How I Met Your Mother: You're All Alone

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  • @bakabaka73
    @bakabaka73 Рік тому +1214

    I always think of the quote from the Office. “I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.”

    • @zugmeister314
      @zugmeister314 2 місяці тому +21

      At 51 I’m just getting a feel for that. All I can say is think about what matters to you and try to pay attention.

    • @logicsoundinc
      @logicsoundinc 2 місяці тому +8

      These ARE the good 'ol days. Keep making memories.

    • @bakabaka73
      @bakabaka73 2 місяці тому +7

      @@logicsoundinc Yeah, that quote has really made me take a step back in certain moments and realize these are the times Ill be thinking about when I'm older.

    • @logicsoundinc
      @logicsoundinc 2 місяці тому +2

      @@bakabaka73​​⁠yep, I’m 46 and still making memories as often as I can. I look upon tomorrow, today, and yesterday as fondly as I do any day 25 years ago.

    • @Matt-kw6gl
      @Matt-kw6gl 2 місяці тому +3

      @@bakabaka73me too man. I’m 35, and every now and then I do find myself just for a second taking an extra minute during certain occasions to take it all in, especially at large family gatherings. We always reminisce on the past, but we need to learn to take in the present and enjoy it.

  • @aUniqueWaffle
    @aUniqueWaffle Рік тому +24896

    Sometimes a short hits you in away you can't stop listening

    • @danieldiaz6023
      @danieldiaz6023 Рік тому +25

      Why Nixon why

    • @goobiej
      @goobiej Рік тому +11

      For 30 seconds😂

    • @davidnorman4612
      @davidnorman4612 Рік тому +20

      Stop committing evil. When you see injustices, intervene and stamp it out… and maybe you people wouldn’t feel so depressed.

    • @Neonblade1
      @Neonblade1 Рік тому +6

      Lol. "in away" sounds like my dogs name. I'm Native American.

    • @RbRnAngelz
      @RbRnAngelz Рік тому

      facts

  • @Faust_YT
    @Faust_YT 3 місяці тому +227

    Story of my life. Almost all of my friends have their own family. I failed an attempt to build one 10 yrs ago and I wasn't able to recover emotionally. I'm just jumping to one distraction to the next, while praying my parents to live long. It's just me at the end of the day after a busy work.
    But it's fine, I'll be alright. Once you accept things the way they are it's not too bad.

    • @Overcome808
      @Overcome808 Місяць тому +17

      Hey man. Take care, it will be alright

    • @jaequanaviles7085
      @jaequanaviles7085 Місяць тому +5

      God Bless Youv

    • @__1201
      @__1201 Місяць тому +9

      Don't let anyone shame you for being alone. There is nothing wrong with being alone as long as you are at peace with youself and live a happy life.

    • @JoybuzzerX
      @JoybuzzerX 28 днів тому +1

      Right there with you.

    • @charliewilton_
      @charliewilton_ 15 днів тому

      Sounds like a skill issue

  • @TonyStorm21
    @TonyStorm21 Рік тому +59

    "There are people in this world who prefer solitude. But there is no one who can withstand it."

  • @FQ99
    @FQ99 Рік тому +7065

    Therapists when your card declines:

  • @VestingKnight10
    @VestingKnight10 Рік тому +11123

    "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it"

    • @labeastchange9088
      @labeastchange9088 Рік тому +75

      This comment hit harder than anything right now for me I'm still lving in the past hoping and wishing I could change this or that and it's never coming back and I want to live in the now I remember my dad when he was 40 and now he's nearing 60 like I don't even realize how much time I missed with him and I think I'm starting to realize how bad that really is I've been so caught up in my own bullshit that I couldn't even see what was in front of me that was important please listen when I say this cherish what's around you cause one day it will all be gone none of us want to admit it but deep down we all know the drip finally stops

    • @jefftX
      @jefftX Рік тому +34

      @@labeastchange9088 my dad died at 65. I was 22. I don’t regret much as we had a great relationship and I did spend a lot of time with him, but I didn’t get enough. He was my male mentor and role model. Losing him I lost a part of my soul that has never come back.

    • @pepetrueno8722
      @pepetrueno8722 Рік тому +53

      Buehler, Buehler…

    • @jonathanderbidge598
      @jonathanderbidge598 Рік тому +13

      I look around and I’m pessimistic. I seize what I can control and I’m optimistic. The trouble is finding the reality of both to be equally acceptable

    • @onemanwithin
      @onemanwithin Рік тому

      True

  • @ebeneezerscrooge2942
    @ebeneezerscrooge2942 Рік тому +403

    I’m 43. Been alone a long time. I think when I came home from the army was the last time I was with any friends. 2005.

    • @samanb1268
      @samanb1268 3 місяці тому +8

      🫂

    • @Darskul
      @Darskul 2 місяці тому +13

      I'm sorry brother, truly I am. Might do you good to try and reconnect with some old friends if that's a possibility.

    • @kieranprice5496
      @kieranprice5496 2 місяці тому +13

      Same man, leaving service is shockingly lonely

    • @groovydolph
      @groovydolph 2 місяці тому +20

      Checking in on you brother. Hope you’re still out there man. Been there recently as well, gotta share some stories with us here in the comments

    • @papadrew7198
      @papadrew7198 2 місяці тому +9

      Hold on brother brighter days are ahead

  • @trestoncoleman85
    @trestoncoleman85 4 місяці тому +203

    Reminds me of my life atm. All my friends are making families and here i am still sitting at the pub.

    • @Bowhunter493
      @Bowhunter493 2 місяці тому

      The fact that you're even AT a pub means you're an irredeemable loser. May as well just keep going.

    • @fromashes7818
      @fromashes7818 2 місяці тому +10

      Brother man I'm here with you.. 28 and lonely

    • @fromashes7818
      @fromashes7818 2 місяці тому +4

      I hope things work out for you. That everything bad in your life turns to joy, and you be given a childlike happiness when you experience each day for the rest of your days.

    • @trestoncoleman85
      @trestoncoleman85 2 місяці тому

      @@fromashes7818 same boat bro. I hope the same for you and if nothing else hopefully we can drink and laugh at a pub.

