Him: " I don't do that your honor, but also, this is why I do that. " Hes condescending and abusive. I dont think he takes her mental health seriously at all. He wants his way and doesnt hear her. Also, hes showing and saying who he is.. and she needs to leave. I think she needs help.
Because that's what he enjoys. I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. That girl needs to put on her big girl panties and move on because he let her know straight up he's not changing for her.
@@markydan1232 You're correct in your estimation. However, the lifestyle is immoral from the standpoint of our Creator, Jehovah God. Enjoyment is enjoyment while "enjoying our preferences" regardless of our Creator. However, we'll all reap what we sow (whether we individually care about or believe it).
I don't want to bash anyone's kink, but from what I understand from the kink community is that everyone involved is on the same page. There seem put respect and understanding first... but these are people deep into the kink community. I don't think they would appreciate or approve what this guy is doing. It gives them a bad name.
I think it should be cleared up that this man isn’t a polygamist, he’s a complete narcissist? People are defending him saying that his life to live BUT when you enter a RELATIONSHIP with someone and say that you’re a polygamist, that usually involves entering a romantic relationship for one or both of the original COUPLE. He’s just talking about sex and gaining sex from others. He’s not even a swinger because he’s not including her in the process, and that’s why she’s upset! He’s just a cheater that manipulated someone into thinking it’s normal.
Judge was all over the place on this case. And failed to check this jerk about his jerkism. He says give him space when he's upset. But when she's upset he's upset because she's withdrawn. Smh
She focused on trying to empower her and recognize he has nothing she wants. I think pointing her to help was best with the time the judge had, but that guy was trash.
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. That girl needs to put on her big girl panties and move on because he let her know straight up he's not changing for her.
Now, ladies, this guy is a groomer. He knows what to say, and he knows what type of woman to pursue. Young, naïve, and easily influenced type of young ladies. He knows how to persuade them because they are curious and don’t have enough experience in dealing with this type of person.
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. He was upfront and honest with her from the beginning. He did not 'prey' on her, she had all the facts and made a decision to be with him. That's on her.
@@bryanbeeman5256 there is nothing to "tell yourself" that is legit what happened lmao she even said it herself. People like you like to call out older guys for going after younger girls but wont hold the other ADULT who is a young woman for going after an older guy. Also, the person didn't "groom" her into anything, she CHOSE to be in the relationship and CHOSE to continue perusing it when he made it apparently that he doesn't want monogamy. He didnt manipulate her, he didn't tell her "everything she wants to hear" he told her from the jump that monogamy wasn't for him, and he is entitled to his own way of life if that is what he chooses to do. And just as she was an adult that made the decision to be with someone who is in a poly relationship, she can be an adult and choose to leave. They are both in the porn industry for christs sake, how the fuck are you gonna call someone a "groomer" when the woman is in fucking porn and does porn with him lmaooo she knows what she is doing and is making these choices herself.
An emotional abusive jerk, to say the least, and he was upfront with what he wanted (as much of a jerk he was) so why get with him to try and change him
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. He was upfront and honest with her from the beginning. He did not 'prey' on her, she had all the facts and made a decision to be with him. That's on her.
@@bryanbeeman5256 I'm not telling myself anything, it's reality. He told her what he liked, and she went along. That's what I call a relationship between two consenting adults. And he didn't mince his words in court. If she's not with it, then step. Nobody is holding her against her will.
He is "upfront" and "forthcoming" but acts like the decision to stay together is hers alone. If it is a "maturity" issue, he can and should cut her loose.
I’m just gonna say it! There is a little boy that lives in him that is still suffering from childhood abuse and traumas. No number of women can satisfy him because… well… iykyk.
She knew what he was from the beginning, he was honest, she wasn’t. You can’t change a man if he don’t want to be change. She needs to leave and find what she wants. To each their own, but I would have left when he said he wanted to do sex films!
I feel that poly relationships are just ways for ppl to be freaks and not feel guilty 🤷🏽♀️ I would never be insecure enough to settle for a piece of a man.
