All right but it's actually not our responsibility and we should ignore their cries for attention until one of them succeeds where they didn't mean to, if you catch my drift.
But it’s not your job?, like I don’t agree with her, I think typically we should focus on people’s happiness as a whole, but it’s not on one specific group to help uplift others, there’s no obligation there, morally it’s a nice thing to do but you don’t have to do it .
If it was possible to separate the things that men do from the things that women do (like buildings built, food grown ect..) and have only men benefit from things men do and women only benefit from things that women do; this would find resolution within a day.
We do that's the difference, more men off themselves than women, yet women are on anti depressants. Do you clearly understand that's because women will go seek help from therapy to doctors. Turn to family and friends if they are lonely. I love being single, and it's my own space, peace, and yes, I have had family that are adults now. Yet even the word lonely annoys me as it is a state of mind. If you are working, looking after the ones you love in your family, friends. Going out and doing hobbies and activities, loneliness shouldn't even be a word that exists in your life.
@@Bruhkake Women tend to create these technicalities wherein two similar concepts are different. While the logical of us can see that those are the same, the XXs thing "Well, one is my explaining things and the other is bad".
A guy opens up to me about his deepest trauma because I complimented his shirt one time and then goes around talking about how his “homies” are like his brothers and are always there for him. Yall love the boys locker room so much why don’t you talk to each other? If your bros are anywhere near as great as yall always make them out to be why you talking to some woman acquaintance about your feelings? 🤷♀️
@@Scrittlescrattle They weren't an acquaintance at the time. It's called a relationship, if you want to remove yourself because of your partners problems, we're not the same type of person. So with you leaving we both benefit. Men and Woman do not function the same way, guys don't want to emotion dump each other. Its a mutual thing amongst guys where we don't want to drag down the mood during the hang out. (If we don't know all the tough shit the other guy is going through, why bitch and moan about it when we're having fun or chilling.) There is a place and time for that, its rare and does happen... but sometimes we don't want to bring others down. Also, anecdotal evidence is not proving anything. One interaction you've had does not mean its the answer for everyone.
Women: "Men should be open about their feelings and problems. You don't have to deal with everything alone" Man: Does exactly that. Women: "Eeew. Why are you talking to us about your feelings and problems? Deap with that alone!" Called it. 👍
In my experience, if you let a woman know what is dear to you or what can hurt you emotionally, it will be used against you so that she can win an argument. Nothing is off limits when she needs to win.
"You need to ask your bro how his heart is doing" Men create a healing group and a men's getaway Women: Oh my god, Sexist! Judge we're suing the Men's Healing Retreat because they won't invite women to it. Oh and do hurry with the judgement, I need to get to my Women's only Yoga class and then to the Ladies' talk group about why men won't heal that we don't want to muddy the waters with what is really bothering men... we only want to blame them for us menstrating. Judge: Fine, summery judgment of two dollars.
A woman complaining about being lonely to a man is “shooting her shot”. A man complaining about being lonely to a woman needs to talk to his bros about how their heart is doing instead because she’s not concerned about him at all. And women are supposed to be the most empathetic and emotionally intelligent than us men, huh? 🤔 🤷🏾♂️🙃
Jup.. but i feel like that changed 180° now.. we are the ones that want to have kids and marry and all that while women are almost all... Well... Cheap at this point. And i dont want a woman that needs far more then her two hands to count how many guys she was with 🤢
There is a big epidemic of men hating women, some even make it their entire personality. I know it's not all of you but you can't be hating women calling us 304's and obsessing over our "body count" and then expect us to give a damn about you. If all I am is a useless slut in your eyes, why would I want to be with you?
@@cliffterrell4876 this type of way someone talks shouldn’t be considered normal regardless of the gender or the person’s nationality. The way this person talks is incredibly disrespectful.
Exactly. But what she could do for her part considering she's a 3.5 or 4 in the dating pool, she can get together with another 3.5 or 4 male and not chase Chad until she's a barren wasteland of eternal sorrow.
Her lack of compassion and understanding will eventually result in her own loneliness. It’s a delayed loneliness that will hit her in her 30’s and men won’t want her because of her attitude and feelings of superiority. Keep on chasing Chad little girl, your clock is ticking.
You're probably right, but it's more like in her 50s when it'll hit. Women in their 30s and 40s are no different in attitude and entitlement than women in their 20s.
@@subwayfacemelt4325Why is not having a man a bad thing? Look at the way you clowns behave. Try being appealing instead of threatening us with a good time.
My grandma found love and got remarried in her 70s. She met my step grandpa at church. I was 34 when I got married to the love of my life. Also I used to work in a retirement home and many of those people were dating! There’s no age limit for finding love.
My husband came home one day after work and said "I think Josh is lonely." I said "ok, why do you think that?" His response was reasonable. I then told him to invite Josh over for dinner. We sat and talked for hours. I kicked him and my hubby out to the garage so I could clean up. The next day I got a text saying how much he needed the family environment and how he appreciated us letting him join in. He said he didn't know he was lonely since his divorce. He missed the sound of kids in the house. This is a society issue, not a gender issue. We need to look out for one another.
Thank you for saying this. As i got older more and more of my friends got married and had kids and it was like I didn’t exist anymore. The loneliness is unreal sometimes. The only ones i’ve heard from are the ones that got divorced and were between wives. Soon as they got married again - we don’t exist. There is a lot or activity for children, mothers, families but what do single people get? Exile, loud bars, societal disassociation.
The loneliest I ever have been is when I was married. I didn't tell her anything because it was used against me, it was a inconvenience, or used for gossip. I stopped telling her, she got upset because I wouldn't...Her attitude was clear... don't tell her anything bad...
I see this struggle and there is a struggle today concerning the way men and women relate to one another is that women are very picky in wanting men who are tall, make a lot of money, and are seen as desirable by other women. Men on the other hand are not acting like real men. They are tall boys who want to spend their time playing video games. So they are not seen as desirable to women. The truth is both need to stop watching social media and want Hollywood says and just talk with each other. Get off the computers and their phones.
@@vanmoodywhat happened to this world where women want a perfect man. But the man wants to be a man child all his life instead. Humanity will be extinct if this keeps going
@@vanmoodyLmao no. I am more willing to give up on relationships and women than give up my video games. However, your point about Social Media is correct.
The reality is obvious. American women are looking for a tall rich man they can divorce and get money they didn't earn. The selfish gold-diggers can go work in an office and collect cats and die alone.
@@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp yes, it is a choice. we have the right to choose just like you have the right to choose. If men wanna be alone, they can be alone just like you women choose to be alone, we can choose to be alone. We take accountability more than women do. Whether you believe it or not. we heal just like everybody else heals. We hurt just like everybody else hurt but we can’t display that hurt because it makes us look weak to the world. And also men are refusing to deal with women because you think it’s all men’s fault and it’s not women are more fault than men are because you refuse to take accountability from what you do.
@@muhammadbrantley5510 Of course there are men who choose to be alone just like women. BUT the overwhelming majority are NOT choosing it! The male loneliness epidemic does NOT mean that men are CHOOSING to be alone! It is because WOMEN are choosing to not date, not marry, not have kids, etc. Women in high numbers are REFUSING to deal with men. Also, older women 50 and up are divorcing their husbands in DROVES, in turn, leaving those men lonely. There are tons of stats, research, and studies on this. THAT’S why it’s called an EPIDEMIC because it’s a HUGE issue for men! Have a blessed day!!! ❤️
Yep. I believe people should take personal accountability but when outside sources are the cause of your pain or struggles then there's not much you can do. And if it's hard for you to fix your struggles that you're causing then other people should be kind enough to help you
Yup, women tell us to open up and share our feelings more and this is what we get.. this is why men dont talk about our feelings because as soon as we do, we're seen as weak and we're no longer respected.. and this is especially true with the women we love the most..
Unfortunately there are plenty of people who will look down on a man being vulnerable. However if your close women are the ones doing it then there’s a balance issue in that relationship. One of my exes was so caught up in ‘being the man’ (His words) to be strong and supportive & not vulnerable that he ended up disappearing for weeks at a time without telling me what was going on or that he was struggling. Then pretending everything was ok or trying to blame me when he was around. I told him he could talk to me, I showed him I was there no matter what & if space was what was needed that I would not question that, just asked that he at least tell me he was going off grid for a bit so i didn’t worry. He did…. One time… after 6 months of it I couldn’t do it anymore and broke it off. He chose to blame me for that too and then got mean about it. Anyway the point is don’t allow yourself to be so closed off that you can’t let those who truely love you in. Because someone that truely loves you will support you through a rough patch and listen when you need to talk or hold you if you need to be held. We are not all walking contradictions. If one says “open up” and someone else says “be a man” those two people aren’t contradicting one another. They just have different opinions
Opening up to women is like your Maranda rights, you have the right to remain silent and better. If you give up your right to remain silence, everything you say and do WILL be used against you. You have the right to an attorney when she files for a divorce to take everything you own. You won't be able to afford the attorney but you will pay for her attorney. If you don't understand these rights to be a single man, it's your fault.
@@moonorchid9242I was married for 19 years to a slut who claimed she loved me but didn't give a damn about me or our marriage. I was there as a ATM only. I opened up once with her and regretted it later. 99.9% of females are walking contradictions. That's why a smart man would never open up to a female and prefer to stay single.
I love how women are upset when men tell them our problems, but they are constantly telling us all the things they go through in an accusing tone. Women want us to fix THEIR problems but they refuse to even listen to ours. Thank you for what you said at the end, Emily. It is true. Men have to deal with our problems alone.
Most women seem to think that men have no feelings, are unable to be hurt emotionally and have to be strong enough to deal with anything that happens in life. Women need a wake up call to this kind of conditioning
I can be vulnerable with my wife. Even after she told me to "figure it out". She almost unmarried us. I asked my dad for help, that was tough. He's the only one who offered helpful advice. Her friends and family would rather watch me waste away in desperate, lonely depression before saying a word. The world does not care about "how men are doing". You can find that person that'll help you when nobody else will. Psalm 91.
I spend almost every night at home on PS4 with the boys, so I'm never really alone unless I choose to be, but it does help cope with the longing for a loving, affectionate, & appreciative feminine partner. At least one major upside to this is that you don't have to worry about any unnecessary drama that women often bring to a relationship, so there's that.
Our culture has given our women a lot of undesirable qualities. They value possessions, that is it. Go international and it is easy to find women that value the family unit. I had to do that 14 years ago. Best thing that ever happened to me.
@@johnl9977men are largely to blame, to be honest. If "we" would've had higher standards and not tolerated so much bs, I don't think there would be so many narcissistic women. That's not to discount other factors - because they definitely exist(ed) - but too many kiss-asses helped fuel this fire.
Whats happening is no one knows how to talk to each other anymore and we keep reacting to each other like we are bad for each other. This can't be fixed.
We know how to talk to each other. The problem is one side is forced to listen to the other side with not only zero reciprocation, but active disdain and mockery. Men in relationships are terrified of sharing how they feel because we have been taught through experience that at a minimum you'll get told no one cares or to man up. Or far worse what you share will be used against you in ither discussions later. Women know how to listen. They listen to each other all the time and validate each other's feelings. But when it comes to listening to a man? Even the man they are in a relationship with?
@@mycroft16 I think you're giving too much credit to women who are clearly narcissistic, or at the very least incredibly self-centered. Far more so, I think, are there women out there who think they can listen but obviously cannot. "Listening" for them is entirely one-way and you do not matter (and are not part of the equation at all). As the femoid in the video showed, these kinds of women are the first to discard your feelings and the last to validate them. They'll never listen and communicate with you, but always you to with them.
Men are opting out of relationships at such an alarming rate that bridal shops are going out of business. Male loneliness is literally affecting the economy.
Correlation does not mean causation. Bridal companies are going out of business because of many factors, with the biggest one being Online Shopping and the runner-up being Covid.
@@kelanderson401 bridal shops can't compete with online markets, especially when you can find the same dress online for cheaper, and with more customization. All that and you don't even need to leave your house, bridal shops could never compete. The dating scene is barely a factor in bridal shops going bankrupt.
@@awesome-dp1oo, and every married man knows how much crap our wives have ordered online that didn’t fit. And you think online Bridal dresses 👗 beats trying it on in person? And that is somehow the reason why bridal shops are closing?? Sole reason?? 🤦♂️ couldn’t be MGTOW or Boss Babe mentality or statistical data.
