Going Home Can Be Good and Bad...
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Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma UA-cam channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!
My spouse is black and I am white. I got fired for dating him over 33 years ago. We were y’all’s age. We moved from Texas to California in 1993, so I understand exactly what you are talking about California being your comfort zone. Then in 2003 we moved to Chester VA. I was so nervous about moving back to the “South” because this time we had our sons with us. I have to say nothing or no one ever treated us negatively. I am so sorry you were mistreated while visiting VA. We have temporarily moved back to Texas and nothing has happened so far but we always have our guard up.
Cole I remember your accident being on the local news. I am so glad your life with Charisma has been such a blessing. I love following y’all’s journey and pray for only the best!
It breaks my heart that we are still dealing with racism in this day and age. Charisma and Cole, you are very special people. Continue to educate, but keep yourself safe. Don’t engage with stupid people; they aren’t worth your time and energy.
Bonnie I do agree with you
Sorry you even need to deal with that.
my thoughts exactly that jerk could have pulled out a gun at anytime. NEVER approach someone like that.
I know what Charisma means. Some places are not welcoming. But rather than be apprehensive or even angry, I tried remember the Serenity Prayer. And I do what you guys tell us to do all the time-stay positive.
Appreciate this, thank you!
#ALLLIVESMATTER
@@themessiahsdaughterAMEN YES THANK U FATHER GOD HS SON JESUS N LORD IN JESUS NAME 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 WE WHOLEHEARTEDLY TOUCH N AGREE 1000,000% 24/7 365 HALLELUAH AMEN #ISECONDTHISNIAPPROVETHISMESSAGE
Please don’t let the devil mess up your happiness🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Stop putting that stuff into your atmosphere. Y’all have been so very Blessed and God has SO much more🙂Charisma as an old Black woman please hear me, kill them with kindness and just move on. He wanted you to get upset. Don’t give them the satisfaction….. let them talk their crap but just ignore them, God has got vengeance for you🙌🏽🙏🏽Its all practice, this is something you and Cole will ALWAYS have to deal with, and that’s ok. 🙂🙂🥰🥰 Life under the word and protection of God ALWAYS wins! I just love this channel.👏🏽👏🏽💐🥰🥰🙌🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏽
🙏 Amen
Love this response!❤️
AMEN YES THANK U FATHER GOD HIS SON JESUS N LORD IN JESUS NAME 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💙 WE WHOLEHEARTEDLY TOUCH N AGREE 1000,000% 24/7 365 HALLELUJAH AMEN
Why the heck am I smiling and laughing? Your dad! The love! The family. Oh man. I miss mine too.
🥀I want to apologize for that disrespectful person. You certainly deserved better. God bless and keep you covered in His loving care. ❤
As a Black girl who grew up in Napa, CA, I feel your pain Charisma. I too had those same horrible encounters and some much worse. I also live in LA now and feel so much more accepted and do not have those issues anymore. I’m glad you got out of VA and found a city that loves and accepts us ❤️
Choosing not to be offended is a big thing. I am learning this. It’s not worth it.
My husband is going into his second year as quad and I have learned so much from watching. We’re an older couple married for 45 years and you guys give us/me so much hope. If your ever in Georgia (Atlanta or Augusta) let me know, would love meeting you.
ugh! to hear people are still judging others by the colour of their skin! we all bleed the same don't we? glad that it was the only little thing that was bad! glad you enjoyed time back with family :)
Please be careful. Try not to interact with unkind people. We have lots of mean people in this world today. Trust God to take of those logistical issues for you before you leave home ❤🙏🏾
Totally agree. People are so easily angered and violent.
Yes there are alot of people looking for trouble. Karma comes back around ❤
Some people are unkind so just let it go glad he gave the space u needed am in Jamaica
Totally understand that people can do unexpected things. In this case we had no choice but to engage because otherwise I literally couldn’t have gotten out of the vehicle, and when we confronted him inside there was a police officer actively listening to our conversation. We’re definitely mindful of ourselves after incidents in the past though, so we’re always careful. We appreciate your concern!
