Hi Damien, I really appreciate the very balanced view point you offer here. On the one hand acknowledging the needs of the woman (for a sense of safety and respect) and at the same time acknowledging the needs of a man also (for self-improvement, for coping with difficulties of making the first move etc.) Please continue doing more videos on daygame. You know i tell my circle of friends, if you can do day game, you won't need to drink alcohol. Because some of my friends say they drink alcohol before approaching girls in a club. Alcohol, just like the false bravado and hyper aggressive alter egos, can cause people to lose their calibration. Thank you!
I think what you described was a group of men who hyped them selves up into treating a single woman like the brass ring on a merry go round and she caught on pretty damn quick. Out of the other men’s lifestyle and dating channel I’m subscribed to, I’m finding I like your down to earth approach, keep up the good work.
Goodvibes Charisma on command Alpha M. Based Zeus Granted charisma on command is in a man’s lifestyle and dating channel, but I consider it still good stuff to employ all round. Alpha M. Is good for tips on how to present yourself though I can’t match his energy (but I enjoy watching his stuff). Based zeus is good for understanding the online scene IMO.
like you said, I really blame older UA-cam videos of dating coaches doing pick-up showed "flashy" videos of guys stopping women, while they are clearly busy, clearly in a hurry, clearly dont want to be bothered, but these pick up coaches only showed the ONE video where it actually kind of worked. Not showing the 99 out of 100 times they were told to F off. So impressionable guys trying to learn pick up only see the videos where it works and they think thats "pick up". Luckily, maybe its just me, that whole stupid scene seems to have died down a bit. If I approach a woman during the day its going to be while im busy, on my purpose, on my way to getting things done for myself because that is natural and women want to feel like its calibrated and natural. not running around for an hour with some stupid gimmicky non-sense. spot on mate
Here I am working with my tinder profile, but this is what I really want to get into; baby steps for now. Always on point with the content, thanks Damien 👍
I've been doing daygame since last autumn and I have gotten positive feedback a lot from women, even if they weren't interested or taken. "That's very brave of you, a lot of guys don't do this anymore". And one older woman even said what I'm doing is "worth supporting" after she said she had a husband and felt flattered. Maybe it's because I live in Germany and Feminazis aren't THAT big of a thing here, unlike in the Anglosphere. Just saying, it seems like many women look at it positively.
this is a very good video, i dont do daygame but i do approach and talk to girls on the street, sometimes i get a reaction and sometimes i dont. but its time to bring some logic and rationalism into the community.
I'm still undecided on the value of daygame. I do it and always get super nice feedback from the women. I never got outright rejected, yet I also never got a girlfriend or sex this way. The interesting women I met were always married, so there is not much to do about it. In retrospect it feels like a massive waste of time.
That's hard to say a whole ot about without seeing you in action - Have you tried making it as easy on yourself as possible by focussing on places that have more tourists? Also, have you tried going for a quick coffee insta-date rather than phone numbers?
Based on the fact that you said "I never got outright rejected", I think you're problem probably is that you don't take risks and mostly play it safe when it comes to flirting, so you end up with mostly tame and friendly interactions. You can get dates and have sex through daygame. I've seen it happen. Nightgame gets you laid even quicker, but that has other challenges.
@@SchoolOfAttraction I tried many things. I guess the issue is simply that I am not easily impressed by women. I only seriously approach those that I find attractive or sexy (unless I approach for training purposes ;eg last week I was out on the street with a dating coach to learn more about it). The attractive women are loved by other men as well, so it is not surprising that they are already married or in a relationship. Since I keep record, for more than a decade, I never ran into a girl I was attracted to that was single. Doesn't happen. Example? OK.. this Saturday I went to a Meetup group that met in a bar. I approached the only girl that was really hot. We even ended up kissing later that night. When I offered her to bring her home, she finally revealed that she is married and has a kid. (I'm still in contact with her, but I never had good experience dating a married woman). So I didn't got rejected (she really likes me) but she is married. This happens to me all the time, again and again. You can't imagine how frustrating this is, seeing that the women actually like me (some fell in love with me), my approach works, but I still do not get a girlfriend or sex. This kills me.
