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  • I am surprised about what dating apps they use! 😱 I didn't expect their answers! Watch the whole video and maybe you'll also ask yourself "where are the ladies we see on dating apps then?"
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  • @johndev2212
    @johndev2212 Рік тому +94

    These young ladies seem well grounded and more mature than many in the west.

    • @Sahrokh
      @Sahrokh Рік тому +20

      To be honest, these days even a dead insect is more mature than in the west.

    • @EliteNugz
      @EliteNugz Рік тому +4

      @@Sahrokh lmao. Hilarious. But it's only so funny because it's 100% facts. Lol.

    • @EliteNugz
      @EliteNugz Рік тому +5

      They are. Eastern girls are better in every aspect. My girl is indonesian. Literally the perfect girl.

    • @Humblepie1234
      @Humblepie1234 Рік тому +2

      Well that's why a lot of men are going overseas and looking for a wife with more traditional values!

    • @Last-Ninja-1
      @Last-Ninja-1 Рік тому +1

      @@Sahrokh 🤣 A dead insect. that's actually quiet funny.

  • @schrodingerscat3912
    @schrodingerscat3912 Рік тому +26

    Have you tried dating apps?
    "I already have a boyfriend and I don't want to destroy his trust in me"
    God bless that woman. I wish we had more like her over here

    • @My_Darkest_Hearts
      @My_Darkest_Hearts 3 місяці тому

      "i already have a boyfriend and he already caught me twice so I don't want to destroy his trust for a third time."😂😂

  • @robertward39
    @robertward39 Рік тому +22

    I've heard many Pinay value politeness over honesty so I was surprised to hear such brutally honest answers. It was a good surprise and hopefully insightful for anyone looking to date in the Philippines.

    • @mikelisteral7863
      @mikelisteral7863 Рік тому

      women dont like dick picks. i gues they are too weak to handle hookup culture. they should get back into the kitchen

    • @key39762
      @key39762 Рік тому

      they might be shy to a man but not to a beautiful woman doing the interviews.

    • @StrategyMaster17
      @StrategyMaster17 Рік тому

      Nah. My filipina is values hinesty more than politeness

  • @flokka09
    @flokka09 21 день тому +2

    Good to see that some girls still have morals, looking for a an actual loyal girl no girls that just hook up

  • @dennisreeve8859
    @dennisreeve8859 Рік тому +10

    I find it wonderful at their reluctance to use dating apps. It shows me that they would have more real-time for human interactions.

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому +2

      Well they are young and have a plethora of options and most Filipina’s are not actively looking for partners…they are enjoying life and family …especially the younger city Filipina.

  • @williambrennan5701
    @williambrennan5701 Рік тому +15

    I got hundreds of messages from Filipina from 18 to 60 y/o on Filipina Cupid and others . I narrowed it down to just one after a few months . Half we're scammers. of those left I felt half were desperate just looking for a way out of their situation (sad) . 25% are real people looking for a relationship.

    • @tipigi3570
      @tipigi3570 Рік тому +14

      You're absolutely right about FC. That's exactly the same experience I had. Luckily, it did work out for me and my wife. We met there, back when it was called FilipinoHearts, and we've been married since 2011. A lot of people told me, "She's only after a green card", but the truth is, she didn't want to live in the U.S. so we now live in Cavite with our 10-year old daughter!

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому +2

      @@tipigi3570 Good luck to ya. 🙏

    • @My_Darkest_Hearts
      @My_Darkest_Hearts 3 місяці тому

      I'd say maybe more like 10-15% brother. poverty is rough and the will to survive and get out are powerful things. Even the most once innocent girl will shed her morals and clothing to use and abuse your ass... if the struggle is hard enough and the mark is foolish enough☠️🤯

  • @petermorgan4720
    @petermorgan4720 Рік тому +6

    Another great video, Rubeauti. Have used them before to find gf in PI, but (& there was an intelligent comment about this somewhere) developing a friendship first is so much better than going straight into dating. (PS Shocked by some guys' behaviour towards very gentle and typically conservative filipinas.)

  • @brianclark3026
    @brianclark3026 Рік тому +14

    Their responses were very interesting and surprising I am already married to a Filipino and I had met her on Filipino Cupid and we met about six months after we started communicating through Filipino Cupid and then after a month of communicating on Filipino Cupid we just communicated on messenger exclusively

    • @Dros87
      @Dros87 Рік тому +1

      The site has such bad reviews and rating when I was debating about using the app myself. I will give it I a go I suppose and congratulations to you as well.

  • @tonykidd7441
    @tonykidd7441 Рік тому +27

    How refreshing…women want to find partners organically, there is still hope for this world, lol. I’ve never used a dating app but I’m fascinated by the business model and data analytics of the apps. Feels like the rise of hookup culture due to these dating apps is creating more rhetoric of “all men are trash” and all women require the 6’s…but of course neither are true. Great interview, the women have a good head on their shoulders.

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому +3

      The younger city Filipina have a plethora of options in the city, whether it be work, family , church or going out etc. This is why do not feel the necessity to use the apps, even if they wanted to meet a foreigner guy there are places that foreigners are more prone to hang out in BGC for example. The great thing about the dating apps is it takes out the heavy grind out of the “ wish list”. For example I personally knew I wanted university educated, middle class Filipina …worked out etc. So that instantly cuts out 95% Filipina’s …but it’s more romantic to meet in person if possible.

