Shenequa Golding Talks 'A Black Girl in the Middle,' 'Black Girl Math,' BBL's, Relationships + More

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  • @TheThirtyJourney
    @TheThirtyJourney 26 днів тому +80

    16:36 “This world doesn’t know how to interact with introverts without taking offense.” Powerful statement and I definitely agree. Such an authentic and beautiful interview and I believe so many black women will feel seen! 💛✨ Definitely purchasing.

  • @drob691
    @drob691 26 днів тому +32

    I completely agree with how she broke down being an introvert.

  • @gw2315
    @gw2315 26 днів тому +61

    Introverts United

  • @stephengiese7549
    @stephengiese7549 26 днів тому +28

    This lady has found her calling for sure! She is beautiful inside and out. She is an introvert and so am I. She speaks very well, looks at everyone when she speaks. She speaks about dealing with extroverts at a distance and so do I. Read this book.

  • @rwilli26rw
    @rwilli26rw 25 днів тому +4

    This is my first exposure to Ms. Golding. What a gem!! 🖤

  • @Stephboogie
    @Stephboogie 26 днів тому +18

    She sounds like me. My friends are often offended by my need for alone time.

  • @brendamacklin6044
    @brendamacklin6044 26 днів тому +6

    Great interview.. I was so bless to have both parents in the home growing up and my father was a strong Black man and my mom was a strong, nurturing Black woman!

  • @timscott5581
    @timscott5581 26 днів тому +14

    Yeah, she speaks like an introvert, so Am'I. She seems like a nonconfrontational person. Just a calm, thought tone of conversation. The thing that's concerning is,.. introverts, we tend to isolate ourselves a lot.

  • @seanfrazier5571
    @seanfrazier5571 26 днів тому +10

    She mailed that 100%. This world does not know how to interact with introverts without taking offense

  • @melonnieali4113
    @melonnieali4113 26 днів тому +8

    I’m an extrovert and I don’t use people 😭. I respect my introverted friends by giving them space and going at their social pace. I also respect my fellow extroverts by exploring new places and experiences and talking about anything and everything lol!

    • @kimh9420
      @kimh9420 25 днів тому

      Same...I think I'm in the middle but others would just see me an Extrovert.

  • @TDott-vc7lj
    @TDott-vc7lj 26 днів тому +7

    Great interview: I purchased 3 copies for 3 very different but very important young Black women in my life. And I’ve sent the link for the book to the people I know with daughters who could gain from these essays.

  • @getoffmygrass4857
    @getoffmygrass4857 26 днів тому +5

    A gorgeous natural sista❤

  • @taracoach9351
    @taracoach9351 25 днів тому +2

    Great interview! I love that the fellas shared their experiences while listening as well. Shenequa shows wonderful conversation skills, humor, whit and great vibes. Gotta love an authentic soul when you see one ❤

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl 25 днів тому +3

    Great interview. Thanks for introducing me to this author.

  • @ms.win_
    @ms.win_ 25 днів тому +2

    As an introvert, I truly enjoyed this interview. She is also low key funny 😂😂😂

  • @Iyana215
    @Iyana215 26 днів тому +6

    I am such an introvert and felt the same way, when I would go to the clubs with my friends..

  • @Anonymous-nz5kr
    @Anonymous-nz5kr 21 день тому +2

    I Watched this interview once, listened to the audio book, and then watched this interview again. She’s a very thoughtful woman, she talks with grace and is learning to accept who she is. I learned about myself from reading her book.

  • @moderngentlemen
    @moderngentlemen 26 днів тому +3

    Such a great interview! As a guy and person of color, much of what she said resonated on a deeper level, especially how we are perceived in the public and the importance a father figure. Definitely one of my favorite interviews and I have no doubts that her book will be a runaway success.

  • @gregoryjefferson6311
    @gregoryjefferson6311 25 днів тому +2

    That " TWOooo" came out like a Kevin Hart " Dayum !! " .

  • @noelwatson2237
    @noelwatson2237 25 днів тому +2

    A great watch. Such a gift of a woman.
    Thank You ❤

  • @edra122884
    @edra122884 26 днів тому +6

    The HU homie! Congratulations Shenequa on your book!

  • @user-tc9pt4df5s
    @user-tc9pt4df5s 26 днів тому +4

    Shenequa is phenomenal!!!