    • @mattripodi6474
      @mattripodi6474 2 місяці тому +5

      I suggest, trying be alone somewhere else other than
      1. Home (to avoid only staying in all the time)
      2. The pub
      Parks, gallery's, movies, botanical gardens. I do wish you well, new hobbies help.

  • @trenticeberg4067
    @trenticeberg4067 Рік тому +8308

    The first time i saw this even i got chills. Seeing it again after forgetting about it have me chills again. Thanks for the reminder

    • @yancavalcante7260
      @yancavalcante7260 Рік тому +18

      My thoughts exactly. This happened to me right now. Kinda sad, really.

    • @trenticeberg4067
      @trenticeberg4067 Рік тому +5

      @Sam Athor ight bro... hardy har har. Thanks for taking your precious time to type this comment. It will be remebered in my suicide note 💀

    • @DarkSolidity
      @DarkSolidity Рік тому +10

      Ted wanted Robin so bad, and it hurt him so bad when Barney mentioned that he and Robin were looking for a wedding caterer, a pain that becomes overwhelming when you realize he’s having a conversation with his subconscious and he was actually saying those things to himself. He was intentionally hurting himself.

    • @vampvhs
      @vampvhs Рік тому

      @Sam Athor you seem sadder than the message behind this video, somehow such a stupid and meaningless comment evokes more pitiful and pathetic energy than a string of words should, I hope you’re happy, bc by the arrogance portrayed in your comment, you surely don’t seem it, you seem disconnected from the combined feeling this video gave the rest of us, which means to me that you do not have friends or people to feel along with, and thus you are more alone than the fictional character, perhaps that’s why OPs comment and the video evoked such an ignorant and unnecessary response from you

    • @bluewizard8318
      @bluewizard8318 Рік тому +3

      Wow. Even THIS GUY got chills.

  • @ironyobwoc
    @ironyobwoc Рік тому +6590

    this sad moment was immediately followed by the SADDEST moment on the show, which was when ted explains that if he could go back to this time, he wouldnt be at the bar or at robots vs wrestlers, he would go see his future wife who he had not met yet in the memory which is even more devastating at the end of the show when you realize that she had died a long time ago and this scene was him wanting to see her again

    • @christmas90s54
      @christmas90s54 Рік тому +47

      Was his wife Robin? I never saw the ending

    • @americantaco5344
      @americantaco5344 Рік тому +686

      @@christmas90s54 No it was another woman, but she passes away and the whole show was him talking to his kids about his life and how he met their mother , but it was also him asking their permission to pursue Robin and to start dating again. Because he believed he was ready and wanted their understanding which he gets and goes to robin with the blue french horn

    • @db9944
      @db9944 Рік тому +431

      It seemed pretty obvious early on Tracy had died, so that never shocked me or bothered me when it happened in the finale. What bugged me was 8 years of why Ted and Robin don't belong together, only to put them together anyway..

    • @theme34xcp
      @theme34xcp Рік тому +48

      dammm.. But what happened to robin Barney? I thought they ended up together too.

    • @gobbluth6910
      @gobbluth6910 Рік тому +32

      ​@@americantaco5344 how is Robin single in the future? Did Barney die?

  • @smeefbeef367
    @smeefbeef367 Рік тому +77

    This show came out when I was 9, and my family watched it religiously. I rewatched it again at 20 and realized just how much it shaped my perception of relationships and love. A great show, that’s brought a tear to my eye several times.

  • @AnemeTemenA
    @AnemeTemenA 5 місяців тому +398

    It does hit differently when pass your 30s

    • @jillybeangaming
      @jillybeangaming 2 місяці тому +18

      it hits hard when you're in your 30s too to be fair. I think he's in his late 20s by this point in the show, maybe early 30s..
      dating as you get older is tough, and it can feel like you're gonna end up alone, but the truth is that people are dating longer and getting married much later than they used to back in the day.. it's not a great thing.. but it does give hope to some folks who are in their mid thirties to 40s and aren't married.

    • @matt59fire
      @matt59fire 2 місяці тому +5

      From all the complaining I see from people I've come to the conclusion that I have mental issues. I wanna say I'm probably on the spectrum. Because tbh, I have family and friends. Seeing my friends once every few weeks is honestly enough for me. And I have alot of cousins and what's not. I don't really feel a rush to get into a relationship. It's just not something I've ever strided for.

    • @hailcthulhu419
      @hailcthulhu419 2 місяці тому +12

      It hits hard in your 30s too. I'm 39 and all I have are my parents and my dogs. It could be worse, but it's lonely as hell.

    • @oles629
      @oles629 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@hailcthulhu419 Yeah, parrents and dog here as well.. I`m 33 and this hits hard! But, let`s make the best of it, there's no second chance in life unfortunately!
      Enjoy the weekend, greetings from Norway :)

    • @uncle_Samssubjects
      @uncle_Samssubjects 2 місяці тому

      ​@@matt59firethat's a life not worth living.. what a miserable selfish life because of a little fear..

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 Рік тому +1729

    No words could ever possibly describe the depth of loneliness that this scene captures. A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth an ocean.

    • @youknow227
      @youknow227 6 місяців тому +22

      A picture is worth a thousand words
      But this scene is worth a library

    • @khanetia
      @khanetia 3 місяці тому +10

      A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth nothing because we watched it for free on UA-cam shorts.

    • @patrickbreiding310
      @patrickbreiding310 3 місяці тому

      Tv for stupid people

    • @brandonmullwray9924
      @brandonmullwray9924 3 місяці тому +4

      .... And I drown in it every day since my divorce.

