Haters Think My 'Small' Husband Is My Son | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
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WES and Cassandra met on a dating app and hit it off immediately. Talking to Love Don't Judge, Wes explained: "I think it was an immediate connection to be quite frank and we also love fashion, so that's definitely something that pulled us closer together." Standing at 5'10" tall, Cassandra is five inches taller than Wes, who is 5'5" - and their height difference is something that many like to comment on. Wes said: "Some of the misconceptions that people make is that I can't protect her, she is not feminine, that I suffer from short man syndrome." Cassandra added: "There are some people who say the most vile and nasty things about our height difference." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the couple will be having an honest conversation with Cassandra's brother, Curtis, to see what he really thinks about their relationship. Speaking candidly with his brother-in-law, Wes asks: "Would you ever date a woman who's taller than you?"
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Saying she’s not feminine because she’s tall is crazy.
She is not that tall, only 5'10.
@@laserpmr So why do you think ppl are calling her masculine?
@@Eanaj9 I don't she is masculine at all.
@@laserpmr The only reason why she’s is being called masculine is either because she’s tall or because she’s black. Nothing about her is masculine.
@@Eanaj9Maybe her weight...?
Wow, height difference sets people off this much? Grow up people
Height is important for young girls who go to university
That's a problem for them, and any guy who doesn't have them is dodging a bullet lol@@lbks16
She is just a big ass woman,
for real. as long as they are happy thats all that matters.
Right
I have high discernment and I can tell Wes doesn’t have a short man complex. He is a good communicator. I like this couple.
Me as well and that’s one of the first things felt. He has a beautiful meek soul and that has a lot to do with him being an empath . He gets her.
My husband is 5’5” and I’m 6 foot. 30 years later, we still get a lot of stares and odd, sometimes rude comments. We just laugh it off and continue with our day.
5'5....BETA
As you should dawn marie! We love a tall queen
@@Tinfoiledhatlow key need to comment on others lives when height is out of their control- Beta
Can’t believe there actual people who care about height difference.
@@TinfoiledhatWth is wrong with you?
Height difference is ALSO a factor for judging for love? Wow, thank you for reminding me to NEVER care what people think. 🎉
Don't care at all. Most of this people hating actually wish they have what you are having. Your happiness should come first. Depression is real bro.
@@Favoritedahmi So Fxxxxx TRUE, if someone love you, your happiness ALONE is enough for them, if they need you to act this way or do that thing or wear this way or be like that...girl F off, these "people" usually try to manipulate you by saying "we love you, and we believe you should (this is where the manipulation comes in)".
Love accepts you AS IS not "with additional changes".
If somebody wants you to "change" so that they can "love"/"accept" you, you WALK.
And Asian men dating none Asian female is still unacceptable in our society. Meanwhile Asian women are marrying white men astounding rate.
😂 99% of the time, women are the ones making an issue about height. Men don't turn down women because of height but women will determine everything based off a man's height. Women are beyond shallow but get online and act as if they haven't been denying smaller guys & only wanted a man 6'0 or taller 😂 but with thier delusion, they will sit on here and act as if they do like men of all heights and they're not that shallow.@@BracerJack
It is a simple scientific fact of Evolutionary Biology. Girls are subconsciously programmed to a genetically blessed mens (5.8-6+ tall, symmetrical body and face, healthy hair, teeth etc), to protect their healthy gene poll. Men's Height is extremely important in most female populations.
70 years from now. Personality is the only thing that will always hold this relationship together.
Looks fade but personality and intelligence stays.
ain’t this the truth!!!!!!!!
This is the most normal relationship on this channel
😂😂😂
Their vibe is what shines, the love between them is adorable
People care about the wrong thing and that might be why so many people can’t find Love.
Very apt dear!
That part!!
"You're just dragging Wes around town" 😭 her dad is a savage
Lol, I bet Dad's fun to be around. 😂😂😂
Not going to mess around I chuckled. That joke came out of nowhere.
I laughed UNREASONABLY loud 😂💀
Literally was hearing them say that as I read this😂😂
That long distance relationship I laughed I’m sorry but I would of have to if I was in his shoes it’s funny
Like my grandmama said it doesn't matter cuz when you lay down it all falls in place you still going to be hip to hip😊
😊
Lolllllll I Like This!❤️
Grandma a trip lol
Lmaooooo funniest comment
What?? Your grandmama is wild!