    • @soup-nazi6824
      @soup-nazi6824 Рік тому

      The west has the problem & it gets worse every day..

    • @BIFC216
      @BIFC216 Рік тому +3

      There's no such thing as organically meeting someone

    • @robertl2227
      @robertl2227 Рік тому

      What are the 6's?

    • @tonykidd7441
      @tonykidd7441 Рік тому +1

      @@robertl2227 6ft+ tall, six figure income, 6 pack abs, 6+ inches

  • @hjander
    @hjander 4 місяці тому +2

    Pinay girls look so young. Girls who are 30 years old look like they are 20 years old. Salamat! Love your channel!

  • @Grifondorzo
    @Grifondorzo 8 місяців тому +4

    morale: they don't use apps, scammers instead they often use it, their prices are insane so you could be tricked into thinking those apps are good, and if you have to spend some bucks to know a girl just choose a bar and offer a drink to the girl you'd like to know, or buy her real flowers. Yes, be rejected on live is not nice, but you are gonna improve your social skills anyway, and not just your scrolling speed.

    • @motanelustelistu
      @motanelustelistu 25 днів тому +1

      I WOULD have GAVE you 1000 likes if i could honestly .
      The part about social SKILL is also true,just like chatting up to girls.
      Fortunately i live in a conservative country (with some feminism but not in the persons on the street, but the IMBECILES on tv) , so approaching is not as hard,but if you don't have confidence and exp. it can be .
      Long story short,at the church this year i saw a girl,toi fit for me ( i like those with 5-10 kg "extra" and a very little belly showing) but she was SUPER CUTE and got THE LONGEST MIST GORGEOUS LIGHT BROWN hair you've seen,si after ~ 2 hours of checking her out i knee sermon is getting to the end snd my window is closing,so i said hi, that She has a GORGEOUS LONGEST HAIR and if i can take a fee pictures,she hesitated a minute then said yes,and we started chating and got her ista,where she works out and then time ran out. She didn't yet accepted my request,but i have her pic,so i'll try to ask about her at the gym if can't contact her on insta.
      I also petted her hair and was MORE SMOOTH THAN SILK,I KID YOU NOT !!!
      I CAN SWEAR I CAN TELL YOU I FELT MY BALLS LITERALLY / FIZICALLY BIGGER AFTER THAT.
      It was my FIRST time talking to an unknown girl,but i guess it went DECENT considering ut was MY FIRST TIME.
      STILL,NEVER ACTUALLY ASKED A GIRL'S NUMBER ÎN PERSON,n it an unknown girl anyway, but I'm getting there. Maybe next time.
      So YEEES , try creating a discussion on the street but prrferably nit while walkingand nit when she's hurrying or with multiple friend,if your not confident or never Done it before , BUT YOU MUST OBLIGATORY, DEFINATELY,CLEARLY DO IT !!!

  • @elricbohn6483
    @elricbohn6483 Рік тому +3

    My experience is ,, my fiancé a beautiful province girl. Yes a dating app, honesty is always the best way to a woman’s heart. Filipina women are caring, family oriented and very very beautiful in all ways .

  • @TravellingMan20
    @TravellingMan20 Рік тому +6

    I really enjoy your street interviews always, you a really natural communicator. There are always some interesting and surprising answers. For my 2 pesos worth, those girls were all working city girls, with many opportunities to meet people every day, either at work or just out and about in general. In short they have the many opportunities of anyone who actually lives there. Most girls on dating sites are not girls with good jobs in the cities. Many are single moms, and many girls there have no job, and few opportunities to meet guys, especially if they want a foreigner. Dating sites are not for everyone, and girls need to be careful on them, but in the modern world I think they have their place. Thanks Rubeauti for another fun video….oh, love the dress btw.

  • @arnoldseay9118
    @arnoldseay9118 Рік тому +4

    I’m glad to see these girls are at least careful about dating apps. I met my Filipina online more than 20 years ago but not on a dating app. I checked some of them out but didn’t like them. We met on ICQ which was just a chat program and you could select different genders and different places to look for someone to talk to. It was much more fun than dating apps and not so much pressure. Great video Miss Rubeauti.

  • @OneJuanWon
    @OneJuanWon Рік тому +16

    Ah yes.....so many gems here. Watching their mannerisms and body language when answering the questions says so much. 😊 #FemaleTruthsRevealed

    • @gaajuhaggy7455
      @gaajuhaggy7455 Рік тому +1

      can you elaborate what you observed from this video i want to learn

    • @malaya8072
      @malaya8072 Рік тому

      Friendly eventhough shy. Very forward western dating approach might scare them away.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 Рік тому +2

    Very good perspectives!! Especially for me when they say In-person !!!

  • @jjwolven
    @jjwolven Рік тому +15

    It would have been nice to see what they would thought about using dating apps for meeting foreigners.

