she definitely would be worth a 100 bucks for a good time

    • @Sheloveski
      @Sheloveski 4 місяці тому +81

      better believe it. that’s how they come… look so “sweet” but f’n for a bag 🤷🏽‍♂️ you could give her a way out n she still wouldn’t take it

    • @seltzermint5
      @seltzermint5 4 місяці тому +61

      I agree, I rarely comment on these videos but I am amazed at how mature Bianca seems for 19. She is a lot smarter than so many people twice her age.

    • @eboneeprice9908
      @eboneeprice9908 4 місяці тому +26

      Ok so with her I believe if people know better they do better… at her core she knows better! She is way too smart and gorgeous for this lifestyle…I truly hope she gets the chance to change… god is good!

  • @Jason_Voorhees.
    @Jason_Voorhees. 4 місяці тому +2458

    She is 19?!!! Damn dude... she speaks like a 35 year old... these stories are heartbreaking

    • @adebankeadetunji2802
      @adebankeadetunji2802 4 місяці тому +42

      That's what happens when you subject your body to such, people will use you , God will help her.

    • @funkunko
      @funkunko 4 місяці тому +50

      @@adebankeadetunji2802she did not subject herself to such. it is not her fault for the evils of other people. she’s a teenager

    • @user-dq6fp6tu2l
      @user-dq6fp6tu2l 4 місяці тому +5

      and looks 40yo

    • @imnotlelo
      @imnotlelo 4 місяці тому

      @@user-dq6fp6tu2lbe fr, she does not

    • @Nataviaa
      @Nataviaa 3 місяці тому +10

      @@funkunkoTeenager? What Era Were You Born In. 19 Isnt A Teenager 😂😂 She’s An Adult.

  • @calioli9124
    @calioli9124 15 днів тому +9

    Who tf taught him the word fast 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ he has totally latched onto that

  • @angelicaamara62
    @angelicaamara62 3 місяці тому +70

    She's so beautiful, and its crazy how we're the same age and she's gone through a lot at such a young age. I hope life gets better for you Bianca.

  • @autumnjanee
    @autumnjanee 4 місяці тому +2248

    I hate the term “fast” being assigned to young black girls. It’s disgusting. 😢

    • @musicplug4720
      @musicplug4720 4 місяці тому +62

      Cause that’s what it is … moving through life too “fast” … pretty simple

    • @j0rdi3._
      @j0rdi3._ 4 місяці тому +98

      @@musicplug4720weird

    • @XactlyCeSe1
      @XactlyCeSe1 4 місяці тому +196

      Yes! I’ve noticed that there seems to be an inherent dislike for young black girls- an inability to sympathize with them.

    • @thebbiddim882
      @thebbiddim882 4 місяці тому

      She's fast. Fucked a dude as soon as she met him at 17, and then when asked if she wanted to be his hoe, she said yes. When Mark asked why she said the dick was good. This is a 17 year old girl with this mindset.
      Her momma was fast as well. Her dad tried to be a disciplinarian, but when she went to her mom's place it was a party. She was partying, dancing, drinking , going to the beach at 2am at 12 years old, etc. There was no structure. That's what the mom showed her daughters growing up. Like mother like daughter.
      Stop trying to make it a race thing. She is/was fast as hell. That's why she chose this fast life.

    • @alyssakarpenko4470
      @alyssakarpenko4470 4 місяці тому +26

      THANK YOU… this comment right here 🩷… like fr

  • @vblake530530
    @vblake530530 4 місяці тому +1962

    Her light is still strong. Pray she finds another way that’s safe and nurturing of her clear potential.

    • @MM-cn2tg
      @MM-cn2tg 23 дні тому +1

      Exactly

    • @asiachris6271
      @asiachris6271 22 дні тому

      Amen! In Jesus Name Amen cover her and the others young people

  • @Riri14216
    @Riri14216 Місяць тому +50

    You were just so quick and easy to call her fast. Almost felt like you had it out for her. It’s the picking and choosing in your vids that gets to me.

  • @poquitodefe
    @poquitodefe 3 місяці тому +71

    She is the same age as my oldest son . This is heartbreaking. When I was 19 I had my first child and learned quickly that this world is a cruel place

    • @dreamy_daze4
      @dreamy_daze4 Місяць тому +6

      Right. It's not a safe place for young black girls.

  • @helendjukic3670
    @helendjukic3670 4 місяці тому +2122

    Mark, STOP interrupting her. Youre super amped with this sweet girl. Slow down and let her finish her own sentences.

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 4 місяці тому +164

      He's getting like Vlad 😅

    • @cookiechanelll
      @cookiechanelll 4 місяці тому +172

      yeah this my first time ever watching one of his videos & that shit was driving me crazy this entire video 😭😭 .

