@@13gudadod fr you gotta play it right but at the same time you loose a lot of privacy of being un hartases by homophobes and at risk of a log of public safety from extremist
I really like how you guys touched on the aspect of “what if I change”. It’s so scary feeling lost if you don’t have a label for yourself but it’s even scarier when you’re unsure and be like “well what if I’m not that? Or what if I go back?” and personally it was nice to hear someone just say it’s okay to change your mind, and it’s okay to feel strongly about something now and then change a few years down the line.
my dad once told me I was bisexual for attention. he didn't explicitly say that but it messed me up so bad. it hurt so much when I discovered I wasn't bi, it felt like he was right and that hurt. realizing things are different than you thought is scary but it's okay because you're just discovering who you are!
I honestly feel the same way and even though it’s pretty selfish, I’m glad others feel the same so at least I know I’m not alone. You are valid to me and you are supported by me.
I remember that when I was figuring out if I'm gay or not I was scared too and eventually I thought that it didn't matter because, at that moment, I had learned so much about myself and from other humans and how to be more understanding, I learned so many things that I had ignored until that point; so if you feel bad about it think that if you hadn't question that part of you maybe you wouldn't have discovered so many things in the world that have existed since forever.
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I feel like when u meet ppl it’s like ur constantly coming out. I really wish people just didn’t assume that your straight. If you had a really bad coming out you might get a sense of ptsd telling people that you are lgbtqi+.
I used to watch lgbt+ tik tok compilations at night, with no sound, but then my mom got me headphones for school. now I watch them at night with headphones
@@shandiwarren6454 I'm also quite religious. I do not find it at all offensive. You dont know what this person has been through. (I'm not assuming) but this person may have been hurt by the religious community and reclaiming a prayer that hurt them. Please be as sensitive to others as you want them to be to you.
I just recently came out to my mother as transgender and while it didn't go quite well, I got basically told that being trans and bisexual doesn't exist, and that I need to pray to God and that society has "corrupted" or "tricked" me into being trans. While I have felt this way for years, I have been scared to come out for the longest time bc I thought I'd be kicked out. Now as a 20 year old adult I finally decided I'm tired of hiding who I am. I don't know where I'm going to go from here. I just know I'm Axel. It's who I am. And that you were the biggest inspiration to me. So thanks Miles for showing me that the most important thing is to be myself and to never let anyone hold me back from that.
Hi axel! I came out as ftm Transgender 2 months ago and my parents were on the same page of that it’s not a real thing and now they are learning to accept me and it’s still hard but you’re so loved! I’m 22! I’f you wanna be friends let me know!
@@benbowo3169 It's funny bc I was going to choose the name Alex but I already knew so many other trans guys named Alex that I wanted to look for something else. I eventually came across Axel by hearing it from a TV show I didn't really care about and vibed with it a lot. It wasn't until I had been using it for a while that I realized it was just Alex but with the x and l flipped.
Miles asked for this: This recipe is adapted from My Search for the Seventh Mole by Susana Trilling. From Season 9, Mexico-One Plate At A Time Servings: 12 Print INGREDIENTS 5 chile chilhuacle negro (1 ½ ounces) 5 chile guajillo (1 ounce) 4chile pasilla mexicano (1 ounce) 4chile ancho negro or mulato (2 ounces) 2 chile chipotle meco (1/4 ounce) 1medium white onion, quartered 1/2small head of garlic, cloves separated 2heaping tablespoons almonds 2tablespoons shelled and skinned raw peanuts 1 inchMexican cinnamon (canela) 3 black peppercorns 3 whole cloves 2tablespoons oil 1 1/2tablespoons raisins 1slice slice of bread, preferably challah or an egg bread 1small ripeplantain, cut into ½-inch slices (about 1 cup) 1/2cup sesame seeds 2 pecan halves 1/2pound (1 medium-large round or 4 to 5 plum)ripe tomatoes, cut into chunks 1/4pound (2 to 3 medium) freshtomatillos, husked, rinsed and cut into chunks 1sprig fresh thyme, or ¼ teaspoon dried 1sprigMexican oregano or ½ teaspoon dried 5generous cups light chicken stock 2tablespoonslard or oil 6ouncesMexican chocolate 2dried avocado leaves Salt INSTRUCTIONS Rinse the chiles quickly in running water, and remove all stems, veins and seeds. Reserve the seeds. Heat 2 quarts of water in a kettle. In a large griddle, comal or frying pan, toast the chiles over medium heat until black, but not burnt, about 10 minutes. Place the chiles in a large bowl and cover with the hot water to soak for 30 minutes. When the chiles are soft, remove the chiles from the soaking water with tongs, placing small batches in a blender with ½ cup of the chile soaking water (or more if needed) to blend smooth. Pass the chile puree through a food mill or strainer to remove the skins. In the same dry griddle, comal or frying pan, roast the onion and garlic over medium heat for 10 minutes. Set aside. Toast the almonds, peanuts, the cinnamon stick, peppercorns and cloves on the same pan for about 5 minutes. Remove from the pan. Over the same heat, toast the chile seeds, taking care to blacken but not burn them, about 20 minutes. Try to do this outside or in a well-ventilated place because the seeds will give off very strong fumes. When they are completely black, light them with a match and let them burn themselves out. Remove from the heat and place in a bowl. Soak the blackened seeds in 1 cup of cold water for 10 minutes. Drain the seeds and cover them with more water. Let them soak another 15 minutes more, then strain them. Grind them in a blender for about 2 minutes with ½ cup of water. Strain them through a medium-mesh strainer. Add the blended chile seeds to the blended