BIG LIFE UPDATES! RAW + REAL Q+A
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- Hey loves! Sharing some BIG LIFE UPDATES with you in this chatty raw and real q+a- answering the the questions you asked me about our new house, why we are moving to Hawaii, our old home in ohio, my husband's job, baby # 4, postpartum depression and anxiety, being a UA-camr, giving a quick baby update on Hayden and more. If you have any more questions, let me know and I can try to do another q+a soon. Thanks for going on this motherhood journey with me and for all your love and support. It truly means the world.
Love,
Brianna xoxo @bitsofbri
My heart squeezes when you talk about your sweet dad. I’m 28 and I just lost my dad unexpectedly three months ago. He was 64. I feel your words even more deeply now. It’s a hard loss. ❤️
So incredibly sorry for your loss
I love the authenticity of this video. I’m sure it’s scary to be so vulnerable about PPD and your mental health on camera in front of thousands of people but so many women go through it and I love that you were brave enough to share your experience.
You seem so much happier since your move, I love it! Thank you for answering so many questions and letting us into your life!
I've followed you for a little over a year and always liked you. I appreciate and respect you doing what's best for you and your family NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK. I love your authenticity and how vulnerable you are. I also really appreciate your encouragement so much!!!
I had terrible post pardum depression and anxiety. It’s so real - and I am just sending you so much love, acceptance and hugs. I felt the same things you described, and I’m the happiest person you’ll ever meet. Pregnancy is an amazing gift, but when all those hormones leave you - then you are sleep deprived and still need to take care of other children. It literally breaks you. It’s been a joy to see you happy and in the sun. I pray you will continue to find happiness ❤️❤️❤️
My son is age 48 and my daughter is age 41. I was lucky I never had postpartum depression.
Divorce doesn’t always ruins a child’s life, sometimes it’s for the best and I can say that being in a situation where divorce was the better option.
You are not wrong. However, that is how many feel and it’s what helps them. They are not wrong either. ☺️
Divorce should be a last resort too many people throw in the towel when there is a solution and not realising that life isn't always greener else where that being said my mum and dad split a few years ago im an adult and have my own child etc but I would have rather they did it when I was young they were in a toxic relationship and moving house or changing things up wouldn't have helped or saved that!
@@jennybegs yeah same here. My parents were in a toxic relationship since I can remember! And they always made sure to give my brother and I everything they could and we were always taken care of but I still remember a lot of dark things from my childhood and there’s a lot of trauma that goes with it. They finally split now that I’m 23, and my therapist told me just because I’m an adult doesn’t make it easier because now I’m aware of more things, understand more which can make it more difficult. I wish they would have done it years ago, but just for me and my brother but for themselves too. I love them but it just wasn’t healthy for any of us!
Thank you for sharing all this with us Bri! I didn’t understand a lot of the “why” behind your big moves before and this helped me understand and relate and honestly be encouraged by your family and the steps you’re all taking towards health and happiness. Praying for continued peace and provision! I love you all. You mean so much. Xoxo
You learned in your 30’s what people don’t get until they’re in their 50’s and 60’s.....it’s not about the stuff, it’s about memories, family and living a life with no regrets❤️
I just don't understand why people would have an opinion one way or another on where you move or how it is communicated. It is your life and if they want to follow you, they should respect that you too have privacy. I'm really happy for you and your family and it bothers me that people can be so judgy and you need to explain yourself. I have dealt with anxiety and depression too. I totally understand how dark it can be. Sending hugs and love. Also, can't wait to see your new home!!
People were jealous.
@@amandajacobson6569 I was trying to figure out if I missed something but all I could find is that she’s a nice lady who doesn’t share every little detail with people, who for some reason feel entitled to know. Some time humans are just... ugh. All I could figure is it has to be jealousy. What else could it be? Am I missing something
Thank you Missy. I asked someone months ago why they were so mad about what a stranger is doing? She’s happy so they need to find their own happiness. That’s super weird to me that people are that invested/angry when her own family is supportive. People need to get a life! I love when people do what’s best for you then and their lives!!!!