@@Silvannetwork I know I can get sex with women that I am not attracted to. There is nothing more useless than spending a night with an unattractive woman. What would be the point? The ones I find hot are never available. A few years ago I started to ignore my sexual desire to those girls (well, trying to) and added them to my friends circle (in the hope that someday one of them will leave their husband or boyfriend, so that I can move in... Or at least get introduced to other attractive women by them, as high quality women usually have other hot women as friends) . But it didn't help. Nowadays I have many good, super sexy female friends, but they are all still in their relationship and I am still single. They even introduced me to other hot women, but they also were married. Life hates me.
As a woman, I agree with what you’re saying Damien. One thing I find interesting is while there has been a lot of talk about women not wanting to be approached or harassed in public, there’s been very little discussion about women going to a guy’s place or having a guy over to her place that she has never met and has only talked to online. That’s a really unsafe thing to do. Much more unsafe, imo than having a stranger approach you during the day in public. I don’t know the percentage of women who do this (it would be very interesting to know) but at least some women are and seem to think it’s no big deal. It makes me cringe to think about it.
I'm still a huge fan of your approach to dating and women/men relationship. I do believe you hit the nail on this one. It is all about being your self and being able to present an true image of what you are of a person. /Søren
Hi Damien) I am from Ukraine and I really like your content. As a online marketer would like to promote it and send some traffic from Tier1 countries to your courses. Do you have some kind of affiliate program?
Idk seems a bit too blue pilled for me. Of course social calibration is a must, but being timid around women is next in line to being uncalibrated when it comes to making her dry up.
It's honestly not so - it's not like I approach, then just clam up and become perpetually awkward. I joke, I tease them, I banter. I just don't start too cocky. it always screws things up during the day.
i really do feel like youre over excusing girls and being one sided on this one, in my humble and past interaction with day game, and yes you could argue and find reasons why i was wrong, i should be more funny, smile more or get a hair cut and bla bla bla but to be honest, i do find girls to be even more awkward when you go and try to interact with them out of the blue for no reason. Like youll say something funny and instantly they go in a rude kinda bitchy or confused mode where things from there are just painful and plain not fun at all. That might be just a big city thing but honestly i wouldnt recommend any one to put to much effort in this one. Like girls nowadays are so into them self and their phone like you just seems to be bothering them. I do admit that in a social environment such as a bars, party or exhibitions where doing a cold approach make sense and is socially not awkward. But my take on the whole thing and shoot me if im wrong but make yourself more VALUABLE as a men, focus on being a 5%, like get your shape together and gun for that greek god physic you always dreamed, focus on making money, get succes, go bang hot thai girls in thailand and south america for cheap and make unreal good picture of you, like SOLID one you could find on pinterest . Make yourself an IG account buy some fallowers, download tinder again and tell me how things goes for you. COLD approach is forever dead in america and where ever girls have being Americanized. But thats just my 2 cents, keep up the content Damien and no hard feeling
I don't know what to say man - I haven't seen you approach... But we've done coaching in a good many cities around the world - big cities - NY, LA, Paris, Amsterdam, Sydney etc.... When you open well, women are majority friendly.
Hi Damien,
I really appreciate the very balanced view point you offer here.
On the one hand acknowledging the needs of the woman (for a sense of safety and respect) and at the same time acknowledging the needs of a man also (for self-improvement, for coping with difficulties of making the first move etc.)
Please continue doing more videos on daygame. You know i tell my circle of friends, if you can do day game, you won't need to drink alcohol. Because some of my friends say they drink alcohol before approaching girls in a club.
Alcohol, just like the false bravado and hyper aggressive alter egos, can cause people to lose their calibration.
Thank you!