Reminds me of what Berne Brown said during one of her Ted talks. "For men, shame is not a bunch of competing, conflicting expectations. Shame is one, do not be perceived as what? Weak. I did not interview men for the first four years of my study. It wasn't until a man looked at me after a book signing, and said, "I love what say about shame, I'm curious why you didn't mention men." And I said, "I don't study men." And he said, "That's convenient." And I said, "Why?" And he said, "Because you say to reach out, tell our story, be vulnerable. But you see those books you just signed for my wife and my three daughters?" I said, "Yeah." "They'd rather me die on top of my white horse than watch me fall down. When we reach out and be vulnerable, we get the shit beat out of us. And don't tell me it's from the guys and the coaches and the dads. Because the women in my life are harder on me than anyone else.""
Saw a clip from that last week on this same channel, but had no clue who the lady was or where to find the full thing (and forgot to go into detective mode)
For me, when I lost my job at 21 many years ago my sister kicked me out on the street. Many years after that after my partner cheated and left I went to live with my mother and sister. Some time later they threw me on the street again. Had to rebuild my life again all alone. I'm ok now but my point is for a lot of women they treat men like garbage when a man goes through hard times.
After my ex left me bc asking for help driving me to surgery (hospital requirment) was "pathetic" there is ZERO question in my mind that you can EITHER live an authentic life as a full human being OR you can have sex. I told her "Patriarchy does not just walk around in men" and walked out. I've decided on an authentic life and possibly an occasional cuddle with strangers cos the real actual human man is not lovable. And we don't have to blame feminism bc nature saw fit to rig our genome to birth 105 boy infants per 100 girl infants. There's just too many of us. They have these statistical advantage for selection so. Therefore, our culture at least for dating reflects that advantage. We are in fact disposable.
@@fm2dmaxman, I’m just coming to terms woman as creatures are awful They don’t love do they, more like a trophy you have to fight for every day, and they sound less and less appealing Subscriptions suck, I’m a buy for life kinda guy
I finally understand why so many guys (and gals), but mostly guys, pick me to open up to. I actually listen, and neither offer to fix them, nor tell them to fix themselves. They are trusting me with their vulnerability! Their stories are not mine to tell. I’ll take a lot of other people’s secrets to my grave.
Guys are pretty good at fixing ourselves. We just want to feel like someone listened and understood because we get that so very rarely. Mostly it's man up. Be a real man. Stop being a sissy. So for someone to listen, not try to fix it, and just give us emotional validation is life altering for most of us. We can figure the solution out if we haven't already. Society tells is from single digit age to suppress and hide how we feel because no one cares. It's why we're always fine. We are rarely fine. So thank you for just listening and allowing them to feel heard.
Dont forget that the option to get a female partner still is: "We need a real mean to step in as a father (personal ATM) of my 2 children of different parent..." That is kinda the average "best deal" on the table in "take it or leave it" tone.
@@GamingProspector84 That's basically the response when MRA's discuss fathers rights in family courts where mothers have overwhelming supremacy. Or in criminal court where women get off most crimes with a slap relative to men getting time for the same crime.
@@mnomadvfxI read that if one equalised all the discounts women get in the crimini justice system (arrested less often for the same crimes, charged less often, charged with lesser crimes for the same actions, given better plea deals, given lighter sentences, etc.) then you'd have roughly 90% as many women in prison as men, possibly 95%. That's not even counting shit like false accusations and women using the justice system, especially family courts, as a proxy for punishing men for whatever.
This is priceless. You know how many people say "Society teaches men to hide their feelings"? This is it, this is society doing it in real-time. Right here.
How is it getting men to hide their emotions by asking what you expect women to do to fix the lonliness of men ? It's a valid point. If your lonely it's your own responsibility to correct that for yourself. Not to have people do it for you. If it's that bad see a therapist who get paid and educated to be able to help you personally.
I'll put it another way. Women: "Society teaches men to hide their feelings, men need to be open" Men: "A lot of us are dealing with loneliness and feel depressed" Women: "That sounds like your problem."
@@thosewhocare2427 When you tell someone, “we don’t want to hear it, go fix it yourself” that’s exactly what you’re saying. You literally just did it too. Congrats, you’re part of the problem.
Totally missing the point. You become lonely when you don't have an emotional support system, which can be your partner sure, but you also need to have friends that are there for you. And men are usually friends with... drum roll... other men.
@@cheche373that's a form of support females tend to prefer. Males often do want help with figuring out a solution - although someone listening and showing empathy is still nice.
The only three people to EVER ask me how I'm doing mentally and emotionally in 27 years are all men. My father, my manager, and one of my friends. I haven't been treated with any concern by women, even the two that raised me. The only one to "care" about me was my most recent ex, and she left me because her self esteem was "declining" after calling her out on her 50/50 relationship hypocrisy.
I really fear for my son. He’s currently a teenager. There’s so much toxicity directed towards boys and men now. it’s amazing to me how women can be so sensitive to the toxicity that they are exposed to and yet turn around and flood the environment with the same toxic trash.
1 in 3 females are sexually molested on average in the states. Rape on college campus are an all time high. Porn and drug abuse use are on the rise along with the mental health crisis and yes there is a direct link between all these issues. Combine this with all the toxicity in music, movies and social media, the boys and girls have grown up with a completely fucked up sense of entitlement far removed from reality. The upcoming generations are in for a huge wake up call before society eats itself from within
Here's why it's not that shocking: the outer world is a projection of your inner world. To girls, they've been abused, used, and objectified for so long that they are full of hate and anger and loneliness. So they project that out onto the world around them affecting it in a negative way. The only real way to make change is for people to learn to heal. Turning around the same ugliness into the world that you've dealt with doesn't help anyone or anything. And it's not just women vs. men, it's black vs. White, rich vs. poor, repubs vs. Dems. No one treats each other with respect with anymore, we're all so divided and we just keep swinging the pendulum back n forth instead of trying to stop the stupid swing. People need to learn to love and respect others even when it's hard, even when you don't agree with them, even when you perceive that they've wronged you. This world is becoming such an ugly and hateful place.
I've a couple of jobs where the majority of coworkers were women. It was like highschool, they were constantly talking about each other behind their back. Even the store manager did it. In my personal experience, guys can be physically abusive but women are soul crushing.
As a woman, I'm so sorry that's happened to you. My two closest friends are men. We share our deepest emotions with one another. Sadly, not everyone understands love and respect.
Naah I helped both men and women but my bros were more supportive when I talked about my struggles. Women sensed my weakness and treated me badly even when I was kind
I run a bar and some older gentleman who is a regular got a break up phone call while he was there. He fell on the floor sobbing, I picked him up and gave him a big hug. I don't know him that well but he is a good guy and he definitely needed it....we all need it sometimes
@@Teddy-fm9nt Considering black women are usually treated better than white men in terms of legal disputes (be it criminal or civil) ya may wanna do a double-take there. Womanhood > white skin (or olive in countries where it ain't crackas who "held da brotha down" ;) )
Don’t think it is a matter of privilege being invisible to those that have. More like a lack of empathy cause she spent her life having her pick of men but now that she got older, nobody chases her anymore. Her vibe screams “i am now lonely myself, stop taking of other people with the same problem i have and start giving me the attention i want.”
As a man in my early 30's, to all those women friend zoning me as a "good" guy for the past years: stop sharing your feelings with me, fix it yourself. I couldn't* care less, I'm now fixing myself, working on myself and providing for myself.
Pay cash for your house if you can and a plot of land to grow your own food. Then you can set high standards on your girlfriend and if she acts up. Well see ya.
I just ended a 6-month relationship. (I never been better.) My ex thought I was of talking to another woman on messenger because I was on there for 2 hours, and I'm usually never on Facebook or messenger. (My cousin in Greece just got married... and THAT'S who I was talking too!) But I say, "Babe. What's the problem? You're always on messenger. Do we need to talk about that instead?" "THAT'S DIFFERENT!" she screams. (oh, that's different) "Well," I go on to say calmly, "you can continue talking on messenger to whoever you want, for as long as you want, and so can I...or I'll be done with you right now." She freaks out and then she's all like, "WHY! CUZ YOU MET SOMEONE ELSE!?" I tell her, "Nobody, and I mean nobody, is going to have one set of rules for me and a different set of rules for themselves. You're out of your Goddamned mind if you think that. I do what I want. You will not police my conversations. Fuck that shit." She yells, "OH I KNOW HOW YOU ARE! IT'S MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY! THAT'S WHAT YOU ALWAYS SAY!! AND I DON'T LIKE YOUR WAY!!!" "Well," I explain to her, "now it's just the highway. So enjoy it, Little Miss Big-Mouth." *Imagine a desert Highway with all of my ex-girlfriends standing around, and tumbleweeds are rolling by, and some are holding up one thumb hitchhiking.* 👍 *Imagine coyotes.* *Picture a cactus or two.* Now imagine my first girlfriend ever, walking up to my last girlfriend ever, and I mean my ex, Little Miss Big-Mouth, and she's saying to her, "You dumb bitch. His way was a luxury car with heated seats. Who chooses the highway???" *OW, OW, OW-WOOOOOOOOO!!!!!* "WAS THAT A COYOTE!?" asks my ex? And one of the other women says, "Hell yeah, that was a coyote. It sucks out here." "WELL, WHEN IS HE COMING BACK!?" asks Little Miss Big-Mouth. The other women snicker and laugh at her. My first girlfriendㅡprobably a skeleton with a wig by nowㅡsays to Little Miss Big-Mouth, "DON'T YOU GET IT!!??? HE'S NOT COMING BACK!!! EVER!" She grabs my last ex by the shoulders and shakes her until two of my other exes pull her off! "OKAY," says my most recent ex, "MAYBE SOMEONE BETTER WILL COME ALONG. GEEZ..." "Sure. That's why we're still here," says a girl way in the back. The sun begins to set and one of the other womenㅡa boss babeㅡsays to the group, "Ok, girls. Gather up some sticks. Time to build a fire. It's about to get really cold out here." They huddle together for warmth. They throw their makeup in the fire pit. They hold their hands over the flames, shivering, while I drive around in my warm car listening to the radio: "I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S SO COLD!" "Will you shut up?" "Put your purse in the fire." "FUCK THAT. PUT YOUR PURSE IN THE FIRE!" "I already did! My first night here..." (Oh yeah.) That's music to my ears.
The other 5% are the ones who are truthful in admitting there's a problem. There is nothing OK with men pretending to not be in pain, to not be suffering, to say everything is fine when it isn't.
I learned this lesson in my twenties - 40 years ago. No woman wants to know my personal inner struggles. But she does demand I listen to hers with utmost earnestness. Nope.
Exactly why most men keep it bottled in or permanently harm themselves. If we express emotion, it will get used against us or thrown back at us to where it's our fault.
Absolutely. I can say for me that my journal is my best space to be vulnerable, for exactly the reasons you mentioned: it can't be used against me or become a reason for someone to lower their opinion of me.
After hearing so many women on the internet say exactly that, that was what I was expecting her to say, but she changed it to "supposed to do something about it."
Narcissistic rather. She doesn't view the issue as a problem for her, and so proceeds to push it away from being any type of priority for her to 'deal with'. A sociopath (if they recognize it...) would use and manipulate this situation to their advantage. A sociopath is more likely to use some faux-charm and even appear empathetic to manipulate the situation; while a narcissist is generally going to go 'victim card' to steer the debate to their own worth by devaluing the other person and/or their argument
That bothered me as well when she said it that way. "Wait accusatory...so a man answering the question as to Male Lonliness is having an accusatory tone...?" Most likely she uses Mansplaining a lot...
@@laurarsheppard What in the world? Your comment is so out of left field, it's like it must be coming from a bot. It has nothing to do with what I said OR the video.
@SG-js2qn I'm not a bot. Your comment implies that the woman in the video (not Emily) acts entitled to receive help from men, but not obligated to help men. I'm saying, no, she's not claiming any right to receive help EITHER.
@laurarsheppard She is not offering to help either. As she stated, lonely men act "like I should do something about it". I guarantee if she is dating a man, she would want that man's shoulder to cry on when her life takes a downward spiral. The same type of man she would tell, "Suck it up, buddy", if things got hard for him.
No one I know has it figured out. Everyone is lonely. Married and single, it hits them all. In a relationship but it’s not with the right person? That’s lonely. Hunting for someone, anyone at all? That’s lonely. Giving up and choosing to be alone? That’s lonely. What percentage of people are ACTUALLY enjoying this experience of life? Look inward, love yourself, enjoy the moments, and be grateful for the things you’ve got. Whether it’s a lot or the bare minimum, someone else out there has it worse. Work on yourself. Be positive. Be optimistic and be patient. If you build something within yourself that cannot be torn down, you’ll find that this feeling of loneliness was just boredom, it was inaction, it was anxiety about not being enough, so make yourself into a castle with strong walls but with open doors, and let the people and experiences pass through you, don’t sit in judgement behind locked gates on a hoard of self loathing. Enlightenment from within is the cure to loneliness from without.
