How to Officiate a Wedding For The First Time: Your 10-step Game Plan!

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @marriedbymonq
    @marriedbymonq 11 місяців тому +3

    This is helpful. I'm in vegas and I plan on getting alot of ceremonies and this is exactly what I need. I'm also enrolling on your online course. Do you do conventions and if so are you coming to vegas?

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  11 місяців тому +2

      Hey glad to help - and can't wait to work with you as member of our Unboring!Wedding community! I was just in Vegas in November for the past 2 years at WeddingMBA as a speaker and exhibitor and treated all members to dinner - and I"m already signed up to attent next year! Maybe I'll get to meet you in person then...? 👊

    • @marriedbymonq
      @marriedbymonq 11 місяців тому

      @@unboringwedding Oh definately will be there. I'm taking your course nest week so I can't wait to see how I can impliment the resources you have to offer to my ceremonies. I will be excited to meet you and I will be attending for sure. I'm subbed so I can keep up with everything there is to know. 🤵‍♂👰👊

    • @marriedbymonq
      @marriedbymonq 11 місяців тому

      @@unboringwedding Just signed up for the class and talking it now. Very Awesome and already reserved my spot for MBA 2024. see you there sir.
      MarriedByMonq 💍

  • @mattmeyernews
    @mattmeyernews 4 місяці тому +8

    With your help, I officiated my first wedding back in 2022. This year, I'm doing three for close friends and family members in the span of two months. Naturally, I'm back to review with your excellent guides. Couldn't do it without you!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  4 місяці тому

      Wow, thanks Matt! All the very best to you! And congrats for being the "go-to guy" for officiating in your community! 'Love it!

  • @mtz9939
    @mtz9939 11 місяців тому +8

    Not only will I be officiating the wedding, I am the father of the bride. I have experience speaking in public but I feel this will be much different. I consider it a great honor that my daughter and her fiance have asked me. Should be fun.

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  11 місяців тому +2

      Father of the bride *and* officiant! Congrats! It always goes amazingly well when you engage the guests and tell the couple's story. You're gonna have a blast! 👊

    • @carinaoliveira5850
      @carinaoliveira5850 3 місяці тому

      I will be officiating my sister's wedding next weekend! Whether people think it or not, it's a lot more pressure when it's your own family... Wish me luck!

  • @vycw9031
    @vycw9031 9 місяців тому +5

    I am the best "man" at my friends wedding and the officiant (the original officiant was to be the grooms mom but she had surgery and can no longer take that role) I am nervous as all hell but they're my best friends so im excited. Your videos have definitely helped me collect thoughts and organize thank you!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  9 місяців тому

      Thanks for your comment! Being nervous is understandable - as long as you do the work like you're doing now, you can get organized putting it all together and then down-to-earth at the front when you're performing. You can't fail! You got this. Thanks for watching! 👊

  • @clemclemclem-1
    @clemclemclem-1 Рік тому +4

    so glad to find this! im not officiating my brother’s wedding for another 18 months, but im glad to have some foundation of knowledge to come back to when it’s closer to time!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  11 місяців тому

      Hey congrats on officiating for your bro, Emily! And thanks for watching. You got this! 👊

  • @joshuamulligan4155
    @joshuamulligan4155 2 місяці тому +1

    Thorough, thoughtful, helpful, and calming!! Thank you! I am officiating my niece's wedding and have been listening to many of your videos!

  • @sterlingsmith1824
    @sterlingsmith1824 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for your videos and free guide! I used them to successfully officiate my friends wedding yesterday! Couldn’t have done it without you!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  Рік тому

      Oh my goodness thanks a million, Sterling! It really is my pleasure and honor to help out - and your grat is very much appreciated! I am thrilled that you did well - congrats!

  • @christopherennevorennevor7507
    @christopherennevorennevor7507 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much. I was as to do this suddenly and it's in 8 days. Never done it before but thank God for you. Much blessings 🙏. One love 🇯🇲.

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  8 місяців тому +1

      So glad I could help. 'Hope it went amazingly well! Thanks for letting me know.

  • @drew4046
    @drew4046 Рік тому +4

    Thanks man, you truly settled my nerves and made me realize I GOT THIS !!! Much appreciated 🙏

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  11 місяців тому

      Love this! So glad to help. Cheers - and thanks for letting me know!