Thanks mate! Tell your friends I pick up lots of girls in bars without consuming a drop of alcohol there either ;)
I think what you described was a group of men who hyped them selves up into treating a single woman like the brass ring on a merry go round and she caught on pretty damn quick.
Out of the other men’s lifestyle and dating channel I’m subscribed to, I’m finding I like your down to earth approach, keep up the good work.
What are the other channels you're subscribed to?
Goodvibes
Charisma on command
Alpha M.
Based Zeus
Granted charisma on command is in a man’s lifestyle and dating channel, but I consider it still good stuff to employ all round.
Alpha M. Is good for tips on how to present yourself though I can’t match his energy (but I enjoy watching his stuff).
Based zeus is good for understanding the online scene IMO.
like you said, I really blame older UA-cam videos of dating coaches doing pick-up showed "flashy" videos of guys stopping women, while they are clearly busy, clearly in a hurry, clearly dont want to be bothered, but these pick up coaches only showed the ONE video where it actually kind of worked. Not showing the 99 out of 100 times they were told to F off. So impressionable guys trying to learn pick up only see the videos where it works and they think thats "pick up". Luckily, maybe its just me, that whole stupid scene seems to have died down a bit. If I approach a woman during the day its going to be while im busy, on my purpose, on my way to getting things done for myself because that is natural and women want to feel like its calibrated and natural. not running around for an hour with some stupid gimmicky non-sense. spot on mate
Yep absolutely!
Here I am working with my tinder profile, but this is what I really want to get into; baby steps for now. Always on point with the content, thanks Damien 👍
You're welcome bud!
tinder is a waste of time
That group that got in trouble simply weren't using common sense.
Correct
really on point advice as always - keep up the good work Damien! :)
Cheers bud!
I've been doing daygame since last autumn and I have gotten positive feedback a lot from women, even if they weren't interested or taken. "That's very brave of you, a lot of guys don't do this anymore". And one older woman even said what I'm doing is "worth supporting" after she said she had a husband and felt flattered. Maybe it's because I live in Germany and Feminazis aren't THAT big of a thing here, unlike in the Anglosphere. Just saying, it seems like many women look at it positively.
No, I really do think that if you do a decent job and are just genuine - women on the whole really appreciate it.
He said "cocky talk" hahahaha!!! Only in Australia mate, can you get away with saying cocky talk.
this is a very good video, i dont do daygame but i do approach and talk to girls on the street, sometimes i get a reaction and sometimes i dont. but its time to bring some logic and rationalism into the community.
Cheers, Darren!
I'm still undecided on the value of daygame. I do it and always get super nice feedback from the women. I never got outright rejected, yet I also never got a girlfriend or sex this way. The interesting women I met were always married, so there is not much to do about it. In retrospect it feels like a massive waste of time.
That's hard to say a whole ot about without seeing you in action - Have you tried making it as easy on yourself as possible by focussing on places that have more tourists? Also, have you tried going for a quick coffee insta-date rather than phone numbers?
Based on the fact that you said "I never got outright rejected", I think you're problem probably is that you don't take risks and mostly play it safe when it comes to flirting, so you end up with mostly tame and friendly interactions. You can get dates and have sex through daygame. I've seen it happen. Nightgame gets you laid even quicker, but that has other challenges.
@@SchoolOfAttraction I tried many things. I guess the issue is simply that I am not easily impressed by women. I only seriously approach those that I find attractive or sexy (unless I approach for training purposes ;eg last week I was out on the street with a dating coach to learn more about it). The attractive women are loved by other men as well, so it is not surprising that they are already married or in a relationship. Since I keep record, for more than a decade, I never ran into a girl I was attracted to that was single. Doesn't happen. Example? OK.. this Saturday I went to a Meetup group that met in a bar. I approached the only girl that was really hot. We even ended up kissing later that night. When I offered her to bring her home, she finally revealed that she is married and has a kid. (I'm still in contact with her, but I never had good experience dating a married woman). So I didn't got rejected (she really likes me) but she is married. This happens to me all the time, again and again. You can't imagine how frustrating this is, seeing that the women actually like me (some fell in love with me), my approach works, but I still do not get a girlfriend or sex. This kills me.
