DeBarge brothers really kept us light-skinned Brothers relevant for many years thanks for the beautiful music it's sad to hear how things when down with them the abuse the drug addiction this family has a true Living testament Unfortunately they lost their brother to this non-discriminatory disease prayerfully the most high continue to watch over this family and hopefully we'll hear some music from them soon
So glad he is doing good!!! May God continue to bless you and heavy prayers are being sent up for you and all of your family!! Stay strong and remember that God gives the toughest battles to his strongest soldier's...fight on!!
I am enjoying this so much. It's so close up a personal with the El's real life. I love how he keeps it so real. Real fine! Ok, I had to throw that in. Lol.
I like how he casually put Monica in her place....he basically told her um imma be in my kids life, but as for u and I....t'aint happening so get off me....ugh she irritated me....
of corse I didn't get to have 10 of El"s children like I wanted when I was young and in loved with him. How can this man still have me looking at him the same way the same goose bumps and the same weakness in my knees
I agree, unfortunately, it is so much he has to do to get there that may not agree with him spiritually. I have read that Charlie and many others have sold their souls for fame and fortune. I would like for El to get big, but not at a price that he may regret.
"Simply picking up the phone and calling." lol! Monica just wants El to call and see how SHE'S doing. I couldn't blame her. From the looks of her facial gestures she wanted to give him a ....!
El did not have time to call HER and chat. We know what her problem was. She was saying he was more guarded than he use to be. So in other words she wants more than a "friendship". El put some clarification on it when he said he is NOT guarded with his CHILDREN. So SHE wants more attention from him for HERSELF. He was not guarded when she became pregnant with his twin boys. I do not blame him for being guarded because truth be her problem has to do with more than his sons. She needs to move on and let him have the relationship with his sons and it is not about her as much now. She sounds like that is what she wants.
Ron Fair gives me the impression that he really had no idea of El's R&B 'Legend' status when he says that he doesn't know why all these people were jumping on board to support El. He then says maybe all the good will responses are because certain artists were collaborating on the cd!?! What!?! I hope the response to El's 2010 BET performance opened Ron's eyes. Duh....
El is very handsome and quite talented....but after fathering 12 children (reportedly), I would hope that he will choose to not have anymore. He may earn a certain amount of money from singing and performing, but he is obviously not a rich man....and child support is not cheap!
Apparently some of the children are grown and are quite talented as well...and I'm thinking El has a some connections and will make sure the children that have musical talent will have the same opportunities he has...but yes...child support is pricey....
I will continue to pray for El DeBarge’s family, and musical journey. Love you always. Just remember what brother Bobby told, which is to just be yourself, you are Blessed and please told ever forget that love. God Bless love’s 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
El Debarge luv u don't let that woman ride on u she should understand not put all this pressure on u I'm a big fan and a little protective of El Debarge
Robin Haynes You are on the outside looking in. You don't know what she has been through with El. El is a fantasy in your head. She is dealing with the real El who has been a junkie for years. Now I love El the artist and he seems like a really sweet dude, but when you are addicted, you ain't in your right mind and you are not able to function normally. You burn a lot of bridges. You hurt a lot of people. You cant be depended on.
Sounds like you are the thirsty one!! Bet if EL met you, he could do you in. He have been fighting some serious demons, she probably knows that he has to step back, breath slowly, meditate on God, and family. Remember, he is still in that environment, the music industry.
@@dorothybarnes87 WOW……what you said was mean and disrespectful to that person. We all want El to succeed. But there was some truth in what she said. Be blessed.
omg i am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy he is clean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All of this is really beautiful, I mean... really though! Usually, I just look at others resurgence back onto the scene as the usual "Pop Up" again effect. However, when it comes to El Debarge's story; there is something completely extraordinary yet, extremely triumphant about his journey throughout the years of his life. Which leaves me feeling relieved, joyous, and thankful towards God Himself and how He takes care of/preserve His own people in every situation, etc. Love Ya, EL and your siblings too!
Personally I think that he needs a different producer. Jimmy Jam or Lewis whoever they are too close and they need to pull in a new market for EL for example he already has us. He could be singing off key I will still buy his music. I love El Debarge reminds me of when I was a kid skating on roller wheels not blades. Me and my friends we would buy magazines with El Debarge on them. Michael Jackson, The Silvers. all of em
@rosamaryful...I've noticed that too. I get the sense that El Jr. and El don't have the best relationship. Just from posts that I've read on El J's Twitter page.