  • @bartphlegar8212
    @bartphlegar8212 Рік тому +4

    Never believed in the concept, but like some of your interviewees Rubi, I opened a profile out of morbid curiosity. I didn't expect much going in, so disappointment was a given. And for the expected reasons. Some keywords from my experience: catfishing, helplessness, judgmental, irrational expectations, job interviews, time differential, and the list is longer. There is a total lack of sensory perception to virtual dating, which is a serious handicap at even a basic evaluation of anyone. Non-verbal clues, such as body language, are minimal at best...The biggest problem I think is that people tend to take a picture of someone they think is attractive, and build a dream around that picture. While that may satisfy some sense of longing short-term, long-term it sets up the parties involved with entanglements brought about by ill-advised promises made based on insufficient or outright bad information...Say nothing of the expense! I paid $30 USD for one week, just to get a few contacts. Three or four months of that, one could use the money for a plane ticket... 😏 ...So if you're just using it for a meet and greet, or to populate your contacts, it's probably okay. But know the risks and limitations. But trying to find love?...It ain't for me... 😒 ...Stay awesome, Rubi!... 😉

    • @izzy2900
      @izzy2900 Рік тому

      Some things you probably left out
      1. Scammers (they'll suggest you invest in some bullshit to rob you, they'll give you some sob story that's a complete lie to rob you, food diggers that use you for a foodie call & then ditch you & unmatch you)
      2. If you're interested, she's not, if she's interested, you're not
      3. Ghosters, they'll match but never initiate, never respond or ghost you after 2-3 messages
      4. Catfishes, there are two types, real people playing around vs the website itself using dumb bots or real people to reel you into a false sense that there's somebody in there that's actually interested in you, as opposed to their site having just a handful of people like some other apps.
      5. They're only looking attention or some fun & male validation
      6. Prostitutes & girls looking for "sugar daddies"
      Basically too many women have basically become psychopaths & devils.

    • @mcluvin65
      @mcluvin65 Рік тому +1

      Opened out of morbid curiosity, that was the first lie. The idea that the system isn't filled with both bad and women is ridiculous, there are just as many dishonest men as women. The idea that you can find a good match on a site is true but 90% men who complain are writing or contacting women that they shouldn't and the same goes for the women. Realistic expectations probably cut the field by 80% but people tend to focus on the 20% that are not attainable. That is how the scams become so prominent they play into people's desires and vulnerabilities.

  • @ndlsumr
    @ndlsumr Рік тому +7

    As a victim of dating sites (including those for Filipina's) myself, I get it. People's behavior on them can be disrespectful, deceitful, and opportunist. At the moment, I can't go to the Philippines but it would wonderful to meet a Filipina. Once I get there, though, I will only have a limited amount of time to meet someone with the hopes of establishing a relationship with the right girl as I understand most of them tend to be somewhat shy. So it's a catch-22 situation, but I'll keep at it.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +2

      But I’m always considerate but get absolutely nothing. They ghost me before i can even get comfortable talking to them because I’m boring because I’m not sexually aggressive

    • @mcluvin65
      @mcluvin65 Рік тому

      @@brianwaller7383 or maybe you fail on the internet for the same reason you fail in your hometown, state or country.

    • @hinnyu7748
      @hinnyu7748 Рік тому +1

      ​@@brianwaller7383 “before I can get comfortable” then the talk must be dragging and awkward or not enticing. The thing I have learned about dating is that good conversations are the key. Good social skill is required.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому

      @@hinnyu7748 I agree I try to engage eye contact but it never happens but then again the one time I actually got eye contact for more than 3 seconds it never went anywhere either.

  • @T0mThompson
    @T0mThompson 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the video.
    I missed one important question...are they looking for local or foreigner guy?

  • @shadowban481
    @shadowban481 Рік тому +3

    "Do you use dating apps?: NO" ( follow by giggling). One wonder's what the answers will be if they were not being recorded. Last bunch was the best giving expert advice on something they "vaguely" know.

  • @JLALALALA
    @JLALALALA Рік тому +4

    Most of these young ladies you are interviewing in BGC and Makati would be using a dating app to find a local boyfriend, not an overseas potential husband. That would be a different type of app. Was your intention to try and find ladies who were using those kind of apps? I think you’d need to find a different target location. Maybe somewhere in a less well off area and near a mall.

  • @neo1az
    @neo1az 8 місяців тому +2

    I am a retired medical doctor in the USA who wishes to move a very young (18) and very beautiful Filipina to the USA for a permanent relationship. I am not a jerk. I liked the blonde girl. Can you help?

  • @Eric-qm5xw
    @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому +1

    I think it’s easier using a dating app as you really can select your preferences, it’s commonsensical to me and you can search at your leisure. Plus I have skin in the game as I met my Filipina on dating app, we could not be happier ..three years together and now living together.

  • @FlemmingDP
    @FlemmingDP Рік тому +5

    as a foreigner it would be interesting to know , where we can meet Filipinos for relationship !

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Рік тому +3

      You can't. Wheat Waffles channel (not paid to promote him) explains why and how Geo-maxing is just a form of Money-maxing. IRL, you'll get the same results (or worse) than online. Most will ghost you or be "polite" and use soft rejections. You have to lead with your wallet (never good) with the poorer ladies and your odds of finding a Uni educated attractive young lady are near zero unless you went to her same college. You can find single mothers, what most find, or a girl looking for an OFW visa that lasts a lifetime to send money home and to have babies as her retirement plan. In other words, ladies who equate love with money not passion and intimacy (romantic love).

    • @FlemmingDP
      @FlemmingDP Рік тому

      @@bobbruce4135 interesting view Bob.