chile mixture. Heat 3 tablespoons of oil in a medium skillet over medium heat. Add the raisins and fry them until they are plump, approximately 1 minute. Remove from pan. Fry the bread slices in the same oil until browned, about 5 minutes; remove from pan. Fry the plantain in the same oil until it is well-browned, approximately 10 minutes, and set aside. In a separate frying pan, heat 2 tablespoons oil and fry the sesame seeds, stirring constantly over low heat, adding salt if they start jumping around too much. When the sesame seeds start to brown, about 5 minutes, add the pecans and brown 2 minutes more. Remove all from the pan, let cool, and grind finely in a spice grinder or a powerful blender with ½ cup stock. The spice grinder takes a bit of time, but this is the only way to grind the seeds and nuts finely enough. The mixture should be very smooth. Wipe out the frying pan and fry the tomatoes, tomatillos, thyme and oregano, over medium to high heat, allowing the juices to almost evaporate, about 15 minutes. Blend well, using ½ cup stock if needed to blend and set aside. In the blender, in small batches if necessary, place the nuts, bread, plantains, raisins, onion, garlic and spices. Blend well, adding about 1 cup chicken stock to make it smooth. In a large cazuela or stock pot, heat 2 tablespoons of lard or oil until smoking and fry the chile paste over medium to low heat, stirring constantly so it will not burn, approximately 20 minutes. When it is “bubbling furiously,” add the tomato puree and fry until the liquid has evaporated, about 20 minutes. Add the ground ingredients, including the sesame seed paste, to the pot. Stir constantly with a wooden spoon until well incorporated, about 20 minutes. Add 1 cup chicken stock, stir well, and allow to cook 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. Break up the chocolate and add to the pot, stirring until it is melted and incorporated into the mixture. Toast the avocado leaves briefly over the flame if you have a gas range, or in a dry frying pan and add to the pot. Slowly add more stock to the sauce-it will keep thickening as it cooks. Continue to cook for at least 30 minutes, stirring occasionally so it doesn’t stick. Add stock as it thickens. The more time it has to cook the better. There should be no gritty texture (from the seeds), which will cook out over time. Add enough salt to bring out the flavors. If you can only taste the chiles, you need more salt. The mole should not be thick, just thick enough to coat the back of a spoon. I’m sorry if you clicked read more
watching miles helped me so much when I was closeted. him normalizing being lgbtq always made me feel so much more valid and safe. now im getting a binder soon, and I've come out to my friends and some teachers at my school. thank you!!!!!
So my dad said I can't be pansexual because I'm not attracted to my family members and apparently the pansexual box meaning "love/attraction regardless of gender" must mean I have to be incestuous in order to identify with that term. Idek but thats what he said, I thought you would find this amusing.
oh those kind of arguments annoy me. no pan means I can be attracted to any person regardless of gender, not that I have no standards. (personally just pan romantic not sexual, but same difference)
ok so we have coming out advice videos... but could miles bless us with a "so you've been outed" video? totally asking for a friend. definitely not for myself.
god this interview is making me think about how in the str8 world it's v normal to have your tastes and desires change over time. like why not have gender preferences fluctuate and change???? had I known that as a kid I not only wouldn't have gaslit myself into thinking I was straight but also wouldn't have discounted people who didn't concretely state their sexuality. god if ONLY I knew
As an autistic person whose tastes have nearly completely stayed the same since I was a toddler, most people have a hell of a problem with that! Yet those same people can't seem to accept people who open up about realizing things about themselves, or changing... Double standards that a lot of people don't even think about.
I love how he said they might live in your hometown or country (insert me thinking definitely no British Columbia) and then they were like “I am in Vancouver” and I’m just sitting here in Canada like less than half an hour from there
I've literally been out for almost a decade but still watched this because it blows my mind that you were able to just interview Tegan and Sara. Like, god I wish that were me
I just got your book in the mail, lol. Miles, you've gotten me so far in life, I didn't even know the concept of being trans until I found your channel. You helped me become comfortable with myself, and you helped me come out with your advice. I thank you so much. I'm out to my mom now, and I have a name that will be my Legal name when I turn 18. Thank you Miles, you've done wonderfully helping so many and you deserve so much.
It’s so weird hearing from adults that it doesn’t matter your age and you can find yourself whenever because my parents both think I’m way too young to know that I’m non-binary and trans even though I’m 13 ✨💕✨ I wish my parents were like this, but they’re kind of boomers when it comes to lgbt knowledge
Think about it this way, at one point you and your parents equally knew very little about being nb. But you felt the need to gain knowledge and/or insight and they hadn’t. Depending on their character, they might step up and look into it, but you have to give them a chance to catch up to you. Good luck and stay safe.
Aurora O. Well that’s your personal experience, not everyone is like that (as you know) and it is okay to think you’re gay and then later on find out that your not. It is growth! It’s a part of being human. As long as no one is hurt, then it’s fine
I was always afraid of the labels until I taught myself the following: don't put yourself in a box. Build yourself a roof and shelter yourself from the rain when you feel the need to. Meaning, don't define yourself to be stuck with said definition. Find a word that makes you, in said moment, a happy and comfortable person. Life is fluid and so are we!