Giving all to God and keeping peace is best 🙏 prayers for all involved and all watching/listening around y'all as well
I love how Charisma's dad and Cole are best buds. You guys are so blessed
My BFF was diagnosed with Bulbar ALS. It's very important to take care of yourself, while taking care of those you love
Sorry you had that negative experience with the devil Hate is on the rise 😔 Even on the roads I see it People are looking for a fight Your dad & Cole have a great connection He is a trip 😂 You guys are all an inspiration God bless you Love you lots ❤️
Charisma I have lived in Virginia my entire life and was raised to treat everyone with love and kindness. I have a neighbor in Powhatan, who treats me differently because we are very different in build and skin color. Sadly, I believe she is very jealous that I am everything she isn’t and it makes me sad she’s so unhappy and insecure with who she is. It breaks my heart that no one has ever told her she matters and she’s enough just the way she is. I wrote her a letter once and left it anonymously on her car to tell her just how special she is and I wanted her to know that. I pray it made a difference for her. No matter how badly someone may treat me, I try to always remember they have a story and that we all have bad moments.
Hopefully confronting that man will make him stop and think in the future before he parks incorrectly.
It would be great if their interaction with the ignorant man changes him. However, people like him normally do not change.
Sorry you have to deal with these issues in this day and age. You and Cole were meant for each other, him and his family have no issues about your colour as you all love one another. Your families are lovely and do very well joining in. Good luck and can't wait till you move back and into your new home. Life is moving on for you and so exciting, bless you both and Sofie who will be happy to have her own garden. Take care, stay safe and positive 🎉🎉😂❤❤🐕🏡
Thank you SO much for addressing racism. So many on UA-cam ignore it or pretend it doesn't exist. it's refreshing to see you talk the truth.
So if a person randomly treats you bad or a person treats you bad because you believe that they are racist...what is the difference??
@@redshoefive3234 Since you had to ask what the difference is, you're one of the reasons it needs to be brought up instead of being ignored on UA-cam. Anyone can be mean, because they're a mean person. A person degrading you for something that you have no control over, like skin color, is wrong. That's not just a mean person.
@@HomesteadHippie so if we have no control over the other person...then we must get control over our EMOTIONS
@@redshoefive3234 You're missing the point, completely. This isn't about our reaction to racism. It's about the fact that racism still exists. And it isn't gone just because people don't talk about it. In fact, it won't go away until more people talk about it.
@@HomesteadHippie all a lot of TALKING did for me...was made me thirsty...I practice being the change that I want to see...because I can only change me.
Mean people suck, and they are everywhere. You were right to not give them the time of day. My mom always told me "don't stoop to their level". ❤ you guys!!!
That's right. When they go low, you go high!!
People are crazy. I would suggest not engaging people like this for your safety. You never know how they will respond and it’s not worth it.
Yes there are people that are still hateful. Praying for those that feel like they are better...You two are blessed..
Totally understand that people can do unexpected things. In this case we had no choice but to engage because otherwise I literally couldn’t have gotten out of the vehicle, and when we confronted him inside there was a police officer actively listening to our conversation. We’re definitely mindful of ourselves after incidents in the past though, so we’re always careful. We appreciate your concern!