All of your thoughts and feelings are valid. It’s okay to cry! Thank you for opening up to us. I feel like we just had some major girl talk and for that I’m so appreciative. I’m so proud of you for recognizing the issues and for doing something about it. And look at you now! I’m excited for you and your family’s new journey! And I only wish we all had your courage!!
One of my favorite quotes “there is no ‘right time’, only time and what you decide to do with it” goes along with what you were saying! So happy you guys are able to pursue your dreams
I completely understand your depression. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I frequently question whether or not I should be here despite the fact that I have children. Quarantine was HARD for me, but I do have to say that it brought my fiancé and myself together.
I started watching you when I was pregnant with my first and had to comment for the first time ..1 1/2 years later so emotional listening to this, thank you for sharing all the realness about motherhood and life. It has made such a difference in my sometimes overwhelmed heart to know that all mamas and wives experience similar highs and lows 💖💞💖💞✨ thank you.
There was so many times I could tell you were about to cry and I wanted to give you a big hug. This video was so raw and real and I love that about you. It’s hard because in our minds we might have you pictured as this perfect person that we try to be like, and you show that you’re very real and very much like all of us. There’s many days I question am I doing enough as a mom? And you made a good point that we are and there’s a reason why we’re our babies mamas. I’m so excited for you and your family’s next adventure. I’m definitely going to try and stop feeling like I need to do it all and live more in the moment. Dishes always can wait, you child growing up cannot. Love and big hugs Bri!
What a beautiful YT video Brianna - you spoke from your heart and it was really touching. As someone already said: you’ve learned life lessons some never learn. I applaud you for taking care of your needs for the sake of creating a happy content family . Wishing you love, peace, joy and continued personal growth. Safe travels back to the mainland. 💕💕💕
I agree with you. Having too much inventory in our homes can definitely cause mental stress. About 4 years ago I started getting rid of the excess, and have tried to streamline all aspects in the home and in life, and it has definitely taken a weight off. :)
Why are you adding on, you just said you want minimal living? Im confused?
I haven't been with you long, but I think you are truly a kind and caring person. I'm so glad that I found your channel. I really appreciate that you talk about prayer! I feel that prayer changes things.
Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
less is more! LOVE HOW you touched on how having more space took away from the time you were able to spend with your family .. being able to sit and rest in a minimal space with your children is totally worth it. personally it think an outdoor space is what is needed!
I never understood how other people's life decisions affect them enough to be mean. Its your life and you do what you need to do for you and your family. Loved the video and honesty.
I know exactly how you felt with the seasonal depression! Our family moved to Seattle a few years ago and stayed for 3 years. It was honestly the most beautiful place I’ve ever been when it came to the evergreen forests, snowy mountains, and ocean.... BUT the gloomy weather that lasted from October to late April was so hard. There were so many days where I would wake up but never actually woke up lol. I also had so many digestive issues- I think because of seasonal depression. It was so hard to gain energy to take the kids to do things and our house felt so dark. The summer however is stunning and the hiking and swimming we did in the crystal clear lakes was what kept us there for a bit. But after this winter we ended up relocating to Tennessee! It’s much sunnier and although the hills don’t quite compare to the green mountains of Washington- the sun makes me feel normal again :)
Thank you so much for opening up about the postpartum period. I am currently in one of the darkest periods of my life and feel SO alone. I admire you so much for sharing the challenges because up until you sharing the toll it takes I thought I was the only one.
Hope you are better soon and know that God loves you..
Aww Maria you are not alone, though your feelings are real and valid and it can totally feel that way. You’re meant to be here 💕🤍 don’t ever think otherwise! Sending you so much love 🙏🏻💕🤍
Thank you so much Nadine and Brianna!!! 🙏💕💕 I'm sorry that I am only now responding to this...I hope you both have an amazing week!
yes.. been there with depression. thank you for sharing. normalizing depressive thoughts and taking action. happy for you all
I just cried with you I’ve been in that dark scary place you’re definitely a brave and strong woman to come on here and explain what is going on in your life even though you didn’t have to thank you for being so honest best of luck to you and your family!
I'm just a college student but I always watch your decorating videos and really appreciate the rawness of this. Seeing you cry made me tear up. You are doing your best and that is always enough.
I love the less is more mentality....can hardly wait to see your new home!