Miles, I can't believe your hair is so curly after you're seeing Tegan and Sara on Zoom at your house in California on this video during your quarantine until you're talking to them about your coming out story while you're talking to them about their sexuality after that and I'm proud of you, honey!!
As a Canadian, this video is super helpful and entertaining for me. Most lgbt resources/influencers are American, so it’s super cool to see a positive influence closer to home.
I’m non-binary and I’m way to terrified to tell my father. I’ve already told my mother because she’s way more supportive than my father. He’s okay with me being pan, but I have no idea about the gender identity.
I also eventually want to get top surgery, but I’ll never be able to afford it without my family’s help. I know my grandmother on my fathers side won’t ever except me as who I am, but I really hope my father will accept me. I have no idea how to tell him though.
@@QuillandInk524 That sounds really rough. Having family that won't accept you is not pleasant. I hope you are able to get that top surgery done soon too.
You don't have too till your ready if you are comfortable with yourself that's awesome you don't have to be out until your ready no need to rush it at all ever need someone to talk to you always can talk to me (you don't need to if you don't want to) cause I'm trying to figure out if I'm non-binary or trans have a nice day/night you lovely person ❤
Black Raven I'm nonbinary too and bisexual. My mom knows but I'm also scared to tell my dad. I'm in a weird spot because I thought I was ftm before so my dad knows I'm trans but he thinks I'm a straight man instead of a bisexual enby. He was cool about me being trans but idk if he knows about nonbinary or will believe that it's real or not....
i discovered Tegan and Sara when i was like 12 and i remember being so obsessed with them and not knowing why. they were definitely a big part of my journey in learning about my sexuality and identity. love this video and always appreciative of their insight
omg the fear of "what if i change/what if its not true" is so real especially bc ~gaslighting~ and also everything sara is saying i relate so so so much
This made me so happy just listening to all of you, just thank you for all that you do. And to anyone reading this you may not know me and I don't know you but you are valid and you are loved at least by me that's for sure.🏳️🌈
me 3 minutes into the video realizing Canada marriage equality act is that same age as me 👁 👄👁 also me thinking Canada marriage equality act is gen z 👁👅👁
i really didn’t think that this would help me at all, but i’ve always hated the word lesbian and i never knew why because i’m fine liking girls and being gay, but the word scared me and this really made me feel better about that
Trying to convince my mum that the reason I want this book is just because I'm an "ally" that is totally 100% true I don't even know why u would think otherwise 😬
Ok your hair is my inspiration in life. Also i named my bass guitar Tegan Quinn before I'd even heard of them and so i was like oh ok that's a person so now it's named Taylor just because i don't wanna take the queens name
I’ve been watching Miles for 3 years and I’ve finally come out to my family and friends as bi, thank you so much for being my icon and helping me feel safe. Honestly this has been my safe space. Also I’m questioning my gender so this is still a big journey for me.
Thx for doing this series miles! Some of us really needed this! OMG MILES MY MOM JUST ORDERED YOUR BOOK FOR ME IM LITERALLY CRYING AHHH I've wanted your book for so long but I wasnt out to my parents, so now I can talk to them its so nice ahhhhhhhhh Your book came I'm screaminggggggg
This has GOT to be my favorite video ever. Somehow it hits so differently hearing these experiences from people we usually consider living in a different universe. Miles, I love love love the way your mind and creativity works. Can’t wait for more!!!
When your parents say that your only saying that you like females and wish to use non binary pronouns with the name Alex, But they then say that your doing it for attention. BUT YOU SEE MILES POSTED SO YOU WATCH THE KING COME OUT AS BI TO SEE HOW MUCH BETTER HE DID-
cups warm water 2 (1/4 ounce) packets bulk active dry yeast 4 tablespoons sugar, divided 1 tablespoon salt 1⁄2 cup chopped dehydrated onion 5 - 5 3⁄4 cups flour cornmeal, for sprinkling on baking sheet 1 egg yolk 1 tablespoon water n e ways
So I'm at this point where I know that I'm bisexual but I also know that I can't tell anyone in my family because if it got to my parents I'm pretty sure they would kick me out or just be really terrible. And it really sucks because where I am right now is I'll just wait until I move out to tell them so I don't have the fear of being so rejected that I can't live with them anymore. But I'm not moving out anytime soon and I'm so scared that something will happen where I'll get outed.