    • @titusnyaaba2233
      @titusnyaaba2233 4 місяці тому +2

      Hello

    • @keepgod1stloveyourself367
      @keepgod1stloveyourself367 4 місяці тому +6

      @@mikeprice8307I said the same thing exactly

    • @lexc9879
      @lexc9879 4 місяці тому

      How bird brained can yall be. It is not an interruption😂it's called an interview simple minded fucks. And if u don't like it or dont think Mark has good intentions then don't watch! Cap it, simple

  • @aliciablanchard2500
    @aliciablanchard2500 4 місяці тому +1329

    Hunny you were not “Fast” you were introduced to grown like behavior as a kid and a predator did wrong by you, which then changed your future. Don’t ever accept any negative feeling about yourself because of those experiences that you should have been protected from.

    • @jaidyahbrewer8301
      @jaidyahbrewer8301 4 місяці тому +104

      thank you. that comment pissed me clean off. the hyper sexualization of young black girls is ridiculous. and if he continues to do profiles on these black women (and monetizing their trauma) he needs to fix his language and his approach.

    • @MOTIV8GUMMI
      @MOTIV8GUMMI 4 місяці тому +12

      @@jaidyahbrewer8301nah mark does a great job pipe down

    • @jaidyahbrewer8301
      @jaidyahbrewer8301 4 місяці тому

      @@MOTIV8GUMMIyea emd. you cannot tell me how to react to clear disrespect and hyper-sexualization of children you psycho. he said the wrong thing.

    • @LaurenH-vo8pu
      @LaurenH-vo8pu 4 місяці тому +23

      “Fast” does seem an inappropriate term to use. I like Mark, I feel he is genuine. But that word doesn’t sit right.

    • @chukwudiobeche6935
      @chukwudiobeche6935 4 місяці тому +2

      Hello can we be friends

  • @sylvia222ableable
    @sylvia222ableable 2 місяці тому +97

    4 minutes into the interview and I can just see how much pain n trauma this beautiful girl is hiding. She has so much light n love in her soul but most of it is covered in pain. Its so sad. I wish I could just hug her man.

  • @leahwilliams8941
    @leahwilliams8941 3 місяці тому +79

    She kept saying “when I was young” like she’s not only 19 years old, uggh watching this broke my heart. I hope she knows she’s still young and can still turn it around it’s not too late. Wishing her nothing but the best!!

  • @faitdebeauxreve
    @faitdebeauxreve 4 місяці тому +810

    What is she describing when she was at school isn’t ADHD, it’s CPTSD. She was (probably still is) stuck in fight or flight. You can’t sit and learn when your body thinks it’s about to be attacked.

    • @honeybee591
      @honeybee591 4 місяці тому +40

      i was thinking the same!
      not that she couldn’t have adhd too but the other issue was blocking her from even finding out fr was my thiughts

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +29

      Exactly. It’s not uncommon and it is contributing to a lot of educational issues in schools. It needs to be talked about more. Thank you for bringing this up. 👏🏽

    • @ericamunchbach
      @ericamunchbach 4 місяці тому +25

      Thank you. I was misdiagnosed with add when I was 15, it was DEFINITELY unresolved trauma.

    • @faitdebeauxreve
      @faitdebeauxreve 4 місяці тому +29

      @@ericamunchbach it often is. Trauma can make it impossible to focus because a person who is always on high alert, can’t focus on anything else but survival.

    • @chikiama1891
      @chikiama1891 4 місяці тому +16

      Exactly. The guy doing the interviewing appears to have absolutely no understanding of trauma.

  • @Shimeih
    @Shimeih 4 місяці тому +370

    “I’ve gotten r*ped, but that’s normal, now”
    😭😓😓 My Heart sank with that one man. Also, her being scared of therapy killed me.

    • @bleepbloop9123
      @bleepbloop9123 27 днів тому +2

      Every woman lives in that reality

    • @r0guedoll
      @r0guedoll 27 днів тому

      @@bleepbloop9123I don’t

  • @Kappieburger
    @Kappieburger Місяць тому +29

    I been feeling some type of way about the interviewer for a min…watching his videos and listening to how he question certain people.. this video was definitely added to the list.. and I’m glad to see some ppl in the comments agree

  • @rosegreen8441
    @rosegreen8441 2 місяці тому +25

    The interviewer is acting as if he's never heard of mothers who are jealous of and/or just hate their daughters.

  • @XactlyCeSe1
    @XactlyCeSe1 4 місяці тому +474

    She’s only 19. She has so much time and potential to change her life around. I wish she had the support system that she deserves 😔

  • @clayshamz
    @clayshamz 4 місяці тому +713

    Her saying I still have faith , still have hope is probably the reason why she keeps smiling. I pray she breaks out of this .

    • @user-dq6fp6tu2l
      @user-dq6fp6tu2l 4 місяці тому +5

      why can`t she put on clothes for the interview ???

    • @clayshamz
      @clayshamz 4 місяці тому +1

      @@user-dq6fp6tu2l yeah ! I wonder why ?

    • @user-dq6fp6tu2l
      @user-dq6fp6tu2l 4 місяці тому +1

      @@clayshamz bcz she`s a 304

    • @Nataviaa
      @Nataviaa 3 місяці тому +4

      @@user-dq6fp6tu2lYou’re On The Spectrum. 😂😂 She Was Probably Outside Already Working & He Picked Her Up.

