Very good. Thank you. Soo many people are divorcing and sometimes it feels incredibly oppressive to my marriage. We struggle making true friendships with other couples for fear that they may divorce or move away. God has a plan and I know this is the cross we must bare.
Your marriage must not be pleasing to YOU in the first place, but to God. Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Now undefiled means: 1. not damaged or sullied 2. not made morally impure 3. not polluted or made dirty ...etc.
Baptism of desire is heresy. "Amen, amen I say to thee, unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God." John 3:5
God's love is so unfathomable, you just can't condition it, His mercies are new every morning. You can desire something, but when it's not readily available, God who sees and understands the intent knows how well to judge that someone who desires him but couldn't receive the physical baptism. Our God is a king of justice and immense mercy too. Edit: therefore baptism of desire cannot be tagged heresy.
@@nwankwoclemmy2651 God will ensure that the good-willed souls get baptism, supernaturally if need be. That is the power of His love. All it takes is some natural water, another person, and the words of Matthew 28:19. To obstinately deny the absolute necessity of water baptism is heresy, which is an attack on Love Himself (1 John 4:8). Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, canons on the Sacrament of Baptism, canon 5, ex cathedra: “If anyone says that baptism [the sacrament] is optional, that is, not necessary for salvation (cf. Jn. 3:5): let him be anathema.” Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, canons on the Sacrament of Baptism, Session 7, canon 2, ex cathedra: “If anyone shall say that real and natural water is not necessary for baptism, and on that account those words of Our Lord Jesus Christ: ‘Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit’ [John 3:5], are distorted into some sort of metaphor: let him be anathema.” Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, On Original Sin, Session V, ex cathedra: “By one man sin entered into the world, and by sin death... so that in them there may be washed away by regeneration, what they have contracted by generation, ‘For unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God [John 3:5].”
@@nwankwoclemmy2651 John 10:16 "And other sheep I have, that are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice, and there shall be one fold and one shepherd."
The Authoritative Church says otherwise. Christ will save whom He will. WE are bound by the Sacraments. HE is not. Romans talks about those who never heard the word. You aren’t afforded the right to be a Sedevecantist; that’s the other rite of Protestantism. You don’t get the luxury of deciding what teachings of the church you want to believe or not. You can’t reject all of Vatican 2 just because you don’t like the Novus Ordo. Do you not have faith & trust in Jesus Christ & the Holy Ghost that they would allow the church to be wrong & deceive people? She can’t err on faith & morals. Sedevecantism is Sin. Before you say I am a modernist (a term my fellow Trads abuse out of context) I attend the FSSP & follow this channel. If I, as a 15 yr inter denominational Protestant, could begin my conversion after one Latin Mass in spite of the state of the Catholic Church, you can trust she can’t err on something so crucial. You’re saying that people can’t be saved on their deathbed because not everyone will have access to Baptism. Baptism is the ordinary means. Jesus is merciful to whom He is. I trust in His Mercy. The FSSP know more than Internet lay Catholic conspiracy theorists & Sedes & they teach this.
Or you could just you know... NOT get married, though this involves careful discernment and evaluation. I'm not advocating for fornicating or cohabitating mind you, but given how screwed up the culture is, this conversation is something that probably should've happened when the Boomers were getting married and going through their struggles because I hate to be the Scourge of Reality Checks, but most marriages now end in divorce, and the overwhelming number of people (including myself) aren't good marital prospects or the opportunity is severely lacking. And then there's the issues of the family court system, finding people who aren't woke or otherwise diametrically opposed to the Catholic faith. And that's not even getting into issues of compatibility of personality types and shared goals and aspirations; after all, you can only be a human tumbleweed for so long before realizing that you need to have things in common other than sex. Until things are sorted out, my recommendation to all, especially men who have not yet gotten attached, remain as you are and do not get married until the culture has collapsed and reset. It won't be easy because of the biological imperative being what it is, but you need to guard yourselves against chameleons. Find other reasons for living and focus on building up that intrinsic motivation to dream, aspire, and conquer. Peace be to you.