  • @sterlingsmith1824
    @sterlingsmith1824 Рік тому +2

    Your 10 step guide was the key for helping me successfully officiate my friends wedding! Keep up the good work!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  Рік тому

      I’m so thrilled to hear it - all the best to you! Thanks for letting me know!

  • @BillFray
    @BillFray Місяць тому +1

    Excellent video, thank you very much!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  Місяць тому

      You're so welcome! Happy to help - and thanks!

  • @erat91
    @erat91 Рік тому +35

    Great, i thought i had it all figure it, then i watched a few of your videos and realized I'm doomed...

    • @ttinney55431
      @ttinney55431 Рік тому +4

      No, you got this! Your day is going to be great. You're marrying your person, no matter what- that's going to be a great day.

    • @mayram-haspil4897
      @mayram-haspil4897 4 місяці тому

      😂❤😂

    • @mayram-haspil4897
      @mayram-haspil4897 4 місяці тому

      ​@ttinney55431 💪👌💪

    • @ogramresse
      @ogramresse 2 місяці тому

      I'm feeling the same! Determined not to doom this I have a hurricane then wedding on Sunday. Pray I do well on this!

  • @TOIISGREEN
    @TOIISGREEN Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. You truly have rised the bar for me to do the right things for the two families.

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  Рік тому

      So happy to hear it! Thank you for your comment and for watching!

  • @johnr.seydel3821
    @johnr.seydel3821 Місяць тому

    Fantastic video. Thank you so much for this. ❤

  • @Quadkite
    @Quadkite 3 місяці тому

    This is a very helpful video. Do you happen to have a link to your spreadsheet template used for creating the script?

  • @mimosawastaken
    @mimosawastaken Рік тому +1

    do you have any video on the legal part of this. like on the certificate do the couple need to right down their full name or just and last!!
    can i make my own certificate if i dont want to purchase a template online .
    i have a lot of question that has to do the legal portion of this!!!!!!

  • @ReactionsToTheClassics
    @ReactionsToTheClassics Рік тому

    So appreciate this, thanks!!

  • @mrsdoolittlefarm
    @mrsdoolittlefarm 9 місяців тому

    Really helpful advice, thank you so much

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  2 місяці тому

      You're so welcome! Glad I could help and thanks for watching!

  • @ScottymanPhoto
    @ScottymanPhoto 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much! EXCELLENT!

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  2 місяці тому +1

      You're very welcome! Thanks for watching and leaving a comment! 👊

  • @ryanhorn2239
    @ryanhorn2239 Рік тому

    Do you have a cheaper copy of your script? I am only planning to do one friends wedding. Or do you have a recommendation for a free script?

  • @alanlizama2800
    @alanlizama2800 5 місяців тому

    what type of questions do you Put in the questioner for the couple ? help please . thank you!

  • @MyralynnAlicea
    @MyralynnAlicea 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m officiating my best friends brothers wedding in August. First time!!!

  • @hildasepang2532
    @hildasepang2532 3 місяці тому

    Greatest.....Thank you❤🎉

  • @lalathomaz
    @lalathomaz Рік тому

    Great video! Thank you for all these great points! :)

  • @dimplesp4046
    @dimplesp4046 Рік тому

    Very informative video thank you ❤

  • @OMGDILLIGAFbeeetch
    @OMGDILLIGAFbeeetch Рік тому

    They don’t want the script is that okay also?

  • @anniej.4539
    @anniej.4539 2 місяці тому

    I didn’t see where the kiss comes in? Did I miss something?

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey there! It's bundled with #6 The Pronouncement at 9:30 of the video. :)

  • @katiesautter
    @katiesautter Рік тому

    Wow this is AWESOME. I just sent my officiant this 🤩 is it ok if I write some of the script for him or should I let him write it? He’s my very good friend

    • @surenders4025
      @surenders4025 Рік тому

      Let them write and you then review and rewrite if required

  • @arleylopez3432
    @arleylopez3432 Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @wahinenuiloa
    @wahinenuiloa 3 місяці тому

    LOL..."Animals coming down the isle"😅

  • @trevorjesse7001
    @trevorjesse7001 2 місяці тому

    I’m sry……. HUSBAND AND HUSBAND????

  • @willcd
    @willcd Рік тому

    Husband and husband? What is this nonsense?

    • @unboringwedding
      @unboringwedding  Рік тому +12

      It’s the real world where we officiate weddings. Where do you live? :-)