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  • @animefan3794
    @animefan3794 2 роки тому +1927

    With regards to Numi’s “he thought I was just being friendly story”, it’s because guys typically get next to no positive engagement as they go about their day. For some, this results in thinking just being friendly is flirting, and for others it results in actual flirting being mistaken for being friendly.

    • @dynias7282
      @dynias7282 2 роки тому +140

      Sorry i don't understand emotions

    • @joey_f4ke238
      @joey_f4ke238 2 роки тому +318

      The never ending dilemma of is she into me or just nice

    • @a_personperson9785
      @a_personperson9785 2 роки тому +296

      She drove to your house for an hour in 2am
      Is she into you ?
      Answer: you cant really tell maybe shes just a punctual person and doesnt want to be late.

    • @Letsplaymoron
      @Letsplaymoron 2 роки тому +105

      Yeah, think of it this way You know how there's classes in school for shit like spelling, math, driving and a lot of people are still trash at doing all of that?
      There's no class for understanding if someone's flirting with you or not so people are just going off their instincts on it all.

    • @Gamesmarts194
      @Gamesmarts194 2 роки тому +75

      Or because signals are confusing and never as easy as people say they are?
      (Then again as a guy who has little interaction with people at all you could be right and I just don't understand the possible inner-workings of flirting.)

  • @felixrowan646
    @felixrowan646 2 роки тому +1202

    I don't think you understand exactly how accurate the "Dense Male Protagonist" trope is to real life. Some of us have started generating our own event horizons of obliviousness.

    • @kaejuka6249
      @kaejuka6249 2 роки тому +164

      The "dense male protagonist" trope is the only anime trope that is 100% real

    • @Drocksas
      @Drocksas 2 роки тому +214

      And the worst part is that for a lot of guys it comes from a lack of self-esteem. Some of us are so convinced that a woman could never see us in that way that our own self-sabotaging confidence in that notion makes us blind to any actual outside attempts

    • @Guntank214
      @Guntank214 2 роки тому +71

      I did not ask to be called out like this.

    • @tristancoffin
      @tristancoffin 2 роки тому +63

      @@Drocksas No fck miss interpreting something that wasn't meant to be that way. I would prefer to be unaware rather than feel really stupid because I jumped the gun

    • @veryverykawaiiuto4831
      @veryverykawaiiuto4831 2 роки тому +25

      @@tristancoffin Exactly,like sharing earphones is really that romantic? Lending a shoulder? Borrowing something from them? Like wtf,would you expect us to misunderstood everything we did together? Is even talking to each other is that romantic?

  • @Rhodair
    @Rhodair 2 роки тому +331

    7:12 lol I totally understand that guy from the way Numi describes it. She doesn't actually say she wants to _date him_ - she says she'd like to be with him as a Valentine's Day date. So just for the day... as in maybe she just wanted to be with _someone_ and not alone just that day.
    Lemme guess, they spent the whole day talking and acting like friends... she never explicitly told him she likes him as anything more than that... and she just expected him to read between the lines. Also, drove an hour to hang with him late at night. Yeah, that's been me and the boys too lol - it's not something that people only do for significant others, so you can't act like that (in and of itself) is a sign either.
    A lot of guys are insecure and assume making a move will be considered creepy or we could be falsely accused of something. Heck, how would you know it's not some hazing attempt? I bet a lot of women would be shocked at how nonexistent dating life is for most men not in the top percentile.

    • @ipanesm
      @ipanesm 2 роки тому +55

      yeah, like, ive driven two hours to hang out with my friends many times, or just with someone because they needed someone (we all depressed), that by itself aint gonna cut it.

    • @Lftarded
      @Lftarded Рік тому +28

      He probably thought that he was the desperate last minute option since they don't have any plans whatsoever or something before that date.

    • @duellinksantimeta7636
      @duellinksantimeta7636 Рік тому +2

      I will drive to a male friend for 3 hours. Am I gaiy? xD

    • @duellinksantimeta7636
      @duellinksantimeta7636 Рік тому +1

      One time, I really did read a wrong signal coming from a girl… that was bad

  • @G3HP
    @G3HP 2 роки тому +494

    Yeah, I've heard that last one far too much...
    Firstly, a lot of guys don't get much exposure to flirting, so struggle to differentiate it from just being friendly.
    Secondly, different girls flirt differently. One girl's flirting is another's perfectly normal platonic action.
    In the end, just like everyone else, guys are afraid of rejection; so if we're not sure (which is like 99% of the time) it's just easier to take the safe route

    • @Rhodair
      @Rhodair 2 роки тому +34

      plus, the person flirting is far more afraid of rejection since they need to be so cryptic to begin with

    • @psycosanches589
      @psycosanches589 2 роки тому +30

      It feels like the odds of catching a charge are way too fuckin’ high, man…

    • @roberttheronin9803
      @roberttheronin9803 2 роки тому +4

      @@Rhodair no, its called foreplay. You don't go into sex without it. You need to grind attraction against each other. Learn to flirt.