The loneliness that we're experiencing isn't for friendship and platonic love, it's for romantic love and to build a life with a partner. Many guys can hang with their boys all day and night but they're still lonely.
I kinda don't believe you, Women aren't lonely when they are single. So what dose that say about men? Men need to be better friends to eachother so the loneliness isn't so crippling while they develop the social skills to persue a romantic relationship. Edit: because people don't even know what subject I'm discussing... You need friendships in order to develop the emotional and social skills that make it possible to develop a romantic relationship. The loneliness epidemic is a societal problem baised on society untraining men from having any kind of relationships and experienced by men who have difficulty even forming friendships because of how deep the destruction of manhood is and how it's imprisoned by threats of "being gay" or "being a girl"
@@Glacierlune Right because you understand exactly how male relationships work and what they need to succeed. How about you spend some time in a man's shoes before assuming you know how fix their problems.
@@Glacierlune Among almost all women, this is a HARD case of "you can't see your own privilege". Women do not realize they live without an anxiety that men live with constantly and that's the anxiety of knowing you can easily die alone. We are HYPER aware that if we do not perform and put in almost all the effort to meet and court a women, that we will very likely never meet anyone. On the flip side, every average or above average women is subconsciously aware that if they want male companionship, even if it's with a slightly less desirable mate, they just need present themselves for conversation and laugh at a few jokes and there's a decent chance they'll get it. You know that really big female friend you have that has a hard time finding a partner and is really dejected about it all the time? Yeah, she's dejected because she doesn't live with that same privilege as other women because men judge her on her weight. She's dejected because she's living with the possibility that she may die alone. She's dejected because she's living life like a man does, only difference is society prepares us for it a bit, women have ZERO clue how to court a man if they're not conventionally attractive/average usually.
@@markgaumee okay, I'll go put on my shoes. And yes, this is exsactly how I fixed my problems with male relationships. Honestly the hardest thing about having male relationships as a male myself is that some men are so terrified of being labeled feminine or gay for interacting with other men in an emotionally supportive role. And not abandoning eachother when things are rough because "tough man can handle by self" I really look up to my brother who also doesn't let toxic masculinity disrupt him from expressing natural masculinity. It's something we learned from our father, who didn't grow up in American culture so he was free of toxic masculinity. Ironically my father is very masculine but would be considered feminine by the toxic masculinity standards. Thank God that is finally dying out so men can actually grow up to be real men secure in their healthy masculinity.
What?? Fixing your issues doesn't mean shut everyone out and emotionally block yourself. It means identifying the problem and finding solution to fix it. If a solution is talking about it then bam, problem solved. If the solution is stop talking to someone then bam, problem solved. Emotionally blocking your partner because you have issues simply means the relationship wasn't ment to last anyway.
She is posting this because she brings chaos stress and drama to every man she comes across but in every possible way she is blame shifting. True narcissistic sociopath.
@@ryanshorter6422 Yes, she's the crazy one, not the guy making up a whole ass backstory and diagnosing a random stranger with mental health problems based on a few seconds of video.
People may be up my ass about this, but the dark haired girl is right. While she could have conveyed her point less harsher, it still stands. I see so many men online solely blaming women for them being lonely. These are also the same men that throw pity parties for themselves, don’t check up on their friends, and do nothing to solve the problem. You cannot help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. As someone below me expressed, I believe this is a societal issue, in which society has gotten more and more isolated over the years.
@@AbdullahChristopher-x9k It’s best to not generalize. No, 95% of women don’t view men as disposable or “backup” boys as you call it. Not sure where you came up with that. Perhaps you spend too much time on social media. Try going outside, look for purpose, create spaces for other men. Complaining will not do much.
That isn't what she asked. She probably has a good man or beta/simp options. She asked why men are not helping lonely men to deal with loneliness. It's not a difficult question. ❤
@@natashadickson4819I think men are just moving on from America women in this country will never understand it's just over at this point seriously men are just moving on and giving women there deserved freedom in America
@@natashadickson4819 Men are starting to, but every change has consequences, and one consequence of men learning to go to other men for support and thus establishing in-group preference for protecting those men is that there is one less reason to form families. If women are career chasing and men are learning to go to each other exclusively for emotional support, there will be even more children growing up without two parents. What do you think all these red-pill communities popping up online are? That's men going to other men with their problem, and then emotionally preferring those men when looking for solutions.
Yes, you ARE supposed to do something. Be friends, talk to them, do ANYTHING. I’m so sick of this dismissive ‘go and get therapy’ attitude people use to excuse continuing to be jerks
Well we see how well therapy helps about 50% of the female population....most screwed up segment with mental health issues is women and all of them that are in therapy don't seem to be getting anywhere but they know how to blame men
Except we DO! We try to be friends, then get trashed when we don't want more than that. So if we don't fuck you guys, we're "friend zoning" you. But if we DO fuck you, then we're "hoes."
Well, in a way she’s not wrong. It is up to us all to heal our own hearts. But, that being said we all need to have more compassion for our fellow brothers and sisters. We’re all in this together, regardless of our sex. Best advice, and I’ve done this myself, is to seek out a life coach/spiritual guide. You will be much happier for it. This also goes for women who think it’s a man’s job to make our lives better. No, we make our own life better. Only we are responsible for ourselves.
I broke my leg once the day before a first date. The girl decided to come to me and that was the best first date I ever had. Unfortunately (or fortunately), I made all the mistakes in the world and we separated. She got jabbed later on so it relieving to know she wasn't for me.
Dude.... that's literally my life. I'm disabled. I ask a dude friend for help, they help. I ask a female friend for help and she wants to know why she needs to help me.
When the vast majority of men wouldn’t ever do anything to hurt a woman, and the younger men of my generation were literally raised to be terrified of ever harassing a woman.
You should because loneliness is an individual problem. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman. No matter who it is, give it to them straight. That it's their own fault. Or they'll never fix it. World doesn't owe companionship to us. It's something to be offered as an individual. Sincerely, A woman
@@SeraYagamiThe thing is we are not living in a vacuum, while no one is entitled to a relationship, the way that lot's of women are carrying themselves right now has an impact on men, one gender can and do affect the other one, it's not only "men problem", this is something that women has to fix themselves as well. When most women run around men that are way out of their league and living normal guys in dust, it's not a mens problem, it's a women delusion problem. Sincerely, A man
I'm 43 and never been married and I can honestly say that I'm not lonely. When you've had enough s***** relationships, you learn that there's nothing to miss. I'm living my best life, going back to school, traveling, enjoying life.
When a woman says this, men come out the woodwork to blame them for their bad choices and call them lonely cat ladies. So both genders have their share of challenges and unfair judgement from society.
I mean what she is trying to convey is that men tell her about their unhappiness insinuating that women are the reason behind their happiness and they fail to realise that we should not blame anyone for our unhappiness. And yes, going through loneliness is extremely hard, I have been there but never accused of my ex or any man for that and never seeked validation from just men. In fact, it was the men who told me that it is not a big deal to be lonely and accused me of making excuses.
@@nataliewalton5118 We’d rather deal it with ourselves than have to deal with “It” ourselves anyway and still then have to suffer through their venom. Makes complete sense to me and if you say you wouldn’t do that personally then I’m sorry to inform you that you’re the exception to the rule.
@@41PH4B3TS0UP , let me put it another way. As a human, I wish tf I would let anyone stop me from getting things off my chest. Wtf would you spend one moment with a woman when you cant express your feelings to??? That's literally on you. We women have learned to Express ourselves. Find a woman who will do that, please stop acting like their so rare, their not.
I tried to help a woman with her problem once. She got mad. Said some things she shouldn't have. I blocked her number. Ten months later, she texted with a new number. Whatever. Not only am I done helping, but I'm also done "listening".
Almost similar situation. Helping someone who keeps getting back to someone that keeps breaking them. It's crazy!!! I've trying so hard to shake her off and it's very hard. But I'm determined to end this wild, crazy, unyielding experience.
@@61countdown exactly. He calls her names, he broke her spirit. I loved her. He was lying to make himself feel better. She was way above his standards. She loved him and became attached. He's being doing it for more than 3years she said. I fixed her. We went out sometime and she told me, she wants to take sometime and get over him and everything. And get back to me. That I should be patient with her. I agreed. He came back apologizing. She accepted him. Lol One night, he dissed her again. And she called me. The next day I told her not to call me late at night. She didn't like it. But she's trying to keep to it. That's how they are.
@@jericobaThat only proves research has increased. Just because they were married, didn't mean they weren't lonely. No one was asking them, because no one cared how men felt about anything. And really, they still don't. Society only ever cares about how men feel, when it impacts negatively on women and children.
@@fredmercury1314some day it will impact them if it rises high enough. But it is eviden(tical?) (I don't know how to english xd) that technology plays a big role in the rising loneliness
The male lonliness is nothing to do with women as most men are happy single, its the lack of brotherhood men have nowadays thanks to feminists destroying men's only spaces.
If that were this video wouldn't exist 🤣🤣🤣 Also apart of the problem is that people immediately jump to romance when she's commenting on friendships between men.
And that's awesome. Women shouldn't be dating men just cuz they're lonely. They need to already be fulfilled and happy people to be good dating material.
I've never been told I'm not allowed to have feelings. I don't talk about them all the time, but sometimes I do with friends. We are allowed to have feelings, all of us.
Also, we aren't lonely because we lack deep relationships with male friends. We're lonely because at the end of the day, we go to empty homes, sleep in empty beds, and wake up to silence.
When I heard her say "When some Men tell me this." You knew she was 100% full of shit. No man told her nothing, and that's why she posted this. She gets nothing from Men because her character is garbage, acting like a child making up stories, and is one of the many fueling the narrative that males mature later than females.
The problem is that men don't work like that. They get their intimate, emotional support from us. That's what they're evolved to do. So yes, it is our fault and we need to fix it.
The boys can only do so much. Having friends to lean on is great, but doesn't solve the lack of companionship, which is what the men's lonliness epidemic is focused on
These women and society know that. They're just trying to dodge an issue that they created out of cruel and inhumane attitudes towards the bottom 95% of men.
@@Anthony-fp2jbLiterally how. If Carl is going around doing Carl things that has nothing to do with Ralph. How is Tom supposed to fix John being a creep? Am I getting through to you yet? There’s literally nothing we can do, because we’re not doing anything. I am literally just sitting here. So how is it my problem when the person I’m not isn’t sitting here like I am? That’s their problem. Not mine. So how can you make Larry’s problem Jerry’s problem? It’s like blaming clowns for the way teachers act.
@@MisterPeckingOrder men in general. You may not be able to help someone you don't know and have never seen but you can help the ones you have seen. The male to female ratio is 101 to 100. Men should strive to marry a woman and protect her. Have children and protect them especially their daughters. Not exactly possible in our generation but it's our job to fix that too. We are the stronger sex and the leaders. No matter how much the elite tries to squash that, it still remains true. We can fix it. Question is, can we get all the guys on board? If we give up then we have failed women and society and all civility will fall and humanity will kill and rape itself out of existence
It's men's fault for listening to women in the first place. There's no point in complaining. Just stop caring about women and you won't feel you're being treated "unfairly". There's nothing unfair in being dismissed by people you also dismiss.
Gave up worrying about women and finding one and I'm no less happy for it, and no I don't do men as I have a normally wired brain. But women these days aren't worth the chase, jist worry about you and bask in your success and watch as they flock to your wallet amd not to your personality. It's not a loneliness epidemic it's just real men don't want bratty, overprivelegd females in their lives.
In Mr. Rogers' words, find the helpers. No person can solve the epidemic solo, but you can find a way to help. And if you don't know what to do yet, find someone who is helping and learn from them.
No, because a male loneliness epidemic is just an excess of side chicks. The girls are choosing to be a girl named Tuesday rather than be an average dudes rest of their life.
I'm alone, but not lonely. "Alone" is a physical state you're in, and "Lonely" is a feeling. You can be lonely in a crowded room or marriage. I'm a truck driver. Im alone all day. I'm used to it.
Exactly! I have CHOSEN to stop dating and be by myself, because I’m not needy and have never had a more fulfilling life. I travel a lot, meet people where I go, and don’t have a relationship to do not much more than bring constant negativity and bs into my life. Guys who sit here and cry that they can’t find a woman to care about them are really pathetic. Happiness is intrinsic, you don’t need validation from others…
Yea.. got a Fitbit for Christmas. It has been great knowing how my heart is doing reliably. Bit high BPM, but I think that just means I need to exercise more. Dad is doing great with his daily 10ks so why can't I. Ya know?
since you have the same psychological reaction then you are one of the few man that can understand well why we woman are 100% apathetic to mans suffering
Both replies missed the point, where did his apathy come from? I can tell you where as it was rhetorical, it comes from the masses of men caring for women's plights... only to have them treat men badly. Cause and effect. Women nowadays have had a cushy life so there's no reason for them to be horrible and apathetic towards men. As I said... cause and effect.
correct, because men are replaceable. if you allow women to be whores they will end up in chads harem and then 40% of men will be dejected and overturn the entire society. this is why in this very important case, christianity is correct. unless of course you dont want a stable society.