    • @Likerios22244
      @Likerios22244 3 місяці тому

      @@NataviaaSHE STILL A 304??😂

  • @KittyCat-k3tti
    @KittyCat-k3tti Місяць тому +15

    She admitted she regrets getting into this lifestyle. You're still so young, Bianca. You can go to school and have a career!

  • @juliamiguet6301
    @juliamiguet6301 2 місяці тому +16

    You are not even gonna put her artist name in the description ?
    Some of your questions were very unsensitive also

    • @catherine.rome.
      @catherine.rome. Місяць тому +1

      Exactly, He isn't even trying to help them

  • @terrelldouglas1352
    @terrelldouglas1352 4 місяці тому +410

    As a Dad with daughters, I hope she turns it all around. She's very bright. It's heartbreaking.

    • @everythingwithwakio
      @everythingwithwakio 4 місяці тому +14

      I realised she is super smart with guidance she will be great more peaceful and successful

  • @PatbroBro-sn8yo
    @PatbroBro-sn8yo 4 місяці тому +308

    Rape is NEVER a normal thing. Building a toughness for rape is not good at all. I hope she gets the proper support because she's a very intelligent young lady that can gain the life she doesn't believe she deserves.

    • @kyoril.42
      @kyoril.42 Місяць тому +1

      That part literally broke me. I felt so much anger in the fact that she has gotten so accustomed to that. Like it’s not okay and It’s not normal. And the fact that they don’t receive consequences for what they do to her infuriates me. I hope she’s able to get out of this lifestyle really soon because she deserves so much better. NO ONE deserves this lifestyle.

  • @teej4743
    @teej4743 3 місяці тому +26

    Her mother was jealous of her because she grew into a beautiful young lady and she should of been proud and protecting her but instead she started hating on her own flesh and blood just despicable; and her father should of been protecting her instead of labeling her and treating her like discarded refuse; and you the interviewer aren’t treating these beautiful young ladies no better just because they’re living unsafe and terrible lives in the horrible profession they are in doesn’t mean you too should be as heartless so may you please stop saying “fast”, and ask why do you think you became “promiscuous” at an early age instead. And maybe you could fake a little empathy for these poor people because it’s not showing as much when you interview them! But I will say that we appreciate your efforts in awareness of how much of these people get into this unsafe, unclean profession! I will pray for them all

  • @edzaimagwenzi2704
    @edzaimagwenzi2704 Місяць тому +9

    I thought that "why are you gay" interviewer was terrible but this dude takes the cup. This is not how to have a conversation, let alone an interview. 🤦‍♂

    • @r0guedoll
      @r0guedoll 27 днів тому +3

      the “why are you gay” interviewer was epic, what r u talking about

  • @eljj7968
    @eljj7968 4 місяці тому +717

    I like this girl. A lot of these younger girls just talk a lot of nonsense, but Bianca is clearly smart and speaks so well. Just an overall likeable vibe. All the best to you Bianca, I hope you can get out of this life and make something of your music career!

    • @josephilfrard2293
      @josephilfrard2293 4 місяці тому +3

      music career you pastor

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 4 місяці тому +2

      Me too 😊

    • @Hollyhill917
      @Hollyhill917 4 місяці тому +2

      It’s the Cali accent …. They all talk like that. With good diction but empty heads. 🤷‍♀️

    • @HoodieDave
      @HoodieDave 4 місяці тому +1

      What she went through turned her into a sociopath or a psychopath she lacks normal emotions that we as human beings experience, that's why she lacks shame.

    • @larrylarry8854
      @larrylarry8854 Місяць тому

      Hopefully she gets the counseling she needs while she is young. She can turn her life around, she is more than a pretty face. Very articulate & aware she needs help.

  • @obinnaanthonyezike
    @obinnaanthonyezike 4 місяці тому +681

    Abortion at the age of 18
    Suicidal
    Prostitute at the age of 17
    Does drugs
    Bro her family has failed her 😢
    I just pray she gets out of this, damn this was very hurtful to watch 😢😢

  • @Mherch
    @Mherch 2 місяці тому +18

    Do you tell them to wear what they would wear if they were working or do they just come like that? Or do you just see them working and ask them for an interview right then and there?

  • @Vettvett00
    @Vettvett00 Місяць тому +11

    Her knees 😢 19 and all this trauma

  • @Ineedthetlousellie
    @Ineedthetlousellie 3 місяці тому +1271

    The lack of empathy from the interviewer is absolutely disgusting, she deserves better.

    • @bella_bella85
      @bella_bella85 3 місяці тому +109

      Exactly! I just commented on that below somewhere. She barely finishes wtf she has to say and questions and slick comments are off. I'm struggling to get through the damn video. Lack of empathy is 🎯

    • @bribear8558
      @bribear8558 3 місяці тому +63

      I was looking for a comment along these lines. The interviewer not fully allowing this young lady to finish her thoughts/responses before interjecting with another comment/question especially insensitive ones really frustrated me!!! Praying she can make her way out of this situation🙏🏾😔

    • @beemo6221
      @beemo6221 3 місяці тому +56

      He always does this shit... So insensitive... Just let the person speak ffs

    • @handleless2x
      @handleless2x 3 місяці тому +68

      He’s interviewed thousands of people with thousands of horrific stories. Second hand trauma is real and it can be desensitizing. He is also a human. The suffering of others can have profound effects on others.