El reminds me so much of Britney Spears because they are both to fragile for fame. I just hope all those people around El don't end up stealing his money.
If Monica's "thirsty", who can blame her? I mean LOOK AT HIM! Besides, it's clear from this vid he was/is still hitting that. If anything, I'd say the thirst was mutual because they BOTH had "hot booty call" written all over them. It's still poppin'...at least when they did this, but perhaps even now. Meh.
if he could get with some other producers someone who does USHER, Timberlake, or i don't know i think that the sound could be more different and he could pull in other age groups. because he's timeless i mean he looks GREAT he looks maybe 40. but how many guys his age can pull it off. He's so handsome and seems like a really nice fella
@Maxxine40..last I heard El is went to rehab in Mississippi ( source: he said it on Tom Joyner) The Farmers are no longer his managers he went back to his old manager (source: another interview with El). His Twitter and FB account were run by the record company so that's why its been idle. El said he will get his own but that was months ago during a radio interview in ATL..that's all I've found out so far from stalking El on the net...j/k...but I love me some El....
OK The show is reality and it's written. You see Adris for a reason. Understand that. there is a reason for it and it's nothing to do with us nor el. I'm sure he would have all the family on there or whoever but he's very nice guy. But Adris is probably very pushy and also she may be sleeping with that white dude or someone in the thing she's hooked up with and they wrote her into that thing. El is just going along she's grown but she looks the same age as him.
His ex seems like a nag...she's prolly the one who drove him to do the dope in the first place...with all her naggin'...Lol. He needed something to release the tension and juss...did sum dope and iot spun out of control. The more naggin' she did, the more dope he did...prolly! Lol.
Ramone DeCurta El is an addict. Addicts are unreliable. What if he relapse and disappears from their lives again? That will devastate them emotionally. I understand her completely. That is what a good mama does who loves her children. She protects them. She is afraid that he will break their hearts and is trying to protect them from pain. I like her. She is protecting her children.
Pat P El DeBarge is a FORMER addict. He is no longer on drugs and he doesn't need haters like you either. He has a good relationship with his children. Instead of always saying stuff like that, let's support him.
DeBarge brothers really kept us light-skinned Brothers relevant for many years thanks for the beautiful music it's sad to hear how things when down with them the abuse the drug addiction this family has a true Living testament Unfortunately they lost their brother to this non-discriminatory disease prayerfully the most high continue to watch over this family and hopefully we'll hear some music from them soon
Color isn't a factor
God has truly walked with El and blessed him. He's absolutely wonderful.!!
So glad he is doing good!!! May God continue to bless you and heavy prayers are being sent up for you and all of your family!! Stay strong and remember that God gives the toughest battles to his strongest soldier's...fight on!!
You're my inspiration since the early 90s in Milwaukee when I met your family
Although this man loves women, Music will always be his main woman. God Bless you, El.
It is nice that how he speaks with Monica about the children it shows he is interested in getting back in his children's life.
That family has some good looking genes. And his voice is still great despite his drug abuse.
I LOVE his determination. My family was on skid row 20yrs and recently decided to leave it alone...change isnt easy. MUCH LOVE EL.....
I can't imagine anyone not being nice to him...
They are both beautiful. I hope he stays sober and embrace the love and support he is getting from family and friends.
I am enjoying this so much. It's so close up a personal with the El's real life. I love how he keeps it so real. Real fine! Ok, I had to throw that in. Lol.
I enjoyed watching this documentary, El Debarge all the best to you
He's absolutely beautiful!
he was!!a an he is , big crush on the debarges!!
Yes he is!😋..now his daughter looks more like James plus she's tall and slim like him as well..
Keep going El...You all are among the Greatest!!!!!!
This family has put a lot of great music out I basically grew up on there music love the family especially El Debarge
Still one of the most handsome man in my eyes...We all fall down but getting back Up....is where it's at...❤️💕❤️💕
Praying for all of you. Only Jesus and his Holy Angels can help this family.