My sister been married five times and is still looking for Mr. Right. Please don't pay no mind what the people say because I guarantee they're still looking for that special person and are not looking outside of the box. You are a beautiful couple. Many blessings on your journey!
For real
I guess they're gonna call this a "mixed height" relationship???
You know the US 😅
Hahahaha you’re from the mixed weight one..?
My husband was two inches shorter than me and after 23 years together and he passed away and I still miss him and love him U2 are in love you go be happy you look happy God bless you both❤❤❤❤
Sending hugs & prayers 🤗🙏🤍
I have never dated someone based on their height. That's just ridiculous.
My friend does that 😂 she will not date any men shorter than her.
Same
All this shit is ridiculous . In the end all that matters is who is going to wipe your add when you get old , and who truly loves you . All this height shit is just absolutely superficial especially because it’s the one thing we all have absolutely no control over ,
I dated a few men that were a few inches shorter than me. It never bothered me or them.
Unfortunately a lot of women have that mindset; most men don't care about a woman's height, but most women do care about a men height
Im 6'2 and wear heels & my fiancé is 5'4 his height was never a factor or problem for me. I genuinely never paid attention to it. I love him for who he is & how he treats me.He's very confident & secure in who he is. And he's definitely a protector, i feel the safest with him than past guys who were taller or as tall as me. I've seen people literally pass up on the person that was everything they prayed for because the person was either taller or shorter than them.
Thanks for sharing your story. Your words hit like a Ted Talk and a praying grandmother's wisdom spirit lashing for me!😊
Although, I have friendships with shorter men-- I refused to get serious because of my issues with having a shorter man. I can honestly say, I missed out on a blessing. I recognize MY issues stem from being teased in high school for liking someone shorter. Unfortunately, the taunting is still imprinted subconsciously . After seeing this video and reading your comment, I am pledging to live fully confident--open to love; regardless of statue (while wearing my heels ) . Thank you for giving me the boost.
@CagedbirdFree You have no idea how much you're comment meant & means to me! I comment on things when i feel the urge to & my goal in life has always to be a light & make a difference in someone's life whether one person or thousands & whether i know or not. Im sooo glad I was able to encourage you & give you a little pep! I was just telling my mom yesterday how though we are adults our childhood issues/trauma can affect & resurface in many ways without us even knowing but once we do it's up to us to then be mindful & do what we can to heal & continue to become better versions of ourselves. I know the right man will come into your life and sweep you off you're feet when you least expect it, you are deserving of everything you want & desire in this life. Be kind to yourself, be patient with yourself & give yourself grace and show this world how bright you shine😊🥰
@@MsDeVerro Again thank you so much. To be honest, I dont comment unless I feel the urge as well. My goal is to also be a light and lead with intention. I truly felt the urge to let you know how your words encouraged me to LIVE unhindered by anyones opinion. Hence the meaning of the "caged bird free" lifestyle anthem. Thank you for being open to being used and guided by the Spirit. I am sure your words will also be a light to others reading this post. Continue being a light in this sometimes dark world..... As you plan your wedding and future with your fiancé', I pray that the manifestation of your dreams will be fulfilled beyond all that you can ask or imagine. And every resource required for the vision you SEE for your special day comes with divine ease, and financial blessings.. Stay Encouraged.
My niece is 6' plus and although her husband is 6'7 every relationship before him was with someone 5'5 to 5'8' and it never once bothered her
Sounds good.
because she is not shallow.
"Tee-Hee".
I relate to this so much. Im 6'1 and my man is like 5'10. It can be so difficult to deal with other peoples opinions. There are always lots of assumptions being made by people who have never walked the path of being a woman who is taller than most of the people around her. "Dont you want a man taller than you???" Baby nobody ever looked at me twice, nobody ever expressed interested in me, and when I find my person who actually enjoys how tall I am I'm just supposed to cut him loose because I'm bigger than him? Gtfo😂
I'm sure you got hit on. Supermodels are really tall and men constantly talk about how attractive they are.
I’m 6’1 and my husband is shorter than me! People who judge are lonely Mofos xx
@Renee-tc5go only sporadically by much older men that weren't my thing. Never by anyone within 20 years of my age
@@Jake0227 Which is why models/super models are dull, constantly bragging about how good they look.