This is so wrong lol, there's plenty of poly relationships that work out you need to communicate and actively talk to each other about the relationship just like a normal one. Poly relationships don't work out because of one party using it as a excuse to cheat or bringing someone who isn't poly into the mix.
Dude is a master manipulator. He know how to! believable. Someone in her family needs to get her help and away from him. There a lot of mental abuse and probably physical abuse present in this relationship. It's very one-sided and needs to end.
So 25 the age y’all bitch about when your brain fully developed? Now it’s a problem with an older man wanting her at 25? When tf is a person supposed to be an adult?
@@sereneamani1713Not with people half their age, they're not! This is the way to be an adult, not dating or sleeping with people a lot older or younger. So love and hook-ups has EVERYTHING to do with age
She knew what she was getting into, she knows that has he said, he can be “an angry jerk,“ he is a misogynist who enjoy things as they are, so she can decide what she wants to do moving forward
She needs to realize that the relationship is not working for her on a very very basic level. After listening to him for less than five minutes I can see there is no way he will compromise and change to accommodate here. She needs to end it and move on.
It’s simple … we danced around the issue for twenty minutes plus unnecessarily 🙏🏼 your time with this jerk is over. You want more & you love him & he doesn’t love you. Move on.
She knew what it was from the gate. You get what you allow and ain't no coochie that good that will stop a man from screwing other women. If he ain't loyal, then keep it pushin'. He's not gonna change until HE'S ready to change.
I agree with you, especially your last sentence. However, the same goes for those who ignore or discount our Creator's Word. Whether one disagrees and/or discounts that Word. We will all see sooner than later.
What a clown he is! He is the epitomy of disrespect - if you can't be faithful then let her go but stop dragging her down to your own disgusting level! She deserves a man who will love her and not f*ck around! Scores maximum points on the jerkometer!
Faithful? SHE AGREED TO A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP!!!! I don't why people are trying to make him out to be some kind of predator, or bad person. That's a man who went into the relationship knowing exactly what he wanted and he made sure to communicate those wants with her. She on the other hand is all over the place. She don't know if she wants to be with a man or woman, if to be monogamous or polyamorous, or if to do porn or work a 9 to 5.
I understand her isolation because I suffer that, love stay strong, pray what’s on your heart, be a leader, and continue to carry yourself professionally, and learn that new things takes time to open to new things. Let God handle that you can’t, and that you can do what benefits you!
19:06 She is a beautiful woman, 👠👠 she need to walk away from from this jerk,he dont want to be in one &one relationship, leave this guy he is a jerk and nasty go find a guy that want to be with you only
But will she want to be with a guy in an exclusive monogamous relationship since she's bi-sexual. IMO, she'll continue to end up with people possessing his similar qualities. Man and/or woman.
Woman get going. He is who he is and not going to change. I understand when WE say WE in love but Men operate differently. Stop using up your body carrying all these different spirits. It never works
There’s always a certain type of dude that is into “polyamorous relationships”. He’s controlling, manipulative, condescending & flat out rude. You can tell he doesn’t let her speak & say how she’s feels, I hope she RAN from him!
im laughing at most these comments calling him all kinds of names all he did was be honest about who he was. notice she didnt dispute much. he clear wants multiple women, she clearly cant handle him by herself. she dont want him to leave when hes angry even when he said he has no filter so he tries to leave.shes the one sounds like shes trying to control him instead of moving on to someone else her style. that man stood on his business from the jump she just lied to herself.
First off.. I’m not a City Boy… and second, he produces and stars in adult content. There’s never a shortage of that filth and it’s extremely lucrative. So, again… City Boys up… and unfortunately, she’s probably still sticking around…
There's nothing wrong with polyamory, but everyone involved has to be onboard and equal...this is apparently not for her and it's not right to try to force it upon someone. Oh she's well beyond "thick"😬
And women don't have a high sex drive? Many men and women learn to channel their desires in a monogamous, loving, caring, and unselfish relationship with one spouse (spouse as in legal marriage mate).