    • @icedfullmoon1573
      @icedfullmoon1573 3 місяці тому +19

      ​@@handleless2x Then find something else to do & leave this to ppl who still have feelings & empathy for others in this situation.

  • @jayhood9123
    @jayhood9123 4 місяці тому +256

    Rape and normal never belong in the same sentence, this gave me big and heavy feels. Sending hope!

  • @icedfullmoon1573
    @icedfullmoon1573 3 місяці тому +18

    What exactly are you doing to HELP any of these ladies? All I can see is these ladies HELPING YOU rack up on YT.
    Are you helping them AT ALL?

  • @tacijo5938
    @tacijo5938 22 дні тому +3

    This interviewer has zero empathy but she is accustomed to it so it went over her head. It was cringy to see the slow breakdown from head to toe. It was mockery with the possible intent to tie the story.
    The final shocker: “Thank you for your story”, “be safe out there!”😮
    This man is pimping her on UA-cam for money and does not close his channel with resources of donations??????

    • @Col96
      @Col96 20 днів тому

      So refreshing to see someone say this

  • @jonathank1782
    @jonathank1782 4 місяці тому +1454

    Mark, since you seem to interview a lot of people who have been sexually and physically abused, maybe you should consider taking some training to better understand the considerations as you ask these questions and respond to their answers. I know you intend to do good work, but you often mishandle both the questions and responses. I understand you interview 1000s and that is remarkable, but the possibility that you have become desensitized to this subject matter is interfering with your delivery. These people have not been interviewed by 1000s and they can feel violated and caught off guard by the direct line of questioning. You paying them does not absolve you of having a more sensitive approach. For example, you could start by asking them whether they are okay with you asking these specific lines of questions. This will allow/enable the victims to feel more in control of this information. Thank you for considering this and best wishes to you.

    • @sugarbear88
      @sugarbear88 4 місяці тому +120

      Please Mark ik you probably don’t read these but if someone on your team does it’s of great importance to the interviewees ^^

    • @karenl5971
      @karenl5971 4 місяці тому +53

      God yes…

    • @LaurenH-vo8pu
      @LaurenH-vo8pu 4 місяці тому +102

      We have no idea what was discussed before the camera rolls.

    • @purlentae1820
      @purlentae1820 4 місяці тому +25

      i agree with this

    • @navimarlow
      @navimarlow 4 місяці тому +65

      Thank you for this!! I felt the same way… his responses come across in a condescending manner. It makes me cringe

  • @d.alphawoolen6195
    @d.alphawoolen6195 4 місяці тому +1345

    This message is for the host: I encourage you to stop using the label “fast.” It is demeaning and is inaccurate. This beautiful young woman responded to her environment, which is totally human. Going forward, find another word that speaks to where the person was in their development based upon environmental factors.

    • @navimarlow
      @navimarlow 4 місяці тому +150

      Thank you for this. Him saying fast is very offensive. He clearly learned that saying from blk ppl.

    • @StantonOfficial
      @StantonOfficial 4 місяці тому

      Stfu, how is that demeaning? Marks clearly not intending to demeaning and she doesn’t it take it that why so why are you Karen

    • @813entertainment9
      @813entertainment9 4 місяці тому

      What terms would you prefer him say, "we're you a $lu+?"...

    • @magicalindigoadult3838
      @magicalindigoadult3838 4 місяці тому +18

      @@navimarlowwell he’s talking the language not saying it to her

    • @richarde.4826
      @richarde.4826 4 місяці тому +39

      She was the one who started suggesting she was "fast". The 1st amendement permits them to express themselves as they wish.

  • @bgg7518
    @bgg7518 3 місяці тому +19

    This interview broke my heart into pieces😢😢

  • @rejected0nina
    @rejected0nina 2 місяці тому +7

    Being robbed at gun point is not a joke. That hurts. Happened to me too. Lord thats messed up.

  • @XactlyCeSe1
    @XactlyCeSe1 4 місяці тому +1247

    “Were you a fast girl?” is such a gross question. Literally left a bad taste in my mouth hearing that from a grown man 🥴

    • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
      @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  4 місяці тому +242

      So now I can’t use slang? You’d prefer if I asked her “Were you sexually active as a young girl?” Clearly there’s a cause for her behavior and we covered some of that, but you’re not going to help the situation by getting upset at my terminology instead of what happened to her as a child. Let’s work on the cause of these problems, not my terminology.

    • @wakylaugh
      @wakylaugh 4 місяці тому +595

      @@SoftWhiteUnderbellyyou’re defensive over correction. Such a bad look. It’s not just slang, words have meaning. Esp for young black girls.