No one should be getting defensive over the need for personal responsibility, nor should any adult should expect random strangers to fix their problems.
This is where you're wrong. Imagine everyone throwing stones at Jesus and you do too just because "it's not up to me to fix it". By what could loneliness be fixed??
BOYscouts of America, was sued because it didn't include girls. It was forced to include girls. Girl scouts still won't include boys even if they want to join.
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 the workplace, the gym, video games that are targeted to boys/men. To a lesser degree, comic books. In this case, women insisting NONSTOP that men share their feelings with them, now women complaining that men are sharing too much and they don’t care. Thought that last part was obvious.
@@duketogo25 she didn't say she didn't care. Men should have and be able to open up to their support systems, of men and women. Workplaces should be men's places? The gym? Video games? A lot of these things are marketed to women and men. They are not "MEN'S' places. What the heck. Lol What century were you born in?
don't have to imagine, starting to lose count on my hands. All my remaining female friends are gay or married though. Cause they actually care. showing someone you're interested in more or exclusivity so far has been the only thing that leads to this neglect.
It is a bit more nuanced than that, but she does actually have a good point. Men should not put their burden of loneliness on individuals because that isn't very fair to them. To her point, what is she supposed to do about it? marry the lonely guy on the spot? No shes already helping their loneliness by even being present with them in the first place. She is lamenting the burden being placed on her rather than the sharing of the mens struggles in the first place.
@@jameswilkerson4412 Her suggestion was to act like women which we are not. Maybe what she suggested (it wasn't a suggestion made with the intent to help, btw) would work for women, but men are different.
Also, the problem is not that men dont have male friends. It's attention/affection from women that is in short supply. She doesn't even understand the problem, but she's offering solutions. 🤦♂️
My thoughts exactly. A hug from my buddies doesn't help. I don't want a relationship with them. 😅 I don't think she understood what kind of loneliness it is about.
@allesdurchprobiert Very few women will ever understand that type of loneliness. It's very easy for them to get that kind of attention. So easy, that they often refuse it when a man is offering.
@madamabelladonna3704 Once again, you are missing the point. MEN ARE LONELY BECAUSE THEY AREN'T CONNECTING WITH WOMEN. Men connect with men easily and regularly, but that is not what we crave.
But a romantic partner isn’t going to fix your loneliness issue. You can’t depend on one a person to fix your issue. You need friends and family as well. And many women are going to stay single for obvious reasons. You have to stop depending on women
Perfect. By that logic it's not our job to fix a woman's unhappiness
She's a genius
All right but it's actually not our responsibility and we should ignore their cries for attention until one of them succeeds where they didn't mean to, if you catch my drift.
But it’s not your job?, like I don’t agree with her, I think typically we should focus on people’s happiness as a whole, but it’s not on one specific group to help uplift others, there’s no obligation there, morally it’s a nice thing to do but you don’t have to do it .
If it was possible to separate the things that men do from the things that women do (like buildings built, food grown ect..) and have only men benefit from things men do and women only benefit from things that women do; this would find resolution within a day.
I mean none of you were doing this to begin with which is why men are single 😂 it also wasn’t a man job to begin with
@@Annabellethedoll666men are single because they don't want to deal with the kind of drama women crave and create 🤷♂️
To all the lonely women out there
Fix it yourself …
Women are not intelligent or strong enough to fix anything. They can however ride coattails
No amount of logic will make sense to them. Let them be, that’s what they want.
@@h2oboi531if they wanted to be left alone there wouldn’t be so many attention seekers and social media busy bodies 🤣
Madam, when 35 comes and you wonder where the good men are, you are the reason why no man wants you...
We do that's the difference, more men off themselves than women, yet women are on anti depressants. Do you clearly understand that's because women will go seek help from therapy to doctors. Turn to family and friends if they are lonely. I love being single, and it's my own space, peace, and yes, I have had family that are adults now. Yet even the word lonely annoys me as it is a state of mind. If you are working, looking after the ones you love in your family, friends. Going out and doing hobbies and activities, loneliness shouldn't even be a word that exists in your life.
Yuck, I prefer alone over this lovely personality.
No doubt, who needs this mindset
That lady right there is a use only type of lady
@@nniinnoo2I wouldn't give her an importance she doesn't deserve.
@@hushpuckena126 true very true
I'd rather skinny dip in a septic tank than put up with this toxic, passive aggressive harlot
Remeber men, you cannot make an unhappy woman happy. If she's not happy before she meets you, she will never be happy after she meets you.
But then they're gonna complain about 1 in 3 being abused in relationships but it's on the same lonely men to fix it. You don't choose us !
I wish I had read this a couple months ago 😂
Nobody is happy in this fallen world...
But sure as hell you can make happy women unhappy and that's what you do
@@Nat-oj2uc that's what I want to say girl😊
“I don’t want to diminish that…”
This is where you know she is about to try her best to diminish that.
Literally
I'm not lonely.
I've got joy in the Lord.
MGTOW = Men going their own way.
“I don’t want to diminish that, BUT …” Yeah, your BUT just diminished your statement of intent.
"I'm not racist but ..."
"I'm not sexist but ..."
"I don't hate Jews but ..."
How do they not see it?
@@Bruhkake
Women tend to create these technicalities wherein two similar concepts are different.
While the logical of us can see that those are the same, the XXs thing "Well, one is my explaining things and the other is bad".
If a guy opens up to you, its because he trusts you and think you won't judge him. The second you do, you've lost him.
This EXACT comment happened to me last year. Will not trust anyone anymore.
A guy opens up to me about his deepest trauma because I complimented his shirt one time and then goes around talking about how his “homies” are like his brothers and are always there for him. Yall love the boys locker room so much why don’t you talk to each other? If your bros are anywhere near as great as yall always make them out to be why you talking to some woman acquaintance about your feelings? 🤷♀️
@@Scrittlescrattle They weren't an acquaintance at the time. It's called a relationship, if you want to remove yourself because of your partners problems, we're not the same type of person. So with you leaving we both benefit.
Men and Woman do not function the same way, guys don't want to emotion dump each other. Its a mutual thing amongst guys where we don't want to drag down the mood during the hang out. (If we don't know all the tough shit the other guy is going through, why bitch and moan about it when we're having fun or chilling.)
There is a place and time for that, its rare and does happen... but sometimes we don't want to bring others down.
Also, anecdotal evidence is not proving anything. One interaction you've had does not mean its the answer for everyone.
Im lucky, my friends do that. I rather see them cry, than cry when they gone to soon. I talk to my girls, why shouldnt they talk to us, too?
@@punknoodles0dont say that. One person failed you, doesnt seem fair to the next. But it has to Go both ways
Women: "Men should be open about their feelings and problems. You don't have to deal with everything alone"
Man: Does exactly that.
Women: "Eeew. Why are you talking to us about your feelings and problems? Deap with that alone!"
Called it. 👍
You sir are a prophet.
But jokes aside, this is messed up.
She ironically threw a clean boomerang while it’s very obvious to other men.
In my experience, if you let a woman know what is dear to you or what can hurt you emotionally, it will be used against you so that she can win an argument. Nothing is off limits when she needs to win.
Exactly 😂😂😂
Exactly! Modern feminist = hypocrite
"You need to ask your bro how his heart is doing"
Men create a healing group and a men's getaway
Women: Oh my god, Sexist! Judge we're suing the Men's Healing Retreat because they won't invite women to it. Oh and do hurry with the judgement, I need to get to my Women's only Yoga class and then to the Ladies' talk group about why men won't heal that we don't want to muddy the waters with what is really bothering men... we only want to blame them for us menstrating.
Judge: Fine, summery judgment of two dollars.
A woman complaining about being lonely to a man is “shooting her shot”.
A man complaining about being lonely to a woman needs to talk to his bros about how their heart is doing instead because she’s not concerned about him at all.
And women are supposed to be the most empathetic and emotionally intelligent than us men, huh? 🤔 🤷🏾♂️🙃
That's always been a lie. No one corrects then cause they wanna fuck them.
Jup.. but i feel like that changed 180° now.. we are the ones that want to have kids and marry and all that while women are almost all... Well... Cheap at this point. And i dont want a woman that needs far more then her two hands to count how many guys she was with 🤢
@@janpapai9205 💯
@@janpapai9205 💯
@@janpapai9205 agreed 👍🏾
The passive aggression she displayed is unreal…
There is a big epidemic of men hating women, some even make it their entire personality.
I know it's not all of you but you can't be hating women calling us 304's and obsessing over our "body count" and then expect us to give a damn about you.
If all I am is a useless slut in your eyes, why would I want to be with you?
No it's not unreal, it's normal with American females today.
@@cliffterrell4876 this type of way someone talks shouldn’t be considered normal regardless of the gender or the person’s nationality. The way this person talks is incredibly disrespectful.
@@soehnrsomebody who doesn't accept facts there are always idiots like that😂😂
Yeah she's projecting.
‘I don’t wanna diminish that at all’ *proceeds to do exactly that*
So passive aggressive, looking down her nose
She’s probably lonely herself, and by listening to her, I’m sure one would need to be pretty desperate to risk dating her.
"I don't wanna do it..... but I just can't help it."
Just like saying "no offense, but..."
i.e. "I'm not racist, buuuuuuuuuuut..."
She's talking about the men as a collective but she's talking about herself as an individual. That's the issue.
Exactly. But what she could do for her part considering she's a 3.5 or 4 in the dating pool, she can get together with another 3.5 or 4 male and not chase Chad until she's a barren wasteland of eternal sorrow.
Not just that but damn, she has no heart... & she needs therapy herself.
Her voice and that valley girl durp accent she has is nails on a chalkboard
@@kalebpiper8107 And this the exact issue. Completely on point.
I would not give her a minute to listen or to fix anything for me so she can just go home and listen to her cat meowing
Her lack of compassion and understanding will eventually result in her own loneliness. It’s a delayed loneliness that will hit her in her 30’s and men won’t want her because of her attitude and feelings of superiority. Keep on chasing Chad little girl, your clock is ticking.
I think she may have already hit that wall....
You're probably right, but it's more like in her 50s when it'll hit. Women in their 30s and 40s are no different in attitude and entitlement than women in their 20s.
@@subwayfacemelt4325Why is not having a man a bad thing? Look at the way you clowns behave. Try being appealing instead of threatening us with a good time.
My grandma found love and got remarried in her 70s. She met my step grandpa at church. I was 34 when I got married to the love of my life. Also I used to work in a retirement home and many of those people were dating! There’s no age limit for finding love.
@@mamadoom9724if there is good attiutudes and cooperation. Most women don't care for that.
My husband came home one day after work and said "I think Josh is lonely." I said "ok, why do you think that?" His response was reasonable. I then told him to invite Josh over for dinner. We sat and talked for hours. I kicked him and my hubby out to the garage so I could clean up. The next day I got a text saying how much he needed the family environment and how he appreciated us letting him join in. He said he didn't know he was lonely since his divorce. He missed the sound of kids in the house. This is a society issue, not a gender issue. We need to look out for one another.
Thank you so much for helping a person in need. You phrased that beautifully and I hope your friend is doing better
Amen! Random side note: My bf who passed away in 2017 his last name was Donahue. I miss him a lot!
Thank you for saying this. As i got older more and more of my friends got married and had kids and it was like I didn’t exist anymore.
The loneliness is unreal sometimes.
The only ones i’ve heard from are the ones that got divorced and were between wives.
Soon as they got married again - we don’t exist.
There is a lot or activity for children, mothers, families but what do single people get? Exile, loud bars, societal disassociation.
You are an amazing human being.
Yes this!
The loneliest I ever have been is when I was married. I didn't tell her anything because it was used against me, it was a inconvenience, or used for gossip. I stopped telling her, she got upset because I wouldn't...Her attitude was clear... don't tell her anything bad...
No disrespect, but out of curiosity....why wasn't enough time given in life before that marriage to understand that this was what it was going to be?
@williamj.dovejr.8613 - It seems like we are all asking women for something they will never provide us.
@@exothermal.sprocket She hid it very well for a long time.
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 like 8 years? I married only after 8 years for example
It's controlling behavior used to mitigate anxiety caused by a fear of abandonment. They can't help but push men away.