    • @Hamdini10
      @Hamdini10 2 місяці тому +1

      Cringe

  • @codyschubert8165
    @codyschubert8165 Рік тому +10770

    This was not the short my recently dumped ass needed 😂

    • @yalc-04
      @yalc-04 Рік тому +147

      Hahaha true but it's been 6 months hopefully it's better and you can laugh harder now

    • @MidwestMagicMan
      @MidwestMagicMan Рік тому +74

      Hopefully it’s better and you’ve realized you’re never truly alone. You always have yourself to love you and to love, and there’s always more people in the world who’ll appreciate who you are. Never give up, never give in to the feeling of loneliness.
      -someone also dealing with a breakup from a long term partner

    • @FangCWAEmu
      @FangCWAEmu Рік тому +33

      Hoping you're alright now king

    • @kizzyjem
      @kizzyjem Рік тому +18

      I hope you're doing okay, stranger 😊

    • @andrewmcvea4825
      @andrewmcvea4825 Рік тому +7

      Luv you. Keep the chin up. ☘️

  • @cesarlanderos7627
    @cesarlanderos7627 Рік тому +1431

    It's sad because Ted has this idea of what the love of his life is supposed to be and he searches for a decade to find it and when he does, we realize while we've been watching this story unfold, his wife had passed a couple years earlier

    • @sincerelyyours2694
      @sincerelyyours2694 3 місяці тому +23

      I didn't get it I beg you to please explain it again

    • @euizanagi722
      @euizanagi722 3 місяці тому +193

      ​@@sincerelyyours2694 Well spoiler alert for this old movie.
      Ted is basically telling his kids on how he met their mother, Ted was prompted to tell this story due missing his wife who died by an unknown illness a couple of years ago.
      So basically Ted is telling his kids how he met their departed mother.

    • @blockedhaat
      @blockedhaat 3 місяці тому +82

      ​@euizanagi722 and it was all to teach his kids many valuable lessons and respectfully open them up to the idea of him finding love again after his "one" and wife has passed.

    • @Twix2304
      @Twix2304 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@euizanagi722well, he tells it for another Reason too.

    • @wufy9
      @wufy9 2 місяці тому +24

      I thought for a long time that he never met his wife and she had passed away while he was still looking for her and the kids were just his imagination.

  • @sophornphen4509
    @sophornphen4509 Рік тому +496

    One of the scariest things in life is to live for however long you did but still die alone. It's not how much money's there beside you or in an account that lets you go in peace. It's the loved ones who love you back.

    • @lexiconprime7211
      @lexiconprime7211 Рік тому +18

      Everyone dies alone.

    • @mu6192
      @mu6192 Рік тому

      Grandfather died but that trust fund is still going and flowing in the family.
      So it does matter!
      #COLLEGE_4_LIFE
      #NOSTUDENTDEBT

    • @sophornphen4509
      @sophornphen4509 Рік тому +3

      @Mu Haha, you kind of proved my point. Your grandfather loved you enough to give that to you. And you in return, will be ever grateful.

    • @Fraggr92
      @Fraggr92 Рік тому +1

      Alone is how we enter this world, and alone is how we will all leave it. There's no getting around that fact. Doesn't matter how many friends or loved ones you surround yourself. Ain't nobody can cross that final threshold with you.
      In other words, you'd best get used to being alone. Because unless you can learn to become comfortable with it, you're going to be in for a bad time when your time comes.

    • @mu6192
      @mu6192 Рік тому

      @@sophornphen4509 you said whatever they do or make doesn’t matter in the end when they die alone if they ain’t surrounded by family. So him making sure the money goes to the bloodline instead of the government is more of a smart business decision than anything else.

  • @drdiabetes7469
    @drdiabetes7469 Рік тому +491

    Going through that right now.
    I grew up with my 2 best friends, i moved across the state with them and we worked the same job, now theyre both recently married and we all arent talking as much, we hang with eachother once in a while suddenly and try to plan out some trips but its not a regular thing. I mainly see them at work and talk in passing.
    I feel like ive not even started my life yet and they've reached the end point in theirs...... and now im kind of alone and ive been in that shitty job grinding for so long i dont know where to go or what to do.
    The Irony here is how i want to be an actor/director and id much rather be sitting in Ted's seat saying this on camera; just acting instead of laying on this bed typing this out basically doing the same thing but forreal.
    I dont know what happened, or where the time went, and each day i feel more and more alone because my brothers are living their own lives and im just..... existing.

    • @randomrickreviewsrrr4662
      @randomrickreviewsrrr4662 Рік тому +29

      You still got time use it.

    • @tacocat318
      @tacocat318 Рік тому +32

      You may not get it now, but someday you might.
      1.) Brotherhood is not contact, it's in the soul. Those worth keeping as your brothers, it won't matter the time or the distance, when one comes a calling it's like neither ever left. It's about rivalry and change, it's standing on two sides of a canyon, seeing eachother at the peak leading those still climbing it and knowing it was through your hardships together that you were both able to achieve such heights. Furthermore life truly is a play, and as the scenes change so too must the actors, for better or worse.
      2.) Life is what you make it and part of that is adapting your plans to your circumstances. You may never be an actor on the big screen or a director of it, but you can still be both. You can play a role in others lives, or discard your own to play a character who isn't you. You can get to a position where you direct others in the great film of life.
      I'm not speaking out my ass, I'm speaking from experience. I've drifted all my life, the friends I've found and lost. The pain of distance that still hits. The ones worth a damn, I can still call up and see the Brotherhood is still strong even if we can't meet or do anything.
      I had to abandon my dreams and ambitions because I got a bad pull on the genetic lottery that barred me from pursuing the path I wanted and still want most. It took me awhile to realize that while officially it may have barred me, I can still pursue such interests and apply them to other areas of life to fill that role in an unofficial capacity.
      The only difference between the screen and life is, life has goals but no paths. So sing, act, dance like the whole world is watching, and don't be afraid of change in cast or scenes as life is always changing.

    • @justblack5596
      @justblack5596 Рік тому +2

      If you feel alone go get a GF or find new Friends cause that is what a Human is. we need Communication or we will die little by little.
      if you feel you hate your job. just quit. i khow it may sound easy just saying it but it is another thing to do it. you can keep that job and blame yourself why i didn't quit or just quit and go to an acting class. you need the fear of not having a stable income of money as a boost to reach your dream. it is almost never Late. the almost part is because of death. don't let it because late ... .