    • @stanleyb2320
      @stanleyb2320 4 місяці тому +435

      @@SoftWhiteUnderbelly words have meaning and yes “Were you sexually active as a young girl?” would be more empathetic to her trauma. Using "fast" actually disregards the cause of her trauma as if she wasn't exposed to a horrible environment as a kid. She was a baby, a kid. She was failed.

    • @DesTheAmazon
      @DesTheAmazon 4 місяці тому +135

      Agreed. Turned me off, I exited the video.

    • @zerzurianoasisproductions
      @zerzurianoasisproductions 4 місяці тому +63

      Yall insensible. She uses the slang herself in the video, multiple times... be mad at her parents, not the guy helping her tell her story.

  • @juliemackenzie1978
    @juliemackenzie1978 4 місяці тому +783

    I can't imagine a Dad buying his daughter a shirt that says "I'm a ho"... that is absolutely sickening. 🤢😡Terrible! Some people should never be parents. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄😕 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 I wish her all the best.

    • @lynnforti8808
      @lynnforti8808 4 місяці тому

      She probably was being a “hi” she met her high school sweetheart on instagram at 17 . His dick was so big she wanted to go for him .
      He father might have wanted to shame her like when parents realized their child is a bully . Some parents have had their child wear a shirt saying “ I’m a bully “ .
      Never know the real story.

    • @leezahsmiles8673
      @leezahsmiles8673 4 місяці тому

      She actually can rap! ua-cam.com/video/i3heEg8wjFs/v-deo.html

    • @elainew2230
      @elainew2230 4 місяці тому +7

      I wonder if that dad will see her

    • @Psychedelic430
      @Psychedelic430 4 місяці тому +1

      But you can imagine a mother that brings up an uncle to rape her right? Tell me you are a feminist without telling me . Pointing out all the bad things only by men.

    • @sammyb1629
      @sammyb1629 4 місяці тому +3

      Agreed Julie. 😢

  • @beautygirl22592
    @beautygirl22592 3 місяці тому +8

    I had a peer with a very similar story, it all starts with exposure to things that would be in that path then the rationalizing with one self that those things are ok, paired with the belief that it's normal and you're able to handle it. It would take the desire to change and the self-discipline to change for the better. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @tmston2
    @tmston2 3 місяці тому +7

    My heart goes out to this young lady, so many people in her life have failed her and honestly the interviewer is exploiting her as well

  • @TheBuzzati
    @TheBuzzati 4 місяці тому +840

    She has a very nice temperament and seems well put together, and very beautiful. I hope she gets out of this.

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 4 місяці тому +1

      She has very nice everything 😊

    • @simonmakesbeats
      @simonmakesbeats 4 місяці тому +34

      @@mikeprice8307 yea u dont gotta say all that

    • @BradPitt-jx7oh
      @BradPitt-jx7oh 4 місяці тому

      ​@@simonmakesbeats y not?

    • @simonmakesbeats
      @simonmakesbeats 4 місяці тому +8

      @@BradPitt-jx7oh sounds like harassment

    • @user-xd2mh7xx8l
      @user-xd2mh7xx8l 4 місяці тому

      Get out and do what....she is whore .. period...dirty inside out.she belongs very far from good men. ...

  • @mommywitatwist
    @mommywitatwist 3 місяці тому +255

    “Walking between the raindrops”, is a great book title sweetheart 🙏🏾❤️

  • @ulyssiatillis2764
    @ulyssiatillis2764 12 днів тому +2

    the way she lights up talking about her grandma ☺️ so beautiful, praying over this beauty, she deserved way more growing up

  • @LBG.2135
    @LBG.2135 Місяць тому +5

    I don’t how he likes to shame them too when this is obviously something he’s never been through and knows nothing about

  • @AnaFernandez-jp5uh
    @AnaFernandez-jp5uh 4 місяці тому +547

    Bianca, please see a psychologist. I really think you would benefit greatly. You are a smart young woman.

    • @user-xd2mh7xx8l
      @user-xd2mh7xx8l 4 місяці тому

      Please don't lie to her....she is a whore... nothing smart about tha

    • @nimdanilox7783
      @nimdanilox7783 4 місяці тому

      a smart prostitute?

    • @haitigirl411
      @haitigirl411 4 місяці тому +9

      With what money Ana?

    • @Diamondstaxks
      @Diamondstaxks 4 місяці тому +4

      That cost money love

  • @JJones-rz2ir
    @JJones-rz2ir 4 місяці тому +988

    That “high school sweetheart” who is taking her money is despicable. Leave girl! You are getting taken advantage of!

    • @steelearmstrong9616
      @steelearmstrong9616 4 місяці тому +8

      You make her look like she’s a victim

    • @billyjohnson9166
      @billyjohnson9166 4 місяці тому +104

      @@steelearmstrong9616 she is the victim Da

    • @steelearmstrong9616
      @steelearmstrong9616 4 місяці тому +5

      @@billyjohnson9166 Ok whitenight

    • @Skye4008
      @Skye4008 4 місяці тому +53

      @@steelearmstrong9616 I would ask you how she is not a victim but I'm afraid of what you'd answer as it would likely reflect poorly on your upbringing

    • @mcberry24
      @mcberry24 4 місяці тому +6

      If she is allowing it to happen and okay with it. Is she really getting taken advantage of?