Can people please stop trying to make him out to be a bad person. This world is way too big for there to be only one way to enjoy life. He was honest and upfront with her from the beginning and she chose to be with him. You really can't expect more than that from a person. But maybe I missed something cause y'all are acting like he's some kind of predator.
Him: " I don't do that your honor, but also, this is why I do that. " Hes condescending and abusive. I dont think he takes her mental health seriously at all. He wants his way and doesnt hear her. Also, hes showing and saying who he is.. and she needs to leave. I think she needs help.
He's a jerk and a freak, period. I will never understand why anyone would bring a third party in their bedroom.
Because that's what he enjoys. I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. That girl needs to put on her big girl panties and move on because he let her know straight up he's not changing for her.
@@markydan1232 You're correct in your estimation. However, the lifestyle is immoral from the standpoint of our Creator, Jehovah God. Enjoyment is enjoyment while "enjoying our preferences" regardless of our Creator. However, we'll all reap what we sow (whether we individually care about or believe it).
I don't want to bash anyone's kink, but from what I understand from the kink community is that everyone involved is on the same page. There seem put respect and understanding first... but these are people deep into the kink community. I don't think they would appreciate or approve what this guy is doing. It gives them a bad name.
My conscience, morals, and values won’t allow me to sign off on this foolishness
LOL Thanks for your comment
It's death-dealing foolishness. Death-dealing as it relates to our eternal future.
Most of them too stupid to do anything else. That's why they signed up for it
His demeanor is given gross and creepy
I think it should be cleared up that this man isn’t a polygamist, he’s a complete narcissist?
People are defending him saying that his life to live BUT when you enter a RELATIONSHIP with someone and say that you’re a polygamist, that usually involves entering a romantic relationship for one or both of the original COUPLE.
He’s just talking about sex and gaining sex from others. He’s not even a swinger because he’s not including her in the process, and that’s why she’s upset!
He’s just a cheater that manipulated someone into thinking it’s normal.
Pretty much!
I Love your asnwer
He’s done pimped that naive mind of hers
He wants to cool off and isolate when he's upset, but it's an issue for her to do so. That doesn't make sense.
Judge was all over the place on this case. And failed to check this jerk about his jerkism. He says give him space when he's upset. But when she's upset he's upset because she's withdrawn. Smh
She focused on trying to empower her and recognize he has nothing she wants. I think pointing her to help was best with the time the judge had, but that guy was trash.
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. That girl needs to put on her big girl panties and move on because he let her know straight up he's not changing for her.
She can empower herself by leaving and giving him all the space he wants.
Now, ladies, this guy is a groomer. He knows what to say, and he knows what type of woman to pursue. Young, naïve, and easily influenced type of young ladies. He knows how to persuade them because they are curious and don’t have enough experience in dealing with this type of person.
Stop with the excuses. Women only sleep with men they find attractive. Words don’t sway women.
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. He was upfront and honest with her from the beginning. He did not 'prey' on her, she had all the facts and made a decision to be with him. That's on her.
Keep telling yourself that mate…
@@bryanbeeman5256 there is nothing to "tell yourself" that is legit what happened lmao she even said it herself. People like you like to call out older guys for going after younger girls but wont hold the other ADULT who is a young woman for going after an older guy. Also, the person didn't "groom" her into anything, she CHOSE to be in the relationship and CHOSE to continue perusing it when he made it apparently that he doesn't want monogamy. He didnt manipulate her, he didn't tell her "everything she wants to hear" he told her from the jump that monogamy wasn't for him, and he is entitled to his own way of life if that is what he chooses to do. And just as she was an adult that made the decision to be with someone who is in a poly relationship, she can be an adult and choose to leave. They are both in the porn industry for christs sake, how the fuck are you gonna call someone a "groomer" when the woman is in fucking porn and does porn with him lmaooo she knows what she is doing and is making these choices herself.