    • @BlueBamboo9
      @BlueBamboo9 Рік тому +3

      Take the leap, man..
      Even if you fail (Which I hope you don't), you tried. Honestly, that's a lot more than a lot of people can say.
      Believe it or not, a lot of people really don't go for their dreams. They settle. And settling has been so normalized that if you go for even the smallest of risks, you're considered dumb or selfish. That's why you see people with incompatible S/O's. "Arguing is just the norm in a relationship." Or you see people constantly talking about traveling or acting... Meanwhile, they're mindlessly shaving off their own life working a job that they hate. A lot of people will call that "Being a man." Or "Doing what needs to be done." I call it being a Fool.
      I'd much rather die knowing I tried to achieve my dreams than live a long life feeling like I didn't live at all.

    • @JAntonSaad
      @JAntonSaad Рік тому +4

      Yes, but you're free to pursue your dreams, and they now have a myriad of obligations. Such as life it is right now, embrace your opportunities. One day you'll get married too, have children, and visit your friends for kids' playtime. There's no rush. Until then, pursue your dream while you can and waste no time to invest in yourself. Affectionately, a stranger.

  • @TJ-ve8sv
    @TJ-ve8sv Рік тому +2081

    This is a real lesson in life. As life goes on, everyone does too. And even if you're living your best life, you're the only one who cares.

    • @youdontexist.
      @youdontexist. Рік тому +16

      Ok. Just one more Short.

    • @BalmaneGames
      @BalmaneGames Рік тому +11

      Until you have a children

    • @62shredderdude
      @62shredderdude Рік тому +4

      @@youdontexist. just…..one…..more

    • @Gmgo38
      @Gmgo38 Рік тому

      Bars!🎉

    • @Generic-usernam3
      @Generic-usernam3 Рік тому +19

      That’s actually really sad that you feel like you’re the only one who cares about what’s happening in your life :/

  • @BrianHuis
    @BrianHuis Рік тому +28

    Remember friends, just because you miss one chance does not mean you will not get another. Embrace life, but do not let words like these discourage you, life will never stop throwing these at you if you put yourself out there.
    Stay awesome.

  • @MrAmunai
    @MrAmunai Рік тому +53

    it doesn't matter who you are and who tells you, but if you hear a
    "you're all alone"
    like that, it hits. it just hits.

  • @linkfiedproductions2246
    @linkfiedproductions2246 Рік тому +2896

    Jesus Christ this was a dark ending for an episode

    • @NA1c158
      @NA1c158 Рік тому +290

      He was in denial about his friends moving on and letting it depress him. Him seeing the truth is necessary, not pretty though.

    • @NOST0PLOSS
      @NOST0PLOSS Рік тому +33

      Kinda foreshadows the tone of the ending

    • @Dr_Lyrical1360
      @Dr_Lyrical1360 Рік тому +19

      Good thing i believe they ended it with a lighthearted barbershop quartet😅

    • @Kirito-yb4eg
      @Kirito-yb4eg Рік тому +10

      That too for a sitcomm

    • @fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
      @fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335 Рік тому +25

      This is actually "how I met your mother"..
      He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother"..
      .
      If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted... It was Robin all along..

  • @trevorthompson2298
    @trevorthompson2298 2 місяці тому +4

    These comments always make me feel a little better. It sucks to go through everything you go through as a person but its nice to read you not alone.

  • @handleunavailable
    @handleunavailable Рік тому +29

    honestly HIMYM had some very serious and emotional moments....and this is one of them.

  • @trackboy17
    @trackboy17 Рік тому +135

    This is top 5 saddest moments. When ted realizes that all his friends are moving on with their lives but he still at the bar alone.

  • @Tran1193
    @Tran1193 Рік тому +387

    This hits hard. I'm going to be in a very similar setting in a couple years. I only have 2 pairs of friends. They've gotten married to each other recently and the subject of kids are coming up more and more often.
    I'm making the most of it and cherishing all the time we have left, because I know that I'm going to end up like this.

    • @zacharysutton3170
      @zacharysutton3170 Рік тому +8

      Advice try to move on while spending time with them because you may find new friends or someone to spend a life with such as a spouse and then you can familial activities and hangout with your current friends again and as well if they are a true friend they will continue to hangout with you it obviously won't be as often though because they will have new responsibilities the best thing to do though is find happiness 😊

    • @ashrafshelmani
      @ashrafshelmani Рік тому +4

      Try to find someone and you will be 3 happy couples ❤

    • @riverlady982
      @riverlady982 Рік тому +7

      If nothing else continue to be there when they need you while living your life and be like an Uncle to their kids.

    • @bensmith5231
      @bensmith5231 Рік тому +3

      I'm like this now :( :(

    • @geekymetalhead5112
      @geekymetalhead5112 Рік тому +1

      24 still tryna get my shit together, yet I feel this Hella

  • @howimetyouruniverse
    @howimetyouruniverse 8 місяців тому +56

    Barney drops the hardest quotes

  • @verybigdogface8401
    @verybigdogface8401 Рік тому +12

    What is this. My body feels lowered. My heart feels passing. My mind is clear of nothing. This short hits WAY to hard.

  • @austinj1924
    @austinj1924 Рік тому +429

    This hits hard. Really hard. It truly sucks being alone. Lost friends never knowing what I did wrong. And then you're mid life. And all alone.

    • @chasingmypinnacle
      @chasingmypinnacle Рік тому +7

      I have no family, and my friends live thousands of miles away.

    • @lesbiansaregoodandch
      @lesbiansaregoodandch Рік тому +18

      You're only alone this instant, it doesn't have to be like that forever. Nothing in life is permanent except all our inevitable deaths. I've been alone for years now, and id be a liar if i said it's easy, especially since i once had a child on the way and a beautiful girlfriend. But you realize the only person from stopping you from being happy is Yourself. Look inward and try to find peace in the solace. Everyone dies alone in the end, it's up to us in life to choose how and who we spend it in the short time we're here.

    • @lesbiansaregoodandch
      @lesbiansaregoodandch Рік тому +4

      ​@@chasingmypinnacle its time to make new ones, man. What's stopping you from doing so? Even if it's just reaching out to old friends via texting, going at it all alone is ruff.

