I love the facts that Emily is talking to Maiya in her native language in Swedish. It's great so she will understand and speak both english and swedish when she'll grow up ! btw, congrats to you ! I may not know you but I think you have no idea how much I'm happy for you !!
I love that Emily and Justin are speaking Swedish and English at the same time in the beginning of the video, and Maya understands both of them! I want that for my children too haha
Justin, I wanted to thank you for your "man enough" TED talk. I've been trying so hard to make my husband understand all that you said. Something he repeatedly tells me is, "I don't get hurt". If I ever ask him, "did that hurt you", or say, "I am so sorry if I hurt you. I really didn't mean to", he gets offended that I suggested he can be hurt. I tell him, you do get hurt too, but you don't express it the way I do. He goes silent a lot. That's his way of dealing with all kinds of negative emotions from anger and frustration to pain and insult. I have lost the count of the times that I have told him how a crisis could have been much more easily dealt with if he had let me in and allowed me to tackle it with him, rather than managing everything alone in silence giving me a grumpy face all that time. He does patronise me and show all that usual husband behaviours. But what hurts me the most is him keeping all his emotions pent up inside while showing me a mean attitude. I try asking him..."is something bothering you?", "is it something I've caused or something else?", "did anyone upset you today?", "is there anything you want to tell me?", "are you sad about something?", "let me know if you need me", "are you anxious about something?"...the most I get is a "nothing". I tell him, you know how I tell you about my worries, pains, embarrassment, excitement, happiness...everything...that's what I wish you'd do...tell me what's going on, because although I love you very much, I cannot see into your mind. He will just say, "I am not you". He is changing gradually, I feel. And I think listening to your talk will help him feel safe, that I am not trying to squeeze out his masculinity. That he need not get angry when he really wants to cry. He need not act like I don't exist, when he really needs a hug. If I truly manage to confront him, he usually walks around doing a million chores...which I think is his way of avoiding eye contact and avoiding me seeing any sign of emotions on his face. "Do you wish this person did not do that to you....? Is that why you are upset?" He will say, "who said I am upset! (In very base voice and turns away), don't waste your time. I am not you, I don't get upset". N manages to avoid looking at me or letting me see his face until he settles with his stoic face focused on his mobile or go take a nap. He also avoids any sign of tenderness towards me once we are out of home. I often remind him I am still his wife, although we aren't home. He cares, he loves...but it's like he has to follow some kinda protocol. He often gets frustrated that I don't realise how much he loves me. I don't doubt his love. But often, I have to go by faith as all he shows me is a grumpy face. According to him, if he shares his problems, I will get upset or may even fall ill. And I say, I cannot guarantee that won't happen, but being your wife, I have the right to cry with you as much as laugh with you. He still hasn't got it really. I am immensely grateful to you. I don't know if anything I've said goes against your view. I might have stretched your words too far. I hope your talk will be more understandable to my husband than my advice and pleading. When I get angry, I say, "you know that I know that you are a human being. Then why are you pretending to be a super human before me? I don't find anything attractive in you acting like you have superhuman abilities." I hope my comprehension of your speech is accurate enough....that it means that my demands on my husband to show some emotion and to stop acting like nothing can touch him...when they clearly can...is not too unreasonable. You've truly touched my heart. I am happy for your family. My good wishes to you.
I know this is an old comment, but I hope now, 3 years later, you have either fixed that aspect of your relationship or have left him and found peace. ✌
@@MrJaybeezy123 We are still together. Sharing his unpleasant feelings is still difficult for my husband. But reading my old comment makes me realise how much he has changed. Thank you for taking the time to read my comment. Nowadays, things get to a point where I am very frustrated and upset and then, we have a chat, he opens up. Surprisingly, although I blame myself for his moods, he doesn't. When he finally talks, it's always how the situation frustrates him rather than anything I do or any of my attitude. There's never any suggestion that I could have done something to make things better for him. When he does not share his feelings, I would feel that there's something I should have done. For him the difficult situations are always something we could not have helped, something beyond our power to control. Nobody is to blame. And when he adds, before whom will he show his frustration, if not me, my heart melts. Although it's definitely better when I know what frustrates him. So...I guess, he's more comfortable being vulnerable before me, I am more comfortable letting him be, and there are times when things reach a peek and then he finally opens up and our struggles vanish.