  • @MsObsidianReloaded
    @MsObsidianReloaded 3 місяці тому +6

    I’m crying 😭 I wanna hug her and mentor her. I can learn from her too. I am a 40 yr old Black woman who comes from a toxic family of origin. I know what abuse is. I’ve overcome a lot and there are things I am still struggling with, and I declare I will be completely healed. Each one lift one. Iron sharpens iron. ❤

  • @gurumusic808
    @gurumusic808 2 місяці тому +8

    Tried to find her UA-cam channel, but couldn't. Let's support her music. That's probably all we can do. She said her YT is "Bianca T" no match till now.

  • @KendraJoe
    @KendraJoe 4 місяці тому +325

    Please stop asking these women if they were "fast" as a child. That's label that was used for kids who were not properly parented, it wasn't a choice.

    • @mb37206
      @mb37206 3 місяці тому +7

      Being fast isn't a direct correlation of failed parents. I was fast, I started sexual activities before my teens and in my early teens i lost my virginity. Not because of abuse or bad parenting, just like girls and was flirtatious

    • @drphot6050
      @drphot6050 3 місяці тому +2

      @@mb37206 They don't understand spirits and mindsets just religious talk

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@mb37206boys are completely different you can NEVER compare

    • @user-oe6ft1lx5p
      @user-oe6ft1lx5p 3 місяці тому

      Are you the owner of the channel? Do you know how hard it is to make hundreds of videos a month , like mark does what do you expect lets see you what questions would you ask? Your here watching and hating instead of hate watching go take care of your kids.

    • @KendraJoe
      @KendraJoe 3 місяці тому

      ⁠@@user-oe6ft1lx5pI’m not sure who this is directed to but I’m not hating. I love his videos and I’m simply commenting with a kind suggestion. . Why so angry? Every comment isn’t full of hate dear. And thank you for the concern about my non-existent children. One last thing, the correct word is YOU’RE. See, just another helpful suggestion. 😊

  • @shaunael6141
    @shaunael6141 4 місяці тому +646

    A fast girl?! Wtf Mark
    This baby had been through so much and no one was there for here. Wishing you peace, it’s not to late to do something different

    • @kungfupao2756
      @kungfupao2756 4 місяці тому +63

      Mark is horrible… no empathy and derogatory questions

    • @treshawnd.weatherspoon2153
      @treshawnd.weatherspoon2153 4 місяці тому +4

      She said she was being not him though

    • @333erica
      @333erica 4 місяці тому

      @@treshawnd.weatherspoon2153he said it and she agreed. He still shouldn’t have said it whether she called herself it or not. This girl was SA as a child and with a father and family that she has she never had a chance.

    • @user-xd2mh7xx8l
      @user-xd2mh7xx8l 4 місяці тому

      The fact remains that she is a whore...will you allow your son to marry someone like her ?

    • @hollylewis3898
      @hollylewis3898 4 місяці тому +25

      Yeah that was gross. He needs to be more respectful. Just because they think it’s okay doesn’t mean he should talk like that language is okay.

  • @ambiibambiii
    @ambiibambiii 3 місяці тому +5

    I think the reason he is using slang in these situations is to make the people comfortable telling their life stories. In alot of interviews he tends to use the same words as the people are using in that moment, i think it is intentional. Using the same words that they themselves use to explain situations helps alot for giving them comfort and creates a feeling of understanding and being heard, meeting them at their level basicly.

  • @1inalifetime
    @1inalifetime Місяць тому +8

    God bless her please cover, provide and guide this young lady 🙌🏾💙

  • @alexish8183
    @alexish8183 4 місяці тому +322

    These videos get more and more heartbreaking. This is a love starved child. Abused and unprotected all her life.

  • @xoeseattipoe16
    @xoeseattipoe16 3 місяці тому +243

    The interviewer put words into this young girl's mouth. A proper interview is a conversation and the interviewer listens and asks follow-up questions. The journalism demonstrated is not quite right

    • @booboograyson1664
      @booboograyson1664 2 місяці тому +20

      It seems like this man just wants to make money off of these girls! 😭

    • @JasJasPouncy
      @JasJasPouncy Місяць тому +17

      Honestly, most of them don't have the vocabulary. I think he intends to help the conversation move along

    • @kyairehutchins8170
      @kyairehutchins8170 Місяць тому +2

      @@JasJasPouncy Correct

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 28 днів тому +1

      ​@@JasJasPouncythat's insulting...they're absolutely articulate enough to speak for themselves. They're not mentally delayed at all. He's simply extremely desensitized to these situations and doesn't really care anymore. He's ready to move along to the next 'subject'...