    • @joany7166
      @joany7166 Рік тому +1

      Work on yourself and be happy with who you are. People who appreciate you for being you will gravitate towards you. This is nowhere near the end and you need no more motivation than doing it for yourself. It can only be bad for soooo long bro, only way you can go is up. Stay strong

    • @chasingmypinnacle
      @chasingmypinnacle Рік тому +2

      @@lesbiansaregoodandch The old friends were never friends. I am technically successful, and have everything going for me. It’s hard when you don’t have any family or have any friends to see or talk to. All I do is work and train.

  • @Madoutlawz
    @Madoutlawz Рік тому +202

    I lost my whole family. Literally everyone died except my daughter. Even though she is my world it is still very eerie.. Some people don't know what "Alone" is .
    Good luck and Good Bless 🙏🏼💙💙

    • @spotonwashing5712
      @spotonwashing5712 Рік тому +12

      Jesus is with you bro im with you bro don’t lose hope may the lord be with you he is close to the broken hearted

    • @fa14fighterjet
      @fa14fighterjet Рік тому +3

      No matter what, don’t give in to the sad emotions. Put them to use in a positive way, and as long as you take care of yourself and live a healthy life consistently, things will only get better. I’m with you.

    • @Madoutlawz
      @Madoutlawz Рік тому +2

      @@spotonwashing5712 thank you for your kind words! 🙌🙌🙏🏼

    • @Madoutlawz
      @Madoutlawz Рік тому +2

      @@fa14fighterjet I really appreciate your reply. Thank you!! 🙌🙏🏼

    • @Drekic
      @Drekic Рік тому +2

      I relate too well. sorry for your loss

  • @Elemenace
    @Elemenace Рік тому +4

    This feels like a lesson in trying to live in the past and how lonely it can be if you don't try to adjust to the present and prepare for the future.

  • @deadpoolnerd
    @deadpoolnerd 8 місяців тому +1

    It hurts to feel this way, so alone despite those you know. Unselfishly you're happy for those around you their accomplishments, their achievements. Yet despite all your efforts to do for yourself also, it always feels like you're still left behind. Stuck on the past when things were more simple when things were happy. You find yourself being the only one looking back. As you just inevitably feel like a bit player a chapter in their stories as they go on. And there you are alone hurt. With nothing more than memories of a time you can never return to. You're more alone than ever.

    • @jadeArieldavies
      @jadeArieldavies 3 місяці тому

      Stay strong keep your chin up you will find peace 🙏

  • @artinrohani6741
    @artinrohani6741 Рік тому +188

    My worst fear is being alone… not having anyone and feeling as if everyone who cares for you is just putting up a front is the most suffocating thing. It even makes death sound a little bit nicer

    • @32lara32
      @32lara32 Рік тому +5

      fear it not. it 100% will happen.

    • @yawninghamster7238
      @yawninghamster7238 Рік тому

      Lol

    • @asaremperor
      @asaremperor Рік тому +5

      First of all: The hardest thing anyone will have to do is learn to be alone with themselves. You can never be sure of people's feelings or intentions. Even the ones who claim to love you the most can stab you. That's why you learn history, that's why we write our memories. You have to be brave and face the music because at the end of the day, buddy, you only have yourself. And as long as you are friends with yourself, you will never be truly alone. Trust me, there are better, bigger things to be afraid of.

    • @artinrohani6741
      @artinrohani6741 Рік тому +1

      @@asaremperor that’s the problem, I despise myself the most out of anyone. I could make a small mistake but depending on how bad I feel about it I may never forgive myself. I’m not sure how to forgive myself nor do I think I deserve it

    • @thalesgprime
      @thalesgprime Рік тому

      Ah man, there is always someone else to meet. A new friend, a new lover. Life is a cycle of losses and gains.

  • @MCSgt117
    @MCSgt117 Рік тому +92

    Once, just as the street lights came on and you had to head home, your friends and you played together for the last time. Live for the moment.

    • @fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
      @fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335 Рік тому

      This is actually "how I met your mother"..
      He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother"..
      .
      If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted...

    • @garrettsaunders8654
      @garrettsaunders8654 Рік тому

      Well said.

  • @GentleGiantJoe
    @GentleGiantJoe Рік тому +33

    This hurts more than it should. Fuck.

  • @krzysiekmilek8012
    @krzysiekmilek8012 3 місяці тому +1

    Being alone is awsome start enjoying it dude

  • @johnnk3256
    @johnnk3256 Рік тому +208

    Get used to it. Soak in it. Accept it, as hard it may be. And you'll never feel alone ever again. That's the key.

    • @thestormtrooperwhocanaim496
      @thestormtrooperwhocanaim496 Рік тому +13

      If sigma was ever used truthfully. It would be for this comment. Additionally remembering the fond moments with your loved ones to keep you moving forward. Whether to honor them or to work on yourself so you can see them again and show how much you have grown. Is strength.

    • @pabloaragones1647
      @pabloaragones1647 Рік тому +16

      I think this is a flawed take that a lot of people are taking nowadays. Humans were never built to be alone, and never will be. You have to have to always keep and open heart to new things and people and you will never be alone, stop telling yourself that reality is this sad thing because if that’s what you think of it that’s what it will be. Go out more and meet people and just be happy, stop this accepting sadness because it gets you nowhere and eats you alive.

    • @johnnk3256
      @johnnk3256 Рік тому +13

      @@pabloaragones1647: Accepting sadness? No. It's not about being sad or moping around. It's about being comfortable in their own skin. Some people are introverts, not everyone is built for being a part of the community.

    • @tinkujiya1332
      @tinkujiya1332 Рік тому

      ​@@pabloaragones1647 well what about people being in chronic illness?? I had TMJ been having it for 15 years

    • @Wyrm7774
      @Wyrm7774 Рік тому

      Or you know, join a club or something

  • @ouebcam
    @ouebcam Рік тому +372

    Saddest moment in the show

    • @lizddpyoga7476
      @lizddpyoga7476 Рік тому +11

      Especially after you see the finale.