3 inches is nothing
I was taller than my husband. We were together 35 years, married for 30 and had 5 children together, before the Good Lord called him home. I wish you two the very best. May God continue to bless you both and your marriage.
🙏🏾🤍
Sorry for your loss.
People are so shallow that they forget to just get to know & love each other.
Probably my favorite feature ever! They’re so swaggy!
Sooooo stylish!!
Enjoy your marriage don't worry about what other people got to say.
I had a crazy ex boyfriend who abused me and women complained about a man’s height smh
Smh is right 😂
I had an ex who was shorter than me and I had more weight than him but he still beat my a** smh. This height stuff don't matter as much as finding a genuine good guy, tall or short
People are so caught up into physical components that they totally
Miss compatibility, having an emotional and spiritual connection. It’s sad. Those same people will be the ones by themselves without a spouse and wondering why nothing is working for them.
They so beautiful 😻 you can tell how comfortable they are with each other
❤🎉 Haters = losers. You guys are winners. Enjoy your relationship.
Truth.
They really are ❤
He seems like such a great man!
Yes, they seem to have a really good relationship, that’s all that matters.
@@kayb2454 period.
He smart! He knows his boys gonna be six footers!! They look cute together!❤
Nah frfr...that's true my sister fiance is like 5.1 his bm is like 5.11 and his son who is like 13 years old is already like 5.7
@@Nonofyobusiness yep they say that the mom being at least 5’9” increases the son’s height potential! Cuz you gotta remember that 5’9” is the average height for a man. So that’s tall for a woman!!
Strange is caring about what everyone else thinks when its your life you have to live...props to this couple on finding true love because not everyone will find that because their stuck on what someone elses idea of what love should look like for them
exactly!
Some people can't even maintain a relationship that's the real joke at least they are in a relationship and happy
I LOVED this! 👀I’m 5’7 and always felt too ashamed to date shorter guys….. got me thinking about all the great guys I missed out on…
I wish you both the best and many years of happiness together!
I’m 5’7 as well and I have dated guys shorter than me. Baby let me tell you this. Short men are packing *hint *hint😂. They will surprise you in the bedroom.
@@Naenatural82yes we will lol tell them girl !!! lol .
Why are people so pressed about other people’s relationships 🥴
Because there single and miserable 🙄🤦🏽♀️
THISSSS‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Is Cassandra’s brother single though? 👀 Damn I’m not even single. I almost risked it all from watching a 1 min clip of him😩🥰😍😘🤩
Lmaoooooooooo
I am 5"3", and my
first true love girlfriend was 6'2" .
I was working in a sweat shop dress, making a factory on the west side of Manhattan. They hired her, and the men went crazy over her. I didn't notice because I always focused on my job. One day I received a note from a coworker. It was her and it had her name and number on i. I threw it away. I don't like jokes like that. 2 days later she walked up to me and ask," why didn't you call me"? In a heavy New York accent. I said," I thought that they were joking ". Then she give it to me agai and I called her.
I did put up a fight because I thought she wanted to use me or she was nuts which I freely told her. She said," nope, you didn't care what I look like and I don't care what you look like, I want someone real".
We dated for 2 years with ( social pressure ) on me of course. We broke up because I had joined the Army. Never saw or talked to her ever again. That was 45 years ago.
That’s a beautiful love story
As far as I’m concerned they’re consenting adults, that’s all that matters. Who cares about height, weight, race, etc. Date/marry who you want, as long as they treat you right and you’re happy ❤
They look good together.
My husband is 5'5-5'6 and I am 6 feet tall. We have been together for more than 4 years ..in general I have never dated anyone taller than me. My husband protects me well. People are ignorant who don't think outside the box.
🤔 I always thought height difference relationships were strange whether the man was way taller or the woman but quite frankly, it’s none of our DAMN business who you love 💗
When we see something out of the ordinary our brains are curious. I’m an inquisitive person because I care to understand more.