@@Silvannetwork I know I can get sex with women that I am not attracted to. There is nothing more useless than spending a night with an unattractive woman. What would be the point? The ones I find hot are never available. A few years ago I started to ignore my sexual desire to those girls (well, trying to) and added them to my friends circle (in the hope that someday one of them will leave their husband or boyfriend, so that I can move in... Or at least get introduced to other attractive women by them, as high quality women usually have other hot women as friends) . But it didn't help. Nowadays I have many good, super sexy female friends, but they are all still in their relationship and I am still single. They even introduced me to other hot women, but they also were married. Life hates me.
@@SchoolOfAttraction So daygame mainly works for tourists ?
As a woman, I agree with what you’re saying Damien. One thing I find interesting is while there has been a lot of talk about women not wanting to be approached or harassed in public, there’s been very little discussion about women going to a guy’s place or having a guy over to her place that she has never met and has only talked to online. That’s a really unsafe thing to do. Much more unsafe, imo than having a stranger approach you during the day in public. I don’t know the percentage of women who do this (it would be very interesting to know) but at least some women are and seem to think it’s no big deal. It makes me cringe to think about it.
Yeah, it can be a bit crazy the risks some women take with their safety :/
I'm still a huge fan of your approach to dating and women/men relationship.
I do believe you hit the nail on this one. It is all about being your self and being able to present an true image of what you are of a person.
/Søren
Thank you!
When are we going to see some videos about Bumble or HInge?
Hi Damien) I am from Ukraine and I really like your content. As a online marketer would like to promote it and send some traffic from Tier1 countries to your courses. Do you have some kind of affiliate program?
We do, and we'll be in contact in a few days
@@SchoolOfAttraction great) PMed on your facebook page
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? did you mean "stronger"
* i don't think that being "taller", by itself, is intimidating to most people 😛
Yes, I was really trying to briefly mention the fact that since men are taller/stronger/bigger, women are always in a place of vulnerability.
Idk seems a bit too blue pilled for me. Of course social calibration is a must, but being timid around women is next in line to being uncalibrated when it comes to making her dry up.
It's honestly not so - it's not like I approach, then just clam up and become perpetually awkward. I joke, I tease them, I banter. I just don't start too cocky. it always screws things up during the day.
i really do feel like youre over excusing girls and being one sided on this one, in my humble and past interaction with day game, and yes you could argue and find reasons why i was wrong, i should be more funny, smile more or get a hair cut and bla bla bla but to be honest, i do find girls to be even more awkward when you go and try to interact with them out of the blue for no reason. Like youll say something funny and instantly they go in a rude kinda bitchy or confused mode where things from there are just painful and plain not fun at all. That might be just a big city thing but honestly i wouldnt recommend any one to put to much effort in this one. Like girls nowadays are so into them self and their phone like you just seems to be bothering them. I do admit that in a social environment such as a bars, party or exhibitions where doing a cold approach make sense and is socially not awkward. But my take on the whole thing and shoot me if im wrong but make yourself more VALUABLE as a men, focus on being a 5%, like get your shape together and gun for that greek god physic you always dreamed, focus on making money, get succes, go bang hot thai girls in thailand and south america for cheap and make unreal good picture of you, like SOLID one you could find on pinterest . Make yourself an IG account buy some fallowers, download tinder again and tell me how things goes for you. COLD approach is forever dead in america and where ever girls have being Americanized. But thats just my 2 cents, keep up the content Damien and no hard feeling
I don't know what to say man - I haven't seen you approach... But we've done coaching in a good many cities around the world - big cities - NY, LA, Paris, Amsterdam, Sydney etc.... When you open well, women are majority friendly.