  • @tamarapoindexter9482
    @tamarapoindexter9482 26 днів тому +7

    Maaaan this woman just broke down my entire life 😂 .. love it! I will definitely be buying this book

  • @kwalker1127
    @kwalker1127 26 днів тому +3

    Great interview we all need this one !’n

  • @TerrellJByrd
    @TerrellJByrd 26 днів тому +9

    She is as brilliant as she is gorgeous.. looking forward to reading her book.. always welcome a perspective even if it's not my own.. Keep shining Queen🌹🌹👑🌹🌹

  • @AtlLateNight
    @AtlLateNight 26 днів тому +3

    Really enjoyed her honesty

  • @barbarachavis4270
    @barbarachavis4270 26 днів тому +11

    She looks very good to say she is about to be forty . She looks much younger

    • @Pou1gie1
      @Pou1gie1 26 днів тому

      As I get older, I am realizing that much of aging is about genetics and taking care of yourself. Some people just fall a part after their teens and 20s.

  • @prettygirllay-dr9iq
    @prettygirllay-dr9iq 26 днів тому +8

    She is soo stunning like omg!❤

    • @miamor2001
      @miamor2001 15 днів тому

      Shes absolutely gorgeous

  • @Deonta-dw7ym
    @Deonta-dw7ym 26 днів тому +5

    Don’t agree with some of it but respect it

  • @tonij6536
    @tonij6536 26 днів тому +3

    22:58 black girl math in action. Because it's like " I said what i said, and i deemed it serious" 😂 I'll get this book on audio

  • @cydgotsomethingtosay
    @cydgotsomethingtosay 26 днів тому +3

    Yesss!!! This resonated so much ❤️❤️❤️thank you for having her on

  • @MrRicardowill
    @MrRicardowill 26 днів тому +3

    This again was a great interview by the Breakfast Club. I enjoyed it and I am going to share it on my platform to inform Black girls and introverts who are often misunderstood. Ricardo Authenticity Rating for this podcast 10 out of 10. There is no magic to the rating. I’m just an attentive listener to the podcast and try to share my honest opinion. I call out things that are red flags. I’m not always right, but I’m not always wrong. I approach listening to podcasts as a chess player looking at different angles of understanding. I’m not trying to fail podcasters, but I’m interested in uplifting podcasts. Great job guys.

  • @ApFree-yn6cd
    @ApFree-yn6cd 26 днів тому +19

    I love Shenequa and her interviews. Check out her interview with the cast of When they see Us, phenomenal

  • @shailatiara
    @shailatiara 26 днів тому +4

    Shout out to Shenequa! We love a black woman who is true to herself. My message to her is: You are powerful and beautiful in your Essence without the revealing clothing and BBL. The God in you can be recognized. Thank you for being a role model for us Black Gworls ❤️

  • @bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic
    @bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic 26 днів тому +14

    Shalom, WAKE THAT MIND UP! Thanks for sharing this conversation with Shenequa Golding, her story is dope! She mentioned "men washing the dishes after dinner, taking out the trash etc." It brought memories, from a child, the first thing after eating breakfast/ dinner was to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen. I've been married for 33 years, washing dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning the house, as the man of my house, no problem. Shenequa Golding, thank you, kudos.

  • @Lord_Tien
    @Lord_Tien 26 днів тому +4

    Powerful interview 💎 💎

  • @ap3stax
    @ap3stax 26 днів тому +4

    N.V came thru with an AWESOME in-depth question (finally) 😁

  • @soul5548
    @soul5548 26 днів тому +4

    This was a very rich conversation, I will definitely purchase the book. Sometimes having the biological and/or stepfather in the home may create more pain and chaos. I think in many cases it may be a blessing in disguise when an unhealthy parent is not in the home. It is still a void nonetheless but only God knows what may have been avoided with their absence.
    Another point,
    My daughter prefers her ‘step’ father, (with no ill will towards her biological father) but he was not around since she was two years old, she has expressed to her dad (we don’t use the term step) that she has not felt a void like some women may feel because her ‘step’ dad occupied and filled that space so well she didn’t feel like there was a void in her life. Her father has never uttered “step” nor his family either and continues to provide for and give her unconditional love as his own biological daughters/her sisters. I guess it really depends on the person’s individual experience.
    I’ve read a book and listened to a profound Ted talk several years ago on the topic of introverts and their brilliance. However, I really enjoyed the way she shared her perspective on being an introvert it really resonated with me. 💎
    I look forward to reading the book.
    #lifelonglearner. #lovetoread

  • @motif-music
    @motif-music 26 днів тому +3

    Intelligence and beauty radiating from this woman!

  • @brandongary8234
    @brandongary8234 26 днів тому +7

    The right people in your life can make you happy success and calm

  • @marqcollins1792
    @marqcollins1792 26 днів тому +9

    This lady will make this interview go great!!!

  • @Youtubehandler81
    @Youtubehandler81 26 днів тому +34

    Black Girls are Magical

    • @ShineAsTheSun-jb5bz
      @ShineAsTheSun-jb5bz 26 днів тому +3

      How so?

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 26 днів тому

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 26 днів тому

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 26 днів тому

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 26 днів тому

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

  • @lanysiaharrison2406
    @lanysiaharrison2406 26 днів тому +2

    Best episode in awhile.