    • @guambroker
      @guambroker Рік тому +2

      Good to try the apps in mentioned if your there already.. FC/CF is good also, verified members or verify them immediately with video. That weeds out scammers

    • @tipigi3570
      @tipigi3570 Рік тому +1

      @@bobbruce4135 My experience is very different than yours. I met my wife on Filipinocupid (FilipinoHearts at the time), and she never once asked for money. We've been married for 11 years, have a beautiful daughter, and a great marriage. I've also never been asked to provide for her relatives. We lived in the U.S. for a few years, then moved back to the Philippines, and have been here since 2016.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Рік тому

      @@tipigi3570 Good for you if that's what you wanted. But, that's not the norm and was awhile back before the social media grew exponentially.

  • @michaelb5330
    @michaelb5330 Рік тому +2

    Good clip with genuine questions to good normal people

  • @JJthelonelybullinasia
    @JJthelonelybullinasia Рік тому +3

    Funny that none of the girls say they use dating apps, but yet there are literally millions of Filipina on dating sites. I think they are embarrassed to tell the truth.

    • @Jazz-tv7jr
      @Jazz-tv7jr Рік тому +1

      As Filipina I don't use dating app.

    • @doobieatenara7649
      @doobieatenara7649 Рік тому +1

      there are around 50M women in Phils.,not all of them would use dating app.

    • @chupol5659
      @chupol5659 Рік тому

      some of them on the video are from province or well educated parents that's why Im happy for them

  • @aaronearl4425
    @aaronearl4425 Рік тому

    I find the amount of differences among the women you interview interesting. Most in other videos said they didn't like being approached in the wild.

  • @cutflow2
    @cutflow2 Рік тому +1

    I found a lot of Filipinas on okcupid but I don’t match with any yet since I am still in nyc but eventually when I go there then I will try to meet and date and see where it goes. Hopefully I find the future mother of our future kids

  • @DHarri9977
    @DHarri9977 Рік тому +1

    A lot of what they say and feel about the various apps is pretty much universal in the dating world while chatting and hook-ups associated with certain apps have to some degree run their course and continue to lean more towards a novelty in some respect. But like anything else, new apps will come along to entertain a new group or generation and that too will run its course and so on...

  • @theking1446
    @theking1446 Рік тому +6

    Rubeauti, just like us men watching out for the Filipina scammers , there are many men out there wanting to hook up with a gorgeous Filipina just to have sex and leave. But there are the few purr of heart with each other. I used Christian Filipina. 1 scammer and another who is my girlfriend. These ladies are correct , it is better to meet in person to actually see if there is a connection. Thanks Rubeauti. Jerry

    • @josepha9313
      @josepha9313 Рік тому

      I would give Christian Filipina a try if they had a 1-month trial to see if I like it; least option is 3 months for $97 a month is a little steep for me, and I think I'd connect with someone in less than 3 months anyway.

    • @theking1446
      @theking1446 Рік тому

      @@josepha9313 i connected the first hour I paid. Just got to watch out for the scammers. But the website Will verify through the process of the Filipina your messaging.

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol 4 місяці тому

      @@josepha9313 You haven't been out there lately. Now their lowest tier package is $ 1500 for a one year subscription. There is no monthly option anymore.

  • @dankriewald4764
    @dankriewald4764 Рік тому +1

    I have Christian Philipina and saw you... That makes you Famous.. Thank You Rubuti

    • @dankriewald4764
      @dankriewald4764 Рік тому +1

      Sorry spelled name wrong

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol 4 місяці тому

      They have tripled their rates to a ridiculous level. I can only assume they are gettng enough guys to sign up or they wouldn't stay afloat, but I am not about to pay that knd of money for something that will probably not work out. It's already 3K just to fly over there.

  • @vince1012
    @vince1012 Рік тому +5

    You interview smart girls. I wish them luck in their relationships

  • @brettwatkins2584
    @brettwatkins2584 Рік тому +3

    Great video miss rubeauti as always so many pretty girls I guess the best way to meet them is just get on a plane and head your way 🙏❤💋

  • @virgilioalighieri59
    @virgilioalighieri59 Рік тому +7

    Im definitely moving to te Phillipines in the next years, these ladys sound extremely edecated and polite, also they are seem very beautilful, almost a complete oposite of western women.

  • @JackFelker
    @JackFelker 10 місяців тому

    I’ve had 4 bad experiences with dating apps and will not try them again.

  • @hahaha9076
    @hahaha9076 Рік тому +1

    I'm not surprised. These ladies are the ones to meet.
    What a shame about the apps. I don't want to use them either.

  • @lutherepperhart4785
    @lutherepperhart4785 Рік тому

    Rubeauti, on dating apps all I do is just be polite, honest, don't get sexual, and don't ask for nudes. This already puts me ahead of 80% of the rest of the guys on there.

  • @Sigma77-n2u
    @Sigma77-n2u 8 місяців тому

    I have a good question why doi get so many matches on bumble in the Philippines and in the USA I can hardly get 1 match?

