Breakups, The Guilt of Moving On and First Dates

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  • Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
  • Join us as we explore the ups and downs of relationships and breakups! We'll discuss how to know when it's time to break up with someone, the stages of heartbreak (from shock to acceptance), and why we often feel guilty for moving on. Plus, we'll share tips on how to rediscover yourself and find love again. Don't miss this candid conversation about love, loss, and learning!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 179

  • @pumzamdlatu2876
    @pumzamdlatu2876 7 днів тому +298

    Missed you guys. Please bring back old setup/both of you on one camera or screen. Changing over stimulates the brain and eyes

  • @MoetK21
    @MoetK21 7 днів тому +101

    Lebo's Emotional maturity is very exceptional

  • @BigChoppinTee
    @BigChoppinTee 7 днів тому +81

    Do yall see the glow on Thato rampedi or its only me, I see God working on him.

  • @user-dx1ot7fj7p
    @user-dx1ot7fj7p 7 днів тому +50

    You know it's time to break up when you don't care about fixing things anymore. When you're exhausted fromm trying and you like "it's whatever now"

  • @ManziniDrives
    @ManziniDrives 7 днів тому +63

    “Sometimes I put on sunscreen but the date is at night “😂👏🏾

    • @lashani.pako11
      @lashani.pako11 7 днів тому +1

      Bathing twice with 2 different soaps lmaoo

  • @Mpho_T
    @Mpho_T 7 днів тому +43

    I want to see yall on the same couch😭😭

  • @Lulu_chirwa
    @Lulu_chirwa 7 днів тому +55

    "never beg for attraction"🙌

  • @KwakhanyaJibiliza
    @KwakhanyaJibiliza 7 днів тому +93

    You guys articulate yourselves so well !!

  • @somi_1061
    @somi_1061 6 днів тому +65

    Who saw breakup and thought Thato is going to talk about kamo 😂😂😂

  • @bongiwegladys1610
    @bongiwegladys1610 7 днів тому +43

    These gents are super intelligent and well spoken ✨

  • @OfentseMk
    @OfentseMk 4 дні тому +6

    The hard pill to swallow is having to let go of someone you’ve fallen inlove with , their absent presence is something that is hard to go back to now doing things on your own because that person became apart of your routine is something that’s never easy to adjust to

  • @Msmamas™
    @Msmamas™ 7 днів тому +32

    I actually like the older set up more.

  • @den.ii_se
    @den.ii_se 6 днів тому +22

    They are backkkk!!!!! Can we have you guys in one frame 😭

  • @reabetswemosetsanagape5093
    @reabetswemosetsanagape5093 6 днів тому +24

    Me watching this and feeling left out bc i have never been taken on a date 😂😂

    • @Botse_Maaboi
      @Botse_Maaboi 2 дні тому

      Same maybe its because I'm still young too relate.

  • @user-dx1ot7fj7p
    @user-dx1ot7fj7p 7 днів тому +28

    Good to have you back. I personally prefer the old set up where we can see the both of you at once. It really creates good chemistry when we see yall together. The split angles feel a little distant.

  • @reamorena3509
    @reamorena3509 5 днів тому +5

    This thing of Lebo being funny, empathetic, confident and having the ability to understand and read people is scary. Because he can decide, does he want to nyisa you or be kind?
    To be the master one must understand the game = "maybe she'll say wait!... Did he just say boundaries?"

  • @yolandaleve7245
    @yolandaleve7245 7 днів тому +51

    yho ha a two screens tire the eyes and brain its easier when you both on the same screen

  • @vuyokazimthethwa
    @vuyokazimthethwa 7 днів тому +79

    I’ve missed so many chapters 😩 When did Thato accept Christ into his life? Love to see it man😅

    • @agnesaggy1571
      @agnesaggy1571 7 днів тому +7

      Right? Noticed a bit of new vocabulary in his speech, Love it for him❤

    • @vuyokazimthethwa
      @vuyokazimthethwa 7 днів тому +7

      @@agnesaggy1571 Precisely! He still has a lot to unlearn, but the lil lingo cute shem.

  • @thandekanderka8190
    @thandekanderka8190 4 дні тому +4

    Love that you guys are comfortable but justice for the old setup!😭

  • @OfentseMk
    @OfentseMk 4 дні тому +3

    It’s so real that you never get into a relationship wanting to break up same as the concept of getting married to get divorced sometimes it’s unfortunate that things happen in life and result in outcomes that we don’t always want yet we have to accept as hard as it

  • @chumamarleymgini
    @chumamarleymgini 7 днів тому +21

    Lol, this was lovely to watch! I sometimes wish I was a guy because it's not frowned upon when you approach someone you're interested in. It's so hard for us ladies to take the first step..😆

  • @kgalalelomotsatsi9288
    @kgalalelomotsatsi9288 16 годин тому +1

    Such a healthy, intentional group of guys (you guys + friends)

  • @ofentsesebaka3485
    @ofentsesebaka3485 6 днів тому +8

    Lebo, YFM needs you!