Glad she took time out of her day to make someone else's struggles about herself. She seems like a real gem of a friend.
Well said.
I see this struggle and there is a struggle today concerning the way men and women relate to one another is that women are very picky in wanting men who are tall, make a lot of money, and are seen as desirable by other women. Men on the other hand are not acting like real men. They are tall boys who want to spend their time playing video games. So they are not seen as desirable to women. The truth is both need to stop watching social media and want Hollywood says and just talk with each other. Get off the computers and their phones.
@@vanmoodywhat happened to this world where women want a perfect man. But the man wants to be a man child all his life instead.
Humanity will be extinct if this keeps going
@@vanmoodyLmao no. I am more willing to give up on relationships and women than give up my video games. However, your point about Social Media is correct.
The reality is obvious. American women are looking for a tall rich man they can divorce and get money they didn't earn.
The selfish gold-diggers can go work in an office and collect cats and die alone.
And this is why we rather be by ourselves than in a relationship.
@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp A western woman talking to men about facing accountability. Now I've heard it all! 😂
@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp Who says that we even WANT one? The feminist in the video? I don't let her speak for me. I like being single! 🤷♂️
@@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp yes, it is a choice. we have the right to choose just like you have the right to choose. If men wanna be alone, they can be alone just like you women choose to be alone, we can choose to be alone. We take accountability more than women do. Whether you believe it or not. we heal just like everybody else heals. We hurt just like everybody else hurt but we can’t display that hurt because it makes us look weak to the world. And also men are refusing to deal with women because you think it’s all men’s fault and it’s not women are more fault than men are because you refuse to take accountability from what you do.
@@muhammadbrantley5510 Of course there are men who choose to be alone just like women. BUT the overwhelming majority are NOT choosing it! The male loneliness epidemic does NOT mean that men are CHOOSING to be alone! It is because WOMEN are choosing to not date, not marry, not have kids, etc. Women in high numbers are REFUSING to deal with men. Also, older women 50 and up are divorcing their husbands in DROVES, in turn, leaving those men lonely. There are tons of stats, research, and studies on this. THAT’S why it’s called an EPIDEMIC because it’s a HUGE issue for men! Have a blessed day!!! ❤️
@@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp it’s a choice we got the right to choose and you can believe it or not. But that’s what it is. It’s a choice.
This is the equivalent of telling a depressed person "Just cheer up."
Just cheer up bro. Just do it
Yep. I believe people should take personal accountability but when outside sources are the cause of your pain or struggles then there's not much you can do. And if it's hard for you to fix your struggles that you're causing then other people should be kind enough to help you
Technically she said get help from your friends and talk about it with your male friends. Her recommendation is just seek a free therapist.
Or telling a depressed person to get help where you can actually get help.
What are woman supposed to do about it?
How is that woman's responsibility?
Don’t waste your time with “please don’t stalk me” she blames men for everything and misandry is her passion.
Yup, women tell us to open up and share our feelings more and this is what we get.. this is why men dont talk about our feelings because as soon as we do, we're seen as weak and we're no longer respected.. and this is especially true with the women we love the most..
100% such a catch 22
Unfortunately there are plenty of people who will look down on a man being vulnerable.
However if your close women are the ones doing it then there’s a balance issue in that relationship.
One of my exes was so caught up in ‘being the man’ (His words) to be strong and supportive & not vulnerable that he ended up disappearing for weeks at a time without telling me what was going on or that he was struggling. Then pretending everything was ok or trying to blame me when he was around.
I told him he could talk to me, I showed him I was there no matter what & if space was what was needed that I would not question that, just asked that he at least tell me he was going off grid for a bit so i didn’t worry.
He did…. One time… after 6 months of it I couldn’t do it anymore and broke it off. He chose to blame me for that too and then got mean about it.
Anyway the point is don’t allow yourself to be so closed off that you can’t let those who truely love you in. Because someone that truely loves you will support you through a rough patch and listen when you need to talk or hold you if you need to be held.
We are not all walking contradictions. If one says “open up” and someone else says “be a man” those two people aren’t contradicting one another. They just have different opinions
@@moonorchid9242!!!! yuppp i feel you i have gone thru the same
Opening up to women is like your Maranda rights, you have the right to remain silent and better. If you give up your right to remain silence, everything you say and do WILL be used against you. You have the right to an attorney when she files for a divorce to take everything you own. You won't be able to afford the attorney but you will pay for her attorney. If you don't understand these rights to be a single man, it's your fault.
@@moonorchid9242I was married for 19 years to a slut who claimed she loved me but didn't give a damn about me or our marriage. I was there as a ATM only. I opened up once with her and regretted it later. 99.9% of females are walking contradictions. That's why a smart man would never open up to a female and prefer to stay single.
I love how women are upset when men tell them our problems, but they are constantly telling us all the things they go through in an accusing tone. Women want us to fix THEIR problems but they refuse to even listen to ours. Thank you for what you said at the end, Emily. It is true. Men have to deal with our problems alone.
Isn’t the whole cliche that women don’t want men to fix anything, they just want them to listen to their venting?
Most women seem to think that men have no feelings, are unable to be hurt emotionally and have to be strong enough to deal with anything that happens in life. Women need a wake up call to this kind of conditioning
Exactly!
Women also get upset when men *don't* open up to them, about their own feelings. 🤦🏽♂️
Being a man often seems like dehydrating in a desert while having to listen to someone complain about their cup being half full.
I can be vulnerable with my wife. Even after she told me to "figure it out". She almost unmarried us. I asked my dad for help, that was tough. He's the only one who offered helpful advice. Her friends and family would rather watch me waste away in desperate, lonely depression before saying a word.
The world does not care about "how men are doing". You can find that person that'll help you when nobody else will. Psalm 91.
There's a difference between being lonely and being alone. I spend most of my free time alone and am incredibly happy about it.
Same at least I hang with friends and sometimes I have my me time
@@francoisregis2155 i like chocolate bars! (has exactly as much to do with this video as what you offer)
You can not be lonely if you like the person you are alone with.
Well then this video isn’t about people like you
I spend almost every night at home on PS4 with the boys, so I'm never really alone unless I choose to be, but it does help cope with the longing for a loving, affectionate, & appreciative feminine partner. At least one major upside to this is that you don't have to worry about any unnecessary drama that women often bring to a relationship, so there's that.
“I don’t wanna diminish that”
*Proceeds to diminish it*
Double standards my bro the double standards.
@@TheBrokenCoast Preach, brother.
@@TheBrokenCoast Exactly, brother.
Our culture has given our women a lot of undesirable qualities. They value possessions, that is it. Go international and it is easy to find women that value the family unit. I had to do that 14 years ago. Best thing that ever happened to me.
@@johnl9977men are largely to blame, to be honest. If "we" would've had higher standards and not tolerated so much bs, I don't think there would be so many narcissistic women. That's not to discount other factors - because they definitely exist(ed) - but too many kiss-asses helped fuel this fire.
This is what a heartless BEING sounds like. A real HUMAN shows kindness in the face of pain❤
Whats happening is no one knows how to talk to each other anymore and we keep reacting to each other like we are bad for each other. This can't be fixed.
We know how to talk to each other. The problem is one side is forced to listen to the other side with not only zero reciprocation, but active disdain and mockery. Men in relationships are terrified of sharing how they feel because we have been taught through experience that at a minimum you'll get told no one cares or to man up. Or far worse what you share will be used against you in ither discussions later. Women know how to listen. They listen to each other all the time and validate each other's feelings. But when it comes to listening to a man? Even the man they are in a relationship with?
@@mycroft16 I think you're giving too much credit to women who are clearly narcissistic, or at the very least incredibly self-centered. Far more so, I think, are there women out there who think they can listen but obviously cannot. "Listening" for them is entirely one-way and you do not matter (and are not part of the equation at all). As the femoid in the video showed, these kinds of women are the first to discard your feelings and the last to validate them. They'll never listen and communicate with you, but always you to with them.
@@bakerboat4572That's basically what I said.
Men are opting out of relationships at such an alarming rate that bridal shops are going out of business.
Male loneliness is literally affecting the economy.
Correlation does not mean causation.
Bridal companies are going out of business because of many factors, with the biggest one being Online Shopping and the runner-up being Covid.
@@awesome-dp1oo It does when the marriage rate is the lowest in 122 years. This is called statistical data.
@@kelanderson401 bridal shops can't compete with online markets, especially when you can find the same dress online for cheaper, and with more customization. All that and you don't even need to leave your house, bridal shops could never compete.
The dating scene is barely a factor in bridal shops going bankrupt.
@@awesome-dp1oo Online customization. First time.
@@awesome-dp1oo, and every married man knows how much crap our wives have ordered online that didn’t fit. And you think online Bridal dresses 👗 beats trying it on in person? And that is somehow the reason why bridal shops are closing?? Sole reason?? 🤦♂️ couldn’t be MGTOW or Boss Babe mentality or statistical data.
Reminds me of what Berne Brown said during one of her Ted talks.
"For men, shame is not a bunch of competing, conflicting expectations. Shame is one, do not be perceived as what? Weak. I did not interview men for the first four years of my study. It wasn't until a man looked at me after a book signing, and said, "I love what say about shame, I'm curious why you didn't mention men." And I said, "I don't study men." And he said, "That's convenient."
And I said, "Why?" And he said, "Because you say to reach out, tell our story, be vulnerable. But you see those books you just signed for my wife and my three daughters?" I said, "Yeah." "They'd rather me die on top of my white horse than watch me fall down. When we reach out and be vulnerable, we get the shit beat out of us. And don't tell me it's from the guys and the coaches and the dads. Because the women in my life are harder on me than anyone else.""
Saw a clip from that last week on this same channel, but had no clue who the lady was or where to find the full thing (and forgot to go into detective mode)
That's an awesome clip! She got humbled quick!
For me, when I lost my job at 21 many years ago my sister kicked me out on the street. Many years after that after my partner cheated and left I went to live with my mother and sister. Some time later they threw me on the street again. Had to rebuild my life again all alone. I'm ok now but my point is for a lot of women they treat men like garbage when a man goes through hard times.
After my ex left me bc asking for help driving me to surgery (hospital requirment) was "pathetic" there is ZERO question in my mind that you can EITHER live an authentic life as a full human being OR you can have sex.
I told her "Patriarchy does not just walk around in men" and walked out.
I've decided on an authentic life and possibly an occasional cuddle with strangers cos the real actual human man is not lovable.
And we don't have to blame feminism bc nature saw fit to rig our genome to birth
105 boy infants per
100 girl infants.
There's just too many of us. They have these statistical advantage for selection so. Therefore, our culture at least for dating reflects that advantage. We are in fact disposable.
@@fm2dmaxman, I’m just coming to terms woman as creatures are awful
They don’t love do they, more like a trophy you have to fight for every day, and they sound less and less appealing
Subscriptions suck, I’m a buy for life kinda guy
"...At least your problems are taken seriously..." ~Bill Burr
E we hss as t a line!
I finally understand why so many guys (and gals), but mostly guys, pick me to open up to. I actually listen, and neither offer to fix them, nor tell them to fix themselves. They are trusting me with their vulnerability! Their stories are not mine to tell.
I’ll take a lot of other people’s secrets to my grave.
Guys are pretty good at fixing ourselves. We just want to feel like someone listened and understood because we get that so very rarely. Mostly it's man up. Be a real man. Stop being a sissy. So for someone to listen, not try to fix it, and just give us emotional validation is life altering for most of us. We can figure the solution out if we haven't already. Society tells is from single digit age to suppress and hide how we feel because no one cares. It's why we're always fine. We are rarely fine. So thank you for just listening and allowing them to feel heard.
And you're a wonderful person for that.
It says something about the other women in the comments still complaining that it's men's fault for not talking to other men about emotional issues.
I also do that and try to support them I think I'm a magnet for struggling people but yeah I don't gossip and don't judge
Men are lonely
Women: Fix it yourself!
Women are lonely
Women: Men need to do something about this!
and as soon as they try ideas, passively embrace it like mgtow or actively like going abroad, hell breaks loose. Hypocrisy is rampant
Dont forget that the option to get a female partner still is: "We need a real mean to step in as a father (personal ATM) of my 2 children of different parent..."
That is kinda the average "best deal" on the table in "take it or leave it" tone.
Men are lonely
Women most affected
@@GamingProspector84
That's basically the response when MRA's discuss fathers rights in family courts where mothers have overwhelming supremacy.
Or in criminal court where women get off most crimes with a slap relative to men getting time for the same crime.