    • @roberttheronin9803
      @roberttheronin9803 2 роки тому +2

      @@psycosanches589 part of the thrill

    • @mrpandasian8871
      @mrpandasian8871 2 роки тому +12

      @@roberttheronin9803 sounds like prepping for a boss raid lol

  • @hxrry6359
    @hxrry6359 2 роки тому +972

    When you think a girl flirting with you is just being friendly because you being friendly with the bois are way more flirtatious

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому

      Agreed pull their pants and underwear down and hop on their dick best way to get a message across and if they don't like you that way well they will let it be known fast. Honestly girls do this to themselves as us Guys don't play mind games and play flirt with the homies all the time while avoiding flirting with girls to avoid sexual harassment claims. Those with too much sexual pent up frustration enjoy playing the Souls series though this applies to both genders

    • @Daidalus2
      @Daidalus2 2 роки тому +96

      Gotta kiss the homies good night.

    • @mori5481
      @mori5481 Рік тому +13

      I may have made out with some of the homies platonically.

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena Рік тому

      @@mori5481 did you at least say no homo?

    • @blarghinatelazer9394
      @blarghinatelazer9394 Рік тому +6

      @@Daidalus2 Kissahomie

  • @hen6959
    @hen6959 2 роки тому +40

    Last one is common because at least for me, I’m fucking terrified to misread friendliness for flirting so I just take anything thrown my way at face value. I need a girl to look me in the eyes and say “I want to date you.” Or else I’ll just assume she’s being friendly, I’d rather be oblivious than make a girl uncomfortable with unwanted advances.

  • @akumuryuu
    @akumuryuu 2 роки тому +256

    That last story... that's just a low self-esteem. The "Maybe? Nah, no way, not for me" kind. Who knows what'll happen if you assume wrongly. Might get sued for harassment or simply become a local joke after rumors spread that "I just wanted to chill, and this creep started making a move on me". And sometimes you don't want all that, you just want to watch Prison School in peace.

    • @drzero7
      @drzero7 2 роки тому +60

      as a super introvert and socially awkward person, some of us men are super dense when it comes to relationship. Sometimes, you have to be VERY blunt and spell it out in their face.

    • @ma.2089
      @ma.2089 2 роки тому +36

      Yeah, considering his text at the end….poor guy probably felt really bad. It’s hard not to second guess yourself

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому +1

      @@drzero7 you mean beat it into our heads?

    • @colex110
      @colex110 2 роки тому +16

      @@drzero7 honestly it'd better be a huge freakin sign for us to notice.
      Small hints would mostly come off being friendly

    • @roberttheronin9803
      @roberttheronin9803 2 роки тому +1

      Better to try and get sued then to never try

  • @apfelkonighd3946
    @apfelkonighd3946 2 роки тому +297

    The guy having no idea Numi was flriting with him reminds me about myself.
    Now im 19 and I never had a girl flirt with me even once in my life. or atleast so I thought.
    when I was hanging out with my friends we talked about relationships and stuff and I mentioned this. One of my female friends, leaned forward, looked me straight in the eyes and asked me "are you retarted?"
    apparently not 1 but 2 girls during highschool were flirting with me an I somehow managed to miss every single hint from both of them until my friend pointed it out a few Months ago.
    and last week I found out the very same friend who told me this also had feelings for me in middle school but she lost intrest as we became friends and grew older.
    so yeah guess im as dense as a brick

    • @zumato3371
      @zumato3371 2 роки тому +52

      Use those friends as a resource man. I’m sure they can help you. You’re very lucky to have them.

    • @DoubleRBlaxican
      @DoubleRBlaxican 2 роки тому +49

      Same thing here, apparently I was super popular in high school but my self esteem was so low I never left my comfort zone of my group of friends (it was also a rather small school). I only found out later when I was talking to my friend that he kept having girls ask him about me since I avoided social interaction outside of school.

    • @XionicAihara
      @XionicAihara 2 роки тому +12

      Semi similar story for me too. Looking back on it, it just hurts lol

    • @Rhodair
      @Rhodair 2 роки тому +46

      also factor in there are tons of girls who "flirt" in the most mega subtle-like way and are shocked when a guy isn't reading into their actions

    • @roberttheronin9803
      @roberttheronin9803 2 роки тому

      @@Rhodair Its highschool, of course they expect guys to always be actively looking down to fuck

  • @heideknight9122
    @heideknight9122 2 роки тому +153

    The dense guy not taking a hint thing was the complete disbelief that someone would want me in the past. Even had someone "ask me out" as a joke/dare so that didn't help much. Don't be so hard on those guys.