Miles is so inspirational, watching his channel has been so helpful to me and one of the reasons I started my own channel :) hoping to build a community of supportive trans athletes
thank you miles for addressing that lots of influencers talk about their perfect coming out and accepting parents, but its not that easy for most of us
just came out on tiktok as pansexual (for the second time since I used to identify as bi) and I feel really good about it and this video made me smile 💖
Whisk the pumpkin, 3 eggs, and brown sugar together until combined. Add the cornstarch, salt, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, cloves, pepper, cream, and milk. Vigorously whisk until everything is combined. Filling will be a little thick. Preheat oven to 375°F (190°C). Roll out the chilled pie crust: Remove 1 disc of pie dough from the refrigerator. On a lightly floured work surface, roll the dough out into a 12-inch circle. Make sure to turn the dough about a quarter turn after every few rolls. Carefully place the dough into a 9-inch pie dish. Tuck it in with your fingers, making sure it is smooth. With a small and sharp knife, trim the extra overhang of crust and discard. Crimp the edges with a fork or flute the edges with your fingers, if desired. Brush edges lightly with egg wash mixture. Line the pie crust with parchment paper. (Crunch up the parchment paper first so that you can easily shape it into the crust.) Fill with pie weights. Make sure the weights are evenly distributed around the pie dish. Pre-bake the crust for 10 minutes. Carefully remove the parchment paper/pie weights. Pour pumpkin pie filling into the warm pre-baked crust. Only fill the crust about 3/4 of the way up. (Use extra to make mini pies with leftover pie dough scraps if you’d like.) Bake the pie until the center is almost set, about 55-60 minutes give or take. A small part of the center will be wobbly - that’s ok. After 25 minutes of baking, be sure to cover the edges of the crust with aluminum foil or use a pie crust shield to prevent the edges from getting too brown. Check for doneness at minute 50, and then 55, and then 60, etc
hi, so basicly i'm nonbinary (i think) and i've told people my pronouns, but i'm just sceard to corect them. anyone have any ideas on how to be more confident on telling people the right pronouns? thanks! :)
I’ve Ben out as enby for around three years and I still struggle with correcting people with my pronouns. And when you introduce yourself to someone new or anything just mention it after you say your name and say please can you use these pronouns for me. I’ve not really found a good way to do it but that seems to work for me. Sorry if this wasn’t any help
I’m out to my friends it took years but they all know I’m trans. Through a combination of texting and face-to-face. You’re never in a rush take your time.
I think a very important part of coming out that parents should understand is that your child can change their sexuality/gender and they could change it again. Just let them explore labels and their identity and don’t put them into strict boxes.
i am VERY comfortable with the energy we've created in the studio today
Me too 😊
Isn't everyone
@@altf4582 Unas Annus profile pic 😭
rich and famous for being gay is the dream
But also a little nightmare because well..society is big homophobe
The american dream
WHERE IS THAT SPONGEBOB REMIX
@@13gudadod fr you gotta play it right but at the same time you loose a lot of privacy of being un hartases by homophobes and at risk of a log of public safety from extremist
0:32 “Gaybies and the Theybies” THIS IS JUST 💕✨💕✨
I LOVE THIS
I LOVE YOUR PFP
Omg this community is just amazing omg jsgsgsygsuhus7sgysgjejidjidyd8bruh I love this!
Ah yes,, Beemo pfp. I
I really like how you guys touched on the aspect of “what if I change”. It’s so scary feeling lost if you don’t have a label for yourself but it’s even scarier when you’re unsure and be like “well what if I’m not that? Or what if I go back?” and personally it was nice to hear someone just say it’s okay to change your mind, and it’s okay to feel strongly about something now and then change a few years down the line.
my dad once told me I was bisexual for attention. he didn't explicitly say that but it messed me up so bad. it hurt so much when I discovered I wasn't bi, it felt like he was right and that hurt.
realizing things are different than you thought is scary but it's okay because you're just discovering who you are!
I honestly feel the same way and even though it’s pretty selfish, I’m glad others feel the same so at least I know I’m not alone. You are valid to me and you are supported by me.
I remember that when I was figuring out if I'm gay or not I was scared too and eventually I thought that it didn't matter because, at that moment, I had learned so much about myself and from other humans and how to be more understanding, I learned so many things that I had ignored until that point; so if you feel bad about it think that if you hadn't question that part of you maybe you wouldn't have discovered so many things in the world that have existed since forever.
miles’ hair said ✨floof✨
And I said"I simp"
UA-cam automatically liked this comment for me. I’m not complaining 😂
me: ugh i’m a afraid to come out
me: oh nvm i have been out for like a year
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AxxL oh you’re THAT guy😒
AxxL your channel is so chaotic in the worst way possible wtf is happening
I feel like when u meet ppl it’s like ur constantly coming out. I really wish people just didn’t assume that your straight. If you had a really bad coming out you might get a sense of ptsd telling people that you are lgbtqi+.
im the 420th like
I will be screen recording the part where miles says “just to clarify, I’m so gay,” and sending it to all of my friends
That's such a mood XD
Please send me that I wanna do the same
Me too
6:16 🤣😂love this, this is better with the editing than just miles
When you can only watch when you’re home alone or with headphones
Me literally rn in the car with headphones
literally me but my parents left now so 😌
I used to watch lgbt+ tik tok compilations at night, with no sound, but then my mom got me headphones for school.
now I watch them at night with headphones
me, watching this with headphones while my everything phobic parents are in the next room over:
fr same. i used to have to check all the cords and make sure it was all connected when i watched one topic at a times videos
Our father, who art in heaven, who chooses the bbs names, thank you for this omfg. He really do be there when you need him, huh?
Please don't say stuff like that. As a Christian, I find it offensive.
shandi warren oh no someone’s feelings are hurt🥺 ❄️
shandi warren Lol I’m Christian too but I don’t find it offensive i find it funny
@@shandiwarren6454 I'm also quite religious. I do not find it at all offensive. You dont know what this person has been through. (I'm not assuming) but this person may have been hurt by the religious community and reclaiming a prayer that hurt them. Please be as sensitive to others as you want them to be to you.
shandi warren if you find this offensive I don’t think you should be here
I just recently came out to my mother as transgender and while it didn't go quite well, I got basically told that being trans and bisexual doesn't exist, and that I need to pray to God and that society has "corrupted" or "tricked" me into being trans. While I have felt this way for years, I have been scared to come out for the longest time bc I thought I'd be kicked out. Now as a 20 year old adult I finally decided I'm tired of hiding who I am. I don't know where I'm going to go from here. I just know I'm Axel. It's who I am. And that you were the biggest inspiration to me. So thanks Miles for showing me that the most important thing is to be myself and to never let anyone hold me back from that.