  • @dimitrizabrocky8
    @dimitrizabrocky8 Рік тому

    Nice conversation Because u are nice to look at

  • @coffeebotography
    @coffeebotography Рік тому +1

    I learned! Bong salamat

  • @bernardlock2728
    @bernardlock2728 Рік тому +3

    Wow again. I am very surprised at the answers. What area/city was you in? As a foreigner, it seems it will be "extremely" hard to me a nice Filipina. One of your last videos, they said they do not want to be approached directly and now you hear them say they do not use dating apps. A higher percentage of the interviewees said that they rather meet a significant other through "friends", "work" or "school". Thank you for your video. You are having honest videos and given us foreigners a "true" picture of a chance to meet a Filipina there. You are not just given us one side like some other Filipino UA-camrs. I mentioned this before that it seems younger generations (under 35 years old) have more westernized views in their pursuit of a partner. 🤔

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому

      There is a misconception from other UA-camrs about the Philippines me thinks especially when it comes to attitudes in the big cities. My partner was a ex model and ex corporate banker working for WF …middle class. It’s a side you don’t see on UA-cam and the attitudes of modern city Filipina’s.

    • @champagneshade6249
      @champagneshade6249 Рік тому

      @@Eric-qm5xw Can you give more insight into this? Interesting comment

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому

      @@Mrtickleberries If you come to the phil’s and try to interact with modern Filipina’s especially city ones, you’ll see a completely different side than the archetypal province life. This UA-cam is at least showing some of that, also she very intelligent…kudos to her. Merry Xmas 🎄

    • @champagneshade6249
      @champagneshade6249 Рік тому

      @@Eric-qm5xw I can attest to this, I'm in PH now and the girls you meet in the malls, clubs and cities aren't that much better than the west and I'm a young successful good looking guy who dates models in USA, not some desperate old man. You might even say it's worse in a way because most of these girls are less cultured, shorter, and the stunners are few & far inbetween here...hiliariously, alot of them carry a similar entitled & "too busy with my friends" attitude. I havn't tried to the province yet but it's incredible how much hype there is on youtube about this nonsense...definitely enough to ruin some lives.

  • @josephputnam7586
    @josephputnam7586 Рік тому +1

    I really hate dating apps. Organically realized relationships are much more fruitful.

  • @Milo19970
    @Milo19970 9 місяців тому

    Where can i find woman with your Bodytype and personality? I'm a traditional fit man myself.
    But not sure if we are the same age I'm 26.

  • @EvenStevensss
    @EvenStevensss Рік тому

    The 29 year old female with the shorter hair in the third set of girls was just beautiful!!

  • @docrw
    @docrw Рік тому +2

    Rubeauti you're the best looking one of all your guests, beautiful and great English

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 Рік тому

    Thanks for the video Rubeauti, it was interesting to hear these ladies perspectives 👍.

  • @billsilva4574
    @billsilva4574 Рік тому +1

    nothing more enchanting than three beautiful girls..... Wearing masks 😔

  • @vj1148
    @vj1148 11 місяців тому

    I think you have to be intentional as well with your bio. If you are looking for a serious relationship, you’ll have to specifically make it clear on your bio and first 3 messages to get rid of the horny jerks. I’ve seen people succeed using dating apps but then again, it’s pretty much a Russian roulette.

  • @Kurt54321
    @Kurt54321 Рік тому +4

    When I was on dating app, before I met my girl, I would notice that the women I would talk to would be very hesitant to talk at 1st. I always assured them that I was respectful and not gonna be acting dirty or anything. Then they would be OK. A lot of perverted guys are giving the dating apps a bad reputation.

  • @Celsters833
    @Celsters833 Рік тому

    I’m a Filipino guy in America and 6’4” I would love to visit the Philippines and find a filipina

  • @Brad_Jenkins
    @Brad_Jenkins Рік тому +5

    What dating app is Rebeauti using?

    • @Brad_Jenkins
      @Brad_Jenkins Рік тому +1

      @@Rubeauti ok, but I get one date with you

    • @iulian5906
      @iulian5906 Рік тому

      @@Rubeauti in what city you have made this interview?

  • @gibblespascack1418
    @gibblespascack1418 Рік тому +2

    Funny that most are expecting or hoping for a "cute meet". That is leaving a lot up to chance. Will the right person see me? Will the right person take a chance, and talk to me? Will they be scared of my potential reaction or my radiant beauty? What if the Jeepney is late and he finds someone 8 minutes after I left?

    • @champagneshade6249
      @champagneshade6249 Рік тому +2

      Facts. It's funny how much effort a woman will put into selecting the perfect face moisturizer or cosmetics, but for a life partner? "Nah no dating apps and I will probably ignore most guys who approach me in person or slide into my DMs, until that random 'cute meet' that just happens to hit me in the right moment and say the perfect lines" - complete lack of reason & reality but "Where are all the good men?" when they hit 30+. This psychology creates it's own tragedy, wake up ladies! 🙄

    • @hinnyu7748
      @hinnyu7748 Рік тому +1

      They have jobs and school. Not all women are fantasizing about getting a boyfriend or a husband. Most of the couple I know and myself never actively “look” for a partner. It just happened that we met someone and we clicked.
      The only friend who did not succeed on dating is the only one I knew who actively seeking one. She has a lot of work she needs to do, she's insecure and have this delusion of being a “independent woman” but she's too naive and lazy to actually be a boss babe (I had not talked to her for two years because I said something bad about her MLM company and she told me she's not listening to me because I am not Bill Gates).

  • @DefiFreedomMaxi
    @DefiFreedomMaxi Рік тому

    I've met some of the most amazing men and women on dating apps!

