You have to remember that women go thru cycles, as much as they may be into you one day, the next it may change so this also falls in line that you can't force things with them because they will peak in interest and it will drop. Us guys read too much into a woman intitial interest and think she will come back with that same energy, so expect it to change depending on the type of woman your with. Don't focus on one woman until one keeps stepping up to the plate.
Very well said! I learned this the hard way. About the video I've learned this too. Its not about just being happy before with someone else. Its just good health to be centered and happy with yourself. Its self-esteem and how healthy that is. So IMO it goes beyond women. If you are happy with yourself it permeates into other parts of your life. Not to say it will be perfect. Direction and not perfection.
@@yourmainful It has also been my experience of never getting the kind of love I provided back from a woman. My first love had moments of this but I believe it was because I was her first and she idealized me in those moments (it wasn't so much of what I was doing but what she was fantasizing about partially materializing). I'm 40 now and as much as I'm always on the lookout for the woman that knocks my socks off (my current girl does and she's awesome) you are correct in saying that these women are extremely rare. It seems like most women's default state is that of "hmmmm It seems I got the best I could get from my current man, let's window shop and see what's better out there". The biggest challenge for all men out there is that even when you find a girl that knocks your socks off, the chances are low that you're going to knock her socks off.
Corey I really enjoy your videos because they aren't trying to make you be something you aren't. They are teaching you to be the person you were meant to be. Thanks!
Yes I just made a bird haven outside my backdoor. Outside my screened in porch. I have wanted one my whole life so I can relax and see Tennessee birds. Always doing stuff with friends and helping people , animals
A parent who stays in a bad marriage for the sake of their child is a strong human. Because he/she places the needs of his/her child above their own needs, which I don't think any weak person can do.
Yeah but Corey wouldn't advise that. The person is stronger if they leave and move on. Instead of being "parents" to kids who will end up being like them one day.
Yep. Found your videos cause of a breakup. But this one, Hid that she was cheating. Then she blatantly did it. And I had to end it. We did start talking again after. But I wanted to be just fwb. Then she keeps saying she misses me and wants a relationship while she was still looking for other people to talk. So I told her I was done talking to her. Of course I'm upset about the situation. And I did not expect someone to be like this.. but none of this was my fault. She wasnt mature enough to talk things out and say she wasnt that into me instead of cheating.... insecure piece of crap. Never again. And I was totally focused on myself the entire relationship. And I believed I courted her properly too. I learned a lot though. And most the things corey teaches I pretty much figured it was that way. The reassurance from your videos definitely helps. And I do plan on buying the book. Mainly to help me focus on myself more and how to pick up more chicks. Cause I dont tend to have too many chick friends. Because I dont prefer it but it is a good idea to have some
Honestly i dont want a relationship with someone who is so unreliable that she backs away for days and i have to play games like pretending i dont care and stuff like that.
Loved it. Great advice. I also prefer the stuff you teach vs pick up stuff. Pick up stuff is very lacking and doesn't take care of the entire relationship part - or even working on ones self before getting into a relationship.
Hey Corey, thanks for all the help. Wish I would have found your videos a week sooner. Anyway, the first 3 minutes of this video are dead on correct about how the way things happen and how one should be. Thanks! I'm working on getting out of some ruts and this stuff helps a lot. Keep it up!
Guy at 23:50 pisses me off just hearing about him. Watch his actions... he's showing clearly what his priorities are. I hope the woman has owned what she deserves and gets it.
16:10 Once you understand what men and women really respond to, it gives you the power to attract somebody that you perceive as being out of your league and knocks your F’ing socks off. Having sex with somebody every couple of weeks to have a release is not the way to go. 38:40 Wanting vs. needing
When your single for along time being single sucks you start to get tired of being single and want to share your life with someone and they world seem to have a problem with that. Perhaps I wanna break free from being single not waste my time with guys assholes. But every time I get involved other people can't mind there own business they like the media they want know everything of my life and don't want me to be happy or with anyone ahhh!
22:03 It's not even necessarily that 'he's a pussy and won't end it'. Many times it's simply 'words' = 'actions'? Words and actions need to align. If they don't: red sirens should be going off. This goes for men or women in any relationship, even friendships. Sometimes people are straight up lying to you. Other times they don't even know their words and actions aren't lining up. Either way, things are not going to turn out the way they SAY they will turn out. Cut bait while you can.
What do think I said I'm glad I'm not in a relationship. I said the same thing dude. I love you a lot. I you best. Check out my rap music on you tube and put in rapper a young in and you will see my rap video on UA-cam.