Can’t wait!!! Monday’s with Brianna are the best 🤍🌻 Hugs hope all is well
I pray that you all have a smooth move to your new home and are so so happy! Thank you for sharing and being so open and honest.
I really needed to watch this video from you, Bri. You did nothing wrong but I really felt confused when you announced that y’all were moving and I stopped watching your content. Seeing your vulnerability and honesty in this video really helped me understand you so much better. Not that you owed anybody anything, but I’m just grateful that I watched this so I could better understand you and your family. I’m truly so happy for you and look forward to what’s to come! 🌺
Sending love and positivity your way! 🤍 taking care of your mental health is paramount. Proud of you for making the best decision for you and your family amid the push back.
I call it winter blues and escaping to a warm climate helps so I totally understand why you guys moved to Hawaii. I love that you travel with your kids. It is one of my fondest memories with my parents, getting to experience a new country. My parents felt that travelling the world was one of the best educational experiences you can give to a child, if you are able to. As an adult, I still love to travel and feel that I am a more well rounded person because of my travel experiences. Your children are very lucky to have parents like you guys. Congrats on the new house.
Alright, gotta say this. Lady, do you. You are aligning your priorities, and that is amazing. I, too, went from a quite large house to a much smaller one with major life changes in order to improve emotional health and our family's future. I know you've taken heat, ignore it. Focus on what you want, what is right & raising happy/healthy babies!!! How your got there, is all you. Be happy, be healthy & love your life! Congrats on your new & amazing home!
I appreciate your honesty. We can all relate on some level.
You’re a great youtuber. This video is so real; so raw. I’m so impressed how you’ve sought out professionalism with your marriage...marriage is hard work. Each person feels like they’re sacrificing more. It means so much to those children. So many youtubers come from divorced parents.
Very happy for y’all. Most people do not have the option to move to a place like Hawaii to get out of the cold or whatever. So you are blessed to have that option. People want to be able to relate in some kind of way, so my idea would be to stay grounded and continue to be able to connect with people❤️
Thank you so much for your words on PPD/PPA, your honesty, and transparency. Many of us need to hear this to know we are not alone. I have so much respect for the way you thought ahead to find ways to manage postpartum/marriage/family, etc. So wise!
Children’s lives aren’t ruined if the parents divorce. Sometimes children’s lives can be ruined if parents stay together.
I think that you are doing what is best for your own family's joy and happiness. That's the best thing you can do and I wouldn't worry about any haters because your family's mental and physical well being is so much more important than what anyone else thinks.
Thanks for your vulnerability about PPD/PPA anxiety. I have definitely been there. It was also interesting hearing all about your job as a co tent creator and what you do. I had no idea how being a UA-camr worked in terms of editing, having a manager, branding, etc. you make it seem so flawless and easy and fun! Also I love your honesty about motherhood and marriage. I feel the same about how challenging motherhood is and it is not something that has come natural to me. Also marriage definitely takes a toll post partum. My husband is military and is gone a lot and I end up having to solo parent way more than I would like to. So I just wanted to say thanks for all your insight in this video!
Thanks for taking us along on your journey. You look so happy 😁! I’m so glad you are bringing mental health issues forward and talking about them. Stress, Anxiety, depression is definitely real and affects a lot of people. I’m so happy that you are living your best life. You have to do what makes you and your family happy. I’m wishing you all the best! Sending you hugs 🤗
Thank you so much for being honest, you don't have to explain yourself at all, but thank you for being vulnerable, and sharing. Praying you and your family are richly blessed❤️
I did not know how much this talk would motivate me. Thank you Brianna! 💕 I haven’t had time to watch your videos in a long time, but I am so glad I came back to hear this!
Thank you for opening up so much❤️ I think this past year has been so hard on all of us, (I’m still in lockdown in Ontario) but watching your journey to Hawaii has been so exciting! I’m so happy for you and your beautiful family!
I'm a Mother of 6. Motherhood came sooo natural for me but STILL I had so much and still do have things I have to work on with my mothering. So don't get down on yourself for not being perfect and having things to work on. Every Mother does! ❤
Love everything you had to say in this video! I agree no one understands certain things until you have been there. I have been in that scary place! You are a rockstar💞💞
Can't wait to see clean & decorate videos in the new house. Also the house tour!!!