I know my dad loves me but he's an emotional cripple and our relationship has suffered because of it. To see this family in all their glory, especially Justin is so heartwarming! Congrats guys, truly! Maiya and your son are so so blessed.
Oh my gosh! An October baby just like me! He'll be a good egg I promise. October babies are either a little young or a little old for their grade in school but it's okay because it gives options to stay back a year!!!!! Oh I am so excited for this little boy!!
People like u have to have a big family bring good people to this world I’m tired off Lairs I wish u guys nothing but the best and who ever read my comment
whatever man is raised by Justin is automatically blessed.
Absolutely I Agree💯💯🏡💯💯💯
I love the facts that Emily is talking to Maiya in her native language in Swedish. It's great so she will understand and speak both english and swedish when she'll grow up ! btw, congrats to you ! I may not know you but I think you have no idea how much I'm happy for you !!
I think she's Italian
@@musaibbilal9051 she’s Swedish dude
congratulations ! I hope you're going to call him Matelio
Lucie Taieb It's Mateo.
TheWeekndFanX0 Rogelio calls Mateo, Matelio. It's a mix on his name and his grandson's...
Obviously you don't watch the show +TheWeekendFanX0. Matelio is what Rogelio calls Mateo.
That would be really cute. And he better especially because it is his son in JTV.
And he would be naming it after a famous movie star
My husband better react with the kinda joy that Justin did 😭😭
Katheryn Cisneros 😂😂😂
Katheryn Cisneros AGAGAHAH YASS GIRRL
I love that Emily and Justin are speaking Swedish and English at the same time in the beginning of the video, and Maya understands both of them! I want that for my children too haha
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!
BTW JUSTIN ALREADY LOOKED LIKE MOSES, BUT WITH THIS HAIR, HE REALLY LOOKS LIKE MOSES.
Omg IKR!!!! I've literally said for years that he would be the perfect Moses for a live action Prince of Egypt!!
I tweeted this years ago and he liked it 😭🥰
AHHHHHH congrats!!! What a perfect family I swear
no such thing...
Athena Serrano dad
His manly gasp tho when he found out, that's so adorable
Justin, I wanted to thank you for your "man enough" TED talk. I've been trying so hard to make my husband understand all that you said. Something he repeatedly tells me is, "I don't get hurt". If I ever ask him, "did that hurt you", or say, "I am so sorry if I hurt you. I really didn't mean to", he gets offended that I suggested he can be hurt. I tell him, you do get hurt too, but you don't express it the way I do. He goes silent a lot. That's his way of dealing with all kinds of negative emotions from anger and frustration to pain and insult.
I have lost the count of the times that I have told him how a crisis could have been much more easily dealt with if he had let me in and allowed me to tackle it with him, rather than managing everything alone in silence giving me a grumpy face all that time.
He does patronise me and show all that usual husband behaviours. But what hurts me the most is him keeping all his emotions pent up inside while showing me a mean attitude. I try asking him..."is something bothering you?", "is it something I've caused or something else?", "did anyone upset you today?", "is there anything you want to tell me?", "are you sad about something?", "let me know if you need me", "are you anxious about something?"...the most I get is a "nothing".
I tell him, you know how I tell you about my worries, pains, embarrassment, excitement, happiness...everything...that's what I wish you'd do...tell me what's going on, because although I love you very much, I cannot see into your mind. He will just say, "I am not you".
He is changing gradually, I feel. And I think listening to your talk will help him feel safe, that I am not trying to squeeze out his masculinity. That he need not get angry when he really wants to cry. He need not act like I don't exist, when he really needs a hug. If I truly manage to confront him, he usually walks around doing a million chores...which I think is his way of avoiding eye contact and avoiding me seeing any sign of emotions on his face. "Do you wish this person did not do that to you....? Is that why you are upset?" He will say, "who said I am upset! (In very base voice and turns away), don't waste your time. I am not you, I don't get upset". N manages to avoid looking at me or letting me see his face until he settles with his stoic face focused on his mobile or go take a nap.