  • @22Tee22
    @22Tee22 26 днів тому +7

    19:29 MY LIFEEEE 😩 she explained it perfectly

  • @themoviebrotha1033
    @themoviebrotha1033 25 днів тому +2

    She is definitely a beautiful, articulate, and well spoken young lady..great interview.

  • @graceok8525
    @graceok8525 26 днів тому +5

    Such a great interview. Definitely going to buy the book ❤

  • @BigTicket1230
    @BigTicket1230 26 днів тому +3

    I love her laugh lol very familiar.

  • @Pruffin334
    @Pruffin334 26 днів тому +5

    Love this interview

  • @jzana007
    @jzana007 25 днів тому +2

    Really good interview…I see myself in her. Jamaican 🇯🇲 in culture, black introvert, etc ❤

  • @SmooveTV718
    @SmooveTV718 26 днів тому +4

    Idk who this woman is but I like her

  • @courtneyhogue4784
    @courtneyhogue4784 24 дні тому +1

    Such a good interview. I’m looking forward to reading the book!

  • @dianacharlesdouglas8846
    @dianacharlesdouglas8846 25 днів тому +2

    I totally get the introvert good on doing what fun is supposed to be and being used by the extra folks.

  • @jerryhartnett4694
    @jerryhartnett4694 26 днів тому +3

    I actually like this interview..this was good

  • @Shiya_Says
    @Shiya_Says 26 днів тому +3

    Love her ❤

  • @Bolder_Lebza
    @Bolder_Lebza 26 днів тому +2

    Great interview 🙂

  • @oquendomelissa3699
    @oquendomelissa3699 26 днів тому +2

    Great interview 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @mandingogrande9243
    @mandingogrande9243 26 днів тому +2

    Great interview ❤

  • @2centsfreelancer
    @2centsfreelancer 26 днів тому +1

    Great interview 🔥🔥

  • @rainwash1365
    @rainwash1365 26 днів тому +2

    I really enjoyed this

  • @qtinmemphis1969
    @qtinmemphis1969 26 днів тому +8

    Then you are told when you have kids...you'll get azz and hips..... 4 kids later I still don't have azz and hips😭😭😭😭

    • @elishagreen4423
      @elishagreen4423 26 днів тому +1

      Yesssss, I know exactly how she feels. I use to get teased for having a flat butt, but now I’m in my fifties it is what it is.

  • @amairriddick1439
    @amairriddick1439 26 днів тому +2

    She was feeling dat boi DJ Envy, you’ll ain’t peep the energy

  • @billy3603
    @billy3603 26 днів тому +2

    This was great. I want to read this book!

  • @tristanstraker183
    @tristanstraker183 26 днів тому +5

    Beautiful woman

  • @AndreBoyd22703
    @AndreBoyd22703 21 день тому +1

    Hey Shanequa , it’s been a long time. Congratulations on your success!

  • @ennisel
    @ennisel 25 днів тому +2

    18:12 -woaah... #ShenequaGolding is so right!!!

  • @cshowers
    @cshowers 26 днів тому +7

    Our community is messed up I’m tired of these conversations where black women and men have unhealed trauma. You can tell dating her would be tiresome. I agree with Envy do what you enjoy to do and focus on the joy. Stop worrying about did that person reciprocate or not. Not everyone is ready for marriage which does take work. If you not ready to put in that work then just enjoy dating or single life.

    • @inglewoodjet52
      @inglewoodjet52 26 днів тому +1

      So healing and being in love is not an option? Push the healing already!!!!

    • @sidneytrowell7259
      @sidneytrowell7259 26 днів тому +1

      Not foundational black American she is Jamaican she said it

    • @cshowers
      @cshowers 26 днів тому +1

      @@inglewoodjet52 not sure what u mean but work out all that trauma from past men or relationships and daddy issues. We have too much of this in our community where black folks aren’t interested in dating each other anymore. The current flex is to date outside our race which is sad

    • @inglewoodjet52
      @inglewoodjet52 26 днів тому +1

      @@cshowers I agree with the healing but both have to heal....then we can love each other properly. That's what I'm saying. Running to another race without healing is not the solution. I think we agree... lol I'm currently in therapy but I have yet to hear a black man is as well (as far as the streets). I ain't pointing any fingers but...... lol I love my black men but I'm not dating anymore unhealed one's. I am manifesting a husband, some of us want to spend the rest of our life with our best friend/lover. But believe me, I am prepared to be alone and happy.

  • @Deonta-dw7ym
    @Deonta-dw7ym 26 днів тому +2

    I like the interview

  • @juliacox6036
    @juliacox6036 26 днів тому +3

    Just purchased in audible

  • @BerryDivine33
    @BerryDivine33 24 дні тому +1

    Getting the book!