  • @poetbandit
    @poetbandit Рік тому

    A long time ago I tried Enharmony and my compatibility rate was very low. A few woman who were interested in me sent friend requests despite not even being compatible per our profiles!! One even attacked me verbally, even though I did not know her and we never conversed in emails. I finally gave up and deleted the account. I recently tried Hebrew Hearts Singles and that was a waste of time. I deleted that account. It seems the Father in heaven wants me single. Might not be bad, considering how many woman just want a man for his looks and wallet, then divorce and take half if not more. The dating scene is sad!!

  • @Rufus-ck6lp
    @Rufus-ck6lp Місяць тому

    What dating site can I find one

  • @Dantheman14536
    @Dantheman14536 29 днів тому

    Seeking 2 ladies for a closed triad

  • @AntiAnathema
    @AntiAnathema Рік тому

    As an American filipino, I find some filipinas match with me on worldwide OKC but unexpectedly overall it is low(mid 100s). Better than matches from America(in the several dozens), and Europe(few). but worse than matches from Africa(nearly double than southeast Asia). I know this is much higher for the average man that struggles to get matches with bots, and especially given handicap of me being an Asian male, but these anecdotal figures are still low for a top 20% man. Of course it matters little when a fraction of them even respond, granted I put minimal effort
    The filipinas seem to mostly want to watch or talk about KDramas or find a gaming partner to play League of Legends/Mobile Legends with.

  • @allanhindmarch7323
    @allanhindmarch7323 Рік тому +1

    You know what's funny. I recently used a dating app to meet Fillipinas, and I'll be honest, it was the women who started with the sexual stuff trying to draw me in and send them money for pics or videos.
    Those are the women I deleted. I've been chatting to a lovely lady for the past year and the topic of sex hardly ever comes up. She is closer to my age and I found it's the young ones who are so willing to offer themselves up for some quick cash.

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol 4 місяці тому

      It's a numbers game to them. I'm sure they only have to get one or two a day to pay up. Ridiculous to pay for nude pics these days. You can readily find that for free

  • @Mikesadventures-m2q
    @Mikesadventures-m2q Рік тому

    So the best way to met seems to be in person.

  • @DavidC-ru4it
    @DavidC-ru4it Рік тому

    Variety of answers regarding dating apps.

  • @brianbaxter3913
    @brianbaxter3913 Рік тому

    Hi Rubeauti. Interesting video with some interesting and unexpected answers. With social media being what it is in the Philippines I never expected so many to say they don't use dating apps. Keep smiling and stay safe

  • @officialdapperdb
    @officialdapperdb Рік тому +1

    Instagram is the #1 dating app.

  • @virgilwilliams2378
    @virgilwilliams2378 Рік тому

    The dic pic thing is because some women on some of these foreign dating sites, try to encourage guys to show them their you know what. Which i tell them no, I don't do that. And some of them do get mad when i tell them no. Remember one time i had to report one to Tech. Support about it.

  • @Tomh821
    @Tomh821 Рік тому

    Okcupid international worked for me, so many young beautiful Filipinas on there. Me 62, she is 27 . I flew out for a week, flying again soon for a month’s stay 😊

    • @alals6794
      @alals6794 Рік тому

      Hey, thanks for the tip. Had no clue that was there

    • @h3ctor272
      @h3ctor272 10 місяців тому

      Did you hit it?

  • @candyman111881
    @candyman111881 Рік тому +1

    Really good video. 👍♥️

  • @genxmurse7019
    @genxmurse7019 Рік тому

    Most guys don't pick up on this, but I can tell you that some of the girls you interviewed are very likely using dating apps for monetary gain. Based on what they say and their nonverbal expressions, I bet they already have a boyfriend at home while they are chatting away with "friends" out there; especially the one at the end, who dyed her hair blonde. Why would you spend so much time to be on several dating apps, and then contradict yourself by saying you have no time to meet anyone... That is a gigantic red flag! Some things are found in every culture. I like what you're doing out there, and it's a good channel to watch. It's also useful to see everyday people you talk to, and to be able see their behaviors.

    • @sandan778
      @sandan778 Рік тому +1

      LOL, she said she is a working student. Work and then go to school maybe when she has a one day off, to break the monotone of her life she went to those dating apps to find out about what her co-workers/ classmates are talking about. After that she had no follow-up with those apps because she spends most of her days either at work, school or catching up with sleep. You need a little brain vitamin there.

    • @TravellingMan20
      @TravellingMan20 Рік тому

      I very much doubt that the city girls who have good jobs there will be the ones trying to get money from guys on dating sites. If you have as much experience of sites as I have, you can pretty much predict which girls will ‘have a problem’ they need help with. Certainly not any of the girls interviewed in this video.

  • @sacred-mountainwolf6928
    @sacred-mountainwolf6928 Рік тому

    Im coming in 2023, I prefer meeting over apps

  • @rone8542
    @rone8542 Рік тому +1

    I always laugh when I see young people sitting at the same table texting each other. How disconnected can you get and how will you ever have a real relationship. Actual conversation is the most engaging thing in the world. Young need to learn how to do it instead of text

  • @brianwaller7383
    @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +7

    The problem with dating apps is women say over and over in every bio no hookups but when they come across a guy like me that’s not sexually aggressive till I’m comfortable with them they find me boring and ghost me after a few responses

    • @izzy2900
      @izzy2900 Рік тому +1

      At least you get matches and responses, I think I got something like 1-2% initial responses from the 50-100 matches I ever got on Tinder in the 1.5 years I was swiping on it, and the only one that was interested enough I had zero desire for her, I only matched with her because I seemed to be out of options, and eventually I just gave up. Then I had a period of just hating women, & technically still hate them, at least the modern woman, which I find to be entitled & infantilized jerks, more so Western women I guess, with a few exceptions I've only found outside of dating apps and outside of my own country for the most part.