I just wanna say I think the name Axel is so cool!!!
@@terryl9276 Thank you!
Alex but scrambled
Hi axel! I came out as ftm Transgender 2 months ago and my parents were on the same page of that it’s not a real thing and now they are learning to accept me and it’s still hard but you’re so loved! I’m 22! I’f you wanna be friends let me know!
@@benbowo3169 It's funny bc I was going to choose the name Alex but I already knew so many other trans guys named Alex that I wanted to look for something else. I eventually came across Axel by hearing it from a TV show I didn't really care about and vibed with it a lot. It wasn't until I had been using it for a while that I realized it was just Alex but with the x and l flipped.
Someone needs to remind Miles that he's a published author with over 1 million subscribers. He still calls other people famous
BIG HAIRY BUMS huh?
That would ruin the feel of these videos i think.
He's also in a movie with Sidney Sweeny
Miles asked for this:
This recipe is adapted from My Search for the Seventh Mole by Susana Trilling.
From Season 9, Mexico-One Plate At A Time
Servings: 12
Print
INGREDIENTS
5 chile chilhuacle negro (1 ½ ounces)
5 chile guajillo (1 ounce)
4chile pasilla mexicano (1 ounce)
4chile ancho negro or mulato (2 ounces)
2 chile chipotle meco (1/4 ounce)
1medium white onion, quartered
1/2small head of garlic, cloves separated
2heaping tablespoons almonds
2tablespoons shelled and skinned raw peanuts
1 inchMexican cinnamon (canela)
3 black peppercorns
3 whole cloves
2tablespoons oil
1 1/2tablespoons raisins
1slice slice of bread, preferably challah or an egg bread
1small ripeplantain, cut into ½-inch slices (about 1 cup)
1/2cup sesame seeds
2 pecan halves
1/2pound (1 medium-large round or 4 to 5 plum)ripe tomatoes, cut into chunks
1/4pound (2 to 3 medium) freshtomatillos, husked, rinsed and cut into chunks
1sprig fresh thyme, or ¼ teaspoon dried
1sprigMexican oregano or ½ teaspoon dried
5generous cups light chicken stock
2tablespoonslard or oil
6ouncesMexican chocolate
2dried avocado leaves
Salt
INSTRUCTIONS
Rinse the chiles quickly in running water, and remove all stems, veins and seeds. Reserve the seeds. Heat 2 quarts of water in a kettle. In a large griddle, comal or frying pan, toast the chiles over medium heat until black, but not burnt, about 10 minutes. Place the chiles in a large bowl and cover with the hot water to soak for 30 minutes. When the chiles are soft, remove the chiles from the soaking water with tongs, placing small batches in a blender with ½ cup of the chile soaking water (or more if needed) to blend smooth. Pass the chile puree through a food mill or strainer to remove the skins.
In the same dry griddle, comal or frying pan, roast the onion and garlic over medium heat for 10 minutes. Set aside. Toast the almonds, peanuts, the cinnamon stick, peppercorns and cloves on the same pan for about 5 minutes. Remove from the pan.
Over the same heat, toast the chile seeds, taking care to blacken but not burn them, about 20 minutes. Try to do this outside or in a well-ventilated place because the seeds will give off very strong fumes. When they are completely black, light them with a match and let them burn themselves out. Remove from the heat and place in a bowl. Soak the blackened seeds in 1 cup of cold water for 10 minutes. Drain the seeds and cover them with more water. Let them soak another 15 minutes more, then strain them. Grind them in a blender for about 2 minutes with ½ cup of water. Strain them through a medium-mesh strainer. Add the blended chile seeds to the blended chile mixture.
Heat 3 tablespoons of oil in a medium skillet over medium heat. Add the raisins and fry them until they are plump, approximately 1 minute. Remove from pan. Fry the bread slices in the same oil until browned, about 5 minutes; remove from pan. Fry the plantain in the same oil until it is well-browned, approximately 10 minutes, and set aside.
In a separate frying pan, heat 2 tablespoons oil and fry the sesame seeds, stirring constantly over low heat, adding salt if they start jumping around too much. When the sesame seeds start to brown, about 5 minutes, add the pecans and brown 2 minutes more. Remove all from the pan, let cool, and grind finely in a spice grinder or a powerful blender with ½ cup stock. The spice grinder takes a bit of time, but this is the only way to grind the seeds and nuts finely enough. The mixture should be very smooth.
Wipe out the frying pan and fry the tomatoes, tomatillos, thyme and oregano, over medium to high heat, allowing the juices to almost evaporate, about 15 minutes. Blend well, using ½ cup stock if needed to blend and set aside.
In the blender, in small batches if necessary, place the nuts, bread, plantains, raisins, onion, garlic and spices. Blend well, adding about 1 cup chicken stock to make it smooth.
In a large cazuela or stock pot, heat 2 tablespoons of lard or oil until smoking and fry the chile paste over medium to low heat, stirring constantly so it will not burn, approximately 20 minutes. When it is “bubbling furiously,” add the tomato puree and fry until the liquid has evaporated, about 20 minutes. Add the ground ingredients, including the sesame seed paste, to the pot. Stir constantly with a wooden spoon until well incorporated, about 20 minutes. Add 1 cup chicken stock, stir well, and allow to cook 30 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Break up the chocolate and add to the pot, stirring until it is melted and incorporated into the mixture.