  • @zandicarter5113
    @zandicarter5113 2 дні тому +2

    Lebo Is very mature. I enjoyed his insights on modern relationships

  • @ReitumetseBaholo
    @ReitumetseBaholo 7 днів тому +8

    A year later and I still Love love this show❤️never looked back 🥹

  • @sheabutterbabyy.931ndlovu2
    @sheabutterbabyy.931ndlovu2 День тому +3

    I think this switch between angles is Okay but we ALSO NEED A THIRD ANGLE ❤❤where y'all are both on screen

  • @MoosaGrace
    @MoosaGrace 7 днів тому +25

    You guys are so matured and it's so attractive😌... Defenitely loved this one and yeah remember that God comes first in everything💯, it only makes sense when he is involved 😊❤

  • @dineomashao4840
    @dineomashao4840 7 днів тому +7

    I enjoyed this episode wholeheartedly, there's was no moment that didn't leave me grinning or laughing ❤🥹.

  • @zethufasi3699
    @zethufasi3699 7 днів тому +13

    How do I like this video a 100 times, 10/10 if you ask me😮‍💨

  • @ambermose5608
    @ambermose5608 7 днів тому +24

    Thato Ramza is Constantly evolving❤ not only imindset but his style too . Tressure le

  • @lifewithqueenSolo
    @lifewithqueenSolo 5 днів тому +3

    Thank you Rampedi brothers for this... "We build up a Fatigue & accept the next best thing" I have been there for the past 4 years. And I am now in the process of unlearning that. I am now relearning that I deserve better. YHO Mjolo, uyatrappa.

  • @givenmabussi
    @givenmabussi 7 днів тому +8

    This video came at the best time. Thank you for creating a space where men and women alike can have these kinds of vulnerable conversations.

  • @boitumelorapulane3834
    @boitumelorapulane3834 7 днів тому +3

    I’m really glad you guys are back:)

  • @Prince_Haremgard
    @Prince_Haremgard 6 днів тому +4

    ive been waiting for yall

  • @LoyisoM_Maloizy
    @LoyisoM_Maloizy 7 днів тому +8

    Damn ! This epidode is up there with my top 3 ! Job well done once again Rampedi brothers!!🔥

  • @SAMusic936
    @SAMusic936 7 днів тому +20

    This episode is laced🔥

  • @happylovelorn4518
    @happylovelorn4518 7 днів тому +4

    Haw the lost sons have returned. You guys were missed so much! What an amazing episode, as always..❤

  • @italiatsotetsi8347
    @italiatsotetsi8347 7 днів тому +9

    Everytime Lebo speaks I get goosebumps ya’ll I’m like wait a minute 😅Thato is so matured and this was very interesting to watch ❤️#Rampedi brothers

  • @ratzdoll-yc1ml
    @ratzdoll-yc1ml 7 днів тому +9

    the podcasts this week 💥
    rampedi media is doing the most ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @asekhoyonela4327
    @asekhoyonela4327 7 днів тому +7

    11/10🔥 how you articulate yourselves and the fits are on fire as well❤ loved the previous set up though

  • @Sage_Blaq
    @Sage_Blaq 7 днів тому +3

    Truly I had missed this show❤‍🔥

  • @Divine_Kalonji
    @Divine_Kalonji 7 днів тому +9

    This episode was a vibe!!...Rampedi Brothers will always make you laugh thanks guys 🤞😂😂❤

  • @NombusoMotubane
    @NombusoMotubane 7 днів тому +7

    Thank you!! Was getting tired of rewatching old episodes 😂❤

  • @reabetswemosetsanagape5093
    @reabetswemosetsanagape5093 6 днів тому +6

    Not this angle, guys.
    Please and thank you, we missed seated with our favorite brothers.😊

  • @jamie-leewarries554
    @jamie-leewarries554 6 днів тому +2

    Welcome back guys missed ❤️ seated so much
    Love the new setup all the best on the new amazing journey 😊😊

  • @lovemore5993
    @lovemore5993 7 днів тому +6

    Yes please continue with seated😂 i had to go back and watch all the content you posted ... I'm definitely hooked

  • @SthembileButhelezi-zk3mw
    @SthembileButhelezi-zk3mw 7 днів тому +13

    I love this conversation 🥺♥️🫂

  • @KelebogileMpho-ov6xn
    @KelebogileMpho-ov6xn 7 днів тому +5

    Missed these talks and I'm sure I'm not the only one ❤

  • @thandekarabe6011
    @thandekarabe6011 6 днів тому +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed this ❤

  • @Geegee-r1n
    @Geegee-r1n 6 днів тому +8

    Did he just say boundaries ?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂killed me!

  • @sheila9480
    @sheila9480 7 днів тому +2

    I love love this episode ❤️❤️

  • @siyamajay
    @siyamajay 7 днів тому +3

    I was thinking about you guys earlier today so you can imagine how excited I am to watch this 👏🏾❤
    PLEASE PLEASE GO BACK TO THE OLD SET UP WHERE YOU SIT SIDE BY SIDE ON THE SAME SCREEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Lephoi
    @Lephoi 7 днів тому +5

    😂😂😂 This was too good!! ❤

  • @kegowsebigi1156
    @kegowsebigi1156 6 днів тому +2

    Rampedi brothers finally👏

  • @PrincessMogale
    @PrincessMogale 6 днів тому +2

    I looooved this episode so much🥺🥺🥺

  • @lesegoprincessleeuw500
    @lesegoprincessleeuw500 7 днів тому +4

    Lebo is messy & I'm here for it😭😂. He always comes for Thato sideways😂😂

  • @nomceboDlamini-ip6nz
    @nomceboDlamini-ip6nz 6 днів тому +2

    Yhuu this was deep 🥺❤️💯so many facts

  • @Mbbarliie_16
    @Mbbarliie_16 7 днів тому +21

    I preferred the old set up where we can just see y'all same time

  • @q.7628
    @q.7628 6 днів тому +3

    😂😂😂I love these two! ❤I haven't watched or listened to them in a long time

  • @sinawomthini
    @sinawomthini 5 днів тому +1

    "Some people live in that toxic environment because you get to still get a piece of that person" Lebo🔥
    You guys are amazing, this is some breath of freshair podcast❤️ ❤

  • @kuts.thwala
    @kuts.thwala 7 днів тому +5

    This episode ate, 10/10!!😅

  • @MoetK21
    @MoetK21 7 днів тому +15

    more of these please🥲

  • @glowingupwithkenako
    @glowingupwithkenako 3 дні тому +3

    Loved this it made me really happy ❤

  • @lindiweQueenFoko
    @lindiweQueenFoko День тому +2

    Enjoyed this,you guys articulate yourselves so well!

  • @lwalwantunzela4260
    @lwalwantunzela4260 6 днів тому +3

    Missed you Guys. 🤩one of favourite pod

  • @magokgoalemashile7814
    @magokgoalemashile7814 7 днів тому +3

    This was amaizing ❤❤❤❤

  • @nandiphamashabane2862
    @nandiphamashabane2862 2 дні тому +1

    What a wholesome episode ❤️

  • @merculamongonyama506
    @merculamongonyama506 7 днів тому +4

    ugh mahn i love the Rampedi Brothers.😂

  • @fadzai_sithole
    @fadzai_sithole 3 дні тому +2

    y’all have the realest conversations, y’all might have just healed me nyana😉😂🤭

  • @Peneyambeko-qm2wu
    @Peneyambeko-qm2wu 6 днів тому +2

    This episode was lit 🔥

  • @chumudilamoody7017
    @chumudilamoody7017 4 дні тому +2

    Around 19:19 ,I think for the most part is about being accommodating & compassionate and we tend to distance our identities from whatever challenge we're willing to take up when we're passionate about something, we embrace it... sure we tend to use the word 'sacrifice' often around those situations but I think it's mostly an emphasis thing, because the word does carry some weight in its "actual" usage. But really I think it's too heavy of a word for situations we casually assign it to, I agree that there'd be situations were you actually sacrifice for your partner but those ,advisably, should be rare. Healthy compromises here and there are good for the relationship, especially when these sacrifices aren't just one sided. A Facebook friend once said something along the lines of "Compassion can be the cloak of self-abuse, of tolerating being mistreated. We must include ourselves in the circle of compassion and protect and mother ourselves reasonably" I'm paraphrasing...I like most of what you fellows said round that time mark, and as always I enjoyed watching this video

  • @itszanisWorld
    @itszanisWorld 6 днів тому +4

    This podcast was too good man 😂❤

  • @LaoTheDesigner
    @LaoTheDesigner 2 дні тому +2

    I enjoyed this episode I watched it 3 times on different days

  • @iMbaulaPodcast
    @iMbaulaPodcast 6 днів тому +5

    Awesome Episode, gents… And it’s been a minute indeed!
    Singleness neh… I somehow believe that since I am (have been) single today, the portion assigned to me for today is singleness. It is God’s gift. Singleness ought not to be viewed as a problem, nor marriage as a right. God in his wisdom and love grants either as a gift.
    Rather than that, I cannot wait to go back to the scene of dating. It has been an amazing two years (thus far), and I have learned a lot about myself that I had no clue about.
    Anyway, loving the episode gents! Keep it up… 👊🏾
    Regards,
    Kamohelo Hlasa

  • @mpendulomncube4742
    @mpendulomncube4742 4 дні тому +2

    Thato bro excellent styling👌🏽and exceptional color coordination. Very classy.