We live near Toronto, Canada and we are still in a full lockdown. No school, no stores, and absolutely no visiting... thank you for sharing these as so much of my own well-being right now comes from anticipating travelling with my family again 💜
Where do you grocery shop??
Your comment, "Let's connect over what we love..." is spot on. My pastor said this week, "You do the loving. Let God do the judging."
Congratulations on your house! I completely understand the seasonal depression. I moved to the Midwest a few years ago and it has been a struggle for me constantly. I appreciate your videos about this because it is so difficult to make decisions for yourself and not how others want you to live. I'm going through that right now and you give me the courage to do what is best for myself and my husband. 💗
Congratulations on your new home! I am really looking forward to “minimal” home decor videos (if you choose to do that of course).
Good for you!!! My husband and I moved to Florida 5 years ago from Kentucky. Like you the seasonal disorder is a thing and having sunshine nearly every day really is so good for the soul. Live your life for you and enjoy every single moment. God Bless you and your family!
I would love a house tour for the one you’re renting right now! I love the Hawaii style homes!
Laura Monday she did do a tour of the house she is renting now when she arrived at Hawaii. Look in her page.
Didn't know she moved again Laura..Sorry 😉
So very Happy for you Bri and that you've had these realizations about yourself and your spiritual self as well! I had an "awakening" in 2011 when I was diagnosed with a cyst in the center of my brain fortunately the year prior God was pruning me back and I couldn't figure out why my life was crumbling apart. I quickly realized it was him preparing me for my diagnosis and what was to come the months and years leading after!!! Sometimes a new place and people can give you this awakening and so happy to see another beautiful women whonis "on the collective" with higher consciousness and awareness of self and outward! Hugs and congrats!
I don’t know if I keep missing the update on this but what happened to your doggo?
You’re looking great Bri! Glad to hear you and your family are doing well and loving Hawaii!
I can't imagine going through my clinical depression and anxiety when my children were little. I have to give you Kudos for taking steps to help yourself and still be able to take care of your babies. We all have our ups and downs and we all handle them differently. You do you. Don't let any negativity bring you down any further than you already are. You are trying to heal and if Hawaii is the place that you can heal in, then so be it. Hawaii it is! Love you girl!
I really appreciate the realness in this video. I feel like YT puts people on a pedestal but you have stepped down come to everyone’s level and I wish I could reach through the screen and hug you 💕
Awww big virtual hugs- that’s so nice of you to say
I completely understand where you are coming from with all things and you are absolutely right. You need to do what is best for YOU and YOUR FAMILY and should not be made to feel bad about that at all. If anyone of us has the ability to be happier or go for our dreams we would take it. Thanks for being so open and sharing your family.
Thanks for sharing your experience with depression and anxiety. Been there. Also, loved your explanation of what goes into a social media production. It's hard work when it's done as well as you do it!
I respect you so much! You don't owe anyone a explanation, you just do whats best for your family! Thank you for sharing your truths, so brave for doing so.
Thank you so much!💕
We’re not characters in cartoons or movies, we are not meant to always stay the same exact way that we started out, we’re meant to grow and grow in all ways. We’re meant to push ourselves to be our best, happiest selves. We’re meant to make the very best of this short life. We’re meant to live for ourselves and the family we create with our significant other... we are not here to do what everyone e else wants and expects us to do. We’re here to live our own life, in any and every way that we WANT and work hard for. Briana is doing exactly that , I watch this video and feel so excited for her, I’d love to make this move... but I’m not able to do big things like this just yet and I can’t even imagine feeling bothered by her changes. She’s a boss, she’s a great wife and mother and she is such an inspiration 🌸
Everything you talked about , raising kids and being on lockdown, 2020 was the hardest year! I could relate to everything you said, I felt the same way. I live in West Virginia and the winter time is even harder. Being locked inside my home was honestly my worst nightmare. I love traveling , going outside and warm weather. Thank you for making this video and I hope you continue to thrive on your new journey and congratulations on your home, what a dream come true! Many blessings to you and your family Bri.💗🌸
One thing I’ve always loved about you is that you’re one of the most honest UA-camrs I’ve ever watched! Thank you for your authenticity and your vulnerability as you share your life with us! So excited to see what’s next for you and your family! 💕😊
Yes, this video was a blessing for me to see. You and I share the seasonal depression issue. My husband and I moved to Arizona and it made that issue so much better. You made great statements in this video, such as, we never know how long we’re here. I’m so happy for you and your family and you’ve done the best thing by putting yourself and family first. God Bless you all!