Dude, whats crazy is that I realize now after so long of following and studying your work I Finally understand the dynamics of what I had created with my ex. Even though my last relationship started so perfectly and naturally; Because I chose to ignore some red flags, failed to communicate on my own behalf, (along with other things about myself I didn’t have whipped into shape), after the first 6 months of pure love and attraction and meeting eachothers needs perfectly for that point in time things started falling apart quite rapidly. I let my fears and insecurities run the show after I really let myself open up. Needless to say, it blew up in both our faces. I’m 23 and have known her since 3rd grade, and even had a crush on her. Apparently she liked me too. But after a really shitty upbringing it led to more tears than I’d ever hope to experience. Never again. And even now its so hard to take the things you talk about and apply them to a relationship especially with a person sharing a mutual attraction thats lasted so long. It still shakes me to the core because not only do I not want that to happen again, but Idk that’ll ever get a chance for a really deep relationship like that again. But maybe that just me sharing my doubts.. gotta feel it to heal it, right? Either way thats one thing that fucks with me heavily, honestly. Because I also know that I can’t go back since she left me for someone else. Ruining that foundation of trust and really showing me that she has no integrity, doesn’t respect monogamy or value loyalty.. Since then I really went on a deep search for answers, and man this is like the 5th time I’ve seen this particular video in addition to have listened to your 3% audiobook at least 7 times now forsure, probably more but I lost count. And I just feel things clicking in my head now when I interact with people. I can see how the person I’m becoming is really putting me more where I need to be, less where I don’t, and discovering almost everything around me that I can put in either of those camps. Further expanding on my bank of knowledge, and dude. I wanna shake your hand and give you a hug. All I have to give to you now is a story. More of a Work in Progress story, but nevertheless I know I’m on the right path. Once I get my things more aligned, next thing to give is a generous donation because man this stuff is Gold. Even though with my ex I felt there was so much negativity and wasted potential because of what I failed to realize, ontop of us both being incomplete. I feel it put me in this plce to discover myself much quicker than I ever would have because the reality is I haven’t experience anything like that ever. And its inspired me to want to learn how to find and create more of that. I’m still struggling with that whole thing where I want to show her how much I’ve changed, or I want her to still be prt of that. Its so hard man, but like I said work in progress 🤷♂️ i havent hit her up since she contacted me and I plan on making that indefinite if it has to be. Regardless this shits tough, man. Salute. Oh and Happy 4th of July, brother. Thanks for everything you do. Regardless if this gets to you, I just had to share this.
I feel you man. Having a deep connection with someone that you've known for long... and it goes south... maann, it's a trip. I am in the same boat right now. Check out Teal Swan, she's on the woo side of things but she offers some amazing perspectives ua-cam.com/video/SSrlfxcEULo/v-deo.html
Thank you Corey for your videos. My partner left me and is with another man. I feel strong anxiety everyday and struggle with it. I often play your videos when im trying to sleep. Being alone faced with objects and memories tears at me. Heart races going to any place we went to. Trying to get counciling to help. Anyway thank you so much.
Growing up with sisters gives you these perspectives from a sibling viewpoint. Honestly, this email is a guy who waited around patiently while his lady rode the CC, and then finally was convinced that he's the one she can lean on best.
Hate my life struggling with ma business single broke physically mentally drained have no social life gave ma family 🖕 I'm there for my kids but struggle with their mother
Women could certainly helped us dumbfounded Men by vocalizing that they need a little time to see how they feel about it instead of just disappearing without a word
When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.
Now that is good 👌🏼
He is the only man I listen to for counsel on UA-cam.
he literally changed my mindset to women and aspects of my life.
Yeah. Corey really is the no BS channel.
He is GOAT.
I'm currently 2 weeks in with a new mindset I'm extremely gr8full for this man!
Same here !
When you find happiness with yourself you don't need anyone. I enjoy what I do, I love my home, and feel happy.
You have to remember that women go thru cycles, as much as they may be into you one day, the next it may change so this also falls in line that you can't force things with them because they will peak in interest and it will drop. Us guys read too much into a woman intitial interest and think she will come back with that same energy, so expect it to change depending on the type of woman your with. Don't focus on one woman until one keeps stepping up to the plate.
Very well said! I learned this the hard way. About the video I've learned this too. Its not about just being happy before with someone else. Its just good health to be centered and happy with yourself. Its self-esteem and how healthy that is. So IMO it goes beyond women. If you are happy with yourself it permeates into other parts of your life. Not to say it will be perfect. Direction and not perfection.