Toast the avocado leaves briefly over the flame if you have a gas range, or in a dry frying pan and add to the pot. Slowly add more stock to the sauce-it will keep thickening as it cooks. Continue to cook for at least 30 minutes, stirring occasionally so it doesn’t stick. Add stock as it thickens. The more time it has to cook the better. There should be no gritty texture (from the seeds), which will cook out over time. Add enough salt to bring out the flavors. If you can only taste the chiles, you need more salt. The mole should not be thick, just thick enough to coat the back of a spoon.
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EMWIERD FADUM I- yOU ARE GOD?
Yes
@@starberriiemmy4382 thanks bro
my mom took me to a tegan and sara concert when i was in 2nd grade and now im bi
it makes perfect sense
livin for a second grade math teacher drip ngl
AHAHAHAHA
the math teacher we need
I love the raw chaotic energy of his hair
I see Tegan and Sara, I click
Same
Same
i identify as miles’ hair
watching miles helped me so much when I was closeted. him normalizing being lgbtq always made me feel so much more valid and safe. now im getting a binder soon, and I've come out to my friends and some teachers at my school. thank you!!!!!
Wow!
Congradulations!
ahhh! go you 🥳🥳
hell yeah dude that’s awesome!
So my dad said I can't be pansexual because I'm not attracted to my family members and apparently the pansexual box meaning "love/attraction regardless of gender" must mean I have to be incestuous in order to identify with that term. Idek but thats what he said, I thought you would find this amusing.
wow..im sorry
lmaooo
oh those kind of arguments annoy me. no pan means I can be attracted to any person regardless of gender, not that I have no standards. (personally just pan romantic not sexual, but same difference)
PAN means ALLLLLL, so you're attracted to EVERY HUMAN BEING AND ANIMAL AND PLANT AND ROCK... Yeah, no.
@@jlake2247 Right tho xD
"Gaybies and the theybies" has the same energy as Thomas Sanders "guys, gals, and nonbinary pals." and I'm here for it.
Yeeeees my thoughts exactly
ok so we have coming out advice videos... but could miles bless us with a "so you've been outed" video? totally asking for a friend. definitely not for myself.
god this interview is making me think about how in the str8 world it's v normal to have your tastes and desires change over time. like why not have gender preferences fluctuate and change???? had I known that as a kid I not only wouldn't have gaslit myself into thinking I was straight but also wouldn't have discounted people who didn't concretely state their sexuality. god if ONLY I knew
As an autistic person whose tastes have nearly completely stayed the same since I was a toddler, most people have a hell of a problem with that! Yet those same people can't seem to accept people who open up about realizing things about themselves, or changing... Double standards that a lot of people don't even think about.
I love how he said they might live in your hometown or country (insert me thinking definitely no British Columbia) and then they were like “I am in Vancouver” and I’m just sitting here in Canada like less than half an hour from there
We love you Miles you are a king who’ve helped so many lgbtq+ youth thank you
I've literally been out for almost a decade but still watched this because it blows my mind that you were able to just interview Tegan and Sara. Like, god I wish that were me
Dude, Tegan and Sara are so attractive
I just got your book in the mail, lol. Miles, you've gotten me so far in life, I didn't even know the concept of being trans until I found your channel. You helped me become comfortable with myself, and you helped me come out with your advice. I thank you so much. I'm out to my mom now, and I have a name that will be my Legal name when I turn 18. Thank you Miles, you've done wonderfully helping so many and you deserve so much.
It’s so weird hearing from adults that it doesn’t matter your age and you can find yourself whenever because my parents both think I’m way too young to know that I’m non-binary and trans even though I’m 13 ✨💕✨ I wish my parents were like this, but they’re kind of boomers when it comes to lgbt knowledge
yeah when i first suggested the idea of me liking girls to my dad he just said "you're too young to know, so don't worry about it"
Think about it this way, at one point you and your parents equally knew very little about being nb. But you felt the need to gain knowledge and/or insight and they hadn’t. Depending on their character, they might step up and look into it, but you have to give them a chance to catch up to you. Good luck and stay safe.
same i’ve known i was bisexual since i was 9 and my mom thought i was too young too, but it’s been like 4 years and here we are, i’m still bisexual :/
@@undead_steph3726 like y'all
its 👏 not 👏 a 👏 phase 👏
Aurora O. Well that’s your personal experience, not everyone is like that (as you know) and it is okay to think you’re gay and then later on find out that your not. It is growth! It’s a part of being human. As long as no one is hurt, then it’s fine
I came out with memes :)
Only bisexual, haven’t come out as gender confused yet
Nice lmao
ICON
Bi-con
I came out as bi to my parents and they didn't really accept me... imagine how they'll feel when I tell them I'm nonbinary AND asexual... lol
I came out as trans to one of my siblings with two memes haha
Second grade math teachers miles we stan
I remember when Miles hit 100k and now he's interviewing Tegan and Sara!!! I'm sooo proud of him!!!!! ❤️💛💚💙💜
I was always afraid of the labels until I taught myself the following: don't put yourself in a box. Build yourself a roof and shelter yourself from the rain when you feel the need to. Meaning, don't define yourself to be stuck with said definition. Find a word that makes you, in said moment, a happy and comfortable person. Life is fluid and so are we!
this. this is what i needed for so long.