@@mnomadvfxI read that if one equalised all the discounts women get in the crimini justice system (arrested less often for the same crimes, charged less often, charged with lesser crimes for the same actions, given better plea deals, given lighter sentences, etc.) then you'd have roughly 90% as many women in prison as men, possibly 95%.
That's not even counting shit like false accusations and women using the justice system, especially family courts, as a proxy for punishing men for whatever.
This is priceless. You know how many people say "Society teaches men to hide their feelings"? This is it, this is society doing it in real-time. Right here.
How is it getting men to hide their emotions by asking what you expect women to do to fix the lonliness of men ? It's a valid point. If your lonely it's your own responsibility to correct that for yourself. Not to have people do it for you. If it's that bad see a therapist who get paid and educated to be able to help you personally.
@@thosewhocare2427 more misandry. Crazy. Lol 😂
I'll put it another way.
Women: "Society teaches men to hide their feelings, men need to be open"
Men: "A lot of us are dealing with loneliness and feel depressed"
Women: "That sounds like your problem."
@@thosewhocare2427
When you tell someone, “we don’t want to hear it, go fix it yourself” that’s exactly what you’re saying.
You literally just did it too. Congrats, you’re part of the problem.
@@deltoro8816 it's called personal accountability ypu should try it
Getting “what am I supposed to do about it” as a response is one of the main reasons why men don’t speak up about loneliness.
Or anything for that matter
What happened to just listen and don't try to solve the problem?
Totally missing the point. You become lonely when you don't have an emotional support system, which can be your partner sure, but you also need to have friends that are there for you. And men are usually friends with... drum roll... other men.
@@cheche373that's a form of support females tend to prefer. Males often do want help with figuring out a solution - although someone listening and showing empathy is still nice.
If you dont speak up, THATS ON YOU. Why dont men talk to other men instead of complaining about women?
The only three people to EVER ask me how I'm doing mentally and emotionally in 27 years are all men. My father, my manager, and one of my friends. I haven't been treated with any concern by women, even the two that raised me. The only one to "care" about me was my most recent ex, and she left me because her self esteem was "declining" after calling her out on her 50/50 relationship hypocrisy.
I really fear for my son. He’s currently a teenager. There’s so much toxicity directed towards boys and men now. it’s amazing to me how women can be so sensitive to the toxicity that they are exposed to and yet turn around and flood the environment with the same toxic trash.
1 in 3 females are sexually molested on average in the states. Rape on college campus are an all time high. Porn and drug abuse use are on the rise along with the mental health crisis and yes there is a direct link between all these issues. Combine this with all the toxicity in music, movies and social media, the boys and girls have grown up with a completely fucked up sense of entitlement far removed from reality. The upcoming generations are in for a huge wake up call before society eats itself from within
Take him out of public school now
@@junicohen7918ong. Homeschool him
Here's why it's not that shocking: the outer world is a projection of your inner world. To girls, they've been abused, used, and objectified for so long that they are full of hate and anger and loneliness. So they project that out onto the world around them affecting it in a negative way. The only real way to make change is for people to learn to heal. Turning around the same ugliness into the world that you've dealt with doesn't help anyone or anything. And it's not just women vs. men, it's black vs. White, rich vs. poor, repubs vs. Dems. No one treats each other with respect with anymore, we're all so divided and we just keep swinging the pendulum back n forth instead of trying to stop the stupid swing. People need to learn to love and respect others even when it's hard, even when you don't agree with them, even when you perceive that they've wronged you. This world is becoming such an ugly and hateful place.
I've a couple of jobs where the majority of coworkers were women. It was like highschool, they were constantly talking about each other behind their back. Even the store manager did it. In my personal experience, guys can be physically abusive but women are soul crushing.
This is why I don't open up at all. Even when someone asks me, I just don't because 100% when I express how I feel it is used against me.
Yup
Unfortunately
As a woman, I'm so sorry that's happened to you. My two closest friends are men. We share our deepest emotions with one another. Sadly, not everyone understands love and respect.
Simply put, it is men against the world.
Never let them see you bleed and even with brothers from other mothers, just give a short overview, nothing more.
Just went through a 2 1/2 year divorce with the most selfish creature God ever created. I’m not lonely. I’m relieved. And somewhat off put.
Absolutely being with an ungrateful woman is not better than being alone. In the United States this is almost always what it becomes at some point
Freedom is priceless brotherman!
Ah, prenup and vasectomy... It's a theme song of those who believed... For those with faith.
Congratulations bro, hope your able to peaice it together and go again, surely there are some good women out there??? I hope
When did you marry my ex? 😂
But yes, some women are truly awful human beings. Not all, I don't think even most, but far too many.
"Women are so much more empathetic because we have actual emotional intelligence"
*man says he feels lonely
"I miss the part that is my problem"
Naah I helped both men and women but my bros were more supportive when I talked about my struggles. Women sensed my weakness and treated me badly even when I was kind
She just knows that a man would still be lonely even if she was in his life.
That's exactly what I was thinking.
She definitely doesn’t seem like a person who would commit to a partner
Reflecting, if that's possible???
she'd make him want to be alone
@@SusieQ3is your name a JoJo's refrence?
*Sometimes a man just needs a hug. Nothing more or less.*
Sending you virtual hugs my friend! 🥰😍😘
This. Take it from someone who shook uncontrollably when someone hugged me out of love. It shouldn't be like that for anyone.
I run a bar and some older gentleman who is a regular got a break up phone call while he was there. He fell on the floor sobbing, I picked him up and gave him a big hug. I don't know him that well but he is a good guy and he definitely needed it....we all need it sometimes
We all do.
Best example of that was the scene from Spider-Man when old girl just gave him a piece of cake after a rough day period that's all he wanted.
The obligatory quote here: Privilege is invisible to those who have it.
Yeah, I think black people have been telling white people this for the longest time. Now you have something to relate it too.
@@Teddy-fm9nt
Considering black women are usually treated better than white men in terms of legal disputes (be it criminal or civil) ya may wanna do a double-take there. Womanhood > white skin (or olive in countries where it ain't crackas who "held da brotha down" ;) )
Don’t think it is a matter of privilege being invisible to those that have.
More like a lack of empathy cause she spent her life having her pick of men but now that she got older, nobody chases her anymore. Her vibe screams “i am now lonely myself, stop taking of other people with the same problem i have and start giving me the attention i want.”
100%👍👍👍 nailed it.
Sounds like gaslighting
Feminists: Help us with our issues!
Men: Okay, will you do the same.
Feminists: What, no?! Why would help you? Fix it yourself.
😂
When women say “be more open with your feelings” what they mean is “be more demonstrative of how much you love me.”
With Money!!!
Yeah it means open your wallet and i want 5 exotic vacations a year minimum
"but only in front of my friends where it'll score me points against that b*tch Stacey"
Ding ding ding!
"Be more open with your feelings" and then you are demonized for having those feelings and labeled as not masculine enough. It's a death spiral.
As a man in my early 30's, to all those women friend zoning me as a "good" guy for the past years: stop sharing your feelings with me, fix it yourself. I couldn't* care less, I'm now fixing myself, working on myself and providing for myself.
Yep. They can go tell their bad boy boyfriend and see what happens.
@@michaelleza3291 welcome to the gym 💪 bro, cheers!
Pay cash for your house if you can and a plot of land to grow your own food. Then you can set high standards on your girlfriend and if she acts up. Well see ya.
Couldn’t* care less. If you can care less it means you care
Bro you sound bitter all women are not bad because you choose the wrong type ... I guarantee you keep going after the exact same type of women too 😅
“I think we’ll be fine.” - 95% of lonely dudes.
It’s all good bro
We will be indeed. Hopefully. If not.. it is what it is .
We'll be fine, if we ain't. Hell, it is what it is
I just ended a 6-month relationship.
(I never been better.)
My ex thought I was of talking to another woman on messenger because I was on there for 2 hours, and I'm usually never on Facebook or messenger.
(My cousin in Greece just got married... and THAT'S who I was talking too!)
But I say, "Babe. What's the problem? You're always on messenger. Do we need to talk about that instead?"
"THAT'S DIFFERENT!" she screams.
(oh, that's different)
"Well," I go on to say calmly, "you can continue talking on messenger to whoever you want, for as long as you want, and so can I...or I'll be done with you right now."
She freaks out and then she's all like, "WHY! CUZ YOU MET SOMEONE ELSE!?"
I tell her, "Nobody, and I mean nobody, is going to have one set of rules for me and a different set of rules for themselves. You're out of your Goddamned mind if you think that. I do what I want. You will not police my conversations. Fuck that shit."
She yells, "OH I KNOW HOW YOU ARE! IT'S MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY! THAT'S WHAT YOU ALWAYS SAY!! AND I DON'T LIKE YOUR WAY!!!"
"Well," I explain to her, "now it's just the highway. So enjoy it, Little Miss Big-Mouth."
*Imagine a desert Highway with all of my ex-girlfriends standing around, and tumbleweeds are rolling by, and some are holding up one thumb hitchhiking.* 👍
*Imagine coyotes.*
*Picture a cactus or two.*
Now imagine my first girlfriend ever,
walking up to my last girlfriend ever,
and I mean my ex, Little Miss Big-Mouth, and she's saying to her, "You dumb bitch. His way was a luxury car with heated seats. Who chooses the highway???"
*OW, OW, OW-WOOOOOOOOO!!!!!*
"WAS THAT A COYOTE!?" asks my ex?
And one of the other women says, "Hell yeah, that was a coyote. It sucks out here."
"WELL, WHEN IS HE COMING BACK!?" asks Little Miss Big-Mouth.
The other women snicker and laugh at her.
My first girlfriendㅡprobably a skeleton with a wig by nowㅡsays to Little Miss Big-Mouth, "DON'T YOU GET IT!!??? HE'S NOT COMING BACK!!! EVER!"
She grabs my last ex by the shoulders and shakes her until two of my other exes pull her off!
"OKAY," says my most recent ex, "MAYBE SOMEONE BETTER WILL COME ALONG. GEEZ..."
"Sure. That's why we're still here," says a girl way in the back.
The sun begins to set and one of the other womenㅡa boss babeㅡsays to the group, "Ok, girls. Gather up some sticks. Time to build a fire. It's about to get really cold out here."
They huddle together for warmth.
They throw their makeup in the fire pit.
They hold their hands over the flames, shivering, while I drive around in my warm car listening to the radio:
"I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S SO COLD!"
"Will you shut up?"
"Put your purse in the fire."
"FUCK THAT. PUT YOUR PURSE IN THE FIRE!"
"I already did! My first night here..."
(Oh yeah.)
That's music to my ears.
The other 5% are the ones who are truthful in admitting there's a problem. There is nothing OK with men pretending to not be in pain, to not be suffering, to say everything is fine when it isn't.
I learned this lesson in my twenties - 40 years ago. No woman wants to know my personal inner struggles. But she does demand I listen to hers with utmost earnestness. Nope.
Younger men are learning that lesson a lot earlier.
Exactly why most men keep it bottled in or permanently harm themselves. If we express emotion, it will get used against us or thrown back at us to where it's our fault.
Absolutely. I can say for me that my journal is my best space to be vulnerable, for exactly the reasons you mentioned: it can't be used against me or become a reason for someone to lower their opinion of me.
when she's being raped or if her hometown is being invaded by another country I think it's a her problem. what the hell are Men supposed to do?
💯
They always throw everything back in our face.
"Some men tell me this as if I'm supposed to care." - her real thoughts
After hearing so many women on the internet say exactly that, that was what I was expecting her to say, but she changed it to "supposed to do something about it."
Notice how she embellished the story by saying that the guy told her "in an accusatory tone " to victimize herself. Borderline sociopathic behavior.
👍 Fact. Well spotted.
Right out of the gate she framed the story/tried to bias the listener:
"In this story: man = aggressive, woman = victim)
Narcissistic rather. She doesn't view the issue as a problem for her, and so proceeds to push it away from being any type of priority for her to 'deal with'. A sociopath (if they recognize it...) would use and manipulate this situation to their advantage. A sociopath is more likely to use some faux-charm and even appear empathetic to manipulate the situation; while a narcissist is generally going to go 'victim card' to steer the debate to their own worth by devaluing the other person and/or their argument
That bothered me as well when she said it that way.
"Wait accusatory...so a man answering the question as to Male Lonliness is having an accusatory tone...?"
Most likely she uses Mansplaining a lot...
The irony is she's acting like any man would ever trust having such a vulnerable conversation with her about this issue. Yeah, sure bitch.
Women are experts at manipulation.
Social media has destroyed women
I wish apps such as tiktok, Facebook and Instagram never existed in the first place, they need to be banned permanently
If I had to choose between loneliness and that harpy, I would welcome loneliness!
