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Can You Change Her Mind About Divorce? | Brandon & Jen’s Story

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  • Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
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    INITIAL SITUATION & HOW THINGS ARE LIKE NOW
    00:00 - Introduction to Brandon & Jen
    00:30 - Their Hopeless & Dire Initial Situation
    10:12 - Why “She Was 100% Done with Brandon”
    15:18 - Things Are SO GOOD Now - It Feels UNREAL
    22:12 - Why Reconciliation is Always Worth the Work
    - LEARNING LESSONS -
    23:08 - #1: Denial, Ego & Victim Mindset (How they Destroy Relationships)
    27:28 - #2: The Red-Pill Movement (How It Ruins Relationships)
    40:42 - #3: Why Jen Was Suspicious & Resistant of Brandon’s Changes
    53:32 - #4: Why Tactics Alone Will NEVER Work
    55:34 - #5: Reconciliation is NOT the End, but the START
    1:02:02 - #6: Is Sex NECESSARY for a Great Relationship?
    1:11:40 - #7: Why Safety is CRUCIAL for Relationships
    1:14:44 - #8: Does it Take Two to Tango?
    1:18:12 - #9: How This TRANSFORMED Our Relationship With Our Kids!
    1:25:28 - Want to Apply for the Relationships Revival Program?

КОМЕНТАРІ • 25

  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan  Рік тому +10

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    • @gattaca761
      @gattaca761 Рік тому

      Would greatly appreciate your thoughts on the below. Should I act or still wait for noticeable change-
      I dont need “expressions” that are obvious.
      U know- not that i can actually think of anything to this effect- NOR do i want something like the below:
      But if i was you & wanting to really make it up to someone, there would be some big-time grand fucking gesture or something.

  • @UnitedShredNation
    @UnitedShredNation Рік тому +9

    let’s appreciate Geoffrey’s entire existence. Without him, we all would be screwed. Lol jokes aside.

  • @christopherjbenjamin9298
    @christopherjbenjamin9298 Рік тому +8

    Hey Geoffrey. Thanks for dedicating your time to change lives for the best.

  • @txeazy
    @txeazy Рік тому +8

    This one was one of the most powerful I have watched.
    edited:
    definitely the best one.

  • @brandonlasage91
    @brandonlasage91 Місяць тому

    Hits hard. I'm appreciating Geoffrey more each day.

  • @Olalentrepreneur
    @Olalentrepreneur Рік тому +1

    The cup analogy is powerful

  • @dillonknight199
    @dillonknight199 Рік тому +1

    Between this and the healing broken trust podcast I have realised what a toxic person I was in my relationship. I ended things only a week ago because I no longer felt love from her but I am beginning to understand what drove her to that place even though she kept giving me chances and I would grow for a while and then fall back into the same old routine. which was compounded by working out of town and only being home on weekends at some point we were more of roommates than anything else. I would get excited and think this weekend will be different im going to plan something then when I would get home I would get the cold shoulder and always here excuses why she didn't want to do something with me. I would end up feeling hurt and then pout and then distract myself by going to friends and drink and smoke till I didnt feel or acknowledge it. My goal is to stop drinking, smoking marijuana and cutting porn out of my life to start to get a clear head and not avoid all of my issues but to deal with them. Hopefully she will see the effort and begin to open back up and see me as a desirable person. If she doesn't it will at least positively benefit the rest of my life and my other relationships be them romantic or platonic. I highly recommend anyone watching these videos to also check out Healing broken trust podcast it is more focused on cheating and helps you understand what the cheater and the one who got cheated on are thinking and feeling.

    • @biersmorgen6609
      @biersmorgen6609 8 місяців тому

      Dude we are exactly the same journey

  • @snethercot9881
    @snethercot9881 Рік тому +2

    Hi Geoffrey - content idea here. Once emotional safety has a baseline again... What is the best kind of mindset for bringing up pain points and topics that the partner is resistant to... especially when they have moved on to a relationship with the affair partner, moved out, or are just generally very resistant. How do we balance the necessary topics without annihilating the emotional safety we have worked hard to start rebuilding while working on being untethered?

  • @TrumpetBling
    @TrumpetBling Рік тому +3

    I find this encouraging because my situation is so similar. I’ve been watching the UA-cam videos for months and I’m still trying to improve myself.

    • @iJeffChiefsKing
      @iJeffChiefsKing Рік тому +1

      Me too

    • @TrumpetBling
      @TrumpetBling Рік тому

      I don’t blame my partner for her leaving, I didn’t create the right environment. It’s scary to think she might not ever comeback. We just gotta keep improving ourselves and the rest will play out

    • @TrumpetBling
      @TrumpetBling Рік тому

      @@iJeffChiefsKing have you heard Geoffrey talk about the ice cube and how it slowly melts. That’s the mindset I’m trying to have

  • @danielstan3345
    @danielstan3345 Рік тому +1

    Where can i buy the programme

  • @YT_Peezy
    @YT_Peezy Рік тому +3

    Geoffrey, no doubt your sauce works. I can attest to it twice.. but i keep starting back at zero. Why is that? Because of my paradigm not being a true change?

    • @kennethsosa9806
      @kennethsosa9806 9 місяців тому +1

      This is just based on my personal experience. My wife separated with me and is now seeing someone. I’ve been trying to improve myself but ending up having a breakdown and messing everything good that I have done. It’s been back and forth. A few days ago it happened again. I’m coming into a realization that I think it’s because consciously or subconsciously I am still focused on trying to get her back and trying to get what we had before back. Also like relying on hope and then when the hope gets shattered I would mess up. Basically I am still tethered to the outcome as well even tho I thought I wasn’t anymore.

  • @gattaca761
    @gattaca761 Рік тому +3

    Soon to be member here. Geoffrey, is it a good idea to share this footage with my partner? She's already expressed suspicion and distrust at the recent language that I've been using from watching your content.

    • @brato19
      @brato19 Рік тому +3

      Hey! Guy from the video here. In short, I'd say not right now. If you get in the program you'll see this, but there's a lot of work and foundation to put in before doing something like this.
      You said she doesn't trust the new you (who if you are just by looking at Geoff's YT videos is just skimming the surface of who you need to be), so how can she see this and not feel like it's some kind of manipulation or tactic?
      There's a right way to do it, that involves a lot of work on yourself first that you may not even realize. But you'll see exactly how and when you can introduce this through the program. So much to learn and grow from until that point though.

    • @gattaca761
      @gattaca761 Рік тому +2

      @@brato19 Thanks so much Brandon. Makes sense. Just feels like I’m loosing valuable time that she may perceive as inaction or confirmation of there being no hope.

    • @gattaca761
      @gattaca761 Рік тому

      Would greatly appreciate your thoughts on the below. Should I act or still wait for noticeable change-
      I dont need “expressions” that are obvious.
      U know- not that i can actually think of anything to this effect- NOR do i want something like the below:
      But if i was you & wanting to really make it up to someone, there would be some big-time grand fucking gesture or something.

  • @biersmorgen6609
    @biersmorgen6609 8 місяців тому

    I failed my safety test last night ... crap Ill be ready for the next one...

  • @mikepayne2572
    @mikepayne2572 7 місяців тому

    Love your videos and advice. Can you change the name of this video? Im separated from my wife of 30 years. I'd love to share this video. No way I can share this because the title sounds very manipulative.