That's perfect
This is beautiful
T and S were a huge comfort band for me before coming out!!!! Oh I’m so happy. :D
THE EDITING ON MILES' VIDEOS IS F L A W L E S S
I highly recommend listening to the audio book of Tegan and Sara’s book it’s so good plus they have audio from them when they were growing up
Miles, I can't believe your hair is so curly after you're seeing Tegan and Sara on Zoom at your house in California on this video during your quarantine until you're talking to them about your coming out story while you're talking to them about their sexuality after that and I'm proud of you, honey!!
As a Canadian, this video is super helpful and entertaining for me. Most lgbt resources/influencers are American, so it’s super cool to see a positive influence closer to home.
If you haven't seen it, you should check out the webseries Carmilla. It was produced in Canada.
mjp2palmtree I always forget Carmilla is a Canadian thing, thanks for the reminder!
I’m non-binary and I’m way to terrified to tell my father. I’ve already told my mother because she’s way more supportive than my father. He’s okay with me being pan, but I have no idea about the gender identity.
I also eventually want to get top surgery, but I’ll never be able to afford it without my family’s help. I know my grandmother on my fathers side won’t ever except me as who I am, but I really hope my father will accept me. I have no idea how to tell him though.
i hope everything goes well when ypu do come out to your dad
@@QuillandInk524 That sounds really rough. Having family that won't accept you is not pleasant. I hope you are able to get that top surgery done soon too.
You don't have too till your ready if you are comfortable with yourself that's awesome you don't have to be out until your ready no need to rush it at all ever need someone to talk to you always can talk to me (you don't need to if you don't want to) cause I'm trying to figure out if I'm non-binary or trans have a nice day/night you lovely person ❤
Black Raven I'm nonbinary too and bisexual. My mom knows but I'm also scared to tell my dad. I'm in a weird spot because I thought I was ftm before so my dad knows I'm trans but he thinks I'm a straight man instead of a bisexual enby. He was cool about me being trans but idk if he knows about nonbinary or will believe that it's real or not....
Did I watch this video, then take my first dose of T, and then go out and get both Miles’ new book and Tegan & Sara’s new book? Yes. Iconic.
Aww! Congrats!
congrats on starting T!
Miles hair makes me think of a highland cow in the best possible way.
I forgot about my crush for Tegan Quin for a second. I REMEMBER NOW AHHH
your hair is getting fluffier every video and I LOVE IT
i discovered Tegan and Sara when i was like 12 and i remember being so obsessed with them and not knowing why. they were definitely a big part of my journey in learning about my sexuality and identity. love this video and always appreciative of their insight
I love how you all discussed how someone might come out word for word if they are still figuring themselves out!!
omg the fear of "what if i change/what if its not true" is so real especially bc ~gaslighting~ and also everything sara is saying i relate so so so much
This made me so happy just listening to all of you, just thank you for all that you do. And to anyone reading this you may not know me and I don't know you but you are valid and you are loved at least by me that's for sure.🏳️🌈
Thank you so much for this I needed it and I don’t know you either but you are loved and excepted by me too
@@SiennatheHuman-_- np and thank you too I need it as well.
me 3 minutes into the video realizing Canada marriage equality act is that same age as me 👁 👄👁
also me thinking Canada marriage equality act is gen z 👁👅👁
i really didn’t think that this would help me at all, but i’ve always hated the word lesbian and i never knew why because i’m fine liking girls and being gay, but the word scared me and this really made me feel better about that
“Sôrreh aboat the truck going by, someone is exploring my neighbourhood!”
The three people who were most important for me when I was a lil gaybie having a chat... 16/17 yo me would have imploded
Me: reads it* you just gotta be like YOLO
ALL MY FAVORITE PEOPLE
IN ONE VIDEO? ARE U KIDDING ME?
😳also not me having a crush on Sara in 8th grade 😳
Tegan and sara have been very good people inspired people I love them
Trying to convince my mum that the reason I want this book is just because I'm an "ally" that is totally 100% true I don't even know why u would think otherwise 😬
Ok your hair is my inspiration in life.
Also i named my bass guitar Tegan Quinn before I'd even heard of them and so i was like oh ok that's a person so now it's named Taylor just because i don't wanna take the queens name
I’ve been watching Miles for 3 years and I’ve finally come out to my family and friends as bi, thank you so much for being my icon and helping me feel safe. Honestly this has been my safe space. Also I’m questioning my gender so this is still a big journey for me.
Thx for doing this series miles! Some of us really needed this!
OMG MILES MY MOM JUST ORDERED YOUR BOOK FOR ME IM LITERALLY CRYING AHHH
I've wanted your book for so long but I wasnt out to my parents, so now I can talk to them its so nice ahhhhhhhhh
Your book came I'm screaminggggggg
Miles we aren't literate
yo i love knowing that he could’ve seen my comment
This has GOT to be my favorite video ever. Somehow it hits so differently hearing these experiences from people we usually consider living in a different universe. Miles, I love love love the way your mind and creativity works. Can’t wait for more!!!
When your parents say that your only saying that you like females and wish to use non binary pronouns with the name Alex,
But they then say that your doing it for attention.