Im 4’11” and my hubby is almost 6’4”. I was super conscious about it at first (25 years ago!) but I don’t even think about it anymore. There is nowhere I would rather be than by his side. 😊
This reminds me of my friend and her boyfriend. She's like 6ft tall and he is like 5ft 4 inches
they are cute together and you can tell their energy matches well. i can see how some people may stop and look but they seem like a dope couple. much love ❤
Some People are just superficial 😲😑 and they SHOULD keep their judgements to themselves 🤐🤨
They say that short is sweet but tall is beautiful but in Wes & Cassandra's case don't worry about nothing I ain't got nothing but love for you guys keep being excellent people don't worry live happy 🤟🏽🙌🏽
Love is love, they ain’t hurting nobody ❤
You two make a beautiful couple!!! Stay strong 💪🏾
And I'm still single😢
Oh really
Me too 😩😆🥰
After playing for Kaizer Chiefs?
@@ua29leqele71 hello
It doesnt matter if he is short as long they are happy together. Its not very often you will find a taller women with shorter man. Its a rare gem.
My mom is 5'11" and my dad was 5'6". They married in the 70s, and my dad had a big afro, so it wasn't as noticeable, but even after he changed hairstyles, no one really batted an eye. (My brother and I are 6'5" and 5'8", so dad would've been the shortest person in the house, had he lived past 1997)
they're both perfect for each other! I love their outfits and you can tell they genuinely have a friendship together, like they're enjoying life with their lover & friend. we love to see it
They are happy, cute, and cute together. There's a lot of style between them and in that home. Even their dog looks so happy. ❤ People need to stop projecting their issues or unhappiness onto others. They seem like amazing people. They have such great positive vibes. Those smiles speak volumes. Walk good. Blessings!
What?! I thought that she was like 6'2 or sum 😮
With heels, she is
Yea I think she is taller than 5'10 , just looking at her standing next to things
@@antbanks415 even barefoot she looks pretty tall
She's a bulky woman... It's just her height, but size...
I'm 5'10" and that ain't 5'10" she's a good 6'2" for sure
Their style is immaculate
I love y'all. People wish they had that type of chemistry.
Y’all Are Cute AsF.. When It’s Deeper Than The Surface View It’s Usually Genuine & Thats What I See & Feel Here!
God Bless This Beautiful,Brave,Bold Blessing ❤
It's ok my brotha you doing good ... don't worry about the haters ..
Beautiful husband and wife
How rude!! Why is it anyone's business? Kudos to you two loving each other! ❤️💗 👏 👏
Love is love. That's it...Im happy that they found each other. They both seem very happy and that's a blessing. Some ppl go a life time and never find what they have found. I pray that God continues to bless them and their marriage ❤
I approve of their relationship, but sadly I cannot support wearing sunglasses inside
That's the only issue here 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
_they look like those glasses that transition lmao_
She's got it made with the guy in shades 🤷🏼
Nice couple. They seem very happy.
I just have to say I love both of their personalities and I wish nothing but the best for both of them beautiful couple
One of them is lying about their height, thats not a 5" difference, thats like a whole foot. I speak from experience cause I'm 5'5 and I have friends who are 5'10 and we've taken pictures standing next to each other and the difference in height is not this great, so either she's taller or he's shorter, but there's no way that's a 5" height difference.
She’s wearing heels most of the time
Maybe heels
He is not 5’5😂.
Does it matter 🤔 🤷🏾♀️
@@1tuffzx10I mean if you come on a show talking about how confident and secure you are about your height then why you lie.
Most of my boyfriends were shorter than me. I'm 5'9. Plenty of women don't really care about height.
Can u be my gf
It’s looks different to the naked eye… but it works, so I respect it. I love that this teaches people that love comes in all shapes and sizes. And you should never rule a person out for being different. Or for what doesn’t seem “normal” to you. I absolutely love their style. She had on a few pair of shoes that i absolutely love. Good luck. I wish you both nothing but blessings and love.
Cute couple. They look exactly alike.
I was thinking the same thing , they look like siblings.
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName I was thinking fraternal twins.
So true
What really matters is the connection, the energy they have. A beautiful couple. 💕👍🏽
doesn’t matter as long as they love each other
forget haters
What a DOPE couple! They compliment each other and you can see nothing but love and respect amongst them. Unique and special ❤️
Now that is love. ❤ that's what love is about thank you for sharing
The best example of like/love who likes/loves you back
Opposites attract and I'm glad you guys are ying yang to each other ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
May God bless your union. This is very sweet. ❤❤
I’m 5’9, I get approached by mostly tall men but I prefer shorter men. 5”5 to 5”8 is the height that I prefer.
You're in a very small minority of women who prefer shorter men. That's pretty cool.