  • @theworldsonheroin
    @theworldsonheroin 26 днів тому +2

    Love this woman ❤❤

  • @MWhite-zj5zk
    @MWhite-zj5zk 25 днів тому +2

    she is gorgeous 🥰🥰🥰✨

  • @kerstienpope6539
    @kerstienpope6539 9 днів тому

    Had to run this back!!!!

  • @mauryabrown6949
    @mauryabrown6949 24 дні тому +1

    I love this interview, specially her her ora

  • @TheNYBully
    @TheNYBully 26 днів тому +10

    She’s beautiful

  • @GCheff-ym4kh
    @GCheff-ym4kh 26 днів тому +3

    She fine.

  • @venumscripts
    @venumscripts 20 днів тому +1

    YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, Go off Queen!

  • @deljean
    @deljean 26 днів тому +4

    We have the same hair style lol❤

  • @cargolee9767
    @cargolee9767 26 днів тому +2

    Beautiful soul 💯

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 26 днів тому +8

    Love black girls

  • @earthworldserver
    @earthworldserver 26 днів тому +2

    sweetheart .

  • @BackstreetswithCo
    @BackstreetswithCo 26 днів тому +2

    talk queen !

  • @UntamedAudio
    @UntamedAudio 24 дні тому +1

    This was a great episode! First time hearing about her. Can Men read and gain from the book as well?

  • @thekenyangamer140
    @thekenyangamer140 25 днів тому +2

    Go Queen ❤

  • @mckeewardiv6307
    @mckeewardiv6307 26 днів тому +1

    💚I love this young lady with every fiber of my being 💙 I clicked on this interview because I was like “who is this 28yr old BADDIE” ❤️ then as I’m watching the video I was impressed with her humility wisdom and humor 💜I wish her nothing but the best💚

  • @Roxasthesupersaiyan
    @Roxasthesupersaiyan 26 днів тому +10

    Im considering buying this for my girl, but i want to say; there are GREAT Step-Fathers out here, i was raised by them.

    • @JT-ef2qy
      @JT-ef2qy 26 днів тому +1

      Don’t buy her that not the stuff I’d want my girl reading

    • @wills.9422
      @wills.9422 25 днів тому +1

      @@JT-ef2qyfacts 😂.. gon have his girl break up with him for no reason and wonder why he acting crazy 😂

    • @JT-ef2qy
      @JT-ef2qy 25 днів тому

      @@wills.9422 🤣🤣

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae444 26 днів тому +1

    13:25 is a real thing!!

  • @JEGlobalConcepts
    @JEGlobalConcepts 26 днів тому +1

    Who else was waiting for envy one question 😂😂😂

  • @donnettaj.7355
    @donnettaj.7355 23 дні тому

    I feel so seen rn!!❤

  • @andruspatterson9382
    @andruspatterson9382 26 днів тому +8

    She’s beautiful 😊

  • @inglewoodjet52
    @inglewoodjet52 26 днів тому +4

    LMAO.... OK GOD I HEAR YOU!!!! LET ME STOP DRAGGING MY FEET AND FINISH MY BOOK ABOUT GROWING UP CURVY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY!!!! 😎

  • @dontwaittobegreat5808
    @dontwaittobegreat5808 26 днів тому +1

    🔥

  • @CountryGospel24
    @CountryGospel24 25 днів тому +1

    That's right, thank God for what ami respects beautiful music, enjoy it and God bless you, oh and always, greetings from the United States to the world, good night.

  • @amaaddowdell1202
    @amaaddowdell1202 26 днів тому +2

    Great interview, you can tell DJ Envy doesn’t read shit 😂😂

  • @Charlise.Evelyn
    @Charlise.Evelyn 26 днів тому +9

    “….with my soon to be 40 year old mind.” FORTY!? 40 isn’t old but sheesh…Where? 😍✨

  • @rhapsodicchimera3861
    @rhapsodicchimera3861 26 днів тому +11

    The angry black woman stereotype is so annoying because why am i not allowed to experience emotion as just a human being. And its enforced from family, friends, accquaintances, etc. Its exhausting so now i just say what the hell i want to say. Receive it or not.

  • @benfrazier8385
    @benfrazier8385 26 днів тому +2

    I hate that she felt she wasn’t pretty enough because of her butt, I think she is gorgeous and I hope people told her that growing up 💯

  • @BackstreetswithCo
    @BackstreetswithCo 26 днів тому +1

    love us !

  • @HillaryClintonUSA
    @HillaryClintonUSA 26 днів тому +1

    Don't blame them

  • @HillaryClintonUSA
    @HillaryClintonUSA 26 днів тому +1

    Amen

  • @misunderstoodkj
    @misunderstoodkj 26 днів тому +1

    Team Introvert