He also avoids any sign of tenderness towards me once we are out of home. I often remind him I am still his wife, although we aren't home. He cares, he loves...but it's like he has to follow some kinda protocol. He often gets frustrated that I don't realise how much he loves me. I don't doubt his love. But often, I have to go by faith as all he shows me is a grumpy face. According to him, if he shares his problems, I will get upset or may even fall ill. And I say, I cannot guarantee that won't happen, but being your wife, I have the right to cry with you as much as laugh with you. He still hasn't got it really.
I am immensely grateful to you. I don't know if anything I've said goes against your view. I might have stretched your words too far. I hope your talk will be more understandable to my husband than my advice and pleading.
When I get angry, I say, "you know that I know that you are a human being. Then why are you pretending to be a super human before me? I don't find anything attractive in you acting like you have superhuman abilities."
I hope my comprehension of your speech is accurate enough....that it means that my demands on my husband to show some emotion and to stop acting like nothing can touch him...when they clearly can...is not too unreasonable. You've truly touched my heart.
I am happy for your family. My good wishes to you.
I know this is an old comment, but I hope now, 3 years later, you have either fixed that aspect of your relationship or have left him and found peace. ✌
@@MrJaybeezy123 We are still together. Sharing his unpleasant feelings is still difficult for my husband. But reading my old comment makes me realise how much he has changed. Thank you for taking the time to read my comment.
Nowadays, things get to a point where I am very frustrated and upset and then, we have a chat, he opens up. Surprisingly, although I blame myself for his moods, he doesn't. When he finally talks, it's always how the situation frustrates him rather than anything I do or any of my attitude. There's never any suggestion that I could have done something to make things better for him. When he does not share his feelings, I would feel that there's something I should have done. For him the difficult situations are always something we could not have helped, something beyond our power to control. Nobody is to blame.
And when he adds, before whom will he show his frustration, if not me, my heart melts. Although it's definitely better when I know what frustrates him. So...I guess, he's more comfortable being vulnerable before me, I am more comfortable letting him be, and there are times when things reach a peek and then he finally opens up and our struggles vanish.
@@ayanabenjamin376 Well that's awesome. Good for him, and good for you for sticking it out. ❤
Justin's reaction actually made me cryyyyy, this moment was so beautiful
justin crying just made me cry even harder and i didnt know that was possible
I know my dad loves me but he's an emotional cripple and our relationship has suffered because of it. To see this family in all their glory, especially Justin is so heartwarming! Congrats guys, truly! Maiya and your son are so so blessed.
so happy for Justin and his family
Congratulations, beautiful family!
May God give you wisdom every day to guide your children in the way of the Lord.
so happy for you guys!!! congrats! Justin is going to raise him to be such a beautiful and respectful young man just like his daddy!❤
I feel like Justins reaction is the same as Rafaels would be 😍😂
Ikr...
Congratulations!!!!! Love you guys! All the best!
Awwww congratulations ❤️
justin he is going to look u like you i am so so happy for u
Congratulations! 💙
Congratulations💙💙 can't wait to see that sweet little boy!
Congratulations to two wonderful parents!!!
Congrats! Wishing and hoping ur family all best!! 😊❤️
Oh my gosh! An October baby just like me! He'll be a good egg I promise. October babies are either a little young or a little old for their grade in school but it's okay because it gives options to stay back a year!!!!! Oh I am so excited for this little boy!!
Congratulations!!! love you guys
So so happy for you guys!!!! It's going to be the perfect little boy from God❤️❤️❤️❤️
this made me so emotional. i cant believe its a boy!!!! you are going to have both a girl and a boy!! im so incredibly happy for you. life is amazing
You both made me tear up. You both are so sincere and genuine! Congrats!! Boys are the sweetest little ones!!
I love this video so much. And, honestly, Justin's hair being tousled makes this all the more natural and beautiful.
I am so happy for the three of you. You guys have a lot of friends. that are going to show this little boy so much love and happiness
YAY! Congratulations!!!! So happy for you guys! Much love!
😭 omg this is amazing! congratulations!!! this definitely made me tear up, it's beautiful!
Congratulations!!!
So happy to see your family growing!
THEY ARE SOOOOOOO CUTE, I LOVE THIS FAMILY.
#GOALS
congrats to you two. blessings. we love our 3 boys and our little girl.