    • @Lftarded
      @Lftarded Рік тому +16

      i would be the same like ''wtf, did som1 pay you or did you lose to a dare to say this?''

    • @the711devin4
      @the711devin4 Рік тому +19

      Same bro. The only person who ever asked me out immediately followed the question with “Please say no”

    • @pachasnft9954
      @pachasnft9954 Рік тому +2

      @@the711devin4 that’s fucked up. I would have walked the opposite direction

  • @sircaballero
    @sircaballero 2 роки тому +143

    "Some men just like to play life on hard mode"
    Bruh you don't gotta call me out like that Q_Q

    • @StarlineInfinity
      @StarlineInfinity 2 роки тому +35

      We didn't chose to play hard mode on life, LIFE CHOSE HARD MODE FOR US!

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому +2

      @@StarlineInfinity just because you don't remember does not mean it did not happen

    • @veryverykawaiiuto4831
      @veryverykawaiiuto4831 2 роки тому +2

      @@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena Just because we didn't knew doesn't mean we're stupid

    • @Rhodair
      @Rhodair 2 роки тому +9

      not being in the top % of men is hard mode in itself

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому +4

      @@Rhodair even then that is hard mode as they will try to use you no matter what

  • @zachacedragon6417
    @zachacedragon6417 2 роки тому +191

    "Some men purposely play life on hard mode"
    Nah we just don't get positive reinforcement from women or majority of anybody period so when the opposite gender walks up to us and actually makes an attempt to flirt we just think their being nice and most of the time when men do assume their flirting with us most men will make an attempt to flirt back only to find out she was just being nice LMAO Trust me we don't want this Hard mode imagine playing pokemon but the game makes you start off with a magikarp Lol
    Edit: Enjoyed the video keep up the good work!

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому +11

      I give this really loud violent hiss when i think a woman is flirting with me, like seriously it is so loud people literally think there is a diamond back rattlesnake near them and it scares the shit out of everyone who hears it. I hate when people flirt with me just to flirt with me or try to be nice since i always look crouchy with a constant death glare and when i don't i look like that i look as if i am up to something because genetics, anyways i digress those people who do it to be nice are giving false hope and i hate that i really hate that feeling. Very few things agitate me more than a Woman flirting when she is not actually serious about dating or fucking the man as you are just giving him false hope
      No, no one made me this way i just can't tolerate bull shit. Other than people not hearing me walking as my footsteps are so quiet even if i have a loud ass keyring on me even if i move fast, but they say i have a unpredictable temperament like a venomous snake anyways most of the time i am just indifferent towards people unless they show blatant disrespect

    • @kindredspirit9703
      @kindredspirit9703 2 роки тому +28

      @@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena Holy shit, get therapy

    • @Rhodair
      @Rhodair 2 роки тому +15

      @@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena "No, no one made me this way"
      right, many many people must've made you that way - you've got a lot of trauma/baggage, my dude

    • @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
      @JohnnyYeTaecanUktena 2 роки тому +4

      @@Rhodair dude you are mis reading no i say no one as literally no one as i was always lile this and untrusting of people. There is no baggage or trauma, and no therapist can fix a neurological development that was predetermined before birth

    • @roberttheronin9803
      @roberttheronin9803 2 роки тому

      If you need positive reinforcement from other people you are playing on hardmode.

  • @PlasticShitlord
    @PlasticShitlord 2 роки тому +33

    7:38 that is actually so true: sometimes you just think "hooooold on, this is way too much in my favour, something's sus about it. Maybe if i stall she'll slip up about this prank" and then it turns out it wasn't a prank, so you take the fat L

  • @mightyphantom2176
    @mightyphantom2176 2 роки тому +67

    Wow boa’s advice about dating narcissistic people is spot on I wish I would’ve heard that sooner

    • @Isaac-eh6uu
      @Isaac-eh6uu 4 місяці тому +1

      Dating someone narcissistic is self sabotage. Destroying oneself for someone who doesn't care too much about you.

    • @mightyphantom2176
      @mightyphantom2176 4 місяці тому

      ⁠@@Isaac-eh6uuyes because I totally went into that relationship knowing they were

  • @yugoxgc
    @yugoxgc 2 роки тому +37

    Here's the thing with Flirting. Its not that simple. If you're "average" you never consider you'd get anything besides playful messing around with friends. Often if you dont consider the chance ever happens when it does its like like noticing someone passing in the corner of your eye. Technically you saw them but not really. Plus its also the fact that if no one ever flirted with you how would you know what that is?