Yes , you never know what someone might do out of ignorance, jealousy, or racism. He clearly has issues and is probably a lonely individual. Stay positive and keep enjoying one another. You’re both so kind and beautiful ❤xoxo😊
I had an individual who works at a store, called SMART AND FINAL on the corner of Venice and Clarington. She’s an assistant manager of the store. One day I was in line checking out with my groceries and out of nowhere for no reason whatsoever she decides to walk up to myself while I’m checking out on the side where the cashier stands because the cashier and I have a conversation about the 80s and 90s.. and hell a program called soul train back in the day was very popular and how I grew up watching soul train American bandstand and other programs that were on back in the day like Laverne and Shirley happy days Charles in charge full house, and so forth. And out of nowhere, she says, and I quote. What do you know about soul train your not from the same tribe. And I threw some major shade at her to the point where her not only did she feel humiliated for saying what she did, because she was being racist at the moment, but the cashier it was laughing because of how obnoxious and rude and races she was being.. I also reported her to the corporate office of the store, as well as the head store manager. His name is David and I can assure you she never addressed me in the same way again.. and I have never had that happen to me before and that way from one black woman to a white woman ever that’s a first for me. So I don’t blame you at all in any way,shape or form for wanting to confront the individual and for making him feel ashamed of his behavior
Yes especially in the times we live in people are unhinged
I'm from Colonial heights I would like to say Im sorry you went through that Charisma,not all of us are like that. I'm currently living in Petersburg with my boyfriend and it's a good place to be at least the area we are in. I love watching yalls videos and I'm sorry yall dealt with that
Appreciate you, thank you ❤
Stay Safe ❤
I just bought a property in Petersburg and I was educated about Colonial heights. You can definitely see the difference between the two towns and it’s sad. They definitely need to bring more business to Petersburg. It’s a predominantly black town and you can see the disparity.
Charisma you and Cole must be careful getting confrontations with people because those days people are so aggressive and like to use gun on people.
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My thoughts and fear exactly!
At the end of a long day Cole and Charisma are such a source of joy and so upbeat! One asshat didn't make them miss a step. They're the salt of the earth! God bless them with great joy and peace and prosperity in the years ahead!
I am so glad that GOD brought you all into my life! I love you all so much! 💓💓GOD bless you all!! 💜💜I always pray for you all!
Im sorry you guys had to deal with that situation. Charisma, you did right to just walk away. Other than that, I'm glad you guys enjoyed your trip home. ❤
Thank you so much!
So many white people deal with racism in Africa even in USA . Racism is bad.
My husband is white, and he is older. For some people, it can cause stress. You definitely have to know who you are within an interracial relationship, ESPECIALLY when it's a black woman with a white man. I have some stories I could tell. Not so much with a black man and a white woman. Sadly, people are ignorant.
Well said!
Exactly
Right🙏🏾❤️
You guys look awesome together. love listening to you both. hi doggie. from London United Kingdom 😢
My husband and I are in an interracial marriage (black lady/white man), and have been married for almost 25 years. We are a couple in our 60’s, and have been 25:49 fortunate and grateful to say that in all of the neighborhoods we purchased homes during our marriage we have had wonderful neighbors who treated us with respect. We are too scared to move again because we love our current neighbors and wouldn’t want to be in a place where the neighbors didn’t respect us as an interracial couple. We feel blessed.
I'm so sorry. I never knew what those lines were for and from now on I will be aware of my parking.
I really love that you guys stand up for yourselves. Of course it can be difficult, frustrating and sometimes scary, but if you don't do it, nothing will change.
Cole and your dad always makes me laugh when they’re together , I sure miss seeing both of your parents. Although I am happy y’all our here in California now.
I thank God for protecting you from that unkind ignorant man.
Nice video. Stay safe and God's continued blessings ❤
You have to be very careful sweetie. Being a young black woman because you never know people's attentions just in case he decide to attack you. be careful us sisters have to stick together sweetie but I love your channel and love y'all love sending positive energy and blessings❤😊
Is it just me or is Charisma getting prettier every video, a beautiful glow?! I’m not fishing for information just stating the obvious ❤
I was actually thinking this as I was watching this video
I’m glad you two got to visit friends and family. Lol at grandma (she sounds awesome), at Quint braiding, and at your dad laughing after give Cole the donut filling ❤❤❤.