    • @mpforeverunlimited
      @mpforeverunlimited Рік тому +3

      When they say no hookups its a lie, just don't be aggressive. I've invited "no hookup" girls over and smashed.

    • @blanktrigger8863
      @blanktrigger8863 Рік тому +1

      @@mpforeverunlimited Females do stuff like that all the time and I think most guys are too direct to recognize it. They'll say no hookups just because they want to ward off the dudes they don't want to fornicate with in advance, not because the don't want to do it.

    • @mcluvin65
      @mcluvin65 Рік тому

      @@mpforeverunlimited is hand lotion and your palm considered smashing these days?

  • @bombasticnonsense4247
    @bombasticnonsense4247 Рік тому +1

    How many Filipinas accepted the jab?

  • @Dapper_Image_Official
    @Dapper_Image_Official 9 місяців тому

    I like your hair. It's long and has waves. 🙂

  • @badbobby11
    @badbobby11 3 місяці тому

    Lots of beauties in this video

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 18 днів тому

      Also few overweight girls who are very young for this. Junk food and convenience shops

  • @FlemmingDP
    @FlemmingDP Рік тому +3

    Waouu you Filipino women look really young :)

    • @FlemmingDP
      @FlemmingDP Рік тому +2

      @@Rubeauti and you do also look very young yourself :)

    • @chupol5659
      @chupol5659 Рік тому

      they really care themselves sir thats a reason why theyre young 😊

    • @FlemmingDP
      @FlemmingDP Рік тому

      Thank you very much 😎

  • @FreeAmericanSpirit
    @FreeAmericanSpirit Рік тому +3

    The blonde haired lady in the tan pants/shirt who is going to school and working is perfect. If I were already in the Philippines, she is the type of woman I would be trying to be with.

  • @peterhuang1431
    @peterhuang1431 Рік тому +7

    4:40 wow shes 30? why do they look 23?? wow.. omg

    • @chupol5659
      @chupol5659 Рік тому

      she managed the stress brooooo!!

  • @brightmark777
    @brightmark777 Рік тому +1

    In the first interview, the girl in the middle who said "select and collect" that really scares me, because that's what the western women say.

  • @MarquezLanuza
    @MarquezLanuza Рік тому

    Quicxies

  • @Randy_Gayler
    @Randy_Gayler Рік тому

    Good to see you again. I always enjoy your videos. Have a great weekend 😀

  • @Anthony-pp3oo
    @Anthony-pp3oo Рік тому

    That was really fun to watch it's too bad some of them are scared to use it

  • @meow-ge7xk
    @meow-ge7xk Рік тому

    I like the probinsiana girls specially on the very right with the orange bag. They are still conservative in a way. Whats her name?😍

  • @bernardo2022
    @bernardo2022 Рік тому

    What city is the Philippines are you doing your street interviews?

  • @Juliano-ll2gn
    @Juliano-ll2gn Рік тому

    I read the book of Psalms 3X and I met my Philapina fiancé on CDFF…👍🇺🇸🇷🇴👌🤩💯💯

  • @dr.who2
    @dr.who2 Рік тому

    Ty for information .don't used either think boots on the grould maybe best way have fun miss beautiful

  • @donniedotzler7387
    @donniedotzler7387 Рік тому +2

    I used to think of going to meet the Filipino woman. I worked with many Filipino people who displayed an enormous amount of poise and class. While watching your videos for several weeks, I find the women very different from my long-standing impression. I am an older man but would not approach most of the women I have seen in your videos. Most of them are overweight, childish behavior and lack grace and poise and more childish and superficial than American women. Thank you for your work. You saved me a fortune in air fare and a 22 hour trip which would have been very dissappointing.

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Рік тому +2

      Probably true that the average girl walking around the city is chubby, childish, and superficial. However as a foreigner you are in demand so what you are looking for there is also looking for you. You have to meet a lot of girls to find a good one if you go there, don't just talk to one online and only go see her. Airfare is like $700-$1000 round trip from most of USA and if you're on a budget you can easily do a 2-3 week trip for $2000 including airfare and have a great experience. It's certainly a big chunk of money for most people, but if you can't afford $2000 you won't be able to sponsor someone on a K1 visa anyway. If you're considering retiring there, definitely go check it out you might love it.

    • @MakaiIELTS
      @MakaiIELTS Рік тому +3

      Yes..please stay in the US. Dont go to the philippines. Please. :p

    • @MakaiIELTS
      @MakaiIELTS Рік тому +2

      Women in the US are way better. They are.not combative, very feminine and they are very happy. I guess the article I read saying that almost half of women in their early 40s in the US are using anti-depressants is a complete lie.

    • @donniedotzler7387
      @donniedotzler7387 Рік тому

      @@sdickinson5234 very insightful.

    • @mcluvin65
      @mcluvin65 Рік тому +1

      @@MakaiIELTS don't be upset Donnie is such a great catch, I am sure he has way above average looks, is super intelligent and super charming, is in perfect shape, 35 years old and rich. A great and passionate lover. He is completely entitled to be disappointed.