Wow... I needed this. Thank you.
@@yourmainful It has also been my experience of never getting the kind of love I provided back from a woman. My first love had moments of this but I believe it was because I was her first and she idealized me in those moments (it wasn't so much of what I was doing but what she was fantasizing about partially materializing). I'm 40 now and as much as I'm always on the lookout for the woman that knocks my socks off (my current girl does and she's awesome) you are correct in saying that these women are extremely rare. It seems like most women's default state is that of "hmmmm It seems I got the best I could get from my current man, let's window shop and see what's better out there". The biggest challenge for all men out there is that even when you find a girl that knocks your socks off, the chances are low that you're going to knock her socks off.
Corey I really enjoy your videos because they aren't trying to make you be something you aren't. They are teaching you to be the person you were meant to be. Thanks!
Well said dude!
@@georgegray2712 🎉 11:35 😢😢😢 11:3🎉6
Yes I just made a bird haven outside my backdoor. Outside my screened in porch. I have wanted one my whole life so I can relax and see Tennessee birds. Always doing stuff with friends and helping people , animals
Damn you straight up described why omg husband and I are separating. I could not handle his weakness any longer.
you're so right. the universe does keep bringing us situations until we have the strength and courage to not fall for the same toxic situations.
I can relate 💯
One of my absolute favorite videos. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Corey.
Truly empowering! It is really a big help to every couple to build a happy and abundant of love in their relationship.
A parent who stays in a bad marriage for the sake of their child is a strong human. Because he/she places the needs of his/her child above their own needs, which I don't think any weak person can do.
Yeah but Corey wouldn't advise that. The person is stronger if they leave and move on. Instead of being "parents" to kids who will end up being like them one day.
It's not good to be to needy or too clingy!
Yep. Found your videos cause of a breakup. But this one, Hid that she was cheating. Then she blatantly did it. And I had to end it. We did start talking again after. But I wanted to be just fwb. Then she keeps saying she misses me and wants a relationship while she was still looking for other people to talk. So I told her I was done talking to her. Of course I'm upset about the situation. And I did not expect someone to be like this.. but none of this was my fault. She wasnt mature enough to talk things out and say she wasnt that into me instead of cheating.... insecure piece of crap. Never again. And I was totally focused on myself the entire relationship. And I believed I courted her properly too. I learned a lot though. And most the things corey teaches I pretty much figured it was that way. The reassurance from your videos definitely helps. And I do plan on buying the book. Mainly to help me focus on myself more and how to pick up more chicks. Cause I dont tend to have too many chick friends. Because I dont prefer it but it is a good idea to have some
Honestly i dont want a relationship with someone who is so unreliable that she backs away for days and i have to play games like pretending i dont care and stuff like that.
Loved it. Great advice. I also prefer the stuff you teach vs pick up stuff. Pick up stuff is very lacking and doesn't take care of the entire relationship part - or even working on ones self before getting into a relationship.
29:42 Yep...I get those feelings A LOT! It's something I need to watch more closely.
Great video Corey, and yes "Good to great" by Jim Collins is an awesome book!
Hey Corey, thanks for all the help. Wish I would have found your videos a week sooner. Anyway, the first 3 minutes of this video are dead on correct about how the way things happen and how one should be. Thanks! I'm working on getting out of some ruts and this stuff helps a lot. Keep it up!
Very strong message! Thanks a lot. Your mails contain very strong mindsets i couldn't think of by myself. Just the ideas i need.
Interesting, I think I can use a lot of this as a female too. I'm super neurotic and I suspect it has caused problems in my relationships.
I told my wife about a few fantasies that I had about her and it totally spiraled my marriage out of control she hates me
Great advice the last email sounded exactly what I am going through. I will take a step back.
Great video, we all need to apply these principles in our lives!
Great teacher!.
Love your videos! This is awesome. I'm buying your book this week ;)
This is impossible, you cannot skip a tier on the hierarchy of needs.
So if you're going through a difficult time and you meet someone with mutual interest, is it best to let it go until you get your life on track?
Good video Corey
You are my mann
Corey doesn’t mince words.
Guy at 23:50 pisses me off just hearing about him. Watch his actions... he's showing clearly what his priorities are. I hope the woman has owned what she deserves and gets it.
16:10 Once you understand what men and women really respond to, it gives you the power to attract somebody that you perceive as being out of your league and knocks your F’ing socks off. Having sex with somebody every couple of weeks to have a release is not the way to go.