  • @kayah.murphy
    @kayah.murphy 3 місяці тому +6

    This is so disheartening😢 I pray somehow we can all be healed🫂🤲🏾❤❤ this is so heartbreaking to listen to🫂

  • @suzannachulu8692
    @suzannachulu8692 Місяць тому +5

    You are so beautiful and pure-hearted 😢I'm so sorry the adults in your life wouldn't do any better. Praying for you ❤

  • @cassandraolivarez
    @cassandraolivarez 4 місяці тому +121

    She’s so young! The fact that she didn’t get the help she desperately needed. Her family failed her.

  • @venomousveede-dangeroffici2254
    @venomousveede-dangeroffici2254 4 місяці тому +255

    When she said "Rape is normal to me", that ish hit me hard!! As a brother and uncle.

    • @RickyBobby213
      @RickyBobby213 2 місяці тому

      Sorry to hear that. I hope you're grown to leave, and have been able to leave that abuse.

  • @catherine.rome.
    @catherine.rome. Місяць тому +3

    The moment she said she loves listening to Lana Del Ray was my last straw, I broke into tears. THIS IS A SWEETHEART that was failed by the world!!

  • @miachigango8925
    @miachigango8925 2 місяці тому +8

    The interview pissed me off so much

    • @MM-cn2tg
      @MM-cn2tg 23 дні тому

      Fr, that interviewer is surprisingly insensitive and that poor girl……

  • @ChloeShaliniArt
    @ChloeShaliniArt 4 місяці тому +78

    Complex post traumatic stress disorder - saying this because I've lived similar. Really hoping Bianca gets some proper support so she can see her worth & heal from that heavy history. Bless you, girl. You Deserve so much more. ❤

  • @LexPips
    @LexPips 4 місяці тому +376

    No bank account = no security.

    • @YuriGoofov
      @YuriGoofov 4 місяці тому

      or.. you know, a husband.

    • @khabobarmagedon6666
      @khabobarmagedon6666 4 місяці тому +13

      No bank account = broke

    • @adeking1214
      @adeking1214 4 місяці тому +12

      U can have an account but if it reads 0.00 still no security

    • @Starlee123
      @Starlee123 4 місяці тому +6

      @@YuriGoofov Still not security.

  • @Mebirduwine
    @Mebirduwine Місяць тому +3

    best advise i got was as a new parent was "stop letting every family member watch your kids just because its free"

  • @zahriafrederick242
    @zahriafrederick242 Місяць тому +2

    A fast girl??? I’m starting to hate this channel. How disrespectful and you should know better

  • @mousenation3867
    @mousenation3867 4 місяці тому +192

    She seems like such a nice girl she never stood a chance. Poor kid didn’t have anyone to protect her or help form her view of the world or more importantly, of herself.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 4 місяці тому +9

      Jesus can and will restore and redeem her.

  • @lifeofshe3424
    @lifeofshe3424 4 місяці тому +91

    Hate that she was asked if she was “fast.” Sounds like her mom might’ve been dabbling in a very fast life which exposed her to predators + her dad was bitter and resentful at the mother because she was irresponsible and her daughter was following in her footsteps very early. Being curious about sex/love/romance/the opposite sex is a normal in adolescence. Having parents who degrade you, abuse you, knowingly expose you to sexual predators and drinking etc. when you are quite literally a child… is not normal and left her open to a lot of trauma. Normalize not calling young girls fast, especially when they are ALWAYS usually called fast in relation to the older men who prey on, groom and manipulate them.

  • @sayrewilkin-dalby619
    @sayrewilkin-dalby619 17 днів тому +1

    She seems like such a genuine down to earth person with a tender heart and a good head on her shoulders, and so beautiful. I could really see her in another walk of life if she wanted to, I hope things go good for her.

  • @jamineup12
    @jamineup12 Місяць тому +3

    Stop asking them were they fast🤦 it’s a ignorant question

  • @cindzz47
    @cindzz47 4 місяці тому +92

    Her panic attacks are from the rapes when she was so young😭

  • @maimoonakhan9627
    @maimoonakhan9627 2 місяці тому +2

    This interview makes me so uncomfortable. The apathy that you show this young woman is so disappointing and really not on par for this channel. Who refers to a young girl as “fast” in any context, let alone one of assault? This is deeply disturbing and disappointing.

  • @VAL702
    @VAL702 Місяць тому +2

    You gotta stop asking “ were you a fast girl “? It’s creepy and I’m 2 videos away from unfollowing

  • @JiddyBeanstalk
    @JiddyBeanstalk 4 місяці тому +250

    This girl is young,and only 2 years into the game,and she still smiles! Her spirit isn’t broken.Can we not help her find the right path?

    • @crunchmaneslice276
      @crunchmaneslice276 4 місяці тому +5

      No it’s her choice

    • @KeithSunnyKing
      @KeithSunnyKing 4 місяці тому +16

      50/50, we can pray for her and encourage her. Don't forget prayer changes. ​@crunchmaneslice276

    • @copiouscat
      @copiouscat 4 місяці тому

      I hope that meth don’t get to her

    • @odugummaduabuchi7839
      @odugummaduabuchi7839 3 місяці тому +2

      She needs more than just praying, she's need someone by her side that will carry her along.