The logic of the entitled. "Everybody must help me, but I am not obligated to help anyone else."
Where in this video did this woman expect men to fix her loneliness or unhappiness either?
@@laurarsheppard What in the world? Your comment is so out of left field, it's like it must be coming from a bot. It has nothing to do with what I said OR the video.
@SG-js2qn I'm not a bot. Your comment implies that the woman in the video (not Emily) acts entitled to receive help from men, but not obligated to help men. I'm saying, no, she's not claiming any right to receive help EITHER.
@laurarsheppard She is not offering to help either. As she stated, lonely men act "like I should do something about it". I guarantee if she is dating a man, she would want that man's shoulder to cry on when her life takes a downward spiral. The same type of man she would tell, "Suck it up, buddy", if things got hard for him.
I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than end up with a cold hearted woman like this she isn't worth my time.
It's better to be alone, than to wish you were.
@@gregwatruba4541 I've been alone for the past 5yrs since my ex-wife and I got divorced so it's nothing new to me.
No one I know has it figured out. Everyone is lonely. Married and single, it hits them all. In a relationship but it’s not with the right person? That’s lonely. Hunting for someone, anyone at all? That’s lonely. Giving up and choosing to be alone? That’s lonely. What percentage of people are ACTUALLY enjoying this experience of life? Look inward, love yourself, enjoy the moments, and be grateful for the things you’ve got. Whether it’s a lot or the bare minimum, someone else out there has it worse. Work on yourself. Be positive. Be optimistic and be patient. If you build something within yourself that cannot be torn down, you’ll find that this feeling of loneliness was just boredom, it was inaction, it was anxiety about not being enough, so make yourself into a castle with strong walls but with open doors, and let the people and experiences pass through you, don’t sit in judgement behind locked gates on a hoard of self loathing. Enlightenment from within is the cure to loneliness from without.
The loneliness that we're experiencing isn't for friendship and platonic love, it's for romantic love and to build a life with a partner. Many guys can hang with their boys all day and night but they're still lonely.
I have a group I enjoy spending time with yet every night I stare at my ceiling wondering why I feel so alone.
I kinda don't believe you, Women aren't lonely when they are single. So what dose that say about men? Men need to be better friends to eachother so the loneliness isn't so crippling while they develop the social skills to persue a romantic relationship.
Edit: because people don't even know what subject I'm discussing... You need friendships in order to develop the emotional and social skills that make it possible to develop a romantic relationship. The loneliness epidemic is a societal problem baised on society untraining men from having any kind of relationships and experienced by men who have difficulty even forming friendships because of how deep the destruction of manhood is and how it's imprisoned by threats of "being gay" or "being a girl"
@@Glacierlune Right because you understand exactly how male relationships work and what they need to succeed. How about you spend some time in a man's shoes before assuming you know how fix their problems.
@@Glacierlune Among almost all women, this is a HARD case of "you can't see your own privilege". Women do not realize they live without an anxiety that men
live with constantly and that's the anxiety of knowing you can easily
die alone. We are HYPER aware that if we do not perform and put in
almost all the effort to meet and court a women, that we will very
likely never meet anyone. On the flip side, every average or above
average women is subconsciously aware that if they want male
companionship, even if it's with a slightly less desirable mate, they
just need present themselves for conversation and laugh at a few jokes
and there's a decent chance they'll get it. You know that really big female friend you have
that has a hard time finding a partner and is really dejected about it
all the time? Yeah, she's dejected because she doesn't live with that
same privilege as other women because men judge her on her weight. She's dejected because she's living with the possibility that she may die alone. She's
dejected because she's living life like a man does, only difference is
society prepares us for it a bit, women have ZERO clue how to court a
man if they're not conventionally attractive/average usually.
@@markgaumee okay, I'll go put on my shoes. And yes, this is exsactly how I fixed my problems with male relationships.
Honestly the hardest thing about having male relationships as a male myself is that some men are so terrified of being labeled feminine or gay for interacting with other men in an emotionally supportive role. And not abandoning eachother when things are rough because "tough man can handle by self"
I really look up to my brother who also doesn't let toxic masculinity disrupt him from expressing natural masculinity. It's something we learned from our father, who didn't grow up in American culture so he was free of toxic masculinity. Ironically my father is very masculine but would be considered feminine by the toxic masculinity standards. Thank God that is finally dying out so men can actually grow up to be real men secure in their healthy masculinity.
Her: “men need to fix their own issues!”
Also her:”why doesn’t my man open up to me?”
Preach
😂👏
What man
Because then they use it against us as a weapon.
What?? Fixing your issues doesn't mean shut everyone out and emotionally block yourself. It means identifying the problem and finding solution to fix it. If a solution is talking about it then bam, problem solved. If the solution is stop talking to someone then bam, problem solved. Emotionally blocking your partner because you have issues simply means the relationship wasn't ment to last anyway.
Sweetheart… women like you are the reason why we’re COMPLETELY okay being single. 😂
She is posting this because she brings chaos stress and drama to every man she comes across but in every possible way she is blame shifting. True narcissistic sociopath.
@@ryanshorter6422 been there, done that, bought the t-shirt and then burned it! 😂
@@stephenpatemusic😂
@@ryanshorter6422 Yes, she's the crazy one, not the guy making up a whole ass backstory and diagnosing a random stranger with mental health problems based on a few seconds of video.
@@ryanshorter6422Guys are coming at her with accusations, like she owes them something because they feel lonely. That's really creepy of them.
People may be up my ass about this, but the dark haired girl is right. While she could have conveyed her point less harsher, it still stands. I see so many men online solely blaming women for them being lonely. These are also the same men that throw pity parties for themselves, don’t check up on their friends, and do nothing to solve the problem. You cannot help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. As someone below me expressed, I believe this is a societal issue, in which society has gotten more and more isolated over the years.
No one wants to feel bad.
Ask male friends how are they?
You mean those who are more lucky when it comes to loneliness?
Sounds malicious to me.
@@montoya-400 you’ve completely missed the point.
Ah yes, Womens didn't played with Men's feelings, didn't teased them, didn't bullied them like everyone else?
@@AbdullahChristopher-x9k dude you are not lonely! You are despered! Women can sence that and avoid it at all cost! Build your self some confindence.
@@AbdullahChristopher-x9k It’s best to not generalize. No, 95% of women don’t view men as disposable or “backup” boys as you call it. Not sure where you came up with that. Perhaps you spend too much time on social media. Try going outside, look for purpose, create spaces for other men. Complaining will not do much.
Then they say "where have all the good men gone?"
You can't make this up! 😂😂😂
No one's saying that anymore, useless boomer. Move on.
That isn't what she asked. She probably has a good man or beta/simp options. She asked why men are not helping lonely men to deal with loneliness. It's not a difficult question. ❤
@@natashadickson4819I think men are just moving on from America women in this country will never understand it's just over at this point seriously men are just moving on and giving women there deserved freedom in America
@@natashadickson4819 Men are starting to, but every change has consequences, and one consequence of men learning to go to other men for support and thus establishing in-group preference for protecting those men is that there is one less reason to form families. If women are career chasing and men are learning to go to each other exclusively for emotional support, there will be even more children growing up without two parents. What do you think all these red-pill communities popping up online are? That's men going to other men with their problem, and then emotionally preferring those men when looking for solutions.
If a woman says that, ask what one looks like. What does a good man be like?
Yes, you ARE supposed to do something. Be friends, talk to them, do ANYTHING. I’m so sick of this dismissive ‘go and get therapy’ attitude people use to excuse continuing to be jerks
Well we see how well therapy helps about 50% of the female population....most screwed up segment with mental health issues is women and all of them that are in therapy don't seem to be getting anywhere but they know how to blame men
Except we DO! We try to be friends, then get trashed when we don't want more than that. So if we don't fuck you guys, we're "friend zoning" you. But if we DO fuck you, then we're "hoes."
Women: I'm lonely
Men: whoa! Me too!(hint hint)
Women: sounds like you have a problem. You better go fix it....
lol right
Hint hint lol 😂 that's so adorable
Well, in a way she’s not wrong. It is up to us all to heal our own hearts. But, that being said we all need to have more compassion for our fellow brothers and sisters. We’re all in this together, regardless of our sex. Best advice, and I’ve done this myself, is to seek out a life coach/spiritual guide. You will be much happier for it.
This also goes for women who think it’s a man’s job to make our lives better. No, we make our own life better. Only we are responsible for ourselves.
"I don't want to diminish this but I'm totally going to make this about me."
Man: “I need a hand. I broke my leg”
Woman: “Not my fuckin problem”
Or yuck I've got a boyfriend .why should I help you what do I get .
@@chrisangus7078they bring little but ask for everything
"oh so you can't work anymore? Um bye"
I broke my leg once the day before a first date. The girl decided to come to me and that was the best first date I ever had. Unfortunately (or fortunately), I made all the mistakes in the world and we separated. She got jabbed later on so it relieving to know she wasn't for me.
Dude.... that's literally my life.
I'm disabled.
I ask a dude friend for help, they help.
I ask a female friend for help and she wants to know why she needs to help me.
"People who cant communicate think everything is an argument."
That would explain so much about my ex.
The entirety of left America rn
Yup, things I wish I knew when I was a lot younger.
I'm sick if a lot of men bashing and treated us like crap, then expecting us to turn around and be their therapists.
Nah this is a manchild thing, people who blame women are coping for their own insecurities. This is 100 percent an issue with men, not women.
Terrible mindset right there.
And yet they accuse all men of being predators as though I’m able to do anything about it 😂
Her eyes are as black as the devil's soul. Watch out for them gingers.
Stay thirsty my friends..
🧔🏻
Yeah, right! Except you know not be lol
I know right ... I'm doing my part by not being a predator that's about all I can do
When the vast majority of men wouldn’t ever do anything to hurt a woman, and the younger men of my generation were literally raised to be terrified of ever harassing a woman.
@@MisterPeckingOrder I’m terrified of being in the general vicinity of a woman without CCTV
Imagine we say that to them….
I have and will continue to do so.
@@johnblackrose I must do this😂
You should because loneliness is an individual problem. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman. No matter who it is, give it to them straight. That it's their own fault. Or they'll never fix it. World doesn't owe companionship to us. It's something to be offered as an individual.
Sincerely,
A woman
@@SeraYagamiThe thing is we are not living in a vacuum, while no one is entitled to a relationship, the way that lot's of women are carrying themselves right now has an impact on men, one gender can and do affect the other one, it's not only "men problem", this is something that women has to fix themselves as well. When most women run around men that are way out of their league and living normal guys in dust, it's not a mens problem, it's a women delusion problem.
Sincerely,
A man
@@PnPride😂
I'm 43 and never been married and I can honestly say that I'm not lonely. When you've had enough s***** relationships, you learn that there's nothing to miss. I'm living my best life, going back to school, traveling, enjoying life.
Each time i was with a girlfriend I could not handle the chaos it brings to your life. better single. I am 47
Yeah, and the thing you do miss smells like another man. Sheet isn't worth all of the things that they expect and demand ...constantly!
I'll be 33 soon and I'm the same way. Single and not lonely
When a woman says this, men come out the woodwork to blame them for their bad choices and call them lonely cat ladies. So both genders have their share of challenges and unfair judgement from society.
I'm 60 a love my wife and family more than life. I couldn't imagine being single. I'm glad you're happy, but I don't think that'd work for me.
I mean what she is trying to convey is that men tell her about their unhappiness insinuating that women are the reason behind their happiness and they fail to realise that we should not blame anyone for our unhappiness. And yes, going through loneliness is extremely hard, I have been there but never accused of my ex or any man for that and never seeked validation from just men. In fact, it was the men who told me that it is not a big deal to be lonely and accused me of making excuses.
“I don’t want to diminish that.”
Proceeds to diminish it.
This is precisely why we keep our mouths shut.
That makes no sense. You're literally only hurting yourself.
@@nataliewalton5118 We’d rather deal it with ourselves than have to deal with “It” ourselves anyway and still then have to suffer through their venom. Makes complete sense to me and if you say you wouldn’t do that personally then I’m sorry to inform you that you’re the exception to the rule.
@@41PH4B3TS0UP , let me put it another way. As a human, I wish tf I would let anyone stop me from getting things off my chest. Wtf would you spend one moment with a woman when you cant express your feelings to??? That's literally on you. We women have learned to Express ourselves. Find a woman who will do that, please stop acting like their so rare, their not.
@@nataliewalton5118 Thanks for proving my point.
@@41PH4B3TS0UPindeed she did.
I tried to help a woman with her problem once. She got mad. Said some things she shouldn't have. I blocked her number. Ten months later, she texted with a new number. Whatever. Not only am I done helping, but I'm also done "listening".