I really hope he can stay sober, I am happy for him
I like how he casually put Monica in her place....he basically told her um imma be in my kids life, but as for u and I....t'aint happening so get off me....ugh she irritated me....
of corse I didn't get to have 10 of El"s children like I wanted when I was young and in loved with him. How can this man still have me looking at him the same way the same goose bumps and the same weakness in my knees
Yes indeed
El barge is so beautiful
I think El DeBarge could make a bigger comeback than Charlie Wilson. He's too talented.
I agree, unfortunately, it is so much he has to do to get there that may not agree with him spiritually. I have read that Charlie and many others have sold their souls for fame and fortune. I would like for El to get big, but not at a price that he may regret.
I sooo can't imagine him in prison. ugh!
"Simply picking up the phone and calling." lol! Monica just wants El to call and see how SHE'S doing. I couldn't blame her. From the looks of her facial gestures she wanted to give him a ....!
El did not have time to call HER and chat. We know what her problem was. She was saying he was more guarded than he use to be. So in other words she wants more than a "friendship". El put some clarification on it when he said he is NOT guarded with his CHILDREN. So SHE wants more attention from him for HERSELF. He was not guarded when she became pregnant with his twin boys. I do not blame him for being guarded because truth be her problem has to do with more than his sons. She needs to move on and let him have the relationship with his sons and it is not about her as much now. She sounds like that is what she wants.
Ron Fair gives me the impression that he really had no idea of El's R&B 'Legend' status when he says that he doesn't know why all these people were jumping on board to support El. He then says maybe all the good will responses are because certain artists were collaborating on the cd!?! What!?! I hope the response to El's 2010 BET performance opened Ron's eyes. Duh....
El said, Quit riding on me...bangin on me...smoothness
Love the honestly ❤funny I remember the rapp'n granny... but also my mom was on Facebook at 82.... please😂
Thanks for posting this! Great video.
Thank You so much for putting this on UA-cam!! For real, THANX!!
El is very handsome and quite talented....but after fathering 12 children (reportedly), I would hope that he will choose to not have anymore. He may earn a certain amount of money from singing and performing, but he is obviously not a rich man....and child support is not cheap!
God is always 🙏♥there..always in the mix..
Apparently some of the children are grown and are quite talented as well...and I'm thinking El has a some connections and will make sure the children that have musical talent will have the same opportunities he has...but yes...child support is pricey....
El debarge is my inspiration and the music is wonderful
I will continue to pray for El DeBarge’s family, and musical journey. Love you always. Just remember what brother Bobby told, which is to just be yourself, you are Blessed and please told ever forget that love. God Bless love’s 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
It's nice to see Adris sitting in on the meetings. I hope all his children have a relationship with one another.
God bless you El and your family.
Sing El....Love him
El Debarge luv u don't let that woman ride on u she should understand not put all this pressure on u I'm a big fan and a little protective of El Debarge
Robin Haynes You are on the outside looking in. You don't know what she has been through with El. El is a fantasy in your head. She is dealing with the real El who has been a junkie for years. Now I love El the artist and he seems like a really sweet dude, but when you are addicted, you ain't in your right mind and you are not able to function normally. You burn a lot of bridges. You hurt a lot of people. You cant be depended on.
We don't know what the lady experienced to El when he was so high. Anyway, hoping for all the best to El and we all here to support him :)
@@slowhand4897 Ikr...he is an addict to drugs & women.
Sounds like you are the thirsty one!! Bet if EL met you, he could do you in. He have been fighting some serious demons, she probably knows that he has to step back, breath slowly, meditate on God, and family. Remember, he is still in that environment, the music industry.
@@dorothybarnes87
WOW……what you said was mean and disrespectful to that person. We all want El to succeed. But there was some truth in what she said. Be blessed.
I remember meeting his mom at Christ Bible Center in Chicago,didn’t know who she was then, but she was very sweet
Fatherhood is more than providing - its about SHOWING that you love them by calling them, no excuses. We are ALL busy.
omg i am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy he is clean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All of this is really beautiful, I mean... really though! Usually, I just look at others resurgence back onto the scene as the usual "Pop Up" again effect. However, when it comes to El Debarge's story; there is something completely extraordinary yet, extremely triumphant about his journey throughout the years of his life. Which leaves me feeling relieved, joyous, and thankful towards God Himself and how He takes care of/preserve His own people in every situation, etc.