  • @spanishfly7709
    @spanishfly7709 Рік тому

    I have a question what's the age of consent for sex and age range for marriage?

  • @markledford4370
    @markledford4370 Рік тому +1

    HELLO ! EVERYONE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS USA 🇺🇸👍🇵🇭🤶🎅🎄🎁❤⛄☃️❄

  • @allanhindmarch7323
    @allanhindmarch7323 Рік тому

    I'm an Aussie guy who would love to find a deep loving connection with a Filipina and I can tell you now, if it was just about a casual hookup, I could spend $200 and find a beautiful Asian lady for a quick hookup, instead of multiple thousands of dollars going to the Philippines. The only ones who do that have more money than they deserve and should be a red flag for any decent Filipina. The ones you get to know over a year are obviously in it for something deeper and more meaningful than a hookup.

    • @vanessatalaboc7711
      @vanessatalaboc7711 Рік тому

      True. I've had this love and hate relationship with dating apps. People on Tinder are too wild for me, especially passport bros. They would blindly swipe on everyone. I've been on a date with quite a few of these foreign men and every single one would always have this expectations that I'd end up sleeping with them after the first date. But I know better than lose my virginity to someone who has no intention to genuinely bond and form a connection with me. So I politely decline the sexual advances, pay my part of the bill and bid them goodbye.

  • @John-rd5xu
    @John-rd5xu Рік тому +1

    Call me old fashioned but I prefer the tried and true method of meeting people in person. Way to easy for someone to post pictures of someone else and scam people

  • @spaghettipizza47
    @spaghettipizza47 Рік тому +1

    She said select and collect. Collect money after you pick and you use the money to select that proves all they care about is money then she said haha just joking yeah not a joke words have meaning she said that because that’s how she thinks feels

  • @lepeakter6407
    @lepeakter6407 Рік тому

    Oh

  • @guambroker
    @guambroker Рік тому

    Thanks!

  • @im1sinfulman
    @im1sinfulman Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING, WHAT DID SHE MEAN BY CATFISH??? I KNOW WHAT A CATFISH IS, BUT NOT ON LINE OR ON THE INTERNET,

    • @im1sinfulman
      @im1sinfulman Рік тому

      @@Rubeauti THANK YOU FOR THE INFO,

  • @chupol5659
    @chupol5659 Рік тому

    seems I had a hope to find someone again 😶

  • @bruceb7747
    @bruceb7747 Рік тому +1

    Great interviews Rubeauti. I haven't used dating apps yet either, maybe someday I'll try it.

    • @harperseven3171
      @harperseven3171 Рік тому +1

      Hi..! Where are you from sir?

    • @bruceb7747
      @bruceb7747 Рік тому +1

      @@harperseven3171 Hello, I'm from the United States. Where are you from?

    • @harperseven3171
      @harperseven3171 Рік тому +1

      @@bruceb7747 Philippines sir.. What state are you in USA?

    • @bruceb7747
      @bruceb7747 Рік тому +1

      @@harperseven3171 I live near Washington DC. What part of the Philippines do you live in?

    • @harperseven3171
      @harperseven3171 Рік тому +1

      @@bruceb7747 davao City

  • @gloofisearch
    @gloofisearch Рік тому

    This was a great video. I was surprised too that dating apps are not really used. It kind of looks like that dating apps are "bad" in both directions in the Philippines as a men gets hundreds of requests from professionals and women get hundreds of requests from horny guys. Best still to meet the traditional way, nice.

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol 4 місяці тому

      And the pros aren't just selling erotic services. Some of these sites will pay girls just to get you to chat with them, then they will charge you an outrageous fee for a video chat. I figured that out after one chat and they were almost demanding I stay online with them. It got creepy. They were being paid by the minute

  • @iulian5906
    @iulian5906 Рік тому

    In what city was this interview?

  • @gondaft
    @gondaft Рік тому

    Rubeauti, another interesting look at life over there, for me your interviewees were a little on the young side, I know there is the 'age doesn't matter' outlook over there, but still I would prefer a little older, 32-35+ at least, I am 64. One video I particularly enjoyed was your look at nice places to visit, I am currently planning to visit in February, initially for one month, in that time I am going to visit someone in Arayat, a guy who has the same interest as me, knife throwing!😁 I hope to spend a week in that area, then maybe go down to Subik, a place you mentioned. Would you know if there are any/many other westerners in that area? I have noticed the majority of westerners all tend to go to the Cebu, Dumaguete area, which would mean an internal flight to get there. If I was there for longer I think I would consider going but I think maybe a month is not time enough? I would really appreciate your input and any other suggestions you may have for that area, Tarlac, as I know you are from there. Thank you so much in advance and keep up the great videos🤗

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому

      I live in Subic, you’ll find plenty to see in around Zambales.

    • @gondaft
      @gondaft Рік тому

      @@Eric-qm5xw Good to know Eric thank you👍

  • @comaca
    @comaca 2 місяці тому

    Foreginese. That is so funny. I don't do do social media other than paying someone for to it for my business. No FB, no IG, no TT, actually nothing like that. I prefer natural and personal experiences

  • @stevenr1354
    @stevenr1354 Рік тому +1

    Interesting responses. Hope more people shed their masks outdoors.

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw Рік тому

      It’s still rife in the mask wearing Philippines although they’ve been told it’s their choice …bloody idiotic. They do not want to let it go the restrictions, very frustrating.