I just adore how both sets of parents swoon over yall! Their hearts are full and Charisma's dad being down for all the antics is A1!! 😊❤
Glad to see you both, and that you had a nice visit, its amazing how some people react to you , I'm glad you handle this kind of stuff with grace . Keep the positivity . you both are such a good example for everyone, love the love.
So sorry you had to deal with such horrible people. You are both amazingly strong. All best wishes from the UK.❤
I honestly love how much humour you have not only between yourselves but with your family and friends! Love seeing you having such a great time.
I am so glad you guys enjoyed your trip home . It is always good to see family and friends . I am so excited about your new home . You will be moving in so soon . So exciting !
Cole, great speech!
Of course we shed tears😢 with you.
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So happy for you guys so much love and happiness. God bless you. ❤
It drives me nuts when people are in the hash marks and I’m not even in a chair. I have got other things going on. I’ve been a caregiver in the past and have experienced the issue from that perspective.
Ya'll are just so cute together. I've been watching for a good while now and you just keep getting cuter!!!
I am so happy for you two and all that goes on in your life. You are an inspiration!
A really great catch up chat! I'm glad all the important things went well!! So sorry to hear that you experienced such a sour interaction!! That sounds like it brought out some challenging emotions to navigate 😞 Sending you gobs of love and uplifting energy 🙏🏼 Have fun getting your home move it ready with Clem and Kelly 💖
I choked up when Cole gave his speech. Charisma, your dad's reaction was priceless, with the shot of frosting in Cole's mouth. lol
Sorry about the jerk giving you crap about the parking. We deal with that a lot here in AZ. Happy Sunday! See you next time.❤
Thanks for sharing your trip home with us. It sounds like you had a great time for the most part.Charisma, you handled the ignorance of that one individual with grace and dignity. You didn’t allow him to steal your joy. I think Cole did a wonderful job in the snippets of his best man speech we were shown. The best part of this video is seeing the interaction between you two lovebirds. You really are so cute together. See you all next time. God Bless.
Charisma and cole you are two amazing individuals keep being the positive souls that you are… you complement each so well…
You both have a beautiful heart !! I live watching you both keep up the great job!!
SO VERY HAPPY YOU GUYS HAD A NICE TIME WITH FAMILY. SO VERY SORRY YOU HAD TO ENCOUNTER THAT IGNORANT MAN. IT'S BEST TO JUST IGNORE THAT DEMON.. ALL WE CAN DO IS PRAY FOR THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE.
There are a lot of things you need to let go. These days people go “off” and get really aggressive. Really just stay away from conflict.
You’re never going to change that kind persons mind or behavior. Be safe you guys.
Well I am sad that you both had to go through that with a difficult person.Once again you both get gold stars for being so positive. ❤❤❤
Thank you for bringing awareness to those markings. I've seen them but wasn't ever aware of the purpose. I'll always do my best, to make sure, I park properly.
You two are so cute 🌞. Sorry you had such a horrible experience. Please keep yourself safe. 🙏🏾Sending love from the UK. ❤️
Glad to see that you had a great time. Love the improvements Cole's parents made at the lake. It's so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Cole you did a great job on your speech 💬 and you and Charisma looked amazing.
Glad to see you enjoying family. And you got to visit with everyone.❤❤❤❤
Can't wait to see you guys moving into your new house 🏡 that's going to be a defining moment. And welcome back.
i always love seeing your videos i absolutely love the relationship you two have
Im so sorry you all had to go through that im glad you all are doing well i will say a prayer for you all and him as well you all are great people and inspiring to all of us thank you for sharing your story and life with us im in Kentucky not sure how far from you all I am but just know people are learning so much from you all over the world prayers for everyone hopefully things will change i love everyone and respect everyone we all should be kind and stay positive i know it can be hard sometimes but love and kindness can change the world ❤
Im sry you had to go through that or that you ever have to. God bless you both!
What an amazing life you two share! Xoxo from Dallas Texas ❤❤❤
It so sad that there are so many ignorant people still out their in the world. Sorry Charisma you had to deal, with that person he must be a miserable human being.