Love Ya, EL and your siblings too!
Legend
Just wondering whom out of the brothers God's going to take to a higher level to preach his word 🙏
Love it 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 👍🏾
Finally, El Debarge you go to the record studio next to my place but only a month after I move out...Blaaaaah!
Personally I think that he needs a different producer. Jimmy Jam or Lewis whoever they are too close and they need to pull in a new market for EL for example he already has us. He could be singing off key I will still buy his music. I love El Debarge reminds me of when I was a kid skating on roller wheels not blades. Me and my friends we would buy magazines with El Debarge on them. Michael Jackson, The Silvers. all of em
Al, you are still fine and can sing.
Miska is sexy also. I can't believe how beautiful El Debarge is
I can't believe El has a daughter that old
Karla Sheabon He had his oldest daughter at 16 so yeah, she's a little older than me.
Amen!
They walk just alike
He's talking about the "Rappin Granny from Where in the World Is Carmen San Diego.
She looks just like her Dad!!
He was warming up so he can get back on stage to do the stankly leg
I love you 👏👏👏
@rosamaryful...I've noticed that too. I get the sense that El Jr. and El don't have the best relationship. Just from posts that I've read on El J's Twitter page.
El reminds me so much of Britney Spears because they are both to fragile for fame. I just hope all those people around El don't end up stealing his money.
I don't think she is nagging just wanting to protect her boys heart.
Leslie Boozer I don't really see her as nagging either.
He looks like John Leguizamo
If Monica's "thirsty", who can blame her? I mean LOOK AT HIM! Besides, it's clear from this vid he was/is still hitting that.
If anything, I'd say the thirst was mutual because they BOTH had "hot booty call" written all over them. It's still poppin'...at least when they did this, but perhaps even now. Meh.
if he could get with some other producers someone who does USHER, Timberlake, or i don't know i think that the sound could be more different and he could pull in other age groups. because he's timeless i mean he looks GREAT he looks maybe 40. but how many guys his age can pull it off. He's so handsome and seems like a really nice fella
@Maxxine40..last I heard El is went to rehab in Mississippi ( source: he said it on Tom Joyner) The Farmers are no longer his managers he went back to his old manager (source: another interview with El). His Twitter and FB account were run by the record company so that's why its been idle. El said he will get his own but that was months ago during a radio interview in ATL..that's all I've found out so far from stalking El on the net...j/k...but I love me some El....
😂💐you've been doing the stalking alright. We all have I guess lol
Are you confusing Diddy's poorly worded "I got my 1st kiss off El Debarge" meaning an El song?
@blackbeltlady1 Ugh!! I agree, she comes off desperate to me smh @ her.
Mishka is a cutie, also.
So dam good looking half and half Yellow peoples YELLAs, love the come back from hell!!!!!!!
You sound real childish ,get a life.
OK The show is reality and it's written. You see Adris for a reason. Understand that. there is a reason for it and it's nothing to do with us nor el. I'm sure he would have all the family on there or whoever but he's very nice guy. But Adris is probably very pushy and also she may be sleeping with that white dude or someone in the thing she's hooked up with and they wrote her into that thing. El is just going along she's grown but she looks the same age as him.
How old is Monica? She looks like she's 12!LOL
MrMaxismybaby she's in her 30s they say she was in destiny child in the beginning
MrMaxismybaby he's to old for her
Clearly not.she is probably in her mid to late 40s now
His ex seems like a nag...she's prolly the one who drove him to do the dope in the first place...with all her naggin'...Lol. He needed something to release the tension and juss...did sum dope and iot spun out of control. The more naggin' she did, the more dope he did...prolly! Lol.
Ramone DeCurta El is an addict. Addicts are unreliable. What if he relapse and disappears from their lives again? That will devastate them emotionally. I understand her completely. That is what a good mama does who loves her children.
She protects them. She is afraid that he will break their hearts and is trying to protect them from pain. I like her. She is protecting her children.
Pat P El DeBarge is a FORMER addict. He is no longer on drugs and he doesn't need haters like you either. He has a good relationship with his children. Instead of always saying stuff like that, let's support him.
@@patp2690
You are right on point. That’s not being a hater, but a mother concerned about her boys.