    • @tatereno
      @tatereno Рік тому +4

      No
      No it was not

    • @ouebcam
      @ouebcam Рік тому

      @@tatereno yes it was yes

    • @jakubromatowski4894
      @jakubromatowski4894 Рік тому +28

      One of the saddest. The moment when Marshall found out that his father is dead, Barney's argument with his father. And creme de la creme- La Vie en Rose by Tracy from season 9, episod 16

    • @ouebcam
      @ouebcam Рік тому +5

      @@jakubromatowski4894 I don’t remember for marshal but if it’s the vocal message of his father it was cracked by joke at the end. Barney argument was tough and you can relate to him but more upsetting than sad tbh. And Tracy well I don’t remember well but if it’s after she found out for her dead husband well we barely didn’t know her and never seen him so hard to empathize tbh. On the other hand Ted’s loneliness that pushed him to imagine a whole day like he’s reliving memories and add more stuff to have a full day to cope his loneliness who is snapped back to reality by Barney without seeing it coming is so strong. Everyone can relate at one point and there’s no other thing that comes to play than pure sadness

  • @AmzAkhtar
    @AmzAkhtar Рік тому +4

    how i met your mother is one of, if not the best tv show of all time. I wasn’t even born when the show first aired, and i’ve just finished watching it. This episode, hit me so hard, it gave me depression. And that one episode where Marshall’s dad died. I love it so much and i hate it so much, only because i cried for 2 days straight bcuz i couldn’t finish the episode because it was so sad.

  • @grantkruger3689
    @grantkruger3689 4 місяці тому +4

    Sometimes being alone is better than the people who were only pertending to be your friends.

    • @MrQuestiel
      @MrQuestiel 2 місяці тому

      Sigh. They were not pretending. Life just happens. Listen to what he said. Friends sometimes have more responsibilities than you you eg kids. That's it.
      If he had made his own family and was also busy with kids, then meeting once to see friends won't hurt as much. This is how mums stay friends meeting once for brunch. or dads who meet once in a while for boys night.
      It's when you are perpertually free because like may people in this generation you thought it's better to "live your best life" and not take on any responsibilities, now you blame them for "never caring". Are you more important than the new responsibilities in their lives like kids and dying parents?

  • @zezevillamares2733
    @zezevillamares2733 Рік тому +20

    As an immigrant who just started studying a year ago and takes no vacations nor spends money on parties or drinks, this feels like the few opportunities during which i allow myself to have a drink or stop smiling and start thinking on the path i went through. Feels kinda lonely specially in new year or birthdays but one can be happy alone and it wasn't that way before so it may not be like that forever, stick to what's important and keep going, keep moving forward. A virtual hug for who needs it, u got this ✌🏾🔥. Ps ketchup should be considered a tomato smoothie

  • @enterprisewhiskey8999
    @enterprisewhiskey8999 Рік тому +31

    That "look around Ted, you're all alone" hit so hard

  • @nousername1524
    @nousername1524 25 днів тому +1

    This was supposed to be my comfort show, but after this episode ended, I just sat down and stared at my desk for a few minutes thinking about life.

  • @kizitookorie3250
    @kizitookorie3250 26 днів тому +1

    How I Met Your Mother just knew how to teach life lessons in their episodes.

  • @fishtanker
    @fishtanker Рік тому +105

    This twist alone makes the episode one of my favorites and it always will be
    For the longest time

  • @MasterScopesvids
    @MasterScopesvids Рік тому +8

    Thank you to whoever posted this video. You may have just changed my life for the better

  • @thaatguuy
    @thaatguuy 15 днів тому

    I remember I was watching this when I was 22 and now I am 28. Crazy how time flies and yet I still remember this scene like if it was yesterday.

  • @robhul5950
    @robhul5950 Рік тому +2

    this is the best episode, sometimes i just randomly watch that episode to remember how sad life can be.

  • @vikramraj8998
    @vikramraj8998 Рік тому +43

    It broke my heart when Barney said you are all alone to Ted. The scene was Ted's imagination, but still

    • @johnwilson8218
      @johnwilson8218 Рік тому

      What season and episode was this?!

    • @josevictorroling5984
      @josevictorroling5984 Рік тому +3

      @@johnwilson8218 season 8 episode 20 - the time travelers. One of the best ones.

  • @cayden12
    @cayden12 Рік тому +2499

    "It's better to be alone than to be in bad company"
    - George Washington.

    • @drx3373
      @drx3373 Рік тому +40

      Learned that the hard way after a breakup. Hanging around people that didn't fit in my life. Before the split she was the only person I had been doing things with.
      But one shouldn't isolate themselves either. Just be happy alone while searching for the right people, get out of the comfort zone.

    • @ryanhamstra49
      @ryanhamstra49 Рік тому +5

      Pretty sure that was Lincoln….

    • @MrAnwer96
      @MrAnwer96 Рік тому +2

      ​@@drx3373 both of you are wrong it was said by Philip The Last , the elder brother of Genghis khan son.

    • @drx3373
      @drx3373 Рік тому +14

      @@MrAnwer96 false. It’s actually from Kanye West

    • @sir-reynauld-the-kleptomaniac
      @sir-reynauld-the-kleptomaniac Рік тому +6

      @@drx3373false it was from Sigmar Unberogen, founder and protector of the empire.

  • @thereject505
    @thereject505 Рік тому +64

    It sucks to be all alone but it's worse being in room full of people and still being all alone

  • @user-hb5md1pm5w
    @user-hb5md1pm5w 3 місяці тому +1

    No one can stop you when you have an big anbition and you are a dreamer❤

  • @RK-ln6kg
    @RK-ln6kg Рік тому +4

    Wow this scene is powerful. There are many people out there like this.

  • @gabe6625
    @gabe6625 Рік тому +63

    Kinda how I feel when I look through my friends list seeing if someone wants to party up again. Those days are past but I somehow can’t remember the last one I had.

    • @Audacity_zx
      @Audacity_zx Рік тому +4

      Honestly it’s kinda sad and it’s me right now just don’t hit the same anymore

    • @thekidd7
      @thekidd7 Рік тому

      Grow up, Gabe.