An emotional abusive jerk, to say the least, and he was upfront with what he wanted (as much of a jerk he was) so why get with him to try and change him
But she is also manipulative but for the fact that he is a bigger bast@rd than she is
Ms. Young is young and has bitten off more than she can chew or handle
Men like him can identify, and pray on women like this, that are young and possibly have mental health issues
I don't understand why he has to be a bad person for enjoying his life. He was upfront and honest with her from the beginning. He did not 'prey' on her, she had all the facts and made a decision to be with him. That's on her.
@@markydan1232get a life dude. Copying and pasting the same comment. Stfu
Again… keep telling yourself that mate….
@@bryanbeeman5256 I'm not telling myself anything, it's reality. He told her what he liked, and she went along. That's what I call a relationship between two consenting adults. And he didn't mince his words in court. If she's not with it, then step. Nobody is holding her against her will.
Any woman who get involved in sex work. Have mental issues
He is "upfront" and "forthcoming" but acts like the decision to stay together is hers alone. If it is a "maturity" issue, he can and should cut her loose.
I’m just gonna say it! There is a little boy that lives in him that is still suffering from childhood abuse and traumas. No number of women can satisfy him because… well… iykyk.
Robert Kelly syndrome
She knew what he was from the beginning, he was honest, she wasn’t.
You can’t change a man if he don’t want to be change. She needs to leave and find what she wants. To each their own, but I would have left when he said he wanted to do sex films!
Someone will love her correctly ❤
I feel that poly relationships are just ways for ppl to be freaks and not feel guilty 🤷🏽♀️ I would never be insecure enough to settle for a piece of a man.
Facts!
This is so wrong lol, there's plenty of poly relationships that work out you need to communicate and actively talk to each other about the relationship just like a normal one. Poly relationships don't work out because of one party using it as a excuse to cheat or bringing someone who isn't poly into the mix.
Dude is a master manipulator. He know how to! believable. Someone in her family needs to get her help and away from him. There a lot of mental abuse and probably physical abuse present in this relationship. It's very one-sided and needs to end.
His s*x addiction landed her in the hospital & he didn’t care & wanted her to keep producing. I hate him
What does a 39 year old want with a 25 year old? That's totally disgusting!
Control!!
So 25 the age y’all bitch about when your brain fully developed? Now it’s a problem with an older man wanting her at 25? When tf is a person supposed to be an adult?
@@GlendaClarke-ir2cdYou know what they all say about relationships like that, creepy!
Their age difference is NOT the problem. Both are adults.
@@sereneamani1713Not with people half their age, they're not! This is the way to be an adult, not dating or sleeping with people a lot older or younger. So love and hook-ups has EVERYTHING to do with age
If I had to put up with someone like him, I would have already been out the door, & not looking back!
She has anxiety and depression being a porn star is not helping that, its actually fuels it. Let this man go this relationship is not healthy for you
She needs to take care of her mental health before anything. Screw him, I hope things work out for her.
She knew what she was getting into, she knows that has he said, he can be “an angry jerk,“ he is a misogynist who enjoy things as they are, so she can decide what she wants to do moving forward
Start how you want to finish
And that goes for life in general.
His *sex addiction* has sent her to the hospital before & he don’t gaf. Girl 💔 pleaseeeeee move on.
She should go find a man to add to the situation. I bet he would have a problem with that
She needs to realize that the relationship is not working for her on a very very basic level. After listening to him for less than five minutes I can see there is no way he will compromise and change to accommodate here. She needs to end it and move on.
It’s simple … we danced around the issue for twenty minutes plus unnecessarily 🙏🏼 your time with this jerk is over. You want more & you love him & he doesn’t love you. Move on.
Talking out of turn not cool polygamous relationship a bit much judge Lynn and her magic ✨️ gavel priceless
She knew what it was from the gate. You get what you allow and ain't no coochie that good that will stop a man from screwing other women. If he ain't loyal, then keep it pushin'. He's not gonna change until HE'S ready to change.
Quiet as it's kept, they're both similar. They just want polyamory on their own terms.
She knew who he was and tried to change him. That’s on her, not him. He’s being himself and honest. Whether you disagree with his life or not.