  • @Gamesmarts194
    @Gamesmarts194 2 роки тому +66

    6:03
    Time to give possibly bad advice!
    "How do you make such great friends?"
    As hard as it is to do, put yourself out there a bit and find people with the same interests as you for a start. Try finding groups (irl or online) for your general interests or hobbies that you do. People with similar interests will have an easier time connecting at least on a basic level, and starting out if you don't have friends you at least want to find a group of people you feel comfortable hanging out with. Connecting with others is at least a start, and in my opinion everything else after is usually intuitive and borderline automatic. It might not be with the same group or with someone you expect, but if you make connections even on a basic level you'll inevitably find someone you connect really well with, maybe even find someone who works great on similar wavelengths to you (just like these three hornbags!). Just remember to socialize. (If you're not super comfortable talking, just do your best even if it isn't much. It's at least some presence and it could get easier.)
    "Were you ever shy, and did you get over it?"
    Also I know I wasn't asked personally, but I'm personally shy when it comes to closeness (and antisocial- borderline hostile- in almost every other case). While I haven't really gotten over it myself, it's something that get better (or at least becomes easier to deal with) with comfortable company. Unfortunately that means you have to go out of your comfort zone (and sometimes VERY far out of there), and sometimes you're going to have to deal with shit. But again, finding the right people will make you happier (and even if it's just a little bit, that can go a long way).
    "How do you know if a girl is flirting with you?"
    Again, I know this is difficult to do, but just ask. Communication is always key, and playing these weird "signal games" are frankly dumb and outdated. (Signals can be misread, people can pick up things that weren't there to begin with, people might act upon misreading signals which can lead to doing things that the other person is uncomfortable with, etc. etc.. Plus if the writer just realized something that happened 4 years ago, I wouldn't even say that's as much of a loss for them as it is a loss for her lol). This probably isn't as applicable here since this guy realized it much later, but just for future reference to anyone else who's reading this. I can understand that asking someone that question can be really hard (especially for someone that's shy like the writer), but it something that you can figure out much easier in less time and effort instead of having to figure out the romantic Rube Goldberg machine. Plus, unless you're scared of how they might react outside of saying "Yes" or "No", the worst thing they can say is... "Yes" or "No". (And yeah, personally I find them saying "Yes" is actually scarier than a rejection, although I say that as someone with low self-esteem so...) If those are the only two ways they'll "react", you can prep yourself for either response (just remember TO actually prep yourself). Plus, better to ask if she's playing the same game than to lose a 1-player competition. Though really if you have to wonder if someone's dropping hints, my advice is to either directly ask them or ignore it. Eventually someone has to talk about it and if they don't... their loss. (Edit: Although someone feel free to bring up any case where signals would be better than just straight-up saying it..... maybe aside from being shy I guess?)
    Thank you for coming to my TED talk. (This took 3 hours to type because I clearly have no life..... which is totally why I'm giving advice on making friends and romantic advice!)

    • @Enithorn
      @Enithorn 2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for taking the time to write this comment, I really resonated with it and it cleared some stuff up for me!

    • @thuan8782
      @thuan8782 2 роки тому +1

      Man i appreciate your dedication

  • @sokubylur
    @sokubylur 2 роки тому +50

    Imma keep it real chief, I wasn't expecting such good advice. This was very interesting and I would definitely like to see more

  • @freakymoejoe2
    @freakymoejoe2 2 роки тому +29

    The bois dont get flirting thing is because if you make the wrong call you instantly turn into a socially ostracized creep. Eering on the side of 'just friendly' is much safer

  • @CanadAssassiN
    @CanadAssassiN Рік тому +4

    A lot of guys in "current year" are traumatized by expressing their feelings towards women and then having toxic women use those feelings against them in an emotionally violent way, so they're terrified of telling girls they're in love with them because of it
    If you (not you reading this specifically) want to help guys express themselves more often and be more comfortable talkng about their feelings, stop normalizing calling men "too sensitive" or "crybabies" or "beta" when they open up. It just teaches them to never open up to you ever again. And they'll forever be confused about whats "friendly" and whats "flirty" again because they wont be afraid to assume that latter

  • @ipanesm
    @ipanesm 2 роки тому +22

    im gonna say the same thing i told to my gf sister, flirting only works if both are in the same wave of wanting to flirt, if not it will pass unnoticed.
    and as a male, its so much safer to assume friendlyness as if you are wrong it will be a bad time, seriously, if you wanna tell some man you want something with him, tell him, you can make it sexy or wholesome. hints wont work because no one gonna risk it, specially if they care about the relationship
    if you wanna date someone, you better meet them in that style, if you meet as friends, is kind of hard to get out of it

  • @sedevri864
    @sedevri864 2 роки тому +10

    Women just need to be as BLUNT as possible when hitting on guys, there is WAY to much at risk for guys if they misunderstand anything

    • @Rhodair
      @Rhodair 2 роки тому +2

      men's lives can be destroyed at nothing more than accusations
      so many men who think something good is finally happening only to find they were being hazed or used to validate someone or make another person jealous
      of course men will be skeptical and make the safe assumption that it's just someone being friendly when social & legal ramifications are so massive these days

    • @sedevri864
      @sedevri864 2 роки тому +3

      @@Rhodair yup, at this point we almost need everything in writing in triplicate with video footage showing the women signing.