Did someone say my name🤔
@@rockpops7063 A lot of women may not have a preference for smaller guys but there are a lot of women that don’t care about height.
@@NetWorkProduction2600 😂😂😂
@@UA-camUzername oh for sure. As a 5'8 guy I know that first hand. Dated several women taller than me from 5'9-6'4. But as a guy who sometimes prefers to be the shorter partner it was just cool to hear a woman who actually prefers being the taller partner as well. Of all the women I dated who were taller, only 1 of them actually preferred it herself. And one other liked it for my sake once we were together, though it wasn't her own preference.
They are both so confident, aware and unbothered. I'm glad they are monitizing off other peoples' ignorance on TikTok. Blessings to them!!🎉🎉🎉
What a gorgeous couple my hubby is also shorter then me don't worry about the haters yall look good
Genuine love is beautiful in itself. People are crazy to focus that much on petty appearances...no one is being beaten or mistreated so what's the problem ? They are treating each other well, so what's the problem ?
I’m 5’10” as well but because she’s next to him she looks a lot taller. If she was slimmer maybe she wouldn’t look so much bigger.
Naw Somebody lying this looks like a foot of difference.. 🙄
Ppl know nothing. These couple dynamics have always existed. I remember it being more common than not when I was younger. Ppl are so judgmental that ppl are afraid to love who they really love out loud. This is beautiful. I hope to see more of it.
Haters be always throwing shit 😒 at People who are actually enjoying their life! I’m like OMG, let this couple enjoy their life! They are a very fitting couple in my opinon😊!
They said they get vile comments, but those comments I saw where straight jokes. I can’t remember the last time I laughed this hard during one of these vids
Ppl always try 2 bring others down 2 their levels.
Live n Y'all happiness 😊
👍🏾👍🏾
They look great together ❤❤. And the fashions are fashioning
Love them! Confidence, style, and love! So happy for them!
Ya'll da bomb!!! Ya'll def compliment each other!!! And umm, the style is straight drip!!! 💣💣💣🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
Beautiful couple,guys.
Height difference should not really matter, when it comes to dating or marriages either.
He seems to have a beautiful spirit. I wonder, thought truly does she feel protected deep inside, though being that she is taller/bigger than him? I only say that because the biological chemistry of a woman, 90% of the time only feels protected against threats when a man is larger/taller. She would know if she is attacked or threatened that her man can protect her physically. All of the best.
I’m 5’8 & it can be awkward dating someone that’s short 😅 But if that’s who you wanna be with it doesn’t matter…My husband is taller than me by 4ins ❤️
So what is the problem again... enjoy your life and good luck 👍
I’m proud of them this woman would’ve miss out on her blessings worrying about what others think. They really compliment each other it do effortlessly ❤ God bless
Here in the Philippines if you maried on a girl taller than you it was like you won a lottery like you've got the jackpot.
Just here for the comments, and I haven't been let down yet . . . 👏🏼👏🏼
They look so happy together. Keep loving up on each other❤🎉😊
Hi brother 👀👋🏾
Yeah bro is fine af lol
Fine as hell 🤤🤤
She is SUPER Feminine, so idk where that comment came from! Really isn’t that drastic of a difference, it just that she loves to wear heels!! I am 6’4” & my husband is 6ft 🤷🏾♀️! Yall keep it pushing & God Bless 🙏🏾❤️❤️
Great couple, cheers!
They say they don't care what others think. However, the controversy surrounding their height difference is what separates their channel from a sea of more appealing couples. Which is why, I wouldn't be surprised to discover they're hoping to use it to their advantage when it comes to building their brand.
Well I smiled the whole video through. Great match you all seem very comfortable with one another.
I soooo love this!!!❤ I do cause the confidence that exudes from both of them but, especially the guy cause we know how hard people make it for short men and people in the world!!
Awe 🥰 I loveeeee this for them 🥰 sending them love & wishing them the best 🥰
When Wes said and my wife that's when I flip the phone to full screen. When I was at child at church there was a couple there and the guy was close to migiet size and his wife gad to be 6'1 and to be honest kids are quite observant and I didn't notice no one treat them odd and It wasn't alarming to me
I didn't think of that memory until now.
Every negative comment comes from people with insecuritues, everyone remember that!
At least they are real man and woman 🎉 keep going!