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@jaybird1301 PREACH
So many white people deal with racism in Africa even in USA . Racism is bad.
Infuriating. Bless you both for keeping such great attitudes in spite of people's foolishness.
You are such an inspiration to me. Praying for you.
God blessed you two people can be such a mean spirit keep.doing what you do and continue doing the great things with Cole ❤️
I'm sorry that happened to you charisma. I don't think everyone really understands the amount of space needed. Thanks for educating me and anyone else. Blessing to you both and please stay safe. You are truly loved.
I am really sorry that you have to deal with this kind of stuff. It is one thing if someone doesn't know but when they are ignorant to what someone needs &/or racists also. That is unacceptable on all fronts. I am sorry that you have to deal with that. I am glad you are in this space.
Mucho ánimo Cole y Charisma, saludos y gracias por sus videos. Saludos desde Colombia 🤗
Thank you guys so much for sharing catch you again on Wednesday
I hope both of you are ok in your new home. You are am amazing that inspired many people because of your love for each other and resilience. Nothing can stop you from enjoying your life together as an amazing couple. Gos bless you.
Cole and Charisma..You both have a beautiful inspiring love ❤ story..Thankyou for sharing...You both are awesome.
KEEP SMILING...
I’m so sorry y’all you had that experience it is so sad downright embarrassing that still happens in a lot of places. I have several best friends that are of several races. I went to get my doctrine degree as a nurse practitioner online and my favorite collaborating friend was African American. We became best of friends. I respect you for handling that terrible encounter. God bless you both. Much love.
Sorry about that Charisma. Racists are so annoying. Its a matter of knowing who you are and accept yourself, actually love who you are #proudblack. Lots of love for you guys😍😍🥰🥰🥰
So many white people deal with racism in Africa even in USA . Racism is bad.
Love the story about the crash. I'm always telling people that we see things and really don't see what is going on at all! So, yeah, y'all looked cute.
So refreshing always to see you guys❤
My dad has always made it a point to call out people when they illegally park in ADA parking stalls. It embarrassed me as a teen but Ive realized its important for everyone to speak up. That way you both don't carry the burden of having to interact with potentially dangerous people. Cause lets be honest, the folk's that park there or over the access aisles (that is how the International Building Code identifies the hatch marks) are not the most empathetic people. Hopefully more people (non disabled) can help change the culture by speaking up.
I think your both amazing people! I absolutely love the the way you love and respect each other. I have rheumatoid arthritis in my legs and sometimes I can barely walk. It’s not constant but humid weather bothers me most. There was one day where I parked in the handicap spot. Legally, I have a handicap tag, and this lady beeped at me and begged me to please move my car because she was severely handicapped, and could not find any other spot. I was in a lot of pain that day and could barely stand on my legs, but I move my car because she kept sitting there and yelling at me and I didn’t wanna deal with it. I parked my car somewhere else walked up to the store in so much pain I had tears in my eyes and I watched her get out of her car and run to the store. Never again did I make such a stupid decision. Since I started watching your videos over a year ago, I’ve noticed a lot of things out in the public that are not accessible for handicap people and I have said something about it. Thank you for sharing your videos with us
Thanks for sharing! Love you both❤️
Charisma is so beautiful! She looks like can be an awesome best friend ❤ don't pay attention to those type of people --' unfortunately they will continue existing but it's our job not letting them affect our feelings! Much love for both of you 😊
Please err on the side of caution and personal safety. There are a lot of irrational people out there, and it really isn't worth getting hurt or worse over. ❤
It's so unfortunate racism is still such a thing as a black women I definitely understand what you're talking about I'm from Alabama delt with it all my life moved to California thirteen years ago for work and it's racism here racism is everywhere but far less experienced out here than in the south people really show their ignorance and it's sad because deep down their really misreable people in general.