    • @reeno1357
      @reeno1357 Рік тому +4

      You know, we live in a time where a contract of consent to sex is a thing. That should tell you everything about our current relationship situation in society.

  • @bluhamilton2485
    @bluhamilton2485 2 роки тому +26

    3:37 Lily this is so true. I actually did date my best friend for about half a year because we'd both wanted to try dating but he was worried if we ever broke up I wouldn't want to be friends anymore and I had to tell him that thought was silly. Regardless of whatever labels we had for our relationship, then or now, he's still my best friend and one of the people I care about more than pretty much anyone else. People take Lily's advice.

    • @naphthylamin6862
      @naphthylamin6862 Рік тому

      i wish that would be always the case: a friend (or atleast a being i considered a friend) was so broken down when i denied her that she straight up didnt want to talk, interact or anything i even gave her time to get over it but nah so for me never ever friends again since that happened about 3 times to me

  • @Gamesmarts194
    @Gamesmarts194 2 роки тому +224

    For as degenerate as these three are, this kinda had a lot of good advice and general wholesomeness all around. This is the kind of content I live for.
    Also the degeneracy. A bit of both never hurts.

  • @ren_03
    @ren_03 Рік тому +12

    Lily intensively sniffing Bao while Numi lowkey moans in the backround is just... CHAOS.

  • @redranger4180
    @redranger4180 2 роки тому +6

    Hey bao! I am a new subscriber that found through clips and weary 101 and thought you were very fun to hang out with and have a good personality. I am looking forward to future videos/stream and this video did make me chuckle and put a happy smile on my face.

  • @ravnholt
    @ravnholt 2 роки тому +36

    I love these compilations. Please answer more life questions xD

  • @reeno1357
    @reeno1357 Рік тому +12

    That my dog stepped on a bee had me rolling
    Btw. Some men putting on hard mode is a bit oof since... Most men dont get any contact to women at all and have little to no experience with being flirted at. Men just dont get any positive reinforcement in their life from women. Men are usually not the persons that get to be chased so of course these men dont understand things like that. You could literally touch my wienerhut and i wouldnt make a move since i usually dont get to experience things like that, so of course i will be thinking : "nah, she doesnt want anything, she did that by mistake". Unless a woman would literally walk up to me and ask me to mingle, i dont think i would ever do something. And i bet with you all, some women think like this too, some of us are just not in the "signals" game and need a direct approach because we for sure to 100% dont take hints and may they be as direct as a bright roadsign.
    You know It has all to do with low self esteem, why should a woman flirt with me if i got never flirted at by any woman in decades ? Its the fear of rejection like always. Also there is this type of woman that will sue you just because you tried to make progress in a relationship if you know what i mean. So take one of these "hints" wrongly and you are on a offenders list cause nobody in court believes a man if a woman says she has been touched.
    Hints dont work, thats the point of this comment. And please dont turn it around into something like :" its the mans fault for not getting it" cause if a woman wants to do something she should be as open as she expects the man to be and can tell what she wants instead of talking around the bush. Women have nothing to loose if they get rejected besides a lil gut punch into the ego, men can loose their livelihood.

  • @StarlineInfinity
    @StarlineInfinity 2 роки тому +53

    Men didn't chose hard mode for life, LIFE CHOSE HARD MODE FOR US!!

  • @knightornstein5902
    @knightornstein5902 2 роки тому +17

    The guy probably just doesn't get much female attention, so he never figured out how women are when they're flirting vs just being nice.
    I should know. I missed out on a date with twins because of this.

    • @reeno1357
      @reeno1357 Рік тому +2

      Oof, i am sorry you missed that.

  • @snokespraetorianguard
    @snokespraetorianguard 2 роки тому +13

    "Thank you for vomiting in my mouth"- Bao the Whale 2022

  • @Jeiben.
    @Jeiben. 2 роки тому +13

    7:25 You would be surprised how often this happens to us men, either we are too dumb to figure stuff like that out, or we dont wanna ruin the relationship.

  • @norad_clips
    @norad_clips 2 роки тому +3

    You three and your slickly edited, hilarious videos!