38:40 Wanting vs. needing
graduating college a fucking man :)))) nice quote
Great fucking video
Godpresence
When your single for along time being single sucks you start to get tired of being single and want to share your life with someone and they world seem to have a problem with that. Perhaps I wanna break free from being single not waste my time with guys assholes.
But every time I get involved other people can't mind there own business they like the media they want know everything of my life and don't want me to be happy or with anyone ahhh!
22:03 It's not even necessarily that 'he's a pussy and won't end it'. Many times it's simply 'words' = 'actions'? Words and actions need to align. If they don't: red sirens should be going off. This goes for men or women in any relationship, even friendships. Sometimes people are straight up lying to you. Other times they don't even know their words and actions aren't lining up. Either way, things are not going to turn out the way they SAY they will turn out. Cut bait while you can.
What do think I said I'm glad I'm not in a relationship. I said the same thing dude. I love you a lot. I you best. Check out my rap music on you tube and put in rapper a young in and you will see my rap video on UA-cam.
Dude, whats crazy is that I realize now after so long of following and studying your work I Finally understand the dynamics of what I had created with my ex. Even though my last relationship started so perfectly and naturally; Because I chose to ignore some red flags, failed to communicate on my own behalf, (along with other things about myself I didn’t have whipped into shape), after the first 6 months of pure love and attraction and meeting eachothers needs perfectly for that point in time things started falling apart quite rapidly. I let my fears and insecurities run the show after I really let myself open up. Needless to say, it blew up in both our faces. I’m 23 and have known her since 3rd grade, and even had a crush on her. Apparently she liked me too. But after a really shitty upbringing it led to more tears than I’d ever hope to experience. Never again. And even now its so hard to take the things you talk about and apply them to a relationship especially with a person sharing a mutual attraction thats lasted so long. It still shakes me to the core because not only do I not want that to happen again, but Idk that’ll ever get a chance for a really deep relationship like that again. But maybe that just me sharing my doubts.. gotta feel it to heal it, right? Either way thats one thing that fucks with me heavily, honestly. Because I also know that I can’t go back since she left me for someone else. Ruining that foundation of trust and really showing me that she has no integrity, doesn’t respect monogamy or value loyalty.. Since then I really went on a deep search for answers, and man this is like the 5th time I’ve seen this particular video in addition to have listened to your 3% audiobook at least 7 times now forsure, probably more but I lost count. And I just feel things clicking in my head now when I interact with people. I can see how the person I’m becoming is really putting me more where I need to be, less where I don’t, and discovering almost everything around me that I can put in either of those camps. Further expanding on my bank of knowledge, and dude. I wanna shake your hand and give you a hug. All I have to give to you now is a story. More of a Work in Progress story, but nevertheless I know I’m on the right path. Once I get my things more aligned, next thing to give is a generous donation because man this stuff is Gold. Even though with my ex I felt there was so much negativity and wasted potential because of what I failed to realize, ontop of us both being incomplete. I feel it put me in this plce to discover myself much quicker than I ever would have because the reality is I haven’t experience anything like that ever. And its inspired me to want to learn how to find and create more of that. I’m still struggling with that whole thing where I want to show her how much I’ve changed, or I want her to still be prt of that. Its so hard man, but like I said work in progress 🤷♂️ i havent hit her up since she contacted me and I plan on making that indefinite if it has to be. Regardless this shits tough, man. Salute.
Oh and Happy 4th of July, brother. Thanks for everything you do. Regardless if this gets to you, I just had to share this.
I feel you man. Having a deep connection with someone that you've known for long... and it goes south... maann, it's a trip. I am in the same boat right now. Check out Teal Swan, she's on the woo side of things but she offers some amazing perspectives ua-cam.com/video/SSrlfxcEULo/v-deo.html
Thank you Corey for your videos. My partner left me and is with another man. I feel strong anxiety everyday and struggle with it. I often play your videos when im trying to sleep. Being alone faced with objects and memories tears at me. Heart races going to any place we went to. Trying to get counciling to help. Anyway thank you so much.
Growing up with sisters gives you these perspectives from a sibling viewpoint. Honestly, this email is a guy who waited around patiently while his lady rode the CC, and then finally was convinced that he's the one she can lean on best.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today thanks brother 👍
Yes, our cup must "runneth over."
Hate my life struggling with ma business single broke physically mentally drained have no social life gave ma family 🖕 I'm there for my kids but struggle with their mother
Women could certainly helped us dumbfounded Men by vocalizing that they need a little time to see how they feel about it instead of just disappearing without a word