Wonderful! Congratulations and thank you for taking us along on your adventure! (I've been a fan since the proposal)
Congratulations 🎈🎉🎊🍾 what amazing news. So happy for you guys!🤗🤗
He didnt expect...it was a boy..and then start to cry. So sweet !
I love portrayed of ʻAbdu'l-Bahá behind you guys .Congratulations 💙
AAAAA CONGRATULATIONS YOU GUYS !
We're extremely happy for you :) much love all the way from France x
People like u have to have a big family bring good people to this world I’m tired off Lairs I wish u guys nothing but the best and who ever read my comment
congrants justin love u god bless u and your babys
Congratulations! So happy for ypur growing family! And Emily is swedish! I love how i can understand what she's saying😊
CONGRATULATIONS CONGRATULATIOOOOONS!!! I was cheesing all the way through this video! God bless you guys! We're waiting for October 2017!!!
Congratulations ❤️ I 'm so happy for you. Wishing you the best
yippee!!!! your family is complete. congratulations 🌠🎇🎊🎉
he will turn out to be a bright, amazing young man.
THIS IS SO PURE AND CUTE I'M CRYING
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you guys! I wish you the best!!
YOURE KIDDING OH MY GOD IM SO HAPPY
Aww this was so sweet! Congrats!
Come on, I've just watched the proposal...Hahahaha, congratulations from the bottom of my heart
I love it how when he saw that the note said boy he started to cry but the wasn't
Congratulations to your beautiful family!
Congrats Justin and Emily!
Love the mix of Swedish and English.
Amazing... such a beautiful couple who is loved by everyone.... blessings to you and your beautiful family!!
I’m obsessed with Jane the Virgin but I never knew that Justin’s wife was Swedish !! I’m so happy and congrats on the baby boy
Love that your kids will grow up speaking Swedish and English!
It’s so sweet that he got so emotional! 😭
Yesssssss!!!!!😍💙💙💙
omg Rafael I mean justin😂😂😂 reacting was so cute!😢😢😢😭
Justin's reaction was perfect!! ❤️❤️❤️
AWW I CANT WAIT FOR BABY MATEO
this is so beautiful.... I'm so happy for your family ❤
AHHH IT IS SO PERFECT
Congrats!!! We have a Boy and a girl. They are going to have a great relationship as brother and sister!! Enjoy your family of 4 soon :)
That “Ya Bahá’u’l-Abhá...” 🥰🥰🥰
Congrats!!! U guys are beuatiful...
Instant tears.
Poor maiya she has no idea what's going on!!! Congratulations baldoni family!!!
The reaction of Justin😭
You are lovely family. Congratulations!!!
I saw claire wineland, and I screamed. Her reaction was so glass shattering beautiful..:(
OK BUT CAN WE GET A LIVE-ACTION PRINCE OF EGYPT BECAUSE JUSTIN LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE MOSES!!!!!!
Congratulations u guys are perfect together
you guys are so bloody cute. so natural! Keep it real. X
When Justin started crying I started crying:,)
YAYAYAYAYA! I GUESSED RIGHT LOL CONGRATULATIONS!
Congratulations
Congratulations!!
Beautiful, beautiful!❤️
Congratulations to your beautiful family :)
Awww Justin ❤️❤️😭😭I love you. You have fans who adore and care about you. That’s including me btw lol
Aww 😭❤️❤️
oml so happy for u guys
Aww, lovely, congratulations
Congratulations!! Felicidades...sois Maravillosos =)
¡Me encantan!💖
Congratulations🎉
OMG CONGRATULATIONS I HOPE HE WILL BE BORN ON MY BIRTHDAY 😭😭😭😭😍😍😍😍
Justin got me crying 😭😭😭😭
Congratulations 💙💙
Justin gasped the same way for both the gender reveals. He’s the type of man I want as a father to my children. Dammit
Grattis!! Congrats!!!
Maxwell and Maiya. Cute matching
Holy Jesus! Congrats!😆😆😆😆😄😄😄😄
I love them both so much❤️ And I like that she is swedish bc I am to
YAYYYYY!!!!
Congratulations!
CONGRATS!!!!
omg congratulations!!💗💗