I felt the post baby mood symptoms. I also went undiagnosed but I completely understand how hard that was. I am SO happy you were able to make changes for yourself this time. Congratulations on you new home!
Hey Bri! Congrats on the new home & almost 400 k! Can't wait to see the new home & renovations.
Why did Adam leave his job if his boss said he could work from any state though?
Love from Colorado 🦋🌻🏵🌈🌟
I love this extra happy version of Bri! I’m so thankful that you found solace in a tough situation. Praying for you and your family during this transition and for an abundance of blessings for your family! 💕
Please pray for my gramma. She was put on hospice April 1st. And on Mother’s Day, she was put on vigil..
Prayers for your dear granny 🙏 ❤
I absolutely appreciate the truth you expressed when you spoke on depression. I also fell into that pool after having my children and fell really hard during 2020, and it really made me take a hard look at my reality and change it for the better of my family and relationship with my husband.
You are so strong and I can tell how much happier you are. Do what’s best for your family and you.
Thank you so much for this Q&A. I also really appreciate you speaking to the PPD. You and I had babies the same month so I went through and am going through everything you are at the same time. It’s always comforting knowing you aren’t alone. 💕 I also really appreciate when you just sit down and open up like this. It’s some of my favorite content you film!!
We are driving from Georgia to California to visit our family! We moved here about 2 1/2 years ago due to the military and we are so ready to back in the same area as our family! We are super young and it’s hard being away. Loved this video, you look gorgeous in that color!!!
Where in Georgia iam in Paulding County
You are truly amazing. I wish I could finally break down the wall that stops me from being who I really want to be.. so many ideas in my head and so many worries that stop me from getting there. Watching you is like convincing myself that there are people who did it and they succeeded - just like you ! God bless you and your family 💕
I stopped watching your videos because at the time there was so much controversy about your channel and honestly I really just liked your channel the way it was and it seemed like another UA-camr that got rich and moved on.. but I came on and ended up watching this video and I’m really glad I did. I struggle with chronic depression every day and take medication for it just to live my life and you made me cry once you opened up about depression and the raw truth about your life. It’s nice to see a human behind the “perfect life” that most you tubers portray.
OMG why am I crying 😭. Brianna you are such a beautiful person inside and out.
You were so honest and forthcoming in this video. I've been a big fan of yours for quite a while now and you have a grace about you that I find very admirable. I've seen some not nice things that people have said about you and I just want you to know that you don't deserve any of it! I'm so happy for you and your family.
Aloha!
Brianna, just found your tube channel you are a beautiful person. I thank you for sharing and being honest about life. Hawaii is beautiful (went to Maui for1 week for our 30th anniversary)
“Live Laugh Love”
Yes!!! I am so happy for you! I've been starting to become more minimal, I would love to see future videos of the downsizing and decluttering!!! Congrats Bri!
I’m glad you found peace and happiness. I moved to California 5 years ago. I had divorced my husband of 18 years and tried to find my way with 2 failed relationships in the city I was in. I moved when my daughter was in college. Since then I’ve met and married my wonderful husband, gained 2 more daughters, more than doubled my income, and I’m in a wonderful city (San Diego) living my best life. So glad you figured out what you needed to live your best life as well.
Congratulations!!! My dears both of you and your lovely children!!! I’m truly happy for all of you! 😘♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🌺🌸🌼🌻💐 kisses for each one of you darlings!! God’s blessings be with you all!
Hi Brianna
I had to stop the video because
I just wanted to tell you this ,
on the end is your life
we only live ones make it count make it matter enjoy it
Live it happy embrace the positive moments and be grateful for all you have all your accomplishments
That truly brings love , joy peace to your heart !