Peace be to you. I totally understand where you are coming from. Don’t loose hope! I cohabitated with my now husband before finding the truth of Our Lords holy church, God revealed Himself to us when almost all seemed lost. We were part of the leftist secular cult and was able to escape and now are growing stronger through Christ and the sacraments in the church. Marriage is not for everyone, but I also want to validate Gods timing in all things.
The absence of religious values, in particular, Church teaching, not only in the culture at large but within marriages is a huge problem. Your advice is generally good. Best to avoid, unless a couple really believes they are in possession of that knowledge and values. Many marriages are forged in absence of this, and it is difficult to insert it later on, as the choice to do so on the part of one, may not be held by the other.
Marriages end in divorce because God is not the center. Marriage is not discerned properly and often either is the potential spouse. Discernment requires prayer and not rushing things. Some people get married thinking a bad person will get better. This could happen, but isn't likely without the desire to improve. Being abstinent before marriage is also crucial in being able to decide with a clearer mind and without forming a disordered attachment that fogs up judgment, whether or not someone would make a good spouse. Many people don't make a good spouse because they live sinful lives. I don't think people date with marriage in mind often and definitely don't date the way they should. There was a study that said 18% of couples are actually getting married these days. People also need to know what marriage is for and what their role is supposed to be. Marriage is excellent and willed by God that man not be alone and that we be fruitful and multiply. Not everyone is meant to join the religuous life either. I'm sure more people are meant to go than actually are, but marriage is awesome. You just have to know what to expect and live out your faith according to your vocation. People should get right with God first before trying to even date. However, one of the jobs of spouses is to help the other get to heaven. Not many people care about this but it's crucial for marriage and for raising children.
@@5MinuteCatholicApologetics Yes; that is very much so. There is much debate over the movement of course, and it opens up some real issues in its own right. But it is easy to see some of the background forces that are conducive to it.
That's like saying a psychiatrist shouldn't help a patient because they don't have the same diagnosis. Priests obviously study and learn from scripture.
Sort of. There are lots of same things that are just human. In that there is equality and shared heads of household. "Obey" is limited to needs at some times. 🙄
GOD did not say share household. GOD establish the order. Man was made first . Woman came from a man’s rib. JESUS has his bride the church. Men love your wives and JESUS loves the church.
@@jacobkalee Only if you approach it as part of the picture. So ... what does that mean, to you? Stronger physically and needs to support the woman? Okay. Otherwise, no. People are people.
@@duanewoodson9804 Rib is a mistranslation and the partnership is clear. Men can get egoically sinful about all this stuff. Obey? Head? Only if you approach it as part of the picture. So ... what does that mean, to you? Stronger physically and needs to support the woman? Okay. Otherwise, no. People are people.
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St Joseph strength of families. Pray for us. God bless all marriages and pray for the youth to find there future partner 🙏🇦🇺
Quite basic, yet excellent Catholic teaching. Thank you, Father.
The book love and respect taught me this. St Rita got me through the tough years. Keep praying!
Important topic for discussion, especially in these chaotic and disordered times. 😞
Thanks For this Important Topic
Thank you for your service to Holy Mother Church!
Very good. Thank you. Soo many people are divorcing and sometimes it feels incredibly oppressive to my marriage. We struggle making true friendships with other couples for fear that they may divorce or move away. God has a plan and I know this is the cross we must bare.
Sancta Rita, ora pro nobis. Help us turn into marriage material, in accordance with the Will of God.
Thank you for sharing this with us. Just what I needed to hear today. VIVA CHRISTO REY!!! ✝️⚓♥️🙏
As a courting man.......thank you.
There’s a courtship lecture on the channel too
Good homily. Father Ripperger goes more in depth on this channel. This helped my husband and I before we were even engaged. Excellent.
Excellent! Thank you for sharing.
I’ve been feeling that pull toward marriage, but I am no where close to being able to give myself so completely.