I agree with you, especially your last sentence. However, the same goes for those who ignore or discount our Creator's Word. Whether one disagrees and/or discounts that Word. We will all see sooner than later.
What a clown he is! He is the epitomy of disrespect - if you can't be faithful then let her go but stop dragging her down to your own disgusting level! She deserves a man who will love her and not f*ck around! Scores maximum points on the jerkometer!
Faithful? SHE AGREED TO A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP!!!! I don't why people are trying to make him out to be some kind of predator, or bad person. That's a man who went into the relationship knowing exactly what he wanted and he made sure to communicate those wants with her. She on the other hand is all over the place. She don't know if she wants to be with a man or woman, if to be monogamous or polyamorous, or if to do porn or work a 9 to 5.
@@markydan1232 They are BOTH immoral.
The Divorce court social media team so messy..cause why they put her porn star name up during the airing😂😂😂😂
And unfortunately, some desperate, thirsty fool will go searching…
They should go part. He’s not at all ready to give her what she wants and neither is she.
I understand her isolation because I suffer that, love stay strong, pray what’s on your heart, be a leader, and continue to carry yourself professionally, and learn that new things takes time to open to new things. Let God handle that you can’t, and that you can do what benefits you!
No morals and values
You will not be happy because God is not on your side.
And they are putting the prospects of their everlasting life on a paradise earth in danger.
19:06 She is a beautiful woman, 👠👠 she need to walk away from from this jerk,he dont want to be in one &one relationship, leave this guy he is a jerk and nasty go find a guy that want to be with you only
But will she want to be with a guy in an exclusive monogamous relationship since she's bi-sexual. IMO, she'll continue to end up with people possessing his similar qualities. Man and/or woman.
Good luck with finding a man. She might as well stay with him. Her options very very very low
The Adult Film titles shocked me. Judge Lynn was so uncomfortable saying their occupation lol.
Woman get going. He is who he is and not going to change. I understand when WE say WE in love but Men operate differently. Stop using up your body carrying all these different spirits. It never works
There’s always a certain type of dude that is into “polyamorous relationships”. He’s controlling, manipulative, condescending & flat out rude. You can tell he doesn’t let her speak & say how she’s feels, I hope she RAN from him!
Anything can be called a "business" lyft driver, only fans come on man.
I wonder if she was abused as a child?
im laughing at most these comments calling him all kinds of names all he did was be honest about who he was. notice she didnt dispute much. he clear wants multiple women, she clearly cant handle him by herself. she dont want him to leave when hes angry even when he said he has no filter so he tries to leave.shes the one sounds like shes trying to control him instead of moving on to someone else her style. that man stood on his business from the jump she just lied to herself.
🤷🏽♀️
Never play a man’s game on his own turf, because you will lose every time… City boys up
Nay y’all down cause he still alone
@@damntre7227🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
True!!!!
First off.. I’m not a City Boy… and second, he produces and stars in adult content. There’s never a shortage of that filth and it’s extremely lucrative. So, again… City Boys up… and unfortunately, she’s probably still sticking around…
@@bryanbeeman5256 Up for awhile.
@@sereneamani1713 - And it’s sad; city boys and city girls need to be with each other and leave people that’s not about that life alone…..
narcissistic
I thought only doctors can diagnosed a patients not women
There's nothing wrong with polyamory, but everyone involved has to be onboard and equal...this is apparently not for her and it's not right to try to force it upon someone. Oh she's well beyond "thick"😬
It’s not right to force monogamy upon someone
He's no different than most men we all have a high sex drive , it slows with age or some needs variety .
And women don't have a high sex drive? Many men and women learn to channel their desires in a monogamous, loving, caring, and unselfish relationship with one spouse (spouse as in legal marriage mate).
Can people please stop trying to make him out to be a bad person. This world is way too big for there to be only one way to enjoy life. He was honest and upfront with her from the beginning and she chose to be with him. You really can't expect more than that from a person. But maybe I missed something cause y'all are acting like he's some kind of predator.
What you missed is morality and the standards of our Creator.