  • @Valpebble
    @Valpebble 2 роки тому +3

    Actually the best trio please keep making these compilations

  • @yourLordSatan
    @yourLordSatan 2 роки тому +21

    As a guy, that last one is terrifying. The problem that occurs in that scenario is a bit of a doozy. It could be many things. Maybe that guy hadn't had any experience with girls. Or he was afraid of something bad happening to the already present relationship and didn't want to ruin it by making advances. Though the most difficult one that I'd say is a more prevalent issue. We are afraid of what will happen to our public image. In 2022… you could be called a number of bad things for simply complimenting a woman on their appearance, let alone asking them out.
    So yeah, it was probably one of these things

  • @marcusalm7350
    @marcusalm7350 2 роки тому +8

    Whenever I think someone is flirting with me I either go into a "I have to be reading too much into it, better play it safe than be a creep" mode, OR "OMG OMG OMG" mode and trip myself up.
    The only thing I've found that helps is practice. And I don't mean theoretical practice. Getting out of your comfort zone is sometimes the hardest thing you can do, but it's also the only way to change. The important thing to remember is that small steps also count. It can be looking for new people to talk with in places you don't normally go online or in a game you play. It's a marathon, not a sprint.

  • @tygoneenogyt570
    @tygoneenogyt570 2 роки тому +2

    The three of you together is absolute chaos and we're all here for it.

  • @DonCesar93
    @DonCesar93 2 роки тому +2

    The evil Morty theme was a perfect touch! Thank you so much Editor-San you are great (yeah and the bottoms are good too, i think)

  • @Jaydan-xb6mc
    @Jaydan-xb6mc 2 роки тому +11

    7:38 so uhhhhhhhh this was before me and my gf started dating and she said she loved me about 2256 times both in dms and in calls, I only realised that she actually loved me on the 2257 times and she still makes fun of me for being the most dense person she knows

    • @monmusuaficionado2132
      @monmusuaficionado2132 2 роки тому +1

      Wait... A good female friend if mine has been saying this for years... I haven't thought about it until now.

    • @Jaydan-xb6mc
      @Jaydan-xb6mc 2 роки тому +1

      @@monmusuaficionado2132 welcome to the club, depends on if she says it to others depends on the meaning of it, mine only said it to me and she asked me out cos I was too dense to ask her out myself lol

    • @IanTho1
      @IanTho1 Рік тому

      women should understand that we have pick up on stuff like that

  • @MDG-mykys
    @MDG-mykys 2 роки тому +7

    Girls, you need to be clear and insistent to get to most guys.
    Clear doesn't necessarily means direct though, it just means that you have to give big signs (like Numi) repetitively.

  • @Nurthian
    @Nurthian 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this Bao, Numi and Shylily.

  • @fennrir9809
    @fennrir9809 2 роки тому +42

    You know, I would laugh way harder at the guy obviously missing Numi's signs, if I weren't the exact same
    I swear... Luckily I've had more luck (people have grown bolder with me), but I'm still as dense as an anime protagonist

  • @Silversk3108
    @Silversk3108 2 роки тому +1

    This is now my fav trio

  • @ANexus21
    @ANexus21 Рік тому

    Well- while i already am subscribed, and have the bell set to peresonalized- already has me not missing the vids- but i'll give the vid a like for the sake of humoring that ending bit

  • @mangodude2663
    @mangodude2663 2 роки тому +4

    Everytime come back to re-charge my Degen energy from Bao

  • @garnetlamarche3404
    @garnetlamarche3404 Рік тому +5

    The duality of being male is we want compliments, but when we get them, we think we are just being placated.

    • @benzlover55
      @benzlover55 4 місяці тому

      Not it's not duality, because typically when we get compliments it's right before we get asked for favors etc, they aren't genuine. Hence why it feels like we are being placated.

  • @dopecutza
    @dopecutza 2 роки тому

    Nice editing on this video also!!

  • @cadestrischek4872
    @cadestrischek4872 2 роки тому +6

    Part of me wonders what would happen if Finana from NijiEN was part of this. I can only imagine

  • @christopherdark4671
    @christopherdark4671 Рік тому

    I feel for cement head dude. I'm the exact same way. When it comes to catching hints or being intuitive about someone flirting I'm denser than a planet.

  • @KrygerWolf
    @KrygerWolf 2 роки тому

    lmao i needed this XD thxs you 3

  • @massimoexe
    @massimoexe 2 роки тому +11

    I would be more funny if the thumbnail said something like "how to get bitches"

  • @overlordmadness1548
    @overlordmadness1548 2 роки тому +1

    “You guys are interesting people”, bit of an understatement.

  • @0_DefaulT_0
    @0_DefaulT_0 2 роки тому +3

    Is it fuc- up if my first thoght on Numi's story was - "I'd think she just wants to hang out. Valentine's just a good reason for both lonely people to spend the day."

  • @SakuragiSayo
    @SakuragiSayo 2 роки тому +99

    I already have a girlfriend, she and I live together.
    Edit: She is asleep right now, and I am about to join her. It is 4:10AM here in Japan.