BUT YOU SEE MILES POSTED SO YOU WATCH THE KING COME OUT AS BI TO SEE HOW MUCH BETTER HE DID-
i cant believe you talked to THE tegan and sara
I'm in love with Tegan 🥰
cups warm water
2
(1/4 ounce) packets bulk active dry yeast
4
tablespoons sugar, divided
1
tablespoon salt
1⁄2
cup chopped dehydrated onion
5 - 5 3⁄4
cups flour
cornmeal, for sprinkling on baking sheet
1
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1
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So I'm at this point where I know that I'm bisexual but I also know that I can't tell anyone in my family because if it got to my parents I'm pretty sure they would kick me out or just be really terrible. And it really sucks because where I am right now is I'll just wait until I move out to tell them so I don't have the fear of being so rejected that I can't live with them anymore. But I'm not moving out anytime soon and I'm so scared that something will happen where I'll get outed.
Miles is so inspirational, watching his channel has been so helpful to me and one of the reasons I started my own channel :) hoping to build a community of supportive trans athletes
Mile’s hair is goals.
I’m watching this on a bus and the reflection on the window makes it like it has a rainbow filter on it
THIS is so important! I wish every kid have to watch this in school. Thank you!
I was today years old when I found out that tegan and sara are 40
I feel so old rn
thank you miles for addressing that lots of influencers talk about their perfect coming out and accepting parents, but its not that easy for most of us
just came out on tiktok as pansexual (for the second time since I used to identify as bi) and I feel really good about it and this video made me smile 💖
“you guys grew up in canada” miles you should be saying grew up in ALBERTA cuz that is the real achievement here
i say this as a fellow alberta gay
Whisk the pumpkin, 3 eggs, and brown sugar together until combined. Add the cornstarch, salt, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, cloves, pepper, cream, and milk. Vigorously whisk until everything is combined. Filling will be a little thick.
Preheat oven to 375°F (190°C).
Roll out the chilled pie crust: Remove 1 disc of pie dough from the refrigerator. On a lightly floured work surface, roll the dough out into a 12-inch circle. Make sure to turn the dough about a quarter turn after every few rolls. Carefully place the dough into a 9-inch pie dish. Tuck it in with your fingers, making sure it is smooth. With a small and sharp knife, trim the extra overhang of crust and discard. Crimp the edges with a fork or flute the edges with your fingers, if desired. Brush edges lightly with egg wash mixture. Line the pie crust with parchment paper. (Crunch up the parchment paper first so that you can easily shape it into the crust.) Fill with pie weights. Make sure the weights are evenly distributed around the pie dish. Pre-bake the crust for 10 minutes. Carefully remove the parchment paper/pie weights.
Pour pumpkin pie filling into the warm pre-baked crust. Only fill the crust about 3/4 of the way up. (Use extra to make mini pies with leftover pie dough scraps if you’d like.) Bake the pie until the center is almost set, about 55-60 minutes give or take. A small part of the center will be wobbly - that’s ok. After 25 minutes of baking, be sure to cover the edges of the crust with aluminum foil or use a pie crust shield to prevent the edges from getting too brown. Check for doneness at minute 50, and then 55, and then 60, etc
I'm watching nocturne on prime rn and I did a double take. I waited to hear your voice.. I AM LITERALLY SCREAMING. YOURE IN A MOVIE WHAT.
Tegan and Sara + Miles = YES
not me sobbing over this collab 🥺
Aaayyye, Tegan & Sara are from my hometown!! My mum has actually used to hangout with them while they were all teenagers!
Miles hair starting to look like those cartoon characters who perpetually have bangs infront of their eyes
i came out to my parents today and it went rlly well🥺🥺🥺
hi,
so basicly i'm nonbinary (i think)
and i've told people my pronouns, but i'm just sceard to corect them.
anyone have any ideas on how to be more confident on telling people the right pronouns?
thanks! :)
I’ve Ben out as enby for around three years and I still struggle with correcting people with my pronouns. And when you introduce yourself to someone new or anything just mention it after you say your name and say please can you use these pronouns for me. I’ve not really found a good way to do it but that seems to work for me. Sorry if this wasn’t any help
@@r.j.chronicles7978 thanks i'll try that!
something about watching this makes me want to cry
I’m out to my friends it took years but they all know I’m trans. Through a combination of texting and face-to-face. You’re never in a rush take your time.
Hiiii I recently came out to my parents and it went pretty well!
time for free therapy.
liking for your username
Me, closeted wanting to get the book : FUAQK, I CANT GET THE BOOK BECAUSE THEY WILL KNOW.. wait..
how do they not know?
I haven't watched miles in a bit. His voice has changed so much. Wow
I think a very important part of coming out that parents should understand is that your child can change their sexuality/gender and they could change it again. Just let them explore labels and their identity and don’t put them into strict boxes.
I'm so gay that instead of "it's okay" I heard "it's oh gay"
this audio gave me a headache but it was worth it
I’m so blown away that you’re just casually video calling Tegan and Sara 🤯
God I love this more than I can express
i cannot believe i was blessed with a video of my favourite band and my favourite youtuber!
omg this is amazing. crossover of the century tbh.
THE LONG HAIR BRO ABSOLUTELY ICONIC
Miles has floofy hair ,i love it👏👏
miles disaster gay haircut is the best part abt this whole video i love it
Thank you for this milesssss
miles i’m literally in love with your hair and your vibes? mwah
I don't think I will ever be able to fully come out and be myself :(