    • @gabe6625
      @gabe6625 Рік тому +2

      @@thekidd7 haha aw man you just don’t understand the feeling. Kinda like the last good day you had as a kid with your neighborhood friends. You can’t remember the last day it was, but in a way you sure do miss those carefree times.

  • @jeverydk
    @jeverydk Рік тому +10

    Lost gf and friends just before covid. Being alone, knowing my former best friends are together, makes this short hurt

  • @kekkelito2875
    @kekkelito2875 2 місяці тому +1

    Yea i felt that.... But when were alone, were training our minds for the next challenge in life, we just got a little headstart, stay blessed my indigo friends ❤️

  • @bigshirley8658
    @bigshirley8658 3 місяці тому +1

    This made me sad for Ted when I first saw it. So many years later I’m here myself. Damn this hurts more

  • @victorthefatherless2419
    @victorthefatherless2419 Рік тому +8

    This show had some of the deepest episodes, and then it got even deeper after you re-watched it a couple times

  • @abrahamazuara1839
    @abrahamazuara1839 Рік тому +16

    This was one of my favorite episodes just off this scene

  • @theevilteacher
    @theevilteacher 2 місяці тому +1

    When you depend on your buddies to go out and go to the movies or a show then these things happen. That's why going by myself has never bothered me... and since I have God in my heart, I'm never alone 😌

  • @austinbeck2558
    @austinbeck2558 2 місяці тому

    I have had so many of these moments recently where I look back and remember those I've lost along the way

  • @dragondagger24
    @dragondagger24 Рік тому +492

    Ow, my chronically depressed ass did not need this

  • @CoronaCuddles
    @CoronaCuddles Рік тому +12

    First time I've ever seen this, and it hits hard. Figured I would have gotten other chances, and those chances never came.

  • @JP-vr7od
    @JP-vr7od 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been alone for over a year now. No arguments. No heartache. No stress. I only feel peace. And bliss. Being alone is what I’ve always wanted.

  • @JG-ku2ij
    @JG-ku2ij 2 місяці тому

    In every group there's that one friend that is waiting for life to happen and it never does. They don't ever realize it until the one day that they look around and realize they are truly alone because everyone else has moved on.

  • @mcmjr405
    @mcmjr405 Рік тому +21

    Sometimes being all alone isn’t a bad thing. Sometimes it’s the best thing because it’s the only way to find out who you really are and what you really want to do in your life.

    • @ronnocyam7167
      @ronnocyam7167 Рік тому +1

      Yeah but being with people you care about and love is the only thing that will bring you actual happiness

    • @mcmjr405
      @mcmjr405 Рік тому +1

      @@ronnocyam7167 how so? Can you not be happy in solitude?

    • @ronnocyam7167
      @ronnocyam7167 Рік тому +1

      @@mcmjr405 no you can't

    • @SkyMarshalEmir
      @SkyMarshalEmir Рік тому

      @@ronnocyam7167 You are wrong, if you outsource all of your happiness from another person, that’s when you’ll never be truly happy. It is important to be self-functioning and besides; if you’re not, then you shouldn’t look for a relationship in the first place and focus on solving your internal problems first. Possibly with a therapist.

    • @ronnocyam7167
      @ronnocyam7167 Рік тому

      @@SkyMarshalEmir didn't say you shouldn't be self-functioning. Even if you are youll still be depressed if you have no one you care about and talk to.

  • @cookercross47
    @cookercross47 Рік тому +57

    Life can be so sad sometimes ngl

    • @automaticwriting4220
      @automaticwriting4220 Рік тому

      Welcome to life

    • @ryankane4984
      @ryankane4984 Рік тому +1

      And so happy and beautiful and hurtful and boring and exciting and scary and yeah, that’s life, that’s what makes it worth living, it’s so much more than just one thing

    • @ricco3
      @ricco3 Рік тому

      For some of us it’s most of the time

  • @IAMTHEJOSH7777777
    @IAMTHEJOSH7777777 2 місяці тому

    Things of times gone past hit you so much harder when your alone........

  • @tafaragadze6432
    @tafaragadze6432 3 місяці тому +2

    This moment didnt have to hit this hard.
    The way everyone left the bar one by one until there was noone else left.

  • @balls9896
    @balls9896 Рік тому +14

    At one point or another we all have to deal with being alone. Some deal with it by settling with a partner who isn’t right for them, some fuck anyone and anything they see isn’t fit for them. All this does is just delay the inevitable loneliness and sadness that we will all encounter.
    Embrace loneliness and sadness and make them your ally. The sooner you embrace it the better you can deal with it.
    Being alone ain’t the be all and end all. You just have to accept it for a while and be comfortable with it. And then move on from it.
    This ain’t a dress rehearsal.

    • @32lara32
      @32lara32 Рік тому

      A-1 post.
      apropos user name.

    • @sadia2395
      @sadia2395 Рік тому

      One comment I agree with 😅 .Others think ' you gotta hold on to somethin' ,' go travel' yes absolutely, but the starting point of it all is that fact that yes we are alone, people will keep comin in through one door and leave through the other, but we have ourselves.always.isnt that comforting 🤷🏻‍♀️ No abandonin, no drama.just us for us.Idk ,I find it comforting 😅

  • @deoceeluke2151
    @deoceeluke2151 Рік тому +71

    The” You’re all alone “ tone hits different

  • @Wildoutness
    @Wildoutness 2 місяці тому

    I am all alone. And I'll live that way. With all the pain it brings.

  • @Stoned420Guru
    @Stoned420Guru Рік тому +2

    This isn't about being alone or not having people there for you, because he does, it's just about moving on. Appreciate all that is and keep going.

  • @devanman7920
    @devanman7920 Рік тому +3

    Ohhh for the people in their early 30s watching this it hit home

  • @OddsYT
    @OddsYT Рік тому +22

    words cannot express how this is my biggest fear by approximately 100 billion miles

    • @Joseph.M.
      @Joseph.M. Рік тому +1

      Dont let it be kid, you still have time.

    • @zeddicuszulzorander9582
      @zeddicuszulzorander9582 Рік тому

      If you feel like this is a likely outcome, then change your behavior.