If that means living in Hawaii or some where else , so be it !
Be happy smile there’s so much to be thankful for ...
Blessings to you and family always !🙏🏼👐🏽🙌🏽
And remember
THE BEST IS YET TO COME
🙏🏼💕💕
WOW, Thank you so much for sharing in this Video! I am Encouraged and Uplifted!
Right when you started crying, I started.
Thank you for opening up, we all go threw a hard time in our life. My problem is I over think, and over think. When something happens I dwell.
We can all get threw it with support and prayers! 🙏🏻😊 I pray for everyone who is going threw a hard time, you are loved and WILL get threw it ❤️
Love ya bri, always did since the way beginning 🥰
Brianna, I absolutely loved this video and you sharing all your feelings. We have to do what we think is best for our families and not what everyone else thinks. Don’t ever apologize for wanting to be a better parent. Love you and your videos. So jealous of you in Hawaii. I lived there a couple of years and it was amazing!
Sis, since i stumbled upon your page in 2019 you have been an inspiration to me. God bless you and your family.
*hugs* I appreciate your honesty and taking the time to explain your decisions to us, who honestly, don't need an answer about YOUR life choices. I've been there to with people asking about your choices for your family, postpartum depression etc. Anyway love your channel and I think you are a kind person that loves her family deeply.
I’ve always thought you seem like such a genuinely kind soul & I’m truly happy for you, that you have found peace in your life❤️ I completely understand the seasonal depression, as I’m in Erie, Pa & the weather definitely breaks you down after months of the same! Sending love & hugs to you🥰
You are 100% correct with many topics in this video. Always choose happy and live for you and your family! Good for you! Thank you for being a positive role model. 🥰
Thanks for being so vulnerable with us Bri.
So exciting congrats! Currently trying to conceive have been trying for 11 months please pray for us! Your family is beautiful
I can’t tell you how much your stories and advice I can relate to and use. Thank you for being so real and open to sharing the struggles you have gone through. I appreciate you so much!❤️❤️ thank you x 100!💗💗💗
Thanks for being so brave. Not many people can say they truly love their life an are truly happy.. Do what makes you happy life is so short
Good for you for doing what is best for your mental health and your family! Your decisions are your own and you know what is best for you. You don’t owe random people on the Internet who are overly invested in your life any explanations!! Sending 💕
I love this UA-cam channel! I knew all the drama and rumors weren’t true. I have always felt that you are the most genuine mommy channel here. I truly appreciate you coming on here and telling your truth. BTW you are living my dream right now!
Hands down one of the best videos I’ve watched since subscribing to your channel ❤️ so thankful for how real and raw you are. I wish more people would have this mentality. I truly believe God made us all different to make the world go round. We are all different, but all need each other to make the world go round. To be one 💗
Bless your heart❤️ thankful for you and all the inspiration you share and I’m so glad you and your family are happier!
I understand completely how you feel selling the house..It feels part of you.I am sentimental about things.Hope you have a wonderful summer..May God bless you and your family with more happiness and may He be your rock..Love from South Africa.
I felt a lot of what you were saying about doing what can make you happy now instead of putting it off. I really need some big prayers. I am a single mom to a toddler and am about to be making a big move from Louisiana to Missouri. Long term I know it will be best to be with my family there (dads side) but all of my family here (moms side) is constantly talking down and making me feel bad about it. I could just really use some kind words and prayers. 💖
You are such a bright light! I love your honesty and optimism ❤️
Such a beautiful and raw video. I love who you are. I wish I can find my purpose and peace. Currently living with my parents two babies and my boyfriend. Praying that one day we get to live on our own. You inspire me and give me so much hope. God bless you and your family.
Thank you for your honesty. You’re not alone! Keeping you and your family in prayer!!
You have such a beautiful soul. I wish you all the happiness in the world. I know how it feels to be on that dark side of life and I’m so glad that you worked through the struggle and came out on top. I think the amount of growth shows and I can see how much more you are truly happy. I also took that leap and decided to make changes in my life instead of waiting around for something to change. It’s proven to be so much more beneficial for me and my family. When you’re in a positive state of mind, your heart grows fuller and makes you appreciate the journey even more. 🙏🏼