  • @LimaJayaSRC
    @LimaJayaSRC 2 роки тому +4

    From SpongeBob intro to Teen Titans, Editor-san deserve a raise 😆👍
    Cmiiw but wasn't this NumiBao first collab? They hit really well. 😏

  • @good_playlists
    @good_playlists Рік тому

    Love these collabs with Shylily and Akuma Nihmune there pretty funny hope you all do more i'm new to your channel love the content.. 4:56 thats Final Fantasy 14 there should be 16 coming out pretty soon too i think there's a trailer..

  • @hangoverbirdman6339
    @hangoverbirdman6339 2 роки тому +3

    3:23 advice for this story is so true. If you're good friends, it shouldn't tear your friendship apart. I had a similar situation. We were friends for quite some time and I ended up catching feelings for her. I ended up telling her how I felt and though she did not want a relationship, our interactions became much more frequent (the push for hanging out coming more from her side actually) and we've become very close friends as a result. It is this friendship that has helped us both through some rough times, and I'm really happy with how things turned out in the end.

    • @Jose_Doe
      @Jose_Doe 2 роки тому

      Think there should at least be a caveat of if you Know you can't handle them not being with you to at least be able to say that when you tell them how you feel so if there is a rejection then you have the good mindset of leaving them
      Worded it badly but basically if you can't handle being around them but not with them then leave and find someone else, IF that's what you know you will feel

  • @one_bone_4_life647
    @one_bone_4_life647 2 роки тому +5

    Broke up with my GF not too long ago. This is exactly what I needed!

  • @daryllkeithhilario2188
    @daryllkeithhilario2188 2 роки тому +3

    Numi's valentine do be cement skulling out here..................
    BUT why women got to be more complicated than solving JFK's murder, can I get a AAAAAMEEN BRUDER

  • @justsomeguywithoutamustach8816
    @justsomeguywithoutamustach8816 2 роки тому +2

    I felt my brain cells leaving after watching this video. Thanks.

  • @gabrielkawa3477
    @gabrielkawa3477 2 роки тому

    That was actually really good advice about the god complex people, Bao

  • @simplyskrypt3914
    @simplyskrypt3914 4 місяці тому

    This confirms it. Me and lily are a perfect match. I also screenshot memes straight from facebook and youtube, with the watermark still on it 🤣🤣

  • @burlingk
    @burlingk 2 роки тому +3

    Mune is like "Note to Self: avoid marine mammals."

  • @theduckking2489
    @theduckking2489 2 роки тому +1

    when you talked about downloading memes of facebook and leaving the ifunny water mark I don't know why but hurt me

  • @onesleepycrab8812
    @onesleepycrab8812 Рік тому +1

    3:37 I’ve done that before and got shot down but we’re still friends and now we joke about it all the time, so you really do gotta shoot your shots

  • @tailsx20
    @tailsx20 9 місяців тому

    She had me on the brain juice ICANT

  • @DIVINEJASON_OFFICAL
    @DIVINEJASON_OFFICAL 2 роки тому +2

    at this point i might just die alone

  • @irishbread8773
    @irishbread8773 Рік тому +2

    3:15 yo wtf 🤣

  • @Cookiekopter
    @Cookiekopter Рік тому +2

    is there a vod of it somewhere?

  • @TrueStaple
    @TrueStaple Рік тому

    3:25 I Wasn't expecting them to actually give advice.
    And shootout to the editor really smooth.

  • @lakkakka
    @lakkakka 2 роки тому

    Of the three. You have the best intro's

  • @deadfall3223
    @deadfall3223 Рік тому

    Lily is my spirit animal of memes

  • @ThanuG15
    @ThanuG15 Рік тому +2

    I think the guys that seem dense aren't dense, they never believe that a girl can like them due to self esteem issues. Or they're being nice. Ofc, there are some cementheads...

  • @Xenolay
    @Xenolay 2 роки тому +1

    0:02 just a replay button, you’re welcome

  • @wobblewokgaming655
    @wobblewokgaming655 Рік тому +1

    Ah, yes, another episode of the Pillow Princess and the Bottom Brigade.

  • @HellsingGirl1
    @HellsingGirl1 Рік тому +1

    4:09 caught me off guard that I fuckin died bro it killed me

  • @noahyxru
    @noahyxru 2 роки тому +1

    I feel for the last guy, most dudes can understand the feeling.

  • @Thatmilkdude
    @Thatmilkdude 2 роки тому

    jokes on you, Bao, I was already subbed

  • @NotRacistBoi
    @NotRacistBoi 5 місяців тому +1

    "Were they religious?"
    "No they were vegan"
    Same difference

  • @SyFy412
    @SyFy412 2 роки тому +1

    I play life on nightmare. If I’m not crying myself to sleep at night I’m doing something wrong

  • @ken424242
    @ken424242 Рік тому

    Wow.
    In my copy of the book it just says "you can't." 1000 times.