Almost similar situation.
Helping someone who keeps getting back to someone that keeps breaking them.
It's crazy!!!
I've trying so hard to shake her off and it's very hard.
But I'm determined to end this wild, crazy, unyielding experience.
Never try to help anyone who isn’t trying to help themselves
And then they go and do what you said and conveniently forget it was your idea and never give you credit.
@@61countdown exactly. He calls her names, he broke her spirit. I loved her. He was lying to make himself feel better.
She was way above his standards. She loved him and became attached. He's being doing it for more than 3years she said.
I fixed her. We went out sometime and she told me, she wants to take sometime and get over him and everything. And get back to me. That I should be patient with her. I agreed.
He came back apologizing. She accepted him. Lol
One night, he dissed her again. And she called me.
The next day I told her not to call me late at night. She didn't like it. But she's trying to keep to it.
That's how they are.
This is very true. I honestly don't know if I can take the constant loneliness anymore. If it wasn't for my daughters, I don't know where I'd be.
*Plot Twist:* There's ALWAYS been a male loneliness epidemic, it's just that the men aren't married now.
This. Well said.
Nah, it hasn't really. It's gotten worse now according to research and statistics.
@@jericobaThat only proves research has increased.
Just because they were married, didn't mean they weren't lonely.
No one was asking them, because no one cared how men felt about anything.
And really, they still don't.
Society only ever cares about how men feel, when it impacts negatively on women and children.
@@fredmercury1314some day it will impact them if it rises high enough. But it is eviden(tical?) (I don't know how to english xd) that technology plays a big role in the rising loneliness
I mean, no there hasn't. That's what makes it an epidemic.
We men are not lonely we're happy to be single. And you ladies can take that to the bank.
The male lonliness is nothing to do with women as most men are happy single, its the lack of brotherhood men have nowadays thanks to feminists destroying men's only spaces.
That's good for you then - but you don't speak for me, let alone all men, any more than this hag or emilywking speaks for all women.
If that were this video wouldn't exist 🤣🤣🤣 Also apart of the problem is that people immediately jump to romance when she's commenting on friendships between men.
And that's awesome. Women shouldn't be dating men just cuz they're lonely. They need to already be fulfilled and happy people to be good dating material.
Been happily single for all most 10yrs now and still don’t have any real plans to actively try to find a woman to share my life with to much hassle!
And they want to know why we don't tell them our feelings. We aren't allowed to have any!
Tell them to your dog. After all, they are mans best friend. Women come and go, but mydog will always be there.
@@christophervanheerden6499 Diamonds are a girl's best friend, so that all tracks....
I've never been told I'm not allowed to have feelings. I don't talk about them all the time, but sometimes I do with friends. We are allowed to have feelings, all of us.
@@loboahriman7680 you're right, they don't tell you that you can't have feelings, they just dismiss them.
@@rustymaples6986 depends on who you talk to. There are ppl out there who will listen, and there are ppl out there who won't.
For every lonely male there is a lonely female in most societies.
Also, we aren't lonely because we lack deep relationships with male friends. We're lonely because at the end of the day, we go to empty homes, sleep in empty beds, and wake up to silence.
“When the laughter is gone, I feel so alone”
And enter into a society shouting it neither needs nor likes us at the top of its lungs. That everything is our fault. Oh and how nothing matters.
Often, a man is with a woman that makes him feel alone. Case in point is Robin Williams.
Get a roommate? Adopt a pet?
Man! I would love come home to an empty house, empty bed and wake up to silence! Man!! that would be like hitting the jackpot!!!!!
I would rather be alone than stuck with a nasty person.
Many of us in that boat mate.
When I heard her say "When some Men tell me this." You knew she was 100% full of shit. No man told her nothing, and that's why she posted this. She gets nothing from Men because her character is garbage, acting like a child making up stories, and is one of the many fueling the narrative that males mature later than females.
i agree
The problem is that men don't work like that. They get their intimate, emotional support from us. That's what they're evolved to do. So yes, it is our fault and we need to fix it.
The boys can only do so much. Having friends to lean on is great, but doesn't solve the lack of companionship, which is what the men's lonliness epidemic is focused on
These women and society know that. They're just trying to dodge an issue that they created out of cruel and inhumane attitudes towards the bottom 95% of men.
Literally all men get told we have to do something about male violence, even when 95% of us have done nothing wrong.
Yet 95% of violence is committed by males. So who is the problem here? Let me help u. Males.
That's literally 100% men's job
@@Anthony-fp2jbNope. I did nothing. The strong and independent ladies can take care of themselves.
@@Anthony-fp2jbLiterally how. If Carl is going around doing Carl things that has nothing to do with Ralph. How is Tom supposed to fix John being a creep? Am I getting through to you yet? There’s literally nothing we can do, because we’re not doing anything. I am literally just sitting here. So how is it my problem when the person I’m not isn’t sitting here like I am? That’s their problem. Not mine. So how can you make Larry’s problem Jerry’s problem? It’s like blaming clowns for the way teachers act.
@@MisterPeckingOrder men in general. You may not be able to help someone you don't know and have never seen but you can help the ones you have seen. The male to female ratio is 101 to 100. Men should strive to marry a woman and protect her. Have children and protect them especially their daughters. Not exactly possible in our generation but it's our job to fix that too. We are the stronger sex and the leaders. No matter how much the elite tries to squash that, it still remains true. We can fix it. Question is, can we get all the guys on board? If we give up then we have failed women and society and all civility will fall and humanity will kill and rape itself out of existence
Hell, you can even be a married male...and still be lonely
Or have side women at any age and still be lonely. It doesn't matter anymore, all of this doesn't really matter.
Women: Men, stop being so rough on us! Just talk to us. We're people too.
Men: Ok
Women:
Yeah... When we want to be real, we get the silent treatment... Imagine that! 🙄
It's men's fault for listening to women in the first place.
There's no point in complaining. Just stop caring about women and you won't feel you're being treated "unfairly". There's nothing unfair in being dismissed by people you also dismiss.
Gave up worrying about women and finding one and I'm no less happy for it, and no I don't do men as I have a normally wired brain. But women these days aren't worth the chase, jist worry about you and bask in your success and watch as they flock to your wallet amd not to your personality. It's not a loneliness epidemic it's just real men don't want bratty, overprivelegd females in their lives.
@@icarus9097??????? 😊
As a woman, I do not claim her
In Mr. Rogers' words, find the helpers. No person can solve the epidemic solo, but you can find a way to help. And if you don't know what to do yet, find someone who is helping and learn from them.
When you realise a Male Loneliness Epidemic is also a Female Cat Lady Epidemic
Right?
Isn't that the same thing?
Don’t waste your time with “don’t stalk me…..” she blames men for everything. And comes here just to troll
Dude males can just st band together and have fun doing stuff while women basknin their misery.
No, because a male loneliness epidemic is just an excess of side chicks. The girls are choosing to be a girl named Tuesday rather than be an average dudes rest of their life.
When you realize life is a lie
I'm alone, but not lonely.
"Alone" is a physical state you're in, and "Lonely" is a feeling.
You can be lonely in a crowded room or marriage.
I'm a truck driver. Im alone all day.
I'm used to it.
I was never more lonely than when I was married and surrounded by false friends.
Exactly! I have CHOSEN to stop dating and be by myself, because I’m not needy and have never had a more fulfilling life. I travel a lot, meet people where I go, and don’t have a relationship to do not much more than bring constant negativity and bs into my life. Guys who sit here and cry that they can’t find a woman to care about them are really pathetic. Happiness is intrinsic, you don’t need validation from others…
If you ask a guy how his heart is doing, he's going to give you a BPM value...
Cholesterol is up, blood pressure is down
Yea.. got a Fitbit for Christmas. It has been great knowing how my heart is doing reliably. Bit high BPM, but I think that just means I need to exercise more. Dad is doing great with his daily 10ks so why can't I. Ya know?
Its like saying "with all due respect" to then be disrespectful.
And this is why I'm 100% apathetic to women's suffering. It's the only way for things to be fair. The only way I can not hate them.
since you have the same psychological reaction then you are one of the few man that can understand well why we woman are 100% apathetic to mans suffering
Way to sound exactly like the video everyone is criticizing.
Both replies missed the point, where did his apathy come from? I can tell you where as it was rhetorical, it comes from the masses of men caring for women's plights... only to have them treat men badly. Cause and effect. Women nowadays have had a cushy life so there's no reason for them to be horrible and apathetic towards men. As I said... cause and effect.
@@KingDomsKingdom85 🎯🎯🎯
There's a male loneliness epidemic because almost all of the women nowadays completely lack empathy.
And can't be trusted.
Or without an adult brain
Bro passports and over seas ....❤
A lot of them are narcissists
correct, because men are replaceable. if you allow women to be whores they will end up in chads harem and then 40% of men will be dejected and overturn the entire society. this is why in this very important case, christianity is correct. unless of course you dont want a stable society.
“You’re lonely?”
*Scoffs*
“Just talk to your friends!”
**turns my hollow gaze to the empty void**
“Hello, Darkness, my old friend.”
*insert acoustic guitar riff 🎶
You rang?
Ive come to talk to you again.
I'm 23 the older I get the less friends I have.
The only females who ever showed me any respect were married women or cats.
No one should be getting defensive over the need for personal responsibility, nor should any adult should expect random strangers to fix their problems.
This is where you're wrong.
Imagine everyone throwing stones at Jesus and you do too just because "it's not up to me to fix it".
By what could loneliness be fixed??
Invade men’s spaces, demand they include you, then complain about it online when they include you.
What men spaces? What are you even talking about?
BOYscouts of America, was sued because it didn't include girls. It was forced to include girls.
Girl scouts still won't include boys even if they want to join.
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 the workplace, the gym, video games that are targeted to boys/men. To a lesser degree, comic books. In this case, women insisting NONSTOP that men share their feelings with them, now women complaining that men are sharing too much and they don’t care.
Thought that last part was obvious.
@@duketogo25 she didn't say she didn't care.
Men should have and be able to open up to their support systems, of men and women.
Workplaces should be men's places?
The gym? Video games?
A lot of these things are marketed to women and men. They are not "MEN'S' places.
What the heck.
Lol
What century were you born in?
Don’t waste your time with “please don’t stalk me”. She blames men for everything and misandry is her passion.
Not all who are alone are lonely.
#1 answer right there!
Madea
And not all that are lonely are alone
Imagine reaching out to a friend, and having her blast you online and told to find someone else to lean on.
Well, my friend didn't do it in a public space, but other than that, don't need to imagine.
don't have to imagine, starting to lose count on my hands. All my remaining female friends are gay or married though. Cause they actually care.
showing someone you're interested in more or exclusivity so far has been the only thing that leads to this neglect.
It is a bit more nuanced than that, but she does actually have a good point. Men should not put their burden of loneliness on individuals because that isn't very fair to them. To her point, what is she supposed to do about it? marry the lonely guy on the spot? No shes already helping their loneliness by even being present with them in the first place. She is lamenting the burden being placed on her rather than the sharing of the mens struggles in the first place.
The men they're angry with are not the men suffering from loneliness.
They're the good dudes that take no for an answer, they respect women.
Cuz men go around asking other men “how their heart is doing”
LOL
Her suggestion is to change that and talk about real sht, like physical and mental health, not just sports, video games, gambling, maybe politics.
@@jameswilkerson4412 Her suggestion was to act like women which we are not. Maybe what she suggested (it wasn't a suggestion made with the intent to help, btw) would work for women, but men are different.
@@PercNP We’re really not that different though… y’all just don’t understand what we’re looking for.
😂
Also, the problem is not that men dont have male friends. It's attention/affection from women that is in short supply. She doesn't even understand the problem, but she's offering solutions. 🤦♂️
My thoughts exactly. A hug from my buddies doesn't help. I don't want a relationship with them. 😅
I don't think she understood what kind of loneliness it is about.
@allesdurchprobiert Very few women will ever understand that type of loneliness. It's very easy for them to get that kind of attention. So easy, that they often refuse it when a man is offering.
@madamabelladonna3704 I don't understand your point.
As for women complimenting each other, that's great, but it does nothing for me. 🤷♂️
@madamabelladonna3704 Once again, you are missing the point.
MEN ARE LONELY BECAUSE THEY AREN'T CONNECTING WITH WOMEN.
Men connect with men easily and regularly, but that is not what we crave.
But a romantic partner isn’t going to fix your loneliness issue. You can’t depend on one a person to fix your issue. You need friends and family as well. And many women are going to stay single for obvious reasons. You have to stop depending on women
Watching you play had taught me how to be chill in the most grueling situations and how to have fun regardless or whats goin on 👊😎