Charisma vcs e suas familias ja sao abençoadas por vcs terem um ao outro essas pessouas racistas vai saber como sao a vida delas deve ser ums ifelizes nao fiq triste nao este 1 milhao ou mais q adora vcs vibrao pela sua felicidade e bençoes dos ceus a vcs Deus quarda vcs amo vcs todos essa raça de cretinos nao conhecem o amor e s mao de Deus
Love see on color as long as a couple is happy and enjoying each other
What others feel or think doesn't matter. I love watching you two.
Stay positive always ! You can’t change how other people are only how you react to it
Love you guys so much. Wishing you success in all your endeavors
Sorry about the person who was beyond rude to you. But have found thru the years with my adult son in a wheelchair so many have a clue as to how much extra room it takes when in a wheelchair. Love watching you both.
Sorry you guys had such a bad experience in Va. shake it off guys… you’re so much more than that..💕
Cole you'll do great speaking. You both are so engaging!
Cole And Charisma, You Know We All Absolutely Loved This Video!! ... Charisma, You Looked Incredibly Beautiful At The Wedding And Of Course Cole Was Super Handsome!! .. You Two Are Seriously Gorgeous All The Time. .. We All Get Tickled When We See How Happy You Both Are When You Meet Up With The Families!! .. YAY!! .. Makes Us All Super Happy At The Love That Surrounds You Both!! .. We All Loved Cole's Speech Also!! .. Love You Both!! 🥰❤
Thanks for this vlog. Travel and be safe. I know how you felt. Smile. Have an amazing day! Cheers. 2023.
I am so glad y’all had a fun trip in Virginia. I am so sorry you had deal with rude people in the parking lot. I still love y’all. Love watching you.
Am glad that you both came back safely.
I used ro live in Richmond, the fan, ugh..so glad to be in Colorado now. 😊 i love yall. Best wishes for your future...how exciting...living in CA, starting a fam..trying to...im sure u will...just super happy for you!!!!!
Always enjoy watching you guys!
Congrats to you both take care !
OOH .....a boy karen? Heads for the cop? typical 🙄! These "guttersnipes" are everywhere. Their actions show the color of their soul unfailingly every single time. Im glad you guys are ok. Like you said, he is miserable. Your speech, the little you shared.....was perfect 😊😊
You two are the most travelled couple. Life is certainly treating Ya'll kindly. Wishing you both good luck in Ya'll quest to becoming parents. It's all sounding so stressful but God be Ya'll guide. Don't think I would've been able to endure all Charisma's, dramas. Needles and extractions and all that jazz. But good luck to you and Cole's future happenings. 🙏💖🥳💐✝️
You two will never bomb!!!! Educate people is a must!!!! Take Care!
Hold fast to your faith and it will keep you.❤️🙏🙏🙏
Guys glad that the trip home was safe and the wedding looked beautiful! I know that you two are glad to have each other in times where people are 🤢 nasty. Here’s to the new home and move!!!🎉
Happy Sunday!
Don’t let the bad folks get you down.
Hi guys! So sorry to hear about your unfortunate experience.. There are so many hurting people out there and we may never know exactly why.. My encouragement is to try and see a hurting person through God's eyes and be his heart and hands to them.. God is the judge. BLESSINGS ❤
I love your comment. It is so true. It’s sometimes difficult in this day & age with so many people hurting so openly in public & lashing out at others because of their pain. Our instinct is to react, but it’s better to step back & see if there is a way we can help them (as long as we are not in harms way). God loves us all the same ❤
Thank you for the update ❤️
I'm glad for guys do what makes you feel good ❤❤❤
You both Rock!
It work's for you.
Outstanding...
Keep moving forward.
Great! Progress.. Kool🎉🎉😊😊
I love it! You guys are so good together, I love your relationship. I want my person too, hopefully one day I will get him, before it is too late. Well it has been cold on the Northside of California, It has only been in the sixties here, Long Beach was in the sixties too, this weekend. I hope you all have a meet and greet this year.