    • @OddsYT
      @OddsYT Рік тому

      @@zeddicuszulzorander9582 I know this may come as a surprise but if it was that easy I would have done it already

    • @zeddicuszulzorander9582
      @zeddicuszulzorander9582 Рік тому

      @@OddsYT Not doing something because it's "too much" or because it's "too late" isn't a healthy habit to have.
      You do not need to change everything or do it all at once.
      Take the time to think and consider what you want to be and what you want to have.
      Then, set an objective. It may feel like a negligible one. It may feel like the results of this one objective aren't helpful in any particular manner. But that's an improvement, and if you adopt this way of thinking, over the years, by accumulating those objectives, you will definitely change.

  • @blooddemon1702
    @blooddemon1702 Рік тому +2

    Being alone isn't so bad once you become used to who you are. When you make that connection with yourself it changes you sometimes for better or for worse. Some thrive others falter. And some find strength to keep going no matter how far or lonesome the journey. It's not all bad just hard.

  • @brianaustin2135
    @brianaustin2135 Рік тому +3

    And that’s how it happens folks…life moves like a river and if you don’t hold onto anything you’ll be all alone too

  • @im_a_bot404
    @im_a_bot404 Рік тому +13

    I got goosebumps
    Watched 2nd time and got goosebumps again 😞

  • @MrEddie0683
    @MrEddie0683 Рік тому +2

    As long as you have real friends….. you are NEVER alone

  • @NEWMEDIATECHCLUB
    @NEWMEDIATECHCLUB 21 день тому +1

    I replayed a scene in my head all the time

  • @regular-user
    @regular-user Рік тому +2

    When you see this for the first time, it really hits you and you just as sad as him. It is crazy good how good the scene makes you feel the emptiness.

  • @Issa.nicholas
    @Issa.nicholas Рік тому +4

    The algorithm really knows how to make you laugh one minute than have you psychoanalyze yourself the next…

  • @johnwrasse8090
    @johnwrasse8090 2 місяці тому

    To anyone who’s going through hard times … your never alone 🫡🇺🇸

  • @HybridSpektar
    @HybridSpektar 3 місяці тому

    When you hear the memories of your friends in your head, you know their a memory. Barely remember their faces anymore. And perhaps it's better like that.

  • @AstraAstarte
    @AstraAstarte 3 місяці тому +9

    I feel this......I'm 27 and I've never been so alone in my whole life

    • @Teenangst
      @Teenangst 3 місяці тому +2

      I hope you’re doing OK, and find happiness. Sometimes, it’s OK to feel alone, and even be alone, but don’t let that stop you from reaching out. You would be surprised by the amount of people feeling just like you, who just want someone to say “hello”. Maybe you can be that person to start saying “hello”…

    • @misskitty8092
      @misskitty8092 2 місяці тому +1

      You are not alone.....we're ALL here. Even if we strangers can lean on each other from a distance - we're here with open ears and eyes to hear you out. So don't worry, I'm a great listener

  • @ignoremeimjustbad1462
    @ignoremeimjustbad1462 Рік тому +3

    ive been alone my entire life , im 33 now and at this point am okay with it

    • @Christian-rb8wk
      @Christian-rb8wk 4 місяці тому

      Not really. We're never really okay with it.

    • @arrow2380
      @arrow2380 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Christian-rb8wknot okay with it, but accepted that this is what life is going to be and got comfortable with that idea.

  • @max020981
    @max020981 9 місяців тому

    That episode was so though. This is still my favorite show.

  • @brandongiambra7531
    @brandongiambra7531 3 місяці тому +1

    Who says being alone is a bad thing? Stay true to yourself and nobody can betray you, nobody can cheat and lie on/to you. Less drama to deal with and less responsibilities. If you can handle being alone, you can do anything.

  • @JS-sv4ol
    @JS-sv4ol Рік тому +3

    I can’t - reminds me so much of who and where I was before my wife.

  • @barryoddar4133
    @barryoddar4133 Рік тому +5

    like I needed to feel more alone than I already do.

  • @crom1701
    @crom1701 5 місяців тому +1

    The moments are gone. That was a brutal realization for me.

  • @user-rw6df2rg1v
    @user-rw6df2rg1v 2 місяці тому

    One of those really powerful scenes in your favorite TV show

  • @joserangel2381
    @joserangel2381 Рік тому +3

    Felt this so hard left me thinking if it'll always be like that

    • @steffb8197
      @steffb8197 Рік тому +1

      Same here.
      All my thoughts from today just changed.
      Will ever manage to pass the feeling we are alone?
      Has to be better.
      Life on earth can't be hell and us just wait to go back to better fields.
      Right?

  • @Antisociandy
    @Antisociandy 3 місяці тому +8

    "You can’t cling to the past, because no matter how tightly you hold on, it’s already gone."

  • @derekw91
    @derekw91 Рік тому

    Sure hits hard, especially when you’re by yourself all alone at home. I know I feel it. I have been going out on weekends by myself so many times, doing hikes and dinner so many times alone… just remember, there are good people out there, even if you don’t know them. There was always someone that I just randomly started hanging out with or chatting with whenever I felt so alone. Kept me going.
    Keep your head up and keep grinding and the universe will eventually show you the way to peace and happiness :)

  • @tammymercer9048
    @tammymercer9048 Рік тому

    Wow Thank you Air hug Love-N-Light Blessed Be

  • @martinc3597
    @martinc3597 Рік тому +11

    Damn... This is kinda dark... 😐😐😐😑😔

  • @weebert8999
    @weebert8999 Рік тому +3

    Man that hits different sheesh 😢

  • @iamtecho
    @iamtecho 2 місяці тому

    Watching this when I was younger hits so different now. Having this idea dream if you will. Unfold in your own life is so painful.

  • @benjaminvanshaar4051
    @benjaminvanshaar4051 3 місяці тому

    This one changed me. Forever.

  • @weirdshibainu
    @weirdshibainu Рік тому +8

    At some point in your childhood you and your friends went outside to play together for the last time, and nobody knew it.