    • @NewActionthriller
      @NewActionthriller 3 місяці тому

      @@odugummaduabuchi7839 she needs prayer!!!!!! with prayer all things are possible to those that believes, so after prayer the universe will set everything in place for her.

  • @Wendy-rt5em
    @Wendy-rt5em 4 місяці тому +250

    It's interesting that people always bring up how attractive she is. She is but she needs to know that she is much more than that.

    • @Chungalhunga
      @Chungalhunga 4 місяці тому +12

      She recognizes some of her important advantages over train wrecks. Experiences with therapy and doing music are two such things.

    • @navimarlow
      @navimarlow 4 місяці тому +8

      This!!! 💯💯💯

    • @markjones7011
      @markjones7011 4 місяці тому +10

      Well, she is...Hopefully she'll stop before it destroys her

  • @arytonandretti3785
    @arytonandretti3785 Місяць тому +3

    this channel is traumatic i cant imagine what these people go through

  • @IamLMG
    @IamLMG Місяць тому +2

    I think Mark is a trick...he loves interviewing these young SA/ST victims...calling them prostitutes...and using disrespectful/insensitive dialogue with them.. I hate it

    • @IamLMG
      @IamLMG Місяць тому

      @@SoftWhiteUnderbelly you didn't disagree or answer...you attempted to negatively project and divert. Better empathy, tact, and sincerity will suit you well in these interviews.

  • @rdj0981
    @rdj0981 4 місяці тому +233

    "maybe ADHD"... or maybe it was depression and rage from insecurity, from being assaulted at such a young age 😔. Hope she gets professional help. Very smart, pretty woman.

    • @Chungalhunga
      @Chungalhunga 4 місяці тому +2

      Well said. Not even one person i knew in the primary school had "ADHD symptoms" that couldn't be explained by family background or other similar factors.

    • @isabellesender
      @isabellesender 4 місяці тому +4

      Yep. I thought I was ADHD. However, the C-PTSD caused me to have the normal human reaction to abuse and trauma. Your brain will literally rewire itself and emotionally protect or react the only way it knows how.
      It wasn't ADHD after all.
      See- Dr Pate youtube interviews on trauma and ADHD causes.

    • @GabeeLucky
      @GabeeLucky Місяць тому

      Right.
      She could have ADHD, but it seems more like PTSD, anxieties, and probably depression. Maybe even disassociate disorder and anger issues. But I'm not a doctor so I could be wrong.

  • @ando5899
    @ando5899 4 місяці тому +81

    The way she just forgets being raped, just goes to show how normalized very extreme trauma gets brushed aside like it means nothing and has no impact

  • @cyrusmiller3655
    @cyrusmiller3655 Місяць тому +2

    What’s the purpose of this interview? Is he going to help her? Or this is just to exploit this young girl even more? She needs help not an interview. Who is this dude?

    • @clairelumiere2901
      @clairelumiere2901 24 дні тому

      Sorry to be late with a reply, but I recommend searching Mark’s name to watch one of the interviews he’s given to other channels. Also there is an introductory video you can search for on this channel (search channel’s initials plus introductory video). Mark has had over 8,000 interviewees so he can’t possibly single-handedly help them all but since Mark started this channel he’s helped more people than you’d think possible for one man. Just fyi.

  • @ekassien
    @ekassien Місяць тому +2

    "I have anxiety"
    "You're ADHD maybe"
    You are not an M.D. so don't diagnose your interviewees. That's crossing the line. She already told you what her issue is.

  • @sad.9786
    @sad.9786 3 місяці тому +75

    The fact tha he kept calling her “fast” or saying she was and asking her tha ..was making me mad cuz a lot of black girls get called this on a regular basis and it’s disgusting and sad.

  • @natsainancymakanza4228
    @natsainancymakanza4228 4 місяці тому +121

    Disturbing that even the term “rape” doesn’t move her emotionally.Such a broken child who needs help 😢

  • @ralucapopescu2176
    @ralucapopescu2176 Місяць тому +7

    Bianca, you have a beautiful clear strong voice, you enunciate very well, it is perfect for something like radio and of course rap! 😊 all the best to you!

  • @nepoviemneznam625
    @nepoviemneznam625 3 місяці тому +2

    She has actually such a beautiful voice, so calming, she should be either a singer or a moderator. To work with her voice. Nice voice.

  • @Savage_Gambino
    @Savage_Gambino 4 місяці тому +88

    0:01: ⚖️ Childhood trauma and struggles with education impacting Bianca's life choices and mental health.
    4:26: 💔 Teenage girl turns to prostitution after traumatic events, seeking love and validation, despite lack of parental guidance.
    08:08: 💔 Insights into struggles with substance abuse and emotional turmoil while working as a prostitute.
    12:14: 💰 Insights into a prostitute's life, relationships, and aspirations in the music industry.
    18:37: 💔 Challenges and resilience in the life of a young sex worker, including past trauma and struggles with therapy.
    21:49: 💔 A young woman discusses her troubled relationship with her family, regrets, and desire for a better life.
    26:59: 💔 Lack of father-daughter relationship impact on self-reliance and importance of being selfish for self-preservation.