  • @nataschalosper1760
    @nataschalosper1760 7 днів тому +3

    Finally flippen finally!!!😢 I missed the Rampedi boys tho. Aowa!! Don't do this to us please.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ My people mos.

  • @GossiphiveEnt
    @GossiphiveEnt 7 днів тому +10

    What was Kamo on about in her stories last night though 🤔 uyaGowa bandla and it’s seems like she’s in a very dark place

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 6 днів тому +3

    How you approach a girl depends on the type of person they are. I am a simple girl so the example yol used works for me, simple and straightforward.

  • @tino_chihwayi
    @tino_chihwayi 16 годин тому +1

    Loved this❤😂

  • @siyabongainnocent4952
    @siyabongainnocent4952 7 днів тому +3

    Finally🔥🔥

  • @sheila9480
    @sheila9480 7 днів тому +4

    Missed you guys but I loved seeing you guys on one screen this switching back and forth is not working 😭

  • @cordeliafakude2908
    @cordeliafakude2908 6 днів тому +2

    Really enjoyed watching this 😂😂

  • @LaoTheDesigner
    @LaoTheDesigner 4 дні тому +3

    Lebo’s game 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I didn’t know he was this cool 😊cool kid

  • @allthingsluxury6877
    @allthingsluxury6877 7 днів тому +2

    Uuuuu " I can't deal with this thing alone" ❤❤

  • @nomathamsanqamaseti8767
    @nomathamsanqamaseti8767 2 дні тому +1

    “Fold like a camp chair at a braai” 😂

  • @IamMelissa-gx7qe
    @IamMelissa-gx7qe 7 днів тому +12

    Love these two

  • @fried.c
    @fried.c 7 днів тому +2

    "if the sound is coming from the Bluetooth is ready to pair,it might not go through but if it's coming from a JBL it might be able to get across" lebo kills me🤣🤣😭😭😭

  • @hopetozana496
    @hopetozana496 4 дні тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉Welcome back gents 😊

  • @prettymngomamngoma6461
    @prettymngomamngoma6461 6 днів тому +2

    To think that I almost believe that such guys WD this kind of mentality doesn't exist, am happy to know kuty one day I'll met one for myself.

  • @Khehlani
    @Khehlani 7 днів тому +9

    This is so hard to listen to, i lost such a god guy💔 funny thing we always sorted out our issues right away and forgave each other almost immediately but man things just happen💔💔💔

    • @Botse_Maaboi
      @Botse_Maaboi 2 дні тому +2

      So sorry Hlani 😢 hopefully someday you get blessed with a good and healthy relationship. You deserve love still🥺

  • @khosipenelope5731
    @khosipenelope5731 4 дні тому

    The compatibility chat🔥

  • @josephmadu8926
    @josephmadu8926 5 днів тому

    Lebo Tiller .......murdered it!

  • @ethichadebe
    @ethichadebe 6 днів тому +2

    Yoh what a bad time to listen to this, I'm at the office and I feel numb

  • @TiisetsoPilane-lr1jx
    @TiisetsoPilane-lr1jx 7 днів тому +1

    All that you guys said before 24mins that's exactly sooooo me😭

    • @TiisetsoPilane-lr1jx
      @TiisetsoPilane-lr1jx 7 днів тому +1

      Ntlek what you said the whole episode that's exactly sooooo sooo meeee😭

  • @VuyisileMasilela
    @VuyisileMasilela 6 днів тому +2

    Yes I missed this segment

  • @RatileTshenye
    @RatileTshenye 7 днів тому +3

    THIS WAS AMAZING TO WATCH

  • @SAMusic936
    @SAMusic936 6 днів тому +4

    Thato should sign a deal with Nomad at this point🤣

  • @MoetK21
    @MoetK21 3 дні тому +2

    This is my 4th time watching this

  • @eliasnakaleke9145
    @eliasnakaleke9145 4 дні тому +3

    You Rest, You Rust!

    • @Botse_Maaboi
      @Botse_Maaboi 2 дні тому +1

      You're right. During exams I struggle because I rest too much and end up procrastinating..

  • @thandiwenhlapo.tn1
    @thandiwenhlapo.tn1 7 днів тому +2

    Question: what's the pre-first date process ? Like for how long do you talk or how much do you need to know about them to say "alright... shout, a first date would be good now"? Or it based on looks?🌚