  • @WhoAskedHomie
    @WhoAskedHomie 2 роки тому +1

    This whole stream was goated, please watch the vod people

  • @alexpaumen3937
    @alexpaumen3937 2 роки тому +6

    The thing that really stood out to me (not mentioned in this video) was when they were answering a question from this model figure kit builder who was very passionate about his work but was nervous about telling his girlfriend about it. The part that got me was when Numi said, “There was this guy on TikTok that I watch. He just likes trains” and Lily said, “YES, HE’S SO CUTE.” The second Numi said that person had a girlfriend, that re-lit a flame inside me that had been unlit and sat dormant for years after no women ever liking me at all. That small flame of hope that I’ll have a girl of my own some day.

  • @TheErilaz
    @TheErilaz 2 роки тому +2

    The primary determining factors in dating are looks and socioeconomic status and personality in more or less that order, and thats not entirely black or white if anyone understands the therm. English is not my native language.
    For instance, among American millennials, 15-30% men are involuntary celibate, roughly 51% do not have a steady partner, roughly 30% are often or always lonely, and roughly 22% have no friends. Many men thinks that the game is rigged, and after multiple failed attempts just gives up and decides to put their energy into hobbies, learning new skills, traveling and so on.
    Because mastering a new skill is more fruitful to many than wasting time, energy and money into something that many men sees as fickle. They also perceive that as more safer,- there are no risk of false accusations ( ref J. Depp he luckily has the money to afford to defend himself, lawyers are not cheap! ), a unfair law system, social factors, a lack of services for male victims of domestic violence are also contributing factors.
    And yeah, the average Joe plays dating on Ultra hard mode.

  • @arcadius3257
    @arcadius3257 2 роки тому +3

    7:39 this part f*cking killed me.
    It reminds me of that woman who made that grapefruit BJ video on youtube lmao.

  • @KristieNorth17
    @KristieNorth17 2 роки тому

    Bao and Numi taking shots at each other is ths real life Leela and Amy.

  • @goldenwavecbk
    @goldenwavecbk 12 днів тому

    Ok. The Final Fantasy 14 thing was personal. That's my favourite game

  • @Penultimeat
    @Penultimeat 2 роки тому +3

    5:45 if you’re gonna touch tails, you’d better do it on porpoise

  • @hu3bman
    @hu3bman 2 роки тому

    Yey. Two Whales & a Gym Oni. Real bromance energy bb

  • @Googleflax
    @Googleflax 2 роки тому +1

    Insert obligatory "
    Casually Explained: Is She Into You?"

  • @fnaf_pro_or_nood7305
    @fnaf_pro_or_nood7305 5 місяців тому

    2:44 a few seconds ago from this time I can't believe she understands Rick and morty

  • @samipanini1209
    @samipanini1209 2 роки тому

    Guys have 2 settings either everyone is flirting with us or no one is flirting with us the best way to approach would be to be direct in both cases

  • @brandonluu4239
    @brandonluu4239 Рік тому

    Your my favorite vtuber love you bao

  • @twitching_bot574
    @twitching_bot574 2 роки тому +2

    6:36 I'm the type who would go out of my way to add the ifunny or made with memeatic watermark.

  • @jameswhite9610
    @jameswhite9610 Рік тому

    The advice worked boys Im in

  • @wondering_wisp7772
    @wondering_wisp7772 2 роки тому

    I remember the Rick an Morty part of the stream OMEGALUL now that I watch this video I remember this entire stream 🐳

  • @Hardcover_Pilot
    @Hardcover_Pilot Рік тому

    There was a pair of sisters that were in the same years as my brother and I when we were in high school, and they lived in the same townhouse complex we did. Two years after I graduated, my brother comes home from hanging out with the younger sister and gives me this weird look. I ask what's up, and apparently the younger sister had asked my brother if I was gay, since I hadn't responded to the older sister trying to get me to take her out to prom in our senior year. This was literally the first time I'd had a single clue about this at all.

  • @alexanderelsen9397
    @alexanderelsen9397 Рік тому +1

    I remember one girl discreetly gave me their phone number on a piece of paper winking at me during class and I legit thought it was some secret code I was supposed to decipher...
    I never use my phone so it never occurred to me that it might be a phone number.

  • @toastjam4510
    @toastjam4510 4 місяці тому

    Numi,the tail touching rizzler

  • @okaybutwhythough7456
    @okaybutwhythough7456 2 роки тому

    Guy rolled a nat 1 in Perception.

  • @suhnih4076
    @suhnih4076 2 роки тому +9

    Bold of you to assume you aren't already our girlfriends
    Edit: Baoo in one of your streams you promised that you would blow up the planet if something bad ever happened to Nihmune. Well today she got banned from twitch...

    • @TheErilaz
      @TheErilaz 2 роки тому +3

      Waiting for a earth shattering ka-boom..

  • @El_MEM3
    @El_MEM3 2 роки тому

    Mmm yes knowledge for the generations to come