Why
Holy Mother Mary and Saint Rita please help me to be a good godly wife and mother and daughter 🙏🏼🌹❤️✝️
Your marriage must not be pleasing to YOU in the first place, but to God.
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Now undefiled means:
1. not damaged or sullied 2. not made morally impure 3. not polluted or made dirty ...etc.
St Joseph please pray for my husband so he can be a godly husband and father. 🙏🏼✝️🕊❤️
What country is this accent?
French.
It sounds Filipino.
I guess its Brasilian
Sharad More very nice 🙂♥️ thanks amen
AMEN AMEN AMEN
SENSUS FIDELIUM. 🙏💪👍🙏
What can a husband do, if a wife angers her husband for no reason?
How ought he respond to that?
St. Paul said to love your wife like Christ loves the Church. So with love.
Cristos Vencit!
Cristos Regnat!
Cristos Empirat!
Viva Cristo Rey!
Marriage with the intention to procreate, having the seed of God..
Not the Nephelim
🌹🌹🌹
😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏😇
Wondering why this priest decided to change the word 'submit' to 'respect'... Too many liberal female parishioners?
Baptism of desire is heresy. "Amen, amen I say to thee, unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God." John 3:5
God's love is so unfathomable, you just can't condition it, His mercies are new every morning.
You can desire something, but when it's not readily available, God who sees and understands the intent knows how well to judge that someone who desires him but couldn't receive the physical baptism.
Our God is a king of justice and immense mercy too.
Edit: therefore baptism of desire cannot be tagged heresy.
@@nwankwoclemmy2651 God will ensure that the good-willed souls get baptism, supernaturally if need be. That is the power of His love. All it takes is some natural water, another person, and the words of Matthew 28:19. To obstinately deny the absolute necessity of water baptism is heresy, which is an attack on Love Himself (1 John 4:8).
Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, canons on the Sacrament of Baptism, canon 5, ex cathedra: “If anyone says that baptism [the sacrament] is optional, that is, not necessary for salvation (cf. Jn. 3:5): let him be anathema.”
Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, canons on the Sacrament of Baptism, Session 7, canon 2, ex cathedra: “If anyone shall say that real and natural water is not necessary for baptism, and on that account those words of Our Lord Jesus Christ: ‘Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit’ [John 3:5], are distorted into some sort of metaphor: let him be anathema.”
Pope Paul III, The Council of Trent, On Original Sin, Session V, ex cathedra: “By one man sin entered into the world, and by sin death... so that in them there may be washed away by regeneration, what they have contracted by generation, ‘For unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God [John 3:5].”
@@nwankwoclemmy2651 John 10:16 "And other sheep I have, that are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice, and there shall be one fold and one shepherd."
The Authoritative Church says otherwise. Christ will save whom He will. WE are bound by the Sacraments. HE is not. Romans talks about those who never heard the word. You aren’t afforded the right to be a Sedevecantist; that’s the other rite of Protestantism. You don’t get the luxury of deciding what teachings of the church you want to believe or not. You can’t reject all
of Vatican 2 just because you don’t like the Novus Ordo. Do you not have faith & trust in Jesus Christ & the Holy Ghost that they would allow the church to be wrong & deceive people? She can’t err on faith & morals. Sedevecantism is Sin. Before you say I am a modernist (a term my fellow Trads abuse out of context) I attend the FSSP & follow this channel. If I, as a 15 yr inter denominational Protestant, could begin my conversion after one Latin Mass in spite of the state of the Catholic Church, you can trust she can’t err on something so crucial. You’re saying that people can’t be saved on their deathbed because not everyone will have access to Baptism. Baptism is the ordinary means. Jesus is merciful to whom He is. I trust in His Mercy. The FSSP know more than Internet lay Catholic conspiracy theorists & Sedes & they teach this.
@@trevorsrq6179 Oh yeah? Show me where the pre-Vatican II Church dogmatically teaches baptism of desire.
Why so much material from those yoked with the Novus Ordo Antichurch?
Lol
Or you could just you know... NOT get married, though this involves careful discernment and evaluation. I'm not advocating for fornicating or cohabitating mind you, but given how screwed up the culture is, this conversation is something that probably should've happened when the Boomers were getting married and going through their struggles because I hate to be the Scourge of Reality Checks, but most marriages now end in divorce, and the overwhelming number of people (including myself) aren't good marital prospects or the opportunity is severely lacking. And then there's the issues of the family court system, finding people who aren't woke or otherwise diametrically opposed to the Catholic faith. And that's not even getting into issues of compatibility of personality types and shared goals and aspirations; after all, you can only be a human tumbleweed for so long before realizing that you need to have things in common other than sex.
Until things are sorted out, my recommendation to all, especially men who have not yet gotten attached, remain as you are and do not get married until the culture has collapsed and reset. It won't be easy because of the biological imperative being what it is, but you need to guard yourselves against chameleons. Find other reasons for living and focus on building up that intrinsic motivation to dream, aspire, and conquer. Peace be to you.
Peace be to you. I totally understand where you are coming from. Don’t loose hope! I cohabitated with my now husband before finding the truth of Our Lords holy church, God revealed Himself to us when almost all seemed lost. We were part of the leftist secular cult and was able to escape and now are growing stronger through Christ and the sacraments in the church. Marriage is not for everyone, but I also want to validate Gods timing in all things.
The absence of religious values, in particular, Church teaching, not only in the culture at large but within marriages is a huge problem. Your advice is generally good. Best to avoid, unless a couple really believes they are in possession of that knowledge and values. Many marriages are forged in absence of this, and it is difficult to insert it later on, as the choice to do so on the part of one, may not be held by the other.
Marriages end in divorce because God is not the center. Marriage is not discerned properly and often either is the potential spouse. Discernment requires prayer and not rushing things. Some people get married thinking a bad person will get better. This could happen, but isn't likely without the desire to improve. Being abstinent before marriage is also crucial in being able to decide with a clearer mind and without forming a disordered attachment that fogs up judgment, whether or not someone would make a good spouse. Many people don't make a good spouse because they live sinful lives. I don't think people date with marriage in mind often and definitely don't date the way they should. There was a study that said 18% of couples are actually getting married these days. People also need to know what marriage is for and what their role is supposed to be. Marriage is excellent and willed by God that man not be alone and that we be fruitful and multiply. Not everyone is meant to join the religuous life either. I'm sure more people are meant to go than actually are, but marriage is awesome. You just have to know what to expect and live out your faith according to your vocation. People should get right with God first before trying to even date. However, one of the jobs of spouses is to help the other get to heaven. Not many people care about this but it's crucial for marriage and for raising children.
that is why the MGTOW movement is so pervasive with many men
@@5MinuteCatholicApologetics Yes; that is very much so. There is much debate over the movement of course, and it opens up some real issues in its own right. But it is easy to see some of the background forces that are conducive to it.
what I see now are emasculated men
It's funny all these unmarried priests telling how husband and wives should act.
That's like saying a psychiatrist shouldn't help a patient because they don't have the same diagnosis. Priests obviously study and learn from scripture.
Sort of. There are lots of same things that are just human. In that there is equality and shared heads of household. "Obey" is limited to needs at some times. 🙄
Women don't share the head of household with their husbands. The husband is the head. We obey or submit ourselves in things that are not sinful.
GOD did not say share household. GOD establish the order. Man was made first . Woman came from a man’s rib. JESUS has his bride the church. Men love your wives and JESUS loves the church.
@@jacobkalee Only if you approach it as part of the picture. So ... what does that mean, to you? Stronger physically and needs to support the woman? Okay. Otherwise, no. People are people.
@@duanewoodson9804 Rib is a mistranslation and the partnership is clear. Men can get egoically sinful about all this stuff.
Obey? Head? Only if you approach it as part of the picture. So ... what does that mean, to you? Stronger physically and needs to support the woman